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Glamourmilf
12-08-2018, 04:18 AM
Ever wake up feeling like something was wrong? That was me at 4am morning. Now I am up and trying to decide if I should go back to bed or not.
This is me also this morning.
I just decided to stay up and do laundry, which has been piling up.
Plus, I have to get in there before the other bitches get up.
If they see me in there, all they'll want to do is come in and gossip.
I was coming home yesterday afternoon. Sure enough one of the chatty Kathy's used that very moment to come out and go check on her laundry.
She wanted to talk. Nope. I had groceries that I needed to get into the house.
Ugh!
WendiStarr
12-08-2018, 05:33 AM
Mr. Dilf is working from my place today. I want him to get back in my bed. It's very cold and I need his warmth.
chanzep
12-08-2018, 03:17 PM
I have my candles from the bath and body works sale, they smell so good especially the Winter scent. I wish I got more.
AChildOfBoredom
12-08-2018, 06:29 PM
I have my candles from the bath and body works sale, they smell so good especially the Winter scent. I wish I got more.
Oh, yeah… I’ve gone full retard with Bath and Body works. They had hand soaps for $2.50/ea. a couple weeks back, so I hope everyone likes Winter scents… year round.
JGB2009
12-08-2018, 08:44 PM
You waited 31 hours to read my message. Hey no big deal....you will get to me when you get a chance....but when you finally read my message u start blowing up my phone trying to get me to answer. Obviously I am not that important and neither are you. I will answer you back when I feel like it!!!!
Glamourmilf
12-09-2018, 09:34 AM
A girlfriend, who's been dating a married man, just let him move in with her Thursday.
They've been dating for 4 years, and he finally left his wife.
To me, she seems desperate.
I get it. Being over 60, and trying to date in LA has got to be a drag. Especially when you're average looking.
But, do you REALLY want a man who left his first wife, by cheating with his 2nd wife? The wife he just left for YOU?
She's extremely wealthy. He's he's been out of a job since they met, so no mystery there why he's with her.
I give it 1 year.
50752
baer45
12-09-2018, 10:46 AM
When I have no plans on a Saturday night, bored and comfortable...I watch videos like this.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHK7U-LT_Oo
WendiStarr
12-09-2018, 12:04 PM
I have like no energy today. Ftw! I recently started taking iron since I'm anemic again. I wish it would start working asap.
JessaJade
12-09-2018, 12:40 PM
Some fucking deluded lunatic just offered £75 for 1-2 hours of massage and sex including 'everything'. It's all completely OK though because he had a girl before who did it for that amount and she was very happy. LOL
yaya_cash
12-09-2018, 01:53 PM
I don't see how hoes charge 200, or 300 with inflation unless they're okay with sleeping with multiple guys a day to make a profit because its more costly to live these days.
JGB2009
12-09-2018, 01:57 PM
I know I said some really deep stuff...…………..it needed to be said. I don't know about you anymore!!!!! I really don't think I am the girl for you!!!!
AChildOfBoredom
12-09-2018, 02:43 PM
So I was at a convenience store, and this guy out of the blue - real loopy sort - comes up and starts telling me he dropped his wife off somewhere and can’t remember where he left her. So after a few moments of awkward silence, I said to him, “Why the fuck are you telling me about it? You should go find her”.
Was this guy for real?
WendiStarr
12-09-2018, 02:59 PM
Some fucking deluded lunatic just offered £75 for 1-2 hours of massage and sex including 'everything'. It's all completely OK though because he had a girl before who did it for that amount and she was very happy. LOL
Eww, I hate when guys do that! I have to assume that he's just making shit up to try to get you to lower your rate or he took advantage and hooked up with some poor, desperate girl. That type of guy is the bottom of the barrel scum.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-09-2018, 07:22 PM
So I was at a convenience store, and this guy out of the blue - real loopy sort - comes up and starts telling me he dropped his wife off somewhere and can’t remember where he left her. So after a few moments of awkward silence, I said to him, “Why the fuck are you telling me about it? You should go find her”.
Was this guy for real?
Geeeeeez
WendiStarr
12-09-2018, 08:22 PM
I find it amusing how my daughter has all these toys, stuffed animals, and cool stuff in her bedroom including a big $200 doll house and prefers to hang out and sleep in my room or the living room. She rarely ever goes to her room except to get clean clothes out of her dresser. Kids! lol
AChildOfBoredom
12-10-2018, 05:54 AM
What is it with these yokels who think you don’t speak English just because you have an accent which sounds odd to them? Yes, English wasn’t my first language, but I’m quite fluent and certainly have more of a vocabulary tan this fucking bumpkin, not to mention I’m fluent in Plautdietsch, English, and American Sign Language, but I’m being insulted by this fucker who doesn’t seem to understand words with more than two syllables and who looks like he has mushrooms sprouting out of his nose because he’s never heard of a nose hair trimmer? Did I wake up in the Twilight Zone today or something? Or have Mondays just really gone that far downhill?
Glamourmilf
12-10-2018, 08:38 AM
I don't see how hoes charge 200, or 300 with inflation unless they're okay with sleeping with multiple guys a day to make a profit because its more costly to live these days.
I know first hand that this is what they're doing.
When I started escorting, I worked with 2 ladies at their places, because I had roommates.
This was in LA.
One was living in a million dollar home she brought. And the other was in a tiny 1 bedroom apartment with a $2000 a month rent.
Both saw clients, ( $100, or $200) round the clock, 7 days a week.
I sat in the living room and cammed most of the time, so I saw this first hand.
Sidebar: Both ladies were in their early 50's. One had been escorting since she was 18 ( her mom was an escort too).
The other lady got started when she was in her late 30's.
God bless both of them.
Because I can't, and I won't work like that.
The one who had an apartment didn't take a cut of the clients she gave me.
But, the other one did. She took 40%, and said it was industry standard. Greedy, greedy, greedy.
I'd rather cam 10 hours a day, than let multiple strangers fuck me all day.
yaya_cash
12-10-2018, 02:37 PM
I know first hand that this is what they're doing.
When I started escorting, I worked with 2 ladies at their places, because I had roommates.
This was in LA.
One was living in a million dollar home she brought. And the other was in a tiny 1 bedroom apartment with a $2000 a month rent.
Both saw clients, ( $100, or $200) round the clock, 7 days a week.
I sat in the living room and cammed most of the time, so I saw this first hand.
Sidebar: Both ladies were in their early 50's. One had been escorting since she was 18 ( her mom was an escort too).
The other lady got started when she was in her late 30's.
God bless both of them.
Because I can't, and I won't work like that.
The one who had an apartment didn't take a cut of the clients she gave me.
But, the other one did. She took 40%, and said it was industry standard. Greedy, greedy, greedy.
I'd rather cam 10 hours a day, than let multiple strangers fuck me all day.
I see, that how she tried to manage that million dollar home.
And, how was they're well being? What were they doing to keep this up? Did they keep their appearance up, or try to?
yaya_cash
12-10-2018, 02:46 PM
I see, that how she tried to manage that million dollar home.
And, how was they're well being? What were they doing to keep this up? Did they keep their appearance up, or try to?
I knew this girl that was in her late twenties who charged $200, or $300 and said that she tries to look expensive in the club to attract guys and hook them cheap. She let herself go, though, started using crack and had to drink to do what she shouldn't and didn't have anything. She was sharing housing with others because her credit was f----- up; and lived in massage parlors or motels. She left her car with an ex who was on the title because was said controlling, while he offered that she could have the car. So instead she rode around in taxis, collecting they're expensive tabs. She didn't even have a banking card or bank account, and she was robbed of her cash, of course. She is an example that I don't want to happen to me. I thought she was stupid, especially being in the game for about 10 years and traveled, you would think she knew better. Or, she just got incredibly sad in the game.
I tried to help-- but she just kept doing incredibly stupid stuff and seemed she couldn't help herself. And frankly I was annoyed, and her trying to compare me and her as the same didn't help. She also told me that there was something wrong with me. And she was trying to mentor me while being older than me and with me just starting in the adult entertainment industry.
I have to remind myself of this story and her, so I don't become like her or fall off.
WendiStarr
12-10-2018, 06:06 PM
I love Caress body wash. It smells so good.
AChildOfBoredom
12-11-2018, 06:18 AM
These little kids at the equestrian center were singing “Surfin’ Bird” earlier. And it was adorable, but at the same time, I’ve always found that to be a song which gets stuck in my head and just refuses to go away, so they triggered that.
https://youtu.be/9Gc4QTqslN4
On that note, I have a Latina friend who likes to bring up the topic of, “white guys trying to dance”. Maybe it’s not entirely unfounded.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-11-2018, 06:46 AM
I know this girl that was in her late twenties-then who charged $200, or $300 and said that she tries to look expensive in the club to attract guys and hook them cheap. She let herself go, though, started using crack and had to drink to do what she shouldn't and didn't have anything. She was sharing housing with others because her credit was f----- up; and lived in massage parlors or motels. She left her car with an ex who was on the title because was said controlling, while he offered that she could have the car. So instead she rode around in taxis, collecting they're expensive tabs. She didn't even have a banking card or bank account, and she was robbed of her cash, of course. She is an example that I don't want to happen to me. I thought she was stupid, especially being in the game for about 10 years and traveled, you would think she knew better. Or, she just got incredibly sad in the game.
I tried to help-- but she just kept doing incredibly stupid stuff and seemed she couldn't help herself. And frankly I was annoyed, and her trying to compare me and her as the same didn't help. She also told me that there was something wrong with me. And she was trying to mentor me while being older than me and with me just starting in the adult entertainment industry.
I have to remind myself of this story and her, so I don't become like her or fall off.
Some girls are never educated about how laws apply to purchases and loans (for example, in some states loaning your car to someone who is irresponsible is the WORST thing you can do to yourself.)
& Honestly a lot of sex workers get to a point where they enable their addictions 100 percent with their income. Might be addiction to a shitty relationship, might be addiction to narcotics or shopping.
Glamourmilf
12-11-2018, 07:20 AM
I see, that how she tried to manage that million dollar home.
And, how was they're well being? What were they doing to keep this up? Did they keep their appearance up, or try to?
Well being? I didn't see any.
The million dollar house woman, ( the ice princess as she was called) was overweight, and lived on Xanax. She reminded me of a Stepford wife. Tons of facial plastic surgery.
The other one lived on coke, uppers, etc. Lots of plastic surgery also.
To each their own.
A cautionary tale, for sure.
What I thought was ironic, is that they both thought camming was pathetic, and looked down on me for doing it.
WendiStarr
12-11-2018, 07:45 AM
A whale reappeared and of course he'd reappear during my unwanted monthly curse time. He's not a whale who comes around often. I'm torn between making up some bs about why I can't see him this week (because you know, men are too squeamish for me to tell him that it's the wrong time of the month) and shoving a sponge up there, seeing him, and having to go to an urgent care to get the sponge out afterwards.
AChildOfBoredom
12-11-2018, 03:01 PM
I wish I was taller.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-11-2018, 03:29 PM
I can't post this outside of Ladies Only but- I found out an guy friend of mine is now managing a strip bar in Florida. I'm so very happy b/c I know he protected a girl from getting raped when I knew him (poor girl was passed out drunk and "a guy" was trying to shove his dick into her.) My friend makes me bonkers but I'd trust him with my kids or my car.
I'm sure by the time he's sick of the bar business he'll have a girl to marry and a house bought. Good for him. He's earned the Great Life.
Elektra Luxx
12-11-2018, 04:30 PM
I'm not sure what happened yesterday, I no appetite, was nauseated, my tummy was upset and I had body aches. Then I took two Tylenol and I felt 10 times better and woke up this morning feeling great. Is there such a thing as a 12 hour bug?
lilylilylily
12-11-2018, 09:33 PM
Food just tastes extra good after you've been drinking
baer45
12-11-2018, 10:58 PM
https://youtu.be/JEz1qGS0T1Q
Surfing on YouTube, this is what I found.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-12-2018, 06:18 AM
Interesting WSJ/msn article-
https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/retirement/the-loneliest-generation-americans-more-than-ever-are-aging-alone/ar-BBQOEY6?ocid=spartandhp
The blunt fucking truth of older people living alone is either no one wants to be around them, or their kids are too fucked up to be trusted around them.
Lots of older people will ramble about how great their kids are......and neglect to mention they had to cut Kiddo out of their life after Kiddo ran up some credit cards & wouldn't pay them back. Or some other sort of stunt.
///Truth is, most parents can't wait for their kids to move out. The novelty of parenthood wears off around the time kids reach age 8.
AChildOfBoredom
12-12-2018, 06:41 AM
///Truth is, most parents can't wait for their kids to move out. The novelty of parenthood wears off around the time kids reach age 8.
Grand so. I’ve seen that change in demeanor between childbirth and about that age among others. First, the the insistence that you be there for it. I really wish I’d said no to that. Then they insist their newborn is the most beautiful thing ever, whereas I’m thinking that I may have regained my faith, because the baby to me looks like an imp which came from the bowels of Hell, but maybe that’s just my maternal instincts being lacking.
Fast forward seven or eight years, “my son is such a little shit anymore…”.
I skipped that whole process and now I have custody of a 16 year-old. And I told her, “you have the loving home you deserve here, but if you end up being a pain in the ass like the children of my friends with teenage children are - and especially if you give me grey hairs when I’m only in my 20s, I will lock you away in a very dark closet”.
Jokingly, of course. Yeah, completely jokingly…
WendiStarr
12-12-2018, 08:43 AM
^
I don't think that that's true. I still love my 9 year old. I may get frustrated with her sometimes but I never refer to her as a "little shit" or anything negative. I still call her "my baby" and in my eyes she always will be. Then again, I wasn't supposed to even be able to have kids so maybe this doesn't apply to people like me. I still have the teen years ahead of me though and if she's anything like me, she'll appear quiet, well behaved, and innocent while secretly sneaking out the window at night to go see men old enough to be her daddy. Oh God, now I'm worrying about teen years lol.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-12-2018, 09:32 AM
Grand so. I’ve seen that change in demeanor between childbirth and about that age among others. First, the the insistence that you be there for it. I really wish I’d said no to that. Then they insist their newborn is the most beautiful thing ever, whereas I’m thinking that I may have regained my faith, because the baby to me looks like an imp which came from the bowels of Hell, but maybe that’s just my maternal instincts being lacking.
Fast forward seven or eight years, “my son is such a little shit anymore…”.
I skipped that whole process and now I have custody of a 16 year-old. And I told her, “you have the loving home you deserve here, but if you end up being a pain in the ass like the children of my friends with teenage children are - and especially if you give me grey hairs when I’m only in my 20s, I will lock you away in a very dark closet”.
Jokingly, of course. Yeah, completely jokingly…
It's true, having to parent minors WILL cause premature grey hair. Kids (whether they are nice or not) are an endless series of expenses, needs and wants. Basic food, shelter and grooming expenses PLUS cost of extracurricular entertainment is very high, even with raising kids on a budget.
I got pissed at one of my old friends when she became a single mom and was surprised at how fast expenses piled up with a young kid. I mean....whaddaya expect? Kids aren't backyard chickens or teacup poodles.
JessaJade
12-12-2018, 11:38 AM
Interesting WSJ/msn article-
https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/retirement/the-loneliest-generation-americans-more-than-ever-are-aging-alone/ar-BBQOEY6?ocid=spartandhp
The blunt fucking truth of older people living alone is either no one wants to be around them, or their kids are too fucked up to be trusted around them.
Lots of older people will ramble about how great their kids are......and neglect to mention they had to cut Kiddo out of their life after Kiddo ran up some credit cards & wouldn't pay them back. Or some other sort of stunt.
///Truth is, most parents can't wait for their kids to move out. The novelty of parenthood wears off around the time kids reach age 8.
It is very sad. Loneliness is an epidemic.
But there are also a lot of older people who ramble on about how awful their children are for not visiting while conveniently forgetting that they treated them poorly earlier in life. They mellow and get frail and start playing on being this sweet old person to get sympathy. Sometimes adult children have good reason to be estranged or limit contact.
JessaJade
12-12-2018, 11:44 AM
A whale reappeared and of course he'd reappear during my unwanted monthly curse time. He's not a whale who comes around often. I'm torn between making up some bs about why I can't see him this week (because you know, men are too squeamish for me to tell him that it's the wrong time of the month) and shoving a sponge up there, seeing him, and having to go to an urgent care to get the sponge out afterwards.
Personally I would go for the sponge option...you should be able to remove it fairly easily, no?
baer45
12-12-2018, 12:51 PM
Personally I would go for the sponge option...you should be able to remove it fairly easily, no?
I had one incident that sponge was pushed way up...I almost went to see my gynecologist. That guy doesn't even have a big cock. Average size...
WendiStarr
12-12-2018, 01:57 PM
Personally I would go for the sponge option...you should be able to remove it fairly easily, no?
I had a bad experience with an Instead cup where it got stuck way up in there and had to have it removed by a professional. That time I didn't even have sex, just went swimming and didn't want to deal with a tampon. A different time I tried a diaphragm for period sex purposes and had to go to ER afterwards to have it removed. I'm hoping that a sponge would be easier. I mean, once it gets wet it seems that it would sink down lower, possibly low enough to get it out. My cervix is tipped backwards and I have tiny childlike fingers so if it gets lodged up there, I'll be at urgent care.
JGB2009
12-12-2018, 04:05 PM
I got my nails done today and OMG they look awesome!!!!
lynn2009
12-12-2018, 05:30 PM
Animal lovers: go on Craigslist and flag puppies for sale posts. There are an ungodly amount before Christmas with shitty back yard breeders selling poor little things to unprepared homes that will dump the animals at a shelter (or empty country road :( ) once they get out of the puppy stage or the new lazy owners realize dogs are a lot of work. Help make back yard breeding unprofitable!!!
JGB2009
12-12-2018, 08:09 PM
I'm talking to this guy on a dating site. I think he wants to meet me at Walmart lmfao!!!! I only say that cause he asked if I go to the one in a certain location. Otherwise I have no clue why he asked.
AChildOfBoredom
12-12-2018, 08:45 PM
It's true, having to parent minors WILL cause premature grey hair. Kids (whether they are nice or not) are an endless series of expenses, needs and wants. Basic food, shelter and grooming expenses PLUS cost of extracurricular entertainment is very high, even with raising kids on a budget.
I got pissed at one of my old friends when she became a single mom and was surprised at how fast expenses piled up with a young kid. I mean....whaddaya expect? Kids aren't backyard chickens or teacup poodles.
Yeah, I skipped the whole parenting part. I mean, I provide her with guidance, but she doesn’t need me to try being a parent. She’ll be an adult in less than two years, and having custody vs. emancipation is more about being able to cover her under my health insurance at work than it is about feeling any need to make decisions for her. She’s welcome to stay as long as she sees fit to, but I know she’ll make her own way without much delay. She’s the one who wants to be a cosmetologist, and who always wants to braid everyone’s hair.
There are a lot of people out there with kids who I wouldn’t trust with a goldfish. Yet, these same people are often the ones who’d talk shit about a single mother stripping to provide for hers and actually be able to spend time with them. It’s mind-blowing sometimes.
I'm talking to this guy on a dating site. I think he wants to meet me at Walmart lmfao!!!! I only say that cause he asked if I go to the one in a certain location. Otherwise I have no clue why he asked.
Walmart? If he’s going for that, better it should be Chuck-E-Cheese or Dave and Buster’s, where there’s, you know, actually shit to do. Me, it’s always the skee ball which lures me in, so I end the night with a massive pile of tickets and the realization that, as an adult, I’m too old for the stuff that I could redeem them for. So, I observe the kids throughout the night. Whichever one seems to be acting the least like a shithead gets my tickets. Or I’m not driving, I’ve had a couple drinks, and I give them to whoever because I don’t give a fuck.
Much better than Wally World.
Elektra Luxx
12-12-2018, 11:22 PM
I'm talking to this guy on a dating site. I think he wants to meet me at Walmart lmfao!!!! I only say that cause he asked if I go to the one in a certain location. Otherwise I have no clue why he asked.
Maybe he wants you to feel comfortable meeting him in a big open public place. Walmart has lots people, lighting, cameras and security. It's a odd choice, there are more exciting big open public places.
carmen_b
12-13-2018, 12:10 AM
^ I think he fumbled in conversation. I hope he does not want to meet you there ! Or maybe getting a sense of your area to pick a place.
Glamourmilf
12-13-2018, 08:28 AM
FINALLY one guy who contacted me on a dating site that I'm actually attracted to!
Too bad it's happening at a time when I'm super paranoid about meeting up with men.
I just saw an interview with Frida Farrell and watched the trailer for her movie "Apartment 407". She was sex trafficked.
Holy moly!
She said that when she spoke with Los Angeles pd, they told her that women are snatched right off the streets everyday. Not street walkers.
I don't live in la anymore. But, I fit the profile to a tea, of what they're looking for. Just yesterday, I had 2 guys creep up on me. One was at the park. Nobody around in the parking lot when I was getting into my car.
The 2nd in the supermarket. I was over in a secluded area using the coin convergence machine.
I'm a big believer in LOA, so I know that what you think of constantly, does manifest itself.
Going to hibernate until I can gather some weaponry. And hire a bodyguard.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-13-2018, 08:41 AM
FINALLY one guy who contacted me on a dating site that I'm actually attracted to!
Too bad it's happening at a time when I'm super paranoid about meeting up with men.
I just saw an interview with Frida Farrell and watched the trailer for her movie "Apartment 407". She was sex trafficked.
Holy moly!
She said that when she spoke with Los Angeles pd, they told her that women are snatched right off the streets everyday. Not street walkers.
I don't live in la anymore. But, I fit the profile to a tea, of what they're looking for. Just yesterday, I had 2 guys creep up on me. One was at the park. Nobody around in the parking lot when I was getting into my car.
The 2nd in the supermarket. I was over in a secluded area using the coin convergence machine.
I'm a big believer in LOA, so I know that what you think of constantly, does manifest itself.
Going to hibernate until I can gather some weaponry. And hire a bodyguard.
It's true. Guys do grab women off the street. Unfortunately. LA is a big city & with a murder rate that can compare to large cities in Central and South America. One always has to be careful in places like that.
My Random thought- this apple is delicious!!!
Glamourmilf
12-13-2018, 08:48 AM
It's true. Guys do grab women off the street. Unfortunately. LA is a big city & with a murder rate that can compare to large cities in Central and South America. One always has to be careful in places like that.
My Random thought- this apple is delicious!!!
Yes, and thinking back on how many chances I took when I lived there. It's a miracle nothing like that ever happened to me.
My angels were definitely working overtime, for sure.
But, I live in a remote, and less populated area now. Women here go missing without a trace, and are attacked all the time. It's just too easy for predators.
carmen_b
12-13-2018, 02:36 PM
Glam: I am glad you are so situation aware. My friends often find me funny because I will never let anyone get within grabbing / touching distance of me. I will look up and say " back away please " or take large steps back myself to create distance. I'll lock car doors way sooner than the social norm if someone is walking up in the direction.
Nothing wrong with this stuff. Men are creeps ( or can be ) and I want an extra safety cushion.
I had an issue yesterday at a coffee shop. A man followed me outside when I tried to go out to take a phone call ( he was just trying to get my number .... I think ) but I was there with another man so thats pretty sketch already.
He was standing way too close on the patio area and positioning himself to block my easiest entrance back in. Easy enough. Back up / back out ( walking off the patio area backwards haha ) ! Sketch bucket.
Elektra Luxx
12-13-2018, 02:42 PM
I'm such big, emotionally, crying mess today. I'm feeling happy and sad all at the same time.
indiegirl
12-13-2018, 02:46 PM
I want someone to carry me to the grocery store's ATM or at the very least drive me. I'm lazy after working last night and about to audition elsewhere. LOL
lynn2009
12-13-2018, 08:33 PM
The married guy I was seeing occasionally for a couple of years, FOSTA must be hitting the man hard. Confession time: we met through Craigslist connections. I stopped replying to him after Derek died last year, I said I didn't care about a couple of acquaintances of his that died around the same time, he said I owed him an apology and I literally deleted our text thread that second and knew I'd never speak to him again. He texted me first a few weeks later, then occasionally like at Christmas, Derek's one year anniversary, my birthday and I never answer. Last week or so he emailed me, earlier this week he called me then earlier today texted me "I guess you're ignoring me on purpose". Yeah. I am. I was so weak willed before.
I can't believe it, he just emailed me again.