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baer45
08-21-2019, 10:31 AM
I'm really interested in the details, but if you don't want to share that's okay too. :)
Just a girl who married an old friend of mine. I had that group of friends before. But since then a lot of things had changed. I rejected every invitation from any events of that group of friends. They are all good people. But I told them that I moved to a different city. :-\ I might have a lot of explaining to do, I hope she didn't recognize me... it's been 6 years now.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-21-2019, 10:42 AM
So... Mennonite life drama in 3, 2, 1....
My friend from the community who moved here after her husband died... they didn't want her leaving, or if she was going to, they wanted her to go back to her own community (the one we both came from), rather than the 'English' world. So, they began subtly threatening her with shunning, which is a favored tool of their to force compliance. Well, they pulled the trigger on that, so her late husband's community is shunning her. Which, when you look at her situation being that this was the only way she could provide for herself and her two children and neither community left with her with any choice other than "have faith", seems outright fucking ridiculous. And as if that weren't enough, her late husband's family is outright refusing to shun her, so they in turn have also been shunned by their community. And I guess it's causing a pissing match between her late husband's community and the one we came from, because their community wants ours to partake in the shunning, and, surprisingly, the elders of the community where we came from pretty much said, "you're not our community, you're not our Congress. We'll continue to encourage her return, but we're not shunning her".
Why would I ever leave that life behind?
Goodness.
A constructive suggestion to add to your friend's education of surviving the English world- community colleges often have cheap or free course work (sometimes online) for learning how to budget, minor woodworking, intro to computer programming, etc. Definitely get her into that.
Also if she picks up housecleaning on the side she can get acquainted with learning about modern life by just seeing other people's households.
WendiStarr
08-21-2019, 11:12 AM
My nipples are so itchy! I don't think I want nipples anymore.
WendiStarr
08-22-2019, 07:17 AM
I have my ultrasound appointment in another hour and I hope baby cooperates and shows his or her bits so that I can finally start clothes shopping. I don't want to buy all white or yellow crap. I told him or her that he or she better cooperate and I will reward him or her with a cheeseburger, no pickles just like he or she likes.
carmen_b
08-22-2019, 07:19 AM
Damn, I am so out of money. Off to go live at the club .
Just checked in the hotel. Nap and get ready soon.
Get ready dudes . $$$$$$$$$$$$
Ok .... I'm putting my intention out there. $$$$$$$
NitaBaby
08-22-2019, 08:00 AM
Woke up with Doja's "Juicy" song stuck in my head. I hate how my brain holds onto stuff until i pry it away with something else to overthink about.
WendiStarr
08-22-2019, 09:50 AM
The baby is a stinker. He or she kept their legs closed so no lady or boy parts could be seen. -_-
NitaBaby
08-22-2019, 09:55 AM
The baby is a stinker. He or she kept their legs closed so no lady or boy parts could be seen. -_-
Eat some chocolate before you try next time. They always get to moving and readjusting themselves with a Snickers.
ravenskyy
08-22-2019, 09:55 AM
The baby is a stinker. He or she kept their legs closed so no lady or boy parts could be seen. -_-
Nooooo! I was hoping you'd come back on here with the gender reveal lol It's probably a girl. Boys usually can't hide it very well lmao
JessaJade
08-22-2019, 10:28 AM
I'm about to have Thai food for the 5th time this week. I'm addicted!
Elektra Luxx
08-22-2019, 08:36 PM
I refer to myself as Latina. Although I'm not completely Mexican decent, (I'm Mexican, Spanish and Welsh) I sometimes refer to myself as Mexican American. If I was a citizen of England would I be called Mexican English or Mexican British?
NitaBaby
08-23-2019, 03:26 AM
Anyway I'm tired of being afraid of wasps.
carmen_b
08-23-2019, 11:27 AM
A few days ago I implemented a trial of my new no dudes plan. I want to reclaim my time ( not let any get taken by app use, chit chat , first dates ect ). I feel ok about the celibacy this will bring. I want my time back. All of it. I look at it as a temporary solution to have MORE time.
I feel like this also could be a chance to see if I am really ready to do some of the international trips I've wanted ( 1-2 months ). I haven't been out of the USA in over two years. I'm always sticking around for some dude because it seems unfair to take off ( my long term parter first half of 2018 and then the men I was trying to develop something with in 2019 ).
At first I was thinking " I can't do it .... I can't just flake on Aviation B ( my new interest ) " but he has never even suggested an evening date . He is as much to blame for the romantic stall as me. It's been nice to do ZERO chit chat the last few days.
WendiStarr
08-23-2019, 03:06 PM
After today's stressful bs I'm looking forward to going to the zoo tomorrow morning.
AChildOfBoredom
08-23-2019, 05:46 PM
Goodness.
A constructive suggestion to add to your friend's education of surviving the English world- community colleges often have cheap or free course work (sometimes online) for learning how to budget, minor woodworking, intro to computer programming, etc. Definitely get her into that.
Also if she picks up housecleaning on the side she can get acquainted with learning about modern life by just seeing other people's households.
Rest assured, she’s doing her due diligence. She was the one we all figured would never really grow up
and be able to properly adult when we were younger, but it seems we were a bit quick to dismiss.
whirlerz
08-23-2019, 05:58 PM
I'm looking up Psychopath stuff on you tube, getting ready for the new roommate.
I ordered a Narcissist book, since I'm healing from narcissist abuse.
Time to apply for a weapon too
lynn2009
08-23-2019, 07:04 PM
I have suspected this, but yesterday confirmed it. The reason my boss overloads me so much compared to my coworker who was promoted at the same time is because that woman cannot handle stress. Yesterday in a meeting she went on for twenty minutes about her contract and this issue that while kind of substantial is not the end of the world, and it's out of her control anyway, so I don't know why she cares. I mean she sounded near tears. I really wanted to tell her to group up. She only works on this one main contracts and a much smaller, very low maintenance one. I mean, I work on 7 contracts on a daily/weekly basis and over 10 in some capacity. Having only ONE problem to deal with sounds like a dream.
NitaBaby
08-23-2019, 07:15 PM
and that is why i keep any and all usernames, social media handles, etc. completely different from my cam hoe name.
lynn2009
08-23-2019, 07:46 PM
Derek's SIL is pregnant. What is a good baby shower present for rich people?
Glamourmilf
08-24-2019, 07:43 AM
Derek's SIL is pregnant. What is a good baby shower present for rich people?
Hmm.:thinking::thinking: Let me think.
Neon colored condoms, with a note that says, " Better luck next time?"
No. That's just my offbeat sense of humor.
All of my friends are wealthy, but none have kids.
I would probably give something unique.
Like a photo collage , and if you can get your hands on it, the sonogram.
NitaBaby
08-24-2019, 07:59 AM
I wish i made more this week. A day out with my girls would've been clutch.
WendiStarr
08-24-2019, 03:07 PM
Derek's SIL is pregnant. What is a good baby shower present for rich people?
If you know what they plan on naming the baby, you can get a baby blanket with the future baby's name monogrammed on it. If all else fails, diapers are always good because babies are like cute little poop and pee machines and seem to go through diapers fast or a gift card.
JGB2009
08-24-2019, 06:18 PM
I hardly ever see I guy that I find attractive but the guy working at the bank yesterday was really cute. He reminded me of someone who used to like me.
carmen_b
08-25-2019, 10:40 AM
OMG .... dancer brain.
I scheduled a day job task ( when distracted by this dancer trip ) an hour East of me. Then a family dinner two hours WEST from that.
Yup .......... that's 4 hours today I'll get to drive ( better option than flaking on either commitment ) . I'm trying to have coffee and just remind myself to take it an hour at a time and breathe.
I was trapped in the damn car three hours yesterday coming back from my club location. ;/
carmen_b
08-25-2019, 10:45 AM
Thought #2 ..... I remember rejecting kinster J's idea to see each other once a week ( he wasn't offering a relationship ) last Feb. and now I sometimes wonder what I was thinking.
We only saw each other a few times ( maybe 3-4 ) but EVERY time he brought his " A " game ......... we are talking about 5-6 hour super sensual / sexual experiences ( we chose to not have sex but do " everything but " in order to make sure I didn't get too attached) . I pushed him away feeling totally sure I would have a boyfriend by now ( with the label of bf / gf and also seeing each other 2-3 times a week ).
He thought this stuff out.
Anyway .... the man diet ( no dating ) is coming up to 6-7 days now and I'm still committed to it but I do find myself thinking about lovers.
baer45
08-25-2019, 12:20 PM
I watched the new Aladdin movie. Don’t know why some dislike it, I love it. Gotta bring my niece to see it again.
WendiStarr
08-25-2019, 02:57 PM
I'm sexually frustrated lately, but I'm super paranoid of std's, even more so now. There's just too much nastiness out there these days and some std's/sti's that have become antibiotic-resistant. Where the hell do people even buy dental dams in person and does it still feel good when a person is going down on you using one? I think mama needs to take a trip to the adult toy store because I killed all my battery operated boyfriends and I'm tired of using my fingers.
Elektra Luxx
08-25-2019, 03:29 PM
Derek's SIL is pregnant. What is a good baby shower present for rich people?
Hmm.:thinking::thinking: Let me think.
Neon colored condoms, with a note that says, " Better luck next time?"
Glam, that had me laughing out loud!
Elektra Luxx
08-25-2019, 05:43 PM
I was outside looking for something in our storage closet and wasn't paying attention and disturbed a nest of yellow-jackets and one got me on my neck. I screamed loud in pain and bf flew out of apartment yelling "what happened, what happened?!!" I scared him good apparently. He gets angry when he gets scared or I'm hurt. So he got a double whammy and he gets double angry with me. I stand there while he reads me the riot act, me making trumpet lips but afterwards he puts ice on the sting. *sigh* Not how I wanted today to go.
queenelayliah
08-26-2019, 02:49 AM
and that is why i keep any and all usernames, social media handles, etc. completely different from my cam hoe name.
Thank you for posting this. I realized my stupid self mix names.
* does anyone know how to change our stripper web names? I checked settings and etc but i dont see anything.
lynn2009
08-26-2019, 04:51 AM
Thank you for posting this. I realized my stupid self mix names.
* does anyone know how to change our stripper web names? I checked settings and etc but i dont see anything.
You can't. You'd need to make a new account.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-26-2019, 07:31 AM
Derek's SIL is pregnant. What is a good baby shower present for rich people?
My suggestion is something symbolic, like a fancy photo frame or something engraved. Coupled with a nice card, it's a way to show thoughtfulness without bringing the issue of cost of gift into the equation.
NitaBaby
08-26-2019, 07:42 AM
I went through the "camming sucks" thread just to see what type of bullshit I was saying around this time last year. Surprised that I didn't complain as much as I thought I did. I'm going to see what my highlights were in the "camming rocks" thread. Should make for a good chuckle.
WendiStarr
08-26-2019, 09:48 AM
I just got my baby gender blood test results back: it's a girl! Now I can finally go baby clothes shopping!
JGB2009
08-26-2019, 10:21 AM
Not easy walking alone, and I have no idea what I am doing, but I am doing it.
NitaBaby
08-26-2019, 12:05 PM
bf will be proud of me. I actually logged on and "rob[bed] them", as he puts it. Traffic has slowed to a crawl so it's quitting time until I get on for my night shift.
lynn2009
08-26-2019, 01:42 PM
Nobody listens to me at work, but I also get paid whether they do or don't, so I am going to stop caring.
WendiStarr
08-27-2019, 03:01 AM
Belly woke me up. I want pepper steak but it's 6am and I dont have it in my fridge, nor do I know any restaurant who sells pepper steak at this hour.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-28-2019, 07:06 AM
Memoirs of a Geisha always tugs really hard at my heartstrings. It's such a story of people's lives being dictated by circumstance. I've watched it multiple times, and I think it hit me hardest on this go-round because I realized the ending really isn't all that happy. The main character gets what she always wanted, but no one else does. Multiple people's dreams and lives torn away from them. The man who was in love with her having his heart crushed after all the years that she played in to seducing him. I even feel bad for Hatsumomo, despite her bitchiness, because the only reason she was so angry was because she couldn't live her life the way she wanted. Beautifully told story, but so sad.
I respectfully disagree....Hatsumomo was a hateful person. (I have a personal pet peeve about giving women the "p*ssy pass" for being abusive or evil.) Some people aren't really capable of what the rest of us recognize as "happiness". IMO I viewed the novel as using the traditional Buddhist philosophies of being happy with what you have and making the most of the Life you are given.
carmen_b
08-28-2019, 10:26 AM
Where should I take myself to eat today?
The dating pause has my schedule open. More work focus has me flush.
I’ll spend some of it supporting the chefs in my city. :)
Elektra Luxx
08-28-2019, 01:10 PM
Where should I take myself to eat today?
The dating pause has my schedule open. More work focus has me flush.
I’ll spend some of it supporting the chefs in my city. :)
Chinese food...guy hung lo is always a favorite of mine.
JGB2009
08-28-2019, 01:32 PM
Your wishy washy ass probably isn't gonna go with me in October. I asked you just to see what you would say. I am thinking you are gonna flake out and not go or not have any money. I wouldn't have even asked but you expressed interest in going on a trip with me in a couple of weeks which of course would consist of you buying a plane ticket. We will see how serious you really are but in all honesty I don't really see you going with me. Oh well it will be your loss!!!!
carmen_b
08-28-2019, 02:02 PM
Hahaha !
Chinese food...guy hung lo is always a favorite of mine.
carmen_b
08-28-2019, 02:05 PM
Ok .... I think 30 days of celibacy will be enough ( I’m counting oral since tall butcher ate my pussy in early Aug). The man break gave me more time but ... I’m bored already.
:/
Broke my vibe too on my last trip. Off to the perv store .
Ugh. Who am I kidding, I want sex ! I will not go there yet ..........
JGB2009
08-28-2019, 05:50 PM
Whattttt you just called me..............pffffttttt that must of took a lot of strength. Ur unsociable ass!!!!
WendiStarr
08-28-2019, 06:11 PM
He told me that he wants to see me when he gets off of work tonight. He better plan on having his tongue between my legs for a while or else I'm going to sleep.
Glamourmilf
08-29-2019, 08:41 AM
Either I'm paranoid, or 2 girlfriends of mine ( who don't know each other) found out that I'm a cam girl.
One of them said something to me, ( a phrase that I only say, specifically in a certain role-play cam show.)
The other one called me BB in a text.
Ruh Roh .:ziplip:
51807
carmen_b
08-29-2019, 09:28 AM
^ I wouldn't count on it quite yet ............ the phrase BB is so frequently used .
How would they even find out ? Trolling cam pages ? Nah .... don't disclose until you are sure they know.
carmen_b
08-29-2019, 11:13 AM
Screw it ............
I am taking off to the forest with my dog to have an amazing day.
Tomorrow I'll regroup + pack for the dancer trip and get to these day job tasks before traveling ..............
WendiStarr
08-29-2019, 11:35 AM
His alleged soon-to-be-ex wife has been unusually silent for 6 days now. Because she has been silent, not sure if she's actually going to finally sign the divorce papers or if she's plotting. He did say that she had the password to his fb saved on the computer that he left there and that he noticed that she recently changed some things on his page. She changed her status from married to single on her own page and also, two credit cards were opened in his name for jewelry stores which he had to cancel. I'm pretty sure people can't just open a credit card in someone's name unless you know the person's social security #. It had to have been her, especially since it went to her address first, then was forwarded to his new address.