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Carmen Elixer
06-29-2020, 06:20 PM
I am happy that I finally tried the vitamins Biotin to make hair grow thicker. it does work. But sad that I did it during a pandemic when I can't get my hair cut. It's uncomfortably long now.
WendiStarr
06-30-2020, 06:25 AM
I have a phone interview soon with a director of a program I'm trying to get in to. I'm hoping they accept me. *fingers crossed*
BambiCutie
06-30-2020, 06:37 AM
^^^ Wishing you the best of luck!!
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JGB2009
06-30-2020, 09:00 AM
You complained that I don't text first. Why should I? If you gave me and you a 100% maybe I would put forth effort.
Elektra Luxx
06-30-2020, 02:18 PM
^^^
I didn't even know we were a thing! Oh wait... jk
Now for the real random post...
I'm working from home and I helped someone also working from home with their Apple computer/printer problem. I'm know Apple products are very good, but I have very little experience with them and I was so proud of myself to be able to help them.
She was so happy that I fixed her problem that she invited me over to her place to watch Netflix and chill. So apparently I'll be having sex with a woman tonight. Wish me luck.
Who's your Daddy!!!
baer45
06-30-2020, 07:27 PM
^^^
I didn't even know we were a thing! Oh wait... jk
Now for the real random post...
I'm working from home and I helped someone also working from home with their Apple computer/printer problem. I'm know Apple products are very good, but I have very little experience with them and I was so proud of myself to be able to help them.
She was so happy that I fixed her problem that she invited me over to her place to watch Netflix and chill. So apparently I'll be having sex with a woman tonight. Wish me luck.
Who's you're Daddy!!!
Don't trust anyone!:'(:'(:'(:'(
Elektra Luxx
06-30-2020, 08:42 PM
^^^
Baer45, sorry to worry you. I did fix the computer and she was happy, but she didn't invite me over to watch Netflix and chill. I was just making a joke because she was really happy I was able to resolve her problem.
Again sorry about that.
Btw, I was very trusting person in the past, but after a particular bad incident a couple of years ago I don't trust so much anymore.
WendiStarr
07-01-2020, 06:23 AM
I passed part 1 of yesterday's interview. I seriously think it had something to do with my joke about someone putting Stephen King in charge of this year and a Hunger Games reference. I have part 2 of interview next week.
carmen_b
07-02-2020, 10:07 AM
Ah Damn , I just came for the updates of Elextras lady friend. :(
Elektra Luxx
07-02-2020, 01:43 PM
Ah Damn , I just came for the updates of Elextras lady friend. :(
Shhhh...I just told baer45 that so she wouldn't worry about me, but I really did go over to watch Netflix and chill. We got all drunk and we did all kinds of dirty, disgusting things to each other, it was crazy hot! It was the kinds of things you only see in nature documentaries.
JK, sorry carmen_b, I really was kidding.
I really need to stop kidding around so much because it's almost impossible know if I'm being serious or not from just a written post.
WendiStarr
07-02-2020, 04:07 PM
I ate a Kind bar for the first time today. If you suffer from IBS or any GI issues, I'll spare you the painful agony: Kind bars are not kind to the bellies of people with tummy conditions. I'm sad because the bar looked and tasted good.
AChildOfBoredom
07-03-2020, 08:31 AM
I’ve always been disappointed in myself for settling down and not taking up the sojourning life as I’d expected to do. But, times like this make me think maybe it’s not such a bad thing.
SnuffleUffleGrass
07-03-2020, 10:12 AM
I messed up my weekend by watching a documentary posted to You Tube about Paul Bernardo and Karla Holmoka.
Don't read up on these two killers if you have kids or are prone to losing sleep over how bad people can be. Nothing about their case is normal, and they even caused Law Enforcement officers to suffer from PTSD from dealing with them.
Lighthearted random- I'm glad boyfriend is gonna go play golf, he really needs to go have a break from work stress.
lurkingtitties
07-03-2020, 01:15 PM
I’ve always been disappointed in myself for settling down and not taking up the sojourning life as I’d expected to do. But, times like this make me think maybe it’s not such a bad thing.
I get that. I recently decided to abandon my travel nomad plans and move back home for the forseeable future. I actually asked my mom if it made me boring to choose a conventional path! (She said it doesn't)
carmen_b
07-03-2020, 03:31 PM
^ Funny to see the posts about people feeling more " in one place " but feeling good.
Also similar vibes here !
JGB2009
07-05-2020, 09:26 AM
I need to start focusing just on myself.
Aurora_Sunset
07-05-2020, 03:32 PM
I feel like every time I知 waiting for hubby to get home - with food, to do something together - he takes forever and never shows up when I expect him. Whenever I知 enjoying my alone time and don稚 expect him home yet, he値l walk in early. Without fail.
miss.a.p1600
07-05-2020, 03:52 PM
I’m going to challenge myself to focus more on people and situations that provide positive energy. I know the other is unavoidable in an imperfect world but more positive and less negative is my new mindset
Carmen Elixer
07-05-2020, 05:06 PM
I messed up my weekend by watching a documentary posted to You Tube about Paul Bernardo and Karla Holmoka.
I'm getting ready to check this out. There is something about a crime duo. The psychology. The relationship between them. It's levels to this shit. That Vallow/Daybell thing is crazy too. Waiting to see what comes out of that hot mess! Then, the one I always love watching again & again is the mother & son duo (I forget their names?) that took place in the 80's. I like to watch the movie about it too, where Mary Tyler Moore plays the mom, she's so extra in that.
miss.a.p1600
07-05-2020, 05:35 PM
I saw that documentary. If it’s the same couple I’m thinking about
It was crazy example of never judge a book but it’s cover. The victims trusted them cause they looked not just normal but fairly attractive physically
Carmen Elixer
07-05-2020, 07:31 PM
Omg I was not ready for thattt
Yeah WHY did they have to be so physically attractive??
I can literally remember a time or two, when I have been stopped
and asked for help with directions by a woman looking at a map before.
Not even kidding. But I ain't talking to NOBODY again, ever.
Know what's f'd up? I know a couple girls who seem to have
that same personality. horrifying
lynn2009
07-05-2020, 09:24 PM
I was in Pennsylvania today to view a house to rent. It was a bust. I dropped in at the cat clinic and was whining about this and someone gave me a referral for a realtor (something I have not had so far), so now I'm all excited about buying again. Don't break my heart again please you dumb real estate market......
SnuffleUffleGrass
07-06-2020, 08:18 AM
Omg I was not ready for thattt
Yeah WHY did they have to be so physically attractive??
I can literally remember a time or two, when I have been stopped
and asked for help with directions by a woman looking at a map before.
Not even kidding. But I ain't talking to NOBODY again, ever.
Know what's f'd up? I know a couple girls who seem to have
that same personality. horrifying
That's why I cautioned against a deep dive on the topic, there are so many layers to the case, each more horrific than the next. Just when you think Paul Bernardo and Karla Holmoka have shocked you with something you never imagined, well...wait...there's more.
Ironically what seems to keep a lot of women who might turn out like Karla in check is lacking a sure "fall guy"- the way things broke down, she was able to put most of the blame on Paul Bernardo. At the time people were more willing to believe she had been forced into everything.
Theirs is a painful case to learn about, but the wisdom taken from the case can help others avoid being victimized.
lurkingtitties
07-06-2020, 11:29 AM
I am soooo stressed. Unpaid internship, plus projects I have to prepare/present in the next couple weeks, plus studying for the license exam I take at the end of the month, and taking a 4 hour practice test every weekend. I’m having bad dreams about it and it’s affecting my health.
When this is over I’m locking myself in a dark quiet room for 5 days. I don’t even want to look for jobs until October.
Carmen Elixer
07-06-2020, 03:19 PM
That's why I cautioned against a deep dive on the topic, there are so many layers to the case, each more horrific than the next. Just when you think Paul Bernardo and Karla Holmoka have shocked you with something you never imagined, well...wait...there's more.
Ironically what seems to keep a lot of women who might turn out like Karla in check is lacking a sure "fall guy"- the way things broke down, she was able to put most of the blame on Paul Bernardo. At the time people were more willing to believe she had been forced into everything.
Theirs is a painful case to learn about, but the wisdom taken from the case can help others avoid being victimized.
I know you cautioned me gurl. I was hoping you didn't know what true horror looked like. Yeah I can't stop thinking about it. Those two were just clowning. Her sister took place on Xmas Eve. Are you freaking kidding me?
Do you feel like she only rolled over on him once she noticed he couldn't keep an erection with just her? That he actually needed the young girls? I feel like that.
lynn2009
07-06-2020, 04:20 PM
I take my dog to these nearby woods about every other day and he loves it obviously, but I don't think it's worth it anymore. I have gotten bitten by ticks twice that I know of (once I found it on my butt in the shower btw) and now today I found one sitting on his fur.
whirlerz
07-06-2020, 06:35 PM
Has the hot weather or full moon/eclipse brought out an influx of Trolls or WTF.::)
AChildOfBoredom
07-06-2020, 07:45 PM
It arrived today.
https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/1213/0222/products/Dont-Cough-On-Me-Mask-mock_grande.png
Carmen Elixer
07-06-2020, 07:57 PM
Nice:). lol
WendiStarr
07-07-2020, 04:25 AM
I've been up for 2 hours and already want to go back to sleep but I need to make money so I can't.
carmen_b
07-07-2020, 11:15 AM
I had the most delicious day with J yesterday. This dude just keeps showing up, delivering, and rarely disappointing me. I think I've been mad at him once in three months ( only because he got too drunk in Vegas for sex lol ).
Anyway ..... he was extrememly gracious / generous yesterday as usual so I think I'm going to slow cook a roast / veggies for him this afternoon and then BJ action tonight lol.
I just enjoy him so much.
: )
AChildOfBoredom
07-07-2020, 03:33 PM
I got busted today. Went to order take out and there was a couple guys signing to each other, so I just watched to catch what they were saying to each other. I guess the one saw me looking. The conversation stopped, and I looked up and saw them both looking at me, with the one guy scowling at me, and he kept staring at me the whole time until their food was handed to them, then they were sitting in a car in a parking lot afterwards, with the one guy still staring me down. Which, I wasn’t sure if they were pissed off to the point of following me or not, but I would’ve lost them easily enough if they had… they were in a Chevy Aveo, and I was driving a 4x4 pickup.
moneybags
07-07-2020, 09:28 PM
I got busted today. Went to order take out and there was a couple guys signing to each other, so I just watched to catch what they were saying to each other. I guess the one saw me looking. The conversation stopped, and I looked up and saw them both looking at me, with the one guy scowling at me, and he kept staring at me the whole time until their food was handed to them, then they were sitting in a car in a parking lot afterwards, with the one guy still staring me down. Which, I wasn’t sure if they were pissed off to the point of following me or not, but I would’ve lost them easily enough if they had… they were in a Chevy Aveo, and I was driving a 4x4 pickup.
Busted? How do you mean?
carmen_b
07-08-2020, 08:28 AM
^ recognized you from the club ?
Be glad they didn't wander up to you ! Lol.
Lol. Why do men think that is EVER ok ? hahahah
AChildOfBoredom
07-08-2020, 12:01 PM
Busted? How do you mean?
They figured out I was eavesdropping on their conversation. They were speaking to each other in sign language.
WendiStarr
07-08-2020, 05:42 PM
Has anyone here used Shopify before? I'm trying to figure out if it's even worth it.
miss.a.p1600
07-08-2020, 06:42 PM
^to buy or to sell??
I know their stock is worth it for investing so you may want to pick up as many shares as you can.
*im not a licensed financial advisor though so consult one of those first
carmen_b
07-08-2020, 08:57 PM
J's 7 year old daughter painted some blue spots onto my dog ( he has a white stripe on his face and it was painted on the white lol ).
You could tell that J actually had sheer fear in his eyes telling me about it hahaha as I'm obsessed with this damn dog. No worries. It all came out with a little nail polish remover lol. She mentioned to me that he " might have gotten into some nail polish " . hahahaha
WendiStarr
07-09-2020, 06:03 AM
^to buy or to sell??
I know their stock is worth it for investing so you may want to pick up as many shares as you can.
*im not a licensed financial advisor though so consult one of those first
To sell but that's interesting to know on the stocks.
miss.a.p1600
07-09-2020, 09:07 AM
Random rap lyrics
“Baby Im horny and I ain’t to proud to beg, instead give me some head, early morning, breakfast in bed”
Carmen Elixer
07-10-2020, 10:39 AM
Quote from Hoesarehealers, a stripper, former sexworker, & spiritual guru I follow on IG:
hoesarehealers: If I didn’t demand to be paid, if I didn’t go hard for myself, if I didn’t acknowledge myself and speak up for my gifts, if I didn’t say, “I’m important,” if I let everyone else tell my story for me, if I didn’t tell you, “I’m that bitch and here’s why,” your stories would erase me. Your mindset would vilify me. Your assumptions would unease me. Your projections would say I don’t deserve shit. And you would see to it that I never progressed further than what you would allow, what would make you comfortable. Trust me I know this."
WendiStarr
07-10-2020, 12:23 PM
I had the 2nd interview this morning. It was really odd having a group video interview and I was over dressed. Seeing all these dudes in wife beaters and t-shirts and their rooms a mess in the background made me feel that way. A couple of them looked like they just rolled out of bed in whatever they were sleeping in, didn't bother to comb their hair or anything, and put their cams on. I don't know about other people but whenever I hear the word 'interview' I bust out my formal blazer. I hope that at least helped my case. I won't know until Monday.
carmen_b
07-10-2020, 03:59 PM
wtf ? Sound like you are way ahead of the competition ! ^
lynn2009
07-10-2020, 10:26 PM
My baby takes very good care of his mom. Sometimes there's a random ass grocery cart in the yard next to my apartment. It was there tonight and I let him sniff it. He's a very curious little one and always needs to investigate new or weird things. Anyway he started pulling at the leash and barking and I realized there was a man coming straight toward us!! I think he was homeless. I'm sure he was perfectly safe and we were intruding on his space with the cart, but I did book it out of there and make sure he didn't follow us.
WendiStarr
07-11-2020, 11:19 AM
I find it kind of funny to watch the fledgling birdies, especially the robins. I don't know if it's the same bird or a different one each time but we were outside in the backyard and one was just sitting on the ground, hanging out. It got up and walked around close to us. It looked young, but old enough to be out of the nest. It walked over to the garden and suddenly clumsily flew to the top of the fence to sit there before flying away. My oldest daughter and I went back outside to eat lunch when a fledgling robin landed right on the table in front of us. I don't think it meant to land there because it immediately hightailed it out of there. Now a fledgling robin is in our yard again sitting in the dirt.
carmen_b
07-12-2020, 10:41 AM
J gave me a closet at his place. :)
A walk in. It was really cute because he put some of my bags up there and hung up some dresses.
carmen_b
07-12-2020, 10:46 AM
There is this girl on IG who I don't know how I stumbled on but she is always out nude at these hot springs ( one of my fave interests haha ). She has an only fans account . I almost want to sign up to see MORE pictures lol !! Now I know how these men get roped in ! I really hope she dances ( or did before all this shit ) and cleans up haha.
lynn2009
07-12-2020, 03:41 PM
I feel like house hunting is doable at this point, but going to remain a struggle. I took off late this week to go look at places, and I have ten or so bookmarked (knowing a handful will probably go off market this week). But I don't like any of them nearly as much as the two I already missed out on, unless I really go to the top of my budget. And I don't really know what is reasonable to spend. I spent all my adult life at this point pinching pennies like crazy, and I would like to live a little at this point. But then it's also hard knowing I'm single income, you know, like it's not like my household could float on a spouse's income. There's only me, and I would like to take a voluntary demotion at some point. I know, I am whine whine whine about a very privledged problem right now.
Edit: also everyone around me in Maryland is commenting on how old the houses I'm looking at are. They are all 50+ years old. We are talking right outside Philadelphia, which was the first city founded in the country, so I don't know why this would be a surprise to so many people? That's one thing I hate about Maryland, it's all very manufactured. All the housing is super congested and identical. I think the neighborhoods where I'm looking are completely charming and well maintained.
SnuffleUffleGrass
07-12-2020, 04:30 PM
Who is in the mood for a couple random weird stories that actually happened? Trigger warning- the second one is a little sad.
* Back in 2016 I was working in Minneapolis & the evening I was going to audition at a couple strip bars, I had a super weird run in with an angry rich dude.
I stopped in front of a popular restaurant downtown and was chatting with 2 young guys who were valets, in front of the valet service booth. Suddenly a rich guy walked out in front of us, he seemed pissed off and said he was waiting for his cab.
For some reason the sight of me set him off- he said to me "You look like my ex-wife!" Among other things. He also blurted out that he "knew Kevin Costner"...which was really random. I was stressed out that evening so I chose not to let this random run in affect my mood any further. I figured the sight of me chatting up two cute young guys must have bothered him and maybe he had a bad experience in the restaurant before he left.
Years later I'm assuming this guy had something to do with producing Kevin Costner's prime time TV series "Yellowstone" & he must have had a airline flight layover in Minneapolis. It would make sense. I just find it amusing that 1) this event even happened- I guess it's good for this guy that the series is a smash success and 2) I hope he quit name dropping Kevin Costner lol.
2nd story-
* I was looking at local obits (for business reasons) and one stood out to me- I suddenly realized I had met the girl who had passed from heart problems...About a decade ago she barged up to me and my brother at a bar (we were drinking beer and she introduced herself, we were busy talking about important things so we didn't invite her to sit down. When we got up to leave she half-jokingly yelled at us for leaving)...Anyway I thought it was nice that she lived life to the fullest. It seemed she probably wasn't expecting to pass away that young. Life is so fragile.
moneybags
07-12-2020, 05:52 PM
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