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WendiStarr
12-28-2018, 03:52 PM
I want so badly to be cuddled and held right now.
lilylilylily
12-28-2018, 03:54 PM
Amazon has been so quick in delivering my items, even during holidays theyre arriving way before the estimated date
carmen_b
12-28-2018, 04:54 PM
Hmmmmmm. I was REALLY REALLY excited about him. 6'5" cop. I only met briefly but now he is asking about lunch tomorrow ?
What do you think ? My guy instinct is telling me to structure it towards evening.
I'm very excited about this recent gentleman that I met. I don't want to post any details ( potential to jinx it ) until I get to know him a little better .....
AChildOfBoredom
12-28-2018, 07:05 PM
What a sorry state of affairs I’m in. Everyone else is excited about prospective love interests, while I’m excited about possibly getting some bacon cheese fries from Denny’s at the end of this shift :-\
carmen_b
12-28-2018, 10:38 PM
^ Oh, I'd be equally excited about the fries. They sound amazing.
Oh whatever ..... I accepted the lunch invite . Day time wasn't ideal with me but oh well.
My friend pointed out that he might have done it on purpose so I'll see him in uniform.
I'll get done up and go .
We honestly got ahead of ourselves in text conversation and started planning this road trip together, haha.
After only seeing other 5-6 minutes in person.
Aurora_Sunset
12-29-2018, 08:27 AM
I don’t think I’ll ever understand the extreme couponing thing. Like, ok, yeah you got $600 worth of random shit for $7, but what you gonna do with 100 boxes of Sweetn Low, 200 bottles of BBQ sauce, and 60 jugs of sweet tea? I used to work with a girl who would beg to go to Walmart during our shift to use her coupons and come out bragging about her 30 Hershey’s Cookies n Cream bars for 19 cents. Like, cool, but did you need, or even want, them?
I can kinda understand stocking an emergency pantry with water and nonparishables, but after that... why? Let me just say: if your house is big enough for multiple rooms and pantries to hold your insane amount of groceries you accumulate every week with extreme couponing, you’re clearly rich enough to just buy what you need and use a few choice coupons. Like... these motherfuckers need a 6 bedroom house with a full basement just to fit their couponing shit but then brag about saving $400. That gonna cover the electric bill and property taxes on that mansion you need to hold your 4,000 boxes of Honey Nut Cheerios?
Glamourmilf
12-29-2018, 09:01 AM
I want so badly to be cuddled and held right now.
You and me both sista. You and me both.
Although, my needs are a bit different.........50827
AChildOfBoredom
12-29-2018, 11:02 AM
^ Oh, I'd be equally excited about the fries. They sound amazing.
They're shitty, but in a satisfyingly decadent way.
carmen_b
12-29-2018, 11:58 AM
There is this very dangerous place 3 blocks from me that does them really well in duck fat. ^
I have to make sure I don't go near it more than once a month.
AChildOfBoredom
12-29-2018, 12:25 PM
There is this very dangerous place 3 blocks from me that does them really well in duck fat. ^
I have to make sure I don't go near it more than once a month.
YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! I found a place in Portland, Maine which does that! In fact, Duckfat was the name of the restaurant!
I'd say it makes me thankful I live in a different state, but this is a southern state.... fried food is its own religion here. And don't even get me started on how carried away I get when the state fair comes to town. It's times like this I'm thankful for the metabolism that I have, though the calorie counters hate me for it.
AChildOfBoredom
12-29-2018, 12:31 PM
On a side note, I got my ex-roommate to screencap his Tinder and Bumble profiles, as well as show me what photos he was using. I told him to remove the one where he's wearing the Eyehategod shirt, and perhaps he should grow a beard again... I think it's a better look for him.
carmen_b
12-29-2018, 02:56 PM
I met with the cop.
I hate day time dates . :/
Won’t offer to meet in day next time.
He’s cute. I’d see him again.
But now the day is off.
Had to skip work out and tanning to be ready at 12:30.
We both seemed nervous and shy.
Dates without a drink are different .
WendiStarr
12-29-2018, 05:57 PM
I want it to be tomorrow. I have two platonic cuddle clients and then on Monday my daughter will be back and I'll feel like I have a purpose again.
AChildOfBoredom
12-29-2018, 08:08 PM
There’s a guy sitting here in a sweatshirt which says “smoke meth and hail Satan”. How did he get past the door?
carmen_b
12-29-2018, 09:18 PM
Damn, I'm relating to these posts.
I'm feeling so lonely today, ugh ! And I've had attention a good part of the day. Just hang out attention though. No holding / sexy stuff. Bleh.
On a positive note, I went and saw Bohemian Rapsody and it was fabulous. I don't think I've ever seen a rock star movie I haven't liked though.
I want it to be tomorrow. I have two platonic cuddle clients and then on Monday my daughter will be back and I'll feel like I have a purpose again.
carmen_b
12-29-2018, 09:23 PM
Text from the cop saying it was so nice to meet me at lunch.
Dude ..... it totally was NOT . We should have met an hour ago and been working towards a buzz and a more flirtatious vibe.
I'll send him a text saying he looked handsome in his uniform . Haha.
Gotta dial it up somehow because he barely hugged me ( possibly due to the weapons holstered though which was kind of hot ).
I feel so pouty right now .
AChildOfBoredom
12-30-2018, 02:13 PM
My cat’s an asshole. One of the dancers went to move to a new apartment, but it wasn’t ready by the move-in date, but she’d already cleared out of the old one, so I told her she could couch surf here for a couple days. So she told me this morning that she woke up thinking she was being groped, but couldn’t see anybody and started freaking out until her eyes got adjusted and she saw that it was my cat kneading on her.
WendiStarr
12-30-2018, 02:30 PM
^ ;D That's funny and reminds me of my old cat. She used to target females only and go straight for the boobs with the kneading thing. She'd sometimes up the creepy factor by grabbing on to shirts with her mouth while doing the kneading. Cats are crazy, silly little furballs.
AChildOfBoredom
12-30-2018, 02:39 PM
Before my first roommates moved away and the cats were divided, there was a male cat. My one roommate, surprisingly, had a real affinity for Peanuts - especially Snoopy and Woodstock. Especially Snoopy in his aviator persona. So he collected plushes of them. And if he ever left his door open, this cat would run in, grab one, take it to the living room, hump it, and repeat.
WendiStarr
12-30-2018, 08:17 PM
Why the heck is everyone suddenly wanting me to hang out with them on New Year's Eve? I have 7 different people who all want me to spend New Year's Eve with them. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I know inevitably I'm going to have to hurt someone's feelings. Not all 7 get along so I couldn't have them all hang out together without some unnecessary drama occurring. I had originally planned on just going to my aunt's house since she was the first person to invite me over a couple days ago. Now Mr. Dilf swooped in and decided that he wants to see me too on his break at midnight because he wants to be the first person of 2019 to have sexy time with me.
AChildOfBoredom
01-03-2019, 04:54 AM
Have you ever looked at a married couple, and the first thing you thought was, "I bet they married in a Wal Mart"?
WendiStarr
01-03-2019, 03:59 PM
Unsolved Mysteries is an addicting tv show. I've been watching it for the past few hours, in between calls.
AChildOfBoredom
01-03-2019, 06:13 PM
So, the younger of my ‘refugees’ - the aspirant cosmetologist - says she’s ready to put my hair into a French braid. But she wants to put some streaks of color into my hair and work it into the braid, but I’m feeling a little apprehension about that. I don’t doubt she knows what she’s doing, but it’s just something I’ve never done, not to mention I have doubts about how the color would come out. I am, as I’ve heard others describe it, ‘raven haired’, so it is quite dark.
queenelayliah
01-03-2019, 06:24 PM
Random thouht of the day
I really want to see what a particular lady on this site look like. Like Fml my curiosity is killing me.
carmen_b
01-03-2019, 07:19 PM
Jesus, learn from me.
Nothing your long term ex will say about " why " they left you is going to be an adequete answer.
I wasted two hour of conversation time ( and sleep time before a trip ) on it.
He is still full on mid life crisis bull-shit.
WendiStarr
01-04-2019, 07:38 AM
Normally I get a lot of sinus problems around this time of year but I've noticed that ever since I started taking these garlic pills, I've not had any sinus problems. As an added bonus my sugar cravings haven't been as crazy either. I just realized that I've gone a few days now without any sweets. Maybe I'm on to something here.
Glamourmilf
01-04-2019, 10:19 AM
Why the heck is everyone suddenly wanting me to hang out with them on New Year's Eve? I have 7 different people who all want me to spend New Year's Eve with them. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I know inevitably I'm going to have to hurt someone's feelings. Not all 7 get along so I couldn't have them all hang out together without some unnecessary drama occurring. I had originally planned on just going to my aunt's house since she was the first person to invite me over a couple days ago. Now Mr. Dilf swooped in and decided that he wants to see me too on his break at midnight because he wants to be the first person of 2019 to have sexy time with me.
I had the opposite happen. Everyone starts messaging me on January 2nd, and forward.
As I predicted.
But, it's not to hang out. They all want something.
All are females. None of my gay boys do that.
It's a shame how women can't just be friends, without always being so needy, and then jealous of everything I have.
So silly at our age.
2019 is ALL about self care.
It finally sunk in when my Mom died. When I needed support, everyone scattered.
Nobody really cares about anyone anyway.
I've become an extreme loner as a result.
And that's fine with me.
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SnuffleUffleGrass
01-04-2019, 11:32 AM
A guy was checking me out at the Post Office this morning because I was wearing my expensive looking sunglasses and had makeup/hair done.
I honestly think having the appearance of prosperity brings more potential marriageable guys out of the woodwork. Being young is a doubled edged sword in a lot of ways.
(I'm settled down so I did not flirt but it was interesting. He probably saw me checking the PO Box too.)
chanzep
01-04-2019, 03:02 PM
I just placed my grocery food order for 60 doll Inc delivery. I'm wondering how much everyone spends on average per week?, Reddit says 100 per month!
AChildOfBoredom
01-04-2019, 03:18 PM
A guy was checking me out at the Post Office this morning because I was wearing my expensive looking sunglasses and had makeup/hair done.
I honestly think having the appearance of prosperity brings more potential marriageable guys out of the woodwork. Being young is a doubled edged sword in a lot of ways.
(I'm settled down so I did not flirt but it was interesting. He probably saw me checking the PO Box too.)
What’s more interesting is how my manner of dress affects the who and the how when it comes to being approached. On a typical day, I’ll wear a jumper dress with a blouse, and I’ll have my hair partly covered with a bandana. So this is when the hipsters and LDS sorts are more apt to approach me, while those who typically would be the first in line if I were wearing a sundress, skirt, or active wear are a lot more hesitant.
Now when I’m wearing jeans, ACU trousers, etc. with a heavy metal band t-shirt - and especially if I have my battle jacket with all my patches on - that’s where it gets really interesting, and the hipsters and LDS sorts will watch from a safe distance.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-04-2019, 09:22 PM
Now when I’m wearing jeans, ACU trousers, etc. with a heavy metal band t-shirt - and especially if I have my battle jacket with all my patches on - that’s where it gets really interesting, and the hipsters and LDS sorts will watch from a safe distance.
This reminded me I wore a Ouija Board shirt around Halloween last October and I noticed a female cashier give me a dirty look. I figured it was for religious reasons.
I always notice when guys give out flirting signals when I roll up somewhere looking prosperous (nice car, nice clothes, looking fancy.) In my case submissive guys tend to hope a financially comfortable woman (me) will get with them. (I have dated really wealthy aggressive guys and unfortunately they will use money and material things to bully women or control situations. So there are the two options, a guy who wants your bread too, or a guy who will take everything you have to get back at you for something.)
charlie61
01-04-2019, 09:47 PM
I just placed my grocery food order for 60 doll Inc delivery. I'm wondering how much everyone spends on average per week?, Reddit says 100 per month!
I spend so much money on food, it's crazy. And i don't eat out, and i shop at costco 90% of the time, and i eat all of the food i buy. I probably spend about $100-$150/ week, and my partner buys us food daily on top of that. I don't know where it all goes. Like, damn..
seashell
01-04-2019, 10:47 PM
I spend so much money on food, it's crazy. And i don't eat out, and i shop at costco 90% of the time, and i eat all of the food i buy. I probably spend about $100-$150/ week, and my partner buys us food daily on top of that. I don't know where it all goes. Like, damn..
Eep, that's how much I spend on myself when I'm home in the US! Not to mention getting food delivered, and going out to eat...
carmen_b
01-04-2019, 10:58 PM
The lying bastard. I'm out in the desert with a lot of time to think.
I realized this detail ..... he was going to move out without telling me he was in touch with his ex.
I realized he never actually told me he was in touch UNTIL I said I KNEW they were in touch on FB ( good ole FB kept recommending her to me as a friend lol ). I asked if it was it a factor in moving out ( he swore it wasn't ).
I thought he'd pull his head out of his ass but I'm realizing 4 months is plenty of time for that.
He is living in this long distance relationship fantasy land.
I'm NEED to just look away.
It's like a bad car accident to me.
I'm sometimes still can't believe my partner for 6.5-7 years did this.
EDIT : Actually this would have been so much less painful honestly if I wouldn't have known he responded to her message .
I think what he attempted to do ( break it off and pretend she wasn't a factor ) was intended to spare me pain. It’ll never be right to me. He should have used the opportunity to tell me he wanted to fight for us.
Vyanka
01-05-2019, 02:12 AM
I need to learn how to find balance, or maybe I'm doing alright anyway.
I am so addicted to money making throughout the years(which I am thankful for) that I have neglected the love department for too long, to the point where I think I burried it far deep inside the shitter. Lol.
I'm not use to the new culture of dating and "men" now a days acting like little bitches.
Glamourmilf
01-05-2019, 09:06 AM
I just placed my grocery food order for 60 doll Inc delivery. I'm wondering how much everyone spends on average per week?, Reddit says 100 per month!
I spend so much money on food, it's crazy. And i don't eat out, and i shop at costco 90% of the time, and i eat all of the food i buy. I probably spend about $100-$150/ week, and my partner buys us food daily on top of that. I don't know where it all goes. Like, damn..
Eep, that's how much I spend on myself when I'm home in the US! Not to mention getting food delivered, and going out to eat...
It's so funny that you mentioned this.
I was just reading a thread about weekly food spending in a group I belong to on Facebook.
I was amazed by people who only spend $100, for a family of 4/5.
I have been tracking my monthly food expenses for 2 years.
It's always around the $400 per month mark. ( So, $100 per week). I never eat out, either.
And that doesn't even include Starbucks. Yikes!
I did the math the other day.
If I save the money that I spend on Starbucks, I will have money for a down payment on a condo in just 3 years.
Lol!
yaya_cash
01-05-2019, 07:01 PM
All stars in Charlotte, anyone?
chanzep
01-05-2019, 08:16 PM
I actually average 100 a week too, I was surprised to see people on Reddit saying 100 a month . I assume they use all coupons?.
Glamourmilf
01-05-2019, 09:07 PM
I actually average 100 a week too, I was surprised to see people on Reddit saying 100 a month . I assume they use all coupons?.
Either that, or they live where food is inexpensive.
I can tell you, that in California, it's not cheap. Even with coupons.
queenelayliah
01-05-2019, 10:19 PM
I spend around $100-$150 per month on groceries, however I do notice that I run out of food towards the middle of the month around day 16. Leaving about 14 days left in the month with those left over items in your fridge or pantry that you either can’t make a meal out of or you don’t really want to eat but will in the case of an emergency, like a can of soup. Lol. So I then end up spending alot of money on fast food/ takeout in those 14 days, easily spending about $100+.
So I think I will up my food budget this year to $250 if only I get my procrastinating ass on cam and make money.
AChildOfBoredom
01-05-2019, 10:32 PM
Three of the six of us here are adults who pay our own way, but I have two teenage girls in my care. Believe me, I’ve got quite a grocery bill myself, though they both contribute what they can.
Come to think of it, I have everything I need to become a cult leader at my fingertips. There’s an idea.
Aurora_Sunset
01-06-2019, 12:14 AM
A friend I deleted off Facebook a little over a year ago, and who I haven’t spoken to in about a year and a half after a big blowup, sent me a friend request today. I closed out of the notification pretty quickly because I needed to think about it. Now the request is gone. I questioned it for a moment, but I know I didn’t imagine it. He obviously second-guessed himself.
carmen_b
01-06-2019, 12:29 AM
It was so nice to get out of town, even for just a few days. ;)
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-06-2019, 06:37 AM
OK funny random situation-
I posted a faux Louis Vuitton bag on an online sales site. The interest in the item has been phenomenal- until people figured out it's a faux bag.
Naturally I got irritated b/c the bag is priced very low. If it WAS real I would be asking more. (& The only retailer around here that carries LV bags sells 2ndhand ones.)
LV is popular here (I've seen legit rich people carrying the REAL bags around.) I just thought this was funny. I learned about LV in French class in high school and never really paid attention to the brand until now.
AChildOfBoredom
01-06-2019, 02:23 PM
My friend was looking through Tinder, and came across one profile where the guy’s closing line was, “And I promise I won’t ask you to run off and join the circus with me until at least the third date”.
I still think she should’ve swiped right on that one.
carmen_b
01-06-2019, 04:14 PM
^ yes !!
charlie61
01-06-2019, 06:43 PM
I made myself a cocktail and I'm watching The Sweetest Thing. It's such a cute 90s movie!
WendiStarr
01-06-2019, 07:41 PM
^ I love that movie!
I'm starting to feel like an idiot right about now. Mr. Dilf better not have me waiting for nothing.
charlie61
01-06-2019, 08:04 PM
^right? Just a fun movie.
Now I'm watching "Something New," which is a total guilty pleasure.
carmen_b
01-06-2019, 08:46 PM
OMG, I feel so miserable !
6 hours in a car today ( I used to be able to do this no problem ) ! Ugh.
Tea and Shower time. I am so miserable !!