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Ladycaxe
04-29-2019, 10:52 AM
Also if I had a dick, I'd tattoo it

chanzep
04-29-2019, 12:35 PM
I am addicted to watching Spring Baking Championship again lol. I really need to go outside and do stuff but I can can't be bothered. I'm going to order my groceries.

AChildOfBoredom
04-29-2019, 12:55 PM
I’d want one for enough time to give jacking off a try, see whose are better. Not permanently, though… so many guys out there seem to be controlled by theirs, I don’t think I’d be willing to give up my autonomy to have one.

Still, I am curious what it’s like for a guy to “punch the clown”.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-29-2019, 05:50 PM
I’d want one for enough time to give jacking off a try, see whose are better. Not permanently, though… so many guys out there seem to be controlled by theirs, I don’t think I’d be willing to give up my autonomy to have one.

Still, I am curious what it’s like for a guy to “punch the clown”.

From what I gather, it's a mix of mental focus, the right pace of stimulation, a decent lubricant, and a bit of privacy.

This reminds me, I love overhearing my boyfriend jerk off. He is so sexy.

JGB2009
04-29-2019, 08:38 PM
I think I am gonna go get my nails done tomorrow.

AChildOfBoredom
04-30-2019, 02:35 AM
From what I gather, it's a mix of mental focus, the right pace of stimulation, a decent lubricant, and a bit of privacy.

This reminds me, I love overhearing my boyfriend jerk off. He is so sexy.

I was told it’s all in the wrist. Anyone I could potentially hear/see polishing their rocket… just, no.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-30-2019, 05:27 AM
I was told it’s all in the wrist. Anyone I could potentially hear/see polishing their rocket… just, no.

All in the wrist...lollllllllll

WendiStarr
04-30-2019, 07:51 AM
Ok, I'm going to be the odd one here. I find it amusing to see men masturbate. It can be funny the different hand movements, speed, moaning. Of course, only if it's someone that I'm actually interested in seeing. I don't like surprise masturbation type of scenarios from random creeps. I like watching my bf do it as long as he puts it inside me when he's ready to cum. Damn it. I was trying not to think about sex while at vanilla job but now I am.

carmen_b
04-30-2019, 11:01 AM
^ Oh that's hot ( the idea of getting himself half way there and then finishing with you ).
Damn.

Men jerking off is amusing and ( usually ) gross to me. If it's someone I like I enjoy it but I have just seen way to many dicks I think ( penises popping out uninvited in massage sessions .... the club ..... dating ). I'm very tired of it . The person I went on a date with last Sat. was pushy for penis attention and it was very gross.
Contrasting to current lover ( who basically gets off on me getting off ) it is a huge difference.

AChildOfBoredom
04-30-2019, 11:57 AM
That feeling when someone the same age as me - 28 - with two divorces and a string and bad - and often abusive - relationships to her claim decides to tell me that I’m “too picky”. Yeah, you don’t get to lecture me on that.

WendiStarr
05-01-2019, 05:08 AM
I have this platonic cuddle client who quickly became super needy after only cuddling 3 times within the past month. I don't like to book with any of the cuddle guys more often than once a week because of attachment potential of the guys. Maybe I have to change it to once every 2 weeks. A few years back I had a platonic cuddler get obsessed with me and think that he was in love with me and that we were in a relationship after I cuddled with him 2 days in a row. This current needy guy has been trying to book with me every day and I keep telling him that I'm busy. I wonder where the hell his wife and daughter are and if he even has a job because he tries to book me at all hours of the day and night, except for between 10am-3pm. I feel like I'm going to have to resort to bf having a talk with him to set him straight.

Glamourmilf
05-01-2019, 10:10 AM
I have this platonic cuddle client who quickly became super needy after only cuddling 3 times within the past month. I don't like to book with any of the cuddle guys more often than once a week because of attachment potential of the guys. Maybe I have to change it to once every 2 weeks. A few years back I had a platonic cuddler get obsessed with me and think that he was in love with me and that we were in a relationship after I cuddled with him 2 days in a row. This current needy guy has been trying to book with me every day and I keep telling him that I'm busy. I wonder where the hell his wife and daughter are and if he even has a job because he tries to book me at all hours of the day and night, except for between 10am-3pm. I feel like I'm going to have to resort to bf having a talk with him to set him straight.

Send him my way.
I would 'hustle' the pants off him.
By the time I'm finished, he will have bought me my new condo/ car.
God I miss hustling.

carmen_b
05-01-2019, 11:13 AM
^ I was kinda thinking the same ... like .... is there a way to get MORE out of him .... like a sensual massage ect. Lol

I am in such a greedy mood. Don't listen to my suggestions.

I genuinely feel for the needy ones at times, ugh.

WendiStarr
05-01-2019, 12:05 PM
I don't have the patience to hustle needy guys right now. The last time I cuddled with him he wanted an extra hour of cuddling for free. Obsessive types will get delusional and think we're in a romantic relationship of some sort and that he doesn't have to pay if I see him too often. I think I'm just going to be "too busy" and let this one find someone else who wants to try to hustle him.

carmen_b
05-01-2019, 01:13 PM
Oh gross .... for free ?!? ( barf )

Elektra Luxx
05-02-2019, 06:02 AM
McDonald's drive through guy paid for my breakfast right out of the blue! I was so surprised and touched by his kindness. And then he says "and no you don't owe me" and I said "yes I do". And we went back and forth several times until I finally gave in.

So this was yesterday, I left my bf and moved in with McDonald's drive through guy. He lives at home with his mom so it's still a little awkward. But love overcomes all, right?!

carmen_b
05-02-2019, 09:55 AM
^ Hahahah !

carmen_b
05-02-2019, 09:57 AM
^ Reading this makes me regret ( again ) not having sex with my young stud Mr. Tall.

At the time I think I did it because I thought a few outings would more likely lead to a relationship .
Without getting way too graphic and into TMI territory ...... regrets. HAha.
Now his long lean gorgeous body and his long / lean *cough ahem* is on the other side of the country.
;(

carmen_b
05-02-2019, 10:18 AM
I'm finding myself missing Hawaii which feels SO random.
( it would make more sense to miss it in winter )
When I left 3 years ago there was no where I wanted to be LESS.
I had such bad island fever it was a thrill to leave. Now it feels different. It was MY home too ( not just my ex's where I was a visitor ).
I lived there 5 years . I will probably go back and visit soon.

WendiStarr
05-02-2019, 10:24 AM
Sitting here eating my lunch at my desk at vanilla job when a random black beetle fell from the ceiling and landed on my half eaten lunch. Okie dokie then. I'm full anyways. Bugs! I hope there's not more of those that are going to come falling down while I'm working.

whirlerz
05-02-2019, 11:22 AM
UGH!

I had fucking ants, maint guy brought in some traps, but they have twist off top, (which is a pain), & they're liquid filled.
I spilled some on carpet.
But it looks like they're gone.
Is it raining there? We've had days/hours of rain. That brings bugs
I also get some flying beetle, 'stink bugs' those fall down in my room, usually when it's warm.
I use my plant's bug spray on them.:D:yuck::yikes:

WendiStarr
05-02-2019, 05:51 PM
It has been raining here. It flooded pretty bad in some parts.

Elle:)
05-02-2019, 06:35 PM
I don't think I like the book I am reading, the movie was so much better.

JGB2009
05-02-2019, 08:04 PM
Why can't I just get on cam looking ugly? Like hair not brushed and no makeup. I so don't feel like getting ready!!!

AChildOfBoredom
05-03-2019, 01:55 AM
The youngest 'refugee' is going through a depressive streak, and can't seem to sleep tonight. Wish I knew what to do. I took her to Denny's, got her some ice cream, and said she could stay home instead of going to school today. There seems to be a lot of weird moods. The specialty bicycle tools my friend will need when she gets here and starts working... I had them wishlisted on Amazon, and they arrived Wednesday... except I hadn't ordered them. Turns out my ex-roommate saw it, and he knows the situation, so he just went and ordered them for me and refused to let me split the cost with him. So now I'm wondering if he's in a bad spot, because I remember reading about how suicidal people often give things away before they carry it out.... not that he seems depressed... he seems the happiest he's been since moving to Colorado now that he doesn't even talk to his ex-.... but he's out of his mind enough that I can't put the idea of him doing it just for a laugh past him. And people are work have been acting kinda strange. I don't know what the hell is going on.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-03-2019, 05:36 AM
The youngest 'refugee' is going through a depressive streak, and can't seem to sleep tonight. Wish I knew what to do. I took her to Denny's, got her some ice cream, and said she could stay home instead of going to school today. There seems to be a lot of weird moods. The specialty bicycle tools my friend will need when she gets here and starts working... I had them wishlisted on Amazon, and they arrived Wednesday... except I hadn't ordered them. Turns out my ex-roommate saw it, and he knows the situation, so he just went and ordered them for me and refused to let me split the cost with him. So now I'm wondering if he's in a bad spot, because I remember reading about how suicidal people often give things away before they carry it out.... not that he seems depressed... he seems the happiest he's been since moving to Colorado now that he doesn't even talk to his ex-.... but he's out of his mind enough that I can't put the idea of him doing it just for a laugh past him. And people are work have been acting kinda strange. I don't know what the hell is going on.

It might be harmless (him paying for the tools.) I read somewhere that a high percentage of suicides (lately) are fairly spontaneous (my experience tells me that stressed out people choose that method of doing the deed to "not get caught" and saved.)

Don't hesitate to reach out to him though. Sometimes a small kindness really pulls people back from the edge.

Glamourmilf
05-03-2019, 10:04 AM
I posted a little clip of me dancing to Madonna's new song on my Facebook page.
This young Hispanic dude, whom I'm friends with on there commented that he'd like me to dance for him.:dance:
I said, okay, pay me.
He said that he would, and gave his location.
He's an hour drive away, and lives in the hood.
I told him that I don't go there But he could cash app me to dance for him on Skype.
He replied back that nah, he likes live shows.:-\
My younger self would have given him a price, and driven out there.
My older, more wiser self....
:no:

carmen_b
05-03-2019, 11:47 AM
Damn I have no patience.
I’m seeing this band but the doors aren’t open 13 min. before.
EDIt : Nevermind, it was the Silversun PickUps, a SMALL venue , + they were so awesome !

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-03-2019, 11:56 AM
.…...Just ran into a former co-worker from one of my day jobs. Ewwww awkward

miss.a.p1600
05-03-2019, 12:43 PM
^lol!

And here I am trying to keep in touch with the former coworkers from day job.

I probably should just take your approach

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-03-2019, 01:07 PM
^lol!

And here I am trying to keep in touch with the former coworkers from day job.

I probably should just take your approach

Yeah this dude is a total piece of shit. I made the mistake of trying to be nice to him at work and it wasn't worth the effort or expended empathy.

Random thought- time to get some sun

WendiStarr
05-03-2019, 03:02 PM
I saw one of my fbsm regulars. He's an old, retired military vet with a ton of scars all over his body but that doesn't seem to change his sense of humor. He always has some jokes. Today he asked me if I knew why you shouldn't mix prune juice and Viagra. He said it's because you won't know if you're "coming" or "going". He also said before buying a dildo you should always think long and hard..lol.

carmen_b
05-03-2019, 04:30 PM
My wonderful idea to give the ex a bag of stage 1's as the final car payment I owed ( $500 ) didn't come into fruition and I'm a little sad about it.
The last trip was a fail and it wasn't worth " cheating " going to the bank and getting the rest of the 1's. Ha.

AChildOfBoredom
05-04-2019, 12:06 AM
It might be harmless (him paying for the tools.) I read somewhere that a high percentage of suicides (lately) are fairly spontaneous (my experience tells me that stressed out people choose that method of doing the deed to "not get caught" and saved.)

Don't hesitate to reach out to him though. Sometimes a small kindness really pulls people back from the edge.

I'm probably overreacting. Still, that one just kinda came out of the blue. I called him today, and he was out with a couple of coworkers, which struck me as rather odd, since he was always adamant about not hanging out with coworkers outside of the workplace. But then I saw his Instagram... they were shooting guns, and I guess one of the coworkers owns a couple machine guns, so of course he'd make an exception for that. Looked like they were having a good time.

My sister confronted me tonight as I was leaving. She wanted to know where I keep going to on the weekends that keeps me out so late. I told her we'll talk about it, but I had to get going.

queenelayliah
05-04-2019, 12:16 AM
I'm probably overreacting. Still, that one just kinda came out of the blue. I called him today, and he was out with a couple of coworkers, which struck me as rather odd, since he was always adamant about not hanging out with coworkers outside of the workplace. But then I saw his Instagram... they were shooting guns, and I guess one of the coworkers owns a couple machine guns, so of course he'd make an exception for that. Looked like they were having a good time.

My sister confronted me tonight as I was leaving. She wanted to know where I keep going to on the weekends that keeps me out so late. I told her we'll talk about it, but I had to get going.


^ huh oh, what are you going to tell her? Is she going to judge you for being a stripper?

AChildOfBoredom
05-04-2019, 12:27 AM
^ huh oh, what are you going to tell her? Is she going to judge you for being a stripper?

She'd better not, seeing as I'm the one putting a roof over her head. As for what I'm going to tell her... I don't know. I guess the truth. I really don't like the idea of lying to or deceiving my sister.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-04-2019, 05:58 AM
My wonderful idea to give the ex a bag of stage 1's as the final car payment I owed ( $500 ) didn't come into fruition and I'm a little sad about it.
The last trip was a fail and it wasn't worth " cheating " going to the bank and getting the rest of the 1's. Ha.

Are you sure your ex is going to pay the final amount? & Not avoid it so the car goes to repo right before it's paid off as a "F U" gesture? I mean he is your ex....

I had a relative pocket some cash meant to pay on a credit account so ever since then I pay bills directly. I just thought of that when I read this. Just wanted to make sure nothing "fucky" happened.

Random Thought- owww

WendiStarr
05-04-2019, 06:11 AM
I'm hoping the sun comes out and it doesn't rain today. I need to get my daughter outdoors to a park or something. She's been spending too much time on the computer and watching tv.

JGB2009
05-05-2019, 06:14 AM
Trying to work on my temper.....I don't wanna be quick to get angry at things in my life. Lets see how this goes.

Aurora_Sunset
05-05-2019, 07:52 AM
I’ve been saying I’ll go to bed early to catch up on sleep all weekend, but as soon as 10pm comes along, rather than lie down and go to bed, I get a second wind and stay up until 1 or 2. I am just not a morning/early bedtime person.

miss.a.p1600
05-05-2019, 08:29 AM
Same!

The past month I keep asking myself is my body clock off or am I just more of a afternoon/night person.

carmen_b
05-05-2019, 11:04 AM
It was me who bought it from him.
I have given him the $2,000 now. The car has agitated me.
There is no car payment ( I think this is why I feel particularly salty I was asked to buy it instead of just gifted it as an " I'm so sorry " gesture ).
He bought it for 10-14k ( I can't remember the exact amount because there was a warranty in there ) in cash about 5 years ago .
His mom sold her house in Hawaii and gave each sibling a chunk.
I wish I wouldn't have bought it but I did need *something* to drive ( my car goes for about 2 hours - not road trip worthy ) and my family pressured me to ( it's a nice SUV and blue book is more like $4,000 ).

I put a lot of money into it last summer ( $1900 ) when he was frozen in pouting ( not an exaggeration ...... he let the car just SIT ).
Without it we couldn't make it 2 hours out of our town.


Are you sure your ex is going to pay the final amount? & Not avoid it so the car goes to repo right before it's paid off as a "F U" gesture? I mean he is your ex....

I had a relative pocket some cash meant to pay on a credit account so ever since then I pay bills directly. I just thought of that when I read this. Just wanted to make sure nothing "fucky" happened.

Random Thought- owww

carmen_b
05-05-2019, 11:05 AM
I know that I probably should have bought my own wheels ( that can make it more than 2 hours out of town ) ..... I don't like to be reminded that he " saved " me that way in the last two years.

Basically we are just in a stand still of anger with each other. I still can't believe he left ( and the way he did was horrendous ).
His take on it is that it was " too late " to save us .

I am nuts here for thinking it isn't appropriate that he asked for a " sweep " of the car ? It seems annoying.

WendiStarr
05-05-2019, 12:06 PM
You have to love when you're going through the pockets of your dirty clothes, looking for a receipt, and find some $. I honestly don't remember putting it there and that's not something I do with $ anyway, especially not a Benny. I think bf had to have done that. It's a mystery.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-05-2019, 12:09 PM
It was me who bought it from him.
I have given him the $2,000 now. The car has agitated me.
There is no car payment ( I think this is why I feel particularly salty I was asked to buy it instead of just gifted it as an " I'm so sorry " gesture ).
He bought it for 10-14k ( I can't remember the exact amount because there was a warranty in there ) in cash about 5 years ago .
His mom sold her house in Hawaii and gave each sibling a chunk.
I wish I wouldn't have bought it but I did need *something* to drive ( my car goes for about 2 hours - not road trip worthy ) and my family pressured me to ( it's a nice SUV and blue book is more like $4,000 ).

I put a lot of money into it last summer ( $1900 ) when he was frozen in pouting ( not an exaggeration ...... he let the car just SIT ).
Without it we couldn't make it 2 hours out of our town.

Oh ok.

I'm impressed it still blue books at 4K, mine is basically worth a grand on blue book but all the new parts under the hood cost way more than that. Automobiles and motorcycles are always money pits.

Random- I'm having such a weird day. Weird in a GOOD way though...…….

yaya_cash
05-05-2019, 01:03 PM
I miss NYC. Or where it is so competitive and you get rewarded for being so.

miss.a.p1600
05-05-2019, 10:19 PM
I went looking at this reborn baby site with these fake babies that look real.

None of those babies are cute and half of them look obviously fake

AChildOfBoredom
05-06-2019, 04:54 AM
My friend’s husband died last night. She’s a widow now, and her and her children, after having to deal with that, are pretty much going to have their entire lives uprooted. I had a little talk with everyone this morning about the coming months and what to expect. Three of us are from Anabaptist backgrounds - my sister and I came from a Mennonite family, and there’s the Amish girl. I was pleased to see that my ‘English’ girls were not only willing to step up, but were eager to. Even the Irish woman - who rents from me and I wasn’t going to place any expectations on her to have any part of this - told me to let her know what she can do.

I just hope it’s enough. I am just incredibly apprehensive about this.

WendiStarr
05-06-2019, 04:55 AM
miss.a.p, I've seen those before and considering getting one a few years ago after my last miscarriage. I thought they had some cute babies, even if some do look obviously fake. I didn't want to pay all that money for a doll though. I'm still not giving up hope of a real baby.

AChildofBoredom, sorry to hear about your friend's husband. That's going to be very tough on her and their kids but I think that it's great that she has an awesome friend like you who is willing to help her get through it and cool that your roommates are willing to help too.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-06-2019, 05:08 AM
My friend’s husband died last night. She’s a widow now, and her and her children, after having to deal with that, are pretty much going to have their entire lives uprooted. I had a little talk with everyone this morning about the coming months and what to expect. Three of us are from Anabaptist backgrounds - my sister and I came from a Mennonite family, and there’s the Amish girl. I was pleased to see that my ‘English’ girls were not only willing to step up, but were eager to. Even the Irish woman - who rents from me and I wasn’t going to place any expectations on her to have any part of this - told me to let her know what she can do.

I just hope it’s enough. I am just incredibly apprehensive about this.

This is important, she needs to get some copies of her husband's death certificate to bring with her. If she applies for assistance she needs that documentation.