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indiegirl
12-04-2021, 08:41 AM
First time in my life where I'm mad at myself for making money. Me talking to myself: "We have to do 6 trips to the bank now you idiot!!!" I was also fed sushi, wine, and made very good money yesterday, which I appreciated :).

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-04-2021, 09:34 AM
Why does my day job have to be so dramatic, it's like a soap opera every day. Gahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

GlamLifter
12-04-2021, 10:05 AM
As PT gradually wants more of my time, I wonder if I should try to rise my rates, but I’m not quite sure how to approach it. Don’t want to be too greedy either.
Regarding this, the fact that I’m becoming more and more convinced he has a shit load of money makes it even more tempting.

carmen_b
12-04-2021, 10:44 AM
Nice ! ^^

Sex club update :
Nada.
Got high as hell instead , had yummy food , got some great pics of us .
Happy. Was not feeling the idea suddenly so I didn’t bring it up.

kimbe
12-04-2021, 10:53 AM
^ That reminds me I haven't been high for such a long time I barely remember...

JGB2009
12-04-2021, 11:26 AM
My son made the basketball team this year. Now I will have something to do in my spare time while attending his games.

kimbe
12-04-2021, 01:16 PM
Working on two trips before Christmas, first one's next weekend, to Scottsdale AZ. Lot of things happen there, I've got clients competing, I'll compete myself, and I'm asked if I can work with the tanning company as well...

Initially I thought about flying there by myself, but now I think I have landed (pun intended!) on driving. Time wise the roughly 4.5 hours driving is actually relatively competitive, all factors taken into account. And I need a car there anyway.

carmen_b
12-04-2021, 01:34 PM
^ Plus with the car I feel better prepping and bringing whatever I want !

By the time you wait then exit airport you’ll probably save just 90 min flying.

kimbe
12-04-2021, 01:37 PM
^ Definitely, however, when I fly, I can bring pretty much what I want ;)

Marina Starr
12-04-2021, 03:50 PM
Loving the finally free, no fucks given new Britney Spears so much! I love that she's using so much profanities without censoring.

Just when I thought I couldn't love her more, I was wrong!

https://i.ibb.co/r3yTSJJ/giphy-1.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

chanzep
12-04-2021, 08:16 PM
I'm happy for Britney I love her.
I hope she can be happy even if she never performs again just let her have her peace. I can't believe what she has been through made me sad to watch the documentry.
I went to her concert in London in 2012 it was amazing. Joe Jonas was her warm up act and she put him on a chair next to a pole and gave him a lapdance. She put her legs around his neck. The show was awesome. I feel bad now knowing they had her enslaved like that.
I always used her music for stage songs too.

Marina Starr
12-05-2021, 12:26 PM
I just wanted to say I don't give a fuck what town I'm in, rich or poor or who is around, male or female or what race, white, black, asian, mexican:
the FIRST thing I do immediately when I got in my car is lock it because things can escalate very quickly.
My car automatically locks when the speed is at 15mph but you're most vulnerable when you check your phone, put seatbelt on, check your bag, etc.

I just watched on YouTube where an older taxi or uber driver got hijacked by these two young cunts, fought with him in his car, they footed the gas pedal, the car flipped and he instantly die at scene while they were unharmed. What's even more fucked up is these two cunts were more worried about their phones than this poor man they just killed.

Fucking AWFUL!

carmen_b
12-05-2021, 12:46 PM
^ Good reminder ! Get in the car and lock and GO. You don't know who watched you . If you need time on your phone drive to a well lit parking area or safe spot ( by parking no one sees a woman walking alone). I am guilty of this. I would often get into my car and delay ( checking phone / makeup / taking a breather ). I read that it is dangerous for women to do this and try to be better now.

Marina Starr
12-05-2021, 12:54 PM
I am also guilty as charged! Locking the car first is just something I recently started doing but I wish I've always done it.
Better late than never because it's a something I now do without even thinking about it.


^ Good reminder ! Get in the car and lock and GO. You don't know who watched you . If you need time on your phone drive to a well lit parking area or safe spot . I am guilty of this. I would often get into my car and delay ( checking phone / makeup / taking a breather ). I read that it is dangerous for women to do this and try to be better now.

kimbe
12-05-2021, 01:13 PM
My car automatically locks when the speed is at 15mph but you're most vulnerable when you check your phone, put seatbelt on, check your bag, etc.


I wonder why they make'm like that, it's opposite of what's logical! I mean, who the fuck would enter a car at >15..? /:O
The doors should automatically lock when they're closed.

whirlerz
12-05-2021, 01:23 PM
I think you can have it disabled, it's discussed in below link.

Read this: Street Robberies & You:

https://www.ar15.com/forums/general/Street-robberies-and-you-The-Basics/5-1285487/?

It's long, 55 pages some of it's repeated/quoted etc. but to say how little regard some people have have, doesn't even begin to cover it.

They don't even care?! Ha! They relish/enjoy people's suffering, whether it involves loss of property or not. Even if you comply w/demands, you can be hurt or worse.
We're talking dangerous, violent, psychopathic here irrelevant of age: 13yr Olds car jacking & running a woman over w/her own car, the one Marina mentioned was an Uber driver I believe.

Then you got the POS's that are released repeatedly from prison.

Whole different world today.
Good luck, stay safe.

kimbe
12-05-2021, 01:30 PM
I think you can have it disabled

Yes, I know ;) I just think it could have been made with even more security in mind.

whirlerz
12-05-2021, 01:42 PM
I get it, as it states in above link, it was designed mostly for convenience, not for the world we live in today.

The one guy in the link had alot of trouble trying to get it straightened out, he finally just got a different car.

Cars are fucked, I was locked out of mine twice (2 different cars) once in a blizzard w/o my coat.
I DID NOT LOCK THE DOORS, THEY SELF LOCKED, both times.

Marina Starr
12-05-2021, 01:45 PM
LMAO, right? They need to make an option for car to immediately lock right after you sat down.
There are cars that would not automatically lock no matter what speed you're driving.


I wonder why they make'm like that, it's opposite of what's logical! I mean, who the fuck would enter a car at >15..? /:O
The doors should automatically lock when they're closed.

carmen_b
12-05-2021, 01:49 PM
My partner really annoyed me asking for a picture last time I was at the club ( I was more annoyed that is was slow ) ha .
We talked it out and I think it makes some sense. He finds it exciting ( hahaha ) which is quite the opposite of how I was feeling.
We took some time to discuss my perspective ( to me there is nothing less exciting than a slow club ). I think we both cleared the air on that. From his perspective ( since he is stuck at home during these trips ) he would really like more activity from me via texts / updates ect. ! I tend to just get workin' and FOCUS so I can see how he felt left out a bit. The updates I was sending were admittedly not sexy ( ratio of goal hit ! ) so maybe those updates were not helpful from his perspective.

So ..... I guess the request isn't *that* crazy and he knows to NOT reach me ( or at least not expect a reply ) from 4:30-8 p.m. ( at that time in the shift I could still only be holding a low amount and not happy ). Basically ..... if I have time to look at my phone .... well ..... that indicates how the night is going and it is NOT good.

I think I explained things. He isn't in the industry and doesn't know how annoying a slow time can be in the club. OMG the dictionary should just have " slow strip club " under the word annoying. I can't think of anything more awful.

This is a silly side note. I had NO idea there was a huge event in town and invited J to the city on Friday. I gave him my full focus ( duh ) . THEN a very country type of crowd filled our hotel in droves ( I think it was an event hub ) and J wasn't a fan. We had fun once I got him out of that crowd and into another area of the city. He " escaped " from a small town and hates looking back. I could almost read the ptsd on his face ha.

AChildOfBoredom
12-05-2021, 02:07 PM
I wonder why they make'm like that, it's opposite of what's logical! I mean, who the fuck would enter a car at >15..? /:O
The doors should automatically lock when they're closed.

What I really hate is how GM cars will automatically unlock when put into park (or when they key is turned off). I’ve had that happen before, where someone opened the door and began entering my car because they thought I was their Uber driver. And one that’s a little embarrassing, I was pulled over on the side of the road and someone who I’m pretty sure wasn’t well intentioned walked over, grabbed the door handle, and tried to open my door. It hadn’t unlocked because I still had the engine running. Kinda pissed at myself for that one because I noticed him walking up but assumed he would pass, and I was actually looking right at him when he reached for the door handle. And also the whole thing was because I pulled over to take down a Pokémon Go! gym. Also, if he had gotten into my car, I had my handgun in the little pocket on the back of the passenger seat and may not have been able to get to it.

charlie61
12-05-2021, 03:25 PM
Carmen, i was always the same way. Completely compartmentalized home life and club life...i tried to never ever be on my phone at work, because that could easily take me out of money-making shark mode and have me thinking about how much more I'd rather be cozy, at home. I don't think my ex and i ever texted while i was working.

I was also one of those girls who would never count money until i got home. It just felt like something that would limit my mentality. If i hadn't made much, then checking was depressing, and if I'd made good money so far, then checking could make me want to leave early or get into a lazy mindset. I always just made as much as i could, left the club, counted at home.

carmen_b
12-05-2021, 03:48 PM
^ I might try that and not count until after.
I can’t help but keep a *sense* of it anyway.

I feel paranoid lately about working. :/
I think guilt “ kicks up “ for me. Like... I’m not really the “ best “ partner when in a heavy work week. My partner is not the “ best “ from a romance perspective either though when he has his daughter ( for obvious reasons ha ).
I do kind of need the money lately though.
It used to really just be extra fun money ( July - Sept was ).

So far I only work when he has her ( gives me something to do and gives them time alone ). I never work two weeks in a row either. This week for example I don’t work at the club.

I think my partner is trying to be brave ha but struggles sometimes!
I do think it's good I only do every other week ( at the most ).
I think more would probably be admittedly excessive ( since I leave town v.s. working IN my town ).

charlie61
12-05-2021, 03:57 PM
^it sounds like he's starting to understand and experience the difference between the fantasy of dating a sex worker and the reality of the situation

carmen_b
12-05-2021, 04:08 PM
Yes, this week BIG TIME. :)
He is now getting the "real picture ".

The effort put out for this isn't really " for " him.
We have our personal life for that.
The effort should get me less stress about $ ( and in turn a better non-stressed mood which benefits him). At times he can afford an allowance for me but I don’t think it’s easy for him in the next couple months ( I found out he was putting things on a no interest card deal when I assumed at his income level he was only saving ). I’d rather have us both totally debt free ( not even putting things on zero interest cards ).
I mean ... he can do what he wants but I don’t want to take an allowance if he has to even occasionally use a card.

lilylilylily
12-05-2021, 04:26 PM
If people only knew how easy it is for me to cut them off, they wouldn't play with me. That includes family

JGB2009
12-05-2021, 09:49 PM
Last night I saw a wreck on my way home. It must of just happened. It was really dark and I ran into some of the debris that was in the road. That was scary to come up on like that.

Marina Starr
12-06-2021, 07:24 AM
This Britney performance was so ICONIC. This song makes me feel like a stripper!


https://youtu.be/nUh0Rwx2QBc

kimbe
12-06-2021, 12:11 PM
He (from this time on named T) asked me if I wanted to drive the Tesla on my Thursday - Monday Scottsdale trip. Honestly, I didn’t even give it a thought, I’m definitely going to drive the big gas guzzler! End of question!

Regardless all the fancy tech on the Tesla, and the low driving costs, I'd choose the car I need to climb into any day! It kind of compensates for my lack of height, ha ha, in a somewhat similar way wearing heels does…

Not to mention, in my opinion nothing compares to the long distance driving comfort of the F-150!

Marina Starr
12-06-2021, 12:49 PM
Vanilla hoes don't want you around their men if they found out you sell pussy for living for the fear of you stealing them.

I don't steal, I CHARGE!

While we're at it, let's see how merriam-webster defines 'steal':

to take away by force or unjust means

I didn't know men only cheat by force or having a gun to their head.

carmen_b
12-06-2021, 01:20 PM
^ Sex workers are pretty much the lowest threat to stealing your man there is.

Unless he is a Sugar Daddy and extremely generous ( with only 2-3 hours to spare a week ) you shouldn’t worry ha!

Marina Starr
12-06-2021, 01:35 PM
^ Sex workers are pretty much the lowest threat to stealing your man there is.

Unless he is a Sugar Daddy and extremely generous you shouldn’t worry ha!

True dat, true dat but you can't tell vanilla hoes that though.

They assumed sex workers are low value, promiscuous and morally bad that would fuck and steal their men in a heartbeat, LOL.
The great thing with sex workers is, it's just transactions with no string attached. That's why men pay hoes to be quiet.

Dan didn't pay Alex in 'Fatal Attraction' but I bet he wished he had. That would have saved him a lot of headache if it was just a transaction.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JS6Gw6NVgRg&t=77s&ab_channel=Movieclips

whirlerz
12-06-2021, 02:45 PM
She's pissed!^
I remember seeing that at the show, long after it was out

Went to TJ's, they had minty mallows, dk choc, but not my beloved horseradish sour cream wave chips.
They'd be on the sites tho, $ 9.99 - 20.00 a bag.:( + shipping.
Shoulda stocked up, I was getting a little tired of the, I want now tho

whirlerz
12-06-2021, 02:56 PM
Last night I saw a wreck on my way home. It must of just happened. It was really dark and I ran into some of the debris that was in the road. That was scary to come up on like that.

Vid if Henry Ugg hitting woman @ 132mph, (slowed from 156) she & dog burned alive.:(

kimbe
12-06-2021, 03:18 PM
Vid if Henry Ugg hitting woman @ 132mph, (slowed from 156) she & dog burned alive.:(

That’s tragic!
People I’ve known have literally burnt to death in both helicopter and plane accidents, definitely one of the worst ways of dying.

JGB2009
12-06-2021, 05:15 PM
So much on my mind right now. I don't know how you are content with being the way you are!

chanzep
12-06-2021, 06:14 PM
Marina that performance was awesome.
As for vanilla hoes judging . Good the more taboo and bad it is the more money we make. Any man around me is paying .
I miss the good old days when dancing was taboo. Now all these twats on Instagram nearly naked ruining everything.

Marina Starr
12-06-2021, 06:35 PM
Marina that performance was awesome.
As for vanilla hoes judging . Good the more taboo and bad it is the more money we make. Any man around me is paying .
I miss the good old days when dancing was taboo. Now all these twats on Instagram nearly naked ruining everything.

It sure was and STILL is. Britney performed exactly how it should be. I was appalled that so many people called her fat by how she looked in that performance. They made me sick!

I thought I was the only one that feeling that way. I can't scroll through instagram without seeing so many almost naked girls and guys.
If there's so much on display, what's there to show in private?! It would be different if that's your job.

YEEEEEEEEEEEEEES>>> 'Any man around me is paying.'

What so hilarious to me is, vanilla hoes AND their men think we would fuck for free.

https://i.ibb.co/GvHv7cn/giphy.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

carmen_b
12-06-2021, 06:45 PM
I miss the taboo days too ......

carmen_b
12-06-2021, 07:40 PM
I feel stressed related to birthdays. Mine is coming up them 8 days later HIS comes up.
I am starting to feel stress about what to do for him! I want to do something awesome but I'm stuck deciding !

I have thought of :
1. exotic car experience ( driving on a track ) .... I might be slightly out of budget range here
2. more realistic might be small heli tour ( the quick one , he's never been in one )
3. obviously renting a nice hotel is always an option .... duh

^ So one of those plus a small gift but I am stressing a little.
Budget wise, I probably need to pick one of those option but wish I could do two.
I want something unique .

carmen_b
12-06-2021, 07:48 PM
Oddly .... I think mine is getting tied into a Snow Boarding day which I initially thought sounded fine and now I'm regretting approving it, ha. :/
I like the " fire in the lodge " experience but I am just not sure I'm ready to travel *into* snow.
I wonder if I should speak up and suggest a not snowy experience instead ?
It’s probably too late . :/

kimbe
12-07-2021, 01:37 AM
I offered a client to ride with me to Scottsdale, she's competing for the first time and. It's actually OK to have company on a long drive!

charlie61
12-07-2021, 08:08 AM
I feel stressed related to birthdays. Mine is coming up them 8 days later HIS comes up.
I am starting to feel stress about what to do for him! I want to do something awesome but I'm stuck deciding !

I have thought of :
1. exotic car experience ( driving on a track ) .... I might be slightly out of budget range here
2. more realistic might be small heli tour ( the quick one , he's never been in one )
3. obviously renting a nice hotel is always an option .... duh

^ So one of those plus a small gift but I am stressing a little.
Budget wise, I probably need to pick one of those option but wish I could do two.
I want something unique .

Girl, I'm sure you could get away with doing something very low-budget and sexy instead. Picnic plus some hot sex / oral, something like that? He knows this hasn't been a good financial year...i can't imagine that he wants or expects anything significant. Is he big into gift-giving?

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-07-2021, 10:27 AM
Ladies, one of my friends is missing and my gut is telling me it's a bad situation. Please be careful who you socialize with, and always have enough money on your for cab fare/ Uber. My heart is breaking right now. This world is a cruel place sometimes.

JGB2009
12-07-2021, 10:28 AM
Sometimes we hold on to people in our lives when we know we should not do so. Words mean nothing but your actions mean everything!

carmen_b
12-07-2021, 10:40 AM
Moved

charlie61
12-07-2021, 10:50 AM
Wtf is this shit ..... my partner is expressing " jealousy " and concerned now about that strip club ?
God lets hope this is just a phase ( since I don't plan to be there for 6 more days ) and he is over this next week.

Well ..... I am ALSO jealous as hell over YOUR high paying job !!

I have a feeling this will pass. I just can't figure out ... jealous of WHAT exactly ? I had one great night, one ok one, and one last week that can only be described as a " glistening turd " of a night lol.

I literally protected the Dec. 13-15 range on my calendar for the club .

I wish his work would push him into overtime. The reason for this is I have come to believe he has too much time on his hands ( and this time seems to be spent being overly needy lately ). He works for a retailer and X-mas is coming. Bring ON that over time !!

Yeah, he's starting to realize what the job actually entails...

I've also found that many men only start having issues with dancing once they start to deeply love and care about you. I've said it before and I'll say it again (and i haven't always felt this way)...i think it's more normal and healthy for partners to feel jealous than for them to not feel jealous. Knowing that your partner is flirting and grinding on so many men for money is really difficult, especially when you're just helping to pick up the pieces afterwards. Jealousy and hurt feelings are inconvenient for us, but i think it's healthier than having a partner who fetishizes the business. Just my opinion.

I personally couldn't handle my partner flirting with and grinding on women night after night. If I'm being honest with myself, I couldn't handle it. Especially if he were going out of town to do it, like staying overnight in Vegas? You could say that that indicates trust issues, but if that's the case, then i think 99% of couples have trust issues.

charlie61
12-07-2021, 10:53 AM
The reality is that there are other ways to make money. So anyone can say, he better pay up or 'let you' dance, but those aren't the only options. Dancing can hold us back from putting energy into longer-term prospects that will lead to a more stable lifestyle, financially. I know this is a controversial opinion on this board, but I've found this to be true in my own life. Dancing was great fast cash, but it was never my only option, and i think it can be used as a crutch (sometimes that's necessary, other times it isn't the only answer).

At the end of the day, dancing is a preferred style of making money for many of us, not the only option.

carmen_b
12-07-2021, 11:00 AM
^ I may be getting to that point too honestly.

If day job isn't preforming .... it might be time for serious changes .... not just filling in the gap weeks with dancing. I guess the " gap " filling I do can be done in other ways ( bartending somewhere local may work ). I could also actually go to the real estate office if my license is finally activated ( I haven't touched base on it , bleh ).

I don't really know the extent of it as he just mentioned " feeling jealous ".
I leave a lot of time for him ( I literally was intending to work 3-4 days TOTAL at the club in Dec. ) ! I do think it's somewhat normal too like you say.

He actually WOULD dance himself ha. He was curious last weekend. I just didn't know where to send him in Vegas but I assume male dancers must work somewhere ? One thing I suspect is that because he has never seen me work his mind might be " filling in " info and it's probably much worse in his mind ! I literally signed a document at my club to keep a foot on the floor during dances and not put boobs within 8" of the customers face ( really ! ) so this is a pretty tame club .

I'm not really mad at him for expressing what's going on.

charlie61
12-07-2021, 11:05 AM
^ I may be getting to that point too honestly.

If day job isn't preforming .... it might be time for serious changes .... not just filling in the gap weeks with dancing. I guess the " gap " filling I do can be done in other ways ( bartending somewhere local may work ).

I don't really know the extent of it as he just mentioned " feeling jealous " but I'm taking *great* to the news per say because I leave a lot of time for him ( I literally was intending to work 3-4 days TOTAL at the club in Dec. ) ! I do think it's somewhat normal too like you say.

He actually WOULD dance himself ha. He was curious last weekend. I just didn't know where to send him in Vegas but I assume male dancers must work somewhere ?

I think you're misinterpreting his jealousy, but i could be wrong. I don't think it's likely that it's about quality time and how much time work is taking away from being with him. I would guess it's the standard type of jealousy.

And there's a big difference between having a partner dance once for the novelty factor vs grinding out shifts regularly, staying in hotels away from the other partner, etc.