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lurkingtitties
09-19-2021, 02:31 PM
They’ve found a body in Grand Teton park but haven’t confirmed it’s her yet.
AChildOfBoredom
09-19-2021, 03:32 PM
They just said the remains are “consistent with the description” of her, but haven’t confirmed it or a cause of death from what I’ve read.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-19-2021, 03:59 PM
They’ve found a body in Grand Teton park but haven’t confirmed it’s her yet.
It's probably her.
It's sad but a LOT of abusive relationships end up with a dead woman as part of the situation.
indiegirl
09-20-2021, 01:30 AM
https://www.amazon.com/Dr-Killigans-Pheromone-Attractant-Insecticides/dp/B01GM1LUGS/ref=sr_1_5?crid=2GLHBKCLROWZ9&dchild=1&keywords=dr+killigans+premium+pantry+moth+traps&qid=1632126488&sprefix=Dr+killigans%2Caps%2C224&sr=8-5
Day 1 of trying out Dr. Killigans moth trap LOL. I love the name. I just killed a larvae on my wall which motivated me to start the process before the pro fumigation tomorrow.
Edit: HOLY SHIT! I literally just put the moth trap under my bed and caught one!!! Buh-bye! I quietly evil-laughed when I saw the dead moth LOL. Pack your bags moth's, you aren't staying here for free anymore! Can't believe I have pantry moth's in my bedroom. LMAO apparently the moth trap is utilized to lure in the males based on the pheromone sticky substance. The females will die off eventually once all the males have been killed. Hilarious how these male moths are like human males.
Marina Starr
09-20-2021, 05:31 AM
Debating if I want to remove my implants or get them redone much smaller. I'm naturally a padded A cup. I'd be happy with a VERY small B. Now I'm a full C but looks bigger when I wear "tight" fitting tops.
I KNOW what I don't want:
Tits that don't move no matter how big or small.
Tits so high they could sit on my collar bones.
Tits that you could see the shape and imprints of implants
What I DO want:
Teardrop shaped tits
Tits that move and bounce
Tits that look naturally close together. Not a big gap in between that you can land a plane on.
I live in a town full of plastic surgeons so that shouldn't be too much to ask.
Emanuelle
09-20-2021, 06:46 AM
Did you know that Shein has a fine jewelry section? Interesting. Also this forum is so distracting for me. I came to check for an answer to one question I asked last night. Now it's an hour later and I'm sharing nonsense fast fashion trivia. Get your life together woman! Get to work! lol
indiegirl
09-20-2021, 07:44 AM
Debating if I want to remove my implants or get them redone much smaller. I'm naturally a padded A cup. I'd be happy with a VERY small B. Now I'm a full C but looks bigger when I wear "tight" fitting tops.
I KNOW what I don't want:
Tits that don't move no matter how big or small.
Tits so high they could sit on my collar bones.
Tits that you could see the shape and imprints of implants
What I DO want:
Teardrop shaped tits
Tits that move and bounce
Tits that look naturally close together. Not a big gap in between that you can land a plane on.
I live in a town full of plastic surgeons so that shouldn't be too much to ask.
You should go smaller! I had a plastic surgeon who upped my requested size and I couldn't find clothes that would fit those D's properly. I went down to C's and because of them being D's for a while it looked so much more natural when I went to C's. I've had customers compliment my "natural" breasts despite them being saline implants LOL!! I was a AA bra size before the surgery.
Marina Starr
09-20-2021, 02:09 PM
Thanks! A lot of surgeons like to make you bigger than you requested because in their experience, once your implants dropped, they won't look as big as when you first got them then you'll wish were bigger.
The older I've gotten, I find that smaller boobs are more attractive on ME.
You should go smaller! I had a plastic surgeon who upped my requested size and I couldn't find clothes that would fit those D's properly. I went down to C's and because of them being D's for a while it looked so much more natural when I went to C's. I've had customers compliment my "natural" breasts despite them being saline implants LOL!! I was a AA bra size before the surgery.
Marina Starr
09-21-2021, 05:19 AM
Gabby Petito. So sad and tragic. She was so young and got so much going for her. It's unfortunate when our demons attract other people's demons that aren't good or healthy for us.
I feel for her family and the female ranger wishing she could have done more to prevent this tragedy. She was dealing with two issues, the legal aspect and the emotional one.
Rangers, police aren't train for that. Even harder when victims are so manipulated that they will lie to protect their abusers.
They're so brainwashed and deep in denial to know that people who love you don't treat you badly. Love doesn't mean putting up with bullshit and abuse. Love doesn't hurt.
May she rest in peace.
indiegirl
09-21-2021, 05:27 AM
I love watching Jaclyn Hill's and Carli Bybel's videos. I dunno why I'm not a fan of Tati.
Marina Starr
09-21-2021, 05:59 AM
I can't stand Tati. I always feel she's so contrived.
I love watching Jaclyn Hill's and Carli Bybel's videos. I dunno why I'm not a fan of Tati.
WendiStarr
09-21-2021, 06:48 AM
In case anyone wonders what happened to Ron Jeremy, I think the fucker is living in rural Northern Michigan, fixing toilets now. Some guy showed up to fix the toilet and the resemblance in physical appearance to that fucker was scary. It also made me laugh.
LoveyD
09-21-2021, 07:55 AM
Checking out a new place today, this time a studio. No more housemates! The landlord's name is Richard, which scares me. Every Richard I know turned out to be an asshole, including my rapist father. I really hope this Richard doesn't turn out to be a "Dick" as well.
I just want a safe, quiet place to live. At this point if I had to throw my stuff into storage and live in my car it would he a better option than having to live with a rude asshole again.
Marina Starr
09-21-2021, 09:39 AM
I agree based on experience. They come as Richard turn into Rich then escalate to Dick pretty quickly! This one Richard has been throwing insults and talk shit about me for years because I rebuffed his unwanted advances. He still hasn't gotten a life. No men will hate you more than the ones you rejected.
Checking out a new place today, this time a studio. No more housemates! The landlord's name is Richard, which scares me. Every Richard I know turned out to be an asshole, including my rapist father. I really hope this Richard doesn't turn out to be a "Dick" as well.
I just want a safe, quiet place to live. At this point if I had to throw my stuff into storage and live in my car it would he a better option than having to live with a rude asshole again.
Marina Starr
09-21-2021, 09:44 AM
The body is craving Chick Fil A. I think I'm gonna get waffle fries, diet coke and a crispy and homophobic chicken sandwich.
Their service and employees are night and day from McDonalds. If you are truly blessed to do McDonalds drive-thru, you'll get asked 'anything else?!', before you can respond you can hear them sliding the door shut, lmao.
LoveyD
09-21-2021, 11:16 AM
I agree based on experience. They come as Richard turn into Rich then escalate to Dick pretty quickly! This one Richard has been throwing insults and talk shit about me for years because I rebuffed his unwanted advances. He still hasn't gotten a life. No men will hate you more than the ones you rejected.
So glad I didn't name my kid Richard! Every one of them has been creepy and annoying. Every one!! So far he seems okay. If I sense anything Dick-ish about him then of course I won't rent from him.
miss.a.p1600
09-21-2021, 11:27 AM
Gabby Petito. So sad and tragic. She was so young and got so much going for her. It's unfortunate when our demons attract other people's demons that aren't good or healthy for us.
I feel for her family and the female ranger wishing she could have done more to prevent this tragedy. She was dealing with two issues, the legal aspect and the emotional one.
Rangers, police aren't train for that. Even harder when victims are so manipulated that they will lie to protect their abusers.
They're so brainwashed and deep in denial to know that people who love you don't treat you badly. Love doesn't mean putting up with bullshit and abuse. Love doesn't hurt.
May she rest in peace.
Agreed.
Reminds me the time I was going through a tough patch in life and it was like the unsavory people especially the predatory men came out of the woodworks.
A few times I could have met my final demise in a similar situation. I’ve always left dudes when the emotional abuse started but not every can leave as easily and the predators are very manipulative.
Im sure victims find it hard to get help cause it’s hard to speak about it too.
Very sad story to read about.
Marina Starr
09-21-2021, 11:46 AM
LMAO when dudes say 'I don't pay for pussy' while they're voluntarily go on PAY camsites. That's like going to Starbucks and say 'I don't pay for coffee'. Different shit but same principle applies.
When they want to troll and use premeditated tactics to get pussy on pay dating sites, they're paying for pussying. When they take you out on dates, spending x amount of money with every intention of just fucking you without any real interest in a relationship, they're paying for pussy. If dudes could be completely honest and say 'listen, I just want to take you to dinner, spend x amount of money on you only with the intention of having sex, I have zero interest in dating' they totally would but they know that would lessen the chance of them getting pussy. They know that most women are looking for something more: love, security, and affection so they play to that angle.
Marina Starr
09-21-2021, 11:58 AM
Predators, sociopaths, narcissists love preying on the vulnerable. They will gaslight, manipulate and make you feel hopeless while grooming you to distance yourself from families and loved ones to stop you from coming into your senses.
Always watch out for those that come on too strong and too nice too soon. Examine the context of their intent because niceness doesn't mean goodness.
That's why I truly believe that when girls reached legal age, they should make sexwork 'mandatory" for even 2 weeks so they can learn about men and read people in general. Sex work helps you read people. It's truly is a blessing. Our bullshit meter is always on point.
Agreed.
Reminds me the time I was going through a tough patch in life and it was like the unsavory people especially the predatory men came out of the woodworks.
A few times I could have met my final demise in a similar situation. I’ve always left dudes when the emotional abuse started but not every can leave as easily and the predators are very manipulative.
Im sure victims find it hard to get help cause it’s hard to speak about it too.
Very sad story to read about.
LoveyD
09-21-2021, 12:41 PM
Checking out a new place today, this time a studio. No more housemates! The landlord's name is Richard, which scares me. Every Richard I know turned out to be an asshole, including my rapist father. I really hope this Richard doesn't turn out to be a "Dick" as well.
I just want a safe, quiet place to live. At this point if I had to throw my stuff into storage and live in my car it would he a better option than having to live with a rude asshole again.
Gorgeous neighborhood, beautiful home, amazing room with full bath. Wish good ole Richard would have told me in the first place that it was first month's rent AND last month's rent, plus deposit!!! It would have saved me time! Why can't people just tell you everything up front! Ugh! Oh well. Another "Richard" dodged!!
Marina Starr
09-21-2021, 12:55 PM
I think that's too much if you're renting and sharing a home with other people. I could see if you're renting the whole place to yourself then it's pretty standard.
Some landlords may accept first and security and have you pay installments on last month's rent.
Gorgeous neighborhood, beautiful home, amazing room with full bath. Wish good ole Richard would have told me in the first place that it was first month's rent AND last month's rent, plus deposit!!! It would have saved me time! Why can't people just tell you everything up front! Ugh! Oh well. Another "Richard" dodged!!
kamiliam
09-21-2021, 12:59 PM
I think that's too much if you're renting and sharing a home with other people. I could see if you're renting the whole place to yourself then it's pretty standard.
Some landlords may accept first and security and have you pay installments on last month's rent.
I know in my state, if they ask for it they have to let you pay the last month in installments through the lease term. Check the local laws, many landlords try to pretend those laws don’t exist.
whirlerz
09-21-2021, 01:13 PM
Yes, I have heard of paying deposits in installments...
I've heard of the 1st & last months rent thing, expensive tho.
Also, I've heard of non-refundable 'move in fee' ::)
I don't know the legality of these fees.
Good luck, Lovey, J hope you find a great place!
indiegirl
09-21-2021, 01:16 PM
I got a 50 dollar tip for my good reviews and he said I deserved it. I thought the venmo site was crashing because I just cashed 500. LOL.
LoveyD
09-21-2021, 01:24 PM
I think that's too much if you're renting and sharing a home with other people. I could see if you're renting the whole place to yourself then it's pretty standard.
Some landlords may accept first and security and have you pay installments on last month's rent.
It's a room with a microwave, fridge, full bath and private entrance at the side of the house, separate from the main house. He didn't offer to accept last month's rent in installments. The place I live in now is $850 and they didn't even ask for a deposit.But I know that's unusual.
Thanks for the well-wishes!
kamiliam
09-21-2021, 01:31 PM
Yes, I have heard of paying deposits in installments...
I've heard of the 1st & last months rent thing, expensive tho.
Also, I've heard of non-refundable 'move in fee' ::)
I don't know the legality of these fees.
Good luck, Lovey, J hope you find a great place!
yeah what I noticed from friends and listings, that in response to the law, the don’t ask for last much. Instead they request a larger deposit, which is becoming increasingly not very refundable. They will then take that in installments to get people in.
good luck Lovey moving is such a pain. It only softened by a beautiful new to you home
Marina Starr
09-21-2021, 01:45 PM
You're right, I didn't even think of how it varies by state. I was asked for all three up front. I think it's pretty standard in Florida because pretty much all rentals are asking that.
Some landlords think if you don't have all three that means you can't really afford the place. That's not entirely true.
I know in my state, if they ask for it they have to let you pay the last month in installments through the lease term. Check the local laws, many landlords try to pretend those laws don’t exist.
AChildOfBoredom
09-21-2021, 06:27 PM
Day two of the new job for the boy from the community, and it looks promising. I asked him to be put with a tech who'd put him to work using his tools rather than just play janitor, and that turned out well. Being an FT4, I actually get to have some influence on these things. Though the tech he's working with made me laugh when he told me, "He's sharp and he knows stuff, but he would've fit right in if they cast him in Leave It to Beaver". He'd better not disappoint me, especially after the amount I spent getting him equipped for the job. Got a Husky tool cart small enough to roll around, but big enough he could grow into it, and went to Harbor Freight to get his basic hand and power tools covered. His parents sent some money to help out, and my old roommate sent me some money through Venmo without me even asking him to, so that helped, but I still covered the majority of it. Got him house brand tools, which are adequate enough for now, and told the tech he's working with not to let him get on the Snap-On or Mac Tools trucks unless I'm there to smack the shit out of him if he starts getting wild ideas. Yes, I have plenty from both brands, but I also get paid a lot more than he does.
Really wish he could've worked and trained with The Grizz, but since he retired, that's not an option. But the guy he's working with is good. He's an FT3A, easy to get along with, seems to understand you kinda gotta handle this kid a little more carefully until he's properly broken in. The latter is especially important, because this place can be pretty brutal for the uninitiated.
This one just might turn out alright. He's not out of the woods as far as I'm concerned just yet, though.
indiegirl
09-22-2021, 07:58 AM
I turned down a 3 day trip to Hawaii request for a customer because I don't want to be trapped for 3 days with a customer. Plus it's gonna cost him 30k for 3 days. I stick to 8 hours at the most because it is exhausting. I applaud the women who can do numerous days with a client. I am not that person.
Fun update: Someone who distributes perfume for Sephora has been trying to negotiate the 500 dollar date with 2 bottles of perfume and 2-300 bucks before work. Huh?!?! If I really was that desperate for perfume that I'm selling my ass for it, I'd use febreeze. No thanks.
You know what these types of guys do? They go immediately to the internet and brag about the fact they got a deal and screw my life up with others trying the same for a cheaper deal. I have not budged one inch since upping my price.
carmen_b
09-22-2021, 01:07 PM
^ A girl who can pull off that type of booking ....so impressive ! I would be terrified the entire time of getting cheated or something unless he was giving me something up front for the next few hours . :/
Omg the perfume haggling . Barf.
carmen_b
09-22-2021, 01:09 PM
I am kind of sad my day job didn't send me to Idaho or Montana this year.
These places have been on my mind lately. I just feel like the window to see what I want ( 4-5 new hot springs and Red Fish Lake in ID ) is closing so damn fast.
I'm glad we have a trip coming up for J's job ha. At least we are going somewhere for a minimal cost ha.
I was in Montana roughly last a year ago and there is just so much more to see.
carmen_b
09-22-2021, 01:13 PM
I just made J laugh.
He noticed this outdoor yoga thing and wanted to gift me a session and I'm like " oh fuck no , guys will look for free and that is 100% not ok ".
I'm signed up for a 6 p.m. session ( indoor ). No peepers. No freebies. Lol.
carmen_b
09-22-2021, 01:44 PM
I'm really excited to take myself to eat at about 4 p.m. ( so it's quiet ) but I'm getting choice overwhelmed.
What to eat ?
Marina Starr
09-22-2021, 03:53 PM
I love Fall... always put me in the mood to bake for other people. Prune Muffins are always a staple. I can't bake enough to gift them.
Marina Starr
09-22-2021, 03:55 PM
I've never eat out by myself, I always feel so odd about it. I mostly cook or take out. Props to you for doing it!
I'm really excited to take myself to eat at about 4 p.m. ( so it's quiet ) but I'm getting choice overwhelmed.
What to eat ?
carmen_b
09-22-2021, 04:03 PM
^ I love it. Full focus on the food! :)
I went with Ramen.
Marina Starr
09-22-2021, 04:09 PM
Maybe one day I'll be brave enough :)
I made baked salmon and sauteed mushrooms for dinner.
Now having pumpkin bread for dessert. Fresh, yummy and Hoe-made!
^ I love it. Full focus on the food! :):)
indiegirl
09-22-2021, 04:10 PM
I got a head start on the end of these moths hahaha! Professional Moth Fumigation starts at 10:30am. I zapped an adult sized moth when I got home as well as killed two larvae. Judgment day begins Thursday morning!! These moth traps are amazing!!!
https://i.ibb.co/88hB57H/65402758503-7-CE1035-B-8-CAF-4-C4-B-A049-FBD4-C2-DEF211.jpg (https://ibb.co/mzxBqc3)
indiegirl
09-22-2021, 11:19 PM
Sorry I'm on here so much LOL! It's a waiting game before working lol!
Anyways, one of my potential tourist customers has been to Disneyland 4 DAYS in a row until Disneyland completely closes. That man must've lost 10-15 pounds walking all day long until 10pm and once he finally stopped walking he realizes he can't do the appointment because he's tired BAHAHA. I so remember that feeling in the past when I got in the car after being at Disneyland thinking "How did my legs carry me for this long?"
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-23-2021, 08:07 AM
I need a trip that includes a flight to a place that can't be reached by car. It's been too damn long.
whirlerz
09-23-2021, 08:37 AM
I got a head start on the end of these moths hahaha! Professional Moth Fumigation starts at 10:30am. I zapped an adult sized moth when I got home as well as killed two larvae. Judgment day begins Thursday morning!! These moth traps are amazing!!!
https://i.ibb.co/88hB57H/65402758503-7-CE1035-B-8-CAF-4-C4-B-A049-FBD4-C2-DEF211.jpg (https://ibb.co/mzxBqc3)
Where you get 'em @?
I usually use prevention type things, cedar blocks, lavender sachets etc, but I'm out in the country so..
whirlerz
09-23-2021, 08:47 AM
OK, so this funky ass neighbor dropped his remodeling scraps in the empty designated wetland lot??
I put some of it out for the trash, (there's some folding doors, don't know how heavy so I left those, I may try to get them later)..
The garbage man left them, at last p/u bc there was nails in them! (I didn't see them).
I bagged em up but I decided I should rightfully hammer them down, I also broke them & other large pieces up. .
Luckily, there was a nearly empty heavy duty bag already in the garbage so I took the ripped bag w/the scrap shit, put it in there, tied it up.
Eessh!
DonaDiabla
09-23-2021, 12:28 PM
That pumpkin bread sounds good. ;D
Maybe one day I'll be brave enough :)
I made baked salmon and sauteed mushrooms for dinner.
Now having pumpkin bread for dessert. Fresh, yummy and Hoe-made!
:)
Marina Starr
09-23-2021, 01:02 PM
SURE is girl! I don't love all things pumpkin but I love pumpkin bread :)
Trader Hoes got all kinds of pumpkin shit for fall but I'm afraid to try even though I haven't gotten anything from Trader Hoes that I didn't like-yet!
That pumpkin bread sounds good. ;D
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-23-2021, 01:18 PM
Walking out of the grocery store I saw this guy looking over a flower bouquet he'd just bought. It kinda seemed like he wasn't sure if they were pretty enough? So I wanted to make him feel better and said, "Aww she's gonna love those!" He looks at me and says "These are for my husband's homophobic mom who's in the hospital. I could care less about what she thinks!!!" 🤭
All jokes aside, I should be more mindful when it comes to gender and relationships. I feel like I do a good job but still...
Marina Starr
09-23-2021, 01:31 PM
LMAO!
That can be tricky because if he's straight, he could be offended if you said 'aww he's gonna love those!"
The safest ways would be 'awww THEY're gonna love those'. You'll figure out quickly which is which when they respond with whatever pronouns.
Even for myself, I still need to get better at using THEY because not everyone identifies as he or she.
Walking out of the grocery store I saw this guy looking over a flower bouquet he'd just bought. It kinda seemed like he wasn't sure if they were pretty enough? So I wanted to make him feel better and said, "Aww she's gonna love those!" He looks at me and says "These are for my husband's homophobic mom who's in the hospital. I could care less about what she thinks!!!"
All jokes aside, I should be more mindful when it comes to gender and relationships. I feel like I do a good job but still...
lurkingtitties
09-23-2021, 01:44 PM
Walking out of the grocery store I saw this guy looking over a flower bouquet he'd just bought. It kinda seemed like he wasn't sure if they were pretty enough? So I wanted to make him feel better and said, "Aww she's gonna love those!" He looks at me and says "These are for my husband's homophobic mom who's in the hospital. I could care less about what she thinks!!!"
All jokes aside, I should be more mindful when it comes to gender and relationships. I feel like I do a good job but still...
Hey, technically you were right that they were a gift for a her!
Genoveve
09-23-2021, 02:43 PM
Walking out of the grocery store I saw this guy looking over a flower bouquet he'd just bought. It kinda seemed like he wasn't sure if they were pretty enough? So I wanted to make him feel better and said, "Aww she's gonna love those!" He looks at me and says "These are for my husband's homophobic mom who's in the hospital. I could care less about what she thinks!!!" 🤭
If only you could buy bouquets of venus fly traps.
AChildOfBoredom
09-23-2021, 04:32 PM
If only you could buy bouquets of venus fly traps.
Or those corpse flowers!
indiegirl
09-24-2021, 06:28 AM
LMAO....I got sick of the doom and gloom of the news and stumbled upon animal planet taping puppies on tv. My day is complete with happiness now haha.