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carmen_b
10-21-2021, 09:35 AM
My commitment to minimalism is making me happy this week.
I was just getting into a spin of " I need new outfits for the club " and just took a step back .
Naw. Got plenty of em. :)
Maybe with the next bit of earnings a new outfit can make it's way over.
Fall clothes too. Boots are beat up but meh ...... I'll get some shoe shine for the little flaws on them haha.
I'll wait for a deal on new boots and not shop now when stores are just putting them out for the highest prices of the year.
carmen_b
10-21-2021, 09:38 AM
Omg right ?
Like those clueless ones going " she asked if I brought more $ or wanted to know the full menu " lol.
Do people really not realize when it's " Asian name xyz " there is more to the story hahaha.
I will say there is something people don't realize and for some Thai Specific places there is sometimes NOT more on the menu.
Some of the Thai practitioners are serious about their craft.
Just spent like an hour reading through this body rub forum. I honestly didn't realize how many happy-ending places were out there. And it's funny reading reviews from people who go in expecting a normal, LMT-level massage.
carmen_b
10-21-2021, 09:40 AM
GUYS kill me lol . ^^
" I went to Pink Kitty Lotus Massage " at 1a.m. and couldn't find anyone who can do deep pressure.
hahahaha
carmen_b
10-21-2021, 09:42 AM
Damn sorry Indie
I really wish all non club sex workers could charge deposits to reduce time wasting.
It just isn't what people are used to which is a bummer.
indiegirl
10-21-2021, 09:46 AM
^^I almost want to text him and fuck with him lol
LOL!!!!
LoveyD
10-21-2021, 11:41 AM
Last time my guy and I talked we agreed that we wanted to get a room. I think he wants to talk, too. He feels sad that I am homeless but I told him not to worry. I used to follow the Grateful Dead when I was younger so car life is not completely foreign for me. As long as I get a shower and cops aren't hassling me I am good. Right now he lives with his grandma as he rebuilds his life, too. If he had his own place, he would let me stay with him. But I haven't met his son yet either, I only met his grandma and she's cool AF. I would want for his kid to know me for a little while before moving in.
I think he wants to have a serious talk and a lot of serious sex. I'm down! I'm horny for his sexy ass lol
I need to go to the dispensary.
AChildOfBoredom
10-21-2021, 12:33 PM
My sister is gonna be so pissed off. Since all her boyfriend has at the moment is a moped, I’ve been driving him to and from work. And he’s been learning some of the songs I play during the drive well enough to at least hum along to them.
There’s another woman in the shop now. She was hired on as our small engine/equipment specialist, so basically if it has a pull start engine, it’s her gig now. Which is good, because it means they don’t have to take truck and heavy equipment techs away to work on that stuff. I was a bit surprised, because I would’ve expected an older, “Lawnmower man” type dude, but she’s only 27. They’d been talking about creating that position for some time, but I didn’t expect they’d follow through. They ended up creating a distinct position for that, rather than make her a Fleet Tech, which means she isn’t expected to get ASE certifications, I don’t think she’ll have to get a CDL, etc.
She was working at a shop which specializes in that type of equipment but ended up getting fired after they found out she had an OnlyFans because someone snitched on her. There was a photo of her in her Twitter feed from before she’d gotten on OF where you could see the business sign in the background, amd instead of making a new Twitter account, she used the same one to promote her OF. So she thinks someone dug until they found that photo then reported her to her employer. And this is why I never made an online presence for myself - pieces of shit like that. So she did a year in retail, hated it, and ended up moving here for this job. Found this out yesterday because I drove her home after her car wouldn’t start, and knows about small engines and equipment, but not so much about cars. She has this 25 year-old Nissan pickup, and so I checked it out and found out her timing belt broke. One of out FT3s has his own shop on his property, so I used my AAA membership to have it towed there and he and another FT are gonna take care of it after work and then he’ll bring it to her when it’s done. We’re a pretty tight knit group who look out for each other here.
My sister’s boyfriend wanted to partake in that, but I told him I’m sure my sister expects to be the priority when it comes to free time. We’re looking at a couple cars we found on FB Marketplace after work, because he needs a set of wheels.
charlie61
10-21-2021, 06:10 PM
GUYS kill me lol . ^^
" I went to Pink Kitty Lotus Massage " at 1a.m. and couldn't find anyone who can do deep pressure.
hahahaha
Yes, exactly!! "I went to Asian Lily Chinese massage and the girl gave me light pressure the whole time and was answering calls every time the phone rang. 1 / 5 stars."
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-22-2021, 09:18 AM
Trigger warning- Mortality
I was having an awesome day until I found out the kid brother of my friend who killed herself this summer just passed away. He was super young too (I'm guessing it was an overdose.)
I'm not sharing this to be a downer. I am sharing this info because ALL my life I've been able to observe the level of parental abuse that my best friend's parents put upon their kids ruined them all. Only ONE out of EIGHT kids has something approaching a successful life.
As much as one of my parents was a mentally ill wrecking ball, what I went through as a kid was nothing compared to the family I'm talking about. The movie "The Butterfly Effect" comes to mind here. I'll still wonder until the day I die, how their lives could have been better if their childhoods were not so horrific.
I'm not going to allow myself to get worked up over this. Chris is in a better place, with his sister. That's all you need to know.
indiegirl
10-22-2021, 09:29 PM
I'm sorry, how have I missed 2020 supermarket sweep!!?!! Hurray!!! I want to apply to be on the show LOL. So excited it's back!!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVxbAIz3Yvw
chanzep
10-23-2021, 11:36 AM
So they actually have modern day Cheaters on tv!. I'm surprised people still call them.
carmen_b
10-23-2021, 11:55 AM
^ Cheating must be SO hard these days ( social media ect .)!
Like ... you just can not pretend you don’t have a partner like the old days.
If an online date has no social media you just assume he has a wife lol !
Omg and who has the time to cheat ? Now I’m fascinated so maybe I will watch a new one haha.
chanzep
10-23-2021, 12:27 PM
Yes I was thinking the same thing. The old ones were in MySpace days so people were shocked.
I just watched one where the girl who called the show ended up being the side chick. The guy was out with his wife of 9 years!. The girl had been dating him for a year. Also Peter Gunz is the host so that's funny too.
WendiStarr
10-23-2021, 07:15 PM
That dang Denny's commercial keeps advertising pumpkin pecan pancakes and there's no Denny's closer than 1 hour 37 minutes away. They also keep advertising Olive Garden and the closest one is 3 hours away. Now I'm craving pancakes and spaghetti.
indiegirl
10-23-2021, 11:09 PM
Holy cheese and crackers....I have 6 requests, already finished 2, onto my 3rd to do later in an hour. What the hell!!!?? I never want to return to the 10 in a day situation. I'm ancient LOLL.
JGB2009
10-24-2021, 02:41 AM
That dang Denny's commercial keeps advertising pumpkin pecan pancakes and there's no Denny's closer than 1 hour 37 minutes away. They also keep advertising Olive Garden and the closest one is 3 hours away. Now I'm craving pancakes and spaghetti.
I've been wanting pumpkin pancakes but I have not had the time to go and order them.
LoveyD
10-25-2021, 01:04 AM
Oooh I'm a 5 star Shipt Shopper now...
miss.a.p1600
10-25-2021, 10:13 AM
Watching this dude tow a suv.
This mf pulled up in his tow truck with one hand on the wheel, other hand on his cell phone and a cigarette hanging off his lip.
WendiStarr
10-25-2021, 10:15 AM
I miss the suite's big bath tub. It was nice being able to sit in there and relax. I only have a stand up shower at home.
indiegirl
10-25-2021, 10:40 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIUJ2CFfiCw
Oh my goodness. Homegirl has a ballet background for sure. I would've loved to see her at the Olympics. Too bad her roommate tested positive for covid and she had to quarantine. 2024 for Leanne Wong. Reminds me of Rebeca Andrade but more elegant with her arms. Whoever is her parents invested a lot of money in her sports lolll.
Also, why am I still watching gymnastics? The olympics are over haha.
JGB2009
10-25-2021, 10:03 PM
Your choice of movies suck sometimes so when I try to suggest a movie that I wanna see you show no interest. As of right now I think you suck!!!! Guess I will be watching the movie with my kids.
AChildOfBoredom
10-26-2021, 04:55 AM
Watching this dude tow a suv.
This mf pulled up in his tow truck with one hand on the wheel, other hand on his cell phone and a cigarette hanging off his lip.
Was it a flatbed or one where it lifted it by the wheels?
My parents are coming for Thanksgiving, which is good, though I’m a bit concerned about how my mother will act knowing what she knows. It’s really none of her concern, but that doesn’t mean she’ll see it that way. And she can be quite bull headed when she gets a mind to be. In that regard, we’re too much alike. I’m not worried about what may be directed at me - I’m used to dealing with her. The other person who could potentially be on the receiving end is not.
miss.a.p1600
10-26-2021, 05:14 AM
It was a flatbed.
It just reminded me of how I like men like that who are strong and in good physically shape. Also I wondered if that was the only job I could get, how good would I be towing?
Plus I was confused about how people talk with cigarette hanging off their lip
miss.a.p1600
10-26-2021, 05:50 AM
^ Cheating must be SO hard these days ( social media ect .)!
Like ... you just can not pretend you don’t have a partner like the old days.
If an online date has no social media you just assume he has a wife lol !
Omg and who has the time to cheat ? Now I’m fascinated so maybe I will watch a new one haha.
And people act like fucking psychos when the find out they’ve been cheated on. (Understandably) But what is more scary is some state laws protect the person who has been cheated on.
It wasn’t until I told my guy friend how I had a dalliance with my married coworker that he was like “be careful” because those crimes of passion laws can help people beat murder charges if they kill a spouses’ mistress.
Even though *I* didn’t cheat I was entertaining a cheater and that comes with some heavy risks.
Ironically I ran into his ass - and his wife - when I was out running errands. Lol!!!
miss.a.p1600
10-26-2021, 06:53 AM
Was it a flatbed or one where it lifted it by the wheels?
My parents are coming for Thanksgiving, which is good, though I’m a bit concerned about how my mother will act knowing what she knows. It’s really none of her concern, but that doesn’t mean she’ll see it that way. And she can be quite bull headed when she gets a mind to be. In that regard, we’re too much alike. I’m not worried about what may be directed at me - I’m used to dealing with her. The other person who could potentially be on the receiving end is not.
I also remember the first n only time I saw a woman pull up to tow.
I admit I was like “wtf. She probably going to break her nails then call for backup in 10 min”
But no, girl, she whipped those braids to the back, put some muscle work in, and got the job done. I was surprised.
AChildOfBoredom
10-26-2021, 12:58 PM
Also I wondered if that was the only job I could get, how good would I be towing?
There’s a few different aspects of it to get into… I’ve done recovery work, I’ve done PPIs and repossessions, I’ve run a four car transport, and now I work for a motor club company doing towing and roadside service. Repossessions were my favorite, especially when it came to people who tried to evade them. It really just comes down to what you get into and your aptitude for it.
With the motor club company, it’s owned by ACG, which is the largest AAA/CAA motor club in the US. It’s very uncommon for us to do recovery work, we don’t do PPIs or repossessions, and so we tow, amd offer roadside service including tire changes, lockouts, jump starts, battery sales and installations (for the overnight techs and battery techs)… the training I think is kinda crap. For lockouts, they only teach you to use a long reach, so if they encounter a car where you need to use a slim jim or other specialty tools which go into the door frame to get in, a lot of the people here don’t know what to do and don’t have the tools to do it. So I end up picking up a lot of those calls. The pay scale is a double edged sword, as well. It’s hourly + incentive, whereas my previous tow jobs (except for Copart) were commission. So you have your hourly rate (which those of us on the commercial side get paid more than those on the exclusive AAA side), plus X amount for each light service, Y amount for each AAA/Copart tow, Z amount for each commercial call, then you also get bonuses for calls which started off as tows but you manage to get them on the go, e.g., had a call last week where a woman couldn’t get her car to shift out of park, so I saw that she had no brake lights. I checked it out, found that the clip holding the plug into the brake light switch had broken an pod had let the plug come loose, so I pushed it back in and secured it with some zip ties. Another not too uncommon one is with GM vehicles (mostly pickups and SUVs, but I’ve encountered this with an Impala and some others) where the clip that holds the shift cable to the transmission breaks and causes them to disconnect. I’m either running the wrecker or a rollback (flatbed) with a wheel lift, so I just lift up the front end, get under there, use two zip ties to hold them together, and they can drive off instead of having it towed. But if I get a tow call I can’t get on the go, they all pay the same… if I can back up right to it in a rollback, load it, take it a couple miles and drop it, the incentive pays the same as it does if I have to take the wrecker, extricate the car, wheel lift it, put it on dollies, then take it 20 miles.
You also get tipped doing this, and I tend to take in more in tips than the dudes (though I don’t tell them this). They didn’t have any of the uniforms in the men’s cut my size, so I ended up with a much more form fitting uniform, and I complain about that, but that doesn’t mean I won’t work it. We previously had button up overshirts, which mine were already tight at the chest because whoever designed these things wasn’t mindful that being small and having boobs aren’t mutually exclusive, and I’d have the shirt tucked in, unbuttoned down one button… it didn’t leave me flashing my tits at them, but just seeing bare skin (because I only wore a sports bra under those) seemed to have a similar effect, and I’d use a lot of cutesy midwesternisms… “Ope, well that’s no good”. I swear, dudes are so fucking simple. Just gotta tease at their lusts in the smallest ways. I suppose it also comes off as kinda cutesy to them that I have to carry a stepladder and use it on lockout calls… we have one dude on the AAA side who’s 6’6”. Suffice to say, he doesn’t have that problem. If I end up working around NCSU, UNC-Chapel Hill, or Duke, I get a lot of invitations to go party, drink, smoke weed, etc. They all think I’m younger than I actually am. And of course I put on a more cheerful persona than my norm.
S works there as a battery tech. When she’s old enough, she wants to tow. TBH, I hope she doubles down on pursuing cosmetology instead. Towing - and especially roadside - is dangerous work. Tow op fatalities in the US average about one every six days. I can accept that… I function better overall when there’s some element of danger in my life. Maybe it’s a subconscious reaction to the sheltered upbringing I had. But of course I really don’t want to see S put in harm’s way.
I also remember the first n only time I saw a woman pull up to tow.
I admit I was like “wtf. She probably going to break her nails then call for backup in 10 min”
But no, girl, she whipped those braids to the back, put some muscle work in, and got the job done. I was surprised.
I guarantee you I’m never what anyone expects when they first encounter me… really, at either job, but especially when I’m running that 16 ton wrecker. I think people typically expect women in this industry either to be the butch/bull type, the ‘old battle axe’ type, or both. One of the reasons there’s more photos of me on Instagram posted by others than by me.
LoveyD
10-26-2021, 03:08 PM
I was glad to get out in nature for another run this morning. Did my pushups too. It was nice and cool from the rain, and everything felt fresh. My leggies are getting toned!
indiegirl
10-26-2021, 07:05 PM
I've been joking around with my customers lately in text messages bahaha. I love trolling them. Told one I would be shortly there and I was coming from San Diego (3 hour distance to LA) and then told this one today who is a business executive for a really nice company "yes I am staying at the motel 6." ...He said he almost cancelled lol. I told him the real location afterwards! :P.
Edit: Just checked and was surprised at the Motel 6 in the area near me. They've really remodeled some of them to be nicer!! Some are dumps.
JGB2009
10-27-2021, 03:37 AM
I hate it when I have a bad dream!!!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-27-2021, 01:46 PM
New workout routine coming in hot!
https://youtu.be/NovM9Bu7U7s
AChildOfBoredom
10-27-2021, 05:06 PM
New workout routine coming in hot!
https://youtu.be/NovM9Bu7U7s
I have a coworker who likes to blast that to embarrass his kids when he drops them off at school.
Well, I learned the story of how my passport disappeared, and my feelings about it are very mixed and conflicting.
I remember some years ago… I think it was 2016… I’d read about these units of the Peshmerga composed entirely of women which were fighting against ISIS, and of volunteers mostly from Europe and mostly (but not entirely) of Kurdish extraction who were joining them. And something just went off in my head and made me feel as if I’d found my calling. I decided I was ready to drop everything and join them. Unfortunately, word of that plan had gotten out and I came under a lot of intense pressure not to go… enough I eventually folded. The bride from the wedding I recently attended had seen my passport laying out somewhere and had snagged it hoping it would stop me from leaving the country.
Don’t know how to feel about it all. There’s still a large part of me which wishes I had.
JGB2009
10-27-2021, 07:27 PM
On the anniversary of my daughters dads death I sometimes put up his picture on FB. I did it this year and this girl I went to school with hearted the picture and said she missed him. Mind you I have known her since 1st grade but I have no idea how she knows him. I kind of wonder does she have him mixed up with someone else. Then again he had many girlfriends and I wonder was she just one of the many. Anyways I didn't comment or ask any questions. I found it very odd and I just left it at that.
indiegirl
10-27-2021, 08:35 PM
There was a small dick march in Los Angeles that all dongs are equal..........*sigh*..........no comment. Kinda like having a big booty march.
https://www.complex.com/life/small-dong-march-los-angeles
miss.a.p1600
10-28-2021, 04:51 AM
^lol! Or a flat booty March/itty bitty titty march
indiegirl
10-28-2021, 05:13 AM
^lol! Or a flat booty March/itty bitty titty march
This comedian is soo the reality of someone having a small dick as well as relationships. I'm totally open-minded for work but once you see your first micropenis you will never forget it. LOL It's like those mini corn dogs at wienerschnitzel and you don't know how to ride it so you have to do a ring with your fingers so it mimics penetration while it barely goes inside.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQXGEd-8Hws
I'm not sure I'd be proud/march around over it....I'd save up for penis enlargement surgery if it was me lolllll.
JGB2009
10-28-2021, 06:37 AM
^^^ I didn't know there was such a thing as penis enlargement surgery. Interesting.
TheBrownFox
10-28-2021, 08:31 AM
Six more days until my biopsy. The receptionist told me that they can't do it if I'm bleeding that day, and I panicked because...well...when am I NOT bleeding??? I asked the doctor if this is true, and she said NO...come in for the biopsy whether I'm bleeding or not, and we will get this done. See, I knew I liked this lady! I've been complaining to different doctors for years about this bleeding, and I finally have a doctor who's actually doing something about it and not being dismissive. This (the biopsy) is the final step before I can be scheduled for an endometrial ablation (A one time, five minute procedure), and I can't wait for this to be all over with.
miss.a.p1600
10-28-2021, 09:48 AM
This comedian is soo the reality of someone having a small dick as well as relationships. I'm totally open-minded for work but once you see your first micropenis you will never forget it. LOL It's like those mini corn dogs at wienerschnitzel and you don't know how to ride it so you have to do a ring with your fingers so it mimics penetration while it barely goes inside.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQXGEd-8Hws
I'm not sure I'd be proud/march around over it....I'd save up for penis enlargement surgery if it was me lolllll.
Idk what I’d do if I had a micro peen encounter.
MF better eat some pussy to perfection n come with some money to make me look past that.
JGB2009
10-28-2021, 11:16 AM
Six more days until my biopsy. The receptionist told me that they can't do it if I'm bleeding that day, and I panicked because...well...when am I NOT bleeding??? I asked the doctor if this is true, and she said NO...come in for the biopsy whether I'm bleeding or not, and we will get this done. See, I knew I liked this lady! I've been complaining to different doctors for years about this bleeding, and I finally have a doctor who's actually doing something about it and not being dismissive. This (the biopsy) is the final step before I can be scheduled for an endometrial ablation (A one time, five minute procedure), and I can't wait for this to be all over with.
I am having issues right now myself and I am so HAPPY to hear that you have found a good doctor. Unpredictable or continuous bleeding sucks on so many levels.
AChildOfBoredom
10-28-2021, 08:21 PM
Can’t help but feel like Thanksgiving is going to be awkward. Still looking forward to it. I feel like I may end up having to change my disposition on drinking by the end of it, though.
Luci Fer
10-28-2021, 09:00 PM
I suddenly decided to take more care of my mane. It was random idea. Sooo I got a bunch of natural oils, essential oil, hair balm and nice wooden comb. You better get ready to grow like crazy, hair! ;D
indiegirl
10-29-2021, 06:00 AM
https://www.tmz.com/2021/10/29/zayn-malik-pleads-guilty-to-harassment-yolanda-hadid-hit-gigi/
Weewwwww. Such a prime example of how on again off again relationships rarely work. Now Gigi Hadid's gonna have to co-parent with Zayn while hating him. He sounds toxic...but Yolanda is incredibly controlling. Just bad vibes all around.
People rarely change. It's like returning to the same mistake to repeat it all over again.
carmen_b
10-29-2021, 11:05 AM
Goddess help us we have arrived ( well he met me here ) in the city we don't have the best track record in.
:/
I'm determined to break this damned curse!
What I have experienced in traveling with J ( to here specifically ) is that he gets into a " needy " energy type of space.
I do not like " go go go " energy on vacations.
It has to mix of activity and lounging.
I warned him in advance that this trip WILL have down time . :)
So hopefully being totally straight about my expectations will pay off.
He did leave the hotel this morning to give me an hour for my solo computer time which has been awesome.
He isn't needy in regular day to to day life but I feel like people can act different on vacations sometimes.
indiegirl
10-29-2021, 08:30 PM
Completely forgot when advertising in LA tonight how cheap, last minute, and underweight obsessed LA men are of women LOL.
Him: "I need a full body shot and a selfie to prove it is you"
Hahaha. I'm only heading that direction because I have two requests tomorrow in that area. In my head I'm considering of responding jokingly: Would you like a photo of me spread eagle as well or spreading my cheeks? Would that suffice?" LOLL
I sent him a face photo and now I'm watching netflix preparing for a nap. No decency to screen but expecting the world from me...nap time :P!!!
WendiStarr
10-30-2021, 09:45 AM
Anybody else have carved pumpkins outside? Ours are looking extra creepy today. The inside rotted and turned black and bugs are crawling and flying in and out of them. I want to throw them away but given that Halloween is tomorrow, I figure they can be out there one more day because they fit the creepy Halloween theme.
indiegirl
10-30-2021, 01:08 PM
Being frustrated being told my services should be at 1000 an hour by a customer compared to what he has seen.
THEN WHY have I been haggled so much?
Edit: He tried referring me back to my previous female booker who is amazing. Totally forgot this trying to reply to guys. I feel like I was set up because she contacted me recently. OH well. She has amazing clients.
Probably time to call her.
I'm leaving this post so I remember to call her since I'm busy with another 2 more tonight LOL.
carmen_b
10-30-2021, 01:53 PM
Oh maybe I was worried too early.
Trip has gone well and been relaxed .
:)
JGB2009
10-31-2021, 10:10 AM
I made these last night. Halloween ghost Nutter Butter cookies. I love Halloween!!!!
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indiegirl
10-31-2021, 03:06 PM
I made these last night. Halloween ghost Nutter Butter cookies. I love Halloween!!!!
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Those are super cute!!!
indiegirl
10-31-2021, 03:12 PM
I'm supposed to be going to the 4 Seasons Hotel in Beverly Hills for $2,400 tonight but I'm opting to stay in OC and settling for less after the whole being transported to Inglewood Hospital when I passed out. I've really always hated LA anyways and the men there. Men are such assholes in LA. I've never been treated like that by firemen in my life. Ya don't like your job helping people to the point you are rude to people straight to their face, don't do it.