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WendiStarr
10-11-2018, 10:01 AM
I need to find a hair product that works to prevent my hair from getting wavy again at the slightest hint of humidity after I spent almost an hour straightening it. It's pop up cold rain shower season where I live.
yaya_cash
10-11-2018, 10:27 AM
Entertaining today takes so much from you. I have to make the time, effort to look presentable. Deal with misbehaved customers and a degrading corporation and greedy, disrespectful management. And it takes so much energy to get customers to buy. I used to just get asked to do a dance or VIP when I didn't invest so much in my looks and started. Now it's so much a hassle I'd rather find another part time job, finish furthering my studies without being in such an environment.
And how is the escort market if the beautiful, good-looking young women don't dance anymore? The beautiful, good-looking women find themselves being escorts, or "sugar babies" right?
NitaBaby
10-11-2018, 12:28 PM
I wasn't designed for the broke life. I have to do something different.
JGB2009
10-11-2018, 04:23 PM
I'm really nervous about my neighbors health. He has been very sick and in a lot of pain. He wont know what's wrong with him until next week. Long wait until then....
random stripper
10-11-2018, 05:02 PM
I think I'm seeing why there's (mostly) a bunch of busted uglies working where I am at now. There is money here, but the amount of shit these girls do is just cheapening the industry. I am not willing to put up with the average clientele here so I don't hustle the whole room like I used to. Most of these guys are one of these things or any combination of: grabby, nasty, cheap, ghetto, white trash. So basically I am stuck waiting for the rare good customer to come in. I am at wits end and seriously considering an air dance club an hour away that I heard is no real money just because I need a change.
yaya_cash
10-11-2018, 05:34 PM
I like when a daddy shows me he ain't shit - I just spend more of his money and get smarter, more motivated with my life and MY wants.
Okay, I probably went overboard with spending. Don't get too greedy. Manage the spending for long-term pursuits. I got his attention, though. And he's acting better. He might ve been gone if we had more conditions or not ENOUGH love for me. So be careful. Take care of yourself. And think of the future--
Random af! My father text me saying my birthday present is on the way. I haven’t heard from him since Valentine’s Day.
Glamourmilf
10-12-2018, 07:11 AM
^ ( shudders at memories of many roommates who didn’t have a life and were home too much )
Ikr?
I think of all the bad things I've experienced in my life, this one haunts me the most.
It's when I lost hope for humans.
They were all so incredibly mean to me.
All I wanted to do was be alone to work, eat, and sleep in peace.
It never happened.
Each morning when I get up, I swear I cry tears of joy to once again have my own space.
NEVER again!
yaya_cash
10-12-2018, 12:21 PM
Why do some females look so dirty, like they're poor? Bad hygiene? Not enough money to invest in beauty products? Is the water they're bathing with different or toxic? Is the environment they're living in just dirty, that it effects exposure to their skin and hair? Why do these females skin look bad being at a young age?
It's weird to notice this and being exposed to different type of people. You usually can tell who had a poor upbringing or is poor. Or they're just been neglecting or not taking care of themselves. We know there are wealthy or well-to-do people who can care less about their teeth and have bad breathe. There's those that smell, wear rags or drive a beaten car and live in pretty high property values too who grew up wealthy or well-to-do, however, frugal with spending.
Although it's difficult to pass on that frugality when you give your child their own credit card and don't place a limit on it or don't teach your children to manage money well. So you're teaching your child money is abundant.
WendiStarr
10-12-2018, 01:20 PM
One of my friends said he's going out of town and asked me if I'd be willing to feed his fish. I said no problem because I like animals. He dropped off a key to his place and said he has fish food so no worries about that. I went there and he has this huge fish tank with a big speckled pleco in it. I was expecting a fish tank full of multiple little fish. I didn't know people kept plecos alone as pets. It cracked me up. Big vacuum-like mouth creature of the fish world. My mood has been shit today but I couldn't help but laugh when I looked at this fish.
baer45
10-12-2018, 05:33 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQbHdPKNGQg
This made me laugh.
JGB2009
10-12-2018, 06:20 PM
Says video is unavailable......
carmen_b
10-12-2018, 06:38 PM
I have two ! They are the coolest fish. If you give it one little pellet, it will last like three days.
They are so cool. Do you know that the dad fish cleans this area and presents it to the female ? Then HE is this serious protector of the babies ( always is on top of them hiding them plus he fans them almost non-stop ). It is so adorable. Mine are mates and I'm so entertained by them.
One of my friends said he's going out of town and asked me if I'd be willing to feed his fish. I said no problem because I like animals. He dropped off a key to his place and said he has fish food so no worries about that. I went there and he has this huge fish tank with a big speckled pleco in it. I was expecting a fish tank full of multiple little fish. I didn't know people kept plecos alone as pets. It cracked me up. Big vacuum-like mouth creature of the fish world. My mood has been shit today but I couldn't help but laugh when I looked at this fish.
baer45
10-12-2018, 06:51 PM
Says video is unavailable......
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEr55381WIqO1w_IzgcI5DQ/videos
OMG, I can't stop watching his videos. So funny!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZN9RaGnunwk
carmen_b
10-12-2018, 07:04 PM
Aw. Sometimes people really PULL through for you. I messaged some friends and just said that I was single again and looking for outings and people have been SO kind and inviting me to things !
I was just here with NO plans 30 minutes ago and now I've got beer and skee ball to look forward to!
yaya_cash
10-12-2018, 09:26 PM
So glad I tried this lactic acid peel. The lacitic acid is getting rid of dark spots, peeling off layered, dry skin and revealing brighter, smoother skin that makes my lips plump too. I might not need injections to plump my lips up. We'll see. I will give this skin regiment a month or two more to see better results.
WARNING: Subjected to burn and may cause scabbing.
yaya_cash
10-13-2018, 05:48 AM
Im feeling extremely lonely & depressed today., im just trying to figure whats the point of life, i just had the thought of why was my mom so selfish to bring me into this cruel world.
I dont have a significant other, im career less, super overweight, and living paycheck to paycheck. I want to come home to someone so bad im sick of being alone. I have no clue how to date, besides who would want me. These are the thoughts im having.
Why not start living the life you want? Exercise and eat a healthy diet, start meeting people with apps, event functions or volunteer. Start looking into jobs that can lead to a career, inquire, prepare and apply to. You need to start living a quality life then quality suitors will follow. Invest (your money) in things that will improve you, help you live a better life and make you happy. You can start small, then build up. :)
JGB2009
10-13-2018, 07:47 AM
Maybe a little time away from you will do me well...…..
Glamourmilf
10-13-2018, 08:20 AM
I've been thinking a lot about customer service lately. How I tend to base my purchases on if the salesperson was kind and helpful to me.
Does anyone else do this?
I mean, I go clear across town to buy the same thing sold down the street, because I like the way I was treated there.
Being in customer service my entire life, it just seems reasonable.
And tipping. Don't get me started. I overtip if someone is nice, and goes the extra mile. It's my way of saying that I appreciate them, and to please keep on doing a great job.
whirlerz
10-13-2018, 08:59 AM
I've been thinking a lot about customer service lately. How I tend to base my purchases on if the salesperson was kind and helpful to me.
Does anyone else do this?
I mean, I go clear across town to buy the same thing sold down the street, because I like the way I was treated there.
Being in customer service my entire life, it just seems reasonable.
And tipping. Don't get me started. I overtip if someone is nice, and goes the extra mile. It's my way of saying that I appreciate them, and to please keep on doing a great job.
YES! This's so important! I just went in a new salon, I made an appointment for tomorrow.
They actually took the time to look @ my hair right then & there, made a suggestion for an additional service I might get , but weren't
[email protected] all..
I spent 10+ minute yesterday just booking a damn phone appointment, (@ my regular place) cause receptionist didn't know wtf she was doing, & booked me w/wrong stylist. Canceling that
But yeah to me CS is very important, if you don't care how you talk/treat someone, how u gonna care to do a decent job?
WendiStarr
10-13-2018, 01:21 PM
The place that Mr. Dilf is trying to get me a job at just called me. I didn't answer because I hate when places call me on weekends. I never answer my phone unless it's an emergency or NF pso call. I'll call them back on Monday after my photo shoot. Part of me doesn't even want to bother setting up an interview for a vanilla job. I've already worked and quit 3 vanilla jobs this year. The other part of me says maybe I should at least try and if I don't get the job, give up on vanilla jobs for a while and go back to sw full-time.
Glamourmilf
10-13-2018, 02:39 PM
The place that Mr. Dilf is trying to get me a job at just called me. I didn't answer because I hate when places call me on weekends. I never answer my phone unless it's an emergency or NF pso call. I'll call them back on Monday after my photo shoot. Part of me doesn't even want to bother setting up an interview for a vanilla job. I've already worked and quit 3 vanilla jobs this year. The other part of me says maybe I should at least try and if I don't get the job, give up on vanilla jobs for a while and go back to sw full-time.
I hear ya.
I don't even like vanilla ice cream.
yaya_cash
10-13-2018, 03:25 PM
I've been thinking a lot about customer service lately. How I tend to base my purchases on if the salesperson was kind and helpful to me.
Does anyone else do this?
I mean, I go clear across town to buy the same thing sold down the street, because I like the way I was treated there.
Being in customer service my entire life, it just seems reasonable.
And tipping. Don't get me started. I overtip if someone is nice, and goes the extra mile. It's my way of saying that I appreciate them, and to please keep on doing a great job.
I used to feel compiled to buy from the person or feel guilty because they were sweet, helpful while encountering me. I've gained enough self-control to determine I don't need the product and it would be a waste, though.
If there is a product or service where you'd be treated better why not travel. We don't wanna feel uncomfortable or ripped by a service or product you're paying for.
But some people don't care about customer service because the product is a cheap, steal.
carmen_b
10-13-2018, 04:28 PM
+ 100000% for good / friendly customer service and staff.
I drive to favorite banks / dining places ect. And will go out of my way for awesome staff because the experiences are so worth it.
yaya_cash
10-13-2018, 06:44 PM
How do you deal with a person whose constantly lying to you, and becomes unbearable because theyre decreasing value in your life? Cut them off too? Stop giving them as much attention with theyre less support?
carmen_b
10-13-2018, 06:53 PM
^ Yeah. First just downgrade your contact ( it may be shocking to them especially if they are " off " to have no contact ). Then, just do the fade game ( very slow to answer their texts or calls , can't get together because you are too busy etc ).
You don't have to allow drama and nonsense. If they are important somehow ( like they used to be normal and you enjoyed them ) still give them a little time but also point to help like counseling ect.
Elektra Luxx
10-13-2018, 09:13 PM
I met my younger sisters new guy and he is cute and I haven't seen her this happy in long time. I'm so happy for her.
yaya_cash
10-14-2018, 08:08 AM
Haven't really been messaging a lot or responding quickly to their messages or calls until lately. They we'ren't responding readily to me before until now , too. There's a contractual agreement for them to pay for residential property and its bills. However, they canceled my allowance and they seem to think I'll just be ok being with they're lying, cheating self for the heck of it and accept it. They've just gotten mean to me after time. And I've gotten mean, because they are. So how should this work? It's kind of hard to define the relation/ship we have.
S
And if he asks for me to come over to be with him, and weren't not having sex - they're having sex with other chicks. And they will ask every week , for intimacy, cuddling, and watching a movie and dinner. Just say I will when you return my support?
I think I'm slipping back in to depression
yaya_cash
10-14-2018, 08:10 AM
I think I'm slipping back in to depression
We to consider in house therapy or should i ask my parents to spend time with them. I've isolated myself so much. It's sucks.
yaya_cash
10-14-2018, 08:14 AM
We to consider in house therapy or should i ask my parents to spend time with them. I've isolated myself so much. It's sucks.
Okay, I'm going to back to sleep, probably.
carmen_b
10-14-2018, 01:42 PM
^ DO BOTH. I had bad depression issues this year and relied a lot on family ( after a break up , they didn't know I was already depressed before that ) AND I do counseling weekly.
AND exercise / self care ( scheduled massages ).
I recommend to do it ALL but sometimes you REALLY have to fight hard to get out of feeling bad.
Keep fighting for yourself and you'll start feeling better , I promise.
queenelayliah
10-14-2018, 02:06 PM
So like im soooooooo fucking confused and stressed. I ised to do daily pay with niteflirt but i switch to weekly by just pausing payout and paying myself well weekly. Now I join the $500+ challenge thread so i changed my work week from tuesday to monday. So always Paying myself out on that tuesday however this is fucking with my brain. Aince niteflirt is soooo damn slow with their deposits lately it can take up to 10 days to get my shit. So say I request payout on oct. 2 i wont get it until oct 12th and my last "payout being oct 30th i wont get until nov. 9th. So now im worried about being $500!! short on my bills.
I just feel so confused should i switch back to daily pay?? Its really fucking with my brain to not have all the money i make in october PAID in october. I mean technically a vanilla job i would always be two weeks behind in pay because of the pay cycle. If i stay weekly ill only be a week behind plus by november it will even out and ill receive 4 payments in november.
What do you guys think daily pay or weekly pay?
yaya_cash
10-14-2018, 02:35 PM
^ DO BOTH. I had bad depression issues this year and relied a lot on family ( after a break up , they didn't know I was already depressed before that ) AND I do counseling weekly.
AND exercise / self care ( scheduled massages ).
I recommend to do it ALL but sometimes you REALLY have to fight hard to get out of feeling bad.
Keep fighting for yourself and you'll start feeling better , I promise.
Thank you for your response, Carmen!
Working in the clubs isn't so good for me, now. I barely make friends there. And the environment isn't right for me. Being there isolates me even more. I have to wait to see my family during Thanksgiving. I feel like I should be focusing on a new work environment. I've started doing a job search. And I know there is a need to be around people. So working from home isn't going to help being depressed And already isolated. Hopefully, I will find something new this week.
I can't barely being by myself during this time. So dude will do, if he can at least be nice and supportive. And we'll work on the stuff mentioned earlier.
WendiStarr
10-15-2018, 03:15 PM
I find it funny how Mr. Dilf gets jealous of me being around other guys when he has a wife. I told him that I had a photo shoot today(that photographer ended up getting back to me and I went to the photo shoot in the morning). Mr. Dilf wanted me to check in with him when I got there to the photo shoot and when I left. Once things seemed safe I put my phone down on the table and didn't bother checking it. He blew up my phone, worrying. Once the shoot was over I let him know and once I was home, he was asking me if I had sex with the photographer. Um, no. Actually the dude was chill, nice, and had a gay vibe(physical appearance, feminine voice, gay fashion sense) so it was cool. I thought for sure he'd be over my place but his wife was around so he couldn't get out and I didn't have much time until my daughter got home from school anyways. I really hope I get at least a few good photos out of the shoot.
SimoneGray
10-15-2018, 05:18 PM
I find it funny how Mr. Dilf gets jealous of me being around other guys when he has a wife.
Married men are the most jealous types you'll ever encounter. It's just them projecting their guilt and feelings over what they're doing on to you.
The amount of time I've had married cam customers who were regulars bordering on SD type situations, tell me that if I ever met someone it would be over is hilarious. Like, dude, you have a wife and kids, as if I'm ever going to want more from you than just your money and gifts and conversation.
Glamourmilf
10-16-2018, 07:13 AM
I'm definitely seeing the difference between Alpha, and Beta men.
Guy number 1, messages me on FetLife that he's interested in serving me ( orally, etc). I tell him I'm busy, and will get back to him when I'm ready. He gently says he'll wait patiently. Beta, for sure.:)
Guy number 2, ( who's avatar is of his dick), and who's profile states clearly that he loves his dick sucked. Messages me that he's interested.
I responded back that I don't suck dick.
His response: "Well then. Meet me at the mall and walk by me so that I can smack that ass."::)
Alpha. Definitely Alpha.
Boy, bye.:wave:
WendiStarr
10-16-2018, 07:32 AM
I'm procrastinating getting anything done. It's so cold today! It hasn't been this cold since April. I don't know how I'm going to survive winter. I may take a working trip to somewhere warm.
carmen_b
10-16-2018, 09:13 AM
^ I'm thinking too about winter survival already ( it's only been cold in my area about 9-10 days ).
JGB2009
10-16-2018, 10:45 AM
I just want my problems to disappear!!!!
Winged Dinghy
10-16-2018, 12:26 PM
Haven't been in to the club in six weeks. I had chin lipo so I couldn't pole dance for awhile. Now I'm cleared to go in, but I'm nervous to go back. My last shift I made $20. I'm torn between going back to my old club and auditioning at a new one.
Going back after a break is HARD, whether that break is six weeks or six years!
carmen_b
10-16-2018, 03:02 PM
I’m torn !
Stay in town and have a life or strip trip ( I’m curvier so can’t work at all my old places ).
I’m just definitely feeling the itch again ....
NitaBaby
10-16-2018, 03:09 PM
I’ve seen 21 models showing pussy in free chat in the last 24 hours. Twenty-one of them. Now I see why some of these pigs actually ask for it without thinking twice. Wtf.
Ladycaxe
10-16-2018, 03:10 PM
bruh I be nervous after two weeks :p good luck. I sometimes need a couple shots b4 I call my Lyft lol.
Haven't been in to the club in six weeks. I had chin lipo so I couldn't pole dance for awhile. Now I'm cleared to go in, but I'm nervous to go back. My last shift I made $20. I'm torn between going back to my old club and auditioning at a new one.
Going back after a break is HARD, whether that break is six weeks or six years!
WendiStarr
10-16-2018, 05:14 PM
^ Oh my gosh. That's annoying and part of the reason I don't cam anymore. I can't deal with being on cam in free chat trying to entertain a bunch of freeloaders and dumb asses with the "show me pussy bb" , "show ass bb", "show tits bb" crap. Meanwhile there are other girls totally nude masturbating with toys in free chat. It makes me wonder if those girls make enough money to survive through some other way that they don't really care whether they make money or not, or are they just bored college students who don't really need the $ because mommy and daddy are paying for everything so they cam for a little extra cash, or are they barely scraping by, desperately hoping some cheap asshat will tip because they're showing their pussy in free chat(which never works). Either way they make things extremely difficult for other ladies who are not into showing the goodies for free.
chanzep
10-16-2018, 05:28 PM
I am actually enjoying the cooler weather here, it's like 60, I have this weird fascination with the time it gets dark this time of year I'm always checking as it gets earlier, it's weird, I started it as a child because i like the holidays and also my birthday is in a few weeks so it would excite me to know if was getting closer lol.
JGB2009
10-16-2018, 07:14 PM
I need some excitement!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yaya_cash
10-16-2018, 07:18 PM
I’m torn !
Stay in town and have a life or strip trip ( I’m curvier so can’t work at all my old places ).
I’m just definitely feeling the itch again ....
Try the strip trip if it's a good time. And try to indulge in life outside club when you return. You will at least know how it is by going on strip trip. And then you can decide if its worth coming back to.
JGB2009
10-16-2018, 10:42 PM
Please don't put me in a bad mood later on today!!!!!
Glamourmilf
10-17-2018, 07:00 AM
I am actually enjoying the cooler weather here, it's like 60, I have this weird fascination with the time it gets dark this time of year I'm always checking as it gets earlier, it's weird, I started it as a child because i like the holidays and also my birthday is in a few weeks so it would excite me to know if was getting closer lol.
Same here. I was out last night with a friend, and it was the FIRST time since early April that it was cold enough to wear a jacket. 74 degrees. Perfect.
Hallelujah! I like seeing the days getting shorter too.
If I could marry this perfect weather, I'd do it in a heartbeat.
Elektra Luxx
10-21-2018, 12:21 PM
Wow!!! I really missed you all here on SW! I wonder what happened?