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carmen_b
02-14-2020, 09:00 AM
^ Same.
carmen_b
02-14-2020, 12:23 PM
I want to be a red head today and not a blonde. Haha.
My salon doesn't have an openings. ;(
I might just go over there in 30 min. to " see if " there are any spots haha.
AChildOfBoredom
02-14-2020, 02:44 PM
I remember what was odd about Trader Joe’s was that in Colorado - the Satan’s spinach state - TJ’s employees came across as much less stoned than the ones here in North Carolina do.
If I have a gripe with TJ’s, it’s their “Reduced Guilt” naming of their products. With my tone and as much time and work as I’ve put in to get there, you’re out of your fucking mind if you think I’ll feel in any way guilty about my dietary choices.
lurkingtitties
02-14-2020, 03:34 PM
I remember what was odd about Trader Joe’s was that in Colorado - the Satan’s spinach state - TJ’s employees came across as much less stoned than the ones here in North Carolina do.
I’m visiting Denver right now and it’s weird! 420 stuff is like kinda taboo here...also it’s a very Big Brother-y place. Cameras that take a picture of your car if you’re speeding and send you a ticket in the mail, etc.
Ifyouseekamy
02-15-2020, 04:28 PM
My girlfriends are fun, sweet, and rational when it’s just me and them, but as soon as we start dating/ talking to a guy women turn crazy. Women aren’t crazy...men make us crazy.
lynn2009
02-15-2020, 07:08 PM
I tried to bake last night but my little brown bottle of extract was not vanilla extract. It was lime extract I had forgotten about from when I tried to make pad Thai at home. So. You can imagine that did not go well.
Remade tonight and they're pretty good! Vegan butterscotch oat cookies.
AChildOfBoredom
02-16-2020, 02:46 PM
I’m visiting Denver right now and it’s weird! 420 stuff is like kinda taboo here...also it’s a very Big Brother-y place. Cameras that take a picture of your car if you’re speeding and send you a ticket in the mail, etc.
My former roommate lives in Denver (and actually works at the airport), and he gets really irritable around 4/20, I think largely because of some festival they hold. He’s indifferent about weed (and says it was only ever good when laced with PCP or cocaine… I’ll just take his word for it in that), but hates stoner culture. I’m surprised it’s so taboo. I never really got that impression, but it’s been a few years since I’ve been there, and we only visited Denver briefly, because him and his (now) ex- lived in Colorado Springs at the time. Now there, the atmosphere seemed to lend itself to it being much more taboo. I remember him referring to Colorado Springs as “Mississippi-lite”.
lynn2009
02-16-2020, 04:55 PM
...also it’s a very Big Brother-y place. Cameras that take a picture of your car if you’re speeding and send you a ticket in the mail, etc.
Maryland has those cameras everywhere, and I could give you at least a dozen other examples of how they are out to micromanage everyone's life here. And people who live here LIKE IT AND MAKE IT WORSE. Like I once received a TYPED note on my car because I parked TWO AND A HALF , NOT THREE feet within their mailbox. They threatened to have my car towed next time!!! Wtf people. I would set myself on fire before I ever bought a house here.
carmen_b
02-17-2020, 12:19 AM
My friend D ( former SD / whatever he is now ) had the weirdest weekend. I get this text that he can't pick me up at the airport . He was bit by a feral cat and had to go the hospital for IV antibiotics . They are keeping him there last night plus tonight. I feel so bad for him. Does that seem accurate though ? TWO days for a cat bite ?
Anyway ...... I feel so damn bad. I need to figure out something nice to do for him tomorrow .
Edit ( next day ) : Damn, feeling for him. He is still there. Taking dinner / magazines ect. up to him this evening so he doesn't have to do hospital food 3 days in a row. For a minute there it totally sounded like a story ..... like .... just say your girlfriend arrived back whatever the truth is lol. It sounded too weird to be real.
AChildOfBoredom
02-17-2020, 02:53 AM
They threatened to have my car towed next time!!!
That was an empty threat. Especially if it was a public roadway, because then where you would’ve been parked would be public easement. It’s like these bozos who put up no parking signs along public roadways in front of their home or business… those signs have absolutely zero weight of authority behind them.
A legitimately enforceable sign will have either the ordinance which gives it authority or else a permit number (the latter for temporary situations such as road or utilities work). When it comes to private parking towing, what’s typical is that visible signage will have to be in place, and the ordinance authorizing it must be included. Even if you were on a private street in a HOA neighborhood, they have an obligation to give you fair warning before going, and that’ll have to be on an official HOA letterhead from an authorized HOA official. Even if you had parked in their driveway, they couldn’t have you arbitrarily towed - they would have to first file a police report and the police would have to call for the vehicle to be impounded.
I had to deal with that shit when I towed. Some overzealous assmonkey who thought they could just get someone else’s car towed on a whim. Then when we arrived and found out they had no authority to have that car towed, we’d bill them the call out fee.
lynn2009
02-17-2020, 12:21 PM
Does anyone know how to get a fair settlement amount from a car insurance company without having to deal with a lawyer?
WendiStarr
02-17-2020, 02:33 PM
A former client who screwed me over in 2018 around Christmas called me from a restricted number to apologise and ask if we could meet up somewhere so he could give me what he owes. He heard through a mutual friend that I had a baby and claims he just wants to right his wrong. Uh, ok and you waited this long because..? Something's fishy about that.
AChildOfBoredom
02-17-2020, 02:55 PM
Looking at my sister’s math textbook and realizing this is stuff I’d never seen before. Next level shit. She always was the smart one among us.
And the taller one.
whirlerz
02-17-2020, 04:12 PM
Does anyone know how to get a fair settlement amount from a car insurance company without having to deal with a lawyer?
When you say settlement, are you talking car damage, personal injury, or both?
I'm right now pending on p.i., I did my own car damage settlement, (atty said they don't do that) but I may try to reopen, as I feel I got screwed..
Ins. co are snakes, so are atty's (for the most part) but I guess you need a snake to fight another? I would think it'd be fairly tricky/complicated.
But, good luck whatever you decide.
carmen_b
02-17-2020, 04:14 PM
If your hospital visitor showed up with a painted black nose , whiskers, and cat ears would you find that funny or not really ?
EDIT : I KNOW he would have found it hilarious but I showed up as myself just to minimize shopping time .
My friend D ( former SD / whatever he is now ) had the weirdest weekend. I get this text that he can't pick me up at the airport . He was bit by a feral cat and had to go the hospital for IV antibiotics . They are keeping him there last night plus tonight. I feel so bad for him. Does that seem accurate though ? TWO days for a cat bite ?
Anyway ...... I feel so damn bad. I need to figure out something nice to do for him tomorrow .
Edit ( next day ) : Damn, feeling for him. He is still there. Taking dinner / magazines ect. up to him this evening so he doesn't have to do hospital food 3 days in a row. For a minute there it totally sounded like a story ..... like .... ok dude ..... just say your girlfriend arrived back whatever the truth is lol. It sounded too weird to be real.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-18-2020, 10:22 AM
A former client who screwed me over in 2018 around Christmas called me from a restricted number to apologise and ask if we could meet up somewhere so he could give me what he owes. He heard through a mutual friend that I had a baby and claims he just wants to right his wrong. Uh, ok and you waited this long because..? Something's fishy about that.
Ugh reading this made me frightened for you. Don't meet him, if he's sincere he can send a giftcard or buy you something on Amazon without meeting with you.
I might be imagining this but it seems like I see more stories these days about babies being stolen or young mothers getting attacked. Be very careful who you meet with....
carmen_b
02-19-2020, 01:42 AM
+1
Or working with the cops !
Avoid him like the plague .
lynn2009
02-19-2020, 06:09 AM
*wakes up early, thinks this is great I'm going to have a calm & productive morning and then a great day*
*Stays in bed for another hour enjoying quiet solitude and pretending I'm unemployed*
*Is running late again like every other day*
Aurora_Sunset
02-19-2020, 09:09 AM
Coughed all night but lazily refused to get up for water. So this morning, I've chugged a ton of water in the last hour since waking up. Now, I really need to go out for my run, but I'm afraid I'll get a mile away and suddenly have to piss myself. There's only one gas station along my route and they won't let you use the bathroom unless you buy something.
seashell
02-19-2020, 09:51 AM
A former client who screwed me over in 2018 around Christmas called me from a restricted number to apologise and ask if we could meet up somewhere so he could give me what he owes. He heard through a mutual friend that I had a baby and claims he just wants to right his wrong. Uh, ok and you waited this long because..? Something's fishy about that.
Don't meet with him, especially if he's a sex work client. He's already screwed you over once, now it sounds like he has put in effort to plan something, and that's creepy as hell.
If he wants to give you money, maybe give him a link to a cam page where he can send you a tribute. But I don't even know if I'd go that far, if you don't trust him.
WendiStarr
02-19-2020, 10:56 AM
Yes, for sure that thought crossed my mind that he might be working with LE or have sinister intentions. I'm not going to meet up with him, even if he did say a public place(store). I don't want to risk anything bad going down, like him possibly attacking me and the baby or any other craziness. He could've sent me an electronic gift card or payment if he was genuine. His persistence on trying to get me to meet with him in person is odd. I'm not answering any more restricted or unknown numbers.
carmen_b
02-19-2020, 03:27 PM
The shenanigans continue with D . :)
He makes the trip incredibly enjoyable . I think I was a good luck charm. 55 minutes after I arrived for the hospital visit he got let out !
We busted out jail break style and went for a sunset dinner . He must have been in a generous mood because we found ourselves at the adult store ( his surprise ) idea and got a couple beautiful outfits. He DOESN'T need to do this obviously but he picked out the most beautiful pink one ( it has lace , bows, AND ties ..... all my faves hahaha ) and I picked a black lace sheer robe, panties, and thigh highs with gems .
More adventures to come .......
I don't want to make him feel responsible for my trip so I create my own routine in the day time always . Gotta keep that bit of distance and mystery. :)
NitaBaby
02-20-2020, 04:48 AM
Watching my 6 year old burp on command like, “I could make so much money if I knew how to do that”
AChildOfBoredom
02-20-2020, 05:46 AM
So I learned that S’s girlfriend is terrified of mice. So guess what arrived from Amazon yesterday?
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She wants to live here after graduation, better she should know now how it’s going to be.
carmen_b
02-20-2020, 01:59 PM
^^ Oh , the grey ones are fabulous. :)
I want to get some of these for my cabin to " entertain " friends. Hahahaha.
carmen_b
02-20-2020, 02:13 PM
I am so impressed by this fancy gym / country club in the city that I found in Honolulu.
Wifi in a Lounge area, coffee served in morning, FULL hydro ameneties including a naked spa section . OMG . Such a dream. Wine hour and music at 5p.m.
There needs to be one of these in EVERY city ! This place is basically my office today ( between wandering to the jacuzzi and possibly into a fitness class if I get there ). If anyone is coming to Oahu to dance, PM me. This place is fancy AF , just 1-2 miles from all the clubs, and ripe for sugar picking as well.
AChildOfBoredom
02-20-2020, 06:21 PM
^^ Oh , the grey ones are fabulous. :)
I want to get some of these for my cabin to " entertain " friends. Hahahaha.
Well, it's a matter of retaliation. S's girlfriend keeps telling me about this cousin of hers that she wants me to meet, she's told the cousin all about me, and the cousin is curious to meet me, blah blah blah. I have a feeling the aforementioned cousin is also a lesbian, and I can see the forest for the trees here.
Not that it offends me. I've had passes made at me by women before, and I'm not particularly bothered by it. The one dancer who tried making a move on me.. she was younger than me and she's pretty hot. For her to say that I turn her on was actually quite a self esteem boost for me. And I had no problem taking S into my home and I tolerated her jokes about hitting on me once she turned 18 (which of course she doesn't do that). That's fine for English girls.. they can do that. I simply cannot.
What does bother me is that I will not have any fucking teenager trying to play matchmaker with me. I don't like it when people my own age do it, and even less so when someone her age does. Since I don't have a kracken to unleash upon her, fake rubber mice will be sufficient.
carmen_b
02-20-2020, 07:28 PM
Well it is ONE way to say " no thanks " to the match making service ! Ha.
WendiStarr
02-21-2020, 03:30 PM
I wish driver's license renewal could be done online instead of sitting for hours at an S.O. S. office.
Nerissa
02-21-2020, 04:38 PM
I am so impressed by this fancy gym / country club in the city that I found in Honolulu.
Wifi in a Lounge area, coffee served in morning, FULL hydro ameneties including a naked spa section . OMG . Such a dream. Wine hour and music at 5p.m.
There needs to be one of these in EVERY city ! This place is basically my office today ( between wandering to the jacuzzi and possibly into a fitness class if I get there ). If anyone is coming to Oahu to dance, PM me. This place is fancy AF , just 1-2 miles from all the clubs, and ripe for sugar picking as well.
I grew up on O'ahu! What's the place because that sounds awesome. :)
baer45
02-21-2020, 07:43 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KK8FHdFluOQ
carmen_b
02-21-2020, 08:01 PM
Narissa : I PM'd you the name ( just for privacy and it's my most frequent hang out lately )
;)
JGB2009
02-22-2020, 12:37 AM
My first daughters dad died when she was five. We weren't together anymore when he passed away but I sure still miss him. Its late and I didn't work tonight so I tend to think more than I should. Anyways I gotta be at the bank first thing in the morning because I lost my debit card. Maybe if I am lucky I will get a couple hours of sleep. If not its really gonna suck!
carmen_b
02-22-2020, 03:44 AM
More guilt about D too. WHY? He took me to work today ( just 4 hours of work today and a larger day tomorrow working ), then we went for a long drive to shoot pictures, and then to the mall ( his suggestion ). I am feeling guilty about the shopping. I know it's a weird thing to admit on here . Lol.
What is with me ?!?
lynn2009
02-22-2020, 11:38 AM
I fixed my internet finally! It's working on my laptop now, which is nice because now my home connection is private again instead of the Comcast's public wifi. But now it's not showing up on my phone or computer. Somebody help?
whirlerz
02-22-2020, 12:10 PM
I fixed my internet finally! It's working on my laptop now, which is nice because now my home connection is private again instead of the Comcast's public wifi. But now it's not showing up on my phone or computer. Somebody help?
Not sure what you mean about not showing up..
Maybe go on cam. connect. section & search around/ask there?
AChildOfBoredom
02-22-2020, 04:55 PM
Well it is ONE way to say " no thanks " to the match making service ! Ha.
If I’m going to be on the level here, it’s really just an excuse to do what I’ve wanted to do all along. I also have a couple lifelike rubber snakes. They may have somehow and in a very mysterious fashion turned up under the bedsheets of others in this house.
baer45
02-22-2020, 07:56 PM
https://forum.lowyat.net/uploads/attach-92/post-192392-1526725615.jpg
I am at level 4.:'(
lynn2009
02-22-2020, 09:27 PM
I have never had an issue doing things by myself.
whirlerz
02-23-2020, 12:05 AM
Baer, nice to see U back on here!
I don't mind doing things alone, but, now that I'm older, a bit more frail, + & the shit going down against women, I'm hesitant.
AChildOfBoredom
02-23-2020, 12:06 AM
The state of sex education in this country is really disgraceful. One of the 19 y/o dancers came in tonight all pissed off. She met a customer OTC, they smashed, and she was carrying on with, “then I heard this grunt so I opened his eyes and he was making his O face”, and she was pissed that he unloaded inside her. But the things she said afterwards… “What if I get pregnant? What if I catch something? I don’t know where his dick’s been” tells me she either didn’t take those classes or slept through them. So the rest of us are just looking back and forth at each other and I’m pretty sure we all had the same look on our faces. And it was only made worse by her response when she was asked why she didn’t expect him to wear a condom. She just assumed he’d pull out and all would be fine.
lynn2009
02-23-2020, 11:54 AM
I have been enjoying the warm winter weather, but this is getting gross. I'm sitting out on the balcony and it's too warm to even be in a sweater. I put on on a t-shirt. In February. Wtf??
Aurora_Sunset
02-23-2020, 05:10 PM
Set hubby up with my work computer in the living room so he could type some final project for school. He'll probably be doing that the rest of the night so I was like, cool, I can have an evening to myself in the bedroom to write, watch a movie, do whatever I want. Now I'm sitting here, and all I want to do is sleep...
carmen_b
02-23-2020, 05:43 PM
My anger and rage towards my Hawaii ex is more like " bubbles " now.
I'll hit a little bubble here and there when something reminds me of him and I just pop it and move past it.
This is much preferred to the " hit by a truck " feeling when I was here in November.
AChildOfBoredom
02-24-2020, 04:54 AM
Always a jackass
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seashell
02-24-2020, 09:11 AM
I'm revisiting my obsession with Les Miserables, and can't stop listening to the movie soundtrack.
carmen_b
02-24-2020, 05:23 PM
Life is good today.
Started my day with the new Lelo Vibe.
What a great morning !
Then coffee and botanical garden.
Now chill time . Love today.
Elektra Luxx
02-24-2020, 07:22 PM
^^^
Has anyone ever tried a remote vibrator? Where someone controls it. Just curious.
miss.a.p1600
02-24-2020, 08:59 PM
^im curious too! I’d love to have a guy I’m with get one to try out
reminds me of that classic film with Sharon stone i think where she seduced her dude in this upscale restaurant. He dared her to take her panties off right there.
She covertly slid them them off and handed them to him.
Then open her legs under the table so he could see.
WendiStarr
02-25-2020, 07:50 AM
Funny(not really) how dudes claim to not have enough money to pay their full amount of child support, yet have money to buy beer, weed, and escort services.