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carmen_b
11-25-2018, 11:56 AM
I realized that I wasn't careful selected photo for my personal ad that I hadn't used in massage ads.

I hadn't had a massage up in the city for 10 months or so. I knew it would probably ( eventually ) happen and today I got a message saying that he is pretty sure he has a masasge from me. He said it was a great massage ( he didn't send anything creepy which was refreshing ).

WendiStarr
11-25-2018, 05:02 PM
50692 I walked by a neighbor's house the other night, and noticed that they had their Christmas tree up already. It just seems like it's too soon. I still have my fall decorations up, and won't be putting up my Xmas stuff up until December 1. But, to each their own.

Haha, that lady is like me! I put mine up a couple days after Halloween but only because it frickin' snowed here for the first time then. Once it snows it feels more Christmasy and I don't feel right about having the Halloween decor up anymore. I like holiday decorating though. It makes the feel of the room festive. What saddens me is after New Year's when I take the Christmas decorations down and the room seems naked without a tree, Christmas stuff, and the colorful lights.

charlie61
11-25-2018, 06:20 PM
I have a strange relation to my family. And I felt very uncomfortable during this Thanksgiving holiday. I didn't know what to speak to these members about. And I didn't want to go in to what I've been doing since I haven't seen them. I could've but I didn't want to share with the history. So I said whatever. And they probably don't even care because they haven't asked about my well being before or had a trusting relationship. I felt family members looking at me strange. I might go another 3, or 4 years without seeing my family.

I don't know what to do about my family.

Any advice?

I feel similarly about most of my family.... specifically my sisters. They want to see me and be around me, but i have nothing in common with them, and they aren't genuinely interested in anything i say (plus, i can't talk about anything controversial, like dancing). So when i see them (i live about 2000 miles away from them), i feel like i could be anyone. I feel anonymous. It's so dissatisfying for me!

yaya_cash
11-25-2018, 07:47 PM
I kind of feel like being an escort isn't for me because I like being able to connect with someone that I like and can trust. And the escort industry has so many predators than the strip club, it will probably ruin me. I rather just find a person I like who cares to have a connection with me and doesn't mind giving me financial support or gifts.

And I'm finding it easier to weed out time wasters and find worthy suitors now; maybe because I have (more) experience working in strip club markets across America and dealing with men and in sugar dating, being a kept young woman. And I'm grateful for knowing better. Even though, my parents probably don't know this because I like to hide things-- they probably think I'm helpless - more than I am because they just keep offering and buying me stuff--

I'm not as helpless as my friend's older sister whose like 40-something who has 3 kids and a known partner, that calls my friend to register a passport for her like she doesn't know how-to or can't find out herself, buy her flight ticket late-minute during the holidays and doesn't seem to know how to book a hotel room and tellied a thousand and something unpaid tolled fare in a SUV registered in his name-- How dumb can you be? Are you pretending? Cant you ask your significant other to do these things? And you have a job as a manager, your child WAS paying your bills--

She should be set-- She probably will always need help from the younger brother-- which [email protected] annoys him, and me, wanting him to support me being the woman in his life-- I think she just calls And gives the pretense she can't do something because she wants him to take the intiative to buy whatever it is--- I wouldn't do this to a younger brother, but whatever, I guess, that's the game she plays--And he`s footing the bill when he feels the need to take care of things with family--

I don't care much for short-term encounters, anyway. I prefer a long-term friendship or relation/s.

AChildOfBoredom
11-25-2018, 09:16 PM
I really get tired of it when guys talk about how hard they have it. Not that I think they don’t have shit to deal with at all, but they don’t have it to where every little thing they do is a source of scrutiny. For example, I saw a t-shirt design I liked.

50699

Of course, it can’t be that simple, because naturally some fucking creepers are going to give themselves artistic license in how they interpret it, and I’ll end up dealing with them and their thirst-induced bullshit. So, I’m on the fence about whether to buy it or not. If I had a wang swinging between my legs, it would be a complete non-issue.

lynn2009
11-25-2018, 09:21 PM
LADIES.
I matched with a cute lawyer from Harvard and he clerks for Elizabeth Warren omg.

yaya_cash
11-26-2018, 12:28 AM
I kind of feel like being an escort isn't for me because I like being able to connect with someone that I like and can trust. And the escort industry has so many predators than the strip club, it will probably ruin me. I rather just find a person I like who cares to have a connection with me and doesn't mind giving me financial support or gifts.

And I'm finding it easier to weed out time wasters and find worthy suitors now; maybe because I have (more) experience working in strip club markets across America and dealing with men and in sugar dating, being a kept young woman. And I'm grateful for knowing better. Even though, my parents probably don't know this because I like to hide things-- they probably think I'm helpless - more than I am because they just keep offering and buying me stuff--

I'm not as helpless as my friend's older sister whose like 40-something who has 3 kids and a known partner, that calls my friend to register a passport for her like she doesn't know how-to or can't find out herself, buy her flight ticket late-minute during the holidays and doesn't seem to know how to book a hotel room and tellied a thousand and something unpaid tolled fare in a SUV registered in his name-- How dumb can you be? Are you pretending? Cant you ask your significant other to do these things? And you have a job as a manager, your child WAS paying your bills--

She should be set-- She probably will always need help from the younger brother-- which [email protected] annoys him, and me, wanting him to support me being the woman in his life-- I think she just calls And gives the pretense she can't do something because she wants him to take the intiative to buy whatever it is--- I wouldn't do this to a younger brother, but whatever, I guess, that's the game she plays--And he`s footing the bill when he feels the need to take care of things with family--

I don't care much for short-term encounters, anyway. I prefer a long-term friendship or relation/s.

And I see why you wouldn't want to get married or have children when you have an older sister like this and her children without a clue or father in their life, that you also (feel the need to) support. And having another person to support WOULD be an headache...

Glamourmilf
11-26-2018, 08:45 AM
Haha, that lady is like me! I put mine up a couple days after Halloween but only because it frickin' snowed here for the first time then. Once it snows it feels more Christmasy and I don't feel right about having the Halloween decor up anymore. I like holiday decorating though. It makes the feel of the room festive. What saddens me is after New Year's when I take the Christmas decorations down and the room seems naked without a tree, Christmas stuff, and the colorful lights.

I know what you mean about the first snow signaling the time to put up the Xmas decorations.
But, would you be inclined to do it if it were 80 degrees?
I totally get why people here decorate early.
The long, intense summer has finally past.
It's a symbol that we can all go outside again, if only for a few months.
But, for me, the novelty wears off before Christmas even gets here.:-\
Christmas music in July. Ba, humbug.
It will be okay.
Because in just a few weeks, all the stores will be putting out their Valentine's Day merchandise.:cheers:
Ugh!

WendiStarr
11-26-2018, 09:24 AM
A random sw'er contacted me saying that she was traveling to my area and wanted to know if she could stay at my place for a few days(not to work because she's outcall only). Is this a thing now, randomly contacting other escorts to see if you can stay at their place? If so, who's in a state that isn't cold and snowing right now? I want to come there! lol I mean, I have no problem with someone staying at my place for a few days if they have nowhere else to go. I am all for helping people out if I can. It's just the whole stranger in my home aspect. I'd be alright with it if it was someone I'd known and been talking to for a while, like some of the ladies on here but it's some random lady from a hobbyboard. I don't know. Maybe I'll see if she wants to chat on the phone or Skype or something first.

Ladycaxe
11-26-2018, 11:08 AM
be like.... helllll naaahhhh ahaha just kidding. that's a lil weird tho I'm very iffy about my personal space.



A random sw'er contacted me saying that she was traveling to my area and wanted to know if she could stay at my place for a few days(not to work because she's outcall only). Is this a thing now, randomly contacting other escorts to see if you can stay at their place? If so, who's in a state that isn't cold and snowing right now? I want to come there! lol I mean, I have no problem with someone staying at my place for a few days if they have nowhere else to go. I am all for helping people out if I can. It's just the whole stranger in my home aspect. I'd be alright with it if it was someone I'd known and been talking to for a while, like some of the ladies on here but it's some random lady from a hobbyboard. I don't know. Maybe I'll see if she wants to chat on the phone or Skype or something first.

Ladycaxe
11-26-2018, 11:21 AM
y'all, I dont know what I wannnttttt.
I low-key hit up my ex (kinda sorta. we dated briefly but broke up bcuz the distance. but ii've always still really liked him and we keep in touch)
ANYWHO I hit him up on some simp shit asking if he wanted 2 move in with me...LMAO
it deadass seemed like a good idea. I'm like hm, someone to pay half my rent, cuddle with me when I get home from work
run errands with, date, (the sex is amazing)....like that's not something that's hard to WANT right?

and of Course he says he's down but now I'm like is that really a good idea..... LMAO.
I mean , I've lived w a bf b4, and I honestly enjoyed it besides the fact that said person was dirty and snored loud and many other character flaws I realized after we lived together...
but theres something about having someone aways there, its like ur always having fun...and I've been living alone for a while and I MISS THAT.
sometimes.

then I come back 2 my sensors like maybe I shouldn't rush to have that sort of situation again.
I think I'm becoming impatient in finding a S/O. I'd be lying if I said I didn't want one :c
but I literally hate meeting guys on like dating sites.
Me and said person met long ago thru twitter (crazy right, but when was younger I was an aspiring rapper <stikll kind of am> so we met thru music basically bcuz he's a producer. we have a lot of mutual connects and I really liked him and like 4 years after us meeting online we finally met in person and it was like everything I dreamed of<3333 even hung out again in his state for a week and once again , great. but I broke it off bcuz the distance was too much).

SO HERE WE ARE A YEAR AFTER OUR LAST MEETING and he's like the only guy I haven't met via dating sites, or work (icky I know but it happens sometimes...)
I just dont see myself meeting anyone else any time soon (not like I go out to bars and shit to meet guys although I've thought about it)

so I'm kind of like why not ? ? of course there needs 2 be a good foundation ... theres a lot to talk about b4 making such a commitment.... so sigh.
I defiently brought up the situation maybe a lil too soon but it's also something we've talked about and both would like...
at the same time I dont think he's the most "ambitious" person and that turns me off a little.

so maybe we should just hang out at my house for some days to a week and see how that goes.
hahaha.
sorry it's a long post. but I needed 2 let it out <3

tl;dr: me and a past s/o want to try things out again, this time w/o the distance ( moving in together ) . but we probably need 2 take it slower ( hang out more times b4 making that commitment).

EDIT: maybe I'm posting in the wrong thread lemme know. I suppose I could have made my own thread but...I do like this one.

JGB2009
11-26-2018, 11:28 AM
I stayed out late last night and was suppose to go get a pedicure and manicure this morning. Because of lack of sleep I slept instead. LOL at least I had a good time last night.

yaya_cash
11-26-2018, 12:51 PM
y'all, I dont know what I wannnttttt.
I low-key hit up my ex (kinda sorta. we dated briefly but broke up bcuz the distance. but ii've always still really liked him and we keep in touch)
ANYWHO I hit him up on some simp shit asking if he wanted 2 move in with me...LMAO
it deadass seemed like a good idea. I'm like hm, someone to pay half my rent, cuddle with me when I get home from work
run errands with, date, (the sex is amazing)....like that's not something that's hard to WANT right?

and of Course he says he's down but now I'm like is that really a good idea..... LMAO.
I mean , I've lived w a bf b4, and I honestly enjoyed it besides the fact that said person was dirty and snored loud and many other character flaws I realized after we lived together...
but theres something about having someone aways there, its like ur always having fun...and I've been living alone for a while and I MISS THAT.
sometimes.

then I come back 2 my sensors like maybe I shouldn't rush to have that sort of situation again.
I think I'm becoming impatient in finding a S/O. I'd be lying if I said I didn't want one :c
but I literally hate meeting guys on like dating sites.
Me and said person met long ago thru twitter (crazy right, but when was younger I was an aspiring rapper <stikll kind of am> so we met thru music basically bcuz he's a producer. we have a lot of mutual connects and I really liked him and like 4 years after us meeting online we finally met in person and it was like everything I dreamed of<3333 even hung out again in his state for a week and once again , great. but I broke it off bcuz the distance was too much).

SO HERE WE ARE A YEAR AFTER OUR LAST MEETING and he's like the only guy I haven't met via dating sites, or work (icky I know but it happens sometimes...)
I just dont see myself meeting anyone else any time soon (not like I go out to bars and shit to meet guys although I've thought about it)

so I'm kind of like why not ? ? of course there needs 2 be a good foundation ... theres a lot to talk about b4 making such a commitment.... so sigh.
I defiently brought up the situation maybe a lil too soon but it's also something we've talked about and both would like...
at the same time I dont think he's the most "ambitious" person and that turns me off a little.

so maybe we should just hang out at my house for some days to a week and see how that goes.
hahaha.
sorry it's a long post. but I needed 2 let it out <3

tl;dr: me and a past s/o want to try things out again, this time w/o the distance ( moving in together ) . but we probably need 2 take it slower ( hang out more times b4 making that commitment).

EDIT: maybe I'm posting in the wrong thread lemme know. I suppose I could have made my own thread but...I do like this one.

You probably would want you're space from him, and date other guys. And how would you be able to do that when he's living with you and part renter? This arrangement needs to work out for you and him for this to work out. This is a commitment that needs some talking through, finding or figuring out what he and you are comfortable with. Like I have a friend who I like And love that gets on my nerves because he has narcassist behavior that he`s working on, but i know he loves me. He pays my rent and provides other financial and emotional support. We will probably always live in seperate homes because he doesnt want to get married and likes to sleep with others And not wanting others to know about his private life. And he is fine with me sleeping with another person because we don't have a physical relationship, it goes beyond that while we known each other for 3+ years.

I know I need to keep my options opened though, and so do you. Especially with him not being ambitous, there's a possibly he will get comfortable doing less and less. You shouldn't be with a man who doesn't have enough get up and go to provide for you both or even him. Unless you're okay with having to motive him to do better and he will be receptive.

Do you have time to read a book that may change your life?

AChildOfBoredom
11-26-2018, 02:16 PM
The pole dance studio I practice at is doing another exhibition to get people interested in pole dance, and it’s the same routine again. They want me to perform, but whine about my music selection for my set. They should know by now that Beyoncé doesn’t do it for me, so why do they still act surprised after ten years?

carmen_b
11-26-2018, 02:55 PM
Exhibit #95 from the " ex has lost his mind " files.

I get into the car we share today to take it over for a week and find a card for exotic dancers ( private dancers in Denver ..... so that's where he went ).

He always had such an issue with my sex work and supposedly has a girlfriend he rustled up from the past .

Very interesting. God, if he called any of you ladies, I hope he tipped well and wasn't an ass, haha.

With my past, I honestly can't say a damn thing about it. I'll just throw the card away in case I have clients in the car.

Ladycaxe
11-26-2018, 03:52 PM
You probably would want you're space from him, and date other guys. And how would you be able to do that when he's living with you and part renter? This arrangement needs to work out for you and him for this to work out. This is a commitment that needs some talking through, finding or figuring out what he and you are comfortable with. Like I have a friend who I like And love that gets on my nerves because he has narcassist behavior that he`s working on, but i know he loves me. He pays my rent and provides other financial and emotional support. We will probably always live in seperate homes because he doesnt want to get married and likes to sleep with others And not wanting others to know about his private life. And he is fine with me sleeping with another person because we don't have a physical relationship, it goes beyond that while we known each other for 3+ years.

I know I need to keep my options opened though, and so do you. Especially with him not being ambitous, there's a possibly he will get comfortable doing less and less. You shouldn't be with a man who doesn't have enough get up and go to provide for you both or even him. Unless you're okay with having to motive him to do better and he will be receptive.

Do you have time to read a book that may change your life?

Thank u :'O
I think tbh I want 2 seriously date one singular person (that includes living together...it def has 2 be the right person) but be able to hook up w other people (obvi not every1 cool w that)...
pretty much an open relationship.

but def agree this is something that needs to be talked/figured out b4 hand.
I've figure that we should take this slow and maybe revisit the idea in a couple of months.

I would love 2 read a book that'd change mah life :D <3 ( I might have TOO much time on my hands at the moment tbh -.-. id better just enjoy it while it last...)

charlie61
11-26-2018, 11:00 PM
I did the free trial on Blinkist and didn't enjoy it. It takes the soul out of reading. That sounds cheesy, but it's how i feel.

queenelayliah
11-27-2018, 01:57 AM
So you guys I had a fucking Eureka moment while I was taking a shower yesterday, for the first time in my short fucking life I have an idea of a career I would like to pursue and can ACTUALLY see myself doing it till the day I die. Like if anyone been noticing my posts, I'm, a moppy 26-year-old crybaby that didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life and etc!!

So drum roll, please.
I want to become a therapist or a counselor. !!!

I would really love to work with people about their sexuality and or intimacy issues & relationship issues and/ or maybe working in the field of marriage and family counseling. I mean I do that right now pretty fucking much except for I won't be making them cum. Especially with the digital age, I am sure I can offer counseling sessions via telecommunications i.e. phone, skype and etc. But I haven't felt this fucking excited and sure about my life since I knew I was going to college in grade 9.

Now I'm wondering how my brief existence in the adult entertainment industry will play out. When I was reading the forum most of the time the ladies were caught because a video surfaced or background/ border checks showed 1099’s related to sex work. I think I might be okay considering I HAVE to lose weight *cough 300+ pounds* and I have NO tattos so I dont think I will be recognized if a video or photo pops up. Also though I have worked for streamate, bonga cams, niteflirt, lipservice inc, club tel, phonestars, clip4slae, iwantclips, indiebill and talk to me.,

Stremate and bonga cams:
I have never received a 1099 from them because I didnt make enough money with them.

Clips4sale and iwantclips:
Never uploaded clips just open the store a few weeks ago.

Niteflirt:
Only gives 1099 if you make $20 grand ina year so no 1099

Now phonestars, club tel, and talk to me:
I will receive a 1099 from them. Now club tel doesnt have a website and google search turns up nothing. Phonestars doesnt respond to inquires. Im inly really worried about talk to me.

Lipservice inc:
Was in 2017 and i don’t think i got a 1099.

Indiebill:
Never made money with them.

Do you think the 3 PSO 1099’s will disqualify me from becoming a licensed therapist or counsler? Anyone know of someone who use to be in this industry and got certified through a state and professional board?

Plus Im thinking of forming a llc so that my payments are linked to my llc tax id verus my tax id, which should prevent future 1099’s showing up on my background check right?

queenelayliah
11-27-2018, 02:01 AM
Also speaking of indiebill so tell my why I signed up with them and their *snapchat getting traffic site* years ago forgot about it and was having people BUY my subscription and add me on snapchat but I didnt fucking relaize it. I lost out on 100s of dollars! Whenever i checked my snapchat i would see these random ass people add me and I would be so confused as to who they are and ignore them.

Epic Face plam!!

Also I found this site made by this asshole that be stealing girls snapchats and have guys submit their gfs pictures as well. Digusting!! so like you guys might want to check it out to see if your pictures are up there or not. Im not sure if im allowed to post it here.

WendiStarr
11-27-2018, 08:07 AM
^ I don't think pso would disqualify you from becoming a therapist or counselor. I have worked in a job requiring security clearance, despite my stripper, camgirl, pso, fbsm masseuse, and escort experience.


I have an interview at a coffee shop for a part-time seasonal position today. I'm already talking myself out of going, telling myself that it would probably be a waste of time. I don't like vanilla job interviews. I guess I got spoiled with the past vanilla jobs that I have had, where all I really had to do was fill out an online or paper application, and go to an interview that consisted of,"When can you start?" and "What schedule do you want?" or, "Can you start tomorrow at 6am?" I was really hoping that I'd hear back from the entry level IT jobs by now.

yaya_cash
11-27-2018, 03:57 PM
Guys lie about their income/net worth almost like women lie about they're age. And it doesn't make sense that a guy will mention a high-income And can't spare more than a couple hundred with pleasure.

Glamourmilf
11-28-2018, 06:16 AM
50706 Imogen Anthony. Never heard of her, until this moment. But, I love her. Trending on Twitter for what she wore at the Aria Awards. So cool.

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-28-2018, 06:50 AM
I had been thinking that maybe Adam Levine and Maroon 5 had gotten "too Hollywood'...

Naw. I was really touched by this interview...Levine might be a superstar but he is still a decent human being.....(I think)….

https://www.msn.com/en-us/music/celebrity/adam-levine-says-the-death-of-his-manager-was-one-of-the-saddest-moments-of-his-life/ar-BBQ9Ygi?ocid=spartandhp

WendiStarr
11-28-2018, 09:12 AM
Are heated socks a thing? I can't seem to be able to get my feet warm. I have two pairs of socks on, one of them a thick wool material and my feet are still cold.

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-28-2018, 11:46 AM
Are heated socks a thing? I can't seem to be able to get my feet warm. I have two pairs of socks on, one of them a thick wool material and my feet are still cold.

Yes you can find shoe and glove warmers at Cabela's.

JGB2009
11-28-2018, 11:59 AM
Are heated socks a thing? I can't seem to be able to get my feet warm. I have two pairs of socks on, one of them a thick wool material and my feet are still cold.

My feet are always cold like that in the winter.....

AChildOfBoredom
11-28-2018, 01:04 PM
Are heated socks a thing? I can't seem to be able to get my feet warm. I have two pairs of socks on, one of them a thick wool material and my feet are still cold.

Yes, they make heated socks and gloves which run on battery power. I don’t know how well they work, as I’ve never owned them. Being a native Wisconsinite, and one who regularly played outside in the Winter months, I practically have ice running through my veins.

Ifyouseekamy
11-28-2018, 05:23 PM
I’m pretty use to rejection being a stripper...lol. It’s funny how some of the people who reject me want to be friends later.

I’m a little butt hurt because my crush rejected me. Whatever rejection is Gods protection. I’m still disappointed.

I remember when my ex boyfriend graduated from KU with a degree in finance. He dumped me because I wasn’t doing anything with my life-except 100% working on myself and getting out of debt. Anyways, years later he wanted to be friends he had tens of thousands of dollars in student debt and was a manager at long horn steakhouse. Which there’s nothing wrong his situation, but that’s karma for being so snobby to me. He’s living in his old bedroom at his parents.

Not to mention the judgy gym ladies want to be friends now that I’m becoming an expert in fitness...lol....people.

Oh and the guys from high school that thought I was ugly, but then wanted to fuck me as soon as they came into the club. That was so fun rejecting them

That’s just human nature. People are finicky.

I think almost every person who has hurt me I’ve gotten the pleasure of seeing karma punch them in the face. What goes around comes back around. I just picky my pretty ass up off the ground and keep it moving.

chanzep
11-28-2018, 06:40 PM
I was looking at some stripper blog on Instagram and there is actually a post where they name the city and club's they eork, I find this bizarre.

yaya_cash
11-28-2018, 11:06 PM
Thank u :'O
I think tbh I want 2 seriously date one singular person (that includes living together...it def has 2 be the right person) but be able to hook up w other people (obvi not every1 cool w that)...
pretty much an open relationship.

but def agree this is something that needs to be talked/figured out b4 hand.
I've figure that we should take this slow and maybe revisit the idea in a couple of months.

I would love 2 read a book that'd change mah life :D <3 ( I might have TOO much time on my hands at the moment tbh -.-. id better just enjoy it while it last...)

Read the Defining Decade

trustfundkiller
11-28-2018, 11:17 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhwUy1tS-us
This video made me lmao. This guy had the nerve to pick up his gorgeous fiancé from the airport empty-handed. He's doing that famous "cheap mofo at the strip club who wants to take up all your time" grin. She's going to run when she gets her green card.

Ifyouseekamy
11-29-2018, 12:53 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhwUy1tS-us
This video made me lmao. This guy had the nerve to pick up his gorgeous fiancé from the airport empty-handed. He's doing that famous "cheap mofo at the strip club who wants to take up all your time" grin. She's going to run when she gets her green card.


Wow the look on her face!

WendiStarr
11-29-2018, 06:23 AM
^ Wow, what a cheap ass jerk! He should've bought her flowers. $20 is nothing, el cheapo!

carmen_b
11-29-2018, 10:34 AM
Yeah, she was stunning and really wanted them !
Ha. I’d love to see the fights these two will have over some popcorn.

JessaJade
11-29-2018, 11:40 AM
^ I don't know what that show is or if it's genuine but I hope she just gets what she needs from him and disappears.

Some men are just wilfully rude. I'm really annoyed about being asked my ethnicity on a dating app and then guys going silent when I tell them...so, my physical appearance was appealing enough to message me with compliments, but finding out my ethnic background (which is why I look the way I do, idiots) makes me unattractive. I see. How ignorant.

I can always tell which ones are going to be like that anyway because they ask almost straight away. I don't have a problem with the question in general because I think it's interesting to find out about someones heritage, but all of the decent men I've met will ask much much later, rarely before actually meeting, if at all.

yaya_cash
11-29-2018, 11:50 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhwUy1tS-us
This video made me lmao. This guy had the nerve to pick up his gorgeous fiancé from the airport empty-handed. He's doing that famous "cheap mofo at the strip club who wants to take up all your time" grin. She's going to run when she gets her green card.

Okay-- Would take every little thing he offers, get green card and have him required by card sponsorship of 10-years support me while planning exit. I mean, she’s in Las Vegas and she can do better.

yaya_cash
11-29-2018, 01:10 PM
Okay-- Would take every little thing he offers, get green card and have him required by card sponsorship of 10-years support me while planning exit. I mean, she’s in Las Vegas and she can do better.

And it's odd that people suggest these guys go overseas to fond a girlfriend or wife when women overseas don't even want these guys. Maybe better suggested that these guys get a sex-bot... Or at least these guys are good to fund an new start in the land of opportunity... And do it ALMOST like Wendi Deng Murdock did. :)

carmen_b
11-29-2018, 01:14 PM
^ Oh yeah , she's totally doing the get married and leave him in 3-6 months plan ( whatever it takes to stay here ) . You can tell she's smart about it.

He seems like such a complete tool. I hope she tortures him with a lack of sexual attention after they tie the knot.

I just worry for these women ( that the guy could be abusive mentally or physically if they don't get what they want ). Maybe she will strike some sort of amicable deal with him and tolerate him just long enough.

yaya_cash
11-29-2018, 01:57 PM
I sort of feel like being very attractive or physically beautiful doesn't benefit me. I have to work very hard, and use my smarts. And my beauty just brings stares, which I find annoying. I don't see beauty making life much easier for me.

Beauty does allow you to leeway or negotiate for better; but you have to have the smarts and knowledge and willingness to do so.

yaya_cash
11-29-2018, 02:06 PM
And it's odd that people suggest these guys go overseas to fond a girlfriend or wife when women overseas don't even want these guys. Maybe better suggested that these guys get a sex-bot... Or at least these guys are good to fund an new start in the land of opportunity... And do it ALMOST like Wendi Deng Murdock did. :)

And if I was sitting across the table with this couple, I would be thinking he's luck to be with her - not interrogating about her not really loving him or just wanting a green card--

trustfundkiller
11-29-2018, 02:08 PM
I found the full episode and he basically conned her! He's from Las Vegas and she didn't realize that the strip and residential Las Vegas are two very different things. She thought she was going to this rich American lifestyle and in reality he lives at home with his mom, and he's not rich at all. I hope she leaves him for a millionaire as soon as she gets the green card.

From what I've seen, this is how every episode of "90 Day Fiancé" goes. A middle-aged white man who makes $50,000 a year find a wife overseas and inevitably disappoints her when she finds out he was lying about his financial means.

yaya_cash
11-29-2018, 04:46 PM
I found the full episode and he basically conned her! He's from Las Vegas and she didn't realize that the strip and residential Las Vegas are two very different things. She thought she was going to this rich American lifestyle and in reality he lives at home with his mom, and he's not rich at all. I hope she leaves him for a millionaire as soon as she gets the green card.

From what I've seen, this is how every episode of "90 Day Fiancé" goes. A middle-aged white man who makes $50,000 a year find a wife overseas and inevitably disappoints her when she finds out he was lying about his financial means.

Girl, he was SO dorky, walking to step on his toes and provbably doesn't have any friends. He's an idiot-- Hopefully, she can do better with her next pick.

WendiStarr
11-29-2018, 07:04 PM
I'm going to give it another hour and if I don't hear anything from him by then, I'm going to sleep.

Ladycaxe
11-29-2018, 08:59 PM
just purchased :p
Read the Defining Decade

wish
11-29-2018, 09:47 PM
I’m not sure if this is a good or bad thing but I’m pretty sure it’s bad. I’ve been cash poor all month so I’m living on my credit cards. I guess I’m grateful to have cards that I haven’t hit the limit on.
Another thought is I had to buy the kid some shoes that’s needed next Friday ugh I just just noticed it says the eta is Friday. So do I cross my fingers because it’s already been processed or go purchase them in the store and return the shipped ones? Idk.

carmen_b
11-29-2018, 10:42 PM
I'm doing one of my FAVE activities tomorrow ...... hot spring !!

BUT .... I feel so off . I hope it goes ok. I'm going with my friend M who annoyed me last time we hung out. I can't even put my finger on it . I'm trying to not over think it.

I can certainly spare the 24 hours away plus I'll have phone / probably computer with me. My dog is going. I'm not sure why I feel so off.

It's just a quick trip. 3 hours away / quick overnight. We dated 12 years ago but are like brother / sister now .

Update : on the road and 45 min from the springs !!

trustfundkiller
11-30-2018, 12:13 AM
I've never tried ramen noodles before. I feel like I'm missing out on something.

yaya_cash
11-30-2018, 12:48 AM
I have a strange relation to my family. And I felt very uncomfortable during this Thanksgiving holiday. I didn't know what to speak to these members about. And I didn't want to go in to what I've been doing since I haven't seen them. I could've but I didn't want to share with the history. So I said whatever. And they probably don't even care because they haven't asked about my well being before or had a trusting relationship. I felt family members looking at me strange. I might go another 3, or 4 years without seeing my family.

I don't know what to do about my family.

Any advice?

I feel like also my cousins seek attention from my mom and step father partially because they want to benefit from their wealth/an inheritance. And I feel like my mother doesn't really care for me-- the more I think about this I don't want to be around my family.

Glamourmilf
11-30-2018, 08:26 AM
It just dawned on me, that this will be the 4th lease agreement that I sign during Mercury in retrograde.:-\
All the other places didn't go well.
I want to wait until it's over, but the landlady is 85 with dementia, and I'm worried that she'll change her mind.
She's already made countless errors with all other correspondence.
Damn my superstitions​.
What to do. What to do.

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-30-2018, 08:55 AM
I feel like also my cousins seek attention from my mom and step father partially because they want to benefit from their wealth/an inheritance. And I feel like my mother doesn't really care for me-- the more I think about this I don't want to be around my family.

Family is- the people you want in your life....Not the people you share blood ties with...…..