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JGB2009
05-03-2018, 04:05 AM
So, pretty sure I just seen a ghost. I was sitting here on my computer. My bedroom door opened on its own and I seen someone peek in at me and then quickly shut the door. No one is here but me. It's freaking me out and it doesn't help that it's thunderstorming outside. Frick! I'm sleeping with the lights on tonight! Oh, and I do not drink, don't do drugs of any type, and not on any medications so I don't think that it could've been some hallucination.

Yup I am sure u saw a ghost. My house can be so good for that at times. That's why I always sleep with a light on. Spirits love me but I don't love them.

WendiStarr
05-03-2018, 05:50 AM
Yup I am sure u saw a ghost. My house can be so good for that at times. That's why I always sleep with a light on. Spirits love me but I don't love them.


Yes. Also, I've heard that spirits feed on energy. Because it was thunderstorming outside that would be a major source of energy for a spirit. I slept with the lights on last night. Is your house really old?

JGB2009
05-03-2018, 06:29 AM
Yes. Also, I've heard that spirits feed on energy. Because it was thunderstorming outside that would be a major source of energy for a spirit. I slept with the lights on last night. Is your house really old?

Yes it is.

baer45
05-03-2018, 09:28 AM
The new movie "Overboard" is coming out this weekend. It seems they switched the gender of main characters. I am still interested.

Glamourmilf
05-03-2018, 10:09 AM
Both neighbors who park on both sides of me, had their cars broken into.
They both kept their car doors unlocked.
Stupid much?
I knew when I moved in that tweakers come by and vandalize cars. Yeah, another tenant who's since moved out told me. I told them, but did they listen?
No.
They said I was being paranoid, because I'm from the city.
NOW who can say, "I told you so?"

baer45
05-03-2018, 06:39 PM
Craigslist missed connection section. I was checking the changes that craigslist made to its site. It seems people left some random messages in this section. What are the purposes of the messages? For example, a message was like"You, with a photographer under the umbrella. Thanks for the nice smile :) ". The chances that she happens to be reading this section is like winning a lottery, and recognizing the message was made for her would be... The whole section seems more like a vent section.
Sorry if I sound a bit negative today.

WendiStarr
05-03-2018, 06:58 PM
^ I've checked the missed connections around here before out of curiousity. I don't know if it's just my home state or what but they're pretty pathetic and eye roll inducing around here. It's always something along the lines of,"Saw you at Kroger. I was in line behind you. Damn you had a nice ass. I'd tap that. Hit me up if you wanna fuck" or, "Seen you at the gas station. I was checking out that sexy body while you was pumping gas. We made eye contact briefly but I could tell you wanted me bad. Send me a full body nude and your phone # if you think this post is for you". I feel like it would be far more impressive if someone actually posted something more meaningful on there than some garbage ramblings driven by a brainless hard dick.

baer45
05-03-2018, 07:23 PM
^ I've checked the missed connections around here before out of curiousity. I don't know if it's just my home state or what but they're pretty pathetic and eye roll inducing around here. It's always something along the lines of,"Saw you at Kroger. I was in line behind you. Damn you had a nice ass. I'd tap that. Hit me up if you wanna fuck" or, "Seen you at the gas station. I was checking out that sexy body while you was pumping gas. We made eye contact briefly but I could tell you wanted me bad. Send me a full body nude and your phone # if you think this post is for you". I feel like it would be far more impressive if someone actually posted something more meaningful on there than some garbage ramblings driven by a brainless hard dick.

I didn't read so many lewd messages. I would not spend time to write a meaningful message knowing that the right person probably will never read it. Honestly, this is my first time to notice this section in 10-15 years?

trustfundkiller
05-03-2018, 10:00 PM
I opened a Poshmark account and I have a list of all the things I'm going to sell. I already sold and shipped one item. You'd be amazed what kind of things sell and it all adds up. I'm moving cross country so I'm basically trying to sell everything that I don't use and leave with only the essentials. I'm going for a Marie Kondo approach - I touch an item I own and if it "sparks joy", I'm keeping it. If not, it's out.

Something else that surprised me? You can sell designer boxes (yes, boxes) for a good chunk of change. There's a lady selling a Louis Vuitton box for $120 and according to the comments, she has interested buyers. A damn box. I've saved the boxes from my designer purses because I knew if I ever wanted to resell them, the original boxes will increase the value. There are several purses I'd never sell, but shiiiiittt ...I'm going to sell their boxes!

So, if you have any clothes hanging out in the back of your closet or unused (or used once) makeup/skincare lying around, you might be able to turn them into $$$.

WendiStarr
05-04-2018, 08:59 AM
Nevermind.

JessaJade
05-05-2018, 12:13 PM
I need more wine.

JessaJade
05-05-2018, 12:17 PM
Something else that surprised me? You can sell designer boxes (yes, boxes) for a good chunk of change. There's a lady selling a Louis Vuitton box for $120 and according to the comments, she has interested buyers. A damn box. I've saved the boxes from my designer purses because I knew if I ever wanted to resell them, the original boxes will increase the value. There are several purses I'd never sell, but shiiiiittt ...I'm going to sell their boxes!

People use them to sell fakes? Or maybe just to display in their home to floss? LOL

WendiStarr
05-05-2018, 12:34 PM
I don't know why it's so hard for my mom to give me an answer. I just want to know what her plans are for Mother's day weekend. Granted she has her evil streaks and we don't always get along, I still planned on my daughter and I visiting her because I've heard she's been blabbing on about how I haven't visited her since moving. We don't live close anymore and seeing how my gigs are all out in my area, I rarely travel out there to where she lives. I want to know if she's going to be available and when so I don't waste a lot of money and time for nothing. I feel like she purposely plays games with me instead of giving me an answer so that when the day comes and I don't show because I never heard back from her, she can bitch to everybody about how horrible of a daughter I am and how I don't care about her anymore.

trustfundkiller
05-05-2018, 03:27 PM
People use them to sell fakes? Or maybe just to display in their home to floss? LOL
I think it's a combination of both - lol. I've seen YouTube videos where people use empty bottles of Miss Dior and whatnot as decorations. Idk, it's weird to me. If you really "had it like that" you probably wouldn't feel the need to display your boxes because they would be unexciting to you haha

JessaJade
05-05-2018, 04:30 PM
^Yeah exactly. I like vintage perfume bottles but that is different to me.

Glamourmilf
05-06-2018, 09:28 AM
Ladies, if you can check out a post I just made in 'The naughty details' group, and give me your input, I'd appreciate it.
Thank You:)

JGB2009
05-06-2018, 04:24 PM
In a years time look what WE have become. You had the power to do right but instead you are acting like you did nothing wrong!!!! Can't believe you let all that come between us!!! Nine years of friendship down the tubes!!! Such a waste!!!!

trustfundkiller
05-06-2018, 08:12 PM
I wonder how *realistic* it would be to cam during the day (not passively as in hopping on and hoping for the best - I mean aggressively marketing yourself and keeping up with premium Snapchat, a fan club, updating social media, shooting clips) and to strip a few nights a week and be highly successful at both. I know there are plenty of porn stars who essentially do this with feature dancing, and they have the additional hassle of dealing with travel.

Is this even worth pursuing or would I be spreading myself too thin? It's kind of like the saying, "jack of all trades, master of none". I want to buy a house and I'm about $30,000 away from my goal and I could make that in a few months if I really pushed myself. This also sounds like a recipe for burnout.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-07-2018, 06:07 PM
I wonder how *realistic* it would be to cam during the day (not passively as in hopping on and hoping for the best - I mean aggressively marketing yourself and keeping up with premium Snapchat, a fan club, updating social media, shooting clips) and to strip a few nights a week and be highly successful at both. I know there are plenty of porn stars who essentially do this with feature dancing, and they have the additional hassle of dealing with travel.

Is this even worth pursuing or would I be spreading myself too thin? It's kind of like the saying, "jack of all trades, master of none". I want to buy a house and I'm about $30,000 away from my goal and I could make that in a few months if I really pushed myself. This also sounds like a recipe for burnout.

I think you can do it.

lynn2009
05-07-2018, 07:48 PM
I have been talking about getting a dog forever and ever and ever. My mom found one being adopted out from a local rescue on facebook, and I do like him. I am being kind of a "captain save a hoe" though, I am hesitant to pull the trigger because he's not really a rescue. His current owners want to re-home him because he nipped at one of the grandkids, and also they are traveling more anyway. They are keeping him until they find him a new home though, and I don't know if I could live with the guilt knowing he had a good place to live already while other poor things are getting put down every day. Plus he'd be so confused, instead of a super sweet and grateful little rescue I'm afraid he would hate me for taking him from his original people.

WendiStarr
05-08-2018, 08:44 AM
I was excited to discover that the local Big Lots carries baked seaweed, crystallized ginger, bulk size cashews and other nuts, coconut water, and rice crackers, all at reasonable prices. That saves me some money and a trip to Trader Joe's. Trader's Joe's is always so crowded anyways that you can barely walk in there and have to wait ages in line to check out.

whirlerz
05-08-2018, 09:01 AM
Yes. & The one by me has way too many snobs that let their kids run wild.
I always liked big lots, the one by me moved away:(

JGB2009
05-08-2018, 03:28 PM
I think someone made a fake FB account just so I would add them as a friend. Any who I blocked them. Now suddenly their account has disappeared. I wish I could take the friend request button completely off of my profile.

WendiStarr
05-08-2018, 05:26 PM
I have a vanilla job interview tomorrow afternoon. It's only a temp job. I don't know if I could handle going full-time in a vanilla job right now anyways. The lady told me to plan to be there for 2 hours. I'm sitting here worrying about trivial bullshit, like what if my 7 days late period is going to wait until right before the interview or during the interview to be like, "Hey girl! I'm here". What if it ends up being one of those nightmare periods that I've had before where I get all sweaty, pass out, and all that fun stuff and they freak out and call 911 on me and it's a whole dramatic scene? I'm not sure how cbd is going to stand up to that monster once it arrives. I know it's been working well at getting rid of the pre-af cramps that are there every morning, but maybe I should take some ibuprofen before the interview tomorrow, just in case. Yeah, I know I'm ridiculous obsessing about this.

lilylilylily
05-08-2018, 06:22 PM
I think someone made a fake FB account just so I would add them as a friend. Any who I blocked them. Now suddenly their account has disappeared. I wish I could take the friend request button completely off of my profile.

I thought we did have the option in our fb settings of not allowing friend requests, maybe I'm wrong or they changed that?

miss.a.p1600
05-08-2018, 07:07 PM
just realizing there is a random thread in ladies only and a random thread in lounge where men can lurk. i hope i was posting my crazy random thoughts in the right place.

miss.a.p1600
05-08-2018, 07:10 PM
I think someone made a fake FB account just so I would add them as a friend. Any who I blocked them. Now suddenly their account has disappeared. I wish I could take the friend request button completely off of my profile.

You should be able to in your settings.

I usually look at their profile (do they have real friends, a job, inviting pictures, a family, etc) and message them like 'what's up? I noticed the friend request, tell me about yourself......' and the real people will respond back with something genuine but the stalkers, robots, whatever will go ghost

*I still don't add people as friends unless they are non-messy, cool, I know them personally --- everybody else can follow me. You do know FB has a feature like twitter where people can follow you, without you having to friend them. If your profile is more private then people who follow you can get your public updates seen in their timeline feed.

Selina M
05-09-2018, 01:03 AM
^ They probably lurk anyway, I wouldn't be surprised if some dudes had pink accounts just to read over here ::)

On that note, I have a tuscl account & just went back down the rabbit hole of their discussion board. Lord. I can't even imagine if clubs were entirely composed of guys like them/operated the way they make them sound. I think they forget that serious 'mongers' like them make up approximately 2% of our customer base.
Even more amused by that they think nobody on here is a real stripper. Wha?

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-09-2018, 05:32 AM
^ They probably lurk anyway, I wouldn't be surprised if some dudes had pink accounts just to read over here ::)

On that note, I have a tuscl account & just went back down the rabbit hole of their discussion board. Lord. I can't even imagine if clubs were entirely composed of guys like them/operated the way they make them sound. I think they forget that serious 'mongers' like them make up approximately 2% of our customer base.
Even more amused by that they think nobody on here is a real stripper. Wha?

The only guys who do club reviews are sex addicts and guys looking for OTC. Or 100% trolls.

Random Thought- I love Tramadol

lynn2009
05-09-2018, 10:58 AM
I have been talking about getting a dog forever and ever and ever. My mom found one being adopted out from a local rescue on facebook, and I do like him. I am being kind of a "captain save a hoe" though, I am hesitant to pull the trigger because he's not really a rescue. His current owners want to re-home him because he nipped at one of the grandkids, and also they are traveling more anyway. They are keeping him until they find him a new home though, and I don't know if I could live with the guilt knowing he had a good place to live already while other poor things are getting put down every day. Plus he'd be so confused, instead of a super sweet and grateful little rescue I'm afraid he would hate me for taking him from his original people.

His current owner is apparently having doubts now because I only have an apartment, so I guess this is taking care of itself.

WendiStarr
05-09-2018, 12:10 PM
Well, the interview went good. They just wanted me to start today 2nd shift but I couldn't. That would've only given me 10 minutes total to get there and to somehow find a decent babysitter. Besides I had already told them I could only work 1st shift right now. They put me on their wait list for when 1st shift opens up again.

JGB2009
05-09-2018, 03:23 PM
I thought we did have the option in our fb settings of not allowing friend requests, maybe I'm wrong or they changed that?

In my options all I have is 1.Allowing anyone to add me, or 2.Only friends of friends to add me.

JGB2009
05-09-2018, 03:31 PM
You should be able to in your settings.

I usually look at their profile (do they have real friends, a job, inviting pictures, a family, etc) and message them like 'what's up? I noticed the friend request, tell me about yourself......' and the real people will respond back with something genuine but the stalkers, robots, whatever will go ghost

*I still don't add people as friends unless they are non-messy, cool, I know them personally --- everybody else can follow me. You do know FB has a feature like twitter where people can follow you, without you having to friend them. If your profile is more private then people who follow you can get your public updates seen in their timeline feed.

Yea that's why I didn't add them cause the profile pic looked fake. We did share friends, but what made me skeptical of this person is that one person posted a comment under a picture saying I hope you are a real person. That comment alone made me block them. Needless to say a few days later their profile disappeared. Better safe than sorry :)

WendiStarr
05-10-2018, 09:22 AM
I just realized that the insult behavior of guys in the lame dating(if you even wanna call it that) game has a name: negging. It's a stupid tactic started by some douchebag pick up artist, designed to further erode the already low self-esteem of the targeted women that this tactic is used on. The men are told to specifically seek out women and look for any signs of low self-esteem. Negging is done to these women in the hopes of paving the way for the man to get into her panties and use her like the worthless piece of garbage that he sees her as. The sad thing is that it works. Negging can be anything from "You look pretty with all that makeup caked on", "You'd look gorgeous if you were a blonde. I'd totally date you.", "That color shirt is ugly on you. I can't believe you wore that." or "Wow, you actually know how to _______(drive/spell/count/cook/insert whatever basic skill here)? I'm surprised". It's pathetic behavior on the man's part. They think that by insulting you this will cause you to want to try harder to please him. He will get a thrill out of it if you make whatever changes that he brought up. Guys like this love control. You are just something to conquer to them and once they've achieved their goal of getting you into bed, they'll either move on to damaging other low-self esteemed females. These types of guys tend to like to collect broken women like dolls and only take them off of the shelf(figuratively speaking) when they want to play(ie. have sex). All women worldwide need to collectively put a stop to this crap. It's not cute or funny. If you notice a man engaging in this behavior, call him out on it and kick his ass to the curb. Don't give in to his games and don't give him what he wants which is sex. It would be awesome if these kinds of guys stopped getting any action and had to resort to their hand or blow up dolls because that's all they deserve.

miss.a.p1600
05-11-2018, 07:22 PM
^Young naive broads fall for that

The older, and/or wiser, a woman gets - the less time she has for a wack ass pick up artist.

I feel like men owe us reparations cotdamn it. If they are not leaving their caves of entitlement and out protesting for women's rights/equality, helping to provide financially, then the least they could do is be uplifting, empowering, etc emotionally

Glamourmilf
05-12-2018, 08:48 AM
I was cleaning up my yard yesterday, because I'm buying a pool, and Cabana for it.
Way off in one of the corners was a baggie with remnants of weed inside.
The wind must've blown it over here from those drug dealer addicts that lived next door.:O
I haven't been out in my yard since they moved in last June. They practically lived out in their yard, and smoked all day and night.
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ScarletKitten
05-12-2018, 09:31 AM
I want a pair of high-rise jeans. It's taken me a while to like them when the high waist style first became trendy recently, but now I love them. They remind me of the 90's and grunge era. But all I can find so far are the distressed jeans with holes in them. Or they are too light or too dark. It's hard to find the perfect pair of jeans!

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-12-2018, 03:15 PM
I want a pair of high-rise jeans. It's taken me a while to like them when the high waist style first became trendy recently, but now I love them. They remind me of the 90's and grunge era. But all I can find so far are the distressed jeans with holes in them. Or they are too light or too dark. It's hard to find the perfect pair of jeans!

Look on EBay or at Ross Outlet.

I'm totally amused high waisted jeans came back. I need to get thin so I look good in them like I used to....

Vyanka
05-12-2018, 10:56 PM
I want a pair of high-rise jeans. It's taken me a while to like them when the high waist style first became trendy recently, but now I love them. They remind me of the 90's and grunge era. But all I can find so far are the distressed jeans with holes in them. Or they are too light or too dark. It's hard to find the perfect pair of jeans!

They're great when I'm on my period, must be stretchy so it can flatten the bloat.

Glamourmilf
05-13-2018, 07:12 AM
I attended a 'New Age' workshop yesterday.
Everyone that the moderator spoke with while explaining certain techniques couldn't understand him.
They asked him to repeat himself so much that he got so frustrated and started to get upset.>:(
I was sitting way in the back and I heard every word clearly.
Then it dawned on me.
He's from Boston too, and nobody could understand his very thick New England accent.
:rotfl:
Very few people from Boston live out here, if any.
So, it's not an accent that's heard very often.
For me, it's like ' Old home week.'

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-13-2018, 10:57 AM
I just realized that the insult behavior of guys in the lame dating(if you even wanna call it that) game has a name: negging. It's a stupid tactic started by some douchebag pick up artist, designed to further erode the already low self-esteem of the targeted women that this tactic is used on. The men are told to specifically seek out women and look for any signs of low self-esteem. Negging is done to these women in the hopes of paving the way for the man to get into her panties and use her like the worthless piece of garbage that he sees her as. The sad thing is that it works. Negging can be anything from "You look pretty with all that makeup caked on", "You'd look gorgeous if you were a blonde. I'd totally date you.", "That color shirt is ugly on you. I can't believe you wore that." or "Wow, you actually know how to _______(drive/spell/count/cook/insert whatever basic skill here)? I'm surprised". It's pathetic behavior on the man's part. They think that by insulting you this will cause you to want to try harder to please him. He will get a thrill out of it if you make whatever changes that he brought up. Guys like this love control. You are just something to conquer to them and once they've achieved their goal of getting you into bed, they'll either move on to damaging other low-self esteemed females. These types of guys tend to like to collect broken women like dolls and only take them off of the shelf(figuratively speaking) when they want to play(ie. have sex). All women worldwide need to collectively put a stop to this crap. It's not cute or funny. If you notice a man engaging in this behavior, call him out on it and kick his ass to the curb. Don't give in to his games and don't give him what he wants which is sex. It would be awesome if these kinds of guys stopped getting any action and had to resort to their hand or blow up dolls because that's all they deserve.

I often think negging is a very American-culture thing. I've socialized with/dated men from other cultures and the idea of slightly insulting your date or girlfriend is surreal to them. Like, they feel masculine enough on their own, they don't need to talk down to her to feel good. (This is why guys with accents get babes.)

I now see that guys who rely on dumping on other people as a self esteem boost really just hate themselves....deeply. Not in a "high school drama" way, more like "I'm going to eat the barrel of a 9 MM gun" way. Sick but it is what it is. NO healthy person gets off on bagging on other people, unless it's some sort of sexual/social kink.

Glamourmilf
05-15-2018, 08:12 AM
Remember last week I was mentioning how before feeling the earthquakes we've been having I hear what sounds like a 'sonic boom?'
Well, last night there were a string of earthquakes in the San Francisco/Oakland area, and people were tweeting that they heard a boom sound too right before they hit.
It's unusual to have 3 or more earthquakes in a row like that too.
I'm speaking from 35 years of experiencing them.
IDK, maybe they're different now?
Or is that pesky government up to things?
Hmm.:thinking:

JGB2009
05-15-2018, 11:09 AM
Sunday night I went to see Acrimony. I went by myself and no one was in the theater but me. Personally I liked the movie and I'm glad I went :)

WendiStarr
05-15-2018, 11:38 AM
I start a vanilla job tomorrow. I am relieved to have something other than my house cleaning gigs to help me because I can't escort anymore for a while due to cervix issue. Is it ridiculous that I'm already thinking,"If I get fired at least I'll have sex work to return to" ?

chanzep
05-15-2018, 02:04 PM
^I hope it works out for you. Vanilla co workers can be weird tho.

Elektra Luxx
05-15-2018, 04:27 PM
Bf and I had a terrible fight this morning. I started it because I woke up in bad mood. It was over something really stupid. Then he brings up legitimate things he's been holding in. He turned it around on me. I hate fights, but when he's right and it makes it worse. We haven't really madeup, but I apologized to him and he accepted.

seashell
05-15-2018, 04:55 PM
If and when humanity colonizes Mars, I wonder what sex work would look like. Would we have strip clubs up there? Escorting, definitely. Hmm...

chanzep
05-15-2018, 05:07 PM
Im surprised that the kindle versions of the books I ordered cost more and 1 a dollar cheaper?, I remember other books years ago being a few dollars cheaper. Oh well my paperbacks will be here in 2 days.

lilylilylily
05-15-2018, 07:16 PM
I bought like $5 jeggings the other day and omg do they make my butt look good and theyre so comfy. I'm gonna live in them this summer

JGB2009
05-15-2018, 08:46 PM
Someone made a fake facebook account pretending to be me. I reported them to Facebook. Hopefully this account will be deleted soon smh!!!!!