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LoveyDovey
02-22-2021, 08:17 PM
OK, I'm officially a nasty b.
Sent guy upstairs, a pic of me licking a giant icicle
Yesss! Get it girl!!
I sent my guy a video of my fingers rubbing my privates and he said it made his day.
carmen_b
02-22-2021, 08:25 PM
^ Damn y'all are inspiring !
My tech savvy guy wants me to only send naughty stuff over an app called signal hahaha. He feels like just sending phone to phone saves it somehow ?
I don't know . I figure if it saves it somewhere it's in a sea of billion photos so who really cares.
AChildOfBoredom
02-22-2021, 09:02 PM
A couple of the guys from my ‘FIL’s’ VFW chapter saw me at Food Lion today, recognized me, and struck up a conversation with me. And it’s always awkward for me. Between my veteran status and my manner of dress, they have this idea that I’m one of them (though, it’s not exactly a secret to any of us that the VFW is a good old boys club, and me having bobs and vagene ensures I’d never fit in), so they’re out and about, driving their pickups plastered with ‘witty’ anti-Obama and Clinton stickers (still), “proud member of the vast right wing”, etc. And there I am, wanting to abolish the state.
whirlerz
02-22-2021, 11:12 PM
^ Yessssssss hahahaha.
Damn girl you've been after that ride forever . I hope it's worth it if you finally hop on lol.
Lmao.
This other room (he works for a restaurant). Brought a large pizza to share, I wanted to let him know that, so I texted him. He's like, oh, OK thanks for letting me know..
Then, I just casually sent him that pic:pickle::rotfl:
Elle:)
02-22-2021, 11:13 PM
I can never catch a break somehow ... I just need a miracle
indiegirl
02-22-2021, 11:35 PM
I used to think people in the music business were selfish during this pandemic for wanting to make/release songs. I am sooooo done listening to the same songs!!! Please continue your job. Doesn't matter if there is a music video at this point lol. I need a banger song.
moneybags
02-22-2021, 11:49 PM
^^^ This is one of my favorite pandemic songs. I was thinking more artist would produce more music with so much free time, but I suppose maybe the pandemic has made it harder? I kinda feel in times of crisis it’s an artist job to express what we all are collectively feeling. I haven’t seen a lot artist latelt
doing that.
https://youtu.be/EosMazKaPbU
Genoveve
02-23-2021, 01:55 PM
I had to activate my super elderly(no clue how old he is but my landlady is around 100 and he looks way older) neighbor's prepaid flip phone today, it felt good to hold a flip phone again. So many memories LOL.
charlie61
02-23-2021, 04:44 PM
Girllll I cringe when you bring up unwashed ass. Some guys say they just showered after sitting through traffic because they want their full time and they have a rimming fetish. The stink is unreal. It's always the same putrid scent. *Puke*...please clean men.
Okay, i don't understand AT ALL how someone could enjoy being rimmed unless they knew they were squeaky clean. Am i just a prude? Okay, yeah, i am definitely a bit too uptight, as i wouldn't even feel comfortable receiving oral if i hadn't showered within a couple of hours. But still, i can't believe a dude could enjoy being with an escort if he were unclean. I would feel soooooo terrible putting someone else through that.
WendiStarr
02-23-2021, 06:16 PM
^ I think it's some kind of gross fetish that they have of humiliating a woman/sex worker and/or a way for them to feel superior than you, by trying to get you to do degrading things like that. Some of the loser Dom guys are in to that crap.
charlie61
02-23-2021, 06:55 PM
^ I think it's some kind of gross fetish that they have of humiliating a woman/sex worker and/or a way for them to feel superior than you, by trying to get you to do degrading things like that. Some of the loser Dom guys are in to that crap.
True. And i think a lot of guys don't even question it or think about it - either because they wouldn't mind licking someone else's dirty hole, or because they can't admit to themselves that they're going to see an escort, so preparing for the experience would be cognitively dissonant.
indiegirl
02-24-2021, 05:32 AM
I'm finally watching Good Girls and it's entertaining. I dunno why I held off watching it.
LoveyDovey
02-24-2021, 05:38 AM
Okay, i don't understand AT ALL how someone could enjoy being rimmed unless they knew they were squeaky clean. Am i just a prude? Okay, yeah, i am definitely a bit too uptight, as i wouldn't even feel comfortable receiving oral if i hadn't showered within a couple of hours. But still, i can't believe a dude could enjoy being with an escort if he were unclean. I would feel soooooo terrible putting someone else through that.
Even if I go to the doctor or get a (vanilla) massage I take a shower beforehand out of consideration. But men don't do this because men.
carmen_b
02-24-2021, 11:32 AM
I want be fully honest with my partner about some things such as sex work past.
It's a very scary reveal ( I have had really bad experiences telling people ).
I had such issues that for about a year I went with a " just don't talk about it " attitude .
Another " maybe " item to talk about is that I have to move out of that rented room in 2-4 days.
I booked myself in at the AirBnB's on days I won't be at his place in the next 10 days as a pre-caution in case I decide not to say anything about either one and give myself time to think . :/
I think the best thing to do is borrow against my property up north to buy down here .
What I REALLY want to do is take a good chunk " out " of the one up north so I can have payments covered on the new one for 2-4 years. I need to meet with a mortgage person about this. I know people do it. I just want to know exact costs and process.
Has anyone here done this ? ^^
I try to stay off the listings because I think I'll have my real estate license in 11 days. I'm THAT close.
I don't want to go look at a condo and have someone else get the commission on the transaction .
Emotionally ..... it's just a can of worms. I don't think anyone pictures themselves being with someone 11 months and then feeling a real need to get a separate property .
I feel a real push to do this though because I HATE renting. I can not picture myself signing a lease and paying $1100-$1400 for a place to be 7-10 days a month ( I'm at his 5 days a week roughly and travel a few days a month). I barely used the room I rented in Feb.
carmen_b
02-24-2021, 11:37 AM
^ Part of me wants to get a small strip of land , a tiny house, and goats lol.
Out of convenience though I'll probably just get a condo haha unless I find someone selling the description above as a " bundle ".
I imagine those odds are pretty low .
charlie61
02-24-2021, 04:49 PM
I want be fully honest with my partner about some things such as sex work past. I don't know .... I have just been feeling so paranoid lately .
It's a very scary reveal ( I have had really bad experiences telling people ).
I had such issues that for about a year I went with a " just don't talk about it " attitude but now I feel like I kind of need to reveal it .
Another " maybe " item to talk about is that I have to move out of that rented room in 2-4 days.
I booked myself in at the AirBnB's on days I won't be at his place in the next 10 days as a pre-caution in case I decide not to say anything about either one and give myself time to think . :/
I think the best thing to do is borrow against my property up north to buy down here .
What I REALLY want to do is take a good chunk " out " of the one up north so I can have payments covered on the new one for 2-4 years. I need to meet with a mortgage person about this. I know people do it. I just want to know exact costs and process.
Has anyone here done this ? ^^
Financially I don't think it's a bad move at all. I try to stay off the listings because I think I'll have my real estate license in 11 days. I'm THAT close. I don't want to go look at a condo and have someone else get the commission on the transaction .
Emotionally ..... it's just a can of worms. I don't think anyone pictures themselves being with someone 11 months and then feeling a real need to get a separate property .
I feel a real push to do this though because I HATE renting. I can not picture myself signing a lease and paying $1100-$1400 for a place to be 7-10 days a month ( I'm at his 5 days a week roughly and travel a few days a month). I barely used the room I rented in Feb.
Totally get this, and agreed- this is why my partner and i moved in together. I don't think i was 100% ready to move in, as I'd gotten divorced fairly recently, but he and i had been dating for about a year, and i was faced with the end of a lease, where rent without utilities on my tiny 1br/1ba was going up to $1300 or something. So we went for it.
I do think it's smart that you want to talk sex work soon. Like you said, you never know how he'll react, and this is part of your present, not just your past - i saw you were considering dancing for a bit of pocket change sometime soon...
carmen_b
02-24-2021, 05:04 PM
^ That research was done more in terms of “ if I left “.
I could take it or leave it.
I might reveal it tonight. At the ski lodge.
I mean he nearly worked for an adult site himself.
But you know how men can be ( double standards and such ).
carmen_b
02-24-2021, 05:10 PM
It will explain SO much about my personality !
I’m obsessed with not getting my time wasted , friendly but efficient haha, and just carry SO many other traits that might “click“ !
Plus I still work in full commission sales .
I learned so much from sex work. Leaving it from conversations definitely leaves this valuable experience out.
charlie61
02-24-2021, 05:27 PM
I think it’s more about that it will explain SO much about my personality !
I’m obsessed with not getting my time wasted , friendly but efficient haha, and just carry SO many other traits that might “click“ into a “ oh I get it now “ type of moment ! Plus I still work in full commission sales . I don’t know. I learned so much from sex work. Leaving it from conversations definitely leaves this valuable experience out.
I feel the same way about my experience in sex work. I told my partner about it the first night we hung out outside of work. And we've been together for over three years, but things still get awkward if i bring up my experience. He's trying, and it'll get better with time, but it's really hard for him to think of me in those settings and talking to those people. And i can understand why. He was cool with it before he fell in love with me - but if you love someone, it's hard (for a lot of people) to imagine your partner in situations like that.
WendiStarr
02-25-2021, 08:28 AM
I got excited when I saw a woman speaker in my online class, thinking I'd finally found my unicorn cyber security woman to look up to. Come to find out that she's only a project manager and any field-related questions were met with a blank look and,"Oh, I don't know or do any of that tech stuff", followed by a half hour autobiography about how she got her Bachelor's degree in management, worked as a retail manager for 7 years before landing her current job, etc. I'm not knocking any project manager job, I just thought it would've been awesome to hear from a woman with actual knowledge and experience in cyber security.
carmen_b
02-25-2021, 12:32 PM
I moved forward today speaking to a Mortgage person about pulling some of that equity out my other property to get into position to buy in the desert.
I want my financing in place in 9-10 days so that in case I see anything I like I can make an offer in about two weeks.
I might make another thread about this but if anyone has " leveraged " one property to buy another I'd love to hear what you did with yours and if you were happy with the choice. Not all of the equity in it would be taken out ...... more like half of it . I am most interested in just having the payments for the next 2-4 years fully covered by what I take out . I think doing this is possible . I am a little overwhelmed by how to start it.
indiegirl
02-25-2021, 08:34 PM
https://youtu.be/7cHJ8xaGmMg?t=40
I'm randomly watching an episode from Nickelodeon back in the "olden days" on Legends of the Hidden Temple show. I was so into this show hahaha. Oh god, TV feels so different nowadays. Loving this haha.
LoveyDovey
02-26-2021, 08:01 AM
Since we're on page 420 of this thread...
I need edibles so bad.
carmen_b
02-26-2021, 01:17 PM
^ Good luck :)
carmen_b
02-26-2021, 01:18 PM
The clouds parted and I have three hours for self care haha!
I’ve been in the bath for 45 min and headed for a pedi next.
Omg! :)
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-26-2021, 01:35 PM
Yet another weird day at work. I'm happy with my day job though.
indiegirl
02-26-2021, 10:10 PM
Good grief I napped it out when I got back to my hotel after going grocery shopping and feeding the dogs. I just woke up in time for the late night Friday clients. *crosses fingers*
Also I'm finally bringing my laptop to appointments. It took me a longgggg time to start bringing it to appointments after damaging the last one. Sooo much easier to communicate with clients now that I have it.
moneybags
02-27-2021, 12:06 AM
@Carmen. Dating a sex worker is hitting the jackpot. If guys only knew what they we’re missing out on cause they are insecure
indiegirl
02-27-2021, 08:00 AM
I feel like the most narcissistic celebs/influencers always end up being the ones with framed photos of just themselves all over their house. hahahaha. I don't want photos of me around my house LOLLL. I don't understand that mentality.
carmen_b
02-27-2021, 09:18 AM
Right ?!?
In the same way chefs probably feel entitled to great meals and dining experiences everywhere I feel like sex workers are 100% entitled to the best sex lives possible.
Ha. What partner wouldn’t benefit from that ?
@Carmen. Dating a sex worker is hitting the jackpot. If guys only knew what they we’re missing out on cause they are insecure ��
Genoveve
02-27-2021, 12:44 PM
https://youtu.be/7cHJ8xaGmMg?t=40
I'm randomly watching an episode from Nickelodeon back in the "olden days" on Legends of the Hidden Temple show. I was so into this show hahaha. Oh god, TV feels so different nowadays. Loving this haha.
My bank always reminds me of that show because it has lights out front that look like these ones did:
54214
(I think those things lit up)
carmen_b
02-28-2021, 07:34 AM
I did end up disclosing sex work stuff last night.
It went really well. Hopefully it will “ settle “ well !
:)
I feel like he “ got it “ right away. He even referenced something about “ more money in less time “ talking about it all.
THRILLED to not hold that secret anymore haha!
I have a feeling it will continue to go well.
You just never fully KNOW until some time has passed.
miss.a.p1600
02-28-2021, 02:12 PM
@Carmen. Dating a sex worker is hitting the jackpot. If guys only knew what they we’re missing out on cause they are insecure ��
Fragile male ego
indiegirl
02-28-2021, 04:42 PM
Anyone know of any good youtube channels that play top 100 playlists that are recent pop/billboard songs?
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-02-2021, 03:02 PM
That bagel was so delicious.
whirlerz
03-02-2021, 03:10 PM
Anyone know of any good youtube channels that play top 100 playlists that are recent pop/billboard songs?
I just search around , when I find something I like, there's a like thumb up &adds to playlist.
I have a bunch of playlists, one for music, & 1 for favorite movie scenes. :)
Genoveve
03-02-2021, 07:11 PM
I just watched Get Out for the first time the other day and Jesus and the Black Messiah. I liked them both but I wish JatBM was longer, although since Fred Hampton was ONLY.21. when he was murdered I guess they could only make it so long. Daniel Kaluuya is a really good actor.
Speaking of the Black Panthers though, I remember back when the Black Panther Marvel movie was being made I kept hearing all the buzz about it and thought that it was gonna be a historical movie about the actual Black Panther Party and wanted to see it until I saw it was actually a superhero movie. I'm not into superhero movies but I love historical dramas.
lynn2009
03-02-2021, 10:20 PM
What do people think about no soliciting signs? Tacky?
LoveyDovey
03-02-2021, 10:34 PM
What do people think about no soliciting signs? Tacky?
I don't mind then as long as they look cute. You can pair it with one of those "Go Away" doormats lol. Heck I could use one of those!
lilylilylily
03-02-2021, 11:43 PM
I bought my first pair of reading glasses and they work wonders lol. I know when I got my laser eye surgery years ago, they told me I'd need them eventually
Elektra Luxx
03-03-2021, 04:58 AM
What do people think about no soliciting signs? Tacky?
It's not tacky as long as it's not a standalone sign in the middle of your front yard. I wonder if it would keep the Jehovas away too?
lynn2009
03-04-2021, 08:41 AM
.........
JGB2009
03-04-2021, 09:03 AM
I miss having a best friend. I miss talking about anything and everything with someone.
Staci
03-04-2021, 01:50 PM
Our governor rescinded the mask mandate and opened up all businesses 100%. Why both at the same time??
AChildOfBoredom
03-04-2021, 07:45 PM
Two things:
1: I seem to have a sort of pseudo celebrity status in the local towing and recovery industry
2: I always end up getting calendars of scantily clad or naked/half naked women
I went to Costco today, to shop and also because I’d gotten a nail in one of my tires. The Amish girl and my sister were with me. At the end of it, there was a tow truck lining up on a car in the parking lot, so I went to check it out after putting everything in the car. So the tow operator is hooking to the car, and I grabbed my flashlight out of my purse and shined it to help him see, and when he started winching it onto the bed, I opened the drivers door and walked beside it as I steered it for him. It’s just instinctive… there’s a bit of a brotherhood in this industry. So I put it in park, turn it off, and step off the bed, and he says, “Thank you, (my name)”. So I ask him if we’d met before, and he says, “No, but it was easy enough figuring out who you are. Every tow company knows your name”. And we chat for a bit while he secures the car and raises the bed, then he reaches in the truck and hands me this calendar. And it’s a bunch of women in lingerie posing with tow trucks. And he tells me, “We hire models and have them do these photo shoots every year. They’re not the real deal, though. You are”. Well, I suppose I’ll hang the calendar in my garage.
indiegirl
03-04-2021, 07:49 PM
Our governor rescinded the mask mandate and opened up all businesses 100%. Why both at the same time??
Isn't this no mask policy for Texas only or something? I heard something about it on youtube.
Anyways, I was super pumped to have a nice salad and add nori seaweed in it at my hotel. They said they were throwing all the salad out because it reached the sell-by date so I could not purchase it. I wound up eating a lean cuisine that they sell which I have in full stock at home bahahaha. I was so bummed! That salad looked good :P.
Staci
03-04-2021, 08:49 PM
Isn't this no mask policy for Texas only or something? I heard something about it on youtube.
I'm in Texas, but I think a few other states have a no mask policy as well.
I feel sorry for the people who work in the public sector and have to be in contact with all the mask-less people. At least as a PSO, I work from home and can avoid that.
lynn2009
03-04-2021, 11:29 PM
I saw a social media post calling women, womxn and this is a new one to me.
LoveyDovey
03-04-2021, 11:35 PM
I really like the Bird's Eye veggie pasta. It is made from zucchini and lentils, not real pasta. Fills me up and it's yummy.
JGB2009
03-05-2021, 10:53 AM
I really like the Bird's Eye veggie pasta. It is made from zucchini and lentils, not real pasta. Fills me up and it's yummy.
LOL I'm interested....I am gonna put that on my grocery list today.