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kimbe
12-18-2021, 11:10 AM
I probably shouldn’t say this, it’s definitely on the verge of being unprofessional, but anyway… Last weekend when I was doing competition spray tanning, I sprayed this male bodybuilder with such an enormous dick… And I mean really humongous, in relaxed state. I’m not easily pushed over the edge, but I had a hard time concentrating on the job..

indiegirl
12-18-2021, 01:54 PM
I probably shouldn’t say this, it’s definitely on the verge of being unprofessional, but anyway… Last weekend when I was doing competition spray tanning, I sprayed this male bodybuilder with such an enormous dick… And I mean really humongous, in relaxed state. I’m not easily pushed over the edge, but I had a hard time concentrating on the job..

Bahaha. I completely forgot about the fact they have to stand nude for a spray tan.

kimbe
12-18-2021, 02:14 PM
Bahaha. I completely forgot about the fact they have to stand nude for a spray tan.

Well, not necessarily, many choose to wear a sock or similar, we also provide a disposable tanning pouch, simply a tiny pouch with a rubber band that they put on :O

carmen_b
12-19-2021, 02:48 PM
I was there and I noticed this guy forgot a small bag. I will definitely need his full info ( such as name / contact number / ect. ) to get his property back to him haha .


I probably shouldn’t say this, it’s definitely on the verge of being unprofessional, but anyway… Last weekend when I was doing competition spray tanning, I sprayed this male bodybuilder with such an enormous dick… And I mean really humongous, in relaxed state. I’m not easily pushed over the edge, but I had a hard time concentrating on the job..

LoveyD
12-19-2021, 03:36 PM
I'm excited to stay in a hotel room for Xmas and be normal. I'm also going to make sure I have a THC bath bomb ready and some candles. I'm going to take the best bath ever...

Marina Starr
12-19-2021, 03:39 PM
Don't forget Starbucks is open on Xmas. Starbucks and hotel sound wonderful!


I'm excited to stay in a hotel room for Xmas and be normal. I'm also going to make sure I have a THC bath bomb ready and some candles. I'm going to take the best bath ever...

chanzep
12-19-2021, 06:21 PM
I hope you enjoy the hotel Lovey D .sounds relaxing.

AChildOfBoredom
12-19-2021, 06:36 PM
1 and 3 are true, 2 is lie?;D

1 is true, and it gets better… 14 years old, and the arrest happened on Mother’s Day. That’s someone else’s story, though.

I treated myself to a bubble bath today. Haven’t done that in forever.

Luci Fer
12-19-2021, 07:19 PM
^100 hours of community services sounds terrible! Unless the mischief was worth it.
I did shopping today, saw some cool aroma candle shop and wanted to buy candles for holidays, then changed my mood because this way I'll start buying everything I see, I am like a fucking magpie sometimes.
Now here I see mentioning of aroma candles for holidays. oh well...;D

LoveyD
12-19-2021, 09:58 PM
Don't forget Starbucks is open on Xmas. Starbucks and hotel sound wonderful!

I believe there is a Starbucks nearby lol I could not do Christmas without Starbucks!

whirlerz
12-20-2021, 01:56 PM
I went to SB, Luv their egg white wrap!

Went out for mail, heard so many birds, looked up, there was literally hundreds in this one tree..

Weird, like that movie lol, I still won't watch it..
Love North by North by Northwest, Notorious by Hitchcock

AChildOfBoredom
12-20-2021, 01:56 PM
^100 hours of community services sounds terrible! Unless the mischief was worth it.

I’d have to ask them. It was someone else’s truth, not mine.

Part of me getting my job initially was that my employer’s wife (who manages the equestrian center) would be able to have me at her disposal, as they couldn’t afford to pay me full-time at a rate I could live with. So I initially was hired on as a heavy equipment operator directly under the corporate umbrella, but when they wanted to me to a position/title where the pay scale was outside of the one I fit into previously (my previous title was Field Specialist, and was actually an administrative position, even though I did almost no admin work), they moved me from that to where I worked directly for the company I work for. In the course of that - and especially when I promoted to FT4 - I became too expensive for the equestrian center, as they get billed at my FT4 rate. So, I had to train one of their employees on doing hay deliveries, because he’s paid at a much lower rate. Problem is, she still wants to be able to have me at special events and such, but again, the FT4 rate, and especially because I always hit overtime during the work week. So now, for these events, it’s set up to where I had to direct hire as a part-time employee for these events. Now, working on the barn manager vehicle, I was on the clock at my regular job, so I was still paid my FT4 rate. So I’m curious how that works out.

Anyhow, there’s an event Christmas Eve, so my sister and of course her BF wanted to participate, and the Irish woman will already be there, so the new girl didn’t want to be home alone, and my BFF from my stripper days also, and they were able to put all of them to work. My sister and I were talking to my other on the phone last night, and my mother doesn’t really understand the emphasis on Christmas… in the Anabaptist churches, Christmas isn’t a big deal - Easter is the holiday they put emphasis on. I didn’t really want to get too into it because my mother’s quite steadfast and stubborn about her ways, so I just told her, “It’s always been a big thing for my English girls, and they’re generally people who were in situations where they missed out on it for portions of their lives, so I just try to give them what they didn’t have as far as that goes”. Which, thankfully, seemed a good enough explanation for her.

whirlerz
12-20-2021, 03:59 PM
Wow, that's a lot to digest^! COB

carmen_b
12-20-2021, 06:25 PM
I put my guy on a slight sex diet.
There are reasons I had to do this.
There was the complaining that happened that one week ( a couple weeks ago ) where we " dropped " to two times. :/
I hate complaining and hard a time recovering.

Aside from that winter ( seasonal ) depression has been kicking my ass. I upped some medication ( by 25% ) ha and it seems to be working. I'll ask my Dr. for a little higher sustained release dose. I told my dude about this depression thing and that he needed to back off and have expectations along the lines of " every few days " not " every other - ish days ".

It did get that pressure off of me quick and has been going well so far this week.
I did this to check for coercion type behavior.
Like .... now that I have been crystal clear ..... will he push back at all ?
So far he hasn't. He isn't starving to death either ( still will get sex every few days ).

I'm checking for coercive behavior since I have been an abuse victim before. This will ensure that I can " check in " and be listened to without push back which is vital in a relationship. I had a plan to get out in case I received any issues. I don't think I will need to use it but I wanted things in place * just in case *.

JGB2009
12-20-2021, 09:15 PM
I read part of a newspaper today. I haven't done that in a very long time.

JGB2009
12-21-2021, 04:38 AM
I can't wait until I finally get everything done this week. This week is so hectic.

AChildOfBoredom
12-21-2021, 03:24 PM
I think I got a little carried away this morning. We were waiting in the break room for work to be assigned, and an incident from a couple months ago came up, where one coworker photographed something he saw on a unit, put his phone down without locking the screen after taking a photo, then went to get me to ask me about it. So, one coworker mooned the phone camera while the other took the photo - and I mean, zoomed in like he was looking into the guy’s soul. And they set it as his Lock Screen and wallpaper. So I came back with him, he goes to show me this photo he took, and I find myself greeted by my other coworker’s hairy ass.

So, that incident came up in conversation, and I said, “Yeah, I thought maybe he’d gotten a little too close to the Sasquatch on one of his camping trips, or maybe the wallpaper was a tribute to Harambe” (seriously, this guy’s ass is that hairy). A couple minutes more of banter, and I said to the guy who flashed the camera, “I don’t know if your wife’s into eating ass, but if she is then she must have a beard like Grizzly Adams afterwards, as hairy as that thing is”. Brought the house down, made one guy choke on his tobacco, then I hear my name yelled out and I look over to see the other woman in the shop looking at me like I just stole her favorite teddy bear while the kid is trying to avoid eye contact, and my supervisor just dropped his clipboard and buried his face in his hands.

Yeah, I probably shouldn’t have said that. I think I’ve been letting these dudes influence me too much.

indiegirl
12-21-2021, 04:11 PM
Day two of chilling at home, doing absolutely nothing other than cleaning my room, watching movies, lighting my candles from bath and body works and doing laundry. Someone asked me where I was going to for vacation again. I'm staying homeeee lol.

WendiStarr
12-21-2021, 07:46 PM
Relatives inviting me to their homes. I'm not interested in a one hour or longer road trip with a cranky toddler who flips out during 10 minute car rides, while 7 months pregnant and I have to pee like every 20 minutes it seems. I also get super nauseous every time I get in the car and drive anywhere. It's just not worth it for people who haven't treated me that great anyways.

indiegirl
12-22-2021, 12:46 PM
Is it just me or have businesses stopped sending around 80 percent less junk mail to your mailbox nowadays? I'm absolutely loving it.

carmen_b
12-22-2021, 07:27 PM
Ugh !
3.5 more days till it's O.V.E.R.
Can we all just get back to work please ?

I better go get the adults in the family some presents. :/
I will probably get J a nice bottle of something to go along with the nugget ice maker I got. It makes that squishy gas station ice ( he's obsessed with it ) . I'm excited to get it. I think he will be surprised by it.

AChildOfBoredom
12-22-2021, 10:22 PM
Got the 4.6 out of this Mustang, got it sold, and the person who bought it picked it up about 1/2 hour ago. It’s good to have connections… I was able to borrow a forklift for that.

WendiStarr
12-23-2021, 08:25 AM
BD is going to in-person work on January 4th. The kids and I will have to leave then. I'm so tired of having to keep moving. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I don't know where I can go that will not list my address on public info websites so he'll keep finding me.

carmen_b
12-23-2021, 09:24 AM
Ha.
Ok, so I'm trying to be supportive here ...... kind of.
J was really wanting to go see Phish in New York this New Years timeframe ( it's 4 days of concerts ).
I thought he was going to let the idea go but I guess he bought tickets and hotel.
I am not sure if I'm going. :/
I'm 50/50 on it. He has a Delta companion ticket for me and hotel is covered so I guess maybe I should just go ?

I guess there has been some talk of it getting cancelled ( maybe ) due to Omicron variant.

carmen_b
12-23-2021, 09:33 AM
I did commit to join him for a trip in Washington D.C. too in later January for 5 days.
THAT one I was totally on board with ( and still am ) even though it's a cold destination .
His work is paying for the whole thing ( even my ticket ) so it was an easy one to say yes to.
This one ...... eh ..... maybe.

I'm 100% carving Feb. dates as of right NOW to take myself to a warm destination ha.
He will be invited but I will be going regardless.

carmen_b
12-23-2021, 11:24 AM
ohhhh whispers about that show being cancelled .......

carmen_b
12-23-2021, 01:34 PM
It got postponed and he got the money back for that hotel and ticket package.

Unfortunately so did the conference in D.C.
:/
It’s postponed now too until March.

carmen_b
12-23-2021, 03:35 PM
^ Im going to suggest to him we keep the late Jan. dates on our calendar.
We don’t need to tell anyone the work trip got cancelled.
Child care and my dog sitter is already booked. We should protect those days as travel days.
We could do Hawaii. :)
I think I'll send him some screenshots of packages I found that fit those exact dates and then blow him. I want lots of positive vibes looking at the options ha !

chanzep
12-23-2021, 06:18 PM
Hawaii sounds nice!

carmen_b
12-23-2021, 06:55 PM
I'll take anywhere warm honestly !
I mean we didn't travel for a YEAR you know ( march 2020 - march 2021 ).
Finally we branched out to little 3-4 days trips but we have never even done a 6-7 day trip. It's time !
I pretty much decided after D.C. got cancelled today that it was my oppurtunity to pounce on a warm trip.

His sister SAID she would take daughter a few days . Let her ! Tell her the dates and lets bounce.

I have been stressed today about travel stuff ugh. I could probably pull off a month away ( somewhere warm ) after Jan. 1 ! I'll be working fully remotely from roughly Jan. 2 ish to - Feb. 3-5ish for sure.
It feels so limiting sometimes to be with someone who works remotely too but is limited for travel availability. Le sigh. It's always my " thing " I fight about ( in my relationships ) . :/ I'm trying to *not* do that anymore and just do my own trips if needed.

JGB2009
12-23-2021, 10:22 PM
In 19 more days I will be getting a D&C. Just feeling moody about everything.

carmen_b
12-24-2021, 10:47 AM
It can be easy I think here to bitch about partners ha so I'm posting a couple good / cute things.

He got me a gift card for this bra / panty place online which was so cute and random so I get to shop for a set now.
He turned the temp. in the house up to 74.
We went for a nice meal on our date night . Really enjoyable to get out of the house .

carmen_b
12-24-2021, 12:21 PM
I consider Christmas over at 10 pm the 25th lol.
Less than 33 hours to go !
UPDATE make that 24 hours haha ! I feel like I'm going to make it without a melt down !
I feel kind of bad because we went to our fave spot for a salad and pizza on Eve. but it was early like 1 p.m.

J's gift ( the nugget ice maker ) is HERE !!!
It was sitting out and he checked the mail box when we drove up so he didn't see it .
I wrapped it up on the sly so it's still a surprise.

Aurora_Sunset
12-24-2021, 04:16 PM
I bought the book Unfuck Your Year, and I'm really excited to start using it in January. It has months devoted to different categories, like goal-setting, self-care, and dealing with anxiety, depression, anger, and sleep issues. But the weeks seem pretty straightforward and not super time-consuming to keep up with.

I also bought Think and Grow Rich. I couldn't believe I didn't have it on my shelf already. I'm ready for money now, please.

carmen_b
12-24-2021, 04:18 PM
Unfuck your Year sounds good.
I have to watch it to not get into mental funks so it probably has good tips !

JGB2009
12-24-2021, 09:41 PM
I think my daughters dad is hiding from someone. Ha ha I wonder why and what he did?

Aurora_Sunset
12-25-2021, 01:32 PM
I'm trying to get a passport this week for the first time. I have an appointment scheduled at an acceptance facility that does photos, but I'm unsure what I need to bring with me. The US passport website says I can fill out the form online or download, print, and fill it out by hand, OR that I can go to a facility to get a copy to fill out by hand. I don't have a printer. Do I need to get it before my appointment or can I do it all when I get there? And then it wants photocopies of my proof of citizenship and my ID - I assume they can do the photocopies there?

Will it be a huge hindrance if my driver's license doesn't have my current address on it? It's not expired, I just haven't gone to the BMV to update it yet. I'm going to try to do a walk-in appointment to get a new license the morning of my passport appointment, but if I can't get in in time, will I get rejected without an updated ID? I could provide a lease and/or bill to prove my address. I'm nervous that I'm gonna show up for this appointment and look stupid not having what I need, and then I won't have the time to get back for a week.

LoveyD
12-25-2021, 01:36 PM
I was so bloated today and yesterday. My period is just starting which is a relief. I'll probably deflate two days from now

carmen_b
12-25-2021, 07:13 PM
Whew it's almost over !! :/
I'm not sure why this season gets on my nerves so much.
I think it is just this obligation type of energy to do extra things.

I am just so ready to get back to work.

carmen_b
12-25-2021, 07:43 PM
We have this rare time of 6 days in a row coming up Monday . On one hand I feel like we didn't SEIZE the time to travel ( make alternative plans after the New York thing flopped ) but on the other he mentioned these easy drivable excursions ( a couple ski lodge days then a couple Vegas days ) . Maybe a staycation is best. RARE window though. :/

LoveyD
12-25-2021, 07:46 PM
^^ Probably good that you're not traveling now with airlines canceling flights out the ass. Holiday travel is a PITA anyway.

carmen_b
12-25-2021, 07:55 PM
^ Yeah, I was really concerned about traveling in peak timing ( not a great idea ) so little road trips may be best.
Maybe save a little $ and try for my tropical vacation idea. :)

indiegirl
12-26-2021, 01:49 PM
Feel sad for this rookie female cop. She doesn't know the unspoken code as a female in a male dominated job that she's in. She's now on transit duty. Fuck, what went on in her mind to think it was a good idea to lap dance a coworker in this field is beyond me. Nobody is going to take her seriously now.

https://www.tmz.com/2021/12/25/nypd-lap-dance-lt-cop-video-apologizes/

WendiStarr
12-26-2021, 03:47 PM
^ I suspect that there's more to that story. Perhaps they may have been having an affair. That would make the most sense to me, that she would be comfortable enough to be grinding on him like that. Homeboy looks too cozy and with a big smile on his face in the video. The comment about not knowing that he was married makes me think that too. Men are pigs. He should be the embarrassed one since he's married and obviously had something going on with his subordinate. Unfortunately it's always the other woman that people shame.

carmen_b
12-26-2021, 05:17 PM
^ Oh I didn’t even think of that.
Very odd situation.

carmen_b
12-26-2021, 06:55 PM
I really hope I make 2-3k soon.
I know things are always slow for me in the holidays but my account is a little low, heh.
I don't want to deposit my dancer money. I just want to keep it in the closet for a rainy day lol ( as one does with dancer $ ).
I may have to run some over though, ugh.

carmen_b
12-27-2021, 10:11 AM
Ok this is crazy but my first email was a customer asking me to send their balance invoice ( $1200 ) over early !
My team won't do anything for them until July so an early payment is like getting a bonus.
Invoice is sent ..... YES!
Great way to start a Monday.

carmen_b
12-27-2021, 10:17 AM
If anyone gets in my way of making money this week I will send a curse from hell over.
Happy $$ hunting y'all.
Let's close out Dec. with a BANG .

Aurora_Sunset
12-27-2021, 11:31 AM
Switching up my cats' food and litter today in the hopes that it helps one of them stop shitting all over the place. He's always had loose stools, but still only pooped once, maybe twice, a day, and always in his box (unless we forgot to clean it and it was overly dirty). So, I assumed he had a somewhat sensitive stomach, but nothing worth worrying about. The past two weeks though, it's been ramping up to straight liquid diarrhea, sometimes 5x a day, and usually not in his box. There's no blood, no other symptoms, and he doesn't appear to be acting differently other than the refusal to use the box and increased bowel movements, so I'm hoping a change in diet will cure it without having to run 100s of dollars of tests at the vet. I also switched them to Pretty Litter a couple months ago, since it was supposed to smell better, but honestly, I've noticed that it smelled worse more quickly than regular litter. So maybe that's another reason for his avoidance of the box. Here's to hoping this all solves his tummy troubles. We're both getting tired of cleaning multiple piles of liquid cat shit off the floor (and bathtub).

charlie61
12-27-2021, 02:12 PM
^Yeah, the only time I've ever had a cat that stopped using the box was when i switched to a cat litter that he didn't like.