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Elektra Luxx
04-23-2019, 11:38 PM
^^^
*hugs*
charlie61
04-24-2019, 01:32 PM
Am i a dork for buying travel insurance (through world nomads)? Like, is that a first-time traveler newbie move? It was only like $60, but i feel like i never hear people mention that when they talk about international travel.
carmen_b
04-24-2019, 01:34 PM
^ No, a lot of people have it ! If you gives you the peace of mind !
That's what it is for.
carmen_b
04-24-2019, 01:36 PM
Ah ..... the good old ignore plan.
Works like a charm.
I was furious a week ago this person I was seeing wasn't booking time with me.
I was piiiiiisseeeddd that he knows I'm 90% nomadic / flexible where I can work but went on a week long road trip without me instead arranging to meet me during a few days of it.
Revenge is sweet. I have been getting an average of 3 texts / 3-4 photos a day.
Yesterday he asked me to come out ( um, no .... this could have been arranged days ago ).
For the last two days he has been wanting to know when I'll be home.
I have just sent a photo of the strip club stage / pole and a text saying " maybe a few days ? " .
That was also my reveal of being a dancer! Haha. It seemed to go well - no weird comments anyway.
JGB2009
04-24-2019, 02:46 PM
U guys have such awesome stuff posted today...…………..I so feel what you say.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-24-2019, 06:22 PM
Random thought- I'd love a whole steak but my stomach and lower GI tract are not gonna cooperate with that right now.
carmen_b
04-24-2019, 08:54 PM
I was straight up with B via text.
I just told him that my feelings were hurt a week ago when he wasn't arranging time with me and also hurt that he didn't come see me / offer TLC when I had the UTI ( because of our fun ).
He offered an apology and some kind of explanation of " I know the last two weeks were disorganized / a bit of a scramble for me deciding what to see ".
He is still pretending that he doesn't know that with a change fee he could re-route his Australia flight. Maybe he is running out of money and won't divulge that info. I get that as he's been on the road 90 days now .
To be honest, I can cover the entire month of a place to stay ( if we went somewhere like central america ) as my place always rents out monthly at a surplus over what I pay here .
I got as far as telling him I could easily rent my place but he didn't seem eager to discuss ideas so I didn't get to that detail.
I would prefer the straight up approach even if it is just " i'm getting low on cash, I can't travel with you a month / can't afford a change fee for the flight.
I feel like if we are not scaling to boyfriend / girlfriend then we need to downscale .
I do have to say .... I'm impressed he took the dancer thing in stride. NO stupid questions. No silly comments. That makes me happy even though his behavior the last 7 days did not.
Glamourmilf
04-24-2019, 09:02 PM
It was 103 degrees today.
I bought a new Arctic Air at Bed Bath and Beyond because the replacement filters for the 2 that I own won't be arriving until June.
Love my arctic air! It saves so much money on a.c.
SimoneGray
04-24-2019, 09:03 PM
Am i a dork for buying travel insurance (through world nomads)? Like, is that a first-time traveler newbie move? It was only like $60, but i feel like i never hear people mention that when they talk about international travel.
Not at all! If anything, it'll give you more peace of mind when you travel and its just generally much better to have it than not to.
Elektra Luxx
04-24-2019, 09:15 PM
^^^
Hi Simone!!! I haven't seen you around, nice to see you post again.
queenelayliah
04-24-2019, 11:47 PM
It was 103 degrees today.
I bought a new Arctic Air at Bed Bath and Beyond because the replacement filters for the 2 that I own won't be arriving until June.
Love my arctic air! It saves so much money on a.c.
What is this magical device you speak of? Because i live in the desert and it get 110 degree plus in the summers and my electric bill is always $200 plus.
Oh also to update everyone my biospy result that i got becuase of heavy bleeding problems came back normal. Turns out the lining of my uterus was wacky some areas in shed mode and others in growth mode.
Also i HATE unsolicited dick pics. Some guy on NF just sent a pic of his digusting uncut, tiny crusty fucking penis., i almost gagged.
JGB2009
04-25-2019, 12:37 AM
My mind is heavy on you and I can't sleep. Sometimes I think I would be better off just dealing with myself.
Glamourmilf
04-25-2019, 07:56 AM
What is this magical device you speak of? Because i live in the desert and it get 110 degree plus in the summers and my electric bill is always $200 plus.
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51266 This is the Arctic Air. Better known as " The Love of my 'Summer' Life."
Yes, I live in a desert too. So, I know those lovely temps of 110-120 plus degrees.
This is a ' personal' cooler. So that means you need to be sitting next to it, to feel it's effects. Just fill it with cold water ( add ice you want). Plug it in. Turn it on.
I have 1 on each side of me when I'm camming all summer under bright lights.
It's made to work only in dry, not humid climates. So, the desert is the perfect place for it.
*I don't know about you. But, for me the worst part of living in the desert, is being cooped up inside for several months.
With the Arctic Air, I can sit outside on my patio, AND keep my front door open while I sit in my living room and watch TV, cam etc.
Oh, and it works with a USB. So, if the power goes out, you won't die from the heat. You just use your portable phone charger.
Let me know how you like it.
WendiStarr
04-25-2019, 11:23 AM
Hot IT contractor dude stopped by the office. He was in my office talking to me while the other 2 were talking to the boss. He was ridiculously good looking but I still have my bf on my mind. I can't say I wouldn't mind a threesome with both. Ok, back to reality.
carmen_b
04-25-2019, 11:32 AM
^ Something to think about when you have some " time alone " hahaha.
carmen_b
04-25-2019, 11:39 AM
Fucking hormones man .....
2 days ago I was like " if B doesn't make me his GF asap I will never talk to him again " and now I'm kind of like " Damn .... he's a good cuddler .... lets hang out and see what happens ".
I'm trying to let the horny phase pass. I don't want to reach out and ( potentially ) get rejected again.
Last night he sent " I'm going to be there in about 4 hours " ( in reference to the city I'm in now ) and I sent " Just settling in here also ".
If he sent that expecting ME to reach out and extend an invite ..... no.
I'm not going to spoon feed anymore. If you want to see me request a date and stop being an ass.
I know some of this nonsense is cultural . I googled " dating an Australian " and a lot of women complain they don't take the reins, haha.
Aurora_Sunset
04-25-2019, 03:20 PM
I spent HOURS today going over the budget and setting strict guidelines and goals that will allow me to start paying off my debt more aggressively. Seems kinda silly though considering I leave for a family vacation tomorrow where I've made peace with the fact that the majority of our spending will be put onto a certain credit card because I just straight up don't have the money to pay back my mom for flights and lodging and have money to spend there. So I'm prioritizing paying her off and am just dealing with putting more on one card.
I really am going to get serious about the debt after this trip though. It was planned before I really sat down and took stock, so I'm obligated since things have already been booked. But today was a wake up call. For most of my cards, if I kept only making the minimum payments, it would take me 12 years to pay them all off.... That's not even close to acceptable. It's hard to pay off more though because the minimum payments combined literally take half my income. There isn't extra left over unless I commit to work my butt off and keep going after higher-paying jobs (fingers crossed for an interview I have next Thursday!). I need to relentlessly cut my extra spending, budget hardcore, work hard, and build other streams of income. Because as much as waking up early, staying up late, and working all the time is painful, and leaping into other ways to make money is scary, the idea that I will have this debt hanging over my head for over another decade into my 40s.... is way more painful and scary.
I'm also considering calling a debt service. Not the loan type, but the legit kind that you pay a little, but they get your APR and amounts lowered for you and you make one payment a month to them instead of handling each creditor individually. I think I'll call a couple when I get back from vacation.
carmen_b
04-25-2019, 03:31 PM
Aurora :
This might seem a little embarrassing but have you considered a loan ( such as having parents co-sign ) to get a more reasonable rate than those horrendous credit card rates.
It might not even be a consideration but I ask because that is how I'm handling mine. My dad gave me a much lower rate basically. The whole thing was beyond embarrassing.
When I come back from Hawaii I had like 15k in debt ( not a typo ) .
I was going to borrow it against a property I half own but then when I confessed my parents helped me . It is a dignified way to do it ( even though it's embarrassing ) because I am paying that loan back ..... just at a more reasonable rate.
Anyway ..... a lower interest thing ( such as even trying yourself for a bank loan ..... you might be surprised ) may be worth looking into.
carmen_b
04-25-2019, 03:36 PM
He hated my word choice when I said " I'm not looking for anything Ultra casual ".
I would say it's accurate since I have not seen him in 13 days.
Save your sad face emoticons with tears !
Step up. Make me your girl. Live an amazing desert / mountain split life with me. I have an awesome lifestyle and resources to share.
If not ...... back to the get lost plan. Don't test me.
carmen_b
04-25-2019, 05:22 PM
WHOA ! Thanks for making me aware of this product. We have a family cabin I love spending time at BUT it gets hot there in the afternoons. I have a routine to be out of there in summer afternoons BUT this could be worth a try.
I would be fine sitting right by it.
51266 This is the Arctic Air. Better known as " The Love of my 'Summer' Life."
Yes, I live in a desert too. So, I know those lovely temps of 110-120 plus degrees.
This is a ' personal' cooler. So that means you need to be sitting next to it, to feel it's effects. Just fill it with cold water ( add ice you want). Plug it in. Turn it on.
I have 1 on each side of me when I'm camming all summer under bright lights.
It's made to work only in dry, not humid climates. So, the desert is the perfect place for it.
*I don't know about you. But, for me the worst part of living in the desert, is being cooped up inside for several months.
With the Arctic Air, I can sit outside on my patio, AND keep my front door open while I sit in my living room and watch TV, cam etc.
Oh, and it works with a USB. So, if the power goes out, you won't die from the heat. You just use your portable phone charger.
Let me know how you like it.
JGB2009
04-25-2019, 05:40 PM
51266 This is the Arctic Air. Better known as " The Love of my 'Summer' Life."
Yes, I live in a desert too. So, I know those lovely temps of 110-120 plus degrees.
This is a ' personal' cooler. So that means you need to be sitting next to it, to feel it's effects. Just fill it with cold water ( add ice you want). Plug it in. Turn it on.
I have 1 on each side of me when I'm camming all summer under bright lights.
It's made to work only in dry, not humid climates. So, the desert is the perfect place for it.
*I don't know about you. But, for me the worst part of living in the desert, is being cooped up inside for several months.
With the Arctic Air, I can sit outside on my patio, AND keep my front door open while I sit in my living room and watch TV, cam etc.
Oh, and it works with a USB. So, if the power goes out, you won't die from the heat. You just use your portable phone charger.
Let me know how you like it.
Wonder if there is something similar like this that you can use with humidity.....
carmen_b
04-25-2019, 05:49 PM
^ There are portable ones ( I've had one in a humid place ) but I'm not sure at such a low price ......
AChildOfBoredom
04-25-2019, 06:19 PM
The amorous equestrian from previous posts told me he missed me while I was gone. Like, motherfucker, we barely even talk to each other. He just doesn't seem to comprehend my lack of interest.
miss.a.p1600
04-25-2019, 09:07 PM
Watching Chris klemmons collab with Trisha Paytas
And let me just say these some crazy mfs!
Trisha talking about how she be fucking ghosts, fucking candles, her boobs falling out her top, how she pops pills n used to snort meth, and a bunch of other fuckery
And Chris facial expressions.....priceless
Elle:)
04-25-2019, 11:25 PM
I am about to find out if karma exists at all.
lilylilylily
04-25-2019, 11:39 PM
I applied to be a part time dishwasher at a vegan restaurant today, they said no experience required and I do need some extra cash. I also recently applied to be a dog walker and cat sitter. I hope to hear from them, would really like to work this summer
yaya_cash
04-26-2019, 01:34 AM
Been knocking off my ytour cities.
I'm realizing stripping as a means to an end; I feel like I'm appreciated less And this makes me disappointed more.
And I'm getting bores - about ready to move to the next% thing.
Glamourmilf
04-26-2019, 09:16 AM
Wonder if there is something similar like this that you can use with humidity.....
I bet it works in humid climates.
Because it's hella humid here in July, Aug, and Sept, and mine works great.
I mean, it's used inside, along with the air conditioner. So, unless your inside air is humid,...?
JGB2009
04-26-2019, 09:42 AM
Will u see me tonight......cards are in ur hand!!!!
carmen_b
04-26-2019, 10:17 AM
Same ! I had fun when I returned to stripping after about 5 years off ( different cities ! adventures ! ect. )
But ..... I realized it is definitely a " just here and there " thing for me. I'm older and tired ! I used to KILL a room. Now my hustle is more low key such as more talking / finding that " one " right guy.
Been knocking off my ytour cities.
I'm realizing stripping as a means to an end; I feel like I'm appreciated less And this makes me disappointed more.
And I'm getting bores - about ready to move to the next% thing.
chanzep
04-26-2019, 09:04 PM
I would like to try Attic air. It's so humid here though.
SimoneGray
04-26-2019, 09:11 PM
Watching Chris klemmons collab with Trisha Paytas
And let me just say these some crazy mfs!
Trisha talking about how she be fucking ghosts, fucking candles, her boobs falling out her top, how she pops pills n used to snort meth, and a bunch of other fuckery
And Chris facial expressions.....priceless
This is literally one of the craziest videos on Youtube right now, and I am so here for it, I chuckled so much.
JGB2009
04-27-2019, 06:22 AM
Haven't seen you up late in forever!!!!
charlie61
04-27-2019, 03:40 PM
I spent HOURS today going over the budget and setting strict guidelines and goals that will allow me to start paying off my debt more aggressively. Seems kinda silly though considering I leave for a family vacation tomorrow where I've made peace with the fact that the majority of our spending will be put onto a certain credit card because I just straight up don't have the money to pay back my mom for flights and lodging and have money to spend there. So I'm prioritizing paying her off and am just dealing with putting more on one card.
I really am going to get serious about the debt after this trip though. It was planned before I really sat down and took stock, so I'm obligated since things have already been booked. But today was a wake up call. For most of my cards, if I kept only making the minimum payments, it would take me 12 years to pay them all off.... That's not even close to acceptable. It's hard to pay off more though because the minimum payments combined literally take half my income. There isn't extra left over unless I commit to work my butt off and keep going after higher-paying jobs (fingers crossed for an interview I have next Thursday!). I need to relentlessly cut my extra spending, budget hardcore, work hard, and build other streams of income. Because as much as waking up early, staying up late, and working all the time is painful, and leaping into other ways to make money is scary, the idea that I will have this debt hanging over my head for over another decade into my 40s.... is way more painful and scary.
I'm also considering calling a debt service. Not the loan type, but the legit kind that you pay a little, but they get your APR and amounts lowered for you and you make one payment a month to them instead of handling each creditor individually. I think I'll call a couple when I get back from vacation.
Call your credit card companies and ask for payment plans if you're past due and the cards have been closed. They can stop the late fees and lower the interest rates.
The NFCC (nfcc.org) is a non-profit that can offer credit advice and get you in touch with Debt Management Agencies. Do *not* work with Debt Settlement Companies - they'll wait for your cards to charge off before making a payment, which will seriously fuck up your credit.
carmen_b
04-27-2019, 04:43 PM
Doing a little experiement in the next two days with micro dosing cannabis edibles ( we are talking like 2.5 mg here , one afternoon and one evening ). That's about a 1/4 dose each time.
The reason I feel this will be beneficial is I have severe nausea from these anti - biotics and I'd like to just take the edge of that plus I'm trying to get a general " slight " shift / uplifted mood to kind of get me going. If anyone is curious, I'll report back.
SimoneGray
04-27-2019, 04:59 PM
Doing a little experiement in the next two days with micro dosing cannabis edibles ( we are talking like 2.5 mg here , one afternoon and one evening ). That's about a 1/4 dose each time.
The reason I feel this will be beneficial is I have severe nausea from these anti - biotics and I'd like to just take the edge of that plus I'm trying to get a general " slight " shift / uplifted mood to kind of get me going. If anyone is curious, I'll report back.
Definitely very curious about this, I've tried microdosing with sativa strains before, but I always become a bit more lethargic than I'd like, so I stopped altogether, but if you have success, I'd love to know your methods etc.
WendiStarr
04-27-2019, 05:41 PM
Animals are funny. I went to the park today and there was a big, beautiful white swan floating around on the lake. Suddenly a goose landed on the water which apparently angered the swan. They started making a lot of noise and the swan lifted itself up and started kind of walking upright on the water very fast, chasing the goose away. When I walked closer to the water edge, I saw why. Another swan was sitting on a nest. I went walking on the trail by the nature center and two Downy woodpecker male birdies landed right by me and were making noise at me. They followed me for a while. I thought they were going to get in the car but they stopped following me once I got to the parking lot. Animals are territorial I guess
AChildOfBoredom
04-28-2019, 05:30 AM
I'm the one who was up late stripping... yet I'm the first one awake. Even the Amish girl is sleeping in, which is quite unlike her. Ah, well. I don't mind making breakfast today. They earn their keep, even if they are a bunch of lazy bums on Sundays.
I also have a video project I'm working on. My mother wants to get an idea of what my home life is like, and she'd also like to see the others who live in this house - particularly the one I have custody of - since I didn't really feel like the 'English' girls would enjoy spending Spring Break in a Mennonite community, and it didn't occur to me to bring any photos of them with me, because I didn't expect my parents to have any interest. So, the last week has been me basically pulling out my phone at any point where I thought there was anything worth filming for this video. I'm sure my parents will be amused to find that "gesundheit" in response to sneezing has entered everyone's vernacular here, mostly on account of myself, my sister, and the Amish girl. I spread to my past roommates, as well.
Trying to get a video of the cat doing anything of note is frustrating. She's a bit older, so it's forgivable, I suppose.
whirlerz
04-28-2019, 06:59 AM
Animals are funny. I went to the park today and there was a big, beautiful white swan floating around on the lake. Suddenly a goose landed on the water which apparently angered the swan. They started making a lot of noise and the swan lifted itself up and started kind of walking upright on the water very fast, chasing the goose away. When I walked closer to the water edge, I saw why. Another swan was sitting on a nest. I went walking on the trail by the nature center and two Downy woodpecker male birdies landed right by me and were making noise at me. They followed me for a while. I thought they were going to get in the car but they stopped following me once I got to the parking lot. Animals are territorial I guess
Swans & geese DO NOT mix! There was a pond @ this place I worked, years ago, my friend & I used to go out on breaks there..
No matter what, the swans would fuck w/the geese.
But definitely if there's a nest..
Glamourmilf
04-28-2019, 10:26 AM
Swans & geese DO NOT mix! There was a pond @ this place I worked, years ago, my friend & I used to go out on breaks there..
No matter what, the swans would fuck w/the geese.
But definitely if there's a nest..
Totally true.
Swans are so mean.
There was one that lived at the country club/ golf course I lived at.
She would terrorize my little dogs on the daily.
I even have photos of her trying to get into my house, by pecking at the screen door.
And the poop. Don't get me started. Black tar, is the only way to describe it.
One day, one of the golfers 'accidentally' hit her with a golf ball and killed her.
Oops.
Nobody cried.
WendiStarr
04-28-2019, 10:29 AM
Out of nowhere I have this urge to drink watermelon gatorade but there's none here in my home state. It must be a southern thing because I could find it everywhere down there but nowhere up here.
carmen_b
04-28-2019, 12:25 PM
When I sent B a photo of the stripper pole he didn't know I was stripping. Lol .
He thought I was at a " class " for women pretending to be strippers and working out.
Yes.... I would totally cross a state line and be in the car for 6 hours round trip for that.
queenelayliah
04-28-2019, 04:32 PM
I want moneyyyyyyyyyy.
And i just sighed up for chatubate so i can put my lovesense to use
xStacey
04-28-2019, 08:07 PM
I find Benedict Cumberbatch sooo hot. I just watched The Imitation Game for the first time a couple of weeks ago and today Dr Strange now I wanna watch Sherlock and all the other movies and series he’s been in haha. Am I the only one who finds him this hot?!
miss.a.p1600
04-28-2019, 10:08 PM
Sometimes I wish I had a dick....
charlie61
04-28-2019, 10:24 PM
Sometimes I wish I had a dick....
I wish i had a dick because then i could tell what does and doesn't turn me on. It just seems like it'd make the whole process of sexual exploration and discovery so much easier, especially when you're first trying to figure everything out.
Elektra Luxx
04-28-2019, 11:33 PM
I wish i had a dick because then i could tell what does and doesn't turn me on. It just seems like it'd make the whole process of sexual exploration and discovery so much easier, especially when you're first trying to figure everything out.
I wish you had dick too. *wink wink*
WendiStarr
04-29-2019, 04:52 AM
Sometimes I wish I had a dick too! Vaginas can be frustrating. Vaginas can have all these different problems that dicks can't get..periods, recurrent bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, cervicitis, cervical cancer, vaginismus, soreness after sex, random pain for no reason, dryness. The list is endless. Men have it easy.
charlie61
04-29-2019, 10:33 AM
I wish you had dick too. *wink wink*
Gurrrrr baby... :flirt:
Ladycaxe
04-29-2019, 10:34 AM
When u so burnt out u decide to get ur wisdom tooth pulled rather then go to work. #SlowSeason #RentPaidSoFukkkIt lol