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indiegirl
08-01-2021, 04:21 PM
This is hilarious. I wish more of the Olympic commentators were like this:
https://youtu.be/uK5AIJQ2tlA?t=74
TheBrownFox
08-01-2021, 05:29 PM
Hot flashes are a bitch.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-01-2021, 06:44 PM
So I just found out that the lawyer I used for child support got arrested Tuesday with no bond. He was arrested for sexually assaulting a minor under 12. I contacted him last year but decided not to use him because he seemed rude. I thought he was a excellent lawyer but I am so shocked that he committed such a crime.
I'm kind of not surprised. The guys I've known who seek out sexual activity with minors get less shy about it as they age. & This jerk I dealt with about a decade ago got outed as a pedo & he was always making the most noise about how bad child molesters are. I guess he was deflecting attention from his secret proclivities.
Random thought- my idiot sibling bought a motorcycle for himself, due to brain damage he doesn't remember how he almost died in a motorcycle wreck about three decades ago. I guess this is the way he is choosing to go out in a blaze of glory. Ugh.
carmen_b
08-02-2021, 07:11 AM
I am really putting the miles on . I wish gas wasn't so expensive ! I am just really feeling it lately !
I have a 4-5 hour drive today, ugh.
I do have something awesome to look forward to though.
J is taking me to Vegas soon. :)
I’m excited to be there and NOT be working !
I just find it hot AF when the dude initiates a trip / makes all the plans!
LoveyD
08-02-2021, 10:43 AM
I saw in my informed delivery that I'm receiving a card from someone at the University of Wisconsin in Madison. What's weird is that I don't know anyone from there, and they didn't put my last name on the envelope. Just my first and middle name. I only use my first and middle name on my social media and Gmail account. The words are hand-written. This is really weird and now I am curious.
carmen_b
08-02-2021, 11:19 AM
I feel slight guilt only seeing J’s daughter 1 day out of her Tues - Sat. visit but also recognize that the break was helpful to me . I was traveling 4 of those days solo and they joined up me one day in there. That is a crazy long visit . This is the 2nd or 3rd time ever we will have five days in a row coming up .
EDIT : Now I am over the guilt ! I am enjoying this adults only time so much !
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-02-2021, 11:28 AM
I'm secretly proud of myself that most of my kitchenware is 2nd hand items or purchased from Costco. I'm old enough to make ethical spending decisions and it makes me feel good.
Also hoping I can get back to doing volunteer work this winter.
carmen_b
08-02-2021, 11:29 AM
^ Used items can be a great life hack really.
miss.a.p1600
08-02-2021, 11:53 AM
I'm secretly proud of myself that most of my kitchenware is 2nd hand items or purchased from Costco. I'm old enough to make ethical spending decisions and it makes me feel good.
Also hoping I can get back to doing volunteer work this winter.
Girl I save so much money buying my clothes at consignment. I started clothes shopping there exclusively a couple years ago.
I never wear clothes more than a few times anyways (unless itÂ’s denim or some favorite dress or something)
Never forget when I was young and got my first job I had $100, went to gap, paid full price, and only walked out with 2 items.
I could fill a whole closet for $100 at the consignment shop.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-02-2021, 11:57 AM
2nd hand/ consignment shopping is also the only way to get items that might not be available otherwise. I value uniqueness so that is the added element of thrill to buying secondhand.
Random thought- ugh I need to get to work.
lilylilylily
08-02-2021, 12:11 PM
My ex texted me today. I wanted to say something really mean to him but I'm over it, will go back to ignoring him or using him as a distraction from these other fuckers I'm talking to ugh lol
LoveyD
08-02-2021, 12:37 PM
I saw in my informed delivery that I'm receiving a card from someone at the University of Wisconsin in Madison. What's weird is that I don't know anyone from there, and they didn't put my last name on the envelope. Just my first and middle name. I only use my first and middle name on my social media and Gmail account. The words are hand-written. This is really weird and now I am curious.
The myserty has been solved! It was a payment and thank you note for a focus group that I did. I totally forgot about it.
whirlerz
08-02-2021, 03:08 PM
Here's my latest 'baby', a Blue Column Cactus.
They're supposed to be one of the fastest growers.:)
I did have one that reached the ceiling, it was about 3' when I bought it.
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AChildOfBoredom
08-02-2021, 08:19 PM
S’s girlfriend challenged me on a video game… Just Dance… whichever one is on PS5, because I know absolutely fuck about video games. She knows I do pole dance and aerial silks, but seemed to think I can’t dance with my feet on the ground, and especially not to the music featured in that game. Better luck next time.
indiegirl
08-02-2021, 09:57 PM
I so love it when I convince people to buy the product I'm raving about. We just shared our bug kill count in our houses for the day. I found a grasshopper and another fly today. It's like a scary game where I scream while using the bug zapper in the house LOL!
carmen_b
08-03-2021, 10:14 AM
I survived that damn 5 hour drive south ( it actually took me SIX ).
I was so damn tired I had to have breaks .
I came back to a warm bath and a dozen pink roses next to it. OMG.
^ I wish it was easier to post a picture straight here .
:) !!!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-03-2021, 12:04 PM
Some people hate the month of August because it tends to be the hottest time of the year. Nope, not me! It's one of my favorites because the scent of the ocean breeze is the strongest. Plus it's LEO season. Those fuckers really know how to celebrate their life cycle.
carmen_b
08-03-2021, 12:11 PM
Ohhhhhh being my the ocean sounds so amazing in Aug. !!
LoveyD
08-03-2021, 01:38 PM
Some people hate the month of August because it tends to be the hottest time of the year. Nope, not me! It's one of my favorites because the scent of the ocean breeze is the strongest. Plus it's LEO season. Those fuckers really know how to celebrate their life cycle.
My son is a Leo. He is the shyest Leo ever.But he has a big loyal heart and is just a funny person.
I live near the ocean too and love that all I need is a fan. No Ac necessary.
TheBrownFox
08-03-2021, 05:43 PM
Plus it's LEO season. Those fuckers really know how to celebrate their life cycle.
We sure do! Lol. I have so many funny Leo memes for Facebook. ;D
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TheBrownFox
08-03-2021, 11:40 PM
At first I thought that 'sugar baby + stigma' thread was posted in Ladies Only. It took me a minute to realize it was posted in The Lounge. Lol.
indiegirl
08-04-2021, 09:13 AM
I hate being shaked down for money for bills and the company treating it every time like I'm entering a secret vault online just to pay my bill. Trust, no one needs to enter personal questions to pay a water bill.
TheBrownFox
08-04-2021, 12:12 PM
What's up with these "curious guests" commenting on these old-ass threads?
Marina Starr
08-04-2021, 12:21 PM
It really warms my heart seeing more and more companies are mandating employees to get vaccinated. Should have done this a long time ago but it's still not too late.
Let's mandate vaccines everywhere. I am for and fully support forced vaccination. CHEERS!
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AChildOfBoredom
08-04-2021, 01:03 PM
I just read the thread about places which aren’t travel friendly and remembered I still have some paper bills being sent to my old roommate (who lives in Denver). Covid kinda snuffed out any travel dancing ambitions I had.
carmen_b
08-04-2021, 02:29 PM
He is going to try to get a room upgrade by pushing $40 forward at check in .
I wonder if it will work !
J thinks it will and I have never tried that .
charlie61
08-04-2021, 07:00 PM
He is going to try to get a room upgrade by pushing $40 forward at check in .
I wonder if it will work !
J thinks it will and I have never tried that .
I think this hotel made it clear to us that they don't upgrade for tips! I believe there was a crackdown. Keep us updated through!
random stripper
08-04-2021, 10:44 PM
Lol had a giantess fetish guy for the first time on cam. Fun stuff. I say dumbass shit like calling men "puny mortals" in real life anyways so this fit my personality.
indiegirl
08-05-2021, 08:17 AM
He is going to try to get a room upgrade by pushing $40 forward at check in .
I wonder if it will work !
J thinks it will and I have never tried that .
Gahhh I remember there was a site that shared how much they paid in a tip to get upgraded to suites ( I think it was mostly in the Las Vegas area). Can't remember what the name was of the site? It sounds like it would be tougher now because it's summertime though.
miss.a.p1600
08-05-2021, 08:33 AM
It really warms my heart seeing more and more companies are mandating employees to get vaccinated. Should have done this a long time ago but it's still not too late.
Let's mandate vaccines everywhere. I am for and fully support forced vaccination. CHEERS!
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Reminds me of when (before the vaccine) those maskless fools would traipse into public spaces, stir up some shit, then end up getting arrested on site
indiegirl
08-05-2021, 08:43 AM
I can't remember the last time I wore a bra and I've reached the point where I need to take my g-string off when I get home from work as well as my watch. Basically I just want to be naked nowadays because it is not restricting it seems? LOLLLLLL
I'm promising to myself that this is the last day I'm working. All those other promises didn't count. hahaha
Aurora_Sunset
08-05-2021, 01:21 PM
I hate being shaked down for money for bills and the company treating it every time like I'm entering a secret vault online just to pay my bill. Trust, no one needs to enter personal questions to pay a water bill.
Lol! This reminded me of a meme I saw not long ago where someone commented basically the same thing, saying, "Are people trying to impersonate me to pay my bills? Let them!"
WendiStarr
08-05-2021, 04:31 PM
I find it interesting that 4 other houses on my street are also all suddenly up for sale. I wonder if everybody else got tired of the obnoxious neighbor across the street, too and decided to get the hell out of here.
indiegirl
08-05-2021, 04:40 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BLip-YXhenA
This is what living your best life looks like. GEEZ. She was competing let alone won against simone biles and left it all and went to college to compete after being called fat when she was skinny as a teen. She's definitely athletic in her body now but go girl!!! She looks happy as fuck. I keep watching her videos. They're more entertaining than the Olympics.
I'm down for some Katelyn Ohashi in the Olympics and a reform :P.
trustfundkiller
08-06-2021, 07:54 AM
I'm really excited to go shopping for Halloween decor today. Home Goods is already putting out stuff. Last year I started looking for decor around Sept and I was already late to the game. Most of the good stuff was already sold out.
Marina Starr
08-06-2021, 10:58 AM
Lmfao
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TheBrownFox
08-06-2021, 01:10 PM
That 'Trusting Men' thread would have been great here in the Ladies Only section where the blues cannot post. But I love our 'The Man Bitching Thread' here too. :)
Optimist
08-06-2021, 03:40 PM
What's up with these "curious guests" commenting on these old-ass threads?
It's probably former members peeping.
TheBrownFox
08-06-2021, 08:22 PM
A Facebook friend just posted that it's time for her to start her Christmas shopping. What?! LOL.
AChildOfBoredom
08-06-2021, 11:53 PM
For this great, grand, wedding video, they want all of the bridesmaids and groomsmen to submit two songs each. Which puts me in a bit of a pickle, because… well, me and my musical tastes which really don’t have much of a place in such a video. She tells me, “Don’t worry… (one of the groomsmen) is submitting ‘Honkey Tonk Badonkadonk’” (and I’m ashamed of myself for even knowing that exists). Still feel like the majority of my playlist is out. Would this be alright?
https://youtu.be/bYXVk4cEbkY
trustfundkiller
08-07-2021, 10:13 AM
For this great, grand, wedding video, they want all of the bridesmaids and groomsmen to submit two songs each. Which puts me in a bit of a pickle, because… well, me and my musical tastes which really don’t have much of a place in such a video. She tells me, “Don’t worry… (one of the groomsmen) is submitting ‘Honkey Tonk Badonkadonk’” (and I’m ashamed of myself for even knowing that exists). Still feel like the majority of my playlist is out. Would this be alright?
https://youtu.be/bYXVk4cEbkY
I think that song is fine! Awwh, we all secretly like Honky Tonk Badonkadonk.
trustfundkiller
08-07-2021, 10:14 AM
I'm thinking about working Key West in Nov for the boat races. I remember back when Michele used to post on here she said it was very lucrative.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-07-2021, 11:28 AM
I'm thinking about working Key West in Nov for the boat races. I remember back when Michele used to post on here she said it was very lucrative.
Do it. KW is lousy with rich people. People I know go there for the winter (snowbirds.)
carmen_b
08-07-2021, 11:28 AM
Ohhhh ^
Sounds fun !!!
DJoser : turn your living room into a stripper dorm in Nov. so a few of us can come? Lol
carmen_b
08-07-2021, 11:30 AM
( edited )
So there are some updates in the works with me.
A main one is my new allowance J is giving me. :)
This is nuanced and there are some logical reasons ( scheduling is a big one ) as to why I feel comfy accepting a little help.
The nutshell version of how this came to be is remember the saga of my vanilla websites getting hacked in early July?
I just got them functional a few days ago and approved with google two days ago.
Every week of lost income has spiked my stress level.
It happened the same week I lost PUA assistance.
July was very rough. I made $400 for a night of dancing and nothing else.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-07-2021, 11:35 AM
Today is shaping up to be a great day off of work. My life is awesome.
lilylilylily
08-07-2021, 01:57 PM
No way I'm going to a family get together, especially when they told me last minute. Nope
carmen_b
08-07-2021, 02:23 PM
^ I support telling them no. :)
I am also wondering if I can get out of meeting J’s ex today.
It isn’t so much meeting that is the problem. It probably is time.
It was a same day request to meet.
I feel like J should have known better than to ask me but I was trying to be agreeable.
I wonder if I can push it 1-2 days back.
I’m exhausted from traveling and melting down while doing said traveling.
As it sits now I’m mad at him for even asking. We were traveling since Tuesday and it’s our first full day home.
carmen_b
08-07-2021, 03:26 PM
I will suggest tomorrow . ^
It’s not ok for him to assume I’d be open to that type of a meeting the same day ( or any social outing really ) with what is on my plate.
No same day social requests is what I’d like to stick to personally .
It’s just something to wrap my mind around.
I got very used to the full separation plan we seemed to have going.
lurkingtitties
08-07-2021, 06:22 PM
Went to a Maryland crab shack for the first time…holy shit that was so fun and delicious, but I should not have dressed up!