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AChildOfBoredom
05-06-2019, 12:15 PM
This is important, she needs to get some copies of her husband's death certificate to bring with her. If she applies for assistance she needs that documentation.
I'll make sure she's aware of this tonight. She said she'll call me sometime this afternoon or evening. I know she has a lot going on right now.
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-06-2019, 01:48 PM
I'll make sure she's aware of this tonight. She said she'll call me sometime this afternoon or evening. I know she has a lot going on right now.
I totally understand.
Random- coffeeeeeee
xStacey
05-06-2019, 04:05 PM
First day back to the office after one year spent in another province on my graduate degree. I was in a colleague's office and this new lawyer I never saw came in I was thinking whoa he's really hot, we introduced each other and kept staring at each other and the lawyer I was previously talking to made a comment about me being mesmerized by the new lawyer's ribbon hahaha
Daniellaa
05-06-2019, 11:39 PM
Cars without tinted windows look so awkward.
JGB2009
05-07-2019, 04:35 AM
I slept 12 hours last night and never heard no one come into my room. I never heard my phone go off and never felt my cat playing with my feet. I had to be sleeping hard!!!!!
xStacey
05-07-2019, 05:04 AM
Law firms are still very much a white man’s world lol. Yesterday had lunch with 8 guys and I was the only woman... And I was totally comfortable with their conversation about stripclubs lol.
yaya_cash
05-07-2019, 08:22 AM
Law firms are still very much a white man’s world lol. Yesterday had lunch with 8 guys and I was the only woman... And I was totally comfortable with their conversation about stripclubs lol.
What were they saying about the clubs?
ravenskyy
05-07-2019, 11:19 AM
Hubby wants to get me a puppy or a kitten for our anniversary! Not sure which one to get. We have kids and 2 cats. Can't decide if we should get a kitten, since they're easy to take care of. Or if we are ready for the challenge of adopting a puppy, which is basically like having a toddler.
Either way, yay! New fur baby!
WendiStarr
05-07-2019, 02:19 PM
I don't have the best relationship with my mom but I still plan on sending her a gift. I'm debating on whether I should send the chocolate covered strawberries from Edible Arrangements or a sun dress. She always liked those long sun dresses with loud, crazy prints on them. The only problem with that is that she's plus size and all of the sun dresses I've seen for plus size women are all in solid colors and plain black, gray, or navy blue and I've went to 2 different stores. I have no idea where the hell to go for cute sun dresses in plus size because I'm not. Maybe I'll just send the strawberries instead.
Elle:)
05-07-2019, 08:54 PM
Both my dogs seem to hate running with me.
yaya_cash
05-07-2019, 10:22 PM
I don't have the best relationship with my mom but I still plan on sending her a gift. I'm debating on whether I should send the chocolate covered strawberries from Edible Arrangements or a sun dress. She always liked those long sun dresses with loud, crazy prints on them. The only problem with that is that she's plus size and all of the sun dresses I've seen for plus size women are all in solid colors and plain black, gray, or navy blue and I've went to 2 different stores. I have no idea where the hell to go for cute sun dresses in plus size because I'm not. Maybe I'll just send the strawberries instead.
Gift card to somewhere she may shop at
JGB2009
05-08-2019, 03:49 AM
I think we are very opposite from each other to live under one roof.
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-08-2019, 05:33 AM
Hubby wants to get me a puppy or a kitten for our anniversary! Not sure which one to get. We have kids and 2 cats. Can't decide if we should get a kitten, since they're easy to take care of. Or if we are ready for the challenge of adopting a puppy, which is basically like having a toddler.
Either way, yay! New fur baby!
I vote cat or very small dog. Larger dogs have so many more needs (more fitness, more grooming, eating more food, being destructive if bored....etc..)
Random thought- too much to do today, aiiiyyyy.
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-08-2019, 05:36 AM
Cars without tinted windows look so awkward.
Important to note- in some states in the US tint is very illegal.
Random thought- it's cold, blergh
Elektra Luxx
05-08-2019, 12:13 PM
Random thought- it's cold, blergh
You're funny! The randomness of this made me laugh.
JGB2009
05-08-2019, 03:30 PM
I love how the afternoon sun shines in my cam room.
SimoneGray
05-08-2019, 03:40 PM
So I really want my next set of acrylics to be long and I have an appointment in 5 days. I'm currently rolling with short ones, and its nice for typing, editing etc, but I also really miss having that bad bitch aesthetic and having length to do cool art designs on. I know if I switch I only have to live with them for like a month, and if I'm uncomfortable, I can switch back, but the thought of having to get used to long nails again is giving me a headache.
I love that this is like the current problem in my life, its really nice when nothing else is going wrong and I can take a break from the real shit, to just worry about the otherwise inane, petty day to day stuff, like this.
xStacey
05-08-2019, 03:44 PM
What were they saying about the clubs?
Oh they were bragging about the number of clubs they know and visited lol
JGB2009
05-08-2019, 04:03 PM
So I really want my next set of acrylics to be long and I have an appointment in 5 days. I'm currently rolling with short ones, and its nice for typing, editing etc, but I also really miss having that bad bitch aesthetic and having length to do cool art designs on. I know if I switch I only have to live with them for like a month, and if I'm uncomfortable, I can switch back, but the thought of having to get used to long nails again is giving me a headache.
I love that this is like the current problem in my life, its really nice when nothing else is going wrong and I can take a break from the real shit, to just worry about the otherwise inane, petty day to day stuff, like this.
I have short ones that are kind of long. I don't have really long ones cause I cant use my phone etc. Like its such a struggle. I admire people who can do everything with really long nails.
queenelayliah
05-08-2019, 11:26 PM
So i just heard the UK banned internet porn.
What is my uk ladies going to do? Even if thye do pso or camming search engine label it as porn.
^ correction i read an article and seems they’re trying to ban certain types of porn and really trying to make sure those under 18 dont access the site.
WendiStarr
05-09-2019, 03:31 AM
I was hoping to feel better today. My body feels like it was run over by a huge monster truck or something. A hot tub sounds really good right now.
yaya_cash
05-09-2019, 12:45 PM
Oh they were bragging about the number of clubs they know and visited lol
Did they brag about how .much they spent too? And how much? I would've asked to see what they're spending habits are, like.
JGB2009
05-09-2019, 01:02 PM
Need to think happy thoughts!!!
Elektra Luxx
05-09-2019, 04:18 PM
I just had a Mike's Hard Lemonade and I'm tipsy. I'm such a lightweight drinker.
Elektra Luxx
05-09-2019, 04:59 PM
I had a couple more Mike's Hard Lemonades, but I forgot I was going running at the park with my cousin and now I have to drive to the park. Bf and his cousin went to workout so I can't ask him for a ride and I'm really tipsy.
AChildOfBoredom
05-09-2019, 05:13 PM
I just had a Mike's Hard Lemonade and I'm tipsy. I'm such a lightweight drinker.
That makes two of us. I cannot handle alcohol, whatsoever.
There are two new hires working in the shop now. One is a woman, which is a bit of a relief, because I can deal with the guys here, but it kinda feels like I'm adrift in the middle of the ocean sometimes. I'm much more 'girly' than she is, and we don't seem to have much in common, but she's friendly.
JGB2009
05-10-2019, 03:59 AM
When I sit on the bed telling my cat my problems.....the life of my cat
Elle:)
05-10-2019, 12:02 PM
^Lucky you! Mine refuses to listen and walks away.
I just need a little bit of luck for once.
JGB2009
05-11-2019, 12:55 AM
The maintenance for me is all the time....not just when you feel like it.
AChildOfBoredom
05-11-2019, 04:19 AM
The amorous equestrian asked me out. Being suave as I am, I just looked at him kinda bewildered and said to him, “You just HAD to pick the worst possible fucking time while I’m stressing the fuck out over all the shit that’s piling on me, didn’t you?”.
I might’ve been a little too harsh. But if I apologize, he might think I’m interested. Which would be fine and dandy, if it weren’t for the fact that I’m not. Even if I was, his timing was absolutely fucked.
On a side note, it’s sort of a shame I’m not on Tinder anymore. I received a photo today that would’ve really been icing on the cake, taken the day we had to remove the decedent horse from his stable. Don’t think they’ll be using that one for PR.
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-11-2019, 06:39 AM
The amorous equestrian asked me out. Being suave as I am, I just looked at him kinda bewildered and said to him, “You just HAD to pick the worst possible fucking time while I’m stressing the fuck out over all the shit that’s piling on me, didn’t you?”.
I might’ve been a little too harsh. But if I apologize, he might think I’m interested. Which would be fine and dandy, if it weren’t for the fact that I’m not. Even if I was, his timing was absolutely fucked.
On a side note, it’s sort of a shame I’m not on Tinder anymore. I received a photo today that would’ve really been icing on the cake, taken the day we had to remove the decedent horse from his stable. Don’t think they’ll be using that one for PR.
Hey honesty is the best policy. I'm sure he'll try again.
& I'm more bewildered someone actually took a picture of all of you after you had to hack up a dead horse. wtf?
JGB2009
05-11-2019, 09:50 AM
Yup trying to control my temper...…...I am trying so I deleted my FB messenger. I have no idea why people try to push my buttons. Lets see how I can make the rest of my day more positive.
Elektra Luxx
05-11-2019, 11:25 AM
*Deep Sigh* Let me just say...I love my mom, but finding a Mother's Day gift for her is extremely difficult because she doesn't like anything I get her. So I'm not getting her a gift, I'm just going to take out to brunch or dinner.
AChildOfBoredom
05-11-2019, 05:52 PM
*Deep Sigh* Let me just say...I love my mom, but finding a Mother's Day gift for her is extremely difficult because she doesn't like anything I get her. So I'm not getting her a gift, I'm just going to take out to brunch or dinner.
Mine was a bit weirded out when I first sent her one. Translated to English, it kinda went like...
Her: "What is this?"
Me: "Surely you recognize it"
Her: "I do, but I don't understand why"
Me: "It's a gift"
Her: "Is there some special occasion?"
Me: "It's Mother's Day, it's a thing the 'English' do..."
Her: "I know what it is, but I didn't know gifts were part of it"
Me: "It's quite commercialized, but it seemed like a good idea"
Her: "It is quite nice. Perhaps that's not such a bad 'English' tradition to partake in"
Fun times. My father was more giddy when he received his gift for Father's Day... it being an 'English' thing didn't bother him at all.
And my sister knows I strip now. She knew it for some time.... when the one dancer stayed with us during the gap between moving out of her old apartment and into her new one, her and my youngest 'refugee' saw inside her bag when it was open, and saw heels and costumes.
Hey honesty is the best policy. I'm sure he'll try again.
I'd rather he didn't. I literally have zero interest in him.
& I'm more bewildered someone actually took a picture of all of you after you had to hack up a dead horse. wtf?
They didn't actually know what was going on. It's not really something they want to announce to everyone that works there. So when she saw us, she thought we were dressed up for.... something. We were taking a break, we were all blood soaked, and I was looking intently at the chainsaw bar... the photos makes me look fascinated, but in reality, I was just checking to see if the chain needed any adjustment at all. She was a bit horrified when she found out that no, it was all quite real.
WendiStarr
05-11-2019, 06:20 PM
The same guy from yesterday texted me again, asking if he can see me again next week. I find it amusing that he probably thinks that doing stuff for me is going to get himself in my panties. I don't feel like doing my laundry. I'll have him do it. My ultimate goal is to get him to help me get a nice condo or rental house.
JGB2009
05-12-2019, 06:04 AM
Why do dating sites have all ugly ass men!!!!! I wonder who thinks they are actually cute? I know I am in such a mood!!!
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-12-2019, 06:54 AM
My funny/surreal Mother's Day story this year-
I mailed a gold medallion (with a chain) to a relative of mine recently. (It used to belong to my birth mother but she's sick with dementia so now something like that has no meaning to her.)
I didn't include a note- meant to explain the history behind the item later.
My relative let me know the item got to her safe and she assumed it was a Mother's Day gift. Ooops. I agonized for a minute & decided to just let her think that. The item is safer with her, she will appreciate it more, and she loves bling. Everyone's happier with this version of events versus the truth (I feel icky having it, never gonna wear it and my mom's house is in a crappy neighborhood- you can't leave nice things laying around in her house.)
carmen_b
05-12-2019, 08:57 AM
^ Nice that someone will enjoy it.
carmen_b
05-12-2019, 08:59 AM
I really need a domestic slave. That show in another thread ( bonding ) and Wendi's post a few up makes me think it is possible haha.
I really do need one. I travel for work SO much. The car needs to be unloaded.
I just took essentials out and went to shower / bed. I need COFFEE made for me and brought to me. I really need to get on this .
I am such a domestic failure but I'm a natural Alpha and I think it would be a win-win. Ha.
charlie61
05-12-2019, 02:00 PM
Why do dating sites have all ugly ass men!!!!! I wonder who thinks they are actually cute? I know I am in such a mood!!!
I know what you mean. Seeing them en masse online is overwhelming and depressing. Like, most average-looking people are kind of cute when you see them on their own, reading a book in a coffee shop or something. But seeing page after page of bad photos of regular dudes is...too much.
Elle:)
05-13-2019, 11:01 PM
I am so sick of my arrogant white trash family.
miss.a.p1600
05-13-2019, 11:03 PM
Small dick Psychopath troll rears his ugly head. Why can’t stripper webs have a better blocking feature!
carmen_b
05-13-2019, 11:19 PM
I found this awesome way for B to get back to me ( a two day stop in Hawaii was cheaper than Melbourne to Vegas on a straight flight ).
I can only be loyal for so long without a plan.
If he gets the cut I’ll tell him my plan ( to not date for a week and then start reaching out to others ).
carmen_b
05-13-2019, 11:33 PM
I am traveling to four places in the next two weeks ( by car ) and he is obviously invited.
This location up next is EPIC ...... housing is booked and it's a remote wilderness location that a lot people don't get to see .
He has said to me " I'm coming back to you babe ".
I got impatient and offered to pay for half his ticket to get him here FAST .
He was cute and said " you are not paying for anything and it's only $600 ."
WendiStarr
05-14-2019, 07:17 AM
An IT recruiter contacted me through Linkedin. I have my fingers crossed that he can help me find something and on day shift because I have too much time on my hands now and that's concerning in my current state of mind.
carmen_b
05-14-2019, 12:19 PM
Well I'm off on the epic adventure now. I'll be hiking into a red rock wilderness area that is almost impossible to get a permit for .
I've got a group with me for safety but AM SOLO romantically ( barf ) this week because B couldn't get his shit together !!
Aurora_Sunset
05-14-2019, 03:13 PM
I'm really curious if one of my good friends went through with his courthouse marriage today. They're such private people and weren't going to make a big deal out of it at all, so there's nothing on Facebook, but I don't know if that's because they didn't do it or because they're just not gonna announce it publicly.
They were originally going to do it Saturday morning, but he texted me a lot Friday night expressing some serious frustrations with the relationship and saying he had convinced her to put it off until Tuesday morning because he doesn't want to just end up in a second marriage that's exactly like his first. They've been together for several years, and I like his girlfriend as a person, but I finally said that night what's been on my mind for awhile now, which that she is not a good girlfriend. She's selfish and childish, and he gives so much to the relationship to never receive any sort of effort from her in return. She doesn't even take care of herself, let alone put anything into trying to take care of him and anything he wants or needs. She's not a terrible person, but she needs to get her shit together, and she never does. Her terrible choices, leading to high levels of anxiety and not being able to handle herself, has literally put him in the hospital, because he stresses out so much about her stress that he'll suddenly burst an ulcer and start bleeding internally.
I told him over and over that I do like her, but I have do not like how she acts in that relationship and he deserves better. He agreed with me, but then did what he always does when he complains - he complains about his situation (no matter what it is), I tell him to do something about it (more or less), he initially agrees with me, and then suddenly does a 180 and starts talking down about himself and explaining all the reasons that he's not good enough to get what he really wants or improve his life in anyway, and that he just needs to be grateful for what he has, and then he settles back into the same pattern, only to come back bitching about the same thing 2 months later.... repeat cycle ad naseum for months or years...
The last thing I said to him was to not just settle for being in an unhappy relationship where he isn't getting any of his needs met just because he thinks he's too old or unattractive to get anything else... But he basically blew me off, and that's where we ended the conversation.
I think it's funny that the last time he ended the horrible relationship he was in before this one, we had a talk where I told him I always hated her and wanted him to go through with one of his many threats to break up with her, and he adamantly told me that the next time I had doubts about the person he was dating, to tell him and he would TOTALLY listen to me. I laughed and said "No you won't." He insisted he would. Funnily enough, I told him my doubts about this exact girl a few weeks into them trying to date because she was already drama and childishness from the get-go. He told me he would end things one night, and then the very next day, excitedly informed me that she was moving in as though the previous conversation had NEVER happened. Now, 5 years later, I try to be honest again, and again, I'm ignored.
Hmmm
Anyway, that was very random. Just on my mind lol
JGB2009
05-14-2019, 04:05 PM
I'm really curious if one of my good friends went through with his courthouse marriage today. They're such private people and weren't going to make a big deal out of it at all, so there's nothing on Facebook, but I don't know if that's because they didn't do it or because they're just not gonna announce it publicly.
They were originally going to do it Saturday morning, but he texted me a lot Friday night expressing some serious frustrations with the relationship and saying he had convinced her to put it off until Tuesday morning because he doesn't want to just end up in a second marriage that's exactly like his first. They've been together for several years, and I like his girlfriend as a person, but I finally said that night what's been on my mind for awhile now, which that she is not a good girlfriend. She's selfish and childish, and he gives so much to the relationship to never receive any sort of effort from her in return. She doesn't even take care of herself, let alone put anything into trying to take care of him and anything he wants or needs. She's not a terrible person, but she needs to get her shit together, and she never does. Her terrible choices, leading to high levels of anxiety and not being able to handle herself, has literally put him in the hospital, because he stresses out so much about her stress that he'll suddenly burst an ulcer and start bleeding internally.
I told him over and over that I do like her, but I have do not like how she acts in that relationship and he deserves better. He agreed with me, but then did what he always does when he complains - he complains about his situation (no matter what it is), I tell him to do something about it (more or less), he initially agrees with me, and then suddenly does a 180 and starts talking down about himself and explaining all the reasons that he's not good enough to get what he really wants or improve his life in anyway, and that he just needs to be grateful for what he has, and then he settles back into the same pattern, only to come back bitching about the same thing 2 months later.... repeat cycle ad naseum for months or years...
The last thing I said to him was to not just settle for being in an unhappy relationship where he isn't getting any of his needs met just because he thinks he's too old or unattractive to get anything else... But he basically blew me off, and that's where we ended the conversation.
I think it's funny that the last time he ended the horrible relationship he was in before this one, we had a talk where I told him I always hated her and wanted him to go through with one of his many threats to break up with her, and he adamantly told me that the next time I had doubts about the person he was dating, to tell him and he would TOTALLY listen to me. I laughed and said "No you won't." He insisted he would. Funnily enough, I told him my doubts about this exact girl a few weeks into them trying to date because she was already drama and childishness from the get-go. He told me he would end things one night, and then the very next day, excitedly informed me that she was moving in as though the previous conversation had NEVER happened. Now, 5 years later, I try to be honest again, and again, I'm ignored.
Hmmm
Anyway, that was very random. Just on my mind lol
People never seem to listen to advice. At least never with me. They always do the opposite of what you say smh.
carmen_b
05-14-2019, 04:26 PM
^ they should definitely do counseling.
She seems very high Maintence and on some level he digs it ( or he wouldn’t be there ).
He should start a life improvement plan with his own counselor too. How do you suggest it though?!?
chanzep
05-14-2019, 06:15 PM
Those people that are like I don't have time to sleep much I'm too busy!. I'm like the opposite.