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AChildOfBoredom
11-09-2020, 03:02 PM
Trying to chat me up… the odds are never in their favor. On top of that, I really fucking hate pet names. On top of that, I’m a bit touchy about my height, and even though I know that’s not necessarily what they mean by saying it, I especially hate being called “shorty” or any variation of it. So I’m pretty fucked off with this guy, and he wants to tell me I’m “playing hard to get”. No, motherfucker, you’re leading yourself into failure.
JenniferNorth
11-09-2020, 03:52 PM
Can we no longer update moods on here anymore?
JenniferNorth
11-09-2020, 03:55 PM
So, interesting..
I was just trying to keep things light, I guess I shouldn't have made the thread I did, about a current leader resignation..
Other than that, I was trying to lighten up, kind of push some of similar posts, (especially by certain blue ) that posts VERY HEAVILY in that section.
Wow, some really came for me on that, but hey go for it. (Btw, I deleted those posts.
I just thought maybe this was a place geared for female sw's.
Anyway, have a great day
You deleted it so I think you are fine/not in trouble. I feel like there's a ton of blues posting in the lounge a lot? There's only one sweet blue I don't mind and he's not one to make a nuisance of himself.
indiegirl
11-09-2020, 04:01 PM
YAYYY The plumber came early instead of tomorrow. I love not having my schedule tied down waiting.
whirlerz
11-09-2020, 04:12 PM
Can we no longer update moods on here anymore?
Gosh, Idk!
I do like to do that, I haven't tried, I'll let you know how that goes
whirlerz
11-09-2020, 04:15 PM
Its 1:55 and I’m literally one house away out front waiting for these people to leave.
Ugh. :/
Maybe it’s karma.
I’m always asking hotels for that extra hour haha.
YES!
I always ask, right when I check in too usually.
carmen_b
11-09-2020, 04:29 PM
My friend got there 3 pm so no worries.
He gifted me such a gorgeous painting.
I’m not hanging it at the rental.
I took it with me.
It will sleep where I do. :)
I honestly feel so beat down by my attempted project.
I wanted to comp more stays for local artists ( maybe one every couple months ) at this property.
This first person seemed really needy .
I will have to asses later if I’ll even offer this again or what it would take to flow better.
I might have to write a more official guide / what to expect.
It just seems like you can’t do anything these days without babying people.
WendiStarr
11-09-2020, 06:29 PM
I got c4s approved. I hope there's a lot of pregnancy, lactation, and foot fetish customer freaks on there because that's the content I have the most of.
indiegirl
11-09-2020, 06:53 PM
Haven't left the house for these 3 appointment requests. I'd rather do outcall since guys decided to not respond in the past leaving me with a roundtrip driving bill and hotel bill. Happy to see them but I'm not one to feel insulted.
carmen_b
11-09-2020, 08:03 PM
I'm glad I started therapy.
I was about to bail on it ( they paired me with a man ) but I feel like he was so great with me in this first session.
indiegirl
11-09-2020, 08:13 PM
I'm glad I started therapy.
I was about to bail on it ( they paired me with a man ) but I feel like he was so great with me in this first session.
Sometimes men are better than women as therapists for sure!
carmen_b
11-09-2020, 08:17 PM
^ Yeah, I think I'm doing more sessions for sure ! I feel so comfy with him.
I really NEEDED this.
carmen_b
11-09-2020, 08:25 PM
Anyone who thinks being a landlord is easy message me for my stories and I'll talk you down before you buy something lol.
I go over to the 2nd AirBnB the bigger one we just got recently. The 2nd ( SECOND ) guest is doing a check out.
The place is ........ er ......... hammered . It's obvious more than 4 people were here ( and ours doesn't vary by price .... same price 1 -10 people so no incentive to lie ).
There is damage ..... on a door frame. Someone clearly shook the front door hard or kicked it . Omg. This was a 14 day stay ( so it literally paid the first mortgage payment ) but this shit aint easy let me tell you. So ..... I guess I have a door to fix now. Multiple windows in the house are also open ( it's 41 degrees out and a desert cold snap ). Windows being open always seems like smokers may have been there to me but it didn't smell like smoke so it's anyones guess .
My brothers and I had a fight a month ago about a camera system. At the time I was saying that even an outside camera was an invasion of privacy. Now I think I will need to green light his camera idea. We *just* ( SECOND guest ) had dishonesty so what if it's worse next time?
JenniferNorth
11-09-2020, 08:25 PM
I'm glad you feel good about seeing him, carmen! That is awesome!
Sort of off topic, but is anyone else a fan of Dr. Kirk Honda (Psychology in Seattle)? I feel like anytime he talks about Darcy from 90 day Fiance, he's talking about me. lol I wish I had money for therapy out of pocket. Until then, YT shrinks it is!
JenniferNorth
11-09-2020, 08:27 PM
Anyone who thinks being a landlord is easy message me for my stories and I'll talk you down before you buy something lol.
Hubby's late Grandma always made it sound like easy money. I hope everything is easily fixable!
lynn2009
11-09-2020, 08:33 PM
Anyone who thinks being a landlord is easy message me for my stories and I'll talk you down before you buy something lol.
I go over to the 2nd AirBnB the bigger one we just got recently. The 2nd ( SECOND ) guest is doing a check out.
The place is ........ er ......... hammered . It's obvious more than 4 people were here ( and ours doesn't vary by price .... same price 1 -10 people so no incentive to lie ).
There is damage ..... on a door frame. Someone clearly shook the front door hard or kicked it . Omg. This was a 14 day stay ( so it literally paid the first mortgage payment ) but this shit aint easy let me tell you. So ..... I guess I have a door to fix now. Multiple windows in the house are also open ( it's 41 degrees out and a desert cold snap ). Windows being open always seems like smokers may have been there to me but it didn't smell like smoke so it's anyones guess .
My brothers and I had a fight a month ago about a camera system. At the time I was saying that even an outside camera was an invasion of privacy. Now I think I will need to green light his camera idea. We *just* ( SECOND guest ) had dishonesty so what if it's worse next time?
Can't you charge them for the damages through the app?
carmen_b
11-09-2020, 08:39 PM
^ Yeah. We are most likely. We have a hold on the deposit.
They are claiming the door frame wasn't damaged on their check out which means ....... could be attempted forced entry if they are not lying.
My intuition tells me it was them though due to the dishonestly about the number of people ( every room was used not just two of the four ).
I just don't know what else could break that side of a door frame.
They are tricky to manage because the apps basically kill your listing if you don't maintain really really high reviews.
Maybe originally four people were here two weeks ago ...... but way more were here recently.
carmen_b
11-09-2020, 08:40 PM
In certain phases it can be but there are difficult phases . I don't think I've ever met anyone who owns them and isn't ( sometimes ) frustrated. Over time they pay off ....... but your schedule will be interupted in the weirdest of ways.
Things will pop up that you just would never guess.
Hubby's late Grandma always made it sound like easy money. I hope everything is easily fixable!
carmen_b
11-09-2020, 08:41 PM
I actually found this guy at a sliding scale type of place / a lower cost clinic. Might be worth checking. :)
I'm glad you feel good about seeing him, carmen! That is awesome!
Sort of off topic, but is anyone else a fan of Dr. Kirk Honda (Psychology in Seattle)? I feel like anytime he talks about Darcy from 90 day Fiance, he's talking about me. lol I wish I had money for therapy out of pocket. Until then, YT shrinks it is!
kamiliam
11-10-2020, 01:24 AM
I'm glad you feel good about seeing him, carmen! That is awesome!
Sort of off topic, but is anyone else a fan of Dr. Kirk Honda (Psychology in Seattle)? I feel like anytime he talks about Darcy from 90 day Fiance, he's talking about me. lol I wish I had money for therapy out of pocket. Until then, YT shrinks it is!
huge fan! He really has some great resources to open people up to concepts that unfortunately they aren’t often exposed to.
carmen_b
11-10-2020, 11:08 AM
Moving on ..... lol. Handyman fixing the stupid door. Cleaners coming for that.
Moving on and on and on. Sell Sell Sell. Haha.
carmen_b
11-10-2020, 07:25 PM
Doesn’t it feel sometimes it takes SO much to not have your shit just fall apart ?
yaya_cash
11-11-2020, 11:58 AM
How crazy is this:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4500686/amp/John-McAfee-s-wife-opens-life-prostitute.html
https://youtu.be/bKgf5PaBzyg
AChildOfBoredom
11-11-2020, 01:41 PM
Honestly, I prefer working in the shop over days like this where I work at the equestrian center. People assume I’m a horse girl… yes, I ride every now and again, but you’d be out of your fucking mind to come to that conclusion. As many times as I’ve been bitten, kicked, run into, dragged around, had to fight with them to get them where they needed to be… then the owners of “Spooky” (the horse i birthed on Halloween two years ago) asked if I wanted to buy him because they thought I might have a “special connection”. I had to reach up in there - I mean, WAY up in there - to make sure he was turned in the right direction and get him turned, and that’s suppose to invoke some sort of particular fondness on my end? Somebody explain that thought process to me? Not to mention that little shithead pilfered my lunch on two separate occasions.
Elle:)
11-11-2020, 08:14 PM
I need a pack of cigarettes and a long nap.
moneybags
11-11-2020, 10:58 PM
I'm glad you feel good about seeing him, carmen! That is awesome!
Sort of off topic, but is anyone else a fan of Dr. Kirk Honda (Psychology in Seattle)? I feel like anytime he talks about Darcy from 90 day Fiance, he's talking about me. lol I wish I had money for therapy out of pocket. Until then, YT shrinks it is!
Pineapple does free therapy btw.
chanzep
11-12-2020, 10:59 AM
I'm not in the mood for work today I just want to lay here.
carmen_b
11-12-2020, 11:16 AM
Well if the clouds didn't part and J is now willing to do the therapy thing to discuss our main contention issue.
I didn't want to talk about the " main thing " without a therapist present but he was good in the conversation. We just started it ourselves.
It was cute because we have a big issue but he was like " are there any little things that are easier to fix and address to do now ? " .
I just told him I wanted more lingerie surprises ( because I've bought like 6 pieces since meeting him haha ) and he said no problem.
:)
chanzep
11-12-2020, 11:57 AM
thought my shower would wake me up no.
AChildOfBoredom
11-12-2020, 08:06 PM
The Amish girl and I were looking at photos, and so I showed her one of the first Thanksgiving she spent here, followed by one from two weeks ago, and she just now noticed that she has tone and definition in her arms and shoulders. So she’s absolutely dumbfounded about how that came to be, and I’m just like, “You’re a ramper at the airport… it’s a pretty labor intensive job…”
WendiStarr
11-13-2020, 01:52 PM
These past 2 days have been very frustrating. I keep thinking if it would be better for the kids and I just to move in to an extended stay hotel until we can find a new place.
whirlerz
11-13-2020, 02:06 PM
Good luck, Wendi, luv!
Thinking of you, praying for you
carmen_b
11-13-2020, 06:32 PM
I’m at one of the family rental properties just to have quiet for 2-3 hours , take bath , watch movie. Haha
indiegirl
11-13-2020, 06:36 PM
Bought a eucalyptus and spearmint candle from Bath & Body Works (totally was obsessed with my roommates candle and decided to buy one for my room LOL
naomi_doll
11-13-2020, 06:41 PM
Bought a eucalyptus and spearmint candle from Bath & Body Works (totally was obsessed with my roommates candle and decided to buy one for my room LOL
That sounds so good!
AChildOfBoredom
11-14-2020, 11:36 AM
Said about me n an email between a senior commercial tow tech and a new hire in an email where the “reply to all” button was accidentally pressed:
[name redacted]… when it comes to Copart picks from residentials, you need to figure out your level of courtesy. I won’t take them before 8 a.m. or 7 p.m. [my name], on the other hand… she’s done PPEs, she’s done repos. She doesn’t give a fuck. She’s picked them at 9, 10, 11 p.m. before. But if someone gets pissed off at her for it, she can convince them that she feels like the most horrible person in the world for doing it, and even have THEM apologizing to HER at the end of it. You’ve seen her. Between that and the way she can lay on the charm, we couldn’t pull that off.
I’m not bothered by it, but the supervisor was among those the email reached, and he forwarded it to HR, so I ended up with HR calling me and telling me I wanted to file a complaint, and I’m trying to explain to them, “no, he makes me out to be a little more ruthless than I think I am, but I’m not bothered by the email”.
whirlerz
11-14-2020, 12:44 PM
Bought a eucalyptus and spearmint candle from Bath & Body Works (totally was obsessed with my roommates candle and decided to buy one for my room LOL
I buy fresh eucalyptus all the time from Trader Joe's..then it just dries out, still keep it around
WendiStarr
11-14-2020, 06:15 PM
In the short amount of time it took me to wash my hair, baby managed to unravel almost an entire roll of toilet paper and cover it in drool. I need to hide the toilet paper up on a shelf next time.
yaya_cash
11-15-2020, 05:17 AM
Do guys prefer to have a girl that's ghetto or not used to the finer things in life, so that they can take advantage of her? I feel like guys don't like boogie entertainers or escorts that come from a upper class background because of this. True?
carmen_b
11-15-2020, 08:56 AM
^ I think with some weak men this is true but not everyone.
AChildOfBoredom
11-15-2020, 03:07 PM
I’m in a really weird place right now… not in reference to physical location. It’s a weird situation I can’t fully wrap ,y head around, but it’s not drastic life or death type stuff, either. Perhaps the universe will sort it out.
Sorting out Thanksgiving arrangements. The Grizz’s wife isn’t accustomed to not having a role in Thanksgiving, so we agree to let her do the desserts and I told her we can send a couple people to assist her if she’d like (least we can do after Grizz did the clutch in S’s car).
charlie61
11-15-2020, 03:25 PM
Do guys prefer to have a girl that's ghetto or not used to the finer things in life, so that they can take advantage of her? I feel like guys don't like boogie entertainers or escorts that come from a upper class background because of this. True?
My experience working in dives and mids was that super upscale women were often less popular because they came across like they had a bad attitude, thought they were better than their customers, or seemed unapproachable/standoffish/intimidating. I know that this vibe can really work well for some dancers, and can fit well in upscale clubs. But i would often run circles around these women by being an entertainer who was more casual, always had a big smile on my face, had a bit of an unrefined look (i honestly don't feel like i found my groove with makeup and whatnot until after i stopped dancing, lol). And some guys like the amateur look because it signals that you're newer to the industry, less jaded, lower hustle game, open to white knights, more naive, stuff like that. It's possible that some guys target "ghetto" women because they may think these women are more open to extras / less demanding when it comes to $$$, but i think the factors i mentioned may also be relevant, depending on the context.
moneybags
11-15-2020, 04:25 PM
^^^ It depends on what vibes with the customer. Most people like talking to people from similar backgrounds. Upscale men do not mind upscale women. Truly classy women don’t have bad attitudes. I do think guys like “trashier”-I’m saying that’s what guys call lower SES women. I wouldn’t call a lower class woman trash unless she was actually a cunt. Anyways, guys like lower class women because they think they can get more for less which says more about how trashy the customer is than it says about the girl. Men in general want to get away with as much as possible. I think actually classily guys who come to the club or cam scene cause they are too busy to date actually prefer upscale women. You get what you pay for. People with money want value and they don’t have a lack vibration where they are trying to con the models. They understand that you get what you pay for and won’t be deterred by a high price if it’s good service. So it says more about the customer than you is what I mean yaya cash. Just like a Luxe service it’s hard to maintain that kinda brand and not usually worth the effort in sex work. Guys are picky when it comes to pussy, so there no shame in catering to the average Joe.
Anyways my random thought, I did this procrastination sleep meditation and I woke up at
9 am and was productive all fricken day even though I was sleep deprived. I’m doing a wealth hypnosis tonight.
chanzep
11-15-2020, 04:36 PM
I think I'm mid or divey places the guys like to feel they are above you. I worked at some great dives and lived in a very expensive part of London. When mentioned it worked against me. In higher end club's they did not care as much . Sometimes guys would act like they didn't believe me! . When I said I was from the hood they would prefer it.
kamiliam
11-15-2020, 04:45 PM
I find at least when it comes to camming, that my background/education does make a large positive impact on entertaining mid to upper class white males over 45. Everyone else it looks bitchy which is 50/50 appealing to the other groups.
lynn2009
11-15-2020, 05:11 PM
It's crazy windy near me. Anyone else? Dog loved it but I rushed him inside, it was creeping me out.
charlie61
11-15-2020, 05:13 PM
It's crazy windy near me. Anyone else? Dog loved it but I rushed him inside, it was creeping me out.
I know what you mean... gusty winds can be extremely unsettling, both for humans and animals. Feels like a primal reaction.
Aurora_Sunset
11-15-2020, 06:06 PM
I always tell my husband I'll wait up for him to get home around midnight, but by 8:30, I wanna go to bed.
charlie61
11-15-2020, 07:15 PM
Y'all ever be posting on SW tipsy, and you have to edit your post like five times before it even starts making sense? That's where I'm at. I feel like I'm trolling this site at this point. Like I'm digging up old threads and oversharing. Cheers
chanzep
11-15-2020, 07:27 PM
He older threads are the best.