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Glamourmilf
04-15-2019, 06:47 AM
Funny news- the Salton Sea area is getting "trendy" for people to hang out at, but it's not super safe to live at. (Toxic material.) IMO San Bernadino isn't the worst place to live out there....

I keep seeing current photos from this year's Coachella festival & I see that Rave Wear and early 1990s fashion is still so hot with trend setters and people who get paid to wear designer clothes. It's kind of funny. When I was wearing that stuff back in the 1990s I thought I looked terrible in it. lol

Yeah, both of those areas are bad.
I would never live anywhere near either of those places.
During the summer, when the winds blow from the East. The smell from the Salton Sea covers all of the Coachella valley, which runs for at least 50 miles.
It permeates the air, and smells just like rotten eggs.
Gross!:yuck:
Still better ( in my opinion), than living in LA.
I was talking to a friend last week, who lives in LA. He said that while visiting his friend's art gallery in Venice. A homeless guy pulled his pants down, and took a dump right in front of the gallery.
I knew it was going to be just like San Francisco, which is why I left when I did.
$5000 a month rent to see that?
No thanks.

miss.a.p1600
04-15-2019, 11:09 AM
Ran into an old dilf I used to date.

Well we went on 1 date lol

He seemed excited to see me hahaha

I’m more excited to see what that wallet do

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-15-2019, 02:22 PM
Yeah, both of those areas are bad.
I would never live anywhere near either of those places.
During the summer, when the winds blow from the East. The smell from the Salton Sea covers all of the Coachella valley, which runs for at least 50 miles.
It permeates the air, and smells just like rotten eggs.
Gross!:yuck:
Still better ( in my opinion), than living in LA.
I was talking to a friend last week, who lives in LA. He said that while visiting his friend's art gallery in Venice. A homeless guy pulled his pants down, and took a dump right in front of the gallery.
I knew it was going to be just like San Francisco, which is why I left when I did.
$5000 a month rent to see that?
No thanks.

Hahahahahah!!! Yes it's true, San Francisco will treat your eyes to the array of weird humanity in the Bay Area.

carmen_b
04-15-2019, 10:09 PM
JG : I feel so bad for your friend. How sad.

carmen_b
04-15-2019, 10:13 PM
Oh ... and side note ..... why can't mean BEAR or at LEAST SHARE the UTI pain from sex adventures ?
So unfair I could scream.

WendiStarr
04-16-2019, 04:05 AM
The owner of the company came back yesterday. He's like Don Draper of Mad Men(male chauvinist pig). He gave me mail to put in the mailbox and I pointed out that he hadn't put stamps on 2 of them. He said,"Oh, you're so smart". The tone of voice he used sounded condescending. He made some other comments that made me cringe. I read the glassdoor reviews after I started working here about him being sexist. I'm seeing it now. There's a reason why I'm the only female here. Ugh. Yes, I realize that I probably should've posted this in the pissy annoyances thread.

Glamourmilf
04-16-2019, 05:30 AM
I've decided that from now on I'm going to tell people that I meet that I'm retired. Just like them.
I have been trying so hard to cover for my camming job.
Nobody where I live works.
Nobody.
It's bizarre.
At least in LA, people PRETENDED to be busy with projects, etc. Yet, nobody worked there either.
Not here.
All people talk about are their illnesses and their last doctors visit.
Even young people.
#Boring.
So tired of the lies.51228

JGB2009
04-16-2019, 07:15 AM
^ Wow, that is sad. I wonder what happened.





I'm glad that Aldi store brought back the sweet potato bake with the praline topping in the frozen section. I have been looking for it since October of last year.


Yikes..is it an OD or do they think she had heart problems?

They wont know until the autopsy.

AChildOfBoredom
04-16-2019, 02:02 PM
28, independent, homeowner, never married, no kids.

It’s hilarious to me how the things which increase my standing in the ‘English’ world are strikes against me in the Mennonite world. Yet, they still act baffled about what led me away.

WendiStarr
04-17-2019, 04:29 AM
The account manager at my work is a bit odd. Yesterday he kept coming into my office over the most ridiculous stuff. Someone printed out a rainbow colored document and he wanted to know if it was me, despite someone else's name clearly being on the document. He put a funny looking baby dinosaur paperweight on my desk and said that it's going to sit there and stare at me all day. Then he came back again for something silly that had nothing at all to do with me or my workload and left his water bottle on my desk. While getting his water bottle he left his half eaten danish wrapped in a paper towel on my desk. I have a window where coworkers can see into my office and while I was typing something, I looked up and he was standing there staring at me. He looked away really fast and pretended to be doing something else once he noticed that I caught him looking. The dude is an oddball for sure. I told bf about him and he got all mad/jealous. If I'm being honest sometimes I kind of like when bf is jealous because that means that he's going to be trying harder to please me in the bedroom.

Glamourmilf
04-17-2019, 09:19 AM
I'm not going to hang out with one of my gay husbands anymore.
Every place we go, he appears to be bored.
Every party I've invited him to, he's cut out early, and can be caught yawning mid conversation.:-\
Even though there are mostly gay men everywhere we go.
He loves going to the movies, and for coffee.
But, he's texting the entire time.
I really wonder what gets him excited.
Since he is a very private person, and never opens up to anyone, we'll never know.
51232

carmen_b
04-17-2019, 10:13 PM
SO .... if you are seeing someone for a MONTH already and it's been about a week with no plans on the agenda ..... that's bad right ?

I'm DTF and he waits a week ? Actually ..... may be 8 days by the time he gets his shit together.
Maybe he's put me in some category of non-prioritization.
Yawn. I'm bored. I'm just going to ask outright what we are doing .

^ I slept on it. I think I answered my own questions. I am leaning towards being DONE.
I feel like waiting a week ( it was actually be 8 days if we got together tomorrow ) tells me everything I need to know.
It's strange sometimes how PACING is everything with men. If it's off ...... the whole thing is off .

carmen_b
04-17-2019, 10:45 PM
^ He says is is at a Farewell dinner for his musician friend who is leaving.

I told him I am at a Farewell dinner for my neglected pussy.

Ladycaxe
04-18-2019, 05:54 AM
Random thot: I think veneers look gr8 on most people. I want to do some cosmetic teeth procedures like Invisalign ...but I think the overly perfect look of veneers is not something that I would want myself.... plus the idea of shaving my real teeth to nubs is uH UH..... not too mention expensive af.

I've seen videos of people getting No prep veneers in Columbia, cheaper and less invasive, but I truly like the look of natural teeth a lot better.

carmen_b
04-18-2019, 09:19 AM
^ I was in a phase of considering them too ( I'd describe my teeth as 80% great but only with those small normal flaws ). I love how perfect they look.
Yeah .... the shave down thing is very very scary. Unless your teeth are completely trashed already. That is really who they were originally for .

WendiStarr
04-18-2019, 11:10 AM
I just realized I have no appetite today. It's 2:10 and all I've ate today is a blueberry muffin. I'm on antibiotic for a UTI and I swear it's killing my appetite, making me feel dizzy, and drowsy.

carmen_b
04-18-2019, 12:55 PM
I wish I could charge for sex without legal risk.

Oh damn Wendi, you are in the UTI misery club too?
Taking probiotics ?

WendiStarr
04-18-2019, 01:35 PM
I haven't been taking probiotics but I should be.

carmen_b
04-18-2019, 01:52 PM
^ Got to. Get some Kombucha and drink like half the 16oz bottle each day. Or maybe a whole one today if you are feeling super sick already.

Elektra Luxx
04-18-2019, 02:03 PM
For anyone looking for a good vanilla job, my younger sister works for E-Telequote Insurance and estimates she will make $116,000 this year! FYI, she's 22, dropped out of high school to party, an got her GED, no college. Through her first job, she studied and got licenses to sell insurance in several states. She says it's same selling hustle dancing and escorting. I'm really thinking about it.

JGB2009
04-18-2019, 02:07 PM
For anyone looking for a good vanilla job, my younger sister works for E-Telequote Insurance and estimates she will make $116,000 this year! FYI, she's 22, dropped out of high school to party, an got her GED, no college. Through her first job, she studied and got licenses to sell insurance in several states. She says it's same selling hustle dancing and escorting. I'm really thinking about it.

Makes me wanna do it....I am ready for a change.

lynn2009
04-18-2019, 07:12 PM
When I was with my grandmother last weekend, she was far more lucid then I remember her being in a long time and out of it enough to be rambling. She is incredibly interesting. She talked about growing up and being raised by her grandparents, how much she loved my grandfather, having horses as a child, what makes marriage good, "making love", all kinds of things.

Elektra Luxx
04-18-2019, 07:25 PM
Makes me wanna do it....I am ready for a change.

I had you in mind when I posted this.

Ladycaxe
04-18-2019, 07:39 PM
That is really who they were originally for .

right! and now it's just trendy....to shave down all ur teeth *facepalm*
I looked up cosmetic bonding that seems to give a more natural but improved appearance.

Ladycaxe
04-18-2019, 10:57 PM
What do y'all think about money print dance wear?
Cute? Tacky?

Glamourmilf
04-19-2019, 08:33 AM
What do y'all think about money print dance wear?
Cute? Tacky?

I love it.
I'm a big believer in LOA.
So, for me it's just the constant reminder of what my goal is, which helps me to achieve it.
I wear a huge sparkly money symbol necklace on cam, which always gets the conversation and money flowing.
I keep it on a table next to me all the time too.
If you build it, they will spend.51238

AChildOfBoredom
04-19-2019, 07:54 PM
Wow... this guy's practically ready to wife the Amish girl up, not realizing that what led her away was feeling like she was being pressured into a marriage she didn't want.

It's nice being back.... temporarily. It's peaceful here, and it gives me time to reflect and realize just how tumultuous a life I've been living. Which, it's settled down since, but I kinda put myself through the wringer. But I can't feel bad about it... a lot of those who leave, they end up in these expat communities, and the sudden immersion in the 'English' world is just too much, too fast for them. I'm fortunate to have had good people by my side to help guide me through it. Even though they had their own pack of demons by their side that they had to walk with, they steered me away from it, rather than passing them on to me. The misfits... the outcasts.. they're the ones who took me under their wing and made sure I wasn't led astray, while the "normal" people would've been content to just sit by and let things go where they may. And so the normally, culturally hip people think they have this calling to make me be more like them... they can't comprehend that I don't want to be like them.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-20-2019, 06:12 AM
In the spirit of reddit.com's "Am *I* the asshole?" discussions-


So I banned a couple of my relatives from visiting me this summer and I will probably get ragged on* for doing that.

Reason being one relative is frail and would not be comfortable staying in an apartment with a long walk up the stairs. Also...her traveling companion is seriously mentally ill and does stupid shit when her meds aren't working (tantrums, public outbursts, attacking people physically.)

Yeah it's assholish for me to just say "F*ck no, auntie and cousin, you can't come over here." BUT my patience has limits. It just would not work out to have them visit me.

Oh well.

* ragged on- California/West Coast slang for people being in disapproval of something.

WendiStarr
04-20-2019, 08:11 AM
I took probiotics, a garlic pill, D-mannose with cranberry extract, a multivitamin, and goldenseal in addition to my antibiotic. Sometimes you have to wonder if any of these supplements actually work or if they're just creating expensive piss.

carmen_b
04-20-2019, 10:15 AM
Indeed. Haha
I’ve got a vitamin C boost drink, cran, and multi-vitamin combo ! Hopefully it does do something!! Ha

queenelayliah
04-20-2019, 01:25 PM
This might be TMI,

But today i woke up super horny and my clit throbbing. So i decided to have some me time with my dildo and vib, after damn near 40 minutes of stimulation even though i was horny i finally was able to cum. However though hours later i noticed im bleeding a little. Im like damn is my pussy so tight i hurt myself? Mmm i was very wet so i know i was well lubed lol i tend to need to out a towel down or risk ruining my sheets.

So either i fucked myself to hard or my period started. But it shouldnt start because i have the iud. Sooo mmmmm. Who knows.

Aurora_Sunset
04-20-2019, 06:18 PM
It’s been funny watching my insecure, slut-shamey ex attach to this mutual friend on Facebook since we broke up. He clearly relates with her on mental health issues, and feelings of loneliness after a bad breakup. But she’s so blatantly feminist, slutty (not that there’s anything wrong with that!), and outspoken against misogynistic insecurity in all the ways that he hated about me when we were together. He was always sooo outspoken about how I was clearly an attention whore just because of my JOB, but girl will post photos all day long of excessive makeup and pop star level costumes, and he likes all of them as though he’s supportive. I can just SEE him fixating on the things they have in “common,” and falling for her, knowing damn well that if he ever dates her, he’ll have the exact same issues with her, her past, and her behavior that he had with me... Though I’m sure in all his stories with her, he compares me to her experiences with her narcisstic abusive ex and laments about what a selfish, gaslighting liar I was lololol

chanzep
04-20-2019, 07:11 PM
My vanilla work week was so long and draining. At first I was bothered about not having plans this weekend be because everyone is doing stuff but now I'm glad. I was out every off day last week and got nothing done. I'm going to enjoy me time and try to find a good new hairdresser.

AChildOfBoredom
04-20-2019, 07:20 PM
Market day... something I haven't done in forever. Made especially sure to look the part. My father was quite impressed at my ability to upsell.... he probably wouldn't like it so much if he knew where and how I learned to hustle.

carmen_b
04-20-2019, 08:11 PM
omg , my arm candy guy A is a CLOSET stripper hater
How can't this be ? Lol .
I'm glad he doesn't know I'm a stripper.
He went on a weird ramble how he dated a dancer 11 years ago and that dancers are " sad people ". OMFG.
I hate arguing for sex work rights ect. - not worth the energy.

He is great arm candy . I will keep him in mind for events but probably not pursue anything romantic with him ( obviously ! ).

queenelayliah
04-21-2019, 05:53 AM
Turns out it was my period. I didnt hurt myself. Yay for that!



This might be TMI,

But today i woke up super horny and my clit throbbing. So i decided to have some me time with my dildo and vib, after damn near 40 minutes of stimulation even though i was horny i finally was able to cum. However though hours later i noticed im bleeding a little. Im like damn is my pussy so tight i hurt myself? Mmm i was very wet so i know i was well lubed lol i tend to need to out a towel down or risk ruining my sheets.

So either i fucked myself to hard or my period started. But it shouldnt start because i have the iud. Sooo mmmmm. Who knows.

JGB2009
04-21-2019, 07:41 AM
LOL when we are not friends at all and not even friends on FB, but u block me cause u were offended by my profile pic. Word got around to me!!! Funny!!!

lynn2009
04-21-2019, 02:36 PM
I am very lightly considering staying in MD and moving to a nicer city when my lease ends. The first apartment I looked up in a nicer part of the county, they have an on-site dog spa. Not a dog groomer. A dog spa.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-21-2019, 03:43 PM
I am very lightly considering staying in MD and moving to a nicer city when my lease ends. The first apartment I looked up in a nicer part of the county, they have an on-site dog spa. Not a dog groomer. A dog spa.

….A dog spa.....? Don't tell my dog lol.

My Random Thought for today....I love green tea.

LetsGetHazey
04-21-2019, 05:23 PM
we should just stop getting our period until we press our belly button really hard for a solid 60 seconds and activate fertility.
Or we should just not have periods ever at all period.

AChildOfBoredom
04-21-2019, 05:37 PM
It's nice to spend Easter with my family. I'm not looking forward to the airport experience tomorrow, but we've all done the TSA pre check, so that shouldn't be so horrible. It was nice to come back, but my home is in North Carolina. I couldn't go back to this life. It seems like it could be a happy medium for the Amish girl... it's an environment familiar and comfortable to her, but not as restrictive as the horse and buggy sect she came from. But, she'll be coming back with us (much to the disappointment of the guy who pretty much became infatuated with her during her time here). I don't think anyone's disappointed to see me leave... I've been disappointing my parents for almost ten years now, so it's nothing new. Well, I kind of sort of seemed to have gotten their approval when the Amish girl and my sister told them about how I'd taken her into my home and the two others I'd taken in. "You did a good thing. Take proper care of your English girls", my mother said to me.

I think perhaps they're starting to understand that leaving this life hasn't led to me doing a Jekyl/Hyde transformation. While a lot has changed, I haven't succumbed to whatever ills they were expecting me to... I don't know if they thought I was going to join one of these expat communities and go off the deep end as many of them do because they're ill-prepared for the 'English' life and it overwhelms there or what. But I think they're getting the message that I'm making it, and they seem more comfortable with the idea of my sister being able to find her own place in this world rather than one that was laid out for her.

WendiStarr
04-22-2019, 05:45 AM
I wish I could find boric acid vaginal suppositories in stores. I don't want to wait 7-14 days for shipping. Has anyone ever purchased them from an actual physical store location? I need them asap!

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-22-2019, 06:43 AM
I wish I could find boric acid vaginal suppositories in stores. I don't want to wait 7-14 days for shipping. Has anyone ever purchased them from an actual physical store location? I need them asap!

One of my friends would make her own but you need gelatin capsules and a very sterile workspace to fill those capsules with the boric acid (it is going to be inside your vaginal canal, after all....)

My Random Thought today- my uterus really, really, really hates me and always strikes back at me when I try to tell it what to do. Thank God I never put myself through natural childbirth, ughhhhhhhhhhhhh

miss.a.p1600
04-22-2019, 07:00 AM
I wish I could find boric acid vaginal suppositories in stores. I don't want to wait 7-14 days for shipping. Has anyone ever purchased them from an actual physical store location? I need them asap!

I have but I got them locally in the past because I went to a gynecologist who filled a prescription. If you could find a gynecologist who is maybe new with not many patients yet or you know them and they can squeeze you in same day because most of them have wait times for appointments

I don’t think you need prescription for them per say but the compounding pharmacy here that sells them I guess they only take orders from licensed professionals

I ordered some from Amazon before and they work quite well. Amazon does regulate their health products so sellers have to adhere to higher standards to sell health products. If you have amazon prime it comes in two days or pay extra for overnight.

WendiStarr
04-22-2019, 09:19 AM
I have but I got them locally in the past because I went to a gynecologist who filled a prescription. If you could find a gynecologist who is maybe new with not many patients yet or you know them and they can squeeze you in same day because most of them have wait times for appointments

I don’t think you need prescription for them per say but the compounding pharmacy here that sells them I guess they only take orders from licensed professionals

I ordered some from Amazon before and they work quite well. Amazon does regulate their health products so sellers have to adhere to higher standards to sell health products. If you have amazon prime it comes in two days or pay extra for overnight.

The problem with that is doctor's around here close their offices at 5. I work until 5 and with bad traffic and rush hour even somewhere 5 miles a way can take an hour or more to get to. I can try Amazon prime although they have been slow lately too.

AChildOfBoredom
04-22-2019, 01:31 PM
Hurry up and wait… the thing airports and the Army have in common.

chanzep
04-22-2019, 09:39 PM
I took maca root a few times and it out me in horrible moods. I googled and found out it was common. Now I have a bag of the stuff unused.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-23-2019, 07:18 AM
I took maca root a few times and it out me in horrible moods. I googled and found out it was common. Now I have a bag of the stuff unused.

Yeah maca didn't agree with me! Other people enjoy it though.


My Random but heartfelt thought- I am so very happy for Megan Markle and her husband. Normally I'm not goopy about babies, but this baby I want to see. lol

miss.a.p1600
04-23-2019, 08:05 AM
I can’t help but laugh when I see extra nice teachers dealing with elementary school aged baybays kids on field trips

The one teacher in his nice kind patient voice was like “little bob, this is the 6th time I’ve told you to stay with the group”

WendiStarr
04-23-2019, 06:15 PM
Bf has been silent lately. I haven't seen him since Thursday and didn't hear from him since Sunday. He emailed me,"I'm not giving up on us. I just need time and space right now. Please understand". I don't get it because we haven't been seeing each other as much lately ever since he started working this new stupid schedule. We don't live together although sometimes he does stay at my place. I didn't know how to respond to that email so I didn't. Then he texted me hi, asked me how I was doing, asked about work, and asked if he left his charger here. He sent me a heart emoji. I sent one back but didn't initiate any more text conversation and neither did he. I'm trying not to go into emotional, needy gf mode. No, the irony isn't lost on me when normally I'd not care about losing a man. Most of 'em are a dime a dozen but I actually love him so I'm just.. feeling something and I don't like this feeling.