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Aniela
08-04-2015, 02:50 AM
Like I'm saying don't worry about what others say and think... Also said in general why do you guys worry about other people? I didn't say you. Also I don't know where I've posted before about people worrying about other people. Wayy to paranoid around here.
Wow, Pot meet Kettle! :argue:
& @ your earlier post quoting me: Yes, really. If you don't like it then maybe you should take your own advice & stop worrying abt other ppl.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-04-2015, 05:30 AM
To be honest once you get over the initial irritation, it is no big deal. Social media/ cell phone cameras has made it so no one is safe from public ridicule. Just a crappy fact of modern life.
Starling
08-04-2015, 06:39 AM
this is supposed to be a 'safe space' sort of deal for dancers, and that one of them goes on another forum and starts blasting people out by name, saying shit that is absolutely uncalled for, about some of our nicest members.
We have a whole board dedicated to questions like "Should I divorce my husband" and "help with depression" and pretty personal stuff.
From a safety point of view if people here are posting stuff and their info and username gets posted into another site, it could be potentially easy to connect the dots and figure out who the person is by going through their post history, seeing what clubs they reviewed/danced at, where they generally live (and it doesn't even have to be specific), etc. I got a little worried myself posting the cat pictures in my one thread in case someone made the connection somehow.
22lligm
08-04-2015, 12:04 PM
Wow I didn't even know Tuscl had a forum section. I also found the thread you're talking about. We come on here to vent, share tips, etc. what are they doing? Spending their time talking shit about other people and trolling threads?
I am now definitely watching what I post and FOR SURE never posting a picture again. So many creeps/losers out there with WAY too much time on their hands. So sad.
HamNcheese
08-04-2015, 12:27 PM
I mostly go to tuscl to watch the custies and freeloaders whine about us on sw. It secretly gets me off a little when the whining gets really intense.
michele11
08-04-2015, 01:23 PM
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Wow, I must have really pissed her off. LMFAO! Her only ammo against me is that I'm a suicidal, "stalker" freak who hates white men? Bitch, please! Is that all you got?
Wow.
It's like reading the tabloids about some bullshit made up about you, and noone even cares.
Move along folks, nothing to see here.
P.S.- If anyone doesn't like my posts, feel free to block/ignore me. It's really quite simple. :-*
Also, everyone knows that I am batshit insane. I own that. I have no problem with admitting that I am crazy. But this girl that is shit-talking me, I'd say she's on a whole other level of fuckbackwards cuckoo crazy. :rotfl:
LOL, this has been quite entertaining. :D
Exactly. That's why there's an ignore button. That's what I keep telling people but they love me too much to put me on ignore i guess. Love arguing with my posts.
michele11
08-04-2015, 01:25 PM
Wow, Pot meet Kettle! :argue:
& @ your earlier post quoting me: Yes, really. If you don't like it then maybe you should take your own advice & stop worrying abt other ppl.
Please put me on ignore, I've been asking yo to do this forever. And ps. quit trolling. Also I wasn't worrying about anyone. Just tired of your thinly veiled insults and everyone else is... and your constant reporting of peoples posts though you said we shouldn't have to worry what we post your the first to fight then run and report. please just put me on ignore.
michele11
08-04-2015, 01:30 PM
From a safety point of view if people here are posting stuff and their info and username gets posted into another site, it could be potentially easy to connect the dots and figure out who the person is by going through their post history, seeing what clubs they reviewed/danced at, where they generally live (and it doesn't even have to be specific), etc. I got a little worried myself posting the cat pictures in my one thread in case someone made the connection somehow.
I'm mentioned by this so called person and I can tell you kellydancer knows nothing about me. I have tons of friends on here irl I travel with and talk to ALL the time. I think it's a non banned person going by what I read but who knows. I really could care less if some idiot talks about me on some smut website. And because I could care less people jump to the conclusion I said they worry about other people. I said in my original post I could care less what other people are doing , saying. Some people are too paranoid they have to twists your post, Just because I could care less what some idiot goes and says on tuscl or whatever.
Starling
08-04-2015, 02:13 PM
^I'm just meaning in general, like if other people got mentioned on sites like that. Nothing wrong with being careful about what's posted online.
For what it's worth I'm also talking from experience in way, this did actually happen to me a couple of times, people figured out who I am based on my previous posts here. But these were good people and I'm glad they got in touch with me (hello if reading!). I also figured out who some people are just from their posts here and remembering certain details.
But on the flip side what if someone bad wanted to find out more info. All they'd have to do is read my previous posts, see that I danced in NYC metro area at some point with the dates included in the posts, look in picture posts to see if I posted any body or face shots in there, or just read any way I've described myself in a post. If they've been to the club before, etc. they might be able to figure out who I am in real life.
michele11
08-04-2015, 02:21 PM
^ true. I thought that happened on the now defunct site? Not here. I remember you talking about it there. That's why I don't mention clubs I work. If I do I'm not there but for 8 days tops so chances of someone finding me in any given club I work are rare.
Selina M
08-04-2015, 02:47 PM
From a safety point of view if people here are posting stuff and their info and username gets posted into another site, it could be potentially easy to connect the dots and figure out who the person is by going through their post history, seeing what clubs they reviewed/danced at, where they generally live (and it doesn't even have to be specific), etc. I got a little worried myself posting the cat pictures in my one thread in case someone made the connection somehow.
Right, as much fun as the picture post can be, I get a little worried about it.
One of the 'demigod' blues appears to have found me IRL based off my posts. But it's not hard to figure out my home club if you're a local and know the clubs. Just off of one trait, it's easy to determine that my club is 1 out of a few possibilities, and me being on SW is easy to determine which of those I would work in. It's a little... odd... that he seems to have figured out which girl I am, as my stage name is not my username on here, but he probably trolls around in Picture Post. However, this is pretty much the same as when blues and pinks intentionally meet up, or my regulars knowing me... I would looooove to know which customer he is, but I'm not overly concerned. Our bouncers love to beat people up, and now he's warning guys on Tuscl that I give 'low contact' dances :yes:
Now if you work in Manhattan or Vegas, that's a different story. A lot harder to narrow down one person out of the thousands of girls.
Starling
08-04-2015, 02:48 PM
I thought that happened on the now defunct site? Not here. I remember you talking about it there.
Yeah, it was from there, but I copied and pasted some of my stuff from here to over there. The person who posted them got banned from here before going to the other site.
lynn2009
08-04-2015, 03:09 PM
^I'm just meaning in general, like if other people got mentioned on sites like that. Nothing wrong with being careful about what's posted online.
For what it's worth I'm also talking from experience in way, this did actually happen to me a couple of times, people figured out who I am based on my previous posts here. But these were good people and I'm glad they got in touch with me (hello if reading!). I also figured out who some people are just from their posts here and remembering certain details.
But on the flip side what if someone bad wanted to find out more info. All they'd have to do is read my previous posts, see that I danced in NYC metro area at some point with the dates included in the posts, look in picture posts to see if I posted any body or face shots in there, or just read any way I've described myself in a post. If they've been to the club before, etc. they might be able to figure out who I am in real life.
Indeed, this happened to me as well. My old roommate had his stripper sister make an account on here just to figure out who I am (which they did, successfully). He then later used this against me screaming he was going to tell my dad I'm a whore, at past 1am, after I had driven 4 hours roundtrip to visit my dying grandmother after working a full day at my 9-5. Sorry for off-topic but I can't get over that one.
Everyone should use the ignore list! :) Lots of ladies on SW I love, plenty that I don't love. Ignore list keeps it happy for all involved (particularly me).
michele11
08-04-2015, 03:20 PM
^ That is a perfect example of why the internet is a good and bad thing. The good thing is anyone can use it. the bad thing is anyone can use it. it and social media. I like when life was more simple. Sans cell phone, internet , etc.
lynn2009
08-04-2015, 03:30 PM
Can I share his sister's account so we can all shun her as well?? Lmao.
But no worries. She doesn't post anymore.
/threadjack
Aniela
08-04-2015, 03:53 PM
Please put me on ignore, I've been asking yo to do this forever. And ps. quit trolling. Also I wasn't worrying about anyone. Just tired of your thinly veiled insults and everyone else is... and your constant reporting of peoples posts though you said we shouldn't have to worry what we post your the first to fight then run and report. please just put me on ignore.
I'm surprised you don't have me on ignore yet. Don't respond directly to one of my posts (which you actually quoted) & then whine that I'm a troll when I say smtg back. When I saw your 'Really?' I thought maybe you just misunderstood smtg I wrote & took it personally, if so then know I was speaking in general & had no one in particular in mind. You're looking for trouble where there really isn't any.
michele11
08-04-2015, 05:59 PM
^ I've never in 12 years on here put anyone on ignore. I may disagree with peoples posts now and again but forget about it by the next day and if I don't know someone IRL I can't really have any real ill will against anyone. I've met plenty of members I thought I'd really click with irl and didn't and ones I thought I wouldn't and were great friends now. It's the internet. That's my view of things. There isn't a poster here who hasn't written something I don't agree with so I have no one on ignore...
22lligm
08-04-2015, 06:39 PM
I had no clue there was an ignore button and would love to use it. Can someone tell me how?
lynn2009
08-04-2015, 06:44 PM
I had no clue there was an ignore button and would love to use it. Can someone tell me how?
Go to the persons profile page and the option is on the left, second 'link' under their profile picture. You'll still see when they post but in the body of the message it just says 'So and so is on your ignore list'. You will see it if someone quotes them.
Flickdreams
08-05-2015, 04:48 AM
I had no clue there was an ignore button and would love to use it. Can someone tell me how?
This made me chuckle. Its like a BAN button on cam. http://lh3.ggpht.com/-UH01mwI6wCA/TfVe9dcaUkI/AAAAAAAAA_M/fBEn1sPRX2E/BAN.gif
Get Busy 22!!!
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-05-2015, 07:01 AM
^ I've never in 12 years on here put anyone on ignore. I may disagree with peoples posts now and again but forget about it by the next day and if I don't know someone IRL I can't really have any real ill will against anyone. I've met plenty of members I thought I'd really click with irl and didn't and ones I thought I wouldn't and were great friends now. It's the internet. That's my view of things. There isn't a poster here who hasn't written something I don't agree with so I have no one on ignore...
Good points. We have had some trolls/stalkers here who have taken things way too far so the Ignore button helps some situations stay "civil" instead of turning into a drama mushroom cloud.
Flickdreams
08-05-2015, 07:08 AM
..........http://s3.roosterteeth.com/uploads/1350317098_banhammer_forecast.gif
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-05-2015, 07:09 AM
So win
michele11
08-05-2015, 02:58 PM
Good points. We have had some trolls/stalkers here who have taken things way too far so the Ignore button helps some situations stay "civil" instead of turning into a drama mushroom cloud.
Were you here for the days of "eyes", Tigerlilly, Rose ( forget her full screename) but she was a mod who actually turned put to be a man. I knew it all along. Those were funny times. No one got banned and we had a good old time with eyes. Tigerlilly kept comming back under like 4 different names. Lol. Oh and Pamella. I missed all of that but i really liked Pamella. She went off the deep end when she got obsessed with serial killers and last post I read of hers she was going to marry Rameriz. He died last year though. Ah just remembered Rosedelight.
Etain_
08-05-2015, 05:22 PM
Wait, "eyes" or "eye"?
michele11
08-05-2015, 05:50 PM
Eyes. I missed a lot of it because I only came on a bit back then but it was hillarious. Her bf was supposedly coming on and saying everyone made her try to kill herself. Idk. Crazy shit.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-05-2015, 05:54 PM
I remember some of that. At one point someone stole a mod's avatar & was impersonating them (this was before it was a common stunt on facebook.)
It actually makes me sad....Internet harassment has shown me the worst of people. In a farked up way it makes my life easier b/c I don't look at other people with a favorable bias....I don't appreciate people until they have proven their worth. "I have met the enemy, and it is us."
whirlerz
08-05-2015, 05:54 PM
There's a horror flick called, "The Crawling Eye". :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tihYB3GRr_I
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-dtk3VW8MDI
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-05-2015, 06:05 PM
^ LOL Rockwell!!!!!!!
If you really want to experience crawling skin, head to 4 chan or reddit. You will quickly see there are creepy trollish people of every age, gender, culture and persuasion.
Humans are just barely evolved primates with delusions of grandeur : (
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-05-2015, 06:07 PM
Eyes. I missed a lot of it because I only came on a bit back then but it was hillarious. Her bf was supposedly coming on and saying everyone made her try to kill herself. Idk. Crazy shit.
I've dealt with people like eyes and her boyfriend in real life. They are basically the bottom of the barrel of humanity. has nothing to do with their appearances, everything to do with their conduct & lack of real empathy.....
MiraMichele
08-05-2015, 06:34 PM
Were you here for the days of "eyes", Tigerlilly, Rose ( forget her full screename) but she was a mod who actually turned put to be a man. I knew it all along. Those were funny times. No one got banned and we had a good old time with eyes. Tigerlilly kept comming back under like 4 different names. Lol. Oh and Pamella. I missed all of that but i really liked Pamella. She went off the deep end when she got obsessed with serial killers and last post I read of hers she was going to marry Rameriz. He died last year though. Ah just remembered Rosedelight.
Agh I posted a whole message on this and got the site is offline error so it deleted everything I said grr. I just gotta say yea I remember this is some real back in the day shit. If I remember correctly Pam was also a mod? I definitely remember the thread about her wanting to marry that serial killer. I never posted in that thread but I did follow it. That has to be one of the craziest, drama filled threads in the history of this site or at least since I've been around. I'm pretty sure that thread and her were completely removed from this site after that whole incident? I do have to also say that I did like Pam as well, she always seemed really cool.
whirlerz
08-05-2015, 06:36 PM
I saw a member named Eye in the member's list..
Don't remember Pamela wanting to marry a serial killer? I had her email addy, but she doesn't answer bk.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-05-2015, 07:16 PM
Agh I posted a whole message on this and got the site is offline error so it deleted everything I said grr. I just gotta say yea I remember this is some real back in the day shit. If I remember correctly Pam was also a mod? I definitely remember the thread about her wanting to marry that serial killer. I never posted in that thread but I did follow it. That has to be one of the craziest, drama filled threads in the history of this site or at least since I've been around. I'm pretty sure that thread and her were completely removed from this site after that whole incident? I do have to also say that I did like Pam as well, she always seemed really cool.
I think Pamela was deeply mentally ill. Or just really liked messing with people. I called her once & her roomie answered the phone, seemed angry when I mentioned her & he said she didn't live there anymore. I also think it's possible she was just trolling us with the aid of others, but someone mentioned meeting her in real life- she apparently did work as a stripper in FL.
I hate to say it but a couple of the well-known trolls on this board are pretty sociopathic & would not have a problem with blackmailing or harassing a bunch of sex workers just for kicks. I deeply totally regret trying to be friendly with one of them who was a regular poster who went off the deep end. Taught me a lot about maintaining privacy.
Comically a couple girls I've had serious problems with at strip clubs have posted on here too. Goes to show you can have friction with almost anyone over anything.
michele11
08-05-2015, 07:22 PM
Agh I posted a whole message on this and got the site is offline error so it deleted everything I said grr. I just gotta say yea I remember this is some real back in the day shit. If I remember correctly Pam was also a mod? I definitely remember the thread about her wanting to marry that serial killer. I never posted in that thread but I did follow it. That has to be one of the craziest, drama filled threads in the history of this site or at least since I've been around. I'm pretty sure that thread and her were completely removed from this site after that whole incident? I do have to also say that I did like Pam as well, she always seemed really cool.
yes pamella was a mod. We pm'd a lot. She was gorgeous. It was sad ( I missed it too) when she went off and said she'd never been a dancer and a bunch of stuff. The serial killer thing was cool though because she posted an actual letter BTK wrote her. I remember someone said all the serial killers probably had pams pic up in their cells and were like this is the crazy broad. Or something. Yeah. It's gone now. I believe all her posts are. I looked about 5 years ago or so. Lol. I know she was real because I know people who met her irl.
michele11
08-05-2015, 07:24 PM
I've dealt with people like eyes and her boyfriend in real life. They are basically the bottom of the barrel of humanity. has nothing to do with their appearances, everything to do with their conduct & lack of real empathy.....
I never saw pics of them and don't remember a whole lot of the drama. But what I do was crazy.
michele11
08-05-2015, 07:25 PM
I remember some of that. At one point someone stole a mod's avatar & was impersonating them (this was before it was a common stunt on facebook.)
It actually makes me sad....Internet harassment has shown me the worst of people. In a farked up way it makes my life easier b/c I don't look at other people with a favorable bias....I don't appreciate people until they have proven their worth. "I have met the enemy, and it is us."
It was a mod that stole a girls avatar. That Rosedelight. She dissapeared after that. Convieniently.
michele11
08-05-2015, 07:28 PM
I think Pamela was deeply mentally ill. Or just really liked messing with people. I called her once & her roomie answered the phone, seemed angry when I mentioned her & he said she didn't live there anymore. I also think it's possible she was just trolling us with the aid of others, but someone mentioned meeting her in real life- she apparently did work as a stripper in FL.
I hate to say it but a couple of the well-known trolls on this board are pretty sociopathic & would not have a problem with blackmailing or harassing a bunch of sex workers just for kicks. I deeply totally regret trying to be friendly with one of them who was a regular poster who went off the deep end. Taught me a lot about maintaining privacy.
Comically a couple girls I've had serious problems with at strip clubs have posted on here too. Goes to show you can have friction with almost anyone over anything.
Yep. I had an issue with a girl on here I traveled with briefly and the general concensus was the same from everyone who met her. I don't think pam was a troll. I think she went off after her illness she had.
MiraMichele
08-05-2015, 07:30 PM
You are right, like this thread was originally posted for was from someone going and talking about what is supposed to be private on the other side. The rumor is the person has been around a long time but I'm the type of person that it's just a rumor until there's proof but still you can never really know people over the internet. You can pretend to be a completely different person and get away with it, just like the whole RoseDelight incident. I know I'm going to start being a little more careful on here myself after this whole incident.
michele11
08-05-2015, 07:31 PM
Well I've had the same screen name since 03. I had to change it from michele to michele 1 to michele11. I wonder who you all are now. Lol.
MiraMichele
08-05-2015, 07:37 PM
Well I've had the same screen name since 03. I had to change it from michele to michele 1 to michele11. I wonder who you all are now. Lol.
I haven't been around here thaat long and I was never one of the super well know members but my name I signed up with was Michele_b until I left in the drama of 2008, came back as Michele.2 in 2010 and now this name. I need to stick with one lol.
michele11
08-05-2015, 07:40 PM
^ Haha. I use to see Michele2 and think it was me. Because I had to change my name every time they updated the server.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-05-2015, 07:45 PM
Well I've had the same screen name since 03. I had to change it from michele to michele 1 to michele11. I wonder who you all are now. Lol.
I changed mine mostly due to this dipstick who was friendly with my boss in real life. He found my posts & recognized my pic. He was pretty nuts so I realized it was smarter to be less easy to ID.
Also...this horrible gross little hood rat that mostly lurked on here came to my club & she was gossiping about things I posted b/c she was angry she wasn't making money. She was gross & that's why. I don't care if she sees this. She was pretty stupid, if she hadn't done that I would have helped her make some money. # dumbbitch
MiraMichele
08-05-2015, 07:49 PM
^ Haha. I use to see Michele2 and think it was me. Because I had to change my name every time they updated the server.
Haha that's funny cause I think about how yours is michele11 and mine was Michele.2 at one point here. Its also funny cause both of our names has always been Michele something and both spelled with only the one L. I danced by Michele for a majority of the time I have danced until I recently changed it but Michele is my middle name spelled the way I spell it here so it just stayed with me haha.
4everresolutions
08-05-2015, 10:10 PM
Link? Apparently I'm incapable of finding this on my own.
Ah NVM. Found it.
lynn2009
08-06-2015, 09:52 AM
Would it not be for the best to let the thread on tuscl become inactive and get buried? Someone from SW is posting in it now. This is only going to keep the argument going.
MiraMichele
08-06-2015, 10:04 AM
To be honest this thread inspired me to rejoin tuscl the other day. I've joined there a couple of times to read reviews about clubs I was looking into then I always end up forgetting about my account l, forget my username and have to rejoin. I wanted to fo read what was said about the club I currently work and other clubs around me so I wrote a review on the club in Sioux Falls and posted in a fee discussions but I don't care to interact too much with the idiots over there but I do find reading some of the discussions kind of interesting lol. Knowing me in a few days I'll forget about the account I have there now too.
ETA I haven't posted in that discussion talked about here and I don't plan to but I'm going to go see what else was said haha.
MiraMichele
08-06-2015, 10:17 AM
Another thing that discussion has made me think about is the amount of men possibly here reading our ladies only section. I always knew it probably happened but it just occured to me after reading that over there how often it could happen. How many of these PL's are joining posing as women just got get in here. What a bunch of low life no life losers.
Vyanka
08-06-2015, 11:25 AM
Good clientele don't do tuscl or sw. It's usually assholes looking for cheap extras. Sorry ass losers who read HH, bc to them hustling like a pro is a rob. Lol. (((Eye roll)))
Cheap sorry fkn ass LOSERS!!
Selina M
08-06-2015, 11:59 AM
Would it not be for the best to let the thread on tuscl become inactive and get buried? Someone from SW is posting in it now. This is only going to keep the argument going.
Oh geeze I won't even go back over there but what is SW person saying?
I still think there should be some kind of verification process to join as a pink.
I doubt they care that anyone is posting there. More fuel for them to namecall.
michele11
08-06-2015, 02:01 PM
Another thing that discussion has made me think about is the amount of men possibly here reading our ladies only section. I always knew it probably happened but it just occured to me after reading that over there how often it could happen. How many of these PL's are joining posing as women just got get in here. What a bunch of low life no life losers.
I was mentioned by whomever there thiugh their info on my ban was wrong. Loplaw bothered me the most because she is not in the industry and a customer and she spoke with such hatred for us. I don't go in customer convo but belive she's still active here. I don't think anyone who isn't a woman and in the business should have access to anywhere but the lounge and dollar den and a verification method wouldn't hurt. Fuck that loplaw. She's just another disgruntled customer, but female.