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Elektra Luxx
06-13-2021, 10:56 AM
Out of the blue, Bf bought me a pregnancy pillow from Amazon because I use a lot of pillows when I sleep...or he's sending me a message.

https://i.imgur.com/ufBcwqb.jpg

TheBrownFox
06-13-2021, 11:02 AM
Out of the blue, Bf bought me a pregnancy pillow from Amazon because I use a lot of pillows when I sleep...or he's sending me a message.

https://i.imgur.com/ufBcwqb.jpg


I almost bought one of those several months ago (The pink one).

TheBrownFox
06-13-2021, 11:40 AM
I was hoping someone could answer my question I posted (in a couple other SW threads...and on AmberCutie Forum) about Phrendly, so I'll try asking it here too.....

If a guy on Phrendly wants to "see you twerk," do you usually just do it via video chat (I feel like he's just gonna stay for a few seconds, and then end it)...or do you ask them to send you a virtual gift first (And if so, which virtual gift do you require?)...and then accept his video chat request?

I keep missing this guy's "Are you up?" messages, because the Phrendly app isn't like the Facebook app is (Where you see a "1" when you have one new notification). You have to keep going IN to the Phrendly app to see if you have any new messages. We keep missing each other.

I'm thinking about just having him tip for me to send an ass clap video, because if I stop what I'm doing to go put on a wig to give an ass clap show...only for him to end the video chat after 10 seconds, I'm gonna be mad as hell. Lol.

Genoveve
06-13-2021, 01:19 PM
It's a good thing I'm not scared of snakes. I was laying out tanning today and at one point I was laying on my stomach and the nearby hose(which was maybe 6 feet away) caught my eye for some reason, it had a really distinct vertical stripe running down it and I was like 'Has it always looked like that?' So I let my eyes adjust to it because it was really bright outside and sure enough it was a decent-sized garter snake hanging by the hose. I sat up and said "Hi Mr. Snake," and he literally put himself in reverse and disappeared back around the front of the house. This is him while he was peacing out, I wish I could have gotten a photo quicker when he had his head up and was looking at me:

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:medusa:

indiegirl
06-13-2021, 01:41 PM
It's a good thing I'm not scared of snakes. I was laying out tanning today and at one point I was laying on my stomach and the nearby hose(which was maybe 6 feet away) caught my eye for some reason, it had a really distinct vertical stripe running down it and I was like 'Has it always looked like that?' So I let my eyes adjust to it because it was really bright outside and sure enough it was a decent-sized garter snake hanging by the hose. I sat up and said "Hi Mr. Snake," and he literally put himself in reverse and disappeared back around the front of the house. This is him while he was peacing out, I wish I could have gotten a photo quicker when he had his head up and was looking at me:

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:medusa:
I'm impressed you handled it so casually. Dogs and cats are it for me. haha. Foreign animals scare me.

JGB2009
06-13-2021, 02:05 PM
I was hoping someone could answer my question I posted (in a couple other SW threads...and on AmberCutie Forum) about Phrendly, so I'll try asking it here too.....

If a guy on Phrendly wants to "see you twerk," do you usually just do it via video chat (I feel like he's just gonna stay for a few seconds, and then end it)...or do you ask them to send you a virtual gift first (And if so, which virtual gift do you require?)...and then accept his video chat request?

I keep missing this guy's "Are you up?" messages, because the Phrendly app isn't like the Facebook app is (Where you see a "1" when you have one new notification). You have to keep going IN to the Phrendly app to see if you have any new messages. We keep missing each other.

I'm thinking about just having him tip for me to send an ass clap video, because if I stop what I'm doing to go put on a wig to give an ass clap show...only for him to end the video chat after 10 seconds, I'm gonna be mad as hell. Lol.

Personally I wouldn't want to do it during a video chat. Sending a video sounds like it would be more profitable for you.

indiegirl
06-13-2021, 02:41 PM
Personally, what a fabulous Sunday to have nonstop trips to the restroom because of mexican food UGHH. I laid my head on a part of my bed in pain and laid in mister needy dogs pool of dog drool from sleeping on my face. Superb moment with my stomach hurting and wiping drool off my face. bahahaha

LoveyDovey
06-13-2021, 02:42 PM
It's a good thing I'm not scared of snakes. I was laying out tanning today and at one point I was laying on my stomach and the nearby hose(which was maybe 6 feet away) caught my eye for some reason, it had a really distinct vertical stripe running down it and I was like 'Has it always looked like that?' So I let my eyes adjust to it because it was really bright outside and sure enough it was a decent-sized garter snake hanging by the hose. I sat up and said "Hi Mr. Snake," and he literally put himself in reverse and disappeared back around the front of the house. This is him while he was peacing out, I wish I could have gotten a photo quicker when he had his head up and was looking at me:

55286

:medusa:

You handled that well! I'm scared of any snake. I remember when I was little I'd pick up garter snakes. One bit me but it didn't hurt. But still now I get scared Lol

lilylilylily
06-13-2021, 02:50 PM
I love how the new guy invited me to a bbq the day after we met and today asking if he can hang out with me when I told him I'm sitting in the park. I turned down both because I want to pace him and not rush into anything. He was cool when I declined, unlike my ex who who would get upset if I said no when he felt like seeing me.

Genoveve
06-13-2021, 03:01 PM
I am scared of bugs. I can handle snakes, lizards, bats, rats, mice.... I don't do bugs. Except for the pretty ones and praying mantises. Those are cool.

My landlady did find a snake under her sink last week though, that would freak me out only because it's freaky to have something that's that big and alive in your house and you not knowing about it. Fortunately for her the gardener was here when she found it and he got rid of it for her, I told her if it happened again and he wasn't here that I would try and remove it for her since they don't freak me out.

carmen_b
06-13-2021, 03:38 PM
Love that Lily !
I think with a new person every few days is best at first.

carmen_b
06-13-2021, 03:41 PM
I regret not being on a stripper trip now.

I was trying to be see J and daughter two days and be in Vegas two days. It’s her 4 day visit.
I thought splitting the time was “ right “.

Now my body is fighting me ( 48 hours of bladder pain )!
Less pain than yesterday so maybe I’ll hit the road tomorrow.

I just want to make money and be a rock star. Why is the universe fighting me lol ?

Genoveve
06-13-2021, 04:01 PM
I need another good scary movie to watch tonight. I watched the Witch last night for the first time and I really liked it, very spooky and atmospheric which is what I like. I wish it had a darker ending though. I keep hearing about how great a Quiet Place and Let the Right One In are.

TheBrownFox
06-13-2021, 04:33 PM
I'm stressed right now trying to explain this to my grandmom. We're having a conversation about what a Sunday - Wednesday 2:40 AM - 1:10 PM work shift means, and there's some confusion about whether or not that means you go IN to work late Saturday night/EARLY Sunday AM...or if it means you go IN to work late Sunday night/EARLY Monday morning. This needs to be straightened out, because my son can't work June 28th due to a mandatory college thing he has to do online, and we've gotta make sure his boss has him off for the CORRECT day.

Aurora_Sunset
06-13-2021, 04:42 PM
I'm stressed right now trying to explain this to my grandmom. We're having a conversation about what a Sunday - Wednesday 2:40 AM - 1:10 PM work shift means, and there's some confusion about whether or not that means you go IN to work late Saturday night/EARLY Sunday AM...or if it means you go IN to work late Sunday night/EARLY Monday morning. This needs to be straightened out, because my son can't work June 28th due to a mandatory college thing he has to do online, and we've gotta make sure his boss has him off for the CORRECT day.

If it's a place with 24-hour schedules like that, I would assume that it means late Saturday night/technically Sunday AM. All the hours will be logged as being on Sunday since the shift starts after midnight.

TheBrownFox
06-13-2021, 04:52 PM
If it's a place with 24-hour schedules like that, I would assume that it means late Saturday night/technically Sunday AM. All the hours will be logged as being on Sunday since the shift starts after midnight.

YES! So far that's TWO people telling me that I'm right (I posted this on AmberCutie Forum too...lol). Thank you. I'm gonna get a piece of paper to try to explain this to my grandmom, and then snap a pic of it and send it to her via FB Messenger so she can see what I'm talking about. Making a mistake like this could result in my son getting fired on his first week. LOL.

Aurora_Sunset
06-13-2021, 04:59 PM
YES! So far that's TWO people telling me that I'm right (I posted this on AmberCutie Forum too...lol). Thank you. I'm gonna get a piece of paper to try to explain this to my grandmom, and then snap a pic of it and send it to her via FB Messenger so she can see what I'm talking about. Making a mistake like this could result in my son getting fired on his first week. LOL.

Yeah, and if it was the other way, that would mean he'd be working until 1pm on Thursday and I would definitely not call that a Sun - Wed schedule!

Aurora_Sunset
06-13-2021, 05:13 PM
Saw that 10-year-old clown fetish thread that was bumped in Life Support lol

I honestly feel really bad for clowns. I like them. I have never thought they were creepy, unless they were trying to be "scary clowns." I think they're cute and funny. But literally everyone I know thinks they're creepy. They just wanna make people laugh :(

AChildOfBoredom
06-13-2021, 05:35 PM
SO jealous about it. Wanna not care for sweets too. Two days ago I bought a brioche, ate it, and was so into it that was thinking of it for the rest of that day and night, and even had a dream about it. It's not normal, I almost sexualized that bun lol. Yesterday went to that cafe and bought it again. Hope it will cure...everything.

I just didn’t grow up with sugary foods and beverages, and never took a shine to those after living on my own. My snack food weakness isn’t candy - it’s Gardettos.


Saw that 10-year-old clown fetish thread that was bumped in Life Support lol

I honestly feel really bad for clowns. I like them. I have never thought they were creepy, unless they were trying to be "scary clowns." I think they're cute and funny. But literally everyone I know thinks they're creepy. They just wanna make people laugh :(

It probably doesn’t help that John Wayne Gacy used to perform as a clown.

LoveyDovey
06-13-2021, 06:12 PM
If it's a place with 24-hour schedules like that, I would assume that it means late Saturday night/technically Sunday AM. All the hours will be logged as being on Sunday since the shift starts after midnight.

I agree. Plus it's better to err on the side of caution and show up a day early as opposed to a day late.

indiegirl
06-13-2021, 08:09 PM
I've been mansplained to again being talked at on the phone and I zoned out. I have no idea what he said. Bahaha. My sister does this too where they just need someone to talk at and you can put the phone down and come back and they're still talking.

LoveyDovey
06-13-2021, 09:32 PM
I've been mansplained to again being talked at on the phone and I zoned out. I have no idea what he said. Bahaha. My sister does this too where they just need someone to talk at and you can put the phone down and come back and they're still talking.

My toxic brother used to do that to me before I went no contact on him. He'd literally burn up my phone battery during his 30 minute monologues about how much he hated his job and how everyone around him is stupid, then he'd turn around and tell my narcissistic twin sister that whenever he called me, it would be a one-sided conversation where he'd have to listen all about my life. What the fuck ever. I stopped talking with him because I don't need him calling me and getting mad because we don't make the conversation 100% about him.

Elektra Luxx
06-13-2021, 10:38 PM
I don't do bugs. Except for the pretty ones and praying mantises. Those are cool.

I love lady bugs....and lady beetles. I never knew there was a difference until a lady beetle bit me and it really hurt.

Marina Starr
06-14-2021, 07:21 AM
Chipotle raised their prices by 4% so they can pay employees $15 an hour. I think that's wonderful. I'll have to visit Chipotle. Federal minimum wage is $7.25 an hour. Who the fuck can live on that?!

carmen_b
06-14-2021, 09:00 AM
^ Nice !!
I’ll support them too!

carmen_b
06-14-2021, 10:20 AM
^ I like both quiet place movies! I recommend.
I'm a John K fan also prrrrr. hahahah

carmen_b
06-14-2021, 10:21 AM
I don't like people asking questions about dancing.
The answer about dancing is basically always " stripper money is for people who go and get it ".

Lol ! I am not fully " out " and this is a main reason.

indiegirl
06-14-2021, 10:31 AM
I'm sourcing my booking requests to my former pimp at my current higher end price on another site while me using the other and he gets a percentage. It's a win.

WendiStarr
06-14-2021, 10:43 AM
I hate the,"are you kinky?" question while camming because everybody has different ideas on what that is. This guy took me pvt and asked me to use a dog dick vibrator. I don't have one, let alone even know that such a disturbing thing existed. He immediately ended the Pvt, saying that I wasn't kinky and that I probably liked "puny little beagle dick" anyways, as if that was some type of insult. Some people are strange.

JenniferNorth
06-14-2021, 10:54 AM
Fucking EW!! ^

I hate beastailty men, they are so nasty.

AChildOfBoredom
06-14-2021, 12:20 PM
Yeah. Or awkward moments when you’re out at a bar with someone, they get really drunk, and they give a big tell all about partaking in it. And I don’t drink, so I couldn’t simply dismiss it the next day by telling myself, “I was drunk, my minds was playing tricks on me, and I didn’t actually hear what I think I heard”. Nope. This wasn’t a dude, by the way.

Fuck is wrong with people?

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-14-2021, 02:06 PM
I hate the,"are you kinky?" question while camming because everybody has different ideas on what that is. This guy took me pvt and asked me to use a dog dick vibrator. I don't have one, let alone even know that such a disturbing thing existed. He immediately ended the Pvt, saying that I wasn't kinky and that I probably liked "puny little beagle dick" anyways, as if that was some type of insult. Some people are strange.

Ewww yeah, I found a dog dick dildo at an adult store and was so shocked but hey, after so many years wrangling pervs why should I have been shocked. People, man.


Random thought- I feel so bad not being able to comfort a friend whose Fertility Journey in life is ending with a much needed hysterectomy. I'm childfree so I can't relate to her grief over not being able to bear her own kids. She's so sad that I think she's not going to sign up to be a foster parent or adoptive parent anytime soon. I am not big on religion but I'm sending out prayers and good thoughts into the Universe on her behalf.

Genoveve
06-14-2021, 03:23 PM
I got my second dose 5 hours ago and I feel very tired but idk if it's that or the huge stack of waffles I ate.

miss.a.p1600
06-14-2021, 03:43 PM
I've been mansplained to again being talked at on the phone and I zoned out. I have no idea what he said. Bahaha. My sister does this too where they just need someone to talk at and you can put the phone down and come back and they're still talking.

Lol!!! I do that too!

Whenever someone is going on their long winded diatribe I move the phone from my ear for a couple minutes then come back.

They never know the difference n think you’re really listening attentively

JGB2009
06-14-2021, 06:57 PM
I have noticed for a while how you have been having frequent mood swings. I wonder what made you take action and do something about it. Either way I hope what you're taking helps and you become less of a moodier person.

moneybags
06-15-2021, 06:19 AM
I wonder how the clubs are? I wanna go back, but I’m kinda scared. I miss rolling around in dirty dollar bills.

JenniferNorth
06-15-2021, 07:21 AM
I'm debating starting a "Goals for the Day" thread where we just post about our goals for the day (adult work related or not-wouldn't matter) and edit that post later to say if they are completed or not. IDK. I love the camaraderie on here, but I don't know if the goal thing is something everyone else would be interested in.

Aurora_Sunset
06-15-2021, 12:32 PM
I'm debating starting a "Goals for the Day" thread where we just post about our goals for the day (adult work related or not-wouldn't matter) and edit that post later to say if they are completed or not. IDK. I love the camaraderie on here, but I don't know if the goal thing is something everyone else would be interested in.

Honestly, I would love that. I've been trying to get into the daily habit of writing down goals in the morning and evening as a manifesting thing. This would be similar and make me think about my priorities for the day.

Genoveve
06-15-2021, 01:02 PM
^^^I would be down too. I make lists in my phone then forget to look at them lol.

miss.a.p1600
06-15-2021, 01:04 PM
The way men are so desperate and thirsty for pussy got me curious n I wish I could have a dick for a day so I could know what pussy feels like.

AChildOfBoredom
06-15-2021, 01:14 PM
Coworker died of a heart attack last night. He was feeling ill, so he went home yesterday. I talked to him as he was leaving the shop, just the basic, “Get some rest, see a doctor if you need to” stuff. He was dead by the time his wife came home.

We weren’t super close or anything, but we got along and we were friendly towards each other. He always had chewing gum on hand, and always offered it to others, no matter the situation. Odd situations to, and I remember explaining an ongoing situation to him and asking him at the end of it, “…and chewing gum is supposed to somehow make this better?”, to which he just shrugged his shoulders and said, “It can’t hurt”.

His kids are adult age… my age range… and he has grandchildren. I had to help put his toolbox into a safe area for storage until his family can get it, and his has a stainless steel top, over which he installed a sheet of lexan or plexiglass or I don’t really know for sure what it is, but it’s transparent and he had photos of his family inserted between that and the top of his box, and also some other photos, including us in the shop. It looks like his son will be taking his tools, but he doesn’t have a vehicle adequate to move them, so my employer offered the use of one of our lift gate trucks and me to drive it, since I’d already shown his family to his work area, and it looks like that’ll happen on Thursday.

Anyhow, I’m rambling. Like I said, we weren’t super close or anything. I still feel for his family though, and I’ll miss the guy.

Marina Starr
06-15-2021, 01:55 PM
The country is opening up but I'll still be social distancing and wearing a mask because I hate people and like staying away from them.

JenniferNorth
06-15-2021, 02:08 PM
I'll start my thread here in Ladies Only! Thank you mods for your support!!!

LoveyDovey
06-15-2021, 05:03 PM
The country is opening up but I'll still be social distancing and wearing a mask because I hate people and like staying away from them.

Same. People suck. (Not you guys.)

Even though I didn't work today due to my car being in the shop, I still made good use of my day. I walked for 2.5 hours, got my thc edibles, saw my kid, vacuumed, laundry, bought groceries online. And I may take another walk before my groceries get here BC I am pmsing and feeling all bloated.

lilylilylily
06-15-2021, 09:35 PM
I agreed to see the new guy again this Friday. He texts daily but always says he'll text later in the night and never does. I wouldn't care but the fact that he says he'll text but doesn't shows he's probably gonna be inconsistent. Not getting a good vibe and might just cancel Friday.

Luci Fer
06-15-2021, 10:55 PM
I just didn’t grow up with sugary foods and beverages, and never took a shine to those after living on my own. My snack food weakness isn’t candy - it’s Gardettos.



It probably doesn’t help that John Wayne Gacy used to perform as a clown.

Neither did I. I mean..there were a bit, and my parents tried to give me 1 candy per day..until I found the location of a whole pack of them and started to steal them from there, hiding the wrappings under my mattress lol
Gardettos would be my snack food weakness too ;D
ps. how do you do this - answering two different posts in one? I 'd love it, because I feel like I abuse threads answering different people in two separate posts going one by one lol

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-16-2021, 04:34 AM
Coworker died of a heart attack last night. He was feeling ill, so he went home yesterday. I talked to him as he was leaving the shop, just the basic, “Get some rest, see a doctor if you need to” stuff. He was dead by the time his wife came home.

We weren’t super close or anything, but we got along and we were friendly towards each other. He always had chewing gum on hand, and always offered it to others, no matter the situation. Odd situations to, and I remember explaining an ongoing situation to him and asking him at the end of it, “…and chewing gum is supposed to somehow make this better?”, to which he just shrugged his shoulders and said, “It can’t hurt”.

His kids are adult age… my age range… and he has grandchildren. I had to help put his toolbox into a safe area for storage until his family can get it, and his has a stainless steel top, over which he installed a sheet of lexan or plexiglass or I don’t really know for sure what it is, but it’s transparent and he had photos of his family inserted between that and the top of his box, and also some other photos, including us in the shop. It looks like his son will be taking his tools, but he doesn’t have a vehicle adequate to move them, so my employer offered the use of one of our lift gate trucks and me to drive it, since I’d already shown his family to his work area, and it looks like that’ll happen on Thursday.

Anyhow, I’m rambling. Like I said, we weren’t super close or anything. I still feel for his family though, and I’ll miss the guy.


Whoah that's sad.

Be happy you can be helpful to his family. Speaking as someone who knows mechanics are awfully attached to their tools and toolboxes, he'd want his son to have them.

moneybags
06-16-2021, 11:14 AM
Sorry for the loss of your coworker @achildofboredom

I was watching my favorite tarot card reader and she said Mary Magdalene was a divine being. Kinda flips the judgement of sex workers on its head, when you think that one of the closest and beloved people in the Bible was once a prostitute.


So why are people so awful to sex workers? Some of us are closer to “God” than most people will ever be? Sex workers are some of the most enlightened and kindest people I know.

LoveyDovey
06-16-2021, 11:39 AM
^^ People are awful to sex workers because:

1) we don't live our lives based on what ppl think of us.
2) they're jealous that they don't have the looks/confidence
3) we make good money
4) we have more fun than they do. Dancing never felt like "work" to me. Douchecanoes aside, it never felt like work to me.

There's more but I think these are the basics.

@ChildofB I'm sorry about your coworker. That is sad news.

@money I am very close to God/Goddess and am very spiritual. I know from my near-death experience that God loves me and other strippers too. Even after I had my NDE God never made me feel like my job was shameful or something that needed to be changed. If anything, God was more concerned with my caffeine and internet addiction so He released me from those things. God was never like YOU NEED TO QUIT STRIPPING NOW OR YOURE GOING TO HELL! As long as everyone involved was an adult who consented to being there, there were no issues.

Aurora_Sunset
06-16-2021, 06:29 PM
Found out that the psychic/tarot reader who did a reading for me and my husband on Valentine's Day 2 years ago, and who I still follow on facebook, lives in our complex. Saw her car with her logo on it, pointed it out to hubby, and he was like "Oh, I thought that woman at the pool looked familiar!" How random.