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wednesday86
03-20-2016, 03:30 PM
^^ SW really is one of the most supportive communities around. Its great.
Yes it is...That's why I can't stay away even though I'm not dancing, don't want to dance ever again and the thought of dancing again makes me want to puke and cry. The women on here are awesome.
ScarletKitten
03-20-2016, 03:32 PM
Stripperweb newbie: I have one leg, acne covering my entire body, and a full beard. Do you think I could dance? Pics attached.
Stripperweb: Throw on a wig and go get that money, girl!!! :D :highfive: :grouphug:
OMG, Charlie! You almost made me spit my coffee all over my screen. LMFAOOOO!
Vyanka
03-20-2016, 05:10 PM
I miss my old gay friend, but jad to cut him off. The substance abuse was out of control. He cheated death, loved drama, and became this negative/sketchy monster. It's too bad. We use to have so much fun back then. The exclusive big parties, limo rides with champagne, surrounded by models and Vogue icon Willi Ninja.... at 17. Yup. Started young. I really miss those fun days. :(
Genoveve
03-21-2016, 05:03 PM
I think I'm a DIY snob. I was watching this chick showing her DIY hacks on youtube and I thought it was all so ugly. Like she was using empty granola bar boxes and stuff and covering them in pretty paper to make pretty counter-top storage thingies and I'm like.......congrats now you have storage thingies that look like you covered food boxes with paper. ?? And she bought some of those white plastic palettes that they give kids for their paints when they're painting pictures, spray painted them and used them for decorative jewelry organizer displays and again I'm like......and now you have some crappy-looking jewelry organizers that are so obviously painted plastic palettes. She has this big beautiful house too and I guess I want to see it decorated with beautiful things. There's so many beautiful jewelry boxes online for not that much money, I know that DIYing is fun but is it worth it if you're uglying up your space?? I think I just have high standards because my family is all artists so when they DIY stuff it is no joke.
wednesday86
03-21-2016, 07:41 PM
I think I'm a DIY snob. I was watching this chick showing her DIY hacks on youtube and I thought it was all so ugly. Like she was using empty granola bar boxes and stuff and covering them in pretty paper to make pretty counter-top storage thingies and I'm like.......congrats now you have storage thingies that look like you covered food boxes with paper. ?? And she bought some of those white plastic palettes that they give kids for their paints when they're painting pictures, spray painted them and used them for decorative jewelry organizer displays and again I'm like......and now you have some crappy-looking jewelry organizers that are so obviously painted plastic palettes. She has this big beautiful house too and I guess I want to see it decorated with beautiful things. There's so many beautiful jewelry boxes online for not that much money, I know that DIYing is fun but is it worth it if you're uglying up your space?? I think I just have high standards because my family is all artists so when they DIY stuff it is no joke.
Yeah I feel the same way...I don't think covering up garbage with pretty paper is a good DIY. We re-use big coffee containers for popcorn and stuff but I wouldn't cover one in rhinestones and put it out where people can see it. lol
lynn2009
03-22-2016, 07:28 AM
Blonde might actually make me dumber...or at least that's my excuse for now.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-22-2016, 07:59 AM
I'm trying to sell a brand new Coach bag (leather) I picked up for $40 at a thrift shop. The only thing wrong with it is it was a bit dried out (I imagine someone's grandma spent $500 on it years ago, packed it away & then when she passed her family found it & sent it to the Charity Thrift Store since they had no use for it.) So far NO offers! It's like this style of bag is too dorky or something. I'm going to use it myself if no one wants it since my current Coach bag is a small one with only leather handles & accents. The rest of the bag is synthetic material but it looks cool.
Stupidly enough I picked up a leather Coach bag a yard sale for $10 (all that was wrong with it was a small ink mark from a pen on one side) & had to give it to my sister in law since no one wanted to buy that one either. Like, really? wtf.
This post was a vacation from reading about stressful stuff, lol. The silver lining here is I've brightened lives with my ability to score bargain Coach bags. lol
Vyanka
03-22-2016, 09:21 AM
Damn. I've never had Maca before. I had some for the first time yesterday. It's in this Kombucha drink I bought, so it's diluted in there. That stuff is like Viagra for women. Shit. I hope it's just my period making me like that. Nothing worse than being horny when there's no one around. Lol. I need the opposite of that. Chasteberry?
Glamourmilf
03-22-2016, 11:02 AM
'Dancing With The Stars' started its new season last night.
My prediction is that Marla Maples will hook up with that old football player Doug Flutie.
He's married, but that never stopped ole Marla.
To be continued.....
Genoveve
03-22-2016, 03:43 PM
Current random thoughts: I dunno why people get so incensed over Indian phone support, every time I have had an Indian help me out they spoke better English than most Americans I know. And I always hear people getting so pissed about them using fake names, but they do that for our sake to make it easier for us because we probably would have trouble with their real ones. They must get as many annoying comments about their fake names at work as we do.
Also ever since I saw some beautiful blackberry tarts on instagram I have been wanting to make a blackberry pie but blackberries aren't in season and I know the ones in the grocery stores now would ruin it.
DonaDiabla
03-22-2016, 05:55 PM
SimoneGray,
I would have to agree with you. Plus, I am thankful that we have the hustle hut and dollar den because a lot of other sex worker forums do not have that. :) I love it here and Wecamgirls.com :)
^^ SW really is one of the most supportive communities around. Its great.
baer45
03-23-2016, 11:28 AM
I had a German recruiter contacted me and ask me whether I want to work for her company in Germany.
Shall I move to Germany? Ich weiß nicht, Scheiße über Deutschland
Genoveve
03-23-2016, 01:18 PM
^^Shit over Germany? I'd go because ich LIEBE Deutscheland. Und Oesterreich. I went once and didn't want to come back, if I could live anywhere in the world no-strings-attached it would be Bavaria or Austria. I'm sure I'd love Schweiz too if I went. I wish I spoke German I think it sounds really sexy.
baer45
03-23-2016, 01:47 PM
^^Shit over Germany? I'd go because ich LIEBE Deutscheland. Und Oesterreich. I went once and didn't want to come back, if I could live anywhere in the world no-strings-attached it would be Bavaria or Austria. I'm sure I'd love Schweiz too if I went. I wish I spoke German I think it sounds really sexy.
removed.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-23-2016, 07:09 PM
I think I'm a DIY snob. I was watching this chick showing her DIY hacks on youtube and I thought it was all so ugly. Like she was using empty granola bar boxes and stuff and covering them in pretty paper to make pretty counter-top storage thingies and I'm like.......congrats now you have storage thingies that look like you covered food boxes with paper. ?? And she bought some of those white plastic palettes that they give kids for their paints when they're painting pictures, spray painted them and used them for decorative jewelry organizer displays and again I'm like......and now you have some crappy-looking jewelry organizers that are so obviously painted plastic palettes. She has this big beautiful house too and I guess I want to see it decorated with beautiful things. There's so many beautiful jewelry boxes online for not that much money, I know that DIYing is fun but is it worth it if you're uglying up your space?? I think I just have high standards because my family is all artists so when they DIY stuff it is no joke.
My guess is she is just doing it as a cheap way to score Youtube ad revenue. With the way that site works her vids get referred even if they are bad b/c DIY is so common on youtube.
I also have a pet peeve for horrible looking craft items. It's OK for a kindergartner but homes should have nice decor. I mean, you *live* in there. lol
baer45
03-23-2016, 08:48 PM
There is one movie I always enjoy it very much since i was young. Anastasia (1956 )
I just watched it in the hotel room. What a performance!
SimoneGray
03-24-2016, 01:45 AM
Watching "My big fat American Gypsy wedding" and wondering how mother's can let their daughters aspire to marriage at 14 or 15...I understand its cultural but still, those poor girls.
Elektra Luxx
03-24-2016, 05:26 AM
It makes me feel very uncomfortable when I'm walking and I know that someone is watching me walk. Like when I'm walking from parking lot at work to the building. The feeling of eyes on me is creepy.
whirlerz
03-24-2016, 07:08 AM
It makes me feel very uncomfortable when I'm walking and I know that someone is watching me walk. Like when I'm walking from parking lot at work to the building. The feeling of eyes on me is creepy.
Yea.^
Getting to be the season, now, ugh.
Read this: How to be Safe in an Unsafe World by Bloomfield & Cooper.
This a/hole guy that works @ my motel 'suddenly pops up' when I'm talking to this one guy (he stays here long term like me). I mean really? Can you find some real work to do, lol.
lSexyS2
03-24-2016, 07:36 AM
will I ever get out of this debt... wonder if I'll ever figure how to make money on here, will I end up homeless and what will happen to my pets..... my random thoughts never stop
baer45
03-24-2016, 09:24 AM
will I ever get out of this debt... wonder if I'll ever figure how to make money on here, will I end up homeless and what will happen to my pets..... my random thoughts never stop
You will pay it off if you determine to earn your money in sex work. You can dance, cam, escort...pretty much everything you feel comfortable. I've paid off all my student loans and am building up my retirement funds at the moment. keep your mind straight, focus at work, stay away from drugs, addictions, unnecessary spending and abusive bfs. You can do it.
Glamourmilf
03-24-2016, 12:01 PM
will I ever get out of this debt... wonder if I'll ever figure how to make money on here, will I end up homeless and what will happen to my pets..... my random thoughts never stop
I've been wondering about this my entire life, because I've always been on my own.
Recently I met an older woman (65), in my new town.
Over iced tea the other day, She tells me that as she got older her mother gave her a piece of advice that turned out to be true.
I leaned forward with anticipation to hear what she was about to say.
"From age 55 on, You won't be able to get by on a smile and a blowjob."
Lol! I nearly fell off my chair. She doesn't know I have been in sex work most of my adult life, so it was a shock to hear that.
It's so not true. I have friends in their late 50's and even 70's that are still in high demand.
BUT, it never hurts to be prepared.
Cashmere Star
03-24-2016, 06:58 PM
I booked my violin lesson, got my dentist appt scheduled, got my personal trainer scheduled.. got my ducks in row. Got some personal work done.. Finally I am having progress, for once. Now I just need money but my back hurts and I don't want to fuck anything up more by going to the club to dance ugh ramble ramble. God I hate being in pain all the time.
"From age 55 on, You won't be able to get by on a smile and a blowjob."
I've never gotten by on a smile and a blowjob and I am 22. What the fuck am I doing wrong!?!?! But it's also that I never tried it. There's probably a whole reserve of untapped sexual power, but I don't know if I really want to go around giving blowjobs for stuff. I would if I could but I just can't. I need a way I can use my sexuality without actually putting myself near men. A lot of men smell like shit because they don't take care of themselves.
btw nice sig lol the easter bunny
whirlerz
03-24-2016, 08:01 PM
A lot of men smell like shit because they don't take care of themselves.
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:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::spit:
OMG, I near spit out my water, over this!^ I have a very sensitive nose!
This one guy I was w/a little while bk, had b.o. not all the time, but:yuck:
Glamourmilf
03-24-2016, 08:45 PM
^^I remember You told me about that. Pew
I've never gotten by on a smile and a blowjob and I am 22. What the fuck am I doing wrong!?!?! But it's also that I never tried it. There's probably a whole reserve of untapped sexual power, but I don't know if I really want to go around giving blowjobs for stuff. I would if I could but I just can't. I need a way I can use my sexuality without actually putting myself near men. A lot of men smell like shit because they don't take care of themselves.
btw nice sig lol the easter bunny
^^Thank You!
The blowjob and smile thing. I've gotten lots of things, (and still do), with just a smile, and a bit of cleavage. NO touching required.
But, it was obvious that both she and her Mom felt like they had to.
My sense of smell is too strong to put up with a man's yucky smell.
That's why I am looking forward to ditching that gross mechanic I went to today(see my pissy post).just his smokers breath, and bad teeth were a turnoff. (But the blowjob lady friend put him on a pedestal, and thinks he's the bees knees, and oh so handsome. So you just never know what turns the wheels of a person.
I can't wait to go back tomorrow to the young, cutie pie mechanic I used to use.
Cashmere Star
03-24-2016, 09:22 PM
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::spit: This one guy I was w/a little while bk, had b.o. not all the time, but:yuck:
BO is a dealbreaker. I can't even make friends with people who smell, because I won't be around them much. I also select my men on smell. He can look like a model but if he smells, SOMETHING'S WRONG. Nose never lies.
The blowjob and smile thing. I've gotten lots of things, (and still do), with just a smile, and a bit of cleavage. NO touching required.
But, it was obvious that both she and her Mom felt like they had to.
My sense of smell is too strong to put up with a man's yucky smell.
That's why I am looking forward to ditching that gross mechanic I went to today(see my pissy post).just his smokers breath, and bad teeth were a turnoff. (But the blowjob lady friend put him on a pedestal, and thinks he's the bees knees, and oh so handsome. So you just never know what turns the wheels of a person.
I can't wait to go back tomorrow to the young, cutie pie mechanic I used to use.
Cleavage, THERE YOU GO. I have small B cup breasts and keep it covered (not intentionally). My boob job is due but I have a shoulder/pect sprain injury that's been around for MONTHS and I am not gonna get a boob job any time soon before it heals up. :( So at the moment I am focusing on building my ass at the gym doe :) :)
speaking of mechanics yeah I like guys who know how to use their hands but fuck it if they smell bad lol. The one mechanic I go to is an old guy he's cool but if I hear he's getting a cute young apprentice I am probably gonna go more often lmao
Glamourmilf
03-24-2016, 11:16 PM
BO is a dealbreaker. I can't even make friends with people who smell, because I won't be around them much. I also select my men on smell. He can look like a model but if he smells, SOMETHING'S WRONG. Nose never lies.
Cleavage, THERE YOU GO. I have small B cup breasts and keep it covered (not intentionally). My boob job is due but I have a shoulder/pect sprain injury that's been around for MONTHS and I am not gonna get a boob job any time soon before it heals up. :( So at the moment I am focusing on building my ass at the gym doe :) :)
speaking of mechanics yeah I like guys who know how to use their hands but fuck it if they smell bad lol. The one mechanic I go to is an old guy he's cool but if I hear he's getting a cute young apprentice I am probably gonna go more often lmao
Big Boobs=Big Gifts. lol!
When you get them, you'll enjoy the perks, I'm sure. The woman that told me about the bj thing..well, she doesn't have tits, and her mom probably didn't either.
My ass has always been nice and round, and plump. but only certain guys are into it.
(On cam they like everything).
Genoveve
03-25-2016, 11:03 AM
^^I don't think it even matters how big or nice they are just so long as they're OUT lol. (I mean cleavage-wise not like pulling your tits completely out in front of a mechanic)
Glamourmilf
03-25-2016, 11:19 AM
^^I don't think it even matters how big or nice they are just so long as they're OUT lol. (I mean cleavage-wise not like pulling your tits completely out in front of a mechanic)
True. When I try to hide them by wearing baggy tops though, it used to amaze me that guys would STILL stare.
Until a gf explained that just because they are covered doesn't mean they are hidden.:boobies::boobies:
Same thing, she said that is why guys hit on me and tell me I'm pretty when I'm not wearing makeup.
She said they see beyond that.
*The ONLY time nobody ever hits on me is when my hair is in a ponytail. Hmmm. Interesting.
Cashmere Star
03-25-2016, 02:10 PM
I should buy padded bras and see how I get treated when I walk down the streets, and see if I really do want a boob job. I would like the attention from big boobs but my other concern is that I might start getting sexually harassed (it almost never happens to me and I appreciate the peace) or if I might attract the wrong type of guys.
Glamourmilf
03-25-2016, 06:46 PM
I should buy padded bras and see how I get treated when I walk down the streets, and see if I really do want a boob job. I would like the attention from big boobs but my other concern is that I might start getting sexually harassed (it almost never happens to me and I appreciate the peace) or if I might attract the wrong type of guys.
That's a great idea. Like that Victoria Secret bra that makes you 2 cup sizes larger. Push them together.
Then, wear a low cut top, and test it out.
The harassment for me is regional. LA guys(and women) just come up and grab them. San Diego, Santa Barbara just side glances them. The desert people almost seemed annoyed by them(senior republican community).
And where I live now ( murder Ville), I would definitely be raped.
SimoneGray
03-26-2016, 08:27 AM
I love me some political scandals...because it infuriates me how perfect these people pretend to be and seeing them get their comeuppance is beautiful. All the time.
Elektra Luxx
03-26-2016, 08:41 AM
I woke up this morning with a rash all over my chest, boobs and tummy. Something I ate?
wednesday86
03-26-2016, 11:47 AM
I woke up this morning with a rash all over my chest, boobs and tummy. Something I ate?
Could be your detergent, new soap, perfume or lotion? I used to get rashes all the time when I was dancing if a guy used detergent or cologne that didn't agree with me. Ugh.
I'm thinking about doing this 2 month cert for phlebotomy or nurse aide because there are soooo many jobs out here for that and a lot of night/weekend/flex jobs. I think I want to work part time to get out of the house while I continue to self publish... but I don't want to do retail or work in a restaurant or bar. My husband said he'll pay for it if I want to...I have about a month to decide and sign up for the program. If anyone has experience with either of those, your two cents are appreciated. :)
Glamourmilf
03-26-2016, 08:04 PM
I love watching the show 'House Hunters' on HGTV. But the new.ish show 'Tiny House Hunters' makes me super claustrophobic.:boxedin:
wednesday86
03-27-2016, 11:09 AM
I love watching the show 'House Hunters' on HGTV. But the new.ish show 'Tiny House Hunters' makes me super claustrophobic.:boxedin:
omg yes. I think if I lived alone I would be okay in one of those tiny houses..but there was a family of 5-the parents and 3 kids building a tiny little hut. That would drive me insane...Plus what are they gonna do when those kids are teenagers? They can't share a tiny loft forever.
Velveteen.Rabbit
03-27-2016, 01:28 PM
Big Boobs=Big Gifts. lol!
When you get them, you'll enjoy the perks, I'm sure. The woman that told me about the bj thing..well, she doesn't have tits, and her mom probably didn't either.
My ass has always been nice and round, and plump. but only certain guys are into it.
(On cam they like everything).
You know what's funny is that after going really big for a boob job, I've still had a lot of guys I've dated tell me they don't like big boobs. The only thing they've done for me dating wise is repel guys I date lol. But I only did it to even out my body shape more, and I look massively thinner with them. But I still almost religiously date ass men. I think it's because I date a lot of Latinos and middle easterns, and that's such in a prominent feature in both cultures. But even guys not of those cultures still tell me they prefer ass over boobs. So I know what you mean lol
carmen_b
03-27-2016, 05:25 PM
Yes! I went from nearly buying land / getting one to abandoning the idea. I still like " fun and quirky " spaces though ! I think a few days in one may be fun. There are many you can rent ! After living on a very expensive island , more is more for me when it comes to housing. Ha. I've been cramped for 5 years and I'll happily pay more for space ( now that we are somewhere we can afford space )!
My small space interest level is currently at ZERO percent!
I love watching the show 'House Hunters' on HGTV. But the new.ish show 'Tiny House Hunters' makes me super claustrophobic.:boxedin:
carmen_b
03-27-2016, 05:28 PM
When I see the family ones it just seem clear that the parents have basically abandoned their sex lives. Or maybe there's tricks I don't know? How can you maintain it with kids 5 feet away?
omg yes. I think if I lived alone I would be okay in one of those tiny houses..but there was a family of 5-the parents and 3 kids building a tiny little hut. That would drive me insane...Plus what are they gonna do when those kids are teenagers? They can't share a tiny loft forever.
BarbieNYC
03-27-2016, 06:50 PM
I totally believe in job hunting during new moon.
I have a friend who was struggling hard to find a job. She called me and share some great news and the way she got her new job sounded too smooth and easy to be true.
As i was researching more about moon phases since im pretty new to that stuff, i figured i'd plug in the timeline of her job hunt and her getting the new job. And whaddya know. She inquired about her new job the first day of new moon and was hired to start three days after. Coincidence maybe but I'm choosing to have a little faith in this moon phase stuff. It's fascinating. I wish i could take a class on this and astrology. Never been into it before but now i'm curious
SweetJulia
03-27-2016, 08:15 PM
Could be your detergent, new soap, perfume or lotion? I used to get rashes all the time when I was dancing if a guy used detergent or cologne that didn't agree with me. Ugh.
I'm thinking about doing this 2 month cert for phlebotomy or nurse aide because there are soooo many jobs out here for that and a lot of night/weekend/flex jobs. I think I want to work part time to get out of the house while I continue to self publish... but I don't want to do retail or work in a restaurant or bar. My husband said he'll pay for it if I want to...I have about a month to decide and sign up for the program. If anyone has experience with either of those, your two cents are appreciated. :)
PLEASE go for phlebotomy over nursing assistant.
Glamourmilf
03-27-2016, 09:51 PM
You know what's funny is that after going really big for a boob job, I've still had a lot of guys I've dated tell me they don't like big boobs. The only thing they've done for me dating wise is repel guys I date lol. But I only did it to even out my body shape more, and I look massively thinner with them. But I still almost religiously date ass men. I think it's because I date a lot of Latinos and middle easterns, and that's such in a prominent feature in both cultures. But even guys not of those cultures still tell me they prefer ass over boobs. So I know what you mean lol
Yes, certain ethnicities prefer ass.
It's definitely shifted since I danced full time a million years ago.
Ass is everything now, especially on cam. Everything. Thank God I have a big ass too.
ScarletKitten
03-27-2016, 10:48 PM
I totally believe in job hunting during new moon.
I have a friend who was struggling hard to find a job. She called me and share some great news and the way she got her new job sounded too smooth and easy to be true.
As i was researching more about moon phases since im pretty new to that stuff, i figured i'd plug in the timeline of her job hunt and her getting the new job. And whaddya know. She inquired about her new job the first day of new moon and was hired to start three days after. Coincidence maybe but I'm choosing to have a little faith in this moon phase stuff. It's fascinating. I wish i could take a class on this and astrology. Never been into it before but now i'm curious
I totally believe in moon phases having an affect on things, for sure. I mean, the moon is what causes the tidal waves to pull in and out, and it contributes to how women have our cycles. It's the gravitational pull. It's amazing and fascinating. I noticed that during full moons, the club would usually be packed with people who were in crazy moods. Crime goes up during full moons too, supposedly.
Vyanka
03-27-2016, 11:19 PM
^I cannot stand most customers during full moon.
whirlerz
03-28-2016, 02:44 AM
^I cannot stand most customers during full moon.
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OMG! I can't stand most PEOPLE during a full moon..we just had an eclipse too
charlie61
03-28-2016, 03:28 AM
Do you ever catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror at work and think, damn...when did I start looking like such a stripper? Ain't a baby no more.
wednesday86
03-28-2016, 07:21 AM
When I see the family ones it just seem clear that the parents have basically abandoned their sex lives. Or maybe there's tricks I don't know? How can you maintain it with kids 5 feet away?
Haha yeah that's always my first thought too "Where are they gonna do it?" Some of those bedrooms have no privacy or doors whatsoever. That definitely wouldn't work for us.
ScarletKitten
03-28-2016, 05:25 PM
I'm so close to posting pics of myself in the "post pictures of you" thread. But omg, I'm so fucking nervous. I feel like I'm gonna faint. No idea why I'm so freaked out about the concept. I've always been the type to lay low and not expose myself online. Anyone have any probs after posting a pic on this site? Paranoid parrot alert! *shakes uncontrollably*
wednesday86
03-28-2016, 05:49 PM
I'm so close to posting pics of myself in the "post pictures of you" thread. But omg, I'm so fucking nervous. I feel like I'm gonna faint. No idea why I'm so freaked out about the concept. I've always been the type to lay low and not expose myself online. Anyone have any probs after posting a pic on this site? Paranoid parrot alert! *shakes uncontrollably*
I've considered it, but I worry about the creepy blues on this site somehow tracking me down. If it was verified pinks only I would.
Aurora_Sunset
03-29-2016, 07:19 AM
Today, I am randomly sad that charm bracelets fell out of popularity. I started one when I was younger, but then they shifted to not being real charms (they were just those stupid rectangles with pictures on them), to really not being in stores anywhere anymore. I'm sure I could still find stuff online, but that kinda defeats the point of collecting charms from special places like you used to be able to. I wish I could start it up again.