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Elektra Luxx
09-29-2018, 12:48 PM
I had convulsing, toe pointing, back arching orgasm last night and this morning. Bf left me splayed out like a starfish with one leg hanging off the bed this morning while he made coffee.

It's been raining and I've been bum in bed all day.

WendiStarr
09-29-2018, 12:58 PM
The creepy old guy was generous but eww. On a different note I'm sitting outside by the bird feeder and the same male nuthatch keeps flying very close to my head, lands on feeder, looks at me and makes a cute noise, eats, and repeat. He has done this 7 times already. Birdies! ��

magicgembliss
09-29-2018, 04:25 PM
I'm very suspicious of many of the people who call themselves 'life coaches' or 'motivational speakers'. Lots of scope there for preying on the vulnerable IMHO. And most of the ones I've met come across as a bit sleazy and creepy.



So much this. I thought I was the only one..I also loathe the entire lowbrow self-help/victim exploitation empire trend started by Oprah and others in the 80s. It's vaguely revolting and subtly elitist.

yaya_cash
09-29-2018, 06:16 PM
Okay so , long story short, I started hanging out w a customer OTC.
My initial thought was " Have him PAY for your time."
But..... I really just enjoy hanging out w him. He's bought plenty of VIPs from me, and he's such a nice guy, I just moved to this city (well, about 7 months here) so I have no one to hang out w / on a day to day basis.
Eventually I have trusted him enough ( probs 4 months of him being a customer) , so we went out to dinner, he bought me some stuff ( Victoria secret, agaci ( haha ! I learned of that story though SW.), and eden sky)
The sex was really good. I didn't ask for money . But tbh, I dont really care. It feels really good to be in this city ( he lives here too ), and to finally have someone to just hang out w . Last night we chilled watch a horror movie, hung outside enjoying the warm desert air, etc. Slept so peacefully together til he went to work in the morning. I'm honestly very satisfied :)

Next, he hands you his card or pays your rent. :)

carmen_b
09-29-2018, 07:28 PM
I want to host these little work shops and get aways for women ( a retreat but DIY style and NOT at silly retreat prices ). Something simple / easy ( 1-2 nights away from the city ). More like a shared way to sign up for a little trip or outing. I just can not take on a side project now so I'm stopping myself .....

Ladycaxe
09-29-2018, 08:00 PM
lmaoo! thanks girl thats the spirit ! <333333

lilylilylily
09-29-2018, 08:15 PM
It's a good thing I didnt go anywhere tonight, just got my period phew

yaya_cash
09-29-2018, 09:32 PM
Well, she told me that management told HER that she was trying to smash someone in VIP.
Even though that is my friend (or maybe just work friend, you know how it is),
she was pretty wasted when I saw her.
I dont know what she was doing back there. I can't defend her on that.
Thats exactly why I dont do extras LMAO.
I dont want to get fired for any reason, that's why I try and keep my distance for "guilty by association"


also, I dont think she tipped out very much, so good luck trying to turn tricks if you dont pay people out lol.

"You Gotta Pay the Fee." ��

wish
09-29-2018, 11:28 PM
It just dawned on me that I have been in mental therapy of some sort for almost 2 decades on and off and steadily for about 10 years. I don’t think it’s working.

Glamourmilf
09-30-2018, 08:38 AM
It just dawned on me that I have been in mental therapy of some sort for almost 2 decades on and off and steadily for about 10 years. I don’t think it’s working.

The same thought occurred to me, when after 2 years of counseling (guilt because I was a stripper, was a recovering Catholic)
It dawned on me to ask my therapist how many patients he had like me.
When he answered, " Just You", a lightbulb went off:lamp:
I walked out and never went back.
*It just never occurred to me to ask, because a couple of customers​ from the club referred me. I just assumed.

WendiStarr
09-30-2018, 12:58 PM
The weather gets cold compared to the unusually warm weather we were having and suddenly every swinging dick wants to "hang out" today. All I want to do is curl up on the couch under my nice, soft warm blanket and Netflix.

xStacey
09-30-2018, 03:55 PM
Omg Spanish soap operas are sooo good LOL I'm finished with the third season of Cable girls it's so goood :'( The end was so sad and dramatic, cannot wait for season 4 to come out!!

JGB2009
09-30-2018, 08:13 PM
Something tells me perhaps I should walk now while I am ahead!!!!! We just don't seem to be on the same page.

carmen_b
09-30-2018, 08:17 PM
My day job customers are driving me crazy in the last few weeks. I feel like we have only had one easy " off the rack " sale.

Same 'ole complaints but I'll just throw it out to the Universe to please send me one buying what we sell exactly " as is " and making their mind up on the sale in under 3 days please......
I mean you've got to ASK for what you WANT right ?

carmen_b
09-30-2018, 08:24 PM
My ex seems like he is slowly pulling his head out of his butt which is refreshing.

He saw me yesterday and seemed immediately agitated but then we actually chatted for a bit and I felt like the conversation was really productive.

He felt like I tortured him 12 months ago for not moving out of the country ( probably somewhat true ) .
He feels I'm not over it ( NOT true ). I've made a career move that " sticks " me to our current city anyway. He wasn't the only factor putting my expat dream on a "pause" for now.
I feel like maybe there is at least some forgiveness in progress.
I admitted I had a lot of thinking errors ( I felt at times that the only solution was to get to a cheaper country ).
Now I see other solutions .... a more efficient hustle in our current city ..... real estate oppurtunities in our city ect.

WendiStarr
10-01-2018, 09:16 AM
I am so glad that I finally found the Halloween costume that my daughter wanted. I'd been to countless stores but they were all out of stock in her size until today. What a relief! She'll be a happy birthday girl this weekend.

Glamourmilf
10-01-2018, 09:25 AM
I'm soooo elated that yesterday was the FIRST day that I was able to be outside since April 28th!
The temps dropped to 90, and I called a friend to have lunch outside.
The breeze was blowing, a storm was rolling in. Everything was perfect.
I never realized how much I took for granted being able to go out, or even open a window.
All those years living in LA had me spoiled.
Me, the nature girl, cooped inside for 5 straight months.
Yeah, not for me.

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-01-2018, 11:28 AM
I'm calling BS on Jenna Jameson's "keto weight loss." IMO it's partly keto diet but mostly lipo, new implants and maybe a touch of Photoshop.

My guess is she got some contracts to promote Keto diet products (a la Anna Nicole Smith) and keeps talking about keto b/c of that.

However in her world it's not a big deal to top off weight loss with cosmetic surgery. (For un-retouched massive weight loss documentation you can look on reddit or Body Building dot com)

Ifyouseekamy
10-01-2018, 03:08 PM
[QUOTE=SnuffleUffleGrass;3081912]I'm calling BS on Jenna Jameson's "keto weight loss." IMO it's partly keto diet but mostly lipo, new implants and maybe a touch of Photoshop.

My guess is she got some contracts to promote Keto diet products (a la Anna Nicole Smith) and keeps taking about keto b/c of that.

However in her world it's not a big deal to top off weight loss with cosmetic surgery. (For un-retouched massive weight loss documentation you can look on reddit or Body Building dot com)[/QUOTE

I hate seeing people use diet fads. Diets don’t work. Everyone’s body has different nutritional needs and responds differently. I’m not mad at her for her getting her hustle on though...lol.

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-01-2018, 03:17 PM
Ughhh ladies I just committed a horrible accident faux pas (mis step.)

I sent a sensitive text to someone who wasn't supposed to see it (my phone #s on my phone are not labeled by name & I mixed up two numbers.)

F**********!!!!!!! I hate myself right now. I am actually nauseated with shock. I really messed up.

(It had to do with a death, it wasn't sexual or rude. Just insensitive.)

Pro-tip= call directly when people die or divorce/plan a funeral.



F ***!!! ughghghghgh

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-01-2018, 04:38 PM
)[/QUOTE

I hate seeing people use diet fads. Diets don’t work. Everyone’s body has different nutritional needs and responds differently. I’m not mad at her for her getting her hustle on though...lol.[/QUOTE]

Jenna is a very hard core personality. I'm 100% sure she doesn't care what people think of her. I just had to say my bit b/c her twitter pics look too perfect. I see a lot of workout/bodybuilding photos so hers just look...TOO perfect. Well....she is Jenna, not a MLM selling mommy living in a tract home.

I also hate saying this but the porn industry is so fucked up right now that if she chose to be in it again (on the business side) it might be a great thing.

JGB2009
10-01-2018, 04:46 PM
Hours of sex......don't I wish!!!!!!!!!

Elektra Luxx
10-02-2018, 12:55 AM
My feet and ankles are sore and aching. I was on my feet all day today. I meant to take a short nap after work to elevate my feet. I just woke up because I had to pee and my feet and ankles still hurt. I must have really been tired because I didn't remember falling asleep or bf getting in bed.

JGB2009
10-02-2018, 05:41 AM
I saw Mr cute guy again taking his daughter to class. I seen him looking at me in the corner of my eye. LOL I pretended I did not see him. I ended walking behind him just checking him out.

Ifyouseekamy
10-02-2018, 05:56 AM
We are disposable to society so do whatever you gotta do to take care of yourself. If that includes a bunch of Photoshopping and plastic surgery to sell a supplement - go for it!

Lol...I just know getting a perfect body is hard work and there’s no quick fix or magic diet. Some pros use supplements, but unless you are a pro it’s throwing money away- in my opinion.

Fitness is one of my special interests, so thanks for letting me get on a soap box.

JGB2009
10-02-2018, 07:22 AM
Day time camming is so damn slow for me!!!!! Almost not worth logging in!!!!

WendiStarr
10-02-2018, 11:42 AM
I want to see Bad Times at El Royale. I've seen the trailer for it so many times and it looks good. I hope movie buddy goes to see it with me.

JessaJade
10-02-2018, 12:20 PM
^Oh I can't wait to see that! It looks really good

Elektra Luxx
10-02-2018, 12:43 PM
I was listening to an audiobook and it referred to something called marshmallow fluff and pairing it with peanutbutter in a sandwich. I've never heard of Marshmallow fluff before but now I can't stop thinking about it.

Aurora_Sunset
10-02-2018, 01:17 PM
I was listening to an audiobook and it referred to something called marshmallow fluff and pairing it with peanutbutter in a sandwich. I've never heard of Marshmallow fluff before but now I can't stop thinking about it.

*gasp* You've never had a PB and fluff sandwich!? Girrrrl... go get some from the store and LIVE lol

lilylilylily
10-02-2018, 01:36 PM
This chick that I have become on line friends with through a mutual FB group (we PM each other quite often, she tells me about her life and guy troubles, I tell her some things about me)at first I was happy to have someone cool to confide in but she is starting to sound like a lot of drama and is reminding me of my toxic ex friend in things she says..gonna stop messaging with her as often or not at all

Elektra Luxx
10-02-2018, 01:57 PM
*gasp* You've never had a PB and fluff sandwich!? Girrrrl... go get some from the store and LIVE lol

I've lived a sheltered life. Jk

I'm going to the store tonight.

Nyla19
10-02-2018, 03:30 PM
I was listening to an audiobook and it referred to something called marshmallow fluff and pairing it with peanutbutter in a sandwich. I've never heard of Marshmallow fluff before but now I can't stop thinking about it.

It's the bomb! But if you're not into really sweet things then you might not like it. And Fluff is full of artificial stuff. But it's good!

carmen_b
10-02-2018, 03:43 PM
Newly single means YES to it all.
Yes, to Mural Tour in my neighboorhood ( fun and some cool artists to meet ).
Yes to the dining event in town.
Yes to the FIRST online person to ask if I'll meet ( really ! ..... if they are not ugly I'll meet , ha ) !
^ Update, it's on for this Thursday! Beyond not being ugly, he is also a fellow business owner ( could be good and bad ), attractive, decisive , busy ( at least from what I've gathered so far ).

carmen_b
10-02-2018, 03:45 PM
It was hard to say no to all the attractive fire fighters who messaged me online but I want someone actually IN the area with a somewhat normal schedule. We will see if my self control about that lasts .

WendiStarr
10-02-2018, 05:51 PM
^ Oh, Lord almighty! There sure are some attractive firefighters out there. They're also bat shit insane, most of them lol. Also, they have a habit of lying about their marital status, saying that they're single when they're married. They work crazy hours too. Believe me, I was a hose bunny for several years.

carmen_b
10-02-2018, 10:55 PM
^ YES !!! Right ? ! ? OMG.

For example, I WILL NOT date pilots. Will not 1000 times over.
( sorry to any nice pilots if they are any )

I got messages from 8-10 fire men and I don't know what to do with them. I mean , I can safely assume they are not fighting fire in the downtown urban city area I live in right since its said " wild land fire fighter " on all the profiles ? So what will they do with me ? Haha. Do they expect me to meet them mid way ? I just have not replied to any.

I did date one in Wyoming ( fire fighter ) and he was pretty sexy. It ended on a " meh " note though.

carmen_b
10-02-2018, 11:23 PM
OK, finally MET one of the matches in person !! WHY did I choose to do my first online date with the hottest prospect ?

I was SO nervous. But then again ..... he didn't send creepy notes .... actually WAS willing to get together .

I included my number after a new notes and said we should meet for a beer.

I should have looked at it more like dancing auditions. Should have started at a dive bar instead of going into the fanciest club .
Gorgeous 6'4'' hottie . Of course he is better looking than the pictures and smells amazing. I was immediately nervous. I loved that he remembered I was very anti - smoking from my ad ( the smallest puff of cigarette smell came over and he made sure I was ok to still sit outside ). I hugged him a couple times but should have touched him more. It was raining and he drove his car to the door and drove me a block to my car. ;)

I only searched 6'3 - 6' 8" and pored through the pictures for my exact looks preferences and was thrilled to find him but I hope my nerves didn't shoot it all to hell. A retired stripper with the only " black sheep " he says from his super mormon family. What could go wrong ? Haha.

WendiStarr
10-03-2018, 06:37 AM
I'm going to totally be an old lady and go to Joann Fabric in a few. I seen that they have edible pumpkin cupcake toppers and I want to make my own door wreath. I'm not going to put it on the outside of my front door though. I fear that trustfundian neighbor or the nosy neighbor across the hall would destroy it or steal it. I'm going to hang it inside my apartment.

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-03-2018, 07:21 AM
I was listening to an audiobook and it referred to something called marshmallow fluff and pairing it with peanutbutter in a sandwich. I've never heard of Marshmallow fluff before but now I can't stop thinking about it.

OMG I used to do this when I still lived at my mom's. It's popular for kids. Not really good for you though.

Glamourmilf
10-03-2018, 07:33 AM
I was listening to an audiobook and it referred to something called marshmallow fluff and pairing it with peanutbutter in a sandwich. I've never heard of Marshmallow fluff before but now I can't stop thinking about it.

Brings back great memories. :hungry:
My Mom, aunt's, and cousins all made it for me when I was a kid.
Wonder if it was a New England, east coast thing.

WendiStarr
10-03-2018, 10:54 AM
I need to practice more self-control when shopping at craft stores. I went there for 2 things and ended up buying stuff to make more headbands, a pop art ring making kit for my daughter, and Halloween crafts. Maybe I should reapply there as a vanilla job, that way I could get a discount on my art and craft supplies. I'm always making something.

Elektra Luxx
10-03-2018, 11:37 AM
I was listening to an audiobook and it referred to something called marshmallow fluff and pairing it with peanutbutter in a sandwich. I've never heard of Marshmallow fluff before but now I can't stop thinking about it.


*gasp* You've never had a PB and fluff sandwich!? Girrrrl... go get some from the store and LIVE lol


It's the bomb! But if you're not into really sweet things then you might not like it. And Fluff is full of artificial stuff. But it's good!


OMG I used to do this when I still lived at my mom's. It's popular for kids. Not really good for you though.


Brings back great memories. :hungry:
My Mom, aunt's, and cousins all made it for me when I was a kid.
Wonder if it was a New England, east coast thing.

I'm from South Texas and I've never heard of it before. The character in the audiobook I was listening to was from Maine. I went to the store last night to try it. It's was sooo good.

JGB2009
10-03-2018, 02:02 PM
Whatever u did to gain my attention.....does not mean stop once you get me!!!! Bad moves you are making there!!!

wish
10-03-2018, 04:26 PM
I'm from South Texas and I've never heard of it before. The character in the audiobook I was listening to was from Maine. I went to the store last night to try it. It's was sooo good.

Use it to make s’mores!!

WendiStarr
10-04-2018, 05:22 AM
I think I'm going to travel to Chicago next month.

WendiStarr
10-04-2018, 12:22 PM
^ Ugh, he sounds wishy washy and like he might be up to a shady deal. Don't give him any $ until you're moved in. If he demands $ before he goes overseas, he probably intends on scamming you out of $ and since he'll be overseas, nobody will be able to do crap about it. Been there before.

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-04-2018, 01:24 PM
My dog lives the life of a king. Also- bake cookies tonight.

carmen_b
10-04-2018, 04:25 PM
Would you guys forgive an ex who contacted a former flame though FB when it was FIRM boundary as a couple to not talk to exes at all ?

Blech, I just hate this . She contacted him to say she was sorry for leaving 12 years ago . Where was the sorry when she was happily married ? Ugh, people are terrible sometimes.

WendiStarr
10-04-2018, 06:24 PM
It was cold so movie buddy made me wear his jacket. Now I smell like him. I hope he remembers to take the pack of condoms out of the right pocket in case his wife happens to go through his pocket and finds them or hugs him. It's pretty obvious by the sound and feel that it's condoms. Why the hell am I even thinking about this? It's not my problem. I am so going to have to go on a diet after pms week is over. I've been eating so much junk. Luckily I tend to get nauseous and have no appetite during shark week so maybe that will help redeem my pms food binges?