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trustfundkiller
09-05-2019, 07:18 PM
So they're potentially sleeping pills?
I've been using them that way, and so far so good!
JGB2009
09-05-2019, 08:50 PM
My mom gave me a jar of CBD gummies as a birthday present and OMG they are a game changer for me. I'll never take a Xanax again. It actually reminds me a lot of Xanax but without the "high" feeling. I'll take one before bed and within an hour I'm sleeping like a baby, and it's deep, high-quality sleep. One gummy puts me to sleep, so I'm going to experiment with microdosing and see if I can find a balance where I'm relaxed but not tired. It would be nice if I can use them to ease my anxiety before work.
If it helped with Anxiety that would be so awesome. Keep us updated.
JGB2009
09-05-2019, 08:56 PM
Usually you call me every year in October. I have no idea why you do that but last year you called me in August. LMAO this year you won't be calling me at all because you don't have my new number!!!!
NitaBaby
09-06-2019, 05:45 AM
Who honestly gives a fuck.
shit. this isn't the "petty annoyances" thread.
Glamourmilf
09-06-2019, 07:58 AM
Glam : She's possibly onto you for adult work ( or just doesn't like people working from home which does happen ). I hope things work out with that.
It's illegal for sure .
Can they really refuse to renew just for a small issue ?
The excuse doesn't even make sense. What if you had been traveling ? You also would not have been there.
It really just depends how comfy you are there / if you want to fight it to save the hassle of moving .
I immediately thought of that too. She made it a point to tell me that the new neighbors ( that I share common walls with, AND never leave), are retired secret service.
She made a comment, "Why don't you ever open your door? You're home most of the time."
How would she know that? She doesn't even live on the property! And she refuses to put up security cameras. Hmm.
I could write a Novel about unscrupulous landlords.
The previous one kicked out a 90 year old man, ( who was on month to month), when he bought the property, because his rent was too low.
The tenant had been living here for 20 years!
Luckily he had money. He moved across the street ( and is paying TWICE as much). Why didn't he just negotiate with my landlord? He said that he tried, but he just wanted him out( most like to get a higher deposit).
I called on a guest house in a different part of California. The landlord was a man, and sounded so nice.
The weather is much better there, so there's that.
chanzep
09-06-2019, 10:02 AM
Why landlord so in your business. Hopefully your next one will be normal. Why can't they just take their rent and stfu.
WendiStarr
09-06-2019, 12:15 PM
I like having my own washer and dryer but what's going to stop the neighbors from using it? There are 3 other families in my building. The thing I hate about these apartments are the shared basement. I noticed that only one other person has a washer and dryer(we have to buy and install our own here). I'd better not catch anyone using my washer and dryer unless they want to give me some cash for it.
lurkingtitties
09-06-2019, 02:50 PM
I'm contemplating going back to dancing for the next few months. I've been really reeeaaaallllllyyyyy enjoying being retired, but I'm also frustrated with the broke grad student life. Right now I have a part time caregiver-type job I'm burnt out on that pays $12/hr. I've applied for some service industry jobs in my town but haven't gotten any calls yet. There is a club down the street from my house. Cons: I'm pretty much completely over everything about dancing, and I know my joints will hate me if I go back. Pros: Easy money and flexibility. The flexibility esp is key while I finish up my last year of school.
carmen_b
09-06-2019, 03:23 PM
Joys of hustling on the road. Massage request turned into a panty sale request ( he asked a couple too many questions and I started ignoring ).
Then he said he was nearby so I thought hell why not.
Played it ultra safe - sold them to him but didn't let him get a view ( I was in a state of paranoia he was a cop due to the questions ).
His time was limited to visit. Mini massage seemed to work / hand him the undies and boom $100 for 25 minutes plus the little bit of time for communication. Not a bad start since it's only 4:15 p.m.
I hope the club is amazing tonight because last night would have been a disaster if I hadn't lured my own customers there .
carmen_b
09-06-2019, 03:34 PM
Is the option there of doing mini shifts like 4-5 hours which would allow a slight cut back from the care giving job hours ?
I'm contemplating going back to dancing for the next few months. I've been really reeeaaaallllllyyyyy enjoying being retired, but I'm also frustrated with the broke grad student life. Right now I have a part time caregiver-type job I'm burnt out on that pays $12/hr. I've applied for some service industry jobs in my town but haven't gotten any calls yet. There is a club down the street from my house. Cons: I'm pretty much completely over everything about dancing, and I know my joints will hate me if I go back. Pros: Easy money and flexibility. The flexibility esp is key while I finish up my last year of school.
carmen_b
09-06-2019, 03:38 PM
Now I'm nervous again. One of my massage guys who turned into a club guy last night since he wrote me after 8 p.m. now wants a massage ...... and it's hard to create a sexy experience where I am ( lower end but clean motel since I have my little dog .
I need an energy drink. ;/
carmen_b
09-06-2019, 08:41 PM
It’s HOT in the club. Not good. Chilly clubs sell the idea of dances so much better.
:/
Not happy.
Thanks for the sweat lodge experience and whole $110 profit you dicks . Lol .
( I was only there 8 - 11 p.m. )
Of course .... no break on the $40 I had to pay them to be there .
Thankfully I had massage customers in the day time hours or today would have been a disaster.
WendiStarr
09-07-2019, 06:54 AM
I want to make peanut butter cookies.
Glamourmilf
09-07-2019, 07:05 AM
Why landlord so in your business. Hopefully your next one will be normal. Why can't they just take their rent and stfu.
My thoughts exactly.
I've always wondered that too.
She's going from tenant to tenant to hassle us out.
My friend who lives here too had a leaky roof.
Landlady said it was caused by her cat, so she wasn't going to repair it.:O
My friend had to spend her OWN money, to hire someone to get up on the roof and take samples to the lab.
Naturally it wasn't cat pee. It was sap from a tree.
The landlady had no choice but to fix it.
Criminal, I tell ya.
chanzep
09-07-2019, 09:10 AM
She sounds awful. She can't keep treating people like that. It will come back to her. She should be happy to have tenants who pay.
carmen_b
09-07-2019, 09:34 AM
I can't figure out how to work this guy or if he is playing me. He responded to my ad . I think he owns horses that are in the race today ( he wasn't able to meet a couple weeks ago on a Sat . due to a race ).
I really tried to nab him yesterday .... offered massage times .... offered club time. At 10p.m. I told him how much it would be to just steal me from the club for an evening out . Meh. Maybe he " got me " lol. Lots of text message so far and no $ from him. He sent me a photo and said I could google him - self screened ...... but no $$. ;/
lynn2009
09-07-2019, 02:21 PM
I need to get laid so bad.
lilylilylily
09-07-2019, 06:02 PM
Omg same here!
Oh I hate phone calls, I have to call my grandmother and thank her for a gift, but her line is busy so I gotta keep trying. Wish she would answer so I can get it over with lol
lurkingtitties
09-08-2019, 06:24 AM
I got laid a few times this week. I'm 8 weeks out from a cone biopsy (gynecological surgery) and I've been going crazy with sexual frustration while I wait for things to heal down there! Wasn't quite as healed as I'd hoped though-I was super sore and crampy for a few days after, and have had light watery discharge like you would expect if you picked a scab off too soon. Haha I really got pounded so it's not too surprising.
Glamourmilf
09-08-2019, 07:26 AM
She sounds awful. She can't keep treating people like that. It will come back to her. She should be happy to have tenants who pay.
You want to hear the irony?
She's doing all of this from her deathbed.
She's 86 with 4th stage liver cancer( no surprise there). With dementia.
She's actually in hospice.
She was a high powered real estate attorney in LA. She's still on a power trip.
It will be a lovely legacy that she leaves.
Being the reason that a senior citizen, a woman, who's also handicapped gets thrown out onto the street, and becomes homeless.
Nice. Real nice.
Aurora_Sunset
09-08-2019, 07:55 AM
I feel like I'm paralyzed by anxiety this week. It's weird, cuz I've never really had anxiety problems, so I don't know how to deal with it. I feel like a few therapy sessions would be helpful, but trying to figure out how I would even begin to pay for therapy would just give me more anxiety.
Aurora_Sunset
09-08-2019, 07:57 AM
One of these days I really need to sit down and watch all the random crap I've put into my Youtube "Watch Later" list.
NitaBaby
09-08-2019, 08:50 AM
My car is finally clean :heartbeat:heartbeat:heartbeat:heartbeat:heartbeat :heartbeat:heartbeat
It took an entire container of lysol wipes and 30 minutes of vacuuming but now it smells like fabuloso and "i give a damn". I just want to drive somewhere now, for no reason.
JGB2009
09-08-2019, 09:05 AM
I feel like I'm paralyzed by anxiety this week. It's weird, cuz I've never really had anxiety problems, so I don't know how to deal with it. I feel like a few therapy sessions would be helpful, but trying to figure out how I would even begin to pay for therapy would just give me more anxiety.
Sounds like how I am......it aggravates me.
WendiStarr
09-08-2019, 10:11 AM
Sometimes I wish the blues could be banished elsewhere, especially the new ones who post here with stupid fetishes or questions, just to get their rocks off over the free attention they get.
AChildOfBoredom
09-08-2019, 02:14 PM
After last night, I wanna get into a band again. I’d forgotten how much fun it was, even in spite of all the not so fun things about it. Now I’m still all riled up. Spent most of today at the pole dance and yoga studios, but I’ve just got so much pent up energy right now.
JGB2009
09-08-2019, 06:06 PM
When u text me back not answering my question but reply back talking about something totally different. Like thanks...
baer45
09-08-2019, 07:35 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oaddLBnHJSA
Mood.......
chanzep
09-08-2019, 07:39 PM
You want to hear the irony?
She's doing all of this from her deathbed.
She's 86 with 4th stage liver cancer( no surprise there). With dementia.
She's actually in hospice.
She was a high powered real estate attorney in LA. She's still on a power trip.
It will be a lovely legacy that she leaves.
Being the reason that a senior citizen, a woman, who's also handicapped gets thrown out onto the street, and becomes homeless.
Nice. Real nice.
That is crazy, I wonder who is reporting goings on to her then. Does she have kids watching the place.
xxxGothBarbie
09-08-2019, 08:18 PM
Glam : She's possibly onto you for adult work ( or just doesn't like people working from home which does happen ). I hope things work out with that.
It's illegal for sure .
Can they really refuse to renew just for a small issue ?
The excuse doesn't even make sense. What if you had been traveling ? You also would not have been there.
It really just depends how comfy you are there / if you want to fight it to save the hassle of moving .
THIS ^ is exactly why I'm not searching to rent a room or have a lease anywhere anymore bc ppl seem to always disclose that they hate people working from home. Why the fuck it matters , I'll never know esp if you're paying rent on time.
I used to say it's California but I'm not so sure anymore. Just like with sleeping in late & not having a society schedule (8-6), they seem to hate both staying home constantly & workin from home. I see it as these greedlords want our money for nothing *eyeroll* they want money from a tenant to basically never be home. It's so fucked up these days. This is why I'm gonna live in airbnbs/cheap weekly motels from here on out.
Glamourmilf
09-09-2019, 10:15 AM
That is crazy, I wonder who is reporting goings on to her then. Does she have kids watching the place.
It's her son-in-law. He's a big pussy and snitch.
He comes around and reports back.
He is the one, with his wife, ( landlady's daughter) who she said she bought the property for when she dies.
When he alerted me that the power company needed access to my yard), I told him about my busted fence and what happened ( about the break in). I knew that if I didn't mention it, that he would pin it on me.
I begged him not to tell her, because I'm handling it.
Within minutes she called me.
That's when she said she thinks I'm too scared to live here, and wants me out.
I NEVER said that I was!!!!
He went into my neighbors apt. Saw door damage from her dog. Now, landlady wants her to give a $5000 deposit!
Greed is a terrible thing.
Glamourmilf
09-09-2019, 10:21 AM
THIS ^ is exactly why I'm not searching to rent a room or have a lease anywhere anymore bc ppl seem to always disclose that they hate people working from home. Why the fuck it matters , I'll never know esp if you're paying rent on time.
I used to say it's California but I'm not so sure anymore. Just like with sleeping in late & not having a society schedule (8-6), they seem to hate both staying home constantly & workin from home. I see it as these greedlords want our money for nothing *eyeroll* they want money from a tenant to basically never be home. It's so fucked up these days. This is why I'm gonna live in airbnbs/cheap weekly motels from here on out.
This!
I've rented 25 different apartments, and 2 rooms here in California, over the course of 35 years.
And have friends that have too.
So, I know from which I speak.
I agree with You about not renting from a landlord.
When I stayed at airbnbs, and hotels, it was glorious!
Absolutely glorious!
WendiStarr
09-09-2019, 11:08 AM
I was thinking about trying to get back into camming again, but dang..I just do not have the patience for some of these application processes anymore. They want a picture of my id, front and back, a picture of me holding my id next to my face, a full body picture, a picture of me holding a piece of paper with the current date written on it. I feel ugly as hell since becoming pregnant and I don't feel like putting in the effort of putting on makeup, doing my hair, etc. right now Maybe after a nap.
chanzep
09-09-2019, 12:34 PM
It's her son-in-law. He's a big pussy and snitch.
He comes around and reports back.
He is the one, with his wife, ( landlady's daughter) who she said she bought the property for when she dies.
When he alerted me that the power company needed access to my yard), I told him about my busted fence and what happened ( about the break in). I knew that if I didn't mention it, that he would pin it on me.
I begged him not to tell her, because I'm handling it.
Within minutes she called me.
That's when she said she thinks I'm too scared to live here, and wants me out.
I NEVER said that I was!!!!
He went into my neighbors apt. Saw door damage from her dog. Now, landlady wants her to give a $5000 deposit!
Greed is a terrible thing.
Jesus!.
Sounds like you will be better off somewhere else. Sounds like he would annoy you once she dies too. I feel for you having to move.
carmen_b
09-09-2019, 03:23 PM
Glam : It sounds like they want everyone out to sell to me.
xxxGothBarbie
09-09-2019, 03:27 PM
This!
I've rented 25 different apartments, and 2 rooms here in California, over the course of 35 years.
And have friends that have too.
So, I know from which I speak.
I agree with You about not renting from a landlord.
When I stayed at airbnbs, and hotels, it was glorious!
Absolutely glorious!
I hear that! In any case, I hope you find a nice spot that is drama free with lots of privacy soon. There's no reason we as human beings should have to worry about a roof over our heads for pete's sake :(
NitaBaby
09-09-2019, 03:46 PM
"It" was so all over the place that I kept sighing and re-adjusting myself every 10 minutes. Literally made no sense for 2 hours straight. There were so many laughably absurd moments. But nobody said it would be Movie of The Year or anything so, for what we paid, it was fine. If you watch it just prepare yourself for a lot of internal "??????" lol. Jesus Christ.
AChildOfBoredom
09-09-2019, 05:52 PM
My dog is having a leg humping phase. And I think my friend’s youngest is traumatized now because of it.
Most of us were in the kitchen, and we suddenly hear him screaming in the living room, so we run out there to find out what’s going on, and he just keeps saying, “the dog did it”, and only three of us can understand him because he doesn’t speak English, so he gets flustered, latches around the Irish woman’s leg and says, “the dog did this” and starts jumping up and down to simulate the dog jumping his leg, and she’s just standing there bewildered because she has no idea what the hell is going on. So she’s getting pissed off because we’re laughing hysterically and he’s getting pissed off because he thinks we’re laughing at what happened to him. So she ended up explaining to him, “dogs are strange animals and you can’t do that to people” while I explained to the Irish woman what was going on. It was hilarious and incredibly awkward at the same time.
xxxGothBarbie
09-09-2019, 06:35 PM
"It" was so all over the place that I kept sighing and re-adjusting myself every 10 minutes. Literally made no sense for 2 hours straight. There were so many laughably absurd moments. But nobody said it would be Movie of The Year or anything so, for what we paid, it was fine. If you watch it just prepare yourself for a lot of internal "??????" lol. Jesus Christ.
OMG!!! I was just saying this to my bf when we watched it last night LOL
That dam thing literally drug on & on
Luckily, it was a free movie coz that shit sucked :(
I miss the 70s , 80's & early 90s era of movies.
carmen_b
09-09-2019, 10:03 PM
Welcome M ( new dude ) to dating a dancer !
Receives:
No sexy Photos of me at work
Various updates of how far I am from my goal to leave town
Complaints about legs / back being sore
Hahaha. Delicious isn't it ? Is it everything you thought it would be ? Lol
( in truth he's been awesome about the whole thing .... no stupid questions .... no photo requests .... no guilting )
Glamourmilf
09-10-2019, 07:33 AM
I hear that! In any case, I hope you find a nice spot that is drama free with lots of privacy soon. There's no reason we as human beings should have to worry about a roof over our heads for pete's sake :(
Thanks ladies.
Sadly, this is the end of the line for me.
I thought I could live here, until my eviction falls off of my record. I'm on low income housing lists, but they won't rent to me with an eviction.
My lease is up in December.
Nobody will rent to me. Even if they did, I don't have enough money to move. Or to pay the going rent, which is double what I pay now.
That's why I put up the massage ad.
I thought I would get enough customers to at least have hotel money for a few months.
But, no such luck with that.
Point is. I JUST moved in here 3 years ago!
I'm tired. Oh, soooo tired.
Not again.
They can use my deposit to remove my dead body.
I'm done.
carmen_b
09-10-2019, 08:46 AM
^ You'll find somewhere ! Maybe you can ( temporarily ) rent a room in a home just to get situated Jan. - Mar or so.
I just feel for you. Living space stress is hard.
carmen_b
09-10-2019, 08:48 AM
I'm off to a special property / place in the forest to me and I invited M .
Maybe I'm just having a bad attitude in the morning but I am feel blah about going.
I don't think I would be if he had invited me somewhere and planned something v.s. me extending this invite ( which I see now I shouldn't have ).
Oh nevermind .... it will be fun if we go but the rain is crazy now.
I imagine we will shift this adventure to a non - rainy day.
Glamourmilf
09-10-2019, 09:47 AM
^ You'll find somewhere ! Maybe you can ( temporarily ) rent a room in a home just to get situated Jan. - Mar or so.
I just feel for you. Living space stress is hard.
I've rented rooms before. That's worse than having a bad landlord, actually.
I'm good with whatever happens.
I've made my peace with everyone. I'm good.
Elektra Luxx
09-10-2019, 01:52 PM
I'm ready for this hot weather to be over. Don't get me wrong, I'm all about summertime, but it's ridiculous hot lately.
WendiStarr
09-10-2019, 03:49 PM
I want sushi so bad! It's on the list of forbidden foods though. :(
chanzep
09-10-2019, 04:01 PM
I'm ready for this hot weather to be over. Don't get me wrong, I'm all about summertime, but it's ridiculous hot lately.
It is ridiculous, I would not moan if it was like 85 instead of 100 ugh. I really want fall weather though which will come late October.
chanzep
09-11-2019, 08:17 AM
I went to see IT. Was so long and weird. The theatre was cold too.
Elektra Luxx
09-11-2019, 01:32 PM
People I love make me angry sometimes and they don't even know it.
NitaBaby
09-11-2019, 01:53 PM
I'm sleepy.
a nap = no more money though.