View Full Version : The power of achieving small goals.
SimoneGray
07-28-2015, 02:33 AM
So while I am trying to not set goals etc I do have a small saving goal that will commence as of August 1st (to satisfy my mild OCD about dates). I want to put away between $25 and $30 a day for savings. Not only will this accumulate nicely by the end of the year, but it will also get me working every day so that I can spare that $30 or so.
Dual motivation, one thing influences the other. Also because these savings will not be "destined" for anything as yet, I won't beat myself up at all if I can only contribute $5 on one day or something.
pinkpink
07-28-2015, 03:25 AM
My goal tomorrow is to figure out how many clips I have & figure out how I am going to edit them.
I'd like to edit one & get it online but small goals.
My goal tomorrow is also to spend 8 hours logged in, all on phone if I have to but I REALLY would love if I get my ass back on cam. :/
DeepThoughts
07-29-2015, 03:11 AM
So while I am trying to not set goals etc I do have a small saving goal that will commence as of August 1st (to satisfy my mild OCD about dates). I want to put away between $25 and $30 a day for savings. Not only will this accumulate nicely by the end of the year, but it will also get me working every day so that I can spare that $30 or so.
Dual motivation, one thing influences the other. Also because these savings will not be "destined" for anything as yet, I won't beat myself up at all if I can only contribute $5 on one day or something.
Ooooo I really like this one! I'm usually all about putting 25% of your earnings but if I put away say 20 euros cash for every day I worked that is 120 euro a week. If I start next week and finish on January 1st I will have 2640 euros saved. That could be a nice chunk to invest in something right at the beginning of the year!
Maybe you should start a challenge thread on that!
AlyssaJane
07-29-2015, 05:20 AM
I belong to a group on fetlife that is all about bettering ourselves and setting goals to make our lives better. One of the things that we do is called the 21 day challenge. It goes a little something like this
For 21 days I will do X (X can be whatever you want for me it was drinking fruit and veggie smoothies and filming a fetish clip)
Then you report each day in this fashion
I will make a fetish clip every day for 21 days (1/21)
The next day would be
I will make a fetish clip every day for 21 days (2/21)
If you miss a day you start back at zero and you keep doing it until you've done it for 21 days in a row. The idea is like DeepThoughts was saying, it takes 21 days to make something a habit. If any of you are interested, I'll make a 21 day challenge thread or we can do it here. It's a lot of fun because you get to cheer each other on and celebrate when we hit that 21 day mark.
I'm late to the party on this thread but I love love LOVE this idea!! My struggle lately has been just getting cam hours in. I can think of so many ways this applies.
Panthera
08-26-2015, 09:05 AM
oh I have a double life line too, and I was always wondering what that would mean. Don't ask me how I stumbled upon this post now, cause I just don't know, maybe it's an answer to my question! Whoa!
LolaBohemia
08-26-2015, 10:30 AM
more projects for my design site and effectively getting it out there as a resource. I could tweet with a neon sign and no one would see it.
other goal, make neon sign for twitter.
JustCallMeBree
08-26-2015, 11:33 AM
I've been really battling between whether I want to take camming and fetish modeling full-time for a few months now. I love it fetish and BDSM is where my heart is but I was afraid due to family issues, race issues and the possibility of me wanting to do something different in the future. But I done, I want this, this is what makes me happy and pays the bills and Alot of people don't ever find that. So it's time for me to go full force and be happy being me.
Small Goal: Go full fetish/taboo/kink in my persona.
Large Goal: Build my fan base to over 5K, Go mostly indy, have other avenues of income.
Top Goal: Become the highest earning Fetish model of all time.
LolaBohemia
08-26-2015, 01:59 PM
goal: despite verbal beating for expressing excitement as well as so misquoted i don't think i wrote that, refuse to stop being an available resource and sharing my knowledge with others.
smaller goal: not fear approaching people who seek or express interest in learning more about things i am read up on and have valid experience. remind myself it's okay to wear protective gear in case of strange reaction.