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TheBrownFox
02-18-2019, 01:16 AM
Oh also did you ladies here how payless is going out of business! They are liquidating EVERYTHING.


Yeah, I heard about it a few days ago, and am disappointed. :( I get all my shoes from there, including the black boots that I wore for my Valentine's Day murder mystery dinner date.

Congrats, btw, on your successful interview!

queenelayliah
02-18-2019, 01:39 AM
Thank you.

Yeah payless will be closing ALL of their stores in the US and Puerto Rico but they will be keeping their international stores open. Damn I don’t know what to do now, that was one of the few stores that carry my size for my big fucking feet. I wear a size 11.

Also Charlotte Russe is closing down but only a few stores.

Glamourmilf
02-18-2019, 10:56 AM
Not payless......everything seems to be going out of business :(


I passed the interview for the text job i applied to!! Im so excited i hope this brings in like $200-300 a month.

I have a dream of making $4k a month from all revenue sources but i currently only make about $1500 since its the slow fucking winter season sigh.


Oh also did you ladies here how payless is going out of business! They are liquidating EVERYTHING.

I heard that too. I'm so excited! I'm going to buy everything in my size.
I'm thinking that businesses are closing because they can't compete with Amazon, and other online retailers.

carmen_b
02-18-2019, 05:00 PM
Ugh ..... I wish I would have forced my friend M to meet me at this place instead of going together ( a job we are sharing three hours away ).
It's a quick overnight but of course I have already been on the prowl searching for strip clubs I want to try ( found one ) and a cowboy I want to meet ( found one ).

I wonder on a scale of 1-10 how pissed he'd be haha if I made him drive in his own car ....
I'd honestly be happy with a quick 3-5 hours at this club just to scout it and some time with the cowboy ....... maybe just 1-2 nights extra?

WendiStarr
02-18-2019, 05:21 PM
Anyone have Vudu? I watched Nola on there. It's about sex work to an extent. The main character gets a job at an escort agency as an assistant, answering phones and booking and the agency has to deal with a powerful, creepy client.

chanzep
02-18-2019, 06:38 PM
I was talking to my nail lady last today about Payless. She said that the store workers go there to get their work shoes.
I realized that in the past month the only people I have spoken to face to face are 1 of my friends, doctors and nurses and the nail lady!. It's fine too.

queenelayliah
02-18-2019, 07:23 PM
Please tell me why men are so dumb. So I literally just had a call on ttm and you know what he says. “Oh, I thought there would be pictures on the phone call since there are pictures on the site.” Bitch what!!? First, how can a phone call have pictures? I think he meant a video call but still really...? And he brought a 5-minute package and only lasted 2 minutes & hung up the phone. I really hope he doesnt leave me a bad review because of his stupidity.

Dumbass.

AChildOfBoredom
02-19-2019, 05:55 AM
Sometimes you just have to write other people’s names into the water, in order to forgive - but, more importantly, to forget - them. So that’s what I did. And I fled from their ruin. I feel shitty about it, but I wasn’t left with any other viable choice.

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-19-2019, 08:59 AM
Universe give me the strength to stick to an abs diet lol.

lynn2009
02-19-2019, 09:56 AM
Does anyone know if you book through a wedding hotel block, can the bride and groom see who is taking the rooms? I took a double bed room through the block because it is way cheaper & there are no other hotels within walking distance but they asked that those rooms be saved for families.

Glamourmilf
02-19-2019, 11:19 AM
Anyone have Vudu? I watched Nola on there. It's about sex work to an extent. The main character gets a job at an escort agency as an assistant, answering phones and booking and the agency has to deal with a powerful, creepy client.

I have Vudu. I searched but I couldn't find the movie Nola.
Hmm. Did you pay, or was it in the free section?
Thanks in advance.

WendiStarr
02-19-2019, 11:38 AM
I have Vudu. I searched but I couldn't find the movie Nola.
Hmm. Did you pay, or was it in the free section?
Thanks in advance.

It was in the free section. Hmm, I just checked and now it's not coming up until I searched Emmy Rossum(the actress in the movie). Search Emmy Rossum and see if it comes up.

Glamourmilf
02-19-2019, 12:31 PM
It was in the free section. Hmm, I just checked and now it's not coming up until I searched Emmy Rossum(the actress in the movie). Search Emmy Rossum and see if it comes up.
Thank You.:-*
In other news, a.k.a. what's trending on Twitter.
This Burberry look on the runway has everyone buzzing.
To me, it just looks like a PR move.
* I hate Burberry because an uppity, bitchy client I once had used to wear it.
Funny how some things can trigger unwanted memories.
50991

AChildOfBoredom
02-19-2019, 03:07 PM
I’m really craving French fries right now. Not sure why.

carmen_b
02-19-2019, 10:50 PM
My main lover is off in the wilderness tracking wolves ( really ). I have a very interesting life right now.

WendiStarr
02-20-2019, 09:38 AM
If I'm going to pass myself off as Russian, perhaps I need to learn to speak some Russian. I had a Russian custie who was all excited, thinking that I was Russian too and tried to speak it to me. I was just like 0_0

Elektra Luxx
02-20-2019, 01:10 PM
I've been seeing some blood in my urine for about a couple months. Not all the time, but I haven't really seen a pattern. I've seen it after exercising mostly, but sometimes it just happens. I went to see the doctor today and I weigh 114 pounds. I've lost 4 pounds and I haven't been doing anything differently. I'm scheduled for some kind abdominal scan next week to see what's going on. It's kind of scary.


The doctor checked for bacteria and she said there was a trace amount, like maybe I have a UTI. My tummy and sides have been feeling a little achy. Not really any pain when I pee and a bit pain during sex. I have been jogging a bit further, but still eating as usual. I was really surprised when the nurse told me I lost 4 pounds because my clothes still fit the same. It took me a year to gain 4 pounds and I lost them in less than a month without really changing. I've been feeling tired lately, but I think it's my anti-depressants, the doctor prescribed a mood stabilizer, Abilify.

Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

SugarCookies
02-20-2019, 03:05 PM
It starts to rain every time I want to go outside. All this rain is rare for California.

WendiStarr
02-20-2019, 03:16 PM
Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

Oh my gosh! I'm sorry to hear that, EL! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that it's not. :(

JGB2009
02-20-2019, 04:02 PM
Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

I'm really sorry to hear that. I will be thinking positive thoughts for you. Let me know if u need to talk. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

AChildOfBoredom
02-20-2019, 04:21 PM
Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

:(

I hope not. I… just don’t have the words right now. I’m among those hoping for the best.

whirlerz
02-20-2019, 05:03 PM
I hope you're going to be fine Electra!

carmen_b
02-20-2019, 09:53 PM
^ yes !!!!

indiegirl
02-20-2019, 10:18 PM
I’m all outside of a Taco Bell after finishing a last minute dinner “to strip or not to strip” tonight I’m trying to find a customer in the area to do a detour. Sometimes work politics feel like “too much” for me to deal with and I hate valet going through my car because we got some crap in this vehicle lol. I had a few able bodies in the area. grrrr I didn’t see it in time so here I am in the Valley! Lol

queenelayliah
02-20-2019, 10:31 PM
Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

Im praying that you will be okay and that the biopsy is painless and negative.

charlie61
02-20-2019, 10:38 PM
Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

Know that I'm thinking about you. ♡

Glamourmilf
02-21-2019, 12:22 AM
Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

With all the love and prayers from all of us on here, I'm so sure that you will be fine.:pray:

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-21-2019, 10:49 AM
Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm thinking of you.

Glamourmilf
02-21-2019, 11:26 AM
I just ordered one of these portable bidets.
Has anyone else tried it?
I had a bidet when I was married to my first husband, and it was amazing!
I might get the one I attached to the toilet, because I'm renting ( so nothing permanent).
50996

WendiStarr
02-21-2019, 12:43 PM
One of my custies is apparently in to ice fishing. He brought me enough fish to feed a basketball team. I find this funny. My freezer is full of fish now.

Vyanka
02-21-2019, 12:55 PM
Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

I hope it's not. Sending you positive vibes.

SugarCookies
02-21-2019, 08:47 PM
I want to go back to work. Seems as if no decent vanilla jobs are hiring at the moment and I'm not sure if any clubs will accept me with the Dynamex changes.

WendiStarr
02-21-2019, 10:22 PM
Crossed the state line to work. Uncle LEO isn't as active like it is in my home city. I didn't even get any funny looks for carrying my massage table in. Now I'm back home in my bed. I'm thinking maybe I should travel out of state for a day or two again next week.

baer45
02-21-2019, 11:05 PM
Had a abdominal scan last Friday, doctors called me a little while ago. They found a mass on the wall of my bladder and it could be cancer. I have an appointment to see a urologist this Monday. They need to get a biopsy.

I'm fucked.

Don't say that. it could be a cyst. In the USA, all tumors are treated as cancer. But an only certain type of tumor is cancer in other countries.
Wait for the biopsy, it's going to be okay. I don't know why I know that, but I am positive.

kamiliam
02-22-2019, 02:54 AM
I just ordered one of these portable bidets.
Has anyone else tried it?
I had a bidet when I was married to my first husband, and it was amazing!
I might get the one I attached to the toilet, because I'm renting ( so nothing permanent).
50996

I am about to get this one and I don't even do anal anymore https://hellotushy.com/products/warm-water-bidet-tushy-spa

Glamourmilf
02-22-2019, 10:50 AM
I'm a bit worried about my gay husband that moved to Italy 2 weeks ago.
He's been posting pictures of his food, yet he doesn't eat. Lots of fattening foods. He was 350 pounds growing up, so when he lost the weight he stopped eating.
He also posts pictures of tourist attractions. But he's never in any of them.
Something is off.
He was traveling nonstop last year. Back then, every photo and video is of him with people he meets along the way. Laughing, drinking, dancing, etc.
Hmm.
I personally, give him until the end of April, before realizing that moving there was a mistake.
He doesn't even speak a word of Italian either, for Christ's sake!
The anniversary of his husband's death is in a few weeks.
You can run, but you can't hide.
I wish he would just come home already, and deal with his loss.
I hope he's okay.:'(

seashell
02-22-2019, 12:27 PM
My dog is getting spayed tomorrow. I'm kind of nervous about it, but I also can't wait to see her running around in a cone.

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2019, 12:39 PM
I am so sick of the Kardashians. Even their Photoshop fails are headline news. wtf

They are mostly responsible for downgrading anything novel coming out of LA, and extending Kanye Wests' infamy.
ughghghghghghhg

JGB2009
02-22-2019, 03:27 PM
Have you ever tried Gaba?
It's great for panic and anxiety.

Yea I have....for some reason it didn't work for me.

trustfundkiller
02-22-2019, 03:48 PM
I am so sick of the Kardashians. Even their Photoshop fails are headline news. wtf

They are mostly responsible for downgrading anything novel coming out of LA, and extending Kanye Wests' infamy.
ughghghghghghhg
I think most people are sick of them/dislike them. Hopefully their children don't grow up to be so fame-obsessed, or at this rate they might stay relevant in the news for another 30+ years :boggled:

JessaJade
02-22-2019, 03:52 PM
^ It's funny you say that because I saw a story today about Kims daughter North having done a cover shoot and fashion feature for some magazine... It won't end. It's kind of sick actually.

Miss_ShaSha
02-22-2019, 04:19 PM
Elektra, girl, don't give up all hope. My old gyno kept an eye on an ovarian cyst I had for 4 months. It increased in size and she said "I think it's cancerous. I'm sending you to the UCD cancer center". Literally, my jaw fell flat off and I almost cried.

Legit: my surgeon took a look at the ultrasounds and regarded my symptoms and said "this is in now way cancerous".

I had the surgery to remove my left ovary and he tested it: NO CANCER.

I have a good feeling you'll be ok. I'll keep my vibration up so I can send you good vibes. I'm pulling for you. Keep us updated!!!

Miss_ShaSha
02-22-2019, 04:24 PM
My ex was absolutely amazing in many ways, but has an avoidant attachment style and wasn't emotionally available. My therapist urged me to cut the friendship I had with him, which was platonic, to make room for a man who is emotionally available.

Fast forward 3 months, and after the hurt I experienced letting him go, I have landed myself in a healthy relationship with an emotionally available, athletic, and financially secure man.

It's true: release what's bad for you so you can let the good arrive. I'm so very grateful.

WendiStarr
02-23-2019, 05:55 AM
One of my gay guys texted me last night that he was in the area and wanted to know if I wanted to go to the "rich bitch"(located in an upscale area)thrift store with him. I didn't have anything to do since kid was at her friend's house. I found a red glitter dress and silver glitter shoes in my size, both in perfect condition. That's going to be my birthday outfit next month. I'll definitely be checking that place out again!

queenelayliah
02-23-2019, 09:16 AM
My ex was absolutely amazing in many ways, but has an avoidant attachment style and wasn't emotionally available. My therapist urged me to cut the friendship I had with him, which was platonic, to make room for a man who is emotionally available.

Fast forward 3 months, and after the hurt I experienced letting him go, I have landed myself in a healthy relationship with an emotionally available, athletic, and financially secure man.

It's true: release what's bad for you so you can let the good arrive. I'm so very grateful.

Wow you found someone in 3 months!? Here i am still single after breaking up in dec 2014.

Glamourmilf
02-23-2019, 11:15 AM
Have any of you ladies ever dealt with Shingles?
Whether personally or someone you know?
I did a search on here, but nothing current came up.
I'm looking for something over the counter that will work. I'm not going to call a doctor if I can help it.
So far I've been using coconut oil, benedryl lotion, and baking soda. Cold compress helps too. Ibuprofen also.
I'm going to CVS later today, and would like to try something else.
The shingles is on one side of my waist, and lower back. Both the pain and itching are driving me mad!
Thanks in advance.

JGB2009
02-23-2019, 11:44 AM
Have any of you ladies ever dealt with Shingles?
Whether personally or someone you know?
I did a search on here, but nothing current came up.
I'm looking for something over the counter that will work. I'm not going to call a doctor if I can help it.
So far I've been using coconut oil, benedryl lotion, and baking soda. Cold compress helps too. Ibuprofen also.
I'm going to CVS later today, and would like to try something else.
The shingles is on one side of my waist, and lower back. Both the pain and itching are driving me mad!
Thanks in advance.

My dad had it and it was on his head. Sending u get well soon wishes. Hope u find something that helps.

whirlerz
02-23-2019, 11:46 AM
Have any of you ladies ever dealt with Shingles?
Whether personally or someone you know?
I did a search on here, but nothing current came up.
I'm looking for something over the counter that will work. I'm not going to call a doctor if I can help it.
So far I've been using coconut oil, benedryl lotion, and baking soda. Cold compress helps too. Ibuprofen also.
I'm going to CVS later today, and would like to try something else.
The shingles is on one side of my waist, and lower back. Both the pain and itching are driving me mad!
Thanks in advance.

AW! Sorry hun..
Have your tried pure aloe (non alcohol)or a very mild aloe based lotion, such as Simple brand, Oatmeal lotion
webmd.com have anything?
I use Boiron brand arnica for arthritis pain, I get the cream not the gel, it's non scented, Idk bout cvs but we have Meijer (like a walmart & they have it.

Edit: it says on web md not to put the wet washcloth on, when using the lotions, just saying.:}
https://www.cdc.gov/shingles/about/index.html


For now that's all I can think of, get better soon, & much healing

Miss_ShaSha
02-23-2019, 11:57 AM
Wow you found someone in 3 months!? Here i am still single after breaking up in dec 2014.

No! Haha. I broke up with my ex 2 yrs ago. Have been online dating since without any luck. My ex & I started hanging out again as friends in Nov 18 & I started falling for him. Told my therapist & she advised. But about 5 months ago I engaged hard in daily guided meditation on self-compassion. Then about 4 months ago 15 min of self-worth affirmations a day. And last 2 months about 4 hours of binaural beats with subliminal messages focused on loving myself.

I used LOA to attract the new SO. I was steady on a motherfuckin mission lol.

Girl, I struggled for a while. I totally feel you.

Miss_ShaSha
02-23-2019, 12:00 PM
Have any of you ladies ever dealt with Shingles?
Whether personally or someone you know?
I did a search on here, but nothing current came up.
I'm looking for something over the counter that will work. I'm not going to call a doctor if I can help it.
So far I've been using coconut oil, benedryl lotion, and baking soda. Cold compress helps too. Ibuprofen also.
I'm going to CVS later today, and would like to try something else.
The shingles is on one side of my waist, and lower back. Both the pain and itching are driving me mad!
Thanks in advance.

Yes. I just recently got over a very mild case. My only symptom was a blistering rash on my neck which itched like crazy. My DR prescribed a steroid. I said "fuck no" & didn't take it.

6 weeks of regular washing then applying a thin layer of hydrocortisone 1% spelled relief.

You'll be fine. :)