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Jinja
04-23-2015, 07:28 PM
Glad you made some money! Hope it only goes uphill for you from here. I would definitely recommend investing in some lighting, especially for your face. Part of your pixelation issue may be because there's not enough light to keep your cam from freaking out.

Sonikku
04-23-2015, 11:02 PM
Why would you make money if you don't believe you are worth it?

Listen Abraham Hicks on Youtube. Just have a listen and get hypnotized by it. Read "Ho Tactics" by G.L. Lambert as well. You really need to step up your self love.

I second Ho Tactics! (thanks)

Read only the preface and the first chapter and I noticed a difference in my attitude and confidence lol.


But yeah, I have a lot of self-hate issues. Fake it 'til you make it.

If you believe you da boss; you'll eventually be da boss <3

Missbeth
04-24-2015, 07:57 AM
tks for checked, (ps I'm thats all, i ve two profile, I had a problem thats why using this) what is a bit choppy? I didn't get

I was on for two hours, one guy keep talking to me for more than half hour, send me his pictures naked, but pvt nothing, I ve a break now to have lunch

i put my prices at 1,99, but didn't work, i'll try 0,99

What? NO.
3.99/4.99 MINIMUM. You are worth it and more.
if you go to 0.99 you are only making $0.35/minute your cut. That is a 10 minute private for $3! $3!!!!!!!!
to make even $20 hour at 0.99 you need to be in private 66 minutes an hour!!!! 1.99....28 minutes. 2.99....19 minutes. 3.99...14 minutes. Get the pattern? The higher your rate the less time you need to spend in private.

You say youre scared guys will disappear if you raise above 1.99/2.99...pshh you should want those guys to disappear. Raise your rates the spenders will find you.
You might go an hour without a private and then bam one gyu takes you private and you will make more than an hour of being in private at those low rates.
Camming take time to make good money. Raise your rates and wait it out. Always look engaged. Ask every guy who comes into to favorite you. Hustle. Make a twitter. Start to gain a following. Dont give up and dont sel yourself short

JulyHot2009
04-24-2015, 08:53 AM
Missbeth, I get your point, but the traffic is so low and for a newbie like me, It is pretty hard to get a single show, even with this low rates, if I rase them, no one will take me to private cause I will compete to more experience girls and they will chose them besides me

CatBBW
04-24-2015, 09:05 AM
Missbeth, I get your point, but the traffic is so low and for a newbie like me, It is pretty hard to get a single show, even with this low rates, if I rase them, no one will take me to private cause I will compete to more experience girls and they will chose them besides me

But they will choose *you* BECAUSE you are a newbie. Men like the smell of fresh pussy. Go get at them! :)

audritwo
04-24-2015, 09:06 AM
Missbeth, I get your point, but the traffic is so low and for a newbie like me, It is pretty hard to get a single show, even with this low rates, if I rase them, no one will take me to private cause I will compete to more experience girls and they will chose them besides me

We were all newbs with barely any traffic at one point. You should listen to us. Raise your rates! You might not be getting shows because your stream looks low quality. How old is your account. First 30 days, you have new girl status and will be in that category, which will make you easy to find. Also everyone has been complaining about traffic

Missbeth
04-24-2015, 09:23 AM
Missbeth, I get your point, but the traffic is so low and for a newbie like me, It is pretty hard to get a single show, even with this low rates, if I rase them, no one will take me to private cause I will compete to more experience girls and they will chose them besides me

I know that's the way youre looking at it but think about it this way,.....
The guys on SM are accustomed to spending 3.99+/min so when they see girls charging way less they go hmmmm I wonder why she is so cheap....must not do a good show....then they move on. If you put on a quality show, charge a quality price..... psshhh who cares about experience..... Put on a good show, have good lighting, good angles.
The "experienced" camgirl knows how to convert traffic...experience isn't necessary to put on a good show as long as you put in effort.

Good example of cheap not always being better.... there's been blind wine tastings where people say they prefer a $30 bottle to a $3 bottle when they know the price but in blind tastings they dont know the difference....they just think it is better because they think they should think its better because its more expensive.

Buttttt no one can tell you what to do.....take some of our advice, all of it, none.....its up to you but just remember we have all been new and have gone through some of the same struggles you have. Our advice comes from experience.

gypsy1
04-24-2015, 04:15 PM
Hey, I'm a newbie. Traffic became shitty even when I still had the new model status. My rates are $4.49/$5.49 and I don't really know what the fuck I'm doing on cam. But I figured hey...if I'm going to be sitting forever waiting to get a private I might as well get paid more when I finally do get one.

Violet_Z
04-24-2015, 05:42 PM
Hey, I'm a newbie. Traffic became shitty even when I still had the new model status. My rates are $4.49/$5.49 and I don't really know what the fuck I'm doing on cam. But I figured hey...if I'm going to be sitting forever waiting to get a private I might as well get paid more when I finally do get one.

This is the mentality you should have as a cam girl. I'm glad to see it. It's super hard as a newb. Because stuff isn't set up and you don't have regulars. But once you do it can be awesome.

You could end up like I was as a newb making no money because my internet, name, and lightning where all terrible! Lol