Raven88
07-07-2015, 10:00 PM
Your situation with reminds me of me and my most recent ex. Is your guy from a culture where arranged marriages/introductions are common.
My ex's parents are punjabi sikhs and don't want their son with a white girl.
Maybe my opinion varies from others because I have been there. If they had forced him to marry an Indian girl, and I hadn't met my boyfriend now, I would have agreed to be a side thing, without thinking twice. I know that sounds messed up and others not in the situation would tell me to have more self respect.
I know what you mean when you say you can feel how much he loves you. We are all/have been dancers and we know men and their emotions and behaviour.
I am a moral person, and I don't condone cheating or being the other woman at all.
If I were you, I would take a day and go somewhere quiet like the beach and be alone with my thoughts...carefully consider can you handle being looked upon as "bad" for the rest of your life and a home wrecker? even if you don't have a child after all?
If you really think you can handle these things, and that they would be worth it, do it. I hate to say this, but these days marriages come and go, and true love is rare so if you find it, don't throw it away.
My ex's parents are punjabi sikhs and don't want their son with a white girl.
Maybe my opinion varies from others because I have been there. If they had forced him to marry an Indian girl, and I hadn't met my boyfriend now, I would have agreed to be a side thing, without thinking twice. I know that sounds messed up and others not in the situation would tell me to have more self respect.
I know what you mean when you say you can feel how much he loves you. We are all/have been dancers and we know men and their emotions and behaviour.
I am a moral person, and I don't condone cheating or being the other woman at all.
If I were you, I would take a day and go somewhere quiet like the beach and be alone with my thoughts...carefully consider can you handle being looked upon as "bad" for the rest of your life and a home wrecker? even if you don't have a child after all?
If you really think you can handle these things, and that they would be worth it, do it. I hate to say this, but these days marriages come and go, and true love is rare so if you find it, don't throw it away.