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indiegirl
03-05-2021, 10:59 AM
This place below sounds amazing to visit. I've always wanted to try a detox mud bath. If I ever get married, we're going here once! Apparently they have fire and ice stone massage too? Never heard of it. I dunno it all sounds so relaxing reading their menu online lol.
https://drwilkinson.com/spa
I miss that feeling after finishing a massage sitting in a fluffy robe at a spa drinking cold water in a comfy chair :P.
indiegirl
03-05-2021, 11:50 AM
I don't mind then as long as they look cute. You can pair it with one of those "Go Away" doormats lol. Heck I could use one of those!
https://i.ibb.co/S00G1Ct/Screen-Shot-2021-03-05-at-10-48-31-AM.png (https://imgbb.com/)
This is more my style nowadays. I hate solicitors. Bahaha
carmen_b
03-05-2021, 01:44 PM
Omg. I'm SO bored. I'm just dying for a road trip or some sort of excursion ! :/
LoveyDovey
03-05-2021, 02:55 PM
https://i.ibb.co/S00G1Ct/Screen-Shot-2021-03-05-at-10-48-31-AM.png (https://imgbb.com/)
This is more my style nowadays. I hate solicitors. Bahaha
Omg I love it!
@JGB get the kind with the marinara sauce. It's almost the same consistency as real pasta, but it's still good. I like it and it fills me up. It's in the freezer section with the frozen veggies. Yum yum!
carmen_b
03-05-2021, 03:35 PM
J and I are vacinated ( first dose two days ago ) and he claims he will be acting much more normal in about 12-13 days. I hope so.
We don't have overt fights about covid things. He is just much more cautious than me .
carmen_b
03-05-2021, 03:40 PM
^ Speaking of this ...... he CLAIMS to not care if I go dance ( most likely Vegas since it's good for easy trips ) .
I wonder if that will REALLY be the case.
I was explaining to him that the hardest thing for me is staying up late ! I would hope to work from like 5 - 11 p.m. ! Lol.
It's odd to be talking openly about this stuff . I have been depressed the last few weeks and my libido has really taken a nose dive. :/
I'm feeling that " turn " where I feel like I'm getting better .
lurkingtitties
03-05-2021, 03:42 PM
J and I are vacinated and he claims he will be acting much more normal in about 12-13 days. I hope so.
We don't have overt fights about covid things. He is just much more cautious than me .
Now that I've been vaccinated for a minute I'm starting to get impatient about some of the extreme covid precautions. Like why are all the public libraries still closed to the public? That's such a low risk activity especially with reduced capacity...etc etc that one is just a particular pet peeve of mine.
carmen_b
03-05-2021, 03:46 PM
^ In my area everywhere is open. That is weird about libraries !
I wanted to book as a nice room at this Vegas resort for next Thursday but he seemed hesitant so I dropped it hahaha.
I am often just too busy to fight him on this weirdness . When I get *really* desperate for an outing I'll just be like " I booked as a table at xyz for 4 p.m. " !
I just wasn't that organized this week I guess.
lurkingtitties
03-05-2021, 04:00 PM
It’s so annoying! Pretty much the whole northeast is still super strict about it. It’s why I moved back here last summer(no offense but it made me hella uncomfortable how ppl out West weren’t taking the situation seriously at all, and look how bad things got out there in the fall/holiday season as a result)...but yo I think it’s time to start taking baby steps toward normalcy.
lurkingtitties
03-05-2021, 04:05 PM
I’m also annoyed because my dog has to go to the vet next week and I still can’t go inside with him. Can’t we change the rules so ppl can show a photo of their vaccine card to be allowed inside??? Grrr haha
LoveyDovey
03-05-2021, 08:52 PM
This follower I have on Twitter keeps pushing me to create an onlyfans account. I told him no because if my 19 year old son logs on and finds me on there, it could create some issues. This ding dong is telling me that there was one mom who made a million dollars last year. I tried to explain how a lot of sex workers inflate their numbers. It's the ones who are quiet about their numbers are the ones who bank. I mean does anyone here really make that much doing cam??? Because all I hear is how cheap the men are.
AChildOfBoredom
03-05-2021, 10:31 PM
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/8b/42/13/8b4213239b16267a9270173e2cf59bb6.jpg
I have this one.
LoveyDovey
03-05-2021, 10:49 PM
^^That is a good one!
I just ate beets with goat cheese crumbles and it was damn good.
indiegirl
03-05-2021, 11:05 PM
Mehhhh some guy asked if I wanted to do onlyfans and chaturbate with him. Girl, I dunno. Sounds like he gets free sex if he's contacting me on my escort page.
lurkingtitties
03-06-2021, 05:24 AM
My goal for the weekend is to spruce up my resume and submit it to some travel staffing agencies. The area I’m in right now makes me feel depressed AF. Now that I don’t have a bf here anymore there’s no reason for me to stay and every reason to leave.
Right now I’m helping out per diem at a facility where their only therapist is out for a while due to breaking her wrist. There’s lots of work for me there, and they’re very grateful for my help. I’m able to save up a bit too since my expenses are low. Ideally I’d like to suck it up here until end of April/hoping my landlord can find another renter soon so she’ll have expenses covered seamlessly once I leave. But at the same time life is way too short to wake up with soul crushing loneliness eating away at me every morning.
indiegirl
03-06-2021, 10:30 AM
I always cringe when people try to do the cheek kiss on each side of the face as a kind/ welcoming gesture in public. I remember the first time it happened to me lol. Ughhh so awkward! I kinda reciprocated with my lips next to their cheek but not kissing it. What country is known for doing that?
Super random, but was watching a video and saw these 2 individuals do it.
WendiStarr
03-06-2021, 11:28 AM
Today is my former childhood best friend's birthday. I came across old photos in my basement from when we were 4 years old and then some from when we were 10, the summer we went up north to my grandma's cabin. I feel sad when I think about the old days, before she turned into a robber for a living.
whirlerz
03-06-2021, 11:37 AM
Well, my friend gave me some tools + a rolling cart thing , I I sold them both to my former Roomie crush, 20.ea
Probably could have gotten more, but more stuff to be rid of, + $.
He ran out to di a short errand, leaving behind his phone, which I stuck in my coat pocket (to hold) .
He came back, I said I held his phone, but didn't look thru it, he said, "You could have"!:flirt::lovestruc
carmen_b
03-06-2021, 11:45 AM
Apply in Hawaii. They are constantly looking for travel pros in medical / health field.
My goal for the weekend is to spruce up my resume and submit it to some travel staffing agencies. The area I’m in right now makes me feel depressed AF. Now that I don’t have a bf here anymore there’s no reason for me to stay and every reason to leave.
Right now I’m helping out per diem at a facility where their only therapist is out for a while due to breaking her wrist. There’s lots of work for me there, and they’re very grateful for my help. I’m able to save up a bit too since my expenses are low. Ideally I’d like to suck it up here until end of April/hoping my landlord can find another renter soon so she’ll have expenses covered seamlessly once I leave. But at the same time life is way too short to wake up with soul crushing loneliness eating away at me every morning.
carmen_b
03-06-2021, 11:47 AM
I'm sneaking off to the artists market today and then I totally regretted not getting my hair done ( wash / style only $5 wtf !!) at the beauty school. I'm scheduling that too.
I'll just tell J I was at the library or taking dog somewhere for both. Maybe I can " tack on" one of those so it's not a complete lie lol.
carmen_b
03-06-2021, 11:48 AM
I think I am planning a couple sit down solo meals out too in the next 10 days. :/
I just need this stuff to not feel like I hate my life even if it comes with small germ risks.
Genoveve
03-06-2021, 01:12 PM
My sister has an all white house and a pink front door. I am jealous. That is all.
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carmen_b
03-06-2021, 01:56 PM
ME too !! ^^^
carmen_b
03-06-2021, 01:56 PM
It remind me of this friend I have V who calls her Condo her “ girl house “. She won’t live with a boyfriend or let them stay often haha. It’s her girl house , duh !!
LoveyDovey
03-06-2021, 08:11 PM
That door is so pretty! I love it!!
indiegirl
03-06-2021, 11:35 PM
I finally shaved my legs. I feel like I deserve a gold medal for my effort. LOL. Only took 2 months to be this dedicated to finally shave. LOLL.
AChildOfBoredom
03-07-2021, 01:52 AM
I think they’re trying to put the impetus to let someone down easy on me. At the towing job yesterday, my supervisor (who usually isn’t there on Saturdays) was there and struck up a conversation with me. He started talking about the demands of working on the commercial side, and especially now with me running the big wrecker during my work days… lifting and setting up wheel dollies, pushing cars in order to get them to where they can be lined up on, dropping driveshafts from vehicles, etc. And he said to me, “I could tell just by looking at you in your interview that you could hack it, and I can see (S) being a commercial tow tech in the future”. Then he proceeded to tell me the one woman who worked as a tow tech on the dedicated AAA side expressed an interest in going to the commercial side. Which, he ultimately decides if the answer is yes or no, but he doesn’t really seem to know how to break the news to her and the reason without it becoming a HR incident. From what was read between the lines of what he said, he feels she needs to hit the gym before coming to the commercial side. Truth be known, he’s not wrong… she’s just… skinny, and not accustomed to a labor intensive environment, though I somewhat admire her for that, because she really is giving this job her all and doing pretty well on the AAA side. I suggested he have her ride in the big wrecker with me for a day and maybe she’d put two and two together.
indiegirl
03-07-2021, 05:26 AM
I have a UTI and it hurts like a bitch. Hopefully this antibiotic kicks in quick.
LoveyDovey
03-07-2021, 06:05 AM
^^ I hope you feel better. UTIs are a bitch!
Aurora_Sunset
03-07-2021, 12:49 PM
I want boba tea. I should've gone to the place right next to the store when I got groceries this morning. But decided to be "good" since I spent more than I wanted to on household items. Also, why is it that every expensive, non-food item runs out at the same time: paper towels, TP, dish soap, trash bags, cat litter?
carmen_b
03-07-2021, 01:10 PM
I woke up today feeling really good. I woke up at a hotel ( first time since I moved out of that rented room ) and thought I'd feel depressed in the morning. Haha.
I just felt great. My dog was snuggled right on top of me ( he sleeps in my side in the bed ) .
The temperature here if finally getting good.
We drove to a viewpoint to do a quick walk.
Genoveve
03-07-2021, 01:28 PM
I have a UTI and it hurts like a bitch. Hopefully this antibiotic kicks in quick.
The azo pills stop the pain within minutes if it doesn't.
charlie61
03-07-2021, 04:30 PM
I've really been trying to find a daily-use, unisex, skin-scent type of perfume... something like "My skin but better" to spritz on. I'm super picky, i think. I really don't like Perfume perfumes... everything smells obnoxious, old, soapy, too dry (think, Molecule 01), or too sweet to me. I've been getting samples on Lucky Scent, which is a fun site if you like fragrance. But i just haven't found one that i would enjoy wearing. The search continues...
Genoveve
03-07-2021, 04:45 PM
I've really been trying to find a daily-use, unisex, skin-scent type of perfume... something like "My skin but better" to spritz on. I'm super picky, i think. I really don't like Perfume perfumes... everything smells obnoxious, old, soapy, too dry (think, Molecule 01), or too sweet to me. I've been getting samples on Lucky Scent, which is a fun site if you like fragrance. But i just haven't found one that i would enjoy wearing. The search continues...
This website has all kinds of unconventional scents, I haven’t tried any but I am really curious about the Snow, Frozen Pond, Firefly and Thunderstorm: https://demeterfragrance.com/classic-a-z/
charlie61
03-07-2021, 05:08 PM
Samples can really add up!! And I'm so picky that many samples are an "absolutely not" for me after a single sniff, even if the description sounded great. I'm learning that there are certain smells that i just can't handle, like musks (soapy), florals (grandmotherly), and gourmand scents (headache- inducing, for me). Something like Glossier You is way too strong, powdery, and dry for my tastes. Even Molecule 01, which i guess a lot of people can't even smell, is quite strong and too dry for me, like sticking my head into an old cedar closet. I have a really sensitive nose. Hoping to find something that works for me!
For context, this is the one that smells like an old, dusty, dry cedar closet to me: https://www.luckyscent.com/product/30800/molecule-01-by-escentric-molecules
Genoveve
03-07-2021, 05:13 PM
^^Sometimes I mix my own scents, but I use oils so that might be too strong for you. I think I’m about to order a bunch of samples from that site right now though.....thanks for the inspo LOL. I think 95% of my perfume collection I ordered without having ever smelled it, but I’m not insanely picky.
charlie61
03-07-2021, 05:32 PM
^^Sometimes I mix my own scents, but I use oils so that might be too strong for you. I think I’m about to order a bunch of samples from that site right now though.....thanks for the inspo LOL. I think 95% of my perfume collection I ordered without having ever smelled it, but I’m not insanely picky.
I'd say it's always good to take everything into consideration. Read the negative reviews to understand what some people don't like about the scents, read lucky scent's descriptions, and obviously look at the main notes / ingredients. Sometimes i get so caught up in the positive reviews that i forget i don't even like the main note in the fragrance! It's a fun site to browse, for sure. And nice to see lots of niche fragrances that aren't the same old things we see more widely (Chanel, etc.).
Genoveve
03-07-2021, 05:54 PM
I went with samples of ambergris, clover, firefly, frozen pond, snow and thunderstorm. I thought of you when I saw one called Clean Skin, but it has white rose in it and if you don’t like florals then you probably really don’t like rose.
JGB2009
03-07-2021, 10:27 PM
Its late and I have no one to text. Stupid so called boyfriend went to sleep. Any other time his ass is up late. My youngest has a bad cold so she keeps waking up. Obviously no school for her this week.
WendiStarr
03-08-2021, 05:50 AM
I want to get my bachelor's degree so bad but I don't want any more student loan debt or to be in school for 4 more years. School just isn't affordable right now anyways. My state is giving free tuition to all adults now but you must have only a high school diploma or ged. I have a useless associate's degree. I'm feeling pretty salty about it, just like when I was 19 trying to get financial aid for school and couldn't because I was under age 24. They wanted me to use my mom's income info but she had none because she was a stay at home mom for 11 years. Then once I had a kid suddenly I was able to qualify.
carmen_b
03-08-2021, 12:53 PM
Thrilled to be working a lot this week. :)
I’ll have an income week similar to pre-covid which is a nutshell of all my 2020 dreams coming true lol.
carmen_b
03-08-2021, 01:56 PM
J did a pick up / drop today for my day job and saved me an hour off a 12 hour work day.
So sweet. :)
I know someone who will be rewarded.
I mean I'm sure I can think of *something*. ;)
carmen_b
03-09-2021, 10:50 AM
J's sister left . :)
Good goddess 4 nights is a long visit ......
All was well and everyone got on fine but damn ..... stay 2 nights next time like a normal person.
I will say though last night was nice. I worked until 6:30 and there was food right after.
carmen_b
03-09-2021, 11:14 AM
I only have three hours of school today and like 1-2 hours of work. :/
I can self care or go goof off the rest of the time but I feel " meh ".
WendiStarr
03-09-2021, 04:19 PM
I had some kind of oddness today. I rarely use Amazon anymore but I have a wishlist that I've had going on for a long time. Someone bought a skirt off of my wishlist and had it sent anonymously. I have had that skirt on my wishlist for like 2 years. I don't have an Amazon wishlist under my cam model persona. I only have an Amazon for my real name. I have no idea who bought it but it must be someone who at least knows that my birthday is this week. Nobody is owning up to it though.
LoveyDovey
03-09-2021, 07:01 PM
^^ Happy Birthday! :-D
So here is my ex-slumlord's updated ad for my room. Why the hell would you use this photo? It looks like molten lava is spilling onto the carpet from the hallway. Wtf? What is wrong with this guy??? Then he is going to blubber on about how he can't rent the room.
https://sandiego.craigslist.org/csd/roo/d/san-diego-large-room-in-big-house-on/7279887989.html
indiegirl
03-09-2021, 07:19 PM
I want to get back into going to a tanning salon for unlimited spray tans each month.
I cringe that I used to use the tanning bed daily in the past for 2 years or so but I miss that relaxed feeling after being in a tanning bed.
AChildOfBoredom
03-10-2021, 04:36 AM
Today’s mood…
https://youtu.be/OhYWNPzBuiM
carmen_b
03-11-2021, 08:41 AM
When I spilled my past dancing secret to J a few weeks ago he said it didn’t matter and that it was funny I kept it undisclosed for so long.
Now he says it does matter ......
He considers it a huge bonus. :)
LoveyDovey
03-11-2021, 08:49 AM
When I grow up, I want to be a hot old bitch like Elizabeth Hurley.
I'd better get my walk in before it starts raining again.