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Elektra Luxx
11-19-2018, 07:46 AM
I had sex in a parking lot tonight. Ummmmm two other cars was doing the same. Most be the local hang out spot!!!

Wow!!! Very hot!

Elektra Luxx
11-19-2018, 08:04 AM
I was talking to someone who works in IT earlier. He said that I should just go ahead and apply for an entry level job in the IT field, even though I have no previous job experience. I am studying for CompTIA A+ and I don't think I should attempt getting an entry level job in the field yet because honestly I'm not confident at this point. I will be once I learn more. He seems to think that because I'm "hot" I'll get hired and nobody will have a problem helping me learn as I go. I doubt that that job works that way.

You should apply. Office IT work (which is what I do) is mostly OTJ training and so easy if you're comfortable working with computers. Believe me you'll do fine.

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-19-2018, 12:21 PM
……….Wat...…


https://fox13now.com/2018/11/17/polygamous-ninja-raven-blackwing-now-faces-rape-charges-for-alleged-abuse-committed-with-husband/?utm_source=fark&utm_medium=website&utm_content=link&ICID=ref_fark

Dude I can't even.....

AChildOfBoredom
11-19-2018, 01:04 PM
……….Wat...…


https://fox13now.com/2018/11/17/polygamous-ninja-raven-blackwing-now-faces-rape-charges-for-alleged-abuse-committed-with-husband/?utm_source=fark&utm_medium=website&utm_content=link&ICID=ref_fark

Dude I can't even.....

I’m not even sure what I’m supposed to be evening after reading this. That’s pretty fucked up. But I know someone in Florida is reading this and thinking, “Well, at least it wasn’t US this time”.

WendiStarr
11-19-2018, 05:28 PM
You should apply. Office IT work (which is what I do) is mostly OTJ training and so easy if you're comfortable working with computers. Believe me you'll do fine.

Thank you for your words of encouragement. I applied today to two different places nearby for an entry level IT position. Fingers crossed. xx

queenelayliah
11-19-2018, 06:38 PM
So I have been thinking about doing a career change from customer service to Human Resources. Im thinking abiut getting a masters in Human Resources. But I'm scared to apply because im scared I wont be able to get a job after I finish my studies.

queenelayliah
11-19-2018, 06:39 PM
Plus arent these the cutest Christmas rugs ever!!!

https://www.rosegal.com/carpets-rugs-432/?recommend=24862&lkid=512430&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIubPWj-fh3gIVUgStBh3OWQWOEAEYASAAEgJN6vD_BwE

kamiliam
11-19-2018, 06:58 PM
So I have been thinking about doing a career change from customer service to Human Resources. Im thinking abiut getting a masters in Human Resources. But I'm scared to apply because im scared I wont be able to get a job after I finish my studies.

I did HR for years, my degree wasn’t in HR but I do have a BA and experience. It really is luck of the draw with that job. Middle to large doing a specialty (where you don’t often need a degree) was a lot more profitable then being a manager at a small company. There you end up doing a lot of administrative bs that others should take care of. Being a HR manager with a large company takes time with a company or a lot of experience. That is where the money is at. It isn’t hard to get a job but most are less the ideal and should be used to work yourself up.

lynn2009
11-19-2018, 07:31 PM
So I have been thinking about doing a career change from customer service to Human Resources. Im thinking abiut getting a masters in Human Resources. But I'm scared to apply because im scared I wont be able to get a job after I finish my studies.

Start with one or two classes a semester. It will help on applications to say you are currently in graduate school, but you don't have to if it's too expensive. If you apply to HR jobs before graduating, which is normal and fine, PLEASE get your resume professionally reviewed. I get so many resumes are full of grammar mistakes, it is so common it's not even an automatic disqualifier anymore. Like Kamilin said, you will start off doing a lot of admin/secretary work. Stick it out though! It can pay off I've almost doubled my salary in 1.5 years.

yaya_cash
11-19-2018, 07:49 PM
I did HR for years, my degree wasn’t in HR but I do have a BA and experience. It really is luck of the draw with that job. Middle to large doing a specialty (where you don’t often need a degree) was a lot more profitable then being a manager at a small company. There you end up doing a lot of administrative bs that others should take care of. Being a HR manager with a large company takes time with a company or a lot of experience. That is where the money is at. It isn’t hard to get a job but most are less the ideal and should be used to work yourself up.

And don't you receive bonuses based upon productive of the new hires?

kamiliam
11-19-2018, 08:08 PM
And don't you receive bonuses based upon productive of the new hires?

At some places yes. If you are a straight recruiter then always.

charlie61
11-19-2018, 10:15 PM
I got my roller skates, tried them out a little… it’s a bit different from ice skating (which I’ve been doing for a long time), but I’m getting the hang of it. Yes, at 28, I strapped on a pair of roller skates for the very first time. And I intend to go from this to doing roller derby.

I've honestly thought about getting into roller blading... sounds like a great booty and leg workout, plus infinitely more entertaining than the elliptical.

JGB2009
11-19-2018, 10:46 PM
When we snuggle and you keep kissing my neck...…….I could snuggle with you 24/7.

AChildOfBoredom
11-19-2018, 11:48 PM
I've honestly thought about getting into roller blading... sounds like a great booty and leg workout, plus infinitely more entertaining than the elliptical.

The dynamics of rollerblades would certainly be closer to ice skates, which I am familiar with, and which would certainly work out those areas. Given a choice, I would’ve gone with those, but the sport I’m looking to get into requires regular roller skates, and they require traditional roller skates, which I find a bit limiting vs. a single track, but I’m getting adjusted.

I go to a lot of heavy metal and hardcore punk shows, and, in spite of being as tiny as I am, I’ll jump into the pit, and I can incredibly aggressive. Don’t get me wrong - I take a beating. But I keep going. So after one such show, these two women approached me and they were like, “We thought you were gonna get slaughtered in there. But if you can do that, we’d love to see what you can do in the rink”. So I thought they were talking about hockey, and dismissed it, but then they explained it to me and invited me to watch a match. And I loved it - it was women in a full contact sport, and not the elite athlete sorts - these were everyday people… full-time workers, parents, students, etc. Oh, absolutely I wanna be a part of that.

lynn2009
11-20-2018, 06:33 PM
I used soymilk to make oven macaroni and cheese for Thanksgiving, and it does taste kind of weird, but I'm not making that shit over again.

queenelayliah
11-20-2018, 11:52 PM
So like my SD wants me to come to Florida with him for the weekend and he says he will pay me $20,000!!!!! Then after he fucks me he will start taking care of me. Sigh this is my fucking dream but i cant go and its not because i dont trust him. He's always kept his word when it came to money. It's just im a fraud....

WendiStarr
11-21-2018, 06:33 AM
I haven't seen my dad in a long time. My grandma invited me to Thanksgiving and my dad will be there, along with his gf that I can't stand. My brother's controlling, jealous wife will be there too. I try to voluntary avoid being around by people who bring out the bitch in me, like my dad's gf and my brother's wife because I'm usually the sweet and (outwardly) calm/chill lady. They are both the loud, abrasive, in-your-face, controlling, jealous types who share a fondness for beer and becoming aggressive and violent once they have enough alcohol in them. I went from being like best friends with my brother to not being able to see him anymore because his wife threatens divorce for visiting and hanging out with me. I'm not in the mood to deal with being anywhere where brother's wife and dad's gf is. I don't want to hurt my grandma's feelings by telling her that I can't go. Grandma is in her 80s. I don't know how much longer she has on Earth. She knows how I feel about brother's wife and dad's gf though. I don't know if I should go or go but only stay for an hour and leave.

Glamourmilf
11-21-2018, 06:35 AM
It really pays off to be honest, and forthcoming. It's just my personality. It's just the way I am.
I confronted a girlfriend of 35 years, ( who lives in LA), when I noticed that she never wears the Chanel choker that I sent her for her birthday in August.
She's one of those women who posts sexy photos of herself hourly on Instagram and Facebook. That's how I knew.
At first she blew me off, and quickly said she loved it.
I made it clear that there are lots of poor women out here who would kill to have a Chanel necklace.
Next thing I know, she texted me a tracking number for a FedEx package she sent to me.
2 Hello Kitty necklaces ( 1 gold, 1 silver), a bling rhinestone lips necklace, and a Teddy bear purse charm.:smiley_lo
Aw, all is forgiven.
However, will I be sending her anything else?
Nope. All birthdays, Christmas, and anniversaries are cancelled.
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AChildOfBoredom
11-21-2018, 01:44 PM
My younger sister is on the fence about getting her ears pierced. She wants to, but is a bit afraid to. I get it… I was almost 25 before I had my first one, and I never got “into” it… I have two in each ear, and that’s it. Aside from formal events, I just wear little ball studs in them… I’ve always avoided hoops and anything which hangs below the lobe, as I’m a bit paranoid about them getting caught on something. Of course, she doesn’t do the things I do, so she has less reason to fear that. I told her I’d take her to get them done if she wants. We’ll see.

yaya_cash
11-22-2018, 04:15 AM
I don't really care to spend more than 2 days or connect with my family members. It's awkward. I want to relax. I rather not have to force myself in to conversing when I have to use so much of myself in work, friend and living residence. I don't like strangers wanting to invade my personal unwantedly. I do draw motivation from my family members, though since they're pretty high-achievers, and I'm not content with myself. I'm debating to join the military with its benefits, again--

Glamourmilf
11-22-2018, 06:51 AM
I love how #LaRain is trending on Twitter.
Not good for the burn areas, but overall still good.

AChildOfBoredom
11-22-2018, 10:50 AM
So I’m outside getting the deep fryer ready for the one turkey and the Big Green Egg ready for the duck, most everyone else is inside, doing the other turkey and/or their sides, my older sister’s two kids are outside being silly and dancing around because I’m listening to some Megadeth as this is going on, and we’re getting a bunch of weirded out looks from our neighbors… truly a moment to cherish.

baer45
11-22-2018, 12:19 PM
It really pays off to be honest, and forthcoming. It's just my personality. It's just the way I am.
I confronted a girlfriend of 35 years, ( who lives in LA), when I noticed that she never wears the Chanel choker that I sent her for her birthday in August.
She's one of those women who posts sexy photos of herself hourly on Instagram and Facebook. That's how I knew.
At first she blew me off, and quickly said she loved it.
I made it clear that there are lots of poor women out here who would kill to have a Chanel necklace.
Next thing I know, she texted me a tracking number for a FedEx package she sent to me.
2 Hello Kitty necklaces ( 1 gold, 1 silver), a bling rhinestone lips necklace, and a Teddy bear purse charm.:smiley_lo
Aw, all is forgiven.
However, will I be sending her anything else?
Nope. All birthdays, Christmas, and anniversaries are cancelled.


Her attitude is very toxic. I received some jewelry earlier this year. I immediately found out it didn't fit me. I called the sender and told her that I will exchange it for something else and thanked her for the gift. People understand it's always better to go pick up accessories in person. I went through 30 bracelets in store.

charlie61
11-22-2018, 09:16 PM
I'm trying to find good threads about boyfriends / partners who aren't comfortable with us dancing. You guys have any good links?

JGB2009
11-23-2018, 07:10 AM
This strange number called me and I picked up. I heard the voice and at first it sounded like my daughters dad. I'm like here we go. Luckily it turned out it wasn't him and was just a wrong number.

Glamourmilf
11-23-2018, 09:25 AM
Her attitude is very toxic. I received some jewelry earlier this year. I immediately found out it didn't fit me. I called the sender and told her that I will exchange it for something else and thanked her for the gift. People understand it's always better to go pick up accessories in person. I went through 30 bracelets in store.

Yes, very toxic.
I heard a quote that really resonated with the situation.
"Stop holding onto​ people JUST because you have history together."

yaya_cash
11-23-2018, 09:40 AM
Yes, very toxic.
I heard a quote that really resonated with the situation.
"Stop holding onto​ people JUST because you have history together."

She may be saving the necklace for a special occasion.

yaya_cash
11-23-2018, 09:47 AM
So like my SD wants me to come to Florida with him for the weekend and he says he will pay me $20,000!!!!! Then after he fucks me he will start taking care of me. Sigh this is my fucking dream but i cant go and its not because i dont trust him. He's always kept his word when it came to money. It's just im a fraud....

How are you a fraud? You're not able to be (more) physically connect with him?

Glamourmilf
11-23-2018, 11:13 AM
She may be saving the necklace for a special occasion.

No. That's not the reason.
She and her husband go out every night, and travel all over the world every other week.
They're beyond wealthy.
Plus, the thing that pisses me off the most. Her hourly postings on Facebook and Instagram show her wearing a different necklace in each one.
Her daytime outings show different necklaces too.

carmen_b
11-23-2018, 04:29 PM
I feel like I want a FWB
If one of my online admirers is smooth today or tomorrow they might be in luck.

Elektra Luxx
11-23-2018, 08:27 PM
I'm trying to find good threads about boyfriends / partners who aren't comfortable with us dancing. You guys have any good links?

My bf knows my past,...well mostly. Although, I believe he's convinced himself that I was a Nunn and virgin before we started going together. I try to avoid the subject. Good luck.

Ladycaxe
11-23-2018, 11:07 PM
You walked in front of the host while making sure they noticed you and handed them the tip, and said thank you? I try to find the host alone and discreetly transfer his or her (considerable) tip. And this allows some space to talk to me if he or she needs to. So they know it was me--

for sure that's a good tip.

JGB2009
11-24-2018, 04:40 AM
Yesterday I went to get my mail and I had a check from streamate. Somehow its funny to me because the last time I received money from them is when I had my old account back in 2013. Maybe I just thought I would never work on the site again. Guess I proved myself wrong.

Glamourmilf
11-24-2018, 07:08 AM
She may be saving the necklace for a special occasion.50677

The necklace.
Is it THAT hideous that you wouldn't want to be seen wearing it?
I thought it was beautiful. I also searched for a choker, because she doesn't like her neck, and tries to hide it with jewelry, since she just turned 70 years old.

carmen_b
11-24-2018, 10:30 AM
To me, it's funny how much dating is like dancing.

Things I've told myself lately :

" Don't be a dick to THAT guy because of the last one "
" Keep going "
" It's ok to take a break and then get out and circle again "
" Brush it off , everyone gets a no before the yes "

^ SO many more !

WendiStarr
11-24-2018, 10:45 AM
Waiting on my ex to bring my daughter back over. I swear, this man comes with every excuse to not show up on time and is dramatic as a woman. It has been raining lightly off and on all day. I am certain he will use the rain as an excuse and will be fussing about the rain getting his clothes and bald head wet once he gets here.

carmen_b
11-24-2018, 11:31 AM
^ Haha. It's funny to hear about " fussers " to me. My ex went crazy and got so fussy towards the end 3-5 months ago it is almost comedic.

carmen_b
11-24-2018, 11:33 AM
I came out of massage retirement for a customer who remembered me and asked if I was still in this city. We did a session yesterday.
He made it very worth my while knowing it's not a regular thing for me anymore.

I thought it was flattering he wrote to me ( I haven't worked here in 8-10 months ) . Nice gentleman.
He's a silver fox and genuinely attractive. I *almost* want to get a sugaring thing going with him if he was up for it .

He's absolutely up for massage extras ( I normally don't consider these offers at all but I do trust him from seeing him multiple times already ).
I don't yet have a good sense of what his budget is .................

AChildOfBoredom
11-24-2018, 11:43 AM
So, my younger sister is on the verge of turning 16, so of course the matter of a car comes up. My parents were adamant about passing our grandparents’ cars on to us, so my first car was my grandfather’s 89 Ford Ranger. Which leaves the 87 Chevy Caprice my grandmother used to drive, and they want to give her that one. So I just got off the phone with them, and I’m sure my neighbors got a kick out of hearing me yelling at them in Plautdietsch and trying to get it through their heads that, no, I’m not taking that thing on a road trip from Wisconsin to North Carolina/we live in a city and not a rural farm community, and that thing is a boat/it’s a 30+ year old car from a time when was probably 50 cents for a gallon/30 years of mag chloride probably hasn’t been kind to it at all/etc., yet they still insist. So I ask why don’t they drive it daily and give my sister their Cobalt, and, oh, here come the excuses.

Parents are so fucking thick sometimes. Between what my older sister and I are willing to contribute and what my younger sister has saved up for that purpose, we can find her something much better.

trustfundkiller
11-24-2018, 01:44 PM
When I get distracted on my laptop and I'm not giving my cat enough attention, she'll stretch her arms out and tap my thigh with her paw. It's the cutest thing ever.

whirlerz
11-24-2018, 02:35 PM
Aw, Glammie! :(
BEAUTIFUL necklace, that was mean of her!

Waiting on a cop to call re: my recent check theft..who knows when that'll be lol. @ least he's not coming out here, which's embarrassing:-[

I was just thinking of a hot ex, was outside, & a similar truck to his drove by:O

yaya_cash
11-24-2018, 04:17 PM
I have a strange relation to my family. And I felt very uncomfortable during this Thanksgiving holiday. I didn't know what to speak to these members about. And I didn't want to go in to what I've been doing since I haven't seen them. I could've but I didn't want to share with the history. So I said whatever. And they probably don't even care because they haven't asked about my well being before or had a trusting relationship. I felt family members looking at me strange. I might go another 3, or 4 years without seeing my family.

I don't know what to do about my family.

Any advice?

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-24-2018, 06:36 PM
People in my city organized and rescued a lost cat via Facebook Pet Rescue group. I was sincerely touched. I saw the initial post & remembered the LOST poster with the contact number so I texted the owner to tell her that someone on a highway had rescued her (live) cat and took it to XXXX Vet Hospital. She posted a couple hours later thanking everyone who organized to get her cat help (cat was injured but will live.)

Most of us are pessimistic about these things and so it was touching to see strangers react within seconds to get a lost pet safe and to his owner.

yaya_cash
11-24-2018, 06:36 PM
I have a strange relation to my family. And I felt very uncomfortable during this Thanksgiving holiday. I didn't know what to speak to these members about. And I didn't want to go in to what I've been doing since I haven't seen them. I could've but I didn't want to share with the history. So I said whatever. And they probably don't even care because they haven't asked about my well being before or had a trusting relationship. I felt family members looking at me strange. I might go another 3, or 4 years without seeing my family.

I don't know what to do about my family.

Any advice?

After typing this, I kind of feel like I don't care--

yaya_cash
11-24-2018, 06:41 PM
I have a strange relation to my family. And I felt very uncomfortable during this Thanksgiving holiday. I didn't know what to speak to these members about. And I didn't want to go in to what I've been doing since I haven't seen them. I could've but I didn't want to share with the history. So I said whatever. And they probably don't even care because they haven't asked about my well being before or had a trusting relationship. I felt family members looking at me strange. I might go another 3, or 4 years without seeing my family.

I don't know what to do about my family.

Any advice?

After typing this, I kind of feel like I don't care--

They're starting to be younger members in the family, so it's less about me now. And they're a younger generation that needs guidance/to be raised or being there. I'm going to be a aunt. So I need to stop being petty even when I don't care how those family members act and shown not to trust them,; because they've treated me badly, said some awful things about me, gossip and are jeaulous/ envious.

I need to let this go.

I need to get it together. If not for me, for--

Glamourmilf
11-25-2018, 03:57 AM
50692 I walked by a neighbor's house the other night, and noticed that they had their Christmas tree up already. It just seems like it's too soon. I still have my fall decorations up, and won't be putting up my Xmas stuff up until December 1. But, to each their own.

Ladycaxe
11-25-2018, 04:11 AM
Question ladies....
How do you like to size your peep toe pleaser boots?

When I get closed toe boots, I size up for max comfort..I think most of us do....
How about the peep toe?
My regular size or one up ?

Example:
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thanks!!

Ladycaxe
11-25-2018, 05:58 AM
Btw did so much online shopping today. fashion nova,dollskill, new pair of pleasers, and some crop tops (eBay) I'm going to incorporate to work clothes :D
also going to try crotchless underwear lol. we. have 2 wear to undies at work, but , I figure if I can wear a crotchless one it'll believable and breathable...LMFAO

JGB2009
11-25-2018, 07:30 AM
I could watch Netflix all day!!!!!

AChildOfBoredom
11-25-2018, 10:45 AM
50692 I walked by a neighbor's house the other night, and noticed that they had their Christmas tree up already. It just seems like it's too soon. I still have my fall decorations up, and won't be putting up my Xmas stuff up until December 1. But, to each their own.

There’s a family in our neighborhood who start putting theirs up the day after Halloween. Which is actually kind of impressive, because they go all out for Halloween, so that they can take down all their Halloween stuff, put it away, and are able to start putting Christmas lights up the day after is quite a feat.