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JGB2009
12-20-2018, 04:45 PM
U call me and I didn't hear my phone ring. So I message you to find out why and so far no reply......guess it was not that important!!!

lilylilylily
12-20-2018, 05:32 PM
I'm getting my first tattoo tomorrow, why am I so nervous

WendiStarr
12-20-2018, 05:44 PM
I've been thinking about getting eyelash extensions done but I'm an eyeglasses wearer most of the time. I can't imagine I'd be able to get the dramatic kind because it would probably keep hitting my glasses and come off faster or something. I bought some nice looking magnetic falsies today. I'll try these out first and see how it goes.

WendiStarr
12-20-2018, 05:46 PM
I'm getting my first tattoo tomorrow, why am I so nervous

Aww, I think that's normal to be nervous. It's really not that bad. Depending on where it's located it'll probably just feel like a mild sunburn on that area. If you're close to your period starting your perception of pain might be greater because pain sensitivity increases before and during your period. I think you'll be fine though.

lilylilylily
12-20-2018, 07:06 PM
Thanks hun! I'm getting it on my lower wrist, I think should be ok
Cool, tell us how it goes with the magnetic lashes, I've been wanting to try those out, I'm sick of using glue lol

AChildOfBoredom
12-20-2018, 09:31 PM
I'm getting my first tattoo tomorrow, why am I so nervous

I’m a little envious. I’ve wanted one for a long time, but I’m afraid to.

lilylilylily
12-20-2018, 09:48 PM
I'm getting a tiny one just to start, maybe I'll end up wanting more.I've always wanted one too, not so much afraid of the pain but more of the fact that its permanent..but if you want one, go for it! Just get a small one where it's not too noticeable
When I was still dancing my regs didnt want me to get a tattoo because I was the only girl at the club that didn't have any and they liked that, but now I can:)

carmen_b
12-20-2018, 11:48 PM
Wish me luck. The day job sales have stalled.
I placed a massage ad.
Eck. Haven’t done this hustle in 10-12 months.

WendiStarr
12-21-2018, 03:07 AM
Wish me luck. The day job sales have stalled.
I placed a massage ad.
Eck. Haven’t done this hustle in 10-12 months.

It gets slow around this time of the year, it seems, for both vanilla and non-vanilla jobs. If you are a member of any hobby boards or EB/LC, they seem to have been getting me the most custies for fbsm. You can PM me if you want to.

JGB2009
12-21-2018, 05:04 AM
I love when you snuggle with me......but the other night you lacked in that area......lets hope next time you do better!!!!

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-21-2018, 06:41 AM
I recently read a stupefying Internet article that talked about how "HOT" the late author John Steinbeck was. (Like appearance-wise.)

I was immediately annoyed. Has our culture gotten to be so shallow that we only grade things on initial appeal?

Also Steinbeck is a global historical icon because of his literary work. He could have looked like a Hobbit and he STILL would have had an impact with his works.

Just had to get this out of my head. On the same token nowadays when you mention the name "Hemingway" people usually think of a family dynasty of mental illness & substance abuse, NOT literature. Sign of the times, maybe?

WendiStarr
12-21-2018, 01:30 PM
Mr. Dilf worked from my place today. He told me that he wants to get me something for Christmas. He said he's going to go shop for my presents and will be back. I'm curious to see what he's going to get me.

Elektra Luxx
12-21-2018, 03:28 PM
I received a PM from a ct525 that said "Your tits are awesome". When is this asshole going to get the message that he's not wanted!!!

carmen_b
12-21-2018, 04:20 PM
Whew. Looked at the account again. I've got enough to last a couple weeks without hitting up the credit cards.
;/
It's not ideal but it's enough to not tolerate weirdness with this massage hustle ( no slow bookers / 20 questions ect / no one who needs a call .....).
They can book smoothly by text or hit the road. ;)

Of course, the creepers from last year ( 3-4 first messages I had already marked their numbers as DO_not_See ) have been the first to reach me.

I'm going to try to balance the weekend the best I can . A little hustle before the holiday + some personal time. I think it will work out.

AChildOfBoredom
12-22-2018, 06:12 AM
I'm getting a tiny one just to start, maybe I'll end up wanting more.I've always wanted one too, not so much afraid of the pain but more of the fact that its permanent..but if you want one, go for it! Just get a small one where it's not too noticeable
When I was still dancing my regs didnt want me to get a tattoo because I was the only girl at the club that didn't have any and they liked that, but now I can:)

I think I'm the only dancer who isn't a "baby stripper" who doesn't have any. I've always liked the look of those where they black out a segment of the person's body with black ink, then do the design in white, but I don't think I'd be able to bear something like that.

Ladycaxe
12-22-2018, 07:32 AM
the rubber on the bottom of my new pleasers fell off and disappeared in the club :[ rip. they were really cute. but also only $40 and obviously an older style shoe. but like damn. they are no longer of use :/

Ladycaxe
12-22-2018, 07:34 AM
I love when you snuggle with me......but the other night you lacked in that area......lets hope next time you do better!!!!

omg this reminds of me a tweet I just saw. LMFAO.

https://twitter.com/radandbougie/status/1076236682591195140

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-22-2018, 08:05 AM
omg this reminds of me a tweet I just saw. LMFAO.

https://twitter.com/radandbougie/status/1076236682591195140

Awww that's so sweet....

JGB2009
12-22-2018, 09:54 AM
I received a PM from a ct525 that said "Your tits are awesome". When is this asshole going to get the message that he's not wanted!!!

Some people never get the message.

AChildOfBoredom
12-22-2018, 10:10 AM
Got off the phone with the ex-roommate (the one I convinced to get on Tinder and Bumble). So, on Bumble, they offer some questions which you answer on the profile. One of the ones he chose to answer was "Two truths and a lie about you", to which his answer was:

"I've eaten raw ghost peppers before, I've worked for the carnival in the past, I've allowed myself to be waterboarded".

"REMOVE ALL MENTION OF WATERBOARDING, YOU BIG JACKASS!", is all I had to say to him. For fuck's sake, he is his own worst enemy when it comes to these things :banghead::banghead::banghead:

The sad thing, I'm pretty sure that was one of the truths :gasp:

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-22-2018, 11:08 AM
That funny disturbing moment when the Facebook page creeping you do turns into a "Where Are They NOW?" parade of shame...…..In fact, most of the info seems like a storyboard from the series "Shameless."

(Side note- these are not FB pages belonging to dancers. I'm talking about losers I've known in the past decade.)

lilylilylily
12-22-2018, 01:39 PM
the rubber on the bottom of my new pleasers fell off and disappeared in the club :[ rip. they were really cute. but also only $40 and obviously an older style shoe. but like damn. they are no longer of use :/

I would always go to the shoe repair place when that happened and they'd replace the rubber for like 15 bucks

lilylilylily
12-22-2018, 01:45 PM
It's been a full day now and my tattoo looks exactly the same as yesterday, no blood or puss that I can see came off in the wrap he put over it too. And I dont feel any pain. Is that normal?

carmen_b
12-22-2018, 05:41 PM
The timing of my period, I fucking swear. I have a date tonight . ;/

Scratch that , he cancelled claiming he was kicked while miking a cow ( he does work on a farm part time, it's somewhat plausible haha ).

Ladycaxe
12-22-2018, 07:47 PM
I would always go to the shoe repair place when that happened and they'd replace the rubber for like 15 bucks

THANK U SO MUCH! this is why I love this site. <3haha

yaya_cash
12-22-2018, 11:52 PM
THANK U SO MUCH! this is why I love this site. <3haha

Ask the housemom if she knows someone who can repair dancer shoes too. Lad Vegas has a lot of people in the adult industry so maybe it wouldn't be so embarrasing to visit a shoes doctor to do a stripper heel repair.

WendiStarr
12-23-2018, 10:36 AM
I'm contemplating making cookies tonight, that way I don't have to deal with making them tomorrow night. Tomorrow will be a busy day and I'm betting that by the time we get home my daughter will be too tired to want to make Christmas cookies.

JGB2009
12-23-2018, 11:07 AM
I stayed out till 1 am last night xmas shopping!!! Now I just have one more person to shop for. On a side note I have home made chili in the crockpot.

AChildOfBoredom
12-23-2018, 11:14 AM
I stayed out till 1 am last night xmas shopping!!! Now I just have one more person to shop for. On a side note I have home made chili in the crockpot.

Green chili? I finally learned to love it, years after I found out the hard way why my ex-roommate’s friends used to give the green chili he made the name “Hell on Earth”. I was in some serious pain that night.

Elektra Luxx
12-23-2018, 02:43 PM
I stayed out till 1 am last night xmas shopping!!! Now I just have one more person to shop for. On a side note I have home made chili in the crockpot.

That sound so Yummm!!! I've been craving some (slightly spicy) homemade chili with a square or two of cornbread. Great on a cold night.

Or maybe some homemade menudo. My grampa used to make homemade menudo for the holidays every year. That's a good memory.

JGB2009
12-23-2018, 09:05 PM
Green chili? I finally learned to love it, years after I found out the hard way why my ex-roommate’s friends used to give the green chili he made the name “Hell on Earth”. I was in some serious pain that night.

No, just regular chili. I have never had green chili.....lol I went and googled it.

WendiStarr
12-24-2018, 06:55 AM
Has anyone been to Sybaris in Indiana? I want to go so bad! It's a 4 hour drive from me though and Mr. Dilf's work schedule sucks too bad now to be able to travel anywhere. The room looks so fun with the in-room pool, hot tub, and bed with the mirrors around it.

carmen_b
12-24-2018, 02:04 PM
Get yourself to a great Mexican restaurant. It'll change your life. ;)
No, just regular chili. I have never had green chili.....lol I went and googled it.

AChildOfBoredom
12-24-2018, 02:29 PM
No, just regular chili. I have never had green chili.....lol I went and googled it.

You can make it in less than an hour with an Instant Pot. It’s good, so long as the person making it doesn’t use things like ghost pepper in it. “Back in the swamp, we expected our food to fight back, whether we were killing it or eating it” :flamed:

I hope that big yokel jackass has the sense not to use that line if he gets any dates from Tinder or Bumble.

Come to think of it, I should probably call him and make sure he’s knows this. I think the world of him, but he needs someone to save him from himself sometimes.

carmen_b
12-24-2018, 02:36 PM
My policy on Christmas is pretty simple:
Don't stress or overextend myself at all ! Ha.
Baking projects = 0
Parties I don't want to attend = 0
Decorations up = 0

Got gifts for the family in motion.

Gotta say ....... this is the way to do it. Haha.

carmen_b
12-24-2018, 02:39 PM
^ In relation to this ...... I loved that the ex and I had a similar take on it.
We agreed most time ( maybe 4 of of the 6 we were together ) to keep things very minimal .
We skipped presents ( and the stress of it ) and went for a nice meal out mid week when everyone else was at home.

I liked " our " tradition ( he did too ! ), but I have NO doubt that he will probably mention something about me minimizing or ruining Christmas ( probably to my face but possibly something I'll hear in the grapevine ).
I'm already prepared for it. He loved my style at the time but I have no doubt he'll twist it into a complaint. I am emotionally prepared. ;/

WendiStarr
12-24-2018, 09:20 PM
My aunt got proposed to tonight at our family get together. Her boyfriend suddenly got down on one knee and pulled a red box out. He opened it and there was this huge diamond ring. She stood there and started crying hysterically. Then she put the ring on, sat down on the couch, and cried some more. It was like 20 minutes of silence, watching her cry while he was kneeling on the floor, looking up at her, confused. It was awkward to watch because he was looking at her, waiting on her answer. When I looked at her I noticed she was sweating profusely but her skin felt clammy. I suspected maybe her blood sugar was off so I checked her blood sugar and it was 26. I had my mom make her a sandwich and give her some regular pop to get her blood sugar back up. It worked and she cried again, this time because she was mad at herself for forgetting to eat after taking insulin. This time she gave him an answer: yes. That was the most dramatic proposal that I've ever seen.

Elektra Luxx
12-25-2018, 01:19 PM
I like seeing homecoming videos of military people surprising family. It makes me cry, but I still like them.

WendiStarr
12-25-2018, 03:18 PM
I tried magnetic eyelash extensions and they were not as easy to apply as I thought. I've never really had good luck with the glue on kind and these were no better. It was annoying trying to get the eyelashes lined up just right and get the magnets placed correctly and I ended up losing one of the magnets so my false eyelash wouldn't stay on on one side. The other one, same thing. I guess I'm going to have to just get eyelash extensions that way I don't have to dick with that crap. I don't have patience for applying false eyelashes.

lilylilylily
12-25-2018, 03:25 PM
Thanks for updating on the lashes Wendi, I bought the Ardell magnetics at Walmart last week but was nervous to try them. I think I'll return them cuz I'll probably have the same problem with them as you did

WendiStarr
12-25-2018, 06:48 PM
^ Mine were also Ardell brand.

I had an interesting Uber driver tonight. It was an older Asian guy and gramps must be lonely tonight or something because he was telling me that I'm pretty and asking what nationality I am. When I told him Irish and Japanese he said,"You're Japanese?!" and suddenly wanted my number, lol. This dude had to be 60+ because he mentioned visiting his sons earlier, who are 39 and 37 years old. It's rare for older Asian guys to be pulling that, especially in my area. They are normally shy and avoid eye contact and talking unless absolutely necessary. Usually it's younger white or middle-age white guys who do the whole trying to get a date thing. Older Asian guys are getting bold these days. Normally I'd be annoyed at Uber drivers trying to get my number but tonight I find it too funny to be mad.

AChildOfBoredom
12-27-2018, 08:27 AM
Wow. Some people are really fucking weak. I was showing some of the stable hands some handstand and contortion moves I’m capable of doing (which, I should also add that I did it wearing steel toed work boots). One of the barn managers walked in, and almost passed out when she saw me.

Glamourmilf
12-27-2018, 08:51 AM
While at one of my grief groups yesterday, there was a new woman who sat across from me that was very interesting looking.
Platinum blonde hair, with pink streaks running through it. Neon pink top, hot pink stripper shoes, tons of makeup and jewelry.
Glam intrigued:thinking:
Turns out she's visiting from Florida, ( and is a native New Yorker). Her accent was confusing everyone there, but was music to my ears. She's going to a wedding in LA Friday. ( OMG take me with you!!)
Not to put the people here down. But, they're all so 'generic', and stale. I've been called out for wearing jewelry that's too over the top or blingy./:O
This woman had pizazz!
When the moderator commented that she liked her shoes, I figured that was my in.
I said, " Yes, I do too. Are they Pleasers?"
She's like, " Are they what?"
Oops.
Guess not.
Anyway. Luckily, she must have picked up a vibe from me. Because at the end of the meeting, she asked for my number.
I REALLY hope she's another sex worker. I feel so isolated out here, always having to pretend I'm a civvie.
It must have been weighing on my mind, because I woke up from a dream that I moved back to LA.
Never gonna happen. But, it's the one thing I miss about it. The wild and creative way people dress.50823

carmen_b
12-27-2018, 10:27 AM
OMG I feel so trapped.

I was trying to do the nice thing and see family on Christmas but the roads around here are so bad right now and the weather or horrendous. Ugh .

I think I need to craft a plan and possibly get back to Hawaii for a bit ASAP.

I feel like I'm too upset by this weather to even return and prep my place for a sublease. I just want to get out NOW.

WendiStarr
12-27-2018, 05:34 PM
I just realized that I haven't heard from a platonic guy friend yesterday or today. He has texted me "good morning" every morning of every day for the past 4 years, once on his lunch break, and again at night, before he went to bed. I have never not heard from him. I worry because he's a smoker, has a drinking problem, has high blood pressure, eats a crappy diet, doesn't exercise, and is overweight. I've had several reoccurring nightmares about him dying of a heart attack. I tried calling his phone twice and both times it went straight to voicemail. I had a mutual friend call him too and it went straight to voicemail as well. I hope he's alright.

JGB2009
12-27-2018, 06:31 PM
I just realized that I haven't heard from a platonic guy friend yesterday or today. He has texted me "good morning" every morning of every day for the past 4 years, once on his lunch break, and again at night, before he went to bed. I have never not heard from him. I worry because he's a smoker, has a drinking problem, has high blood pressure, eats a crappy diet, doesn't exercise, and is overweight. I've had several reoccurring nightmares about him dying of a heart attack. I tried calling his phone twice and both times it went straight to voicemail. I had a mutual friend call him too and it went straight to voicemail as well. I hope he's alright.

Can you call his job or hospitals? Maybe even police dept to do a wellness check?

WendiStarr
12-28-2018, 06:36 AM
Can you call his job or hospitals? Maybe even police dept to do a wellness check?

I finally heard from him. Apparently he has a "lady friend" that has been keeping him occupied..lol. He hasn't had a girlfriend in 2 years so I'm happy for him.

carmen_b
12-28-2018, 10:52 AM
I'm very excited about this recent gentleman that I met. I don't want to post any details ( potential to jinx it ) until I get to know him a little better .....

Vyanka
12-28-2018, 10:59 AM
Diddy thoughts...

https://www.instagram.com/p/BrWRuOMhYvC/?hl=en

AChildOfBoredom
12-28-2018, 03:48 PM
I think I need some padded mats for my little practice space where I have the pole installed. One of the girls saw it for the first time, so I was showing her some of the moves I could do on it. So she jumped on so I could try showing her a couple basics, and she ended up busting her ass pretty good. But she's not dissuaded, and wants to learn some of it.