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NitaBaby
09-23-2018, 06:03 AM
I’m done. I’m taking down all of my “sugar baby” profiles and blocking everyone that I’ve been half-way entertaining because I’m only talking to these people for money anyway and, if I had it my way, I’d be engaged to my best friend right now. I realized that when he came over last night and held me so damn tight. The sex was good like it always is but the way he treats me is what has always set him apart from the rest.
I didn’t want to be that girl, waiting 50 years for a man’s divorce to finalize. This could end up being a painful waste of my time. But I’ve decided to go ahead and wait. I don’t want anyone else.
Glamourmilf
09-23-2018, 08:32 AM
Random observation.
Men have no heart.
I attend 3 different grief counseling groups.
Different people in all groups, where everyone gets to share what's going on with their particular loss.
All the men, and I mean EVERY single one, have moved on.
Most are gay men. Most have become my friends.
All are on gay hookup sites, fucking randoms.
Even the straight men have new girlfriends.
Some have lost their partners as recent as 3 months ago. Most have been with their partners for 20, 30, 40 plus years.
All the wailing, tears, crying uncontrollably, I feel is just guilt.
All the women, however, can't even bring themselves to even part with their husbands clothes/ belongings. I'm talking women who have lost their spouses over 3, 4 years ago.
Like I said, it's just an observation.
It really is a shame that God created men to be so sex driven.
It makes them seem ( to me) as heartless creatures.
That's all.
lynn2009
09-23-2018, 08:36 AM
I've been wanting to write my sister's kids snail mail for a long time for fun. But someone with kids around ~5 years please help me, what are some cute and quick things to write?
Elektra Luxx
09-23-2018, 11:13 PM
Cbd oil might help you with anxiety. It helps me with mine. It helps during the monthly visitor/cramps too....
Yuck, just started tonight. It tastes terrible! Booty tastes better than CBD oil. Ha ha!
Instructions say to start off with 2 drops and work up slowly.
WendiStarr
09-24-2018, 02:43 AM
Yuck, just started tonight. It tastes terrible! Booty tastes better than CBD oil. Ha ha!
Instructions say to start off with 2 drops and work up slowly.
What brand? I use Essential CBD brand and it tastes good. They have a blueberry flavor and watermelon flavor. The blueberry is my favorite. I know what you mean though. I've tasted some brands that were just awful.
Elektra Luxx
09-24-2018, 05:47 AM
What brand? I use Essential CBD brand and it tastes good. They have a blueberry flavor and watermelon flavor. The blueberry is my favorite. I know what you mean though. I've tasted some brands that were just awful.
I'm using Hempworx 500, natural favor. My mom is trying it herself before giving it to my brother (My brother is Asperger's) and gave me a bottle to try. My mom knows someone who sells it and that person has a daughter with Asperger's. She claims it has helped them both with their anxiety problems.
lynn2009
09-24-2018, 07:17 AM
I almost never wear makeup day to day but I felt like it this morning. I had a meeting first thing at 9:30am and my co-worker immediately says I look well-rested. Just thought it was funny.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-24-2018, 07:33 AM
Random observation.
Men have no heart.
I attend 3 different grief counseling groups.
Different people in all groups, where everyone gets to share what's going on with their particular loss.
All the men, and I mean EVERY single one, have moved on.
Most are gay men. Most have become my friends.
All are on gay hookup sites, fucking randoms.
Even the straight men have new girlfriends.
Some have lost their partners as recent as 3 months ago. Most have been with their partners for 20, 30, 40 plus years.
All the wailing, tears, crying uncontrollably, I feel is just guilt.
All the women, however, can't even bring themselves to even part with their husbands clothes/ belongings. I'm talking women who have lost their spouses over 3, 4 years ago.
Like I said, it's just an observation.
It really is a shame that God created men to be so sex driven.
It makes them seem ( to me) as heartless creatures.
That's all.
I can admit I've used sex as a crutch during grief.
Maybe women don't want to admit to sexual relations after losing a LTR partner. Seems …..unclassy to some, especially relatives of the dead mate.
I wouldn't generalize though. This whole topic is kind of an interesting one in geriatric communities.
Elektra Luxx
09-24-2018, 12:58 PM
I didn't get a good night sleep. Bf kept waking me up all night long. He was bumping and humping my side in his sleep.
WendiStarr
09-24-2018, 01:25 PM
I had a client say something weird to me. He was talking about another sw that I know, comparing us for some reason but in an odd way. He said that with me, it's like he put a ladder down into the hole but I climbed out of it myself. Sometimes I get caught at the surface of the hole and need help getting out. With her he said he threw the ladder down and she sits there waiting on him to carry her up the ladder and out of the hole. When he does she jumps right back into the hole, lands on her ass, and sits there, waiting for him to carry her up the ladder and out of the hole again.
carmen_b
09-24-2018, 06:57 PM
^ It's kind of a cool observation.
I hate note comparisons with other providers but it isn't a creepy way to put it.
This guy seems creative to me and seems like a good client. It's a very unique compliment to you.
lynn2009
09-24-2018, 08:09 PM
^ It's kind of a cool observation.
I hate note comparisons with other providers but it isn't a creepy way to put it.
This guy seems creative to me and seems like a good client. It's a very unique compliment to you.
I think it's a gross way to either about either. I would not at all appreciate the implication that sex work means you are in a hole and he's a white knight. I wouldn't see him again.
JGB2009
09-25-2018, 08:59 AM
Don't know why u are acting all stuck up today......you are acting like an emotional woman!!!! Times like this I don't mind sticking by myself!!!!
Elektra Luxx
09-25-2018, 10:39 AM
I'm in training for the next 3 days. It's so boring that I would rather be working. Good news is...I won a cool little back pack as a door prize. Yay!
Elektra Luxx
09-25-2018, 12:00 PM
I'm literally dying of boredom. The material is so boring.
SugarCookies
09-25-2018, 12:21 PM
Earlier this year it would take a quick 8-10 minutes to curl my whole head of hair. Now that my hair is about 5 inches longer it takes 16-20 minutes! I'm considering a perm.
WendiStarr
09-25-2018, 12:48 PM
I just realized it's almost 4pm and I haven't eaten anything other than a cherry Greek yogurt, tea, and some Asian rice crackers all day.
lilylilylily
09-25-2018, 01:33 PM
This guy I'm kind of seeing wants to meet for drinks after he finishes work for like an hour.. I'm thinking theres no point of getting ready (plus it's cold out) to go see him if there will be no sex after lol
Vyanka
09-25-2018, 07:19 PM
I don't get the big deal about Fashion Nova. Their stuff looks cheap and generic. -_-
carmen_b
09-25-2018, 09:36 PM
Yeah, reading it, maybe I don't like it either ! I guess I saw what he was trying to do but the whole " you guys ae in a hole and I'm hovering above you " thing doesn't really work .
I think it's a gross way to either about either. I would not at all appreciate the implication that sex work means you are in a hole and he's a white knight. I wouldn't see him again.
miss.a.p1600
09-25-2018, 10:25 PM
I don't get the big deal about Fashion Nova. Their stuff looks cheap and generic. -_-
They are like Kardashian’s to me. Excellent marketing scheme to become well known but substance and quality is questionable
Glamourmilf
09-26-2018, 07:16 AM
I don't get the big deal about Fashion Nova. Their stuff looks cheap and generic. -_-
I'm so glad you said it.
I have a friend who raves about Fashion Nova, so for the last year and a half I've been getting nonstop emails from them.
I keep waiting to see something I like, but it's all crap.
I love the way you dress, so I think I'm going unsubscribe to their mailing list.
carmen_b
09-26-2018, 11:40 AM
I'm moving forward with selling my investment property and I'm going to put the $ into a condo for MYSELF !
I am always making these choices of living cheaper / living smaller and I feel like NOW is the time to do something for me !
Why should my renters live in three times the space I do ? I've thought about it for a long time ( 3-6 months ) and I think it's officially the time.
I have issues with it though because I always imagined shopping for property in this city as a couple so hopefully I'll come around mentally and enjoy the project in the next few months. I'm specifically looking for something feasible for a couple if I were to get swept off my feet again but not so large or expensive that I need room mates. I LOVE living alone.
WendiStarr
09-26-2018, 02:49 PM
I'm supposed to be having dinner with movie buddy and he said he's going to give me some IT computer training. Why do I have the feeling it's going to end up being dinner and then bedroom sports?
Elektra Luxx
09-26-2018, 06:38 PM
Bf and I napped. No kanoodling, just napping.
Glamourmilf
09-26-2018, 06:44 PM
I was sitting outside after the grief group eating my lunch on a park bench. This random white dude walks over to me and tells me how beautiful my hair is.
Thank You.
He then starts rapid firing questions at me. "Are you single? Kids? Straight? Gay? Where are you from?" On and on.
It turns out that he's looking for someone to have his babies.:O
Keep looking buddy. Nothing to see here.I'm menopausal. Lol!
He STILL took my number and wants to take me out.
Tall,ish,Blond, nice hair, 40's, good dresser. Not my type, but,..ok.
WendiStarr
09-26-2018, 06:51 PM
I find it amusing that Mr. Movie buddy didn't shower or brush his teeth before he left. He has to work at 10pm tonight. So, he's going to be there with a bunch of engineer dudes, with pussy breathe and smelling like sex. He smelled like good cologne and sex when he left. The bed still smells like his cologne and I came twice so I can sleep without having to masturbate. Yes! :)
Elektra Luxx
09-26-2018, 08:06 PM
I was sitting outside after the grief group eating my lunch on a park bench. This random white dude walks over to me and tells me how beautiful my hair is.
Thank You.
He then starts rapid firing questions at me. "Are you single? Kids? Straight? Gay? Where are you from?" On and on.
It turns out that he's looking for someone to have his babies.:O
Keep looking buddy. Nothing to see here.I'm menopausal. Lol!
He STILL took my number and wants to take me out.
Tall,ish,Blond, nice hair, 40's, good dresser. Not my type, but,..ok.
Maybe he could be a nice distraction.
Elektra Luxx
09-26-2018, 08:21 PM
What brand? I use Essential CBD brand and it tastes good. They have a blueberry flavor and watermelon flavor. The blueberry is my favorite. I know what you mean though. I've tasted some brands that were just awful.
When did you start feeling the CBD oil was working? It's only been 2 days and it's a low dose to start, but I don't feel a thing yet. I'm just asking. I'm seeing my doctor on Friday and I know he not going a like me using it, but I'm going to give it a chance to work.
WendiStarr
09-27-2018, 02:41 AM
When did you start feeling the CBD oil was working? It's only been 2 days and it's a low dose to start, but I don't feel a thing yet. I'm just asking. I'm seeing my doctor on Friday and I know he not going a like me using it, but I'm going to give it a chance to work.
I felt it working within the first couple days. Then again, I'm a bad girl. I didn't start with a low dose. I started with a whole dropper full lol. Give it time and it should start working.
Glamourmilf
09-27-2018, 07:49 AM
Maybe he could be a nice distraction.
Thank You. Yes, exactly what I was thinking.
I used to be extremely social.
Don't know what happened.
Must be a combination of grief and it being too hot to go anywhere.
*Today is supposed to be the last day of 110 degree temps, so we shall see.
99 degrees is gonna feel sooo good.
*In a weird way, I think my Mom sent him to me.
I'm sure she appreciates my grieving for her. But she was always someone who believed in romance.
I'll report back.
JGB2009
09-27-2018, 02:59 PM
I have been busy all day and at the same time I have been so bored!!!!! Usually my days are more exciting!!!!
JGB2009
09-27-2018, 04:26 PM
Maybe I am wrong....but I feel l feel like my plans aren't gonna go as expected tomorrow. Time will tell of course.
yaya_cash
09-27-2018, 07:57 PM
Another "friend" at work (I'm pretty sure) has gotten fired. Makes me wonder if we will actually communicate anymore.
Bitches come n go, bruh.
What do you think she got fired from? What can you get fired for?
yaya_cash
09-27-2018, 08:10 PM
Using this chemical peel from home to get rid of my hyperpigmentation. The Glossier solution or expensive discoloration serum I've purschased from the med spa hasn't been working too well. Hopefully, the chemical peel will work much better before getting my lips done, because I'd rather not use the acid and dissolve my pumpness by then. Does anyone have any recommendations to get rid of hyperpigmentation?
Glamourmilf
09-27-2018, 10:03 PM
Thank You. Yes, exactly what I was thinking.
I used to be extremely social.
Don't know what happened.
Must be a combination of grief and it being too hot to go anywhere.
*Today is supposed to be the last day of 110 degree temps, so we shall see.
99 degrees is gonna feel sooo good.
*In a weird way, I think my Mom sent him to me.
I'm sure she appreciates my grieving for her. But she was always someone who believed in romance.
I'll report back.
Reporting back.
When I turned my phone on this morning, there was a text from him. All it said was, "Hi Ms."
No name. So I replied and asked who it was.
He answered, "Your new man."
I lol' d.
But, then right away it turns.
He asked why I didn't call him back last night.
I tell him, I had my phone off, and just got the message today.
Then. Wait for it.........
He replies, "On your computer, chatting away while I was texting you I guess."
Wait. ..what?
He doesn't know anything about me, other than I was just at the grief group.
Nothing about work, camming, my schedule. Nothing.
However, I DO know a very important piece of information about him.
That he's a codependent type, who needs attention and validation EVERY moment of every day.
And I'm not having it.
He's a Leo, and that tells me ALL I need to know.
No offense to any Leos, but I've had my fair share. 2nd husband and countless boyfriends were Leos.
*I know the mature way to handle it would've been to ask if we had a set time that he was supposed to text? (We didn't).
But, I just text him the middle finger emoji :finger: instead.
He caught me at a vulnerable time. I was just finishing up 2 hours of camming where I had to deal with hundreds of freeloaders. And I had just started watching the Kavanaugh hearing.
Ifyouseekamy
09-27-2018, 11:07 PM
Using this chemical peel from home to get rid of my hyperpigmentation. The Glossier solution or expensive discoloration serum I've purschased from the med spa hasn't been working too well. Hopefully, the chemical peel will work much better before getting my lips done, because I'd rather not use the acid and dissolve my pumpness by then. Does anyone have any recommendations to get rid of hyperpigmentation?. Those med spas are a bunch of hustlers- they over promise and under deliver. Google real self to get ideas of what actually works.
yaya_cash
09-28-2018, 12:23 AM
. Those med spas are a bunch of hustlers- they over promise and under deliver. Google real self to get ideas of what actually works.
I'm using this Lactid peel, at 25% acid for the first-time now. I will await better results after using it a little while longer, then level to 50% and 70% acid to get rid of more stubborn hyperpigmentation or melasma. If I don't see satisfying results from the process, I will consider booking an appointment to do a RED CARPET ILLUMINIZE/RESURFACING REJUVENIZEŽ PEEL TREATMENT, at the med spa (?). Have you heard or seen good results from a lactic acid peel, red carpet or resurfacing peel treatment?
I'm excited about this peeling/process. I have already seen a lot of dead skin, discoloration come off - on the cotton pads, that wasn't able to without (using) this acid. So the acid with cotton pad is helping to get rid of my skin imperfections. My skin is clearer, and will continue to be more clear as I use this.
The Glossier solution only works to get rid of acne and light to medium scars or blemishes.
And of course a discoloration serum doesn't have so much of an immediate effect of getting rid of deep dead skin or melasma, because it's deluded with a safer solution, to be able use on your face without causing harsh burns.
WendiStarr
09-28-2018, 08:49 AM
As much as I'd hate to do this, I think that maybe I should hold off on going back to school in November. The next program starts in March. The reason I'm thinking about waiting is because my lease is going to be up and I'm going to be dealing with the stress of having to find a new place, packing, moving, and it's going to be the start of winter in my state by November. If I wait until March I will be settled in to a new place and should be less stressed out.
SugarCookies
09-28-2018, 09:47 AM
I don't get the big deal about Fashion Nova. Their stuff looks cheap and generic. -_-
I'm not with the Fashion Nova hype either. The popularity is because Cardi B, Amber Rose, and all these other popular hip hop fashion female celebs/instagram girls promote them. Their website has some things that look cute, but not the store. There's a Fashion Nova store at a mall near where I live. I walked in and everything was plain and full of ugly dull colors. The clothes are definitely made for the girls who have that Cardi and Amber Rose body judging by their design and shape.
Glamourmilf
09-28-2018, 12:18 PM
Um, excuse me, but did I just see a commercial on t.v. for Christmas trees? :O
It's 108 degrees outside, and not even Oct yet.
I hate how holidays are shoved in our faces months before it's actually here.>:(
WendiStarr
09-28-2018, 12:57 PM
I seen Movie Buddy again today. He gave me more IT computer training and we ended up having sex after. He said I might not hear from him in a week. That's possibly a good thing because although he helps me out financially, a lot this week, I think we're getting too emotionally involved seeing each other 3 times this week like we did and that's not good. I'm trying my luck with a potential SD from SA soon. I have a dinner date for 4:30pm. He seems legit, gave me his real name, Linkedin, company website, is a business owner, divorced, no kids. Wish me luck.
Elektra Luxx
09-28-2018, 02:29 PM
We're going to a volleyball game. A friend of ours has a daughter who plays volleyball, intermediate school I think. She's 12. I'm so excited. I love watching sports when I know someone playing. It makes cheering so much more fun. I played volleyball in highschool, but I wasn't any good.
JGB2009
09-28-2018, 02:37 PM
Um, excuse me, but did I just see a commercial on t.v. for Christmas trees? :O
It's 108 degrees outside, and not even Oct yet.
I hate how holidays are shoved in our faces months before it's actually here.>:(
Last night I visited a cam girls room and she had Christmas music playing. Crazy people are always in a rush!!!!
JGB2009
09-28-2018, 02:38 PM
We're going to a volleyball game. A friend of ours has a daughter who plays volleyball, intermediate school I think. She's 12. I'm so excited. I love watching sports when I know someone playing. It makes cheering so much more fun. I played volleyball in highschool, but I wasn't any good.
When I hit a volleyball lol it goes the other direction. Sometimes I am ok with serving the ball but that is it.
WendiStarr
09-28-2018, 03:33 PM
Wow, just wow. I met with this guy for dinner and the dude is pretty much looking for someone to bear a child for him. He's a lot older in person than in his pictures. He had to be 65 or older, despite his profile saying 55. How odd. He said he's recently divorced after 46 years(more proof that he lied about his age) and always wanted a child but his ex wife never wanted kids. I guess he figured that at age 60+ he'd like to be a dad? Wtf? He said he'd financially support me through my pregnancy with his child and after the child was born, the child would go live with him. Where the hell do rich, old guys get off on looking for a womb to rent on a sugar daddy website? That was so bizarre. Needless to say that did not go well and I won't be seeing him again.
Glamourmilf
09-29-2018, 07:54 AM
^^ Wendi, if I didn't know better, I'd say we had just met the same guy. Remember me saying that HE approached me about wanting to have his kid? What's up with these guys? Oh, and here's an upsetting thing I found out about my guy. I googled his number, and it linked to a flicker page that had only photos of little girls on it. Random girls playing at a park playground. Eww!
Oh, and he is related to a very high up in politics. Democrat.
Last night I visited a cam girls room and she had Christmas music playing. Crazy people are always in a rush!!!!
OMG, really?
Shit, that's too much.
To add to this madness.
I was looking at the grocery store circulars that come in the mail, and I noticed big green shamrocks splashed across the front page.
Are you ready for this?
They are having a 'half way' to St Patrick's Day sale.
C'mon.
:-\
JGB2009
09-29-2018, 10:12 AM
Guess this is how it is now!!!! Yea I knew better.....but do I listen myself!!!!!
carmen_b
09-29-2018, 11:37 AM
Wendi: Could be a creepy pregnancy fetish. He probably got his thrill just wasting your time talking about it . Hopefully he paid well at least for that horrible " date ".
Elektra Luxx
09-29-2018, 12:32 PM
When I hit a volleyball lol it goes the other direction. Sometimes I am ok with serving the ball but that is it.
Same, I couldn't hit the ball and I could serve okay. My family called me "the clavo" which means nail in spanish. As in, I hit the ball and it deflates.