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lynn2009
07-26-2020, 06:57 PM
Yay! I love it! You're going to be very popular! Please follow-up this post.

Sorry to disappoint :/ I ended up driving us to a shaded walking trail and I wore leggings cause of the bugs.

kamiliam
07-26-2020, 07:44 PM
What is a good way to deal with a parent with a bipolar disorder and they're meanness and coldness?

Well it depends if is diagnosed and medicated. Unmedicated , mania may result in meanness, but it isn’t due to the disease itself. If on meds you need to encourage them to talk to their doctor about the meanness. You don’t need to put up with any of it if they are aware of their condition. They have empathy and know when they are treating people badly just like people who aren’t bipolar

Elektra Luxx
07-26-2020, 10:06 PM
Sorry to disappoint :/ I ended up driving us to a shaded walking trail and I wore leggings cause of the bugs.

Don't worry, you didn't disappoint, it's fun reading about you.

carmen_b
07-27-2020, 06:38 AM
Right ?!? I did almost burn the sexy one. I glanced and there was just that one sexy one but there were others talking about sweet things he did. They are gone ( Chevron garbage can but sadly no fire ) so I don’t get into them again.
Better yet, purge them with fire. If any nosy neighbors ask what you’re doing, you just tell them you’re answering the call of Surtr.

carmen_b
07-27-2020, 06:42 AM
^ I will start my own gratitude card stack with being thankful for garbage cans.

AChildOfBoredom
07-27-2020, 07:05 PM
Right ?!? I did almost burn the sexy one. I glanced and there was just that one sexy one but there were others talking about sweet things he did. They are gone ( Chevron garbage can but sadly no fire ) so I don’t get into them again.

Should’ve made a big fire. Then you could pure while you make s’mores (which, by the way, I’ve never had). And maybe a bit of Ragnarok.

S and her girlfriend want to do a big birthday thing for me, but I tell them it’s not necessary. It’s not something I’ve ever celebrated, though I did it for S because English people do that. I suppose it’s really just enough to have them here, and that’s good enough. Someone else wants to go back to the wine bar, in spite of me getting a little too tipsy and making a number of people very uncomfortable the last time we did that. Just let me sleep in a little and maybe let me be lazy for a day. That’s all I really need.

carmen_b
07-28-2020, 12:37 PM
^^ Yeah , Barfo !!!
I wish I could take it back and not read it but whatever.
He is a great lover .
It could have been reports about a lack of skill lol.
Then I’d have to deal with that. :/

Elektra Luxx
07-28-2020, 02:18 PM
Bf's cousin and her husband have Covid19 and have been sick for 18 days. They are very weak and can barely get around on their own. Bf and I volunteered to take them a something to eat once a day.

baer45
07-31-2020, 07:54 PM
In 2015, when you were asked "where do you see yourself in 5 years..." in a job interview, I bet none of you answered that question correctly.

lynn2009
08-01-2020, 06:02 PM
Does anyone know an effective, reasonably priced option to minimize hair loss? I know this is normal to some degree, but I feel like my hair falls out in spades and overnight my hair will go from thin to balding.

moneybags
08-01-2020, 06:54 PM
On my jog, I saw a guy riding a motorcycle dressed up as mascot Lol. Made my day. He probably did it to just make people laugh too. We all need to laugh.

whirlerz
08-01-2020, 07:15 PM
Does anyone know an effective, reasonably priced option to minimize hair loss? I know this is normal to some degree, but I feel like my hair falls out in spades and overnight my hair will go from thin to balding.


There's a shampoo on Amazon that's supposed to have great reviews.. Sorry, I don't know the name if I find it, I'll post IT. Do NOT, use anything w/minoxinal (sp)

Have you seen a dermatologist?

Check out Philip Kingsley products, (he's a tricholigist) they have some some clinics where they analyze your hair/scalp (one's in NY)

Elektra Luxx
08-01-2020, 08:34 PM
Does anyone know an effective, reasonably priced option to minimize hair loss? I know this is normal to some degree, but I feel like my hair falls out in spades and overnight my hair will go from thin to balding.

It could be stress from working so much. Maybe you should start taking it a little easier at work.

AChildOfBoredom
08-01-2020, 09:27 PM
It’s midnight and I’m sitting at an IHOP sharing a plate of the tres leches pancakes with S’s girlfriend because everyone else in the house is a bunch of sleepyheads tonight and they all called it a night early and we somehow started taking about pancakes, and that led to us being at IHOP. And so I asked her if S would think poorly of it and she said to me that it wouldn’t be. Then decided to tell me, “we gave each other a hall pass for you, anyhow”. Which, what the fuck? I certainly wasn’t expecting that, and now I’m in two minds about it. Part of me is like, “oh, that’s rather flattering considering 30 is around the corner”, and another part of me is taking note of the security cameras and how easily I could be established as the last known person to see her alive, even if I do successfully hide her corpse.

whirlerz
08-02-2020, 08:48 AM
Does anyone know an effective, reasonably priced option to minimize hair loss? I know this is normal to some degree, but I feel like my hair falls out in spades and overnight my hair will go from thin to balding.

OK, found it.. Ultrax Labs hair surge on Amazon, it's expensive, but 20% off now.

WendiStarr
08-02-2020, 03:07 PM
I hope I get some alone time tonight, even 10 minutes.

lynn2009
08-02-2020, 03:12 PM
OK, found it.. Ultrax Labs hair surge on Amazon, it's expensive, but 20% off now.

Thanks!

moneybags
08-02-2020, 09:21 PM
https://youtu.be/5czp9S4u26Mi


Today in our sex worker group we talked about moral development.

My thesis is sex workers are morally superior. LOL just kidding. It’s an interesting thought to think many sex workers actually operate on a higher moral level than most people. It definitely turns the tables on those those judgemental assholes.

JGB2009
08-03-2020, 04:59 AM
I just deleted 543 emails from my inbox. I need to start deleting everything on a daily.

Carmen Elixer
08-03-2020, 11:50 AM
Remembering the days when it was Coyote Ugly ever night. Now it's Footloose, and every day is Sunday.

miss.a.p1600
08-03-2020, 11:58 AM
Random rap lyrics

Lick it now, lick it good, suck this pussy just like you should.....

Aurora_Sunset
08-03-2020, 12:15 PM
I just deleted 543 emails from my inbox. I need to start deleting everything on a daily.

My husband is the type of person that never ever deletes any emails. And of course gets about 100 spam emails a day. So he has probably over 70,000 emails in his inbox at this point. About a year ago, I had his email password to get in and look for something when he was at work, and embarked on a quest for about a week, where I went in and deleted a bunch of emails every day with the intent of cleaning up his inbox. But it was ultimately futile and exhausting, and I finally gave up.

Aurora_Sunset
08-03-2020, 12:39 PM
I am re-starting the 75Hard challenge, the Whole30 diet, and One Year No Beer program all on August 17th. They complement each other nicely, which is why I figured why not go for all the healthy changes at once. Hubby is doing Whole30 with me (which, for me, will actually be Whole60 with a 15-day reintroduction period, and I am trying to get him onboard with following that with me since I think he will lose a dramatic amount of weight for the military and heal a lot of GI issues). I am excited yet nervous. I kinda just want to get started, because I know this will be really good for me, both physically and mentally, but we are having a day-trip date tomorrow for the first time allll summer. And I'm visiting my family, and a couple hometown childhood friends, next week for the first time since Thanksgiving, so didn't want to start all these restrictive lifestyle changes before my summer socializing. I do want to enjoy these couple weeks of "summer" since I have really not done a damn enjoyable thing all season. I am anxious to get going though.

AChildOfBoredom
08-03-2020, 02:34 PM
Other women my age who have children:

“Oh, (their child) did the sweetest/most cutesy thing, and it was just SO precious and heartwarming”

Me:

“So, my ‘refugee’ helped me beat up a group of teenage girls, and it was quite heartwarming to know she had my back”

lynn2009
08-03-2020, 07:19 PM
I was vegan for about four years but not for a long time now. I still follow the vegan subreddit and a few days ago someone posted a video of a sweet little piggy cramped into a slaughter truck, trying to fit his snout through the bars to feel rain and fresh air. It reminded me so much of my own little monster, I guess I'm vegan again already.

SnuffleUffleGrass
08-04-2020, 06:40 AM
https://youtu.be/5czp9S4u26Mi


Today in our sex worker group we talked about moral development.

My thesis is sex workers are morally superior. LOL just kidding. It’s an interesting thought to think many sex workers actually operate on a higher moral level than most people. It definitely turns the tables on those those judgemental assholes.

This is an interesting idea. IMO sex workers (of all kinds) get used to prejudice and exclusion so most of us get a crash course on humanity. & We see and hear a lot of things that others do not.



Random thought- I ran into an ex-co worker of mine (day job, non bar or strip bar job) and he glared at me for no reason. He was a bit weird when I worked with him so I will just chalk it up to his stressful life. But I didn't want that negativity in an otherwise excellent morning.

miss.a.p1600
08-04-2020, 09:18 AM
Random rap lyrics:

Somebody come get her, she’s dancing like a stripperrrrrrr

JGB2009
08-04-2020, 10:31 AM
I am going to bed early as I possible can tonight. Fuck everyone!!!

carmen_b
08-04-2020, 11:32 AM
^ We’ve all had days like that !!

lilylilylily
08-04-2020, 01:52 PM
Watched a man get arrested right across the street from me last night. It was so strange, like watching an episode of cops

WendiStarr
08-06-2020, 09:03 AM
We have an annoying instructor today. She keeps randomly asking questions about material that we either haven't covered yet or are supposed to be today. She said we should always be at least 2 chapters ahead of the material currently being covered. I noticed 2 classmates left after being called out by her for not having the right answer. If you don't know the answer she keeps picking you for more questions. One lady burst into tears on Zoom and left. Man, this program is intense enough without that shit. I just happened to have my textbook open already and quickly found the answer in time when that teacher called on me. If I hadn't I would've been in the lion's den, too. I'm not going to let her get to me like that. I need to keep on pressing forward.

carmen_b
08-06-2020, 01:38 PM
I had a rough day this week.

Anniversary date with my 2011 - 2018 ex ! Had a couple crying episodes because I was re-reminded that on this DATE two years ago he was chatting with his ex behind my back . I knew and didn't even mention it ( I thought he was an ass but their communications would be a passing phase ).
I get stuck in these cycles of " what IF I would have hit it harder right away to fight to stay together ? " . :(

Eh. I made it though ! I didn't really want to share with my current partner why I was having such a hard day . I'm a numbers person so significant dates will always bring things up . I am just trying not to let it ruin any more of this week.

Elektra Luxx
08-07-2020, 05:21 AM
Bf is stressed because he has a lot of extra work and says this morning, "I'm doing Zoom testing this morning, you might want to put on some makeup and a bra."

Should be angry? Because I feel a little angry.

JGB2009
08-07-2020, 07:22 AM
I suck at relationships....y do I bother!!!!

lynn2009
08-07-2020, 08:09 AM
Bf is stressed because he has a lot of extra work and says this morning, "I'm doing Zoom testing this morning, you might want to put on some makeup and a bra."

Should be angry? Because I feel a little angry.

That's very rude. Your inbox is full btw.

SnuffleUffleGrass
08-07-2020, 09:39 AM
A Random and Funny Event from the Universe-

Yesterday I had to go to Wal Mart for something and spotted some new Pioneer Woman dinner plates on display- I actually dislike the designs on this brand so I just thought, Ugh...and moved on.

WELL lucky me last night someone left a cardboard box of perfect condition Pioneer Woman plates and bowls with a hideous pattern next to the dumpster where I live....(I live near a military base so people throw out nice things all the time.) I took them and am going to re-sell them, since being a dancer taught me that "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (& Also being resourceful.) These plates and bowls look unused, no chips. I bet someone in the household hated the pattern and insisted they get rid them..lol......

Elektra Luxx
08-07-2020, 01:50 PM
That's very rude. Your inbox is full btw.

I wasn't trying to be rude. My inbox fills up with PMs sometimes.

My inbox ready is to accept your PMs

Elektra Luxx
08-07-2020, 01:53 PM
I suck at relationships....y do I bother!!!!

I am so there with you. I think that at least once a day.

lilylilylily
08-08-2020, 02:40 AM
Broke up with this guy recently, when we were together I never told him I found him on FB and check his profile, he's constantly posting depressing memes and I hope they are about me lol (wishful thinking)

JGB2009
08-08-2020, 02:53 AM
This week turned out just how I thought it would....why!!!!!

WendiStarr
08-08-2020, 05:08 AM
I have to write an elevator pitch about myself for homework and I'm not even sure what to write. Some of my classmates have years of experience in vanilla jobs as supervisors. I've worked so many crappy, dead end vanilla jobs with no real admirable accomplishments. I don't know how the heck I'd translate sex work into something that can be used in the vanilla world. I suppose I could say that I have years of customer service experience? Ugh.

miss.a.p1600
08-08-2020, 06:22 AM
A Random and Funny Event from the Universe-

Yesterday I had to go to Wal Mart for something and spotted some new Pioneer Woman dinner plates on display- I actually dislike the designs on this brand so I just thought, Ugh...and moved on.

WELL lucky me last night someone left a cardboard box of perfect condition Pioneer Woman plates and bowls with a hideous pattern next to the dumpster where I live....(I live near a military base so people throw out nice things all the time.) I took them and am going to re-sell them, since being a dancer taught me that "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (& Also being resourceful.) These plates and bowls look unused, no chips. I bet someone in the household hated the pattern and insisted they get rid them..lol......

i love some pioneer woman plates n glasses.

If they left them next to the dumpster as opposed to inside the dumpster then they definitely wanted someone to find them

Winged Dinghy
08-08-2020, 08:06 AM
I miss the club, dancing, money and my work fam so bad.

SnuffleUffleGrass
08-08-2020, 10:07 AM
i love some pioneer woman plates n glasses.

If they left them next to the dumpster as opposed to inside the dumpster then they definitely wanted someone to find them

Oh definitely. It was just weird to see brand new condition plates and bowls thrown out. I had to stop myself from using my personal opinions about the pattern on the online ads for the items. The pattern on the plates are so wack they kill my appetite.

Random thought- we're going to an Open House showing tomorrow and I keep wondering whether I should dress to impress the realtor or not. I probably will.

carmen_b
08-08-2020, 12:11 PM
I am irritated with J.
I drove 6 hours north yesterday to my mountain property and he was supposed to arrive today by 5.
He said something about running 2-3 hours behind and I’m just trying not to send any nasty messages hahaha so plant shopping and eating.
Bitching won’t get me laid tonight so I’ll most likely save it haha.
I have an issue with this. It’s hard for us to get away and I feel like he is minimizing the time instead of maximizing.
I actually hoped he’d leave at 10am getting here by 4.

The rustic environment tests some people but I told him we would go to dinner / music in the fancy ski town near so I already had a plan to minimize the rustic side. :/

carmen_b
08-08-2020, 05:13 PM
Omg. The podcast strange bedfellows is just SO good !
Sex positive + sex work positive ect. !
I am such a fan !
I'm listening to one now called Pagan Wisdom and it's discussing shame issues .

carmen_b
08-08-2020, 05:50 PM
Unless I get more information about the delay I'm going to mention how it upset me.
I want to discuss it openly and then be able to let it go.
It's not ok to make me wait. I ignored his texts for 4-5 hours and I don't really want to let anymore bad energy or vibes affect the evening.

lynn2009
08-08-2020, 06:50 PM
I wish we would get a good, full day of rain. All it is is short spurts this year.

kimbe
08-08-2020, 10:51 PM
Random thought- we're going to an Open House showing tomorrow and I keep wondering whether I should dress to impress the realtor or not. I probably will.

"Dress to impress" is never wrong!
(If its wrong, you don't impress ;) )

AChildOfBoredom
08-09-2020, 12:09 PM
That feeling of wanting to be angry with someone, yet it just seems like you can’t be.

Also, at the birthday celebration, one of the equestrian instructors was probably assuming I was freaking out internally about turning 30. I told her I feel like I’m still 19, and she took that as a good thing. The Irish woman overheard me say it. She knows what I meant by it.