Magical_Hoohah
07-31-2015, 03:36 PM
Thanks for all your help. So if a guy wants typing dirty talk along with the camming should I just make him pay for the camming or add sexting I have for 1.75 a min for sexting along with the 3.50 a min for camming?
No problem.
I'm not sure I understand the question, but I'll give it a shot. If he wants you to type to him DURING your paid cam session, I wouldn't charge extra for that. If anything, he's ensuring that you do less during the time you spend together, because typing is time consuming. If he wants dirty talk during unpaid time, yes, you should be charging. Unpaid time is anytime the timer isn't running, so if the guy pays for 10 minutes of camming, but then wants to type for 15 minutes before you start, you're working for free. There's a difference between clearing up a few details after he pays (especially since you usually have a minute between him paying and you getting the receipt email) versus getting a bunch of free dirty talk.**
This also applies to an excessive amount of "getting to know you" chat. Think about any other customer service job and how much you would chat before getting down to business. You probably wouldn't get further than "Hi, how are you?" "I'm great, thanks! How's your day going?" "Oh, that sounds nice/That sucks!" before you'd be expected to ask "So how can I help you?" Remember that in camming, what we are selling is our time and attention. I promise that it's possible to get paid good money just for sharing your personality, and it's also possible to get paid good money to listen to guys talk to you.
If a guy is pushing for dirty talk or GFE style chatting when he hasn't paid, the first thing I'd do is politely remind him that you'll have that conversation during your cam session. If he doesn't bite, you can offer to do a paid texting session first/instead. If that doesn't work either, he's trying to scam you or just doesn't understand how this works. Unfortunately, that's going to be the case most of the time. Excuse yourself from the conversation in whatever way works best for you, but keep in mind that he might be a customer in training, so adjust your attitude accordingly.
I personally haven't had a lot of luck with paid text sessions. My best outcome has been with subs that like long shows, but weren't sure if they would like my style, so they started out with a text session first. When the texting went well, they became cam regular cam customers. Also, my cam guys will occasionally do a text session if they are stuck somewhere that camming isn't an option.
**I'll address some of this in the next post.
No problem.
I'm not sure I understand the question, but I'll give it a shot. If he wants you to type to him DURING your paid cam session, I wouldn't charge extra for that. If anything, he's ensuring that you do less during the time you spend together, because typing is time consuming. If he wants dirty talk during unpaid time, yes, you should be charging. Unpaid time is anytime the timer isn't running, so if the guy pays for 10 minutes of camming, but then wants to type for 15 minutes before you start, you're working for free. There's a difference between clearing up a few details after he pays (especially since you usually have a minute between him paying and you getting the receipt email) versus getting a bunch of free dirty talk.**
This also applies to an excessive amount of "getting to know you" chat. Think about any other customer service job and how much you would chat before getting down to business. You probably wouldn't get further than "Hi, how are you?" "I'm great, thanks! How's your day going?" "Oh, that sounds nice/That sucks!" before you'd be expected to ask "So how can I help you?" Remember that in camming, what we are selling is our time and attention. I promise that it's possible to get paid good money just for sharing your personality, and it's also possible to get paid good money to listen to guys talk to you.
If a guy is pushing for dirty talk or GFE style chatting when he hasn't paid, the first thing I'd do is politely remind him that you'll have that conversation during your cam session. If he doesn't bite, you can offer to do a paid texting session first/instead. If that doesn't work either, he's trying to scam you or just doesn't understand how this works. Unfortunately, that's going to be the case most of the time. Excuse yourself from the conversation in whatever way works best for you, but keep in mind that he might be a customer in training, so adjust your attitude accordingly.
I personally haven't had a lot of luck with paid text sessions. My best outcome has been with subs that like long shows, but weren't sure if they would like my style, so they started out with a text session first. When the texting went well, they became cam regular cam customers. Also, my cam guys will occasionally do a text session if they are stuck somewhere that camming isn't an option.
**I'll address some of this in the next post.