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indiegirl
01-21-2021, 12:04 PM
I always wonder in movies do they only get one take if they are destroying a building or house? That sounds pricey to do a retake.

SnuffleUffleGrass
01-21-2021, 01:03 PM
I always wonder in movies do they only get one take if they are destroying a building or house? That sounds pricey to do a retake.

CGI has eliminated the cost of wrecking sets for a take.

indiegirl
01-21-2021, 02:07 PM
CGI has eliminated the cost of wrecking sets for a take.

They make it so realistic then. I don't even notice.

SnuffleUffleGrass
01-21-2021, 04:00 PM
They make it so realistic then. I don't even notice.

There's plenty of videos about this topic on You Tube. Production companies like Lucasfilm innovated the use of tech to simulate real life explosions and messes, back in the day sets had to be built and destroyed.


Random thought- I should pray a little bit tonight....

Elektra Luxx
01-21-2021, 04:07 PM
You know the honeymoon is over bf does gross things and expects a kiss from you.

carmen_b
01-21-2021, 04:16 PM
^ Haha ;/

carmen_b
01-21-2021, 04:17 PM
Well my dude *claims* he didn't have a huge interest in kink but is " open to whatever I want " to do. :)

Well then explain the hour long boner when I was wearing my all black pleather and fishnet outfit around the house last night. Lol

For the curious minds who wants to know YES I did get bent over and spanked a good one among other fun times. hhahaha

indiegirl
01-22-2021, 07:02 AM
Hahaha this is the future of gender reveal parties

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Te2P7l0KNqk

I'm legit dying from this video below. He's selling his used flip flops to a man and zip loc bagged them apparently for a guy who was posing as having a foot fetish. If any of you have a boyfriend not bringing enough money to the table, this would be a way he could make some extra cash on craigslist hahahaha.

https://youtu.be/s4JQl_JZH10?t=134

WendiStarr
01-22-2021, 08:19 AM
^ Yeah, those foot fetish Craigslist dudes seriously will buy that shit. One time I listed an ex's clothes he had left at my place there. I sold some old ratty gym shoes that an ex left here to one such weirdo. The guy acted like it was cocaine or something and kept messaging me to ask if I had any more smelly shoes. People are strange.

indiegirl
01-22-2021, 10:39 AM
^ Yeah, those foot fetish Craigslist dudes seriously will buy that shit. One time I listed an ex's clothes he had left at my place there. I sold some old ratty gym shoes that an ex left here to one such weirdo. The guy acted like it was cocaine or something and kept messaging me to ask if I had any more smelly shoes. People are strange.

Love that you sold his things hahaha.

I thought it was just a used panty thing. Didn't know people are sniffing shoes. Had a customer who was into licking/sniffing armpits in the past. I wonder if they buy up sweaty BO shirts too?

Whatever floats their boat :P.

carmen_b
01-22-2021, 12:34 PM
Bleh

Covid test in 5....

carmen_b
01-22-2021, 12:34 PM
^^ I’ve got stinker panties and shoes lol

I do want a trip to the mall ....

Genoveve
01-22-2021, 01:40 PM
Cutie101's spreadsheet she posted in the Accountability Support thread with the different colored ink made me think about brown ink; I have never had or seen anyone use a pen with brown ink. It exists though and I think it's really pretty and am definitely gonna hunt some down the next time I need new pens:

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chanzep
01-22-2021, 08:00 PM
So bored smh.

carmen_b
01-23-2021, 08:40 AM
Negative Covid test !!

My parents were visiting and I felt sick so had to be sure.

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 08:52 AM
Who has ever used bing.com??? Dunno why I was suggested it.

JessaJade
01-23-2021, 11:40 AM
So bored smh.

Staying positive feels like a battle right now. Lockdown in the UK is making life unbearable, it's really getting to me.

LoveyDovey
01-23-2021, 11:49 AM
Why do people bother getting married anymore?

lilylilylily
01-23-2021, 02:01 PM
I just accidentally liked a post of an old friend I've been stalking on FB. I unliked it as soon as I realized I did it. I hope she doesn't get notified. I've been wanting to contact her for a while but dont have the guts since we haven't spoken in years. I ended the friendship cuz she was a very over bearing friend amongst other things but she seems to be more mellow and happy now but for some reason I haven't been able to say hi

chanzep
01-23-2021, 02:04 PM
Staying positive feels like a battle right now. Lockdown in the UK is making life unbearable, it's really getting to me.

I have been talking to my friends and family there. Everyone
Is fed up. All my friends are on clubhouse all the time.
Texas is still open but it's not really safe to try and be normal.

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 02:17 PM
Had to call mom up and announce that it's raining. California!! Obviously she knew but I was too excited. We both love the rain.

Apparently it's supposed to be on and off rain throughout the rest of the week. I'm so set for rain! :)

WendiStarr
01-23-2021, 03:54 PM
Why do people bother getting married anymore?

All I can figure is for health insurance benefits, life insurance payout, trust fund money, or to try to appear to be heterosexual when one is homosexual or lesbian and has a conservative, bible thumper family.

Elektra Luxx
01-23-2021, 04:10 PM
I have been talking to my friends and family there. Everyone
Is fed up. All my friends are on clubhouse all the time.
Texas is still open but it's not really safe to try and be normal.

I'm in Texas. A friend of mine suspected she had covid and went to the hospital and tested positive. They told her that she should be hospitalized, but they didn't have any rooms available. So they just sent her home with meds. That's really scary.

charlie61
01-23-2021, 04:50 PM
Why do people bother getting married anymore?

It's a good question. I think there are benefits if one spouse makes significantly more than the other spouse: it lowers the higher earner's average income, i believe. Aside from that, I'm perplexed by the institution. I think getting married is one of the least romantic things you can do in a relationship. I want to know that my partner chooses to be with me every day because they want to be with me, not because they committed to being with me once X number of years ago. I want my partner to feel like they could leave if they needed to, without jumping through any hoops. I want to know that if they're still here, it's because they want to be here. But i know everyone is different in this respect...

LoveyDovey
01-23-2021, 06:45 PM
I appreciate these perspectives on marriage. I watch these wedding shows, like four weddings, where they list the cost of their wedding. All I can think of is, why are you doing this? Why not take that money you're throwing away on a wedding and sock it away in case he winds up cheating on you? I mean at this point my life I know how men are. Why on Earth would I legally want to tie myself to someone who's probably going to piss me off by being a selfish cheating liar who only values his own needs anyway? I mean, I could see if he is able to provide a lifestyle for you, but even then you're most likely going to be held subservient and he'll try to control you. Am I the only one who sees the value of remaining independent? I mean unless you're a gold digger or something it doesn't make much sense. I don't know many happily married people at all. I literally scream of the TV save your money! Use it for your Escape fund!

Maybe I'm just jaded, but...yeah. It just seems like a terrifying thing to do, considering what I've seen from so many men.

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 07:05 PM
I'm in Texas. A friend of mine suspected she had covid and went to the hospital and tested positive. They told her that she should be hospitalized, but they didn't have any rooms available. So they just sent her home with meds. That's really scary.

I'd show up with my inflatable mattress from the garage. "No worries!" LOL.

Some people have even gotten covid twice.

Elektra Luxx
01-23-2021, 08:51 PM
I'd show up with my inflatable mattress from the garage. "No worries!" LOL.

Some people have even gotten covid twice.

I feel the same way. I had to go to the emergency room recently and while I was been treated I was kept in the in a bed in the ER's hallway. It's been a serious situation and it's getting worse.

indiegirl
01-23-2021, 08:55 PM
I feel the same way. I had to go to the emergency room recently and while I was been treated I was kept in the in a bed in the ER's hallway. It's been a serious situation and it's getting worse.

Scary times for sure :(! Feels like covid is getting worse right after the holidays? Covid is horrible in LA County.

JGB2009
01-23-2021, 09:18 PM
I wish I could be perky and wanna do everything that has to be done. Its so hard to motivate myself.

lynn2009
01-23-2021, 11:11 PM
That sounds really pretty, what kind of process does one have to do for the paint to be unable to be scraped/damaged?

We didn't do anything special. Two coats of paint. I got good quality paint at a really good price because my friend has a contractor discount at Sherwin Williams.

Aurora_Sunset
01-24-2021, 02:53 PM
I watched a video the other day of people dying their hair with kool aid and it all came out so pretty. I really want to try it, especially now that my hair is ALL my natural color for the first time in years, so it would take dye well. I've always wanted to do bold colors with my hair, but never had the balls. I always blamed it on me having customer-centric jobs, but I have literally no excuse anymore... except my own insecurity.

Genoveve
01-24-2021, 03:04 PM
^^^I love the hidden rainbow hair: :trip:

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https://www.instagram.com/p/CDMR02FqUpV/?utm_source=ig_embed

SnuffleUffleGrass
01-24-2021, 03:12 PM
I watched a video the other day of people dying their hair with kool aid and it all came out so pretty. I really want to try it, especially now that my hair is ALL my natural color for the first time in years, so it would take dye well. I've always wanted to do bold colors with my hair, but never had the balls. I always blamed it on me having customer-centric jobs, but I have literally no excuse anymore... except my own insecurity.

The boring answer is- for most people, re-coloring their hair "Crayon Colors" is messy and expensive. Artificial pigments don't adhere to the hair like the colors found in more natural pigment.

If you can deal with stripping out all your natural hair color and maintain the new Kool Aid or Crayola-style hair color, by all means do it.

Random thought- having an air fryer sure is nice.

Genoveve
01-24-2021, 03:30 PM
Random thought- having an air fryer sure is nice.

I love air fryer memes:

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indiegirl
01-24-2021, 03:52 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1QhYHBdAw64

"I accidentally went on a gay date"

LOLLLLL. I'm dead. Too funny. I was dancing with another female who showed up to dance with me in a normal dance club and the red flags were being set up like...I had to excuse myself. lol. Nothing wrong with being like it. Don't they have lesbian/gay clubs?

lynn2009
01-25-2021, 10:40 AM
I really hope at some point the political posts ban is actually enforced again.

carmen_b
01-25-2021, 11:12 AM
I hate it when I get into a phase of neglecting myself !
I'M CHANGING it this week starting with a Pedi today and massage tomorrow !
WHY even work so hard if treats are not involved ? ! ?

carmen_b
01-25-2021, 11:46 AM
Is there nothing open like coffee places to sit down or library ect. ?

Things in my area are open but my partner gets into paranoid phases and won't go out so I end up doing a lot solo.


Staying positive feels like a battle right now. Lockdown in the UK is making life unbearable, it's really getting to me.

carmen_b
01-25-2021, 12:41 PM
^ Maintaining your body in winter is SO much harder than seasons where it's as easy as getting out for quick run / hike. Ugh !

WendiStarr
01-25-2021, 12:42 PM
^^ Are you underweight? I had that problem before kids. Add some Ensure protein drinks in. Now one of my daughters has that problem. You can also add things like almond or cashew butter, avocado, cheese, sweet potato, mashed potatoes with butter because they add fats and can help you gain weight. I give her oatmeal with cashew butter in it but mornings when she's not interested in eating, I just give her one of those shakes to drink.

AChildOfBoredom
01-25-2021, 01:32 PM
Random thought- having an air fryer sure is nice.

They’re very expedient. I tried avoiding them, because I figured they were a fad and I don’t like fads, but then it seemed as if the universe went against me on that one. First, it was my old roommate. He actually can cook, but a limited selection. About the last person I would’ve expected to strike up a conversation about kitchen appliances, let alone actually be excited about it. Then my parents bought one. Then S’s girlfriend brought her parents’ air fryer over and I was sold once I got to get hands on with it and use one for myself. The capacity is a bit limited, but I’m seeing now they’re making a full sized air frying oven.

The girl I did the photo shoot with is trying to tell me I need to grow my IG following. She has a lot of followers on IG and I’m assuming TikTok… I never looked at her TikTok account. And I really don’t have time or inclination for it, though if anything about invokes my envy a little, she does get a fair amount of free clothes and such. And it often gets tailored for her, which is what gets my attention the most, because my measurements aren’t the most accommodated out there.

SnuffleUffleGrass
01-25-2021, 02:02 PM
They’re very expedient. I tried avoiding them, because I figured they were a fad and I don’t like fads, but then it seemed as if the universe went against me on that one. First, it was my old roommate. He actually can cook, but a limited selection. About the last person I would’ve expected to strike up a conversation about kitchen appliances, let alone actually be excited about it. Then my parents bought one. Then S’s girlfriend brought her parents’ air fryer over and I was sold once I got to get hands on with it and use one for myself. The capacity is a bit limited, but I’m seeing now they’re making a full sized air frying oven.

The girl I did the photo shoot with is trying to tell me I need to grow my IG following. She has a lot of followers on IG and I’m assuming TikTok… I never looked at her TikTok account. And I really don’t have time or inclination for it, though if anything about invokes my envy a little, she does get a fair amount of free clothes and such. And it often gets tailored for her, which is what gets my attention the most, because my measurements aren’t the most accommodated out there.

My boyfriend is the one who insisted on getting an air fryer. I think it's a tech marvel. I'm always gonna prefer cooking in the oven.

My boss gets free clothing from his IG account following! I think that's nuts. But good for him.

& Yeah being petite and curvy is a clothing shopping headache.

chanzep
01-25-2021, 02:02 PM
I love my air fryer it's so easy. Great for when I can't be bothered to cook. Also a cheaper way to get junk food fix. I buy frozen stuff. Much cheaper than the takeout I was getting.

JGB2009
01-25-2021, 04:52 PM
I know you are aware that my post are aimed toward you on social media. LOL funny how you seem to be blind and know nothing. LOL oh well.....

lilylilylily
01-25-2021, 07:07 PM
I hate that even if I block someone on my phone I still get notified that they contacted me and their texts go to a separate folder.Makes me not bother to block people even though I know I should

carmen_b
01-25-2021, 09:13 PM
^ There HAS to be some sort of setting for it. I have blocked so many people. My phone has never done that.

Try the phone store and a setting change !

YES ... what is the point. You want to FORGET entirely hahahah .

carmen_b
01-25-2021, 09:16 PM
Winter is really getting me lately.

First ...... it snows today in the damn desert.

Then ....... these weird memories of good times with my ex come up. Like ...... I swear for about TWO YEARS ( Dec. 2018 to Dec. 2020 ) I did NOT have memory recall about anything good that happened with us. Now I am thinking of us in Hawaii with our floating lounger chairs out in the ocean and another memory " pop " was our movie binges in the phase where movie pass had just come out.
Maybe it was survival related. His betrayal was SO hard on me that over the last two years I was just like " I am not even sure why I ever cared about him " . I just kept moving on and looking forward. I remember so vividly his verbal attacking ( emotional abuse to the point I was not comfy in my home ) BUT that was probably in retaliation to my dismissive attitude. When he wouldn't travel with me extensively I took I a " eh I just wish you would go away " type of vibe I'm SURE even though at the time I thought I was hiding it well.

JGB2009
01-26-2021, 10:14 AM
Jackson on Grey's Anatomy could so be my boyfriend!!!!!

indiegirl
01-26-2021, 12:35 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jIIEwTpSBAw

Cute as everrrr lol

JessaJade
01-26-2021, 03:29 PM
Is there nothing open like coffee places to sit down or library ect. ?

Things in my area are open but my partner gets into paranoid phases and won't go out so I end up doing a lot solo.

No, only for takeaway 😔