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LoveyDovey
05-20-2021, 08:05 PM
^ I left at 18!
I can not imagine living without freedom and you just can't do that living with family.
Family should be there for each other in hard times ( like offering a room if a relationship breaks up or if someone gets sick ) but normal life should not involve living with family members .

I got the fuck out 2 days after high school graduation. Went to college that summer. Such a fun summer and so glad to be away from those people. Barely went back to visit ever since.
For my son, I told him that once he graduates from college, he should find a place of his own. He agrees. I think it would be fun for him to live with his friends. He is a hard worker and hopefully he will find a good job. It's hard to let go but you have to. It's part of being a parent.

chanzep
05-20-2021, 09:34 PM
Yes I left home at 16. I stayed with my mum for a few weeks before moving countries when 30. Thank God I was working a lot.

chanzep
05-20-2021, 09:40 PM
am watching Jocelyn Cabaret lol so ratchet.

WendiStarr
05-21-2021, 07:34 AM
I took the kids to Dino Stroll. It's an outdoor event and we still wore masks, even though our idiot governor said that we could go maskless and then recanted. Most people were maskless with very few others wearing masks. I don't care if I look ridiculous wearing my mask. Over 1000 cases a day of this damn virus is still too many to be fully relaxed.

BambiCutie
05-21-2021, 07:46 AM
I love how my dog walks into my room and grabs something random like he is shopping, then casually walks out like "This will do thank you.."

JGB2009
05-21-2021, 08:05 AM
I took the kids to Dino Stroll. It's an outdoor event and we still wore masks, even though our idiot governor said that we could go maskless and then recanted. Most people were maskless with very few others wearing masks. I don't care if I look ridiculous wearing my mask. Over 1000 cases a day of this damn virus is still too many to be fully relaxed.

Our governor is just the same. What makes me even more mad is that my daughters school made it to where a mask is only optional. She is in Elementary school and her and one other class mate are the only ones in her class that wears a mask. Its funny how they say its optional but I see that the school nurse is still wearing her mask. Covid didn't go away and the kids aren't vaccinated either. I think everyone should still be wearing a mask.

indiegirl
05-21-2021, 08:35 AM
I hate when men send me photos of their money trying to flex to impress me. It's usually an indicator that that's all the money they have in their savings or they are involved in an illegal job.

miss.a.p1600
05-21-2021, 09:44 AM
Anytime I have to trust men’s leadership I always think to myself.........”Jesus, take the wheel” lol

miss.a.p1600
05-21-2021, 09:46 AM
No one should have to ever question where they stand in a relationship......

Took me a long time to figure this out.....the hard way unfortunately

WendiStarr
05-21-2021, 10:17 AM
^^ I think men who send you pictures of their money have a 99% chance of being a timewaster. The other 1% might show up but want to try to get you to do really degrading things for that money and then try to not pay once you refuse to do their gross shit. I hated those types!

indiegirl
05-21-2021, 10:29 AM
^^ I think men who send you pictures of their money have a 99% chance of being a timewaster. The other 1% might show up but want to try to get you to do really degrading things for that money and then try to not pay once you refuse to do their gross shit. I hated those types!

Had a hedge fund manager in NYC try to book me once. He never sent me his bank account statement LOLLL. It's always the cheap ones that pull this lol! This guy today was willing to pay my 500 and then decided to randomly send me photos of these stacks of cash of 5000 like....why?

JGB2009
05-21-2021, 11:57 AM
I always see people on FB post pictures of lots of money. I always wonder why. I don't see the point. Personally I think it makes you look dumb.

TheBrownFox
05-21-2021, 01:58 PM
I always see people on FB post pictures of lots of money. I always wonder why. I don't see the point. Personally I think it makes you look dumb.


My cousin does this shit, and it's obnoxious. I've told him he needs to stop showing off wads of cash like that on social media. This dude is AT LEAST in his 40s, and really should know better.

I'm chuckling, because I know if my sister's ex posted a pic holding a wad of cash, she'd comment something like "So then you can send some money for your SON that you never see, huh?" + the animated GIF of Kanye West shaking his head. HAHA!

I knew a 20-something year old guy who posted a pic holding a wad of cash, and a mutual friend of ours told me that's money he'd get from "faking a disability." I was like daaamn.

WendiStarr
05-21-2021, 02:05 PM
I'd think that posting wads of cash on social media is potentially setting themselves up to be robbed. Times are tough that even relatives are not exempt from stealing money from their own family.

Randomess, we went to Dairy Queen and bought Blizzards because it's 90 degrees today. I ordered a small raspberry fudge bliss on a whim(never tried it before) and it was awesome.

Emanuelle
05-21-2021, 03:12 PM
I'd think that posting wads of cash on social media is potentially setting themselves up to be robbed.

Those YouTube strippers who do money counts are insane to me. We had one at our club in NYC for a couple weeks and she would vlog herself walking home and do a money count. I was like GIRL! WTF is wrong with you? You're going to show everyone exactly how to find you after work, walking alone, and how much cash you have on you every night? NOT smart!

LoveyDovey
05-21-2021, 04:49 PM
I find flashing money declasse , not to mention unsafe.

moneybags
05-21-2021, 05:47 PM
I find flashing money declasse , not to mention unsafe.

Ain’t nothing in life for free.

chanzep
05-21-2021, 06:21 PM
Flashing money online is ghetto.You see these stupid tiktok strippers doing this

chanzep
05-21-2021, 06:23 PM
They have MAC on qvc now.

TheBrownFox
05-21-2021, 06:53 PM
I'd think that posting wads of cash on social media is potentially setting themselves up to be robbed. Times are tough that even relatives are not exempt from stealing money from their own family.


Yup, there's an article about crazy shit that's happened to different lottery winners (after they've won the lottery). One guy tried to put out a hit on his own brother.....

miss.a.p1600
05-21-2021, 08:35 PM
Flashing money online is ghetto.You see these stupid tiktok strippers doing this

Bahahaha!!!!.....Kinda like this....?

We getting money over here!


https://youtu.be/iNE8A3ioMmI

LoveyDovey
05-22-2021, 06:41 AM
I started drinking apple cider vinegar in the morning and I swear it's helped me drop a few.

LoveyDovey
05-22-2021, 06:43 AM
Flashing money online is ghetto.You see these stupid tiktok strippers doing this

Besides, we all know the real ballers don't flash their cash. They keep it classy and under wraps.

moneybags
05-22-2021, 06:51 AM
Bahahaha!!!!.....Kinda like this....?

We getting money over here!


https://youtu.be/iNE8A3ioMmI

I miss those days of rolling around in a pile of dirty dollars. Remember when id fold it up and put in their mouth and take it with my mouth. I’d never do that again!

Now I’d be like put the money on the stage and back away!

lurkingtitties
05-22-2021, 08:40 AM
I miss those days of rolling around in a pile of dirty dollars. Remember when id fold it up and put in their mouth and take it with my mouth. I’d never do that again!

Now I’d be like put the money on the stage and back away!

I used to mess with guys and have them put it in their mouth and act like I was going to grab us with my tits, but then at the last minute take it with my hand instead...

charlie61
05-22-2021, 10:15 AM
Crypto market is way down. Good time to buy if you're looking to dabble, though don't expect quick gains, and it's possible that it'll go down more before it goes back up.

lilylilylily
05-22-2021, 11:32 AM
I started drinking apple cider vinegar in the morning and I swear it's helped me drop a few.

Yep I've been adding ACV to my smoothie everyday probably for at least 10 years now. I'll never stop taking it lol

JGB2009
05-22-2021, 12:43 PM
After you build this website maybe you will go back to being more sociable with me. You seem so self absorbed and all you talk about is this website and everything that goes into it. I guess maybe I'm just a bit annoyed but in the mean time if you miss me and want me, you will know where to find me.

Genoveve
05-22-2021, 12:56 PM
Speaking of said friend, her birthday is soon and I think I'm going to get her a pair of Uggs. Her cousin gave her her old pair and it's her first time experiencing real Uggs and now she's obsessed with them and understands why I won't throw out my super ratty decade-old pair. The only problem is they're old and hideous; they're the super dated kind that are camel-colored and go up to the knee with the big buttons and the fur sticking out and they have a hole in the back. My friend knows they're ugly and does not give a fuck, but because she actually leaves the house in them and is officially an Ugg lover I think it would ne nice for her to have a brand new and plain black pair(since all she wears is black).

I did end up getting her a pair of plain black, medium height Uggs. When she unwrapped the box she didn't think anything of the fact that it was an Ugg box, she assumed I was just repurposing an old box for my giftwrapping, but then when she opened it and saw the tissue paper with the Ugg card sitting on top she was like "Did you get me Uggs?????" She was so happy, and then she was like "Look at what happened to the other ones....." and she showed me that the hole in them had like, tripled in size LOL. She could stick half her hand through it.

JenniferNorth
05-22-2021, 05:48 PM
This is kinda nuts, but I am thinking of camming again! Only PT, I could never go back to FT. I wonder if there is a way to get my feet wet again.

AChildOfBoredom
05-23-2021, 12:16 AM
She probably plays some psychological game called 'Yes, but...'

Not so much. I think it’s a combination of being the pampered youngest of four siblings and just not really having ever been pushed to find direction in her life. The former, I dealt with from my own sister when she first came here (and sometimes still do).

Then I have to deal with the opposite spectrum, which is S’s girlfriend and her feelings of inadequacy because she doesn’t know how to do the things outside of expected gender norms which S and I both do, and so she wanted me to teach her how to do these things, amd I told her if she wanted to learn them for the sake of self sufficiency, certainly, but she shouldn’t try to be like S, amd S doesn’t want her to be, either. S is one of those tough, backcountry redneck girls. She can noodle for catfish, she can skin a deer, she can talk about being ‘country’ without being facetious. Her girlfriend is a bit more polished, but also knows what her goals in life are, whereas S is more in a phase of trying to discover herself and what moves her. I think they really do give each other balance.

I just don’t understand how I end up in a position to give relationship advice, with me being among the least relationship minded of people.

WendiStarr
05-23-2021, 08:50 AM
I'm seriously considering doing fbsm again, 2 days a week. I've heard that the clubs in my area are no lapdance and air dance right now. Upon reading usag, I'm not interested in dealing with guys looking to bother me with "car date" crap or cheap motel "dates" OTC. I read them all griping about not wanting to spend itc unless the girl is willing to meet otc. I'd rather work within my comfort zone, at a rate that I set, with screened guys, and not deal with cheap men.

carmen_b
05-23-2021, 09:20 AM
Maybe you should find someone else to entertain you if this person isn’t making the time.

:)
After you build this website maybe you will go back to being more sociable with me. You seem so self absorbed and all you talk about is this website and everything that goes into it. I guess maybe I'm just a bit annoyed but in the mean time if you miss me and want me, you will know where to find me.

Aurora_Sunset
05-23-2021, 12:04 PM
I started drinking apple cider vinegar in the morning and I swear it's helped me drop a few.

How do you drink it? I always hear of people doing this, but also heard that by itself, the stuff tastes gross. Do you add it to something? And how much typically?

WendiStarr
05-23-2021, 01:27 PM
I'm trying so bad to have a suburban garden. So far only my chocolate mint and oregano are thriving. One of my lavender plants started growing but looks iffy and the lavender seeds, garlic, asparagus, and tomatoes have made no progress at all. I wish I had my grandma's green thumb.

LoveyDovey
05-23-2021, 02:22 PM
How do you drink it? I always hear of people doing this, but also heard that by itself, the stuff tastes gross. Do you add it to something? And how much typically?

I have a small 16 oz water bottle and I fill it with maybe 1/4 acv, a little lemon juice, and the rest water. It tastes awful but I drink about 12 gulps in the morning. I may start doing this before bed too.

indiegirl
05-23-2021, 04:31 PM
I have a small 16 oz water bottle and I fill it with maybe 1/4 acv, a little lemon juice, and the rest water. It tastes awful but I drink about 12 gulps in the morning. I may start doing this before bed too.

Drinking both lemon water and acv through a straw is ideal as well so it doesn't destroy your tooth enamel.

carmen_b
05-23-2021, 05:36 PM
The customers who didn't pay just emailed.

I hope they give me something. :/

JGB2009
05-23-2021, 08:22 PM
So the guy I contacted the other week (the first guy I had sex with), he friended me on FB. He contacted me a couple of times and he told me he was married. He told me twice in two different messages that he would like to see me. I by passed what he said and just laughed. He was being extra flirty, but he has a wife and he has no business trying to meet up with me. I contacted him because I just wanted to say hi, nothing more. He stopped messaging so I guess he got the hint that I didn't wanna see him smh.

lilylilylily
05-23-2021, 08:25 PM
Turned down another lame offer from my ex to see me, said he rented a hotel and wants to pick me up, I said, we are not compatible so that wouldn't be a good idea, I'm sure you have other woman who would love to take you up on that. He didnt respond. Lol I know I should have blocked him by now but it feels good to nicely reject him. I do miss him but I'm not willing to be one of his options

carmen_b
05-23-2021, 08:50 PM
^ Love that.
Yes if it didn’t work don’t give him any time.

:)

indiegirl
05-24-2021, 03:41 AM
I'm researching the possibility of having a child alone and using a sperm donor when I reach the age of 35 if I don't find a man by then. Now that I'm 32 it's starting to set in that I'm running out of time or else I'll be adopting, which is also an option. Super random thought. Only reason I'm not dating right now is because I feel guilty due to my line of work. It wouldn't be fair to the other person IMO and don't think I'd be accepted.

I feel like I go through these thoughts every birthday LOLLL. I'd rather take my time finding a good guy instead of feeling rushed. I heard freezing eggs is expensive plus "storage" fees.

JGB2009
05-24-2021, 07:09 AM
Today I get my second covid shot.

WendiStarr
05-24-2021, 07:39 AM
The pandemic has ex boyfriends and ex fuck buddies alike, even the ones who ghosted acting extra thirsty. I hate when they contact you out of the blue, pretending to care about how you're holding up, only for them to turn the conversation sexual or be bold with a,"Wanna fuck?" It's such a turn off.

carmen_b
05-24-2021, 08:25 AM
I misquoted a June day job week end.
It's a job in three weeks and I was overly excited to get something on the calendar involving travel.
I underbid it by about $500-$700 I'd say. Anyway ..... I can't re-do it now lol.

I'm out of practice judging these things when factoring the travel time.
I'll get the next one right.

I think I basically always need need to be at a $1300-$1500 profit minimum for a job involving travel ( anything more than a 2-3 hour drive ) . The club I'm at the most is just 1 hour 45 min. away. I am only wanting day job gigs that beat my 2-3 day club trip averages right now which I know is super picky but time management is everything .

The job is in a unique place ( Jackson Hole Wyoming ) but of course there are zero strip clubs in the vicinity .
Everywhere my day job sends me has no clubs.

I kind of hope they don't purchase what we offered. :/
I'd rather gamble on the club than gamble with my emotions during a VERY long drive.
I have family I can stay with at a drive mid point so my travel costs are just gas and one night hotel.

I'm not answering my work phone after 6 ! I was bored and not thinking . ^^

chanzep
05-24-2021, 10:38 AM
What is your day job?

LoveyDovey
05-24-2021, 12:06 PM
Drinking both lemon water and acv through a straw is ideal as well so it doesn't destroy your tooth enamel.

I've heard that! I try to brush my teeth right afterwards because I hate the flavor lol

AChildOfBoredom
05-24-2021, 12:06 PM
Bleh. Got a summons for jury duty. Don’t have such a convenient excuse as I did the last time it happened, which was being laid up in a VA hospital after having been blown up in A-Stan.

carmen_b
05-24-2021, 02:49 PM
I'll just deal with it if the job books.
It's 9-10 hours of driving EACH way from where I am but there could be a mid point stay with family OR at a hot spring type place mid way ( rustic / cheap ).
I can make a 4 day trip of it and still clear $800 in profit.
I do feel a little bummed though and don't know what I was thinking.
There is an 80% chance I could make $800 in the club in 2 days ( two evenings ) instead of being out on the road for four days.

carmen_b
05-24-2021, 05:41 PM
My partner got me all excited. He has this delta companion pass and hinted about going somewhere 4-5 nights in June.
We thought about Portland.
We need DATE specifics. I told him if we didn't decide by today the likelihood of my calendar filling and not being able to do this would be really high ( totally true as I have two day job clients pending ).

Every time he displays a " limiting " behavior I get nervous . :/

I was just curious why he didn't have family assist for a couple days . I guess that his mom doesn't drive ( wtf ? ) and his dad is crazy and can't be trusted ( kind of accurate ). So .... how do we get the mom here for two days ? Also .... since it's just two days maybe we just let the crazy fly lol for babysitting help and brief the daughter first haha . It's right wing conservative crazy which you could argue is dangerous but he isn't actually * dangerous * to her.

He has been divorced 20-21 months and just NOW is thinking about a system of what to do when he wants to leave town for just 5 days ?

I just get baffled sometimes on the custody stuff because we/I wouldn't mind taking the daughter like 5 days straight FIRST in order to get out of town smoothly. Anyway it's just small rants. It is more about having systems that are not refined. I am a business owner so I am big on systems ( like ..... who is the next go-to ..... then who is next ...... and on ).

** Don't quote all of it please as I'll probably delete but I'd love ideas really. **

Like ..... if you have tried this does just offering to take the kid for 5 days straight FIRST typically work ?

After typing all this I have decided I will be in Portland in June regardless of what he does lol.