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LoveyDovey
06-27-2021, 03:11 PM
^^yep, a man Lol makes sense. Men and their entitlement...
charlie61
06-27-2021, 03:11 PM
Some random person on my Twitter DMed me and was shocked to find out that strippers do it for the money. I had to explain to them that yes, all strippers do it for the money because it's a job. We are there to make money. Why is this so shocking? Lol people are weird. Like they think we do it for the attention or something.
Right! When i started dancing, minimum wage was $5/hour in my state. Compared to being able to make $100-800+/shift as a baby dive dancer with zero hustle skills in 2006. Even the $100 nights i had (zero conversational skills, zero clue, worst outfits you can imagine) felt like a blessing.
Marina Starr
06-27-2021, 03:24 PM
I'm in total disbelief it was a man, LMAO! What a shocker that strippers got bills to pay.
I got the same shit on cam with dudes asking for location, what state, what city, what town so they could come by and fuck for free. I'm not a fucking non-profit organization, lol. That's christianmingle.com
^^yep, a man Lol makes sense. Men and their entitlement...
LoveyDovey
06-27-2021, 03:48 PM
Lol^^ somehow I get the feeling that even christianmingle wouldn't want them either...
Aurora_Sunset
06-27-2021, 04:31 PM
I am absolutely convinced that bio-mom has been lying out of her ass about still having a lawyer. I don't think she's had one on retainer for months, if not years.
They've had this big mess regarding a document not being filed properly a long time ago, and it has taken months of BS to resolve. She constantly harasses my husband about it. She'll always spout off about how she "talked to her lawyer" or "her lawyer said such-and-such" - but... then, WHY isn't her lawyer the one who's ever making phone calls to hubby's lawyer about this issue? For an attorney that apparently talks to her about this issue constantly, sure seems weird that she's never sent an email or picked up the phone to deal with it herself and just always makes her client call her ex-husband about talking to his lawyer???
She kept threatening to take him to court for "contempt of court" which doesn't even make sense for this situation, because it wasn't in any way his fault or even something he could control. I think she just throws the phrase around because her lawyer used it regarding something a long time ago. She doesn't actually know what it means. When her deadline came and went to "take him to court if he didn't get it settled," SHE called his attorney's office and bitched about it. Again... why? Where's this lawyer you talk to "all the time" and is so ready to take your ex husband to court, bitch?
Now, his attorney's office has tried emailing her attorney multiple times about some incorrect information on the form, and she never gets back to them. I'm curious to know if she ever responds that she doesn't represent her anymore lol.
The original attorney she had was paid for by her parents. I think they stopped paying for her, and she didn't want to put down the $1500 retainer for her own new one. I think she's been bluffing every time she's said ANYTHING about her "lawyer" for god knows how long now, hoping she can just scare us with made-up threats so that she doesn't actually have to go pay a new one.
It just kills me that she accuses us of "lying" about everything, but she is the biggest narcissistic liar I've ever met.
indiegirl
06-27-2021, 05:36 PM
Still praying for Miami. What's happening is tragic and heartbreaking. I don't think much people can survive that. Watched a little update this morning on youtube and my eyes got wet. Surprised myself because I hardly ever cry.
I've been following that and my god, how terrifying would that be to trapped under rubble or even waiting to hear if your family member is alive or not. I see a major lawsuit brewing because of this.
Emanuelle
06-28-2021, 01:26 AM
Despite it being considered a great work of literature I've never read it because I know that getting into the mind of a pedophile would be too disturbing for me. I've wanted to read it to help me answer questions I have on why a story like this would be popular considering the subject matter. Maybe it's the same as reading a story about a serial killer from the serial killer's point of view. Although I would more likely read a book a serial killer.
I agree with all of that. I tried to read it once but quit because it was disturbing, and I had to go back a few years later to finish it. Not sure why I felt that was necessary. It is a very well written book, but I definitely could have lived without it. There are thousands of other well written books to read instead. This is what happens when I leave this random thoughts page open while I browse the internet.
Some random person on my Twitter DMed me and was shocked to find out that strippers do it for the money. I had to explain to them that yes, all strippers do it for the money because it's a job. We are there to make money. Why is this so shocking? Lol people are weird. Like they think we do it for the attention or something.
I was always dumbfounded when customers made a comment like "oh, so you're just in this for the money". Yes. Yes, of course I am. I go to work for money. You go to work for money. That's what a job is. Performing tasks for payment. Why does this logic disappear in a strip club? For what other reason could I possibly be there? To meet men? It's not that hard to meet men. They're literally everywhere I go. And although this may seem shocking I don't have to show my boobs to get their attention. :D
lurkingtitties
06-28-2021, 04:01 AM
I ended up having a 2 hour conversation with my friend yesterday about how bad her guy is and that she needs to get him out of her life. It felt like an intervention...not at all how I thought the weekend was going to go. She cried a lot and agreed with everything I said/opened up about some of his really heinous behavior that she hasn’t shared with anyone, but she also kept saying how she isn’t ready to do it because she knows he’ll end up homeless again and she loves him sooooo much (eye roll). I hate seeing my friend sacrifice her own happiness for this turd who doesn’t even say thank you and tries to cheat on her!
Elektra Luxx
06-28-2021, 05:31 AM
I agree with all of that. I tried to read it once but quit because it was disturbing, and I had to go back a few years later to finish it. Not sure why I felt that was necessary. It is a very well written book, but I definitely could have lived without it. There are thousands of other well written books to read instead. This is what happens when I leave this random thoughts page open while I browse the internet.
I really like science fiction, but I don't like books where story setting is just happen to be on another planet, on a spaceship or in the future and it has little to do with science. It's just fiction set in a science fiction setting. I read a book by Robert A. Heinlein who is considered one of the greats of science fiction and it really creeped me out so much that I couldn't finish it. I can't remember the name, but it was set in the frontier exploration of another planet, but a significant part of the book was about wedding celebration incest orgies. I find out after that Heinlein was into the free love movement in the 60's. So it was basically his sexually fantasies written down in a science fiction setting.
JenniferNorth
06-28-2021, 08:00 AM
I am absolutely convinced that bio-mom has been lying out of her ass about still having a lawyer. I don't think she's had one on retainer for months, if not years.
They've had this big mess regarding a document not being filed properly a long time ago, and it has taken months of BS to resolve. She constantly harasses my husband about it. She'll always spout off about how she "talked to her lawyer" or "her lawyer said such-and-such" - but... then, WHY isn't her lawyer the one who's ever making phone calls to hubby's lawyer about this issue? For an attorney that apparently talks to her about this issue constantly, sure seems weird that she's never sent an email or picked up the phone to deal with it herself and just always makes her client call her ex-husband about talking to his lawyer???
She kept threatening to take him to court for "contempt of court" which doesn't even make sense for this situation, because it wasn't in any way his fault or even something he could control. I think she just throws the phrase around because her lawyer used it regarding something a long time ago. She doesn't actually know what it means. When her deadline came and went to "take him to court if he didn't get it settled," SHE called his attorney's office and bitched about it. Again... why? Where's this lawyer you talk to "all the time" and is so ready to take your ex husband to court, bitch?
Now, his attorney's office has tried emailing her attorney multiple times about some incorrect information on the form, and she never gets back to them. I'm curious to know if she ever responds that she doesn't represent her anymore lol.
The original attorney she had was paid for by her parents. I think they stopped paying for her, and she didn't want to put down the $1500 retainer for her own new one. I think she's been bluffing every time she's said ANYTHING about her "lawyer" for god knows how long now, hoping she can just scare us with made-up threats so that she doesn't actually have to go pay a new one.
It just kills me that she accuses us of "lying" about everything, but she is the biggest narcissistic liar I've ever met.
This all sounds VERY much like this lady is faking it. Why wouldn't you have your attorney deal with this shit mess for you??! I wouldn't deal with my ex if I could pawn it off on the attorney. I think it's all a ruse and she is hoping you guys don't notice. Hubby should call her out on this shit and see what she says.
Marina Starr
06-28-2021, 08:46 AM
Sending lots of love to Britney. I didn't know all the shit they're doing to her was even possible, SMH. I'm gonna order this shirt and wear it religiously. #freebritney
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LoveyDovey
06-28-2021, 09:15 AM
^^ It's horrible what they've put her through!
Staci
06-28-2021, 10:40 AM
Have you guys read Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov? The detail in the main character's thoughts and emotions of a pedophile just seem too authentic to be written by someone who doesn't have an intimate understanding of how the mind of a pedophile works. I think the only way that kind of authenticity could be achieved is if Mr Nabokov was a pedophile himself. I mean the guy seems genuinely orgasmic when he talks about creeping on and raping the little girl. And his reactions to her reactions...... I'm convinced he was a pedophile, and even though the book was based on a true crime story I think this was his fantasy of him doing it himself. It's like he's not telling a story, he's describing how an experience felt.
I never realized how many pedophiles there were until I became a phone sex operator.
Most may not act on their inclinations, but they fantasize about it.
It has made me more wary and vigilant for sure!
carmen_b
06-28-2021, 02:57 PM
I loved that I made a little during my audition lol .
It was like $18 but I'll take it.
^ I spent it randomly throughout the day and my partner was highly amused at me getting something and then pulling out the 1's hahahah.
I wouldn’t let J come to the audition haha.
chanzep
06-28-2021, 07:10 PM
Sending lots of love to Britney. I didn't know all the shit they're doing to her was even possible, SMH. I'm gonna order this shirt and wear it religiously. #freebritney
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Where are you getting it I need this.
indiegirl
06-29-2021, 12:11 AM
Why is it dead financially?! I had 2 people cancel on me today and nobody for 2 days because they wanted last minute or not to screen or bareback requests. One wanted me to travel....UGH. I don't want to travel if I paid for this room.
I've spent the night looking up dog breeds preparing for the inevitable so I'm not devastated since my dogs are considered "older" and one turning 10yrs old in October...I imagine myself walking into dog shelters getting another adult or being more responsible with dog choices and purchasing a puppy APBT or dogo argentino that's well raised by me. I can't even picture my nuggets passing away. I'd just want another mister needy. He doesn't even look like he's turning 10 LOL. This crazy lovebug!
https://i.ibb.co/dDf3vCc/IMG-3538.jpg (https://ibb.co/kXGrTby)
Marina Starr
06-29-2021, 07:01 AM
https://www.amazon.com/Free-Britney-Movement-T-Shirt/dp/B08WLK91TZ/ref=sr_1_6?dchild=1&keywords=free+britney&qid=1624975266&sr=8-6
Or search 'free britney' on Amazon if you prefer other designs.
Where are you getting it I need this.
WendiStarr
06-29-2021, 08:07 AM
I'm gonna give sunless tanner another try and hope I don't turn orange again. It's summer and I'm a natural redhead who burns and freckles instead of tans. Sometimes I wish I had inherited my dad's skin tone. He's Japanese but his skin turns a deep tan color in the summer that people mistake him for Latino.
JenniferNorth
06-29-2021, 08:58 AM
I'm gonna give sunless tanner another try and hope I don't turn orange again. It's summer and I'm a natural redhead who burns and freckles instead of tans. Sometimes I wish I had inherited my dad's skin tone. He's Japanese but his skin turns a deep tan color in the summer that people mistake him for Latino.
Maybe try out a Versaspa? Most tanning places have some spray on option. That is what I am going to do. I am also a natural redhead (but very DARK red). I like sunless tanner but it can be so streaky! Are you using a mitt? I have heard those are a big help.
miss.a.p1600
06-29-2021, 11:08 AM
I never realized how many pedophiles there were until I became a phone sex operator.
Most may not act on their inclinations, but they fantasize about it.
It has made me more wary and vigilant for sure!
Yeah I was on a vanilla phone site and of course, without fail, these sick perverted men tried to engage their kinks on the vanilla site
One dude I blocked, started talking about how he would flash himself at unsuspecting women especially women who he knew weren't in a position to report him
I don't engage in non-consensual stuff, even if it is a fantasy. Hell, I don't know if the dude was telling real stories or fantisizing.
Either way I was creeped out and blocked him.
For me, no money is worth listening to that garbage.....esp. not on a vanilla site
TheBrownFox
06-29-2021, 11:33 AM
This forum has been having quite a lot of problems loading lately.
Aurora_Sunset
06-29-2021, 03:12 PM
I'm finally reading Quiet by Susan Cain, and I can see why the book has had such hype for years! It goes deep into how extrovert culture became the ideal in society, the advantages, and disadvantages to prizing extroverted traits over introverted.
It's an amazing book so far, but I admit I feel like an old lady trying to read it - it has the smallest print of any book I've read for awhile, and I'm holding it so close to my face or squinting to focus on it, even with my glasses or contacts lol
lynn2009
06-29-2021, 08:23 PM
Sometimes I think about how many different places there are to sit in my house and how weird it is. Like, there are two places specifcally for eating (counter and table). I have my office and desk chair and a lounge chair in there. There's the living room couch and recliner. I'm going to put a big comfy chair in the basement. I'm going to have a craft kind of table in the basement. I can sit in the patio and also got a lawn chair to sit in the tree line shade where it's cooler. There's a chair in my bedroom that I don't use too much but I keep because my dog uses the area below it as a den. I think that's everything. It's too much for one person right? So inefficient.
Elektra Luxx
06-29-2021, 08:42 PM
^^^
It's not too much for one person. You have lots of room to grow and that's a good thing.
AChildOfBoredom
06-30-2021, 02:25 AM
Made a push for my sister to get on birth control, as the boy from the community will be coming here soon. I think he intends to propose to her, but I don’t know… maybe he just wants to smash. Mennonite or not, he’s 18, so his dick is still thinking for him, and my sister tries to act ambiguous about him, but she’s terrible at bluffing. So told me she’s more responsible than that, so I told her, “Accidents happen… ask our mother”. So my sister says she’s learned from that story, so I had to tell her our own mother didn’t… she had two accidents. And for being so smart, my sister can be quite dense sometimes, so she got wide eyed and asked if there was another sibling, which I told her no. Then just as I think she’s figured it out, she points to herself and says, “Me?”. Of course not… they tried for years to conceive her. And she didn’t want to say it, so I finally just spit it out that I was talking about me. I found this out about a year before I moved out, when I saw my parents’ marriage certificate from the state and that the date was after my date of birth, whereas I had always thought they were married before I was born. They got married because my mother was knocked up with me. Another bastard bitch to my mother’s claim. I’ve wondered ever since whether or not I fucked up the plans of two people as far as how they wanted to live their lives went. They were young, they probably had wild oats they wanted to sew without being tied down. But I came along and fucked that up for them. Abortion was out of the question for them. My father is Mennonite and my mother came from an Amish family then baptized into the Mennonite church when she married my father. A shame, really. Perhaps they’d have been happier to have gotten the abortion and gone about experiencing life rather than to bring a wretch like me into this fucking world, only to have to watch me be able to carve my own path the way they never got to.
Anyhow, it was enough to convince her, so that’s good.
carmen_b
06-30-2021, 08:18 AM
^ Get her on the pill and use condoms haha !
They are young and fertile.
Don't tell the guy about the pill for 2-3 months until completely trust worthy.
carmen_b
06-30-2021, 08:42 AM
I am in a low level state of agitation because I don't have a good sense of what my vanilla business will make in July.
We are not scheduled to go out on a job in July yet but would *typically* get at least one job ( worth about $900 - $1300 ) last minute.
Then retainers for future ones . :/
I just feel like it might be a month that I'll really have to claw and push for sales.
I hope it isn't that way !! :)
As a back up I have penciled in 5-6 nights to be at the club in July.
They are FIRM on my calendar in case I don't make much during the first 10 days of July.
I need to reserve those dates for myself in case the vanilla gig doesn't do much .
When things are a little slow I notice it's JUST like the club. Like today I don't want to post on IG even though obviously I need to lol.
It's literally free advertising for businesses .
I think things to myself ( about the Vanilla customers ) like " c'mon you useless stumps , SPEND " lol.
It reminds me of being in the club fighting that desire to hide in the dressing room ( or the parking lot ) if the last few hours have been slow.
I think I will do some sort of abundance ritual or meditation or multiple ones over the next 3-4 days.
Marina Starr
06-30-2021, 09:45 AM
It's hilarious how some folks gets so uncomfortable when I tell them I used to be a boy... that gets them all twisted in their panties, LOL. Just like a butterfly metamorphosis. I was a once a caterpillar blossomed into a beautiful butterfly. I own and celebrate that and I'm proud of it.
Many people are so burdened by what society wants them to be. That's a heavy load to carry because who the hell is society anyway. So be who you are and be that well and don't be afraid to take up space in the world because you belong. You matter, you are valid.
carmen_b
06-30-2021, 09:48 AM
PLUS .... how does it affect THEM that you used to be a boy ?
Some people ! ;/
Marina Starr
06-30-2021, 09:51 AM
None, zero, NADA. It has no bearing on their lives but you'll be surprised how bothered people are by it.
PLUS .... how does it affect THEM that you used to be a boy ?
Some people ! ;/
JenniferNorth
06-30-2021, 11:43 AM
It's hilarious how some folks gets so uncomfortable when I tell them I used to be a boy... that gets them all twisted in their panties, LOL. Just like a butterfly metamorphosis. I was a once a caterpillar blossomed into a beautiful butterfly. I own and celebrate that and I'm proud of it.
Many people are so burdened by what society wants them to be. That's a heavy load to carry because who the hell is society anyway. So be who you are and be that well and don't be afraid to take up space in the world because you belong. You matter, you are valid.
So stupid how some people think. You should be proud of who you are. All that matters is you are a good person.
I don't understand out country. Offended by trans people, but totally okay with predators like R Kelly and Jeffery Epstein (maybe not now, but those men flew under the radar for *years*).
Marina Starr
06-30-2021, 04:19 PM
You know they say the young generations are more open minded and more accepting, that's not been my experience. I find a lot of Gen Z (age 9-24) have low self esteem so they build themselves up by bullying.
I was at the mall today picking up food and some white cunt, looks to be in her young 20 got the nerves to laugh, called me names and made fun of me at my expense. She feels emboldened because her man was with her. That hasn't happened in a long, long time. So I flipped the fuck out and that cunt fled. She could feel the intensity of my wrath because I don't fuck around.
I'm petite, I'm 5'3 but size doesn't matter. It's the intensity of rage that will scare bitches real fast. I was bullied for years, never felt I had a voice or strength to stand up for myself but now I do so I'll be damned if I'll let anyone bully me.
So even if you are fully vaccinated, the CDC still recommends that you mind your fucking business and not bully people because you never know which bitch is batshit crazy...
I feel better now that I got this shit off my chest.
WendiStarr
06-30-2021, 07:20 PM
I ordered some norethisterone because I am on day 9 of my period and I'm sick of having this nasty monthly curse. I want a hysterectomy.
AChildOfBoredom
06-30-2021, 08:17 PM
Taking the weekend off for our annual Fourth of July vacation. I think it’s especially good for those of us who were never raised under any notion of patriotism and such. In hindsight I find it funny how the English kids would get upset that we didn’t say the Pledge of Allegiance, all the while having no real idea of what it was they were pledging.
indiegirl
07-02-2021, 02:17 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vkOpB6jA_bA
This is exactly how I envision camping. I can't do it. I remember my brother talking about going camping in the past with his now fiance for multiple days. You'd hear me bitching for days. I'd be shouting, "I have a home! Let's go home!"
I threw my back out laying on my sisters dorm floor wayy long ago just sleeping on the floor with a blanket from my scoliosis so there's no way I'm walking away from a tent unscathed. LOL!!!
carmen_b
07-02-2021, 02:22 PM
^ I'm so glad my current partner would never suggest camping lol.
My ex and I did it my way before ( in a vehicle ) but only for a night here or there.
In my younger days like 19-21 where I had more time and not much $ at all it was so useful.
My friend and I would get our gas money together and we would do some serious exploring with no more than a tent and a little money for gas and food.
carmen_b
07-02-2021, 03:19 PM
What do y'all use for your IG's to put words over a photo ?
Like for a dancer for example :
( photo of ass )
Then below it " See me at xyz club in these times ".
I just tried Canva but maybe I'm doing something wrong on my phone lol.
Aurora_Sunset
07-02-2021, 03:32 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vkOpB6jA_bA
This is exactly how I envision camping. I can't do it. I remember my brother talking about going camping in the past with his now fiance for multiple days. You'd hear me bitching for days. I'd be shouting, "I have a home! Let's go home!"
I threw my back out laying on my sisters dorm floor wayy long ago just sleeping on the floor with a blanket from my scoliosis so there's no way I'm walking away from a tent unscathed. LOL!!!
You actually just gave me a brilliant idea!
I have two Saturdays from now off of work due to maintenance. We don't have the kids, and I've been trying to think of something to do/somewhere my husband and I could go for the weekend. The main place we would normally do an overnight at is booked up on hotels. Everything else is so far away, it would waste too much time driving. But we can stay in that basic area and CAMP. He's been talking about wanting to do a camping trip for years now.
I know you posted this to complain, but you just saved my weekend lol
miss.a.p1600
07-02-2021, 04:00 PM
So stupid how some people think. You should be proud of who you are. All that matters is you are a good person.
I don't understand out country. Offended by trans people, but totally okay with predators like R Kelly and Jeffery Epstein (maybe not now, but those men flew under the radar for *years*).
I want to rage against my boyfriend
He’s against Trump bragging about grabbing pussy but somehow Bill Cosby bragging about drugging broads before sexing them is somehow okay
indiegirl
07-02-2021, 04:14 PM
You actually just gave me a brilliant idea!
I have two Saturdays from now off of work due to maintenance. We don't have the kids, and I've been trying to think of something to do/somewhere my husband and I could go for the weekend. The main place we would normally do an overnight at is booked up on hotels. Everything else is so far away, it would waste too much time driving. But we can stay in that basic area and CAMP. He's been talking about wanting to do a camping trip for years now.
I know you posted this to complain, but you just saved my weekend lol
Hahaha I'm glad I can be of help :)!
indiegirl
07-02-2021, 04:17 PM
Alright, I'm back in self preservation mode. My botox appointment is on the 7th. I can't quit now, I've been preserving this face for far too long with botox to quit now. I haven't driven my car for months so I hope it starts on the 7th. Mama has been working hard!
TheBrownFox
07-02-2021, 05:40 PM
So this old butt plug thread that someone resurrected...lol.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?228563-Butt-plugs-on-stage-you-guys-really-do-this
I see that the last two posters were banned. I guess someone (a "blue") loves making new accounts on here, huh?
indiegirl
07-03-2021, 10:54 AM
I'm rewatching To Catch a Predator on Youtube and wondering how the heck these guys make a living after being released from prison. They're not allowed to be around children and they have background checks nowadays so how the heck do they make an income to support themselves? Nobody wants to be working at a job with a Chomo. Totally random lol!!
Genoveve
07-03-2021, 01:03 PM
So this old butt plug thread that someone resurrected...lol.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?228563-Butt-plugs-on-stage-you-guys-really-do-this
I see that the last two posters were banned. I guess someone (a "blue") loves making new accounts on here, huh?
I think those two were spammers.
lilylilylily
07-03-2021, 01:58 PM
I drunk texted my ex last night, now he wants to get together. I might see him but I told him only as friends.. I had sex with a new dude last night. It wasn't amazing like I thought it would be, that's why I texted ex. Ugh
Marina Starr
07-03-2021, 02:05 PM
It's been known that good dick will imprison you! #gooddick
I drunk texted my ex last night, now he wants to get together. I might see him but I told him only as friends.. I had sex with a new dude last night. It wasn't amazing like I thought it would be, that's why I texted ex. Ugh
lilylilylily
07-03-2021, 02:16 PM
My ex wasnt great either 😔 I just ordered the rose vibrator to make myself feel better.
carmen_b
07-04-2021, 07:15 AM
Aw ^
I hope you find a dude that you click with very soon !
Is is possibly he was nervous ? If he has treated you well so far he might have been .
indiegirl
07-04-2021, 07:46 AM
Ah yes, I plan on working tonight or staying home with my headphones in watching a movie once again. This nightmare holiday involving fireworks is beginning. I embarrassingly screamed while my uber driver picked me up yesterday because my neighbors had full blown fireworks they were setting off into the sky and I didn't know it was gonna happen. It was July 3rd! He asked if I served in the army because I reacted so terrified lollll. Oh god LOL!
TheBrownFox
07-04-2021, 09:31 AM
Lmao!
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