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SnuffleUffleGrass
03-27-2019, 09:25 PM
My feet hurt.

carmen_b
03-28-2019, 05:19 PM
Bleh. My lover took off to a road trip to CA.
It was a cool as hell reason ( invite from a band member to travel with him by car and see his show ). I hope he behaves and actually does check in ( he said he'd call ). I do realize it's way too early to bring up the commitment thing ( only known him two weeks ).

I did broach it last night asking " does this have to be a short term thing ? ". I asked because his visa for this country only lasts another 40 days ( but I think there are easy work arounds , I think I could actually get him a work visa if he was interested ).

Also .... he wore me out. I had great event tickets last night so we did that and then went for a drink, and then " stayed up late " at my place.

The downside is I lost half a work day for clients ( a Thursday when I should be working 8 hours ) .
;/

xStacey
03-29-2019, 12:03 PM
The legal field surprisingly reminds me of sex work lol. There’s tons of people without jobs, but those who do and are employed at the prestigious law firms where they earn $$$$$, people still leave every week and there’s always new talent, only a select few stay for a long time and never leave. The benefits are high, but so are the costs and sacrifices.

carmen_b
03-29-2019, 01:37 PM
Talking out the idea of letting my city place go ..........

PROS : Nice apartment , central / walkable , easy ( I'm already here ). it's rent controlled ( artist live / work lofts ) and probably about 20% under market rate.

CONS : The ex is still living in the bld. next door , the apartment still sort of has his " ghost " in it , no bath tub ( this drives me crazy ), .

Currently paying a stupid premium $1040 to go month to month.
If I sign again for 3 months I think it will drop to $950.
I can't really bear the thought of being here 6 months more ( that'll drop it to $900 flat ) .....

I'm on the list at another similar priced place with more ameneties ( and a tub ! ) two blocks away but I have no idea if it'll take 30 / 45 / 60 days or MORE .

I'm also kind of just thinking of living on the road during the summer and saving housing costs. My day job will have me out of town 40-50% of the time ( and housing covered ) and when I'm here the other 50%-60% I can stay at the family cabin for free or stay with parents / sister for nearly free. I also have a trailer I can pull out to the desert and live for ( nearly ) free.

What do you think ? Thoughts ? I feel like I just keep this place for a sexy times pad and bragging rights but it's at such a stupid premium and I'm only here half the time. It's feeling wasteful.

carmen_b
03-29-2019, 01:47 PM
Other thoughts ( maybe y'all can help me sort them ).

Should I keep my life somewhat nomadic or FINALLY get my damn real estate license active ( I have about 3-4 weeks of school left if I committed to doing 3 hours a day on it ).
^ DON'T QUOTE THAT PLEASE as it'll ( eventually ) be somewhat identifying .

I still love my semi - nomadic life but I am starting to feel like it's not " doing " much for me.
I enjoy the adventure but most people I date seem more confused by it than interested in sharing it.

Elektra Luxx
03-29-2019, 01:54 PM
^^^
You should live in the trailer or family cabin to save money until you get the other place if you're anything like me. I love my family, but could never live with them for longer than a week. They're just up in my business too much. "We missed you last night." Or "Wow! That must have been some date." I'd rather do the walk of shame than live with parents. Just my 2 cents.

Elektra Luxx
03-29-2019, 01:59 PM
I have a teeny-tiny pimple on the mid left side of my lower bottom lip and it hurts! I thought I would stop getting pimples at a certain age.

carmen_b
03-29-2019, 02:00 PM
^ Yeah. Totally. That's why I'm definitely keeping my place for sure another 4-6 weeks. The weather is not right for the cabin yet . It's a cool experience living up there for sure ( and you can't beat the price ) but it's remote. It's 15 -20 miles from a town with just one coffee shop (wi-fi ! ) and a few places to eat. I bet I could still get dates up there. Haha. It just wouldn't be as easy as this urban environment. It's rustic ( just fine to live in but no wi-fi ). I might have to get one of those portable wi-fi things. It's not a sexy cabin. It is one hour closer though to the town I strip most often in.

If I give up this place I'm dreading the " project " of putting things in boxes / getting a storage unit ect. if the other place in the city isn't ready yet ect.

I am a minimalist though . I'll have all my winter stuff packed and stored anyway in 2 weeks as I don't like having any clutter.

xxxGothBarbie
03-29-2019, 02:15 PM
^ Yeah. Totally. That's why I'm definitely keeping my place for sure another 4-6 weeks. The weather is not right for the cabin yet . It's a cool experience living up there for sure ( and you can't beat the price ) but it's remote. It's 15 -20 miles from a town with just one coffee shop (wi-fi ! ) and a few places to eat. I bet I could still get dates up there. Haha. It just wouldn't be as easy as this urban environment. It's rustic ( just fine to live in but no wi-fi ). I might have to get one of those portable wi-fi things. It's not a sexy cabin. It is one hour closer though to the town I strip most often in.

If I give up this place I'm dreading the " project " of putting things in boxes / getting a storage unit ect. if the other place in the city isn't ready yet ect.

I am a minimalist though . I'll have all my winter stuff packed and stored anyway in next 2-3 weeks as I don't like looking at it or having any clutter.

^ This is so me right now too LOL I'm getting ready to go on a radtrip across the states to take care of some loose ends & have already gone thru my things throwing crap out left & right. I couldn't decide whether or not to just take my things with but bf says meh just save on storage & leave it here :) Besides I get nervous taking ALL my stuff with me in fear of all kinds of maybe what if disasters .

whirlerz
03-29-2019, 02:45 PM
You know, I used to get a random pimple (what I thought was) & it turned out tb a cyst!
It was very small, & on the side of my nose, where my glasses sit..

I went to dermo for something else, he loooked @ it, & said I could have it removed, but it may come back.
So it's been gone now. (on its own)

I think what you guys are talking about isn't that, or a pimple, kerotosis or something? Maybe a gentle scrub would help, or an alpha hydroxy. BUT NOT together @ same time!

Miss_ShaSha
03-29-2019, 03:03 PM
I have a teeny-tiny pimple on the mid left side of my lower bottom lip and it hurts! I thought I would stop getting pimples at a certain age.

Those are very painful. I just had two a couple weeks ago. I'm a picker and a popper: when I went at both I literally shed tears it hurt so bad. While I don't break out as bad as I used to as a teen, I still get zits and the occasional pimple which are no fun at all. Pimples take a while to clear up too. I feel you, girl.

Miss_ShaSha
03-29-2019, 03:09 PM
Other thoughts ( maybe y'all can help me sort them ).

Should I keep my life somewhat nomadic or FINALLY get my damn real estate license active ( I have about 3-4 weeks of school left if I committed to doing 3 hours a day on it ).
^ DON'T QUOTE THAT PLEASE as it'll ( eventually ) be somewhat identifying .

I can't decide ! ;(
On one hand ..... I want to be that power lady closing BIG deals in NICE clothes at a nice brokerage ( I have one picked out in a prime area and I think it's 90% a go if I sign with them ).

On the other ...... I still deeply love my semi - nomadic life but I am starting to feel like it's not " doing " much for me. I enjoy the adventures but most people I date seem more confused by it that interested in sharing it.

That's a tough decision to make. I'd be projecting if I gave me two cents. I'm ready to settle down despite the most recent break up I've had that I'm still licking my wounds over.

But deep down inside there's this little itch: I'd love to just hit the road and see where it takes me and meet all the wonderful people along the way who make life worth living.

Girl...I'm jealous of your options LOL. I'll just live vicariously through you :) Sorry...no help at all LOL

carmen_b
03-29-2019, 03:23 PM
^ Yeah , I have so MANY options but they all come with a limitation of some sort. The real estate thing for example : I'd need to be settled in the city probably ( but could even make it work at the cabin just 70 min. from the city if I got phone / internet up there ).
I actually took at pay cut at my day job by limiting my travel to only two trips a month in April and May ( to make time to get the license active ).

I honestly want a boyfriend most of all. I find myself trying to " craft " a life to include one ( less travel for example to date city people or trying to date travel friendly people ).
I feel like I need to pick a side.

carmen_b
03-29-2019, 03:31 PM
Living this way is so great honestly. I've done multiple summers of living entirely on the road traveling with the Western USA ( mostly out of a truck with a shell on it to sleep in ). I'd alternate between a few nights in the truck and a couple nights in a hostel. It's a big factor of how I stripped in so many cities . I only intend to dance here and there ( 3-4 nights a month ) currently.

The adventures were forever ago - 2008- late 2010. I was settled with a long term partner summer 2011 to summer 2018. He lived the road life with me summer 2016 but didn't take to it quite like I did.

I think the person I'm seeing now would be interested in living on the road but I honestly have no idea what his intentions are with me.




But deep down inside there's this little itch: I'd love to just hit the road and see where it takes me and meet all the wonderful people along the way who make life worth living.

Miss_ShaSha
03-29-2019, 03:39 PM
^ Yeah , I have so MANY options but they all come with a limitation of some sort. The real estate thing for example : I'd need to be settled in the city probably ( but could even make it work at the cabin just 70 min. from the city ).
I actually took at pay cut at my day job by limiting my travel to only two trips a month in April and May ( to make time to get the license active ). I'm going to have to re-coup that many if I don't move forward with it.

The travel trailer isn't luxury at all - very very basic but it's an option.

It's weird ...... I honestly want a boyfriend most of all, haha. I find myself trying to " craft " a life to include one ( less travel for example to date city people or trying to date travel friendly people ).

I feel like I need to pick a side.

You are human. It's encoded in our DNA to mate. Maybe not all mate for life like the peregrine falcon, but it's natural. Wouldn't life be so much easier if that Magic 8 ball really worked? Haha.

The lack of luxury in the trailer can be overlooked by the quality of character in the people that you meet and spend time with. A great guy or gal won't care where you lay your head, and as long as you're safe...you won't either I'm sure.

carmen_b
03-29-2019, 03:40 PM
If I'm reading this right, he is letting you keep stuff there while you travel ? So sweet !
^ This is so me right now too LOL I'm getting ready to go on a radtrip across the states to take care of some loose ends & have already gone thru my things throwing crap out left & right. I couldn't decide whether or not to just take my things with but bf says meh just save on storage & leave it here :) Besides I get nervous taking ALL my stuff with me in fear of all kinds of maybe what if disasters .

AChildOfBoredom
03-30-2019, 12:16 AM
Stress eating at a Denny's at 3 in the morning. What a life.

SnuffleUffleGrass
03-30-2019, 07:19 AM
Stress eating at a Denny's at 3 in the morning. What a life.

Denny's isn't all that bad. Maybe not food for every week or weekend, but it's allright.

Elektra Luxx
03-30-2019, 09:38 AM
Stress eating at a Denny's at 3 in the morning. What a life.


Denny's isn't all that bad. Maybe not food for every week or weekend, but it's allright.

I've been on a few late night dates at Denny's. It's kinda got a nice comforting atmosphere. You get to mix with all the late night/early morning people. The service is so, so sometimes, but they have really good french toast and bacon and the coffee is hot good and all you can drink.

WendiStarr
03-30-2019, 09:44 AM
I got contacted for a temp job. It would only be for the month of April, which is fine with me because I need any experience in the IT field that I can get right now. The guy wants me to call him on Monday. I noticed that he took down his job ad today. I wonder if that's a good sign.

Elektra Luxx
03-30-2019, 09:46 AM
Those are very painful. I just had two a couple weeks ago. I'm a picker and a popper: when I went at both I literally shed tears it hurt so bad. While I don't break out as bad as I used to as a teen, I still get zits and the occasional pimple which are no fun at all. Pimples take a while to clear up too. I feel you, girl.

I can pick and pop my own, but someone else's.... *disgusting vomit sound* Barf-o'rama!!! My mom watches pimple popping porn. I watched some with her....Yuck! No thanks!

miss.a.p1600
03-30-2019, 12:50 PM
Stress eating at a Denny's at 3 in the morning. What a life.


Denny's isn't all that bad. Maybe not food for every week or weekend, but it's allright.


I've been on a few late night dates at Denny's. It's kinda got a nice comforting atmosphere. You get to mix with all the late night/early morning people. The service is so, so sometimes, but they have really good french toast and bacon and the coffee is hot good and all you can drink.

Reminds me of those times I’d have to sober up after late night parties.

Hit up the Denny’s or IHOP

Good thing I don’t drink alcohol like that anymore because My liver is not built for all that.

AChildOfBoredom
03-30-2019, 09:59 PM
Denny's isn't all that bad. Maybe not food for every week or weekend, but it's allright.

Well, if it was really bad, I'd have been at a Waffle House. That'll be the sign of me hitting a new low in life... Waffle House.

I miss the "Nanerpus" commercials from Denny's. I wish they'd have capitalized on it. I'd have bought a t-shirt, a plush, some sort of merchandise. I feel like they missed out on an opportunity.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4kK6F7t-x6E


I've been on a few late night dates at Denny's. It's kinda got a nice comforting atmosphere. You get to mix with all the late night/early morning people. The service is so, so sometimes, but they have really good french toast and bacon and the coffee is hot good and all you can drink.

Yeah, I can't do coffee. I can't handle caffeine very well at all. I just never had it growing up. I remember when my old roommate was pouring a glass of Mountain Dew, and I'm just looking at him kinda bewildered wonder who the hell would ever drink anything that color. So he slides it over to me and suggest I try some. So I did, and I don't know exactly what happened, but the next thing I know, I'd finished off the whole glass, and our other roommate is just staring at me with that, "oh, shit" look and her face. Didn't take me long to figure out why, because I alternated between bouncing off the walls and feeling sick as a dog for the better part of the night. So, when I go to lunch with friends, I get a water for myself and pilfer a sip or two of whatever pop they may be drinking.


I can pick and pop my own, but someone else's.... *disgusting vomit sound* Barf-o'rama!!! My mom watches pimple popping porn. I watched some with her....Yuck! No thanks!

Weirdest one I'd ever gotten was a whitehead inside my nostril. Like, how the hell does that even happen? Definitely not a fan of popping anyone else's. My younger 'refugee' always comes to me for the most awkward shit. She wasn't even through her first week of living here when she asked me if I could squeeze one on her back for her. Not really sure how I felt about it. Of course it was kind awkward for me, but in a way, it was sort of a good thing, too... in that she felt comfortable enough with me for that. We'd known each other for two weeks at that point, and I took a serious leap of faith taking her in, because she'd been in a shelter previously, and one which really wasn't a good place for a 15 year-old to be. Now, whenever that happens to her (which isn't too often, but it happens once in a while), I seem to have become her go-to for that sort of thing. Good thing she earns her keep.

Glamourmilf
03-31-2019, 08:59 AM
Just for fun, I answered an ad on Craigslist to be the host of a new YouTube channel.
There were photos of the location. A house. Hmm.
The ad said no experience needed, and that age and looks don't matter.
But, when I texted the number on the ad, the first thing the person did was ask for photos/:O
Okay, I'll play.
I sent sexy photos, because I knew I'd get an ' interview'.
The plan was that I would take my prison guard friend with me. Lol!
But, it didn't even get that far.
When I asked for the person's full name, he gave it to me, but said he found some other girl.::)
I had my friend run the name, and yep. You guessed it. He's a felon with a rap sheet a mile long for fraud, etc.
He's probably a trafficker now, so we're keeping an eye on him.
Once again, being in sex work for most of my life has saved me once again.

lynn2009
03-31-2019, 06:51 PM
Married guy texted me again today and I'm really tempted to see him again and get pregnant on purpose.

xxxGothBarbie
03-31-2019, 06:57 PM
If I'm reading this right, he is letting you keep stuff there while you travel ? So sweet !

yes indeedy <3 He's the best!

WendiStarr
03-31-2019, 08:08 PM
I'm in bf's bed watching Wild Hogs. I know he's supposed to be working from home tonight but I feel the urge to mess with him. I'm gonna get naked or at least go bottomless so when he pokes his head in from his home office, he'll have to come in here and take me.

carmen_b
03-31-2019, 09:31 PM
I should not have spied on the person I'm seeing on Tinder.
I know he opened the app in Reno ( otherwise the location wouldn't have moved ).
It's my own fault for spying. We have known each other by chatting 4 weeks and in person 2 weeks.
Maybe he only opened it to spy on me ! Haha.

I am not feeling secure about it and wonder if it was a bad decision.
I'll give it a few days and ask the questions that I want to ( such as his relationship status back home and if he might see us as bf/gf after a little more time ).
I'm pouty over not having girlfriend status already which I know logically isn't common at two weeks.

There were all these signs pointing to something more serious. He kept in touch heavily on this trip to CA he had , he sent a message at 10p.m. ( last night Sat. ) asking if I was " out raging ". You could tell he was fishing for reassurance I wasn't on a date. He was also saying he wish he would have flown to Vegas when I invited him out three weeks ago. ;)

I hate this grey area . Not my thing. He looks like Jesus and has a sexy accent.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-01-2019, 10:21 AM
Married guy texted me again today and I'm really tempted to see him again and get pregnant on purpose.

How about no lol. That doesn't usually end well

Miss_ShaSha
04-01-2019, 12:53 PM
I can pick and pop my own, but someone else's.... *disgusting vomit sound* Barf-o'rama!!! My mom watches pimple popping porn. I watched some with her....Yuck! No thanks!

hahahaaaa! Exactly. I watched an episode of Dr Pimple Popper and my anxiety was so bad. I CANNOT LOL!

Aurora_Sunset
04-01-2019, 02:40 PM
I love this little bar downtown. They’re just a small, almost dive bar location. But they play old timey music and play silly, old, romantic movies on silent constantly, and their drinks are the old ones like old fashion, gin rickey, rusty nail... but the bartenders wear punk rock t shirts and hoodies and they serve a lot of vegan food lol I love it.

JGB2009
04-01-2019, 02:48 PM
I haven't been on here in 2 or 3 days. Lots of catching up to do :)

Aurora_Sunset
04-01-2019, 03:03 PM
A part of me has dreamed of owning a bar for years. But I know I’m only here for the next 15 years and then I have no intention of staying in this state past my mid-40s, so what’s the point of trying to get one off the ground and own it for maybe 10 years? Idk... it would be fun though lol

carmen_b
04-01-2019, 04:38 PM
^ Have you seen those trailer bars ( vintage trailers used for wedding bars ect. ) ?

Maybe a way to small scale it !

AChildOfBoredom
04-01-2019, 05:42 PM
hahahaaaa! Exactly. I watched an episode of Dr Pimple Popper and my anxiety was so bad. I CANNOT LOL!

I’ve watched a few. Not something I’d ever see myself doing, but the videos are oddly satisfying.

And after today’s happenings at work, I feel like no small amount of weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

carmen_b
04-01-2019, 08:39 PM
Oh .... the great debate is back.
My sexy Jesus with the accent wants to go on a road trip. I can definitely go but I would want to strip a night at least.
Tell him ? Not tell him ? Always a fun debate.

My ex gave me such hell over sex work that I feel like this is a secret I should just die with never to speak of it again EVER ..... but then again .... he seems open minded .

He was saying something about Montana and I'm feeling " meh " on that idea. Isn't it still cold as f$^k up there ? My last one up there was such a disaster .

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-02-2019, 07:18 AM
Oh .... the great debate is back.
My sexy Jesus with the accent wants to go on a road trip. I can definitely go but I would want to strip a night at least.
Tell him ? Not tell him ? Always a fun debate.

My ex gave me such hell over sex work that I feel like this is a secret I should just die with never to speak of it again EVER ..... but then again .... he seems open minded .

He was saying something about Montana and I'm feeling " meh " on that idea. Isn't it still cold as f$^k up there ? My last one up there was such a disaster .

Are you dating Aaron Eckhart? lol

Montana is warming up. I know the NW corner is getting nice and sunny again.

WendiStarr
04-02-2019, 08:15 AM
I have no motivation today

carmen_b
04-02-2019, 04:18 PM
I may have to ditch sexy Jesus with the accent. ;(
He hasn't done anything *that* bad but here is the reasoning:

He isn't pro-active.
He went on a trip last Thurs - Monday morn. and I was figuring Mon. was a recovery day.

I thought I'd hear from him Mon. to plan for Tues. or Wed. eve and didn't.
I got really horny and sent a message Monday evening.
I guess it's a little early to give up but I'm just feeling " meh ".
No response in 24 hours about my " offer " to meet up Tues. or Wed.
I mean .... it's Tuesday now and 6:15p.m.

I'm irritated with him. I'm not over-reacting right ? I'm not out of practice with dating. I don't know what's what.

lynn2009
04-02-2019, 06:36 PM
I'm going to a wedding this weekend and I've checked all the emails they've sent and their electronic invitation and they havne't said anything about any kind of dress code. They're a really great, casual couple so I'm sure they don't want people to worry about what to wear, but I wish they'd give a little guidance you know?

AChildOfBoredom
04-03-2019, 02:23 PM
I hope this wears off. I drank a whole 20 ounce pop, and now I’m bouncing off the walls. What the fuck is it about Mountain Dew? Any others, I can take just a sip and be content. This stuff, I just lose all control, and it’s only maybe the fourth time in my life I’ve had it.

WendiStarr
04-03-2019, 02:34 PM
^ It's the caffeine. Mountain Dew has a lot of it, more so than some other pops. It'll probably wear off in about 2 hours.

JGB2009
04-03-2019, 04:37 PM
I may have to ditch sexy Jesus with the accent. ;(
He hasn't done anything *that* bad but here is the reasoning:

He isn't pro-active.
He went on a trip last Thurs - Monday morn. and I was figuring Mon. was a recovery day.

I thought I'd hear from him Mon. to plan for Tues. or Wed. eve and didn't.
I got really horny and sent a message Monday evening.
I guess it's a little early to give up but I'm just feeling " meh ".
No response in 24 hours about my " offer " to meet up Tues. or Wed.
I mean .... it's Tuesday now and 6:15p.m.

I'm irritated with him. I'm not over-reacting right ? I'm not out of practice with dating. I don't know what's what.

Me myself I would be irritated but then again I am not a patient person.

Miss_ShaSha
04-03-2019, 04:46 PM
I may have to ditch sexy Jesus with the accent. ;(
He hasn't done anything *that* bad but here is the reasoning:

He isn't pro-active.
He went on a trip last Thurs - Monday morn. and I was figuring Mon. was a recovery day.

I thought I'd hear from him Mon. to plan for Tues. or Wed. eve and didn't.
I got really horny and sent a message Monday evening.
I guess it's a little early to give up but I'm just feeling " meh ".
No response in 24 hours about my " offer " to meet up Tues. or Wed.
I mean .... it's Tuesday now and 6:15p.m.

I'm irritated with him. I'm not over-reacting right ? I'm not out of practice with dating. I don't know what's what.

You have every right to be irritated. I would consider it poor communication and even abandonment if he usually responds within a reasonable amount of time. Unless there was a major emergency, which could possibly happen, then he's very tardy in responding. I'd mention very tactfully how his late response made you feel if and when he gets back to you.

carmen_b
04-03-2019, 05:34 PM
He reached me yesterday but our texts didn't include plans to meet up.

I think I'm just not going to reach him for 3-5 days. I'm not amused that he was in town and didn't reach me ( this is why I assume he must still be dating even though we have a good sexual connection ). To be fair though, we didn't have an exclusivity talk. It's just that I was leaning towards wanting that ( 48 hours ago anyway ). I do find it very rude that I invited him on my desert trip this weekend ( free trip to the desert , I bill the entire thing to clients ). He could of at least said " thanks for no thanks " on the invite or " but I really wanted Montana " or SOMETHING .

I also feel like I've done EVERYTHING. I lured him over here on date #1 , I drove to his place ( he had it to himself on date #2 which was really cozy ), I had event tickets for date #3.

carmen_b
04-03-2019, 05:51 PM
^ I have great concert tix tonight and have another date arranged.

Miss_ShaSha
04-03-2019, 05:54 PM
^^Being upfront about what you need is smart & bravo for doing that! That takes guts. You didn't scare him off; you found out a bit more about where he's at which is good. Keep expressing your needs earlier than later as you'll find Mr Right right on time.

(((hugs)))

carmen_b
04-03-2019, 06:12 PM
^ I went at about the " right time " I thought ( about two weeks ).

I don't think I completely shook him haha. He just texted . He wants to know how my day is. I think I'll let him just wait 24 hours for a text back. ;)
Or should I tell him that it's going great, that I shaved my whole body 20 min. ago to prepare for this concert date with another guy ? Haha.

JGB2009
04-04-2019, 11:18 AM
^ I went at about the " right time " I thought ( about two weeks ).

I don't think I completely shook him haha. He just texted . He wants to know how my day is. I think I'll let him just wait on a text back. ;)
Or should I tell him that it's going great, that I shaved my whole body 20 min. ago to prepare for this concert date with A ? Haha.

I myself would make him wait.

WendiStarr
04-04-2019, 12:58 PM
Since my daughter got good grades I allowed her to pick a gift for herself from Five Below. While browsing the candy aisle I spotted baby bottle pops. I didn't know that they were still around. Anybody remember baby bottle pops? I am totally a big adult child right now because of course, I bought one!