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baer45
08-29-2018, 03:28 PM
Why in the world do people send you texts like, "Hey, wanna go see a movie/go out to dinner/hang out/whatever activity?" and then when you respond back that you do and ask what time....crickets. No response. Like, really? That was 7 hours ago. You could've answered me.
I will check my schedule...what time do you have in mind?
Try this next time.
NitaBaby
08-29-2018, 04:39 PM
I’ll just stick with the dick that I know.
carmen_b
08-29-2018, 06:45 PM
I am wondering if my partner ( maybe former ) has told his family about my sex work past.
I guess I have bigger things to worry about but I am very very closeted and it would be a huge violation of privacy if he did.
The reason I suspect is because after we had the " we might not live together " anymore talk 6 days ago, I haven't heard ANYTHING from his Mom.
This is a HUGE relationship ( 7 years ) and I've known her for 6.5 years or so ! She seemed to ( not just from him but grapevine chatter ) think very highly of me . It's seems suspicious she wouldn't even send a " sorry you guys are having problems " quick email or reach out for a coffee while she is in town.
JGB2009
08-29-2018, 07:13 PM
Ur on this ignoring shit thing again!!!! U bitter Bastard!!!!!
lilylilylily
08-29-2018, 08:36 PM
We had no power for like 6 hours tonight, it just came back on a few minutes ago. My phone died during that time and couldn't charge it, I was so lonely without it lol plus its extremely hot out and fan was out. I really appreciate electricity right now
DonaDiabla
08-29-2018, 10:04 PM
You know, next guy that ask me if I speak Albanian, Armenian, or Farsi during an phone call...I will make them pay for an language fund. You want me to learn some of the world's hardest languages than you should pay for me to learn it. In fact, that's what I am going to do :)
Elektra Luxx
08-30-2018, 01:07 PM
T-Mobile 4G sucks!!!
WendiStarr
08-30-2018, 02:14 PM
I'm finding moviestarplanet game a good distraction from reality(and also a way to keep in contact with my mini when she's not here).
lynn2009
08-30-2018, 08:01 PM
I said I would lead on this new project at work and I am really regretting it. I think I'm going to tell my new boss point blank that I changed my mind. She'll hate me but I don't care. Everyone always moans they don't get paid enough but I really feel underpaid by 10 grand a year, and I was complaining to a senior co-worker earlier this week about it, and she was like yeah wow you do deserve more. My boss gave me the usual shit like prove yourself here and it will pay off, yeah ok I've heard that before. No thank you. Even if she means well, which I doubt, the corporate powers that be would never allow a significant pay raise. You don't get shit without jumping ship
Daniellaa
08-30-2018, 11:22 PM
My scalp just itched and my first thought was "I hope I don't have lice." Lol dramatic much?
WendiStarr
08-31-2018, 09:25 AM
I think my vanilla boss likes me or something. A coworker called off so boss came in to work to fill in. He's never there usually. He was all smiles when he seen me this morning and every time I walked by him or he walked by me, he said my name and smiled. A coworker was looking for him and he kept disappearing. I seen him in the corner and he held his finger up to his lips like sshhh and slipped away. The coworker tried to call him and he didn't answer her call. He texted me instead and told me to resolve her issue. I don't think this guy understands how to be a manager, lol. He's sexy but I don't think he's competent to be a boss. On the plus side I think I will be able to keep this vanilla job after all. It doesn't look like he's gonna get rid of me..yet.
JessaJade
08-31-2018, 09:28 AM
I'm very suspicious of many of the people who call themselves 'life coaches' or 'motivational speakers'. Lots of scope there for preying on the vulnerable IMHO. And most of the ones I've met come across as a bit sleazy and creepy.
Also, all I want to do for the rest of the day is drink wine, eat chocolate and sleep.
Elektra Luxx
08-31-2018, 10:34 AM
I woke up with wobbly hips today.
JGB2009
08-31-2018, 12:03 PM
Today was the day I never thought I would see...………...why would u do that? No explanation, warning or anything.
Elektra Luxx
08-31-2018, 07:56 PM
I wish we had a thread to post sex stuff.
carmen_b
08-31-2018, 10:14 PM
I'm also so creeped by the " coach " trend. I'm sure there are SOME good ones ( less than 10% ) out there but it's a very strange and oversaturated market ( or at least from what I've seen ).
It doesn't seem entirely fair to be legally able to guide people on making life discussions with NO training / certifications.
I'm very suspicious of many of the people who call themselves 'life coaches' or 'motivational speakers'. Lots of scope there for preying on the vulnerable IMHO. And most of the ones I've met come across as a bit sleazy and creepy.
Also, all I want to do for the rest of the day is drink wine, eat chocolate and sleep.
lilylilylily
08-31-2018, 10:28 PM
I'm glad I stayed home. I'm dying my hair (just the roots) so it worked out. Dont feel like being around someone who my gut is telling me is no good for me
WendiStarr
09-01-2018, 06:18 AM
My mind is so confused right now after what happened last night. I am relieved that I will be spending the day with my daughter. She will keep me so occupied today that I won't have time to think about that.
JGB2009
09-01-2018, 11:28 AM
I have new neighbors who stay next to me. Last night 3 girls were fighting and the cops was called on them. Then someone was racing a motorcycle up and down the road. All this was going on at 2 am. I am so over joyed having them as my new neighbors. Maybe I should just bring them a house warming gift!!!!
Elektra Luxx
09-01-2018, 01:31 PM
I've been a zombie today. I woke up this morning for coffee and a blueberry muffin for about an hour then back to bed. I woke up a little while ago for a burger and a soda. (JGB2009, a can of Coke in a cup with ice, soo goood!) And I going back to bed. So tired. I think my body is making up for loss sleep of the past week.
lynn2009
09-01-2018, 08:04 PM
I can't find the Netflix recommendations thread. I just saw a documentary called The Bleeding Edge that is very good. It focuses a lot on women's health and advocating for yourself.
JessaJade
09-02-2018, 04:45 AM
I'm also so creeped by the " coach " trend. I'm sure there are SOME good ones ( less than 10% ) out there but it's a very strange and oversaturated market ( or at least from what I've seen ).
It doesn't seem entirely fair to be legally able to guide people on making life discussions with NO training / certifications.
Yes, and it can be dangerous too. On Meetup for example I see a lot of groups aimed at people with mental health issues, and just anyone can start up and lead one of these groups. I'm not saying they are all evil predators - I believe some of the groups can be very helpful, but there are also a lot of weirdos out there with bad intentions.
Also it's not really a good idea for an unqualified, unregulated practitioner to get involved in trying to deal with people with complex issues.
Aurora_Sunset
09-02-2018, 07:16 AM
It's 10am and I have "Baby Got Back" stuck in my head.
Elektra Luxx
09-02-2018, 11:30 AM
I broke my eye glasses this morning. Anyone have any experience with America's Best Eyeglasses?
lynn2009
09-02-2018, 12:18 PM
I broke my eye glasses this morning. Anyone have any experience with America's Best Eyeglasses?
To get new ones? Use Zenni optical.
WendiStarr
09-02-2018, 01:21 PM
I was able to get a 2 hour nap in. My little one let me. I don't think I'll be as lucky to get another nap because now that I am up she's being a little stinker. I have to work at 11pm.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-02-2018, 03:06 PM
I broke my eye glasses this morning. Anyone have any experience with America's Best Eyeglasses?
I just bought two pair from www.firmoo.com for $75. I'm thinking about getting a third as well. They're awesome and they dont even check to see if your prescription is expired. As long as you know the actual prescription its all good.
carmen_b
09-02-2018, 03:42 PM
I want to find this particular vibrator.
The person I dated before my partner now had one ( why a guy would own one is a whole other story I think heavily having to do with him dick not really working ).
Anyway .... back to the vibrator. It's purple and moves in a circle and has a strong nub thing for the clit ( not " ears " or a flicking thing ).
I am trying to find it on amazon.
JessaJade
09-03-2018, 06:04 AM
I have this weird habit of trying to guess which people I see when people-watching might be serial killers.
JGB2009
09-03-2018, 01:23 PM
Had this lady talking to me last night at Walmart. She was nice but kind of strange. She looked me in the eye and told me the best is yet to come. I wondered was she even real??????
WendiStarr
09-03-2018, 01:35 PM
I think we're making progress. I'm trying to not get my hopes up too high just yet.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-03-2018, 06:54 PM
Had this lady talking to me last night at Walmart. She was nice but kind of strange. She looked me in the eye and told me the best is yet to come. I wondered was she even real??????
I've had people do this to me a couple times in the past decade.
In hindsight I realize they were just on their own trip in life and probably do that to almost everyone they meet.
The first lady started talking about Jesus about 15 minutes after she started talking to me so I was like "ohhhh. OK."
JessaJade
09-05-2018, 06:55 AM
I've decided men in their 40s are no use to me, even though 'on paper' that would be the ideal age group. I'm only interested in hot younger guys from mid to late 20s up to around my age which is mid 30s, because they can fuck properly and are fun, or wealthy men above 50, just because. I'm bored of dating men in the midst of their mid-life crises; they are annoying and don't have enough energy. LOL
whirlerz
09-05-2018, 09:03 AM
Old men suck, mostly, unless they're generous.
So, I ordered this wifi hotspot, (since a/hole landlord can't/won't provide it as promised, probably doesn't want to pay bill) it had a big promo, free shipping, features, blah, blah
I don't want to get kicked off the cam sites for non broadcast>:(
It's called Freedom Pop, IDK, it's returnable so, we'll see
WendiStarr
09-05-2018, 12:15 PM
Mr. Flaky has started his disappearing act again. Since the last time I seen him he was being good about staying in consistent contact with me and seeming to care. I haven't heard from at all yesterday or today. Being female, I can't help but over analyze everything. I know he could be busy but then I start wondering if he expects me to start acting psycho, blowing up his phone with texts, chasing him, begging him to be with me. I know some men like that bullshit. Certain types of guys get off on women acting crazy, begging and pleading for them, while they ignore her and laugh at how pathetic and needy she's behaving and get an ego boost that they have that kind of power over a woman. I'm not interested in chasing any man. I've contacted him yesterday and no response. I texted him this morning to say good morning and sent him a funny picture. No response. The onus is on him to contact me. I deleted his number from my phone again, just in case.
lynn2009
09-05-2018, 05:25 PM
I discovered a strip club today that requests a CV when you apply. There's a new one.
Winged Dinghy
09-05-2018, 06:09 PM
Y'all, I'm on my second old fashioned after not drinking for 16 days and I feel SO GREAT! I missed this shit. At the same time, I don't need to do it every single night. Every other night is plenty, and if I find myself wanting to drink and get high every night, I should do another 16 days of sobriety to reset.
Let this henceforth serve as my written reminder to myself.
Winged Dinghy
09-05-2018, 06:09 PM
I discovered a strip club today that requests a CV when you apply. There's a new one.
I need to know more about this. A LOT MORE.
lynn2009
09-05-2018, 06:20 PM
I need to know more about this. A LOT MORE.
It's Cloakroom in Washington, DC.
http://www.cloakroomdc.com/contact/
I called and the woman I spoke confirmed they want CVs for everyone, even potential dancers.
Everything in this area becomes such a fucking ordeal.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-05-2018, 07:37 PM
I had an extremely weird afternoon and have to share because I know this happens to other people, but these experiences are so personal that it's hard to communicate how RATTLING they can be.
Boyfriend and I went with a Property Manager to see a few apartments (were are moving, place we were renting sold.) The last apartment we saw was numbered with the area code of where I grew up. A few doors down from there was a door marked with the area code of the state I lived in (happily) for years recently.
The last apartment held my attention because the price was ideal. So I thought it was funny that it was my home area code.
HERE'S the kicker- we went into a nearby bar right after leaving this apartment complex because I wanted tonic water (upset stomach.) Guess who is sitting at the bar? A guy that me and my ex used to know. Years ago things went really sour between me, my ex and The Guy At The Bar (work/$$$ related) & we all ended up going to court over this mess. (It was a mess. Trust me.)
I actually was hoping I was wrong about the Guy's identity ('cause if I'm trying to sign a lease on a nearby place I'm fucking HOPING that bar isn't Guy's chosen watering hole of late, or that he lives nearby.....) …..Well Guy kind of winks at me and gives me a nod.
To be honest if he had been stupid enough to send us drinks or try to talk to us I would have thrown a fit and said all the things I had been wanting to say to him since the whole court fiasco. I KNOW he played it cool in the bar because my boyfriend was there AND the dude has macho aspirations- no way is he going to menace a tiny female in front of a crowd of other guys in a bar. (But he's not a good person at ALL. I knew him for a long time.)
Ifyouseekamy
09-05-2018, 08:50 PM
I've decided men in their 40s are no use to me, even though 'on paper' that would be the ideal age group. I'm only interested in hot younger guys from mid to late 20s up to around my age which is mid 30s, because they can fuck properly and are fun, or wealthy men above 50, just because. I'm bored of dating men in the midst of their mid-life crises; they are annoying and don't have enough energy. LOL
I agree. I’m surprised you can stand guys in there 30’s? I can’t stand them- they just want to waste my time. They think I’m too old to marry, but wanna waste my time because they want to fuck a stripper. If I was going to have casual sex...it’d only be with a hot late 20 something or a rich old guy who pampered me. Me and thirty something men do not like each other. I’ve heard that from a lot of other 30’s women.
JessaJade
09-06-2018, 12:07 AM
They think I’m too old to marry, but wanna waste my time because they want to fuck a stripper.
Yes. You're actually right and this has happened a few times - I wasn't bothered because I was just using them for sex too, but some guys in their 30s definitely have that attitude. It just amuses me when they assume I'll be eager to settle down though, especially the ones whose sexual performance is a struggle situation...next!
lynn2009
09-06-2018, 04:23 PM
I might end up with an angry stalker-murderer but I've been swiping right on everyone on tinder and trolling all the creepy guys.
WendiStarr
09-07-2018, 08:41 AM
I think letting movie buddy go down on me made him turn crazy or something because now he's been blowing up my phone all day. I told him I don't feel good and he said he'd stop by after I got off of work and bring chicken soup and cold medicine. I told him he didn't have to do that and he said that he was only 10 mins away and stopped by. Apparently he's married. I noticed when he walked in that he slick slipped his wedding ring off and put it in his pocket when he thought I wasn't looking. That was the 1st time I've ever noticed a ring. I didn't say anything, not that I give a fuck if he's going to just be a custie now anyways. I do think I have to be careful with him now. He's seeming a bit obsessive already, for having only given me oral pleasure one time. He hugged me like 3 times before he left and offered to come back over later tonight to cuddle with me before he goes to work. I just want to be left alone right now. My daughter will be with my ex's parents this weekend and mama is going to rest and get my sick ass better.
Aurora_Sunset
09-07-2018, 09:17 AM
Can never do anything the easy way, can I? Even when I’m trying so hard to be “normal,” I’m always the “skanky” socially unacceptable end of the spectrum of normal.
lilylilylily
09-07-2018, 01:04 PM
I love the show Divorce court with judge Lynn Toler. She gives amazing advice to the couples. Love her
Ladycaxe
09-07-2018, 02:53 PM
I've realized how much I love cooking and prefer buying groceries to eating out.
Not only is it much cheaper, but so many more options OMGAH.
the bank I visit couple times a week is very close to Vons so it's convenient af (no car, must uber - two birds one stone).
Oh and the other day I went shopping at trader joes. LOVE THAT PLACE !! 3 words....carrot ginger soup
Tradr joez is a real treat bcuz theres not one very close to me. It was my first time visiting the store since I've moved from la, ca to paradise,nv 7 months ago.
on top of all this...... I CANT STOP EATING. idk if its the weed or the fact my period is in about 8 days. probably both.
But after I secure the bag this weekend, I'm going to the grocery store :D
I plan on making a charcuterie board. Gonna get some dank cheese and meats and crackers and...NOM NOM NOM. (fruit too of course)
I"m happy to be making the decision to actively purchase more groceries, instead of running out and having to order postmates to eat D:
:D
thanks for coming 2 my ted talk.
- high n hungry
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-07-2018, 03:00 PM
The death of Mac Miller reminds me of a former co-worker (day job) who was drinking himself to death (they resemble eachother so much they could be twins.)
Not to be a bitch but if I was in that guy's shoes I would have gone to rehab. He hit the big time & blew it.
Aside from that I hate being reminded of my former co-worker. I'm so hesitant to befriend people now because of that experience.
trustfundkiller
09-07-2018, 03:56 PM
The death of Mac Miller reminds me of a former co-worker (day job) who was drinking himself to death (they resemble eachother so much they could be twins.)
Not to be a bitch but if I was in that guy's shoes I would have gone to rehab. He hit the big time & blew it.
Aside from that I hate being reminded of my former co-worker. I'm so hesitant to befriend people now because of that experience.
It's so sad. 26-yrs-old with the world in his hands. I wonder if he had spent any time in rehab unbeknownst to the public. He crashed his G-Wagon into a light pole in May and reportedly made a statement saying that it was the wakeup call he needed and he's fine now. Apparently the lesson didn't really stick. I strongly believe that the universe will give you some violent warnings to straighten out your life if you're going down a destructive path. Whether or not you acknowledge them is up to you.
trustfundkiller
09-07-2018, 04:03 PM
I ordered this adorable sparkly stripper dress from Etsy for $37. Originally it's $85 but the price was reduced because there was an error in production and it had a small snag under the bust. I'm excited to get it in the mail! ;D the snag isn't even noticeable and I feel like I got a great deal. I've ordered from this company before and their stuff is incredible quality. Worth every penny even full price.