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lilylilylily
12-13-2018, 08:53 PM
I think I'm finally gonna get a tattoo

carmen_b
12-13-2018, 10:21 PM
^ Nice!

carmen_b
12-13-2018, 10:23 PM
Yawn.
Man children BORE me to tears. I just received a text from someone I told to get over here ( crystal clear hints of action ) 6 days ago asking how my week was .
My week was " it is none of your fucking business but in case you must know two dudes have been here since you failed me 6 days ago ". Haha.
I am not even going to reply.

AChildOfBoredom
12-14-2018, 07:50 AM
The amorous equestrian is here again, but I'm not to worried about him bothering me today. He'll approach when I'm dressed for doing riding instruction, or doing admin work, or something more stereotypically feminine, but he won't when I'm operating equipment or working in the shop. He's a bit of a prettyboy, whereas I have no problem getting my hands dirty. And I think he feels like I need to be 'saved' from that or some such shit. Decent enough guy, don't get me wrong. But he's set in his way, and I am in mine, and I see the prospects of anything there working out to be absolutely zero.

Glamourmilf
12-14-2018, 08:21 AM
Glam: I am glad you are so situation aware. My friends often find me funny because I will never let anyone get within grabbing / touching distance of me. I will look up and say " back away please " or take large steps back myself to create distance. I'll lock car doors way sooner than the social norm if someone is walking up in the direction.
Nothing wrong with this stuff. Men are creeps ( or can be ) and I want an extra safety cushion.

I had an issue yesterday at a coffee shop. A man followed me outside when I tried to go out to take a phone call ( he was just trying to get my number .... I think ) but I was there with another man so thats pretty sketch already.

He was standing way too close on the patio area and positioning himself to block my easiest entrance back in. Easy enough. Back up / back out ( walking off the patio area backwards haha ) ! Sketch bucket.

I'm so glad to hear how self aware you are.
To me, it just makes sense.
My friends out here call me a ' city girl', and too paranoid.
Not paranoid. Smart.
Right after I wrote my post yesterday, I turned on the news.
All those bomb threats throughout the US, AND even Canada.
Paranoid?
Naw, I'm just very aware of what's really happening in this crazy world, that's all.

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-14-2018, 08:39 AM
The amorous equestrian is here again, but I'm not to worried about him bothering me today. He'll approach when I'm dressed for doing riding instruction, or doing admin work, or something more stereotypically feminine, but he won't when I'm operating equipment or working in the shop. He's a bit of a prettyboy, whereas I have no problem getting my hands dirty. And I think he feels like I need to be 'saved' from that or some such shit. Decent enough guy, don't get me wrong. But he's set in his way, and I am in mine, and I see the prospects of anything there working out to be absolutely zero.

Easiest way to lose unwanted creepy Romeos-

Start talking really loudly about your yeast infection. Or BV.

Like, "Hey!!! (Co-worker)!!!! Can you give me a ride to the drugstore later? I need to get some Monistat!!!!! I'll give you gas money, no worries babe!!!"

WendiStarr
12-14-2018, 10:36 AM
^ Ha, periods always gross most men out too, especially talk of heavy flow or prolonged bleeding.

AChildOfBoredom
12-14-2018, 11:28 AM
Easiest way to lose unwanted creepy Romeos-

Start talking really loudly about your yeast infection. Or BV.

Like, "Hey!!! (Co-worker)!!!! Can you give me a ride to the drugstore later? I need to get some Monistat!!!!! I'll give you gas money, no worries babe!!!"

Oh, dissuading him from approaching me is much easier than that. The fact that I can do what are considered 'manly' tasks which he can't serves as a pretty good deterrent. He's not alone in that... a lot of guys feel sheepish and emasculated by that sort of thing.

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-14-2018, 12:42 PM
^ Ha, periods always gross most men out too, especially talk of heavy flow or prolonged bleeding.

Yup, that too.

WendiStarr
12-14-2018, 09:14 PM
I haven't had pop in a long time and I'm suddenly craving a tall, cold glass of Pepsi with ice. I don't know why.

AChildOfBoredom
12-14-2018, 09:27 PM
I haven't had pop in a long time and I'm suddenly craving a tall, cold glass of Pepsi with ice. I don't know why.

I’m in a similar boat. I absolutely love it, but, since I never had it growing up, I never really developed any sort of tolerance either for caffeine or really sugary beverages, so if I go for lunch with friends, I end up taking sips of someone else’s and just order a water for myself.

I was 18 when I drank a pop for the first time. My roommate poured a glass of Mountain Dew, so I was giving him shit about this chemical green substance, so he slid it to me and offered me some. So I took a sip… and a longer one… and a longer one… and downed the whole glass before I even realized it. And I heard my other roommate go, “oh, shit”, and I understood why later, because I was just bouncing off the fucking walls after that.

WendiStarr
12-15-2018, 06:19 AM
Fingers crossed that I get this promo modeling gig. Hopefully they'll overlook the no tattoo thing because I only have 1 and it can easily be covered up, if need be.

Aurora_Sunset
12-15-2018, 08:39 PM
Haven’t been hungry all day. Finally ate the container of curry I made for lunch just so I ate something healthy today. Weird though.

Ladycaxe
12-16-2018, 05:39 AM
when u leave work 2 hours b4 close on a slow ass night and a big group of guys walks in -____-
well damn.
if theres anything that has inspired me to obtain a vehicle, its that. lol.
had my uber not already have been there, I would have stayed.
*I've been trying to convince myself to buy a car so theres that*
I guess I technically could have stayed. an intense wave of FOMO swept me as I was leaving but,
now that I'm in bed, I can only think that this isn't the end of my career and theres lots more money to
be made in my lifetime so I'm just going to take the L and get some rest.

also my lease ends in 3 months. im so happy. I've figured out where I want to live. nice ass condos, I live around wayyy too many knuckleheads rn. ready to gtfo!!

evalesauvage
12-16-2018, 06:13 AM
Am I the only one who eats while watching porn videos?

Glamourmilf
12-16-2018, 09:26 AM
My random thought is, why do I even bother responding to guys on the dating sites?
This one guy, who's good looking, with a great body hits me up.
Not really my type ( blond), but seems nice enough to go have coffee/lunch with.
He fires rapid messages non stop. Where do I live? What kind of food do I like? What brought me out here? Etc.
I ask him for his number. ( I like to hear what a guy's voice is like. No wimps allowed.)
When I texted him, he sent 1 text back, then ghosted.:O
This other guy ( black, who I AM attracted to), gave me his number, and when I searched it, it belongs to a woman.:-\
Started messaging me in the middle of the night, then got pissy when I wouldn't respond right away.
I'm going to delete my profile.
As much as I bitch and moan about my gay boyfriends, I'm better off with them. At least for now.
.

AChildOfBoredom
12-16-2018, 11:26 AM
It sometimes feels nice to be able to get through to people that nobody else seems to be able to. Convinced my ex-roommate to sign up on Tinder, even though he was pretty insistent that he’d rather go about it on his own for a while. Yes, his ex- is a toxic and narcissistic bitch, but he was still a better him when he was with someone. Now I just have to nag him to actually use it.

Maybe it’s hypocritical of me, given my absolute refusal to date, but whatever.

carmen_b
12-16-2018, 11:37 AM
^ Once he starts , try to encourage him to use it responsibly.
I think the platform would be SO much better if people could only like 2 people or so a day. That way, people would be more selective and it would encourage fast in person meetings.
It's so odd to match with so many but meet so few of them.

I try to take my own advice and only like 1-2 a day but sometimes you'll catch a streak of attractive people .

AChildOfBoredom
12-16-2018, 11:52 AM
I’m not worried about him using it responsibly - I don’t think that’s an issue. I’m more worried about him not using it at all. Even if it doesn’t lead to anything, I think it would be good for him to meet people, and I want him to be happy, as I do for all people I care about. And some of my friends ask me, “Why are you so concerned? He was just a roommate”, but my first two roommates were really much more. I really don’t know if I would’ve made it living ‘English’ without them. Not to mention that, when I came back from Afghanistan, I was flown to a hospital… the moment they found out, they dropped what they were doing, packed a couple things, told their employers either to put them on emergency leave or fire them, and drove all night so they could be there with me. I think he has a lot to offer someone, but he needs to be willing to try.

So it is a little bit of a warm and fuzzy feeling for me that he would take that advice from me to heart when he’s been pretty much just telling anyone else who offered it to piss off.

Ladycaxe
12-16-2018, 02:39 PM
Mann.... As much as I want to move out , I dont think it's the right idea -,-
Even tho I make probably an above average amount of cash
I dont think it's the right idea to be throwing it away in rent.
The neighborhood is not the best, and I dont have a washer/dryer lol, but its the least expensive, utilities included, and close 2 work -___-
I should be happy about it ! But man ! I'm such a nomad, I like to be somewhere new as soon as I can haha.
The thing about living so cheap is, really just gives me the ability to TRAVEL anywhere.
Perhaps I should try getting my luxury fix by traveling instead of renting a luxury condo (right now at least) and throwing $ away D:

(I've been keeping my eye on another good apartment, I have 3 months til lease ends, and today after checking it I saw they were sold out of the apt I wanted D: so now bak to square 1 lol)

WendiStarr
12-16-2018, 02:46 PM
I finally satisfied my pop craving by substituting with strawberry flavored sparkling water. Now I want a chicken shawarma sandwich with garlic sauce.

yaya_cash
12-16-2018, 03:17 PM
Are phone sex-operator businesses at least somewhat popular now? And what companies would be good to start an operating job?

yaya_cash
12-16-2018, 03:24 PM
Mann.... As much as I want to move out , I dont think it's the right idea -,-
Even tho I make probably an above average amount of cash
I dont think it's the right idea to be throwing it away in rent.
The neighborhood is not the best, and I dont have a washer/dryer lol, but its the least expensive, utilities included, and close 2 work -___-
I should be happy about it ! But man ! I'm such a nomad, I like to be somewhere new as soon as I can haha.
The thing about living so cheap is, really just gives me the ability to TRAVEL anywhere.
Perhaps I should try getting my luxury fix by traveling instead of renting a luxury condo (right now at least) and throwing $ away D:

(I've been keeping my eye on another good apartment, I have 3 months til lease ends, and today after checking it I saw they were sold out of the apt I wanted D: so now bak to square 1 lol)

Personally I wouldn't lease out or buy an expensive or luxury apartment unless I have a consistent or stable income, or suitable net worth or I can get someone else to lease or buy it with my name on the contract.

And once you have a stable income I'd find an neighborhood you're interested in and enjoy after doing a lease and then buy a home in the neighborhood that you enjoy the most.

Ladycaxe
12-16-2018, 06:34 PM
Personally I wouldn't lease out or buy an expensive or luxury apartment unless I have a consistent or stable income, or suitable net worth or I can get someone else to lease or buy it with my name on the contract.

And once you have a stable income I'd find an neighborhood you're interested in and enjoy after doing a lease and then buy a home in the neighborhood that you enjoy the most.

yes. well even though it is "luxury" high rise rent is only 1200$!!! its not a lot at all. but at this period in my life, im still paying off some debts so I think it's best I just wait it out.
maybe another year :'0
Im totally thinking about buying a home one day (maybe like a five year goal). it's a very big commitment. I wonder do I really want to ? Can I just rent for the rest of my life?I look at condos to buy alllll the time ! but I'll do anything to create a more stable future to myself.

WendiStarr
12-16-2018, 06:57 PM
Why the heck does an ex bf from 11 years ago keep viewing my Linkedin? I did recently put a photo of me in it. It's not a sexy picture. It's just a professional head shot.

Vyanka
12-17-2018, 01:00 AM
Jesus, saw a SUPER mega hot guy at Whole Foods today. I sware. Everytime I go to that one in particular, there are hot men there and I'm always in there looking like shit!!

This dude was mega tall, Adonis body. Perfectly rounded sculpted muscular top shelf ass that looked like a cantaloupe cut in half. The type of ass you grab during missionary. Lol

Blue eyes

Wide back

I'm going there cute and tipsy next time. Lol

Glamourmilf
12-17-2018, 09:46 AM
Men are so predictable, it's not even funny. Or mildly amusing, for that matter.
A guy who ghosted me on the dating site, came around the INSTANT I changed my photos to slutty ones.
Ha ha!
Obvious much? ::)
Yeah, I knew it.
I'm deleting my profile today.
50783

JGB2009
12-17-2018, 10:55 AM
I kept having bad dreams last night and even woke up with a panic attack. I feel like its because of my daughters dad. Sometimes I think he spiritually deals with bad things (spirits). Something never feels right about it....I feel like something is going on.

yaya_cash
12-17-2018, 10:59 AM
yes. well even though it is "luxury" high rise rent is only 1200$!!! its not a lot at all. but at this period in my life, im still paying off some debts so I think it's best I just wait it out.
maybe another year :'0
Im totally thinking about buying a home one day (maybe like a five year goal). it's a very big commitment. I wonder do I really want to ? Can I just rent for the rest of my life?I look at condos to buy alllll the time ! but I'll do anything to create a more stable future to myself.

Maybe you could subsidize airbnb or another income or find someone whose alright with paying partially to rent it yourself.

WendiStarr
12-17-2018, 01:18 PM
I worked out today and afterwards instead of feeling better and more energized, I felt blah and took a nap.

Elektra Luxx
12-17-2018, 01:52 PM
Bf is getting me a kitten for Christmas. Several boxes from Chewy.com, plus a box with a 51" cat tree were delivered. Bf didn't expect them to be labeled so conspicuously. His sister is giving away a Bengal cat that she bought for maybe $2000. It's a beautiful cat, but mean and finicky. It doesn't like people or other cats and it pees on her good clothes if she forgets to clean it's litterbox. I hope bf is not planning on giving me this cat.

carmen_b
12-17-2018, 03:57 PM
Online spying. Some people don't know you can see everyone who has viewed you.
Why the heck does an ex bf from 11 years ago keep viewing my Linkedin? I did recently put a photo of me in it. It's not a sexy picture. It's just a professional head shot.

carmen_b
12-17-2018, 03:59 PM
Go back around the same time and look for him ! Ha! Gotta nab that one or at least try to !
Jesus, saw a SUPER mega hot guy at Whole Foods today. I sware. Everytime I go to that one in particular, there are hot men there and I'm always in there looking like shit!!

This dude was mega tall, Adonis body. Perfectly rounded sculpted muscular top shelf ass that looked like a cantaloupe cut in half. The type of ass you grab during missionary. Lol

Blue eyes

Wide back

I'm going there cute and tipsy next time. Lol

WendiStarr
12-17-2018, 07:41 PM
Just read about a lady who was murdered and the killer is still out there. I am glad to finally see a headline involving an sex worker that doesn't bring attention to their job. When anything bad happens to a sex worker, the average civilian tends to have no sympathy. Because of her particular niche, my first thought was that she was killed by an incel. I don't want to name names here of who the lady was but some may be able to figure it out on their own. This shit is getting too out of hand. I hope she gets justice.

Vyanka
12-17-2018, 07:51 PM
Go back around the same time and look for him ! Ha! Gotta nab that one or at least try to !

I'm gonna ask him to get me something from top shelf bc "I can't reach". ;)

carmen_b
12-17-2018, 07:52 PM
^ That's so good !

carmen_b
12-17-2018, 07:52 PM
So ...... last night I got a happy ending massage.
This experience can't really go in the dating thread. There was no date. Just this experience. ;)

Swoon.

AChildOfBoredom
12-18-2018, 05:42 AM
I'm gonna ask him to get me something from top shelf bc "I can't reach". ;)

That will probably do it. I often have to ask people to do this when I go shopping, as I am quite short, and they seem to take it as a cue, even though I don’t want them to. So, if I can, I bring my 6’1” friend along. As an added bonus, between her height and the ankle monitor she has to wear, the creepers are afraid to come near us. Downside of it is, she kinda scares me too sometimes.

WendiStarr
12-18-2018, 07:21 AM
Online spying. Some people don't know you can see everyone who has viewed you.

He should know better though. He's a computer nerd as his profession.

WendiStarr
12-18-2018, 10:19 AM
I'm contemplating accompanying a reg out of state for a 3 day trip. I've never been to Vegas. It might be fun. Then again, it might be too mentally exhausting dealing with him for that many days. I need to be able to escape and be alone to recharge and if I'm with someone 24/7 type of thing, I will go nuts and end up in a pissy mood. I can't have someone wanting to be up my ass all day and night. The only exception is my daughter and Mr. Dilf.

chanzep
12-18-2018, 01:29 PM
It might be ok if he gets a suite , because they are bigger for space, if you could get some alone time too, last time I went with my husband I would go to the casino alone sometimes or go to Starbucks. It depends on how this guy is.

carmen_b
12-18-2018, 03:07 PM
You can get the day passes at so many of the spa's there which can create a natural 3-5 hour break. Just tell him you plan on doing it.
I highly recommend the Wynn Encore and Ceasars but I'm sure any of the big places have amazing spa's. There is also a traditional Korean Spa ( imperial or something like that ) where you could escape easily. He could buy you the pass or a treatment.


I'm contemplating accompanying a reg out of state for a 3 day trip. I've never been to Vegas. It might be fun. Then again, it might be too mentally exhausting dealing with him for that many days. I need to be able to escape and be alone to recharge and if I'm with someone 24/7 type of thing, I will go nuts and end up in a pissy mood. I can't have someone wanting to be up my ass all day and night. The only exception is my daughter and Mr. Dilf.

lilylilylily
12-18-2018, 10:22 PM
I know pink isnt a very Christmacy color but I painted my nails a festive sparkly pink, I'm quite happy how they look

lilylilylily
12-18-2018, 10:31 PM
I'm contemplating accompanying a reg out of state for a 3 day trip. I've never been to Vegas. It might be fun. Then again, it might be too mentally exhausting dealing with him for that many days. I need to be able to escape and be alone to recharge and if I'm with someone 24/7 type of thing, I will go nuts and end up in a pissy mood. I can't have someone wanting to be up my ass all day and night. The only exception is my daughter and Mr. Dilf.

Omg I went to Vegas back in 2011 with an 80 year old customer, he was so needy on the trip it was a nightmare, I wanted to see Vegas though and we did do a lot of things, restaurants,shows etc.. but would have been more enjoyable if I went with a friend

JGB2009
12-18-2018, 11:19 PM
My legs are all wobbly....

carmen_b
12-19-2018, 12:11 AM
My friend brought back some edibles and we had a great time for 4-5 hours.

Now I think I'm in a weird mental state on the flip side ( coming up to hour 6 or so ) . I'm missing my ex terribly and just feeling incredibly pouty and off .

I'm ruminating because I feel like I did neglect him ( I admit it ) Jan. - June and I probably deserved him to get mad or make out with a coworker or something. Him getting in touch with an ex and leaving was just bizarre and weird. We were struggling at the 6.5 year point. I believe we made a mistake not fighting harder.

I better try to just sleep this off. I'm feeling so full of guilt for neglecting him and " ruining " things.

Glamourmilf
12-19-2018, 07:20 AM
I'm contemplating accompanying a reg out of state for a 3 day trip. I've never been to Vegas. It might be fun. Then again, it might be too mentally exhausting dealing with him for that many days. I need to be able to escape and be alone to recharge and if I'm with someone 24/7 type of thing, I will go nuts and end up in a pissy mood. I can't have someone wanting to be up my ass all day and night. The only exception is my daughter and Mr. Dilf.


Omg I went to Vegas back in 2011 with an 80 year old customer, he was so needy on the trip it was a nightmare, I wanted to see Vegas though and we did do a lot of things, restaurants,shows etc.. but would have been more enjoyable if I went with a friend

What she said^^.
Being with a customer for 3 days straight=:no::no::no::no::no::no:
I've done it a few times, and every time was worse than the last.
But, if you do decide to go, make sure to pack lots of anti anxiety pills.
Oh, and sleeping pills. Lots of sleeping pills.

WendiStarr
12-19-2018, 07:44 AM
^ I don't think I'm going to go with him. I get the feeling that he would be overly needy and I would feel smothered and end up blowing up about it, possibly making him act all butthurt. I don't think it would be worth it to deal with that.

I went to the bank to deposit and there was only one person in front of me at the teller window and no one behind me. It was the first time that I've ever seen my bank not crowded with people. There was only one teller working. I was standing there waiting for my turn when someone walked in and stood behind me. I kind of did a indirect glance behind me at the person and was thinking, "Wow, that guy is tall for a white guy!" When it was my turn I put the cash in the slot under the window. I noticed this guy move closer to me while the teller stood there counting the cash. I turned around and looked right at him and realized that he was a former client. Another teller appeared and said she could help him. He walked over there but still turned his head to look at the teller counting my cash, looked at me with this blank look, and back at the teller again. When I was leaving, he turned around and watched me walking out. That was odd. Mf'ers are nosey.

Glamourmilf
12-19-2018, 08:02 AM
^ I don't think I'm going to go with him. I get the feeling that he would be overly needy and I would feel smothered and end up blowing up about it, possibly making him act all butthurt. I don't think it would be worth it to deal with that.


Wise decision.
I flashed back to a sugar daddy I once had.
He paid for my entire move to another city.
When he flew out to see me for Christmas, I had him get a hotel room, even though my house was a three bedroom, 2200 sq ft place.
He didn't like that idea one bit, and right after his trip out to see me, he disappeared.
Oops.
He left me with a $1700 a month rent, plus all of my other bills.
I ended up having to move out.

WendiStarr
12-20-2018, 05:24 AM
I've been up since 5am for no reason, trying to fall back asleep with no luck. I'm thinking about ordering carry out breakfast from Bob Evan's. It's right next door.