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carmen_b
10-27-2018, 02:06 PM
I think it’s the “ live for the NOW “ thing that makes smoking sexy even if you hate the habit / smell ect.
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-27-2018, 02:29 PM
I think it’s the “ live for the NOW “ thing that makes smoking sexy even if you hate the habit / smell ect.
I used to smoke for a long time. It's enticing and exotic but yeah, does cause cancer.
& Nicotine is super addictive. My mom was a chain smoker and I noticed this from being around her secondhand smoke. Nicotine is better than booze, IMO.
AChildOfBoredom
10-27-2018, 08:41 PM
I think it’s the “ live for the NOW “ thing that makes smoking sexy even if you hate the habit / smell ect.
Yeah, I can see it. Especially in classic movies where the protagonist would always have a cigar in their mouth. It was always the cowboy, the General, whoever, and they were gonna kick some ass while puffing on a stogie.
carmen_b
10-27-2018, 08:55 PM
^ Exactly. There a suggestive vibe to it.
Who is going to fuck you better ? The cowboy with the cigarette living for THIS MOMENT or the conservative guy with no cigarette ?
Haha
AChildOfBoredom
10-28-2018, 12:00 AM
Provided the first isn’t stricken with emphysema at least.
This makes me think of a movie… I remember Jennifer Love Hewitt was in it, and it was something about scamming people by marrying them and then catching them in compromising positions to divorce them, and one of their marks was some sort of tobacco baron who dropped dead suddenly. Drawing a blank trying to remember the name or anything else about it.
Ifyouseekamy
10-28-2018, 06:53 AM
Provided the first isn’t stricken with emphysema at least.
This makes me think of a movie… I remember Jennifer Love Hewitt was in it, and it was something about scamming people by marrying them and then catching them in compromising positions to divorce them, and one of their marks was some sort of tobacco baron who dropped dead suddenly. Drawing a blank trying to remember the name or anything else about it.
I totally know which movie your talking about where the daughter has to get the husband to sleep with her. Love it!
In other news, I just ran out of fucks to give. Like, is this how it happens? I always remember my mature dancer friends being so cool and confident. You just wake up one morning and completely love and accept yourself?
JessaJade
10-28-2018, 07:22 AM
^I have around the same amount of fucks left...a very liberating feeling. I've saved a couple for a rainy day or for someone deserving, LOL.
The film is Heartbreakers BTW.
WendiStarr
10-28-2018, 08:42 AM
I love having Sunday morning tea parties with my daughter. I hope she never outgrows them.
AChildOfBoredom
10-28-2018, 08:46 AM
Reading about it on Wikipedia, it seems like the one. Sigourney Weaver was the other protagonist? Seems like a rather drastic departure from kicking the shit out of Geiger-inspired alien creatures.
I think the thing I appreciate after a long night of stripping is that everyone knows I'm not making breakfast the next morning, and they're thoughtful enough to take the initiative.
I love having Sunday morning tea parties with my daughter. I hope she never outgrows them.
I bet that's adorable!
JGB2009
10-28-2018, 09:00 AM
You just wait!!!!
JGB2009
10-28-2018, 09:07 AM
Last week I achieved my exercising goals but sadly did not reach my work goals. Hopefully this week I reach both!!!! Fingers and toes crossed!!!!
WendiStarr
10-28-2018, 03:38 PM
I bet that's adorable!
It is. She has liked having tea parties since she was 3, when I first let her try some of my tea after I had cooled it down. I don't know of any other kids who actually like tea. She seriously requested it instead of pop for her birthday party. Nobody drank it but the two of us.
AChildOfBoredom
10-28-2018, 05:25 PM
I don’t have kids, and I don’t know if I’d rather have a son or a daughter if I did. On the one hand, having a daughter would be nice, and we’d be able to enjoy girly things. On the other, if I had a son, once he became a teenager, I could interrupt those long showers by suddenly pounding on the door and yelling, “IF YOU DON’T STOP PLAYING WITH THAT THING, IT’S GONNA FALL OFF!”. Tough call.
Of course, if my older sister is in the area with her two, they always want to stop by and visit. Largely because I spoil them rotten. She’s already promised that, if I ever have my own, she’s going to deal that back to me threefold.
I bit my fucking tongue an hour ago and I still taste blood.
WendiStarr
10-29-2018, 07:40 AM
I hope that two of my regs show up today, like they said they would. I'll be pissed if I booked a room for nothing.
AChildOfBoredom
10-29-2018, 12:05 PM
As a child being raised Mennonite, I went to a secular public school. So when I was in Kindergarten and the very first years of elementary school, of course we had time we'd play board games and such. And one of the biggest tenets of any Anabptist faith is a strong stance against militarism. That's why, if you happen across the Amish, Mennonites, Hutterites, SBBs, et. al., you'll notice that the men will have beards, but no mustaches, because mustaches somehow equate militarism.
Our teachers were made aware of this, so they ensured we didn't play any of the games that were thought to be in defiance of this. And one of the games that a lot of the 'English' kids had a lot of fun playing was Battleship. So, when I tried to play, I was told that I wasn't allowed to play that game.
Of course, as an adult, I can't let it go. Two weekends ago, someone in the neighborhood was having a yard sale, and, lo and behold, there it was - not only was it Battleship, but it was the electronic talking one - and it still works! My inner child demanded I buy it, so of course I did. I set it up, and challenged all comers, as Admiral Me was read to conquer the seven seas.
Problem is, I've been getting my ass kicked left and right in this game. And it's not like I'm challenging master tacticians here.
carmen_b
10-29-2018, 01:08 PM
I'm going to turn this business trip ( all my off hours ) into a personal healing retreat.
It's a good time. I'm tired of neediness from men so I won't communicate with any for 4-5 days.
I have access to a nicer home than mine for the trip to fully relax in WITH a tub so I plan to bring salts and do at least two healing baths per day. I've got a body work session scheduled today in an hour ( YEEESSSS !!! ) and I'll probably arrange one in about 4 days to enhance the healing energy of this trip.
I might splurge and go the " fancy " spa in this area for that 2nd session but I'll have to wait and see if there is a chunk of time to use the amenities or if I'll just do a more affordable session at a different place. Bring on the healing time! I'm having Anger issues again and I figure this is a start.
WendiStarr
10-29-2018, 02:06 PM
I wish you were waking up beside me too, more than you know..
queenelayliah
10-29-2018, 10:35 PM
Lonely, bored and wondering is this all to life?
WendiStarr
10-30-2018, 06:59 AM
"Khakis" instead of car keys and "hailaween" instead of Halloween gets me every time. I love accents!
AChildOfBoredom
10-30-2018, 12:33 PM
"Khakis" instead of car keys and "hailaween" instead of Halloween gets me every time. I love accents!
You’d love it here, then. Two of us from a Mennonite home in rural Wiscahsahn, one woman here on a work visa from Ireland renting a room from us, one with the New England accent you describe, and two Southerners - one from western NC, and one from a rural part of Alabama. And when when she’s in any way peppy or excitable, it is absolutely impossible to have a conversation with her, and it’s been more than once I’ve had to tell her, “Sweety, you really need to settle down and use your words, because you’re making my fucking head spin here”.
Aurora_Sunset
10-30-2018, 01:30 PM
Watched some asshole tear through a VERY red light last night and then immediately beef the fuck out of the curb on the other side of the intersection. Passed him pulled over into the nearest parking lot after the light turned green, and he had blown both his passenger side tires.
Serves his impatient ass right.
JGB2009
10-30-2018, 04:28 PM
I think I am finally getting my cat trained to stay out of sight when I am on cam.
AChildOfBoredom
10-30-2018, 05:33 PM
Every one of you should feel fortunate you’re not me tonight.
baer45
10-30-2018, 09:20 PM
I had a blast tonight. I went dancing. Salsa, bachata, and everyone dressed up in costumes. Some pretty good dancers too.
AChildOfBoredom
10-31-2018, 11:18 AM
Newborn horses are ridiculously adorable. Almost makes up for how the birthing process is anything but.
And it’s Halloween! Just a few more hours before we’re mobbed with throngs of sugar addled children wearing masks to conceal their identities! I love it!
https://youtu.be/5fZpH2QsUhE
lynn2009
10-31-2018, 06:50 PM
Oh fuck. I usually have fb deleted but I brought it back recently to follow the local elections and Derek's mom added me.
His mom fb messaged me to ask how I'm doing. I answered, then she never replied. I think it's because they are die hard Trump fans and I have been re-posting so much from my local progressive candidate. I love her anyway, but if her posts keep Derek's shitty family away from me, total icing on the cake.
By the way, the congressional race in this super R district is officially a toss up!
AChildOfBoredom
11-01-2018, 02:49 PM
For Halloween, my sister thought it would be a great idea for all of us to dress up as specific characters, and everyone else agreed, so I wasn't going to be the Debbie Downer who said no, even though I didn't want the specific characters she had in mind, namely because I had to deconstruct my French braid in order to do it. There are two people I trust to do my hair, and both of them are away at the moment. So I was feeling kinda pissy about it. I called my ex-roommate today to talk about when a good time for my trip to Denver would be, and I kinda off on a tangent about undoing my hair and she'd better appreciate that, etc. So he says to me, "Little Squeaks, pipe the fuck down" (his nickname for me has always been "Squeaky"). And I don't remember word for word what it said next, but it was basically that I wasn't looking at the big picture, and that maybe undoing my hair wasn't such a big deal to my sister, but that I was there and willing to do the various little things for her means the world to her.... the way he said it made it sound so much better... that silly bumpkin can be surprisingly eloquent when he wants to be.
Anyhow, we had a hell of a lot more kids this year than we did last year. Last year, we had quite a bit of candy left over. This year, we ran out, but it happened like right about the time you'd reasonably say, "Okay, it's getting late. We shouldn't see any more trick-or-treaters at this point". But damn, that was close.
WendiStarr
11-01-2018, 06:31 PM
I had class with Mr. Dilf. He hasn't had time lately to be my teacher so I've been studying on my own. It was kind of hard to take him seriously today when he was standing there butt naked while teaching me about IT stuff. Also, I want pizza really bad right now but it's 9:31pm and that's a bit too late to be ordering or going out and getting a pizza.
yaya_cash
11-01-2018, 09:15 PM
Okay. I'm done with dating apps and Sugar sites after guys wasting my time and speaking to this mid-age guy who claims to be a millionaire doctor and generous. Then says he wants a $300 per meet for his "sugar baby", spending hours in his bed. Gross. Cheap. Definitely not generous or spoiling. Going to stick to club, try speed dating, matchmaking. And maybe escort. I need to find a worthy suitor to spend time with and sex. I haven't found someone to engage in sex. And I want to find someone to do things with.
WendiStarr
11-02-2018, 05:49 AM
I'm supposed to be meeting with a photographer today at a coffee shop. I'm supposed to be working with him next week but I've never worked with him before and he wants to do nudes as well as fashion. I don't like to do nude shoots with photographers I haven't worked with before, too many creeps/boundary pushers even the ones that are known in the area. I'm hoping that he isn't a creep.
WendiStarr
11-02-2018, 09:38 AM
Does anyone know where I can get this dress that isn't going to take 3-4 weeks to come in the mail from China? I really want this dress for a photo shoot.50552
Ps. Sorry I'm clogging the random thoughts thread with my nonsense today.
AChildOfBoredom
11-02-2018, 03:19 PM
Since neither of the people who normally do my hair are available, I took a look at a place I've never been to before... and immediately wondered how in the fuck they thought what they had in their display photos was anything to be proud of? Sloppiest French braids I've ever see from anyone who charges for it. Fuck it... pigtails, it is.
yaya_cash
11-03-2018, 12:03 AM
I sort of feel like being very attractive or physically beautiful doesn't benefit me. I have to work very hard, and use my smarts. And my beauty just brings stares, which I find annoying. I don't see beauty making life much easier for me.
Ifyouseekamy
11-03-2018, 04:13 AM
I sort of feel like being very attractive or physically beautiful doesn't benefit me. I have to work very hard, and use my smarts. And my beauty just brings stares, which I find annoying. I don't see beauty making life much easier for me.
I read an article in psychology today about how beauty can make life harder.
I originally came her to share that I love Stormy Daniels. When the host of a popular talk show asked her what her real name is. She said, “Did you really just ask me that? The only people who call me by my real name is my mom and the IRS, and I hate them both”. She has the best comebacks.
Glamourmilf
11-03-2018, 08:39 AM
Does anyone know where I can get this dress that isn't going to take 3-4 weeks to come in the mail from China? I really want this dress for a photo shoot.50552
Ps. Sorry I'm clogging the random thoughts thread with my nonsense today.
eBay or Amazon. American sellers only.
I just ordered a dress from both, and they each arrived less than a week later. ( Even though they both told me to expect them in a few weeks.)
I'm so happy with both sites right now.
You might want to give them a look.
WendiStarr
11-03-2018, 09:08 AM
Today is going to be a long, long day. I've been up since 4am. Mr. Dilf came over early this morning to use my wifi for work and gave me another IT class. There wasn't much sexy time today.
carmen_b
11-03-2018, 03:31 PM
Dear Universe :
Send me a gentleman who is smart enough to call me after a trip like this and bring take out and cuddles to me.
Sexual rewards would be in the cards for this gentleman. I'm too tired to text anyone to hint at what I want ..... so work your magic.
haha
Glamourmilf
11-04-2018, 07:07 AM
Gay men really don't want to be friends with a woman.
*See my pissy rant.
I just read an article written by a gay man explaining why.
I'm thankful for him writing it.
Realization.
Wasted too much time, and energy on them, just because they're fun.
Nope. Not anymore.
JGB2009
11-04-2018, 09:09 AM
I always have someone calling my house phone from a different number. When I answer you can hear someone listening to me and you can hear them hang up. I wonder who keeps doing it but I always wonder if my daughters dad is behind it.
AChildOfBoredom
11-04-2018, 03:04 PM
So, this happened yesterday. Am I right to feel a little weirded out here, or am I overreacting? In almost five years, I’ve only ever had one phone call from club staff, and that was a manager who had a good reason to, so…
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JGB2009
11-05-2018, 03:04 AM
I woke up at 3:30 this morning cause I couldn't sleep. My mind just wouldn't shut off so I started cleaning instead.
Ladycaxe
11-05-2018, 04:47 AM
I've been eating mozzarella sticks everyday for the past week and I feel like theres a fucking brick sitting in my stomach at the moment :'/
Glamourmilf
11-05-2018, 05:26 AM
Almost forgot how fun it is to get dressed up, and to go out by myself.
Sooo glad that I took the day off to go to an outdoor art festival.
Almost forgot that people are drawn to me, and I'm always the life of the party.
Lots of attention from cute guys. Hot firemen were all over me.
Love it!!
Can't wait for my next adventure later on this morning.
AChildOfBoredom
11-05-2018, 05:59 AM
Have you ever wondered what the world must look like through someone else’s eyes, but then the more they say, the more you’re glad you don’t know? Yeah… I wouldn’t have ever thought ordering fast food would be the catalyst for a nihilistic rant. But the big yokel jackass proves me wrong again…
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carmen_b
11-05-2018, 09:04 AM
^! Wow
Condescending tone talking about the workers. :(
I won’t use those things either.
I won’t use self check outs at stores.
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-05-2018, 11:33 AM
I have to get my haircut but dread it. I'm going to look like Joan Jett with squirrel cheeks
carmen_b
11-05-2018, 12:02 PM
I'm so weird at the salon and my best friend is the same way. We enjoy it and the results but sometimes lose patience in the chair and have to work ourselves up into going.
JessaJade
11-05-2018, 12:56 PM
Have you ever wondered what the world must look like through someone else’s eyes, but then the more they say, the more you’re glad you don’t know? Yeah… I wouldn’t have ever thought ordering fast food would be the catalyst for a nihilistic rant. But the big yokel jackass proves me wrong again…
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Wow, this was cheery. I'm really depressed right now but somehow this has me LOLing. Something is very wrong with my brain, clearly.
AChildOfBoredom
11-05-2018, 02:30 PM
^! Wow
Condescending tone talking about the workers
A lot of it’s very tongue-in-cheek, though. You kinda have to know him and how his humor works.
Wow, this was cheery. I'm really depressed right now but somehow this has me LOLing. Something is very wrong with my brain, clearly.
That’s my ex-roommate. Yes, I used to live with that guy. My favorite were his ‘adopt a shelter pet’ campaigns, such as this one
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or this one in particular…
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So heartwarming.