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SnuffleUffleGrass
01-08-2022, 02:00 PM
Something super interesting happened & I'm going to mention it here since putting it on Facebook would cause too much drama-
Last summer one of my siblings was super sick and I didn't know at the time.
I only found out a few days ago due to having to call over a financial matter.
Turns out right around the same time my sibling was ill, I was having some issues as well.
Could just be a coincidence, but it made me think of synchronicity. Not that it matters much, we are not close and are never gonna reconcile. But that was a bit odd.
AChildOfBoredom
01-09-2022, 12:07 AM
Everyone else was out doing something tonight, so it was just me and the Amish girl. So, I treated her to a nice dinner at a fancy restaurant and then we went to go see the remake of West Side Story.
GlamLifter
01-11-2022, 12:31 PM
I’m deciding on a new posing suit, I’ve usually gone with red. What do guys think?
I’m torn between the red and dark blue, with the purple and black as outsiders..
PS; pics just to indicate color, cut will be like the blue.
WendiStarr
01-11-2022, 01:12 PM
^ I like the dark blue but red is supposed to be more eye catching.
charlie61
01-11-2022, 01:13 PM
^ love the red and blue for you!
GlamLifter
01-11-2022, 01:22 PM
^ love the red and blue for you!
I agree!
Actually, I’ve been thinking about getting one of each color.. I have several competitions coming up and it’s always good with a change.
kimbe
01-11-2022, 02:25 PM
Red and blue are always safe choices!
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-11-2022, 02:52 PM
I love the red one, fwiw....................
LoveyD
01-11-2022, 08:47 PM
I said go for the red or blue. Both are eye catching.
LoveyD
01-11-2022, 08:49 PM
So my 9 year daughter had a fever in the middle of the night that would not go down so I took her to the emergency room. Long story short I found out she has Covid. On a positive note her fever is under control now.
Oh no! Sending healing vibes! Stay safe.
kimbe
01-12-2022, 09:19 AM
I'm heading out for my license renewal check flight. Wish me good luck :)
kimbe
01-12-2022, 09:29 AM
I agree!
Actually, I’ve been thinking about getting one of each color.. I have several competitions coming up and it’s always good with a change.
You know, you always need two, bringing one for back up is essential! Typically, the back up will be your old one, but if you can afford, getting two now would be perfect! That also opens up the possibility to switch suits between pre-judging and finals!
Jucie
01-12-2022, 12:41 PM
I’m deciding on a new posing suit, I’ve usually gone with red. What do guys think?
I’m torn between the red and dark blue, with the purple and black as outsiders..
PS; pics just to indicate color, cut will be like the blue.
I like to wear black swimwear, but I guess a more colourful suit is more eye catching on stage. I’d get the red (but with the glittering straps!)
I guess this is the front of the suits, and I don’t see the rear, are they all thongs?
kimbe
01-13-2022, 01:26 AM
I'm heading out for my license renewal check flight. Wish me good luck :)
It went very well, we flew to a nearby airport, did some touch and goes and some air work before we returned back. This time I had really made an effort to catch up on rules®ulations as well ;) and he was satisfied and I got his signature :thumbsup:
indiegirl
01-13-2022, 05:36 AM
I fucked on a door attachment sex swing with my legs inside after going sex shopping with a customer :P!! Always wanted to try one like that and we got it along with other things!
Super nice guy and appreciative of our time together :). Surprisingly, I felt like I didn't know what to buy at a sex shop. I dunno I have the shop in my backpack of necessities but I wanted to go on a "field trip" with him lol!! Enjoyed the fun time!
JGB2009
01-13-2022, 07:40 AM
Had the worst anxiety attack yesterday. Made me feel so weird.
GlamLifter
01-13-2022, 09:53 AM
Today I had to give head to PT in his car, there was someone else occupying the office at the gym >:(
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-13-2022, 10:36 AM
A Bob Dylan song came on the radio when I was driving back home from the airport, making for a perfect moment in time today.
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 10:59 AM
Indie : A sex swing is on my list ! Never done it !!
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 11:03 AM
Ok I'm going to attempt to " dance " for my bf at home lol.
He has just been relentless in asking for it ( and upset at times ) .
For awhile ( in my depressed state in December ) I just really *couldn't*.
It was completely off the table and not even remotely open to discussion.
Now I'm feeling a little better and I think I can.
I do have mixed feelings though.
Really not my " thing " unless $$$ is involved .
For reference, I don't dance at clubs or concerts ect. either ( the whole missing money thing ) !
Ah ..... the REALITY based joys of being with a sex worker instead of the fantasy hahaha.
I will admit though he treats me pretty well *overall* even though I didn't get exactly the support I wanted in December.
This is pretty much all he has asked for. I will at least *try* it in an attempt to go forward. He has only seen me dance once in this setting that had a pole ( but not a strip club ).
We talked about it openly and agreed that if I felt agitated ( if either of us did for any reason ) either one of us could put a stop to it. I won't force it if I'm NOT feeling it but I'm trying to at least be OPEN.
I'm asking for a lot ( counseling , specific things on the calendar , TRAVEL experiences for 5-7 days instead of a 4 day limitation ) . I feel like each party has to give. I wish he wanted something else ha but I guess I do have all the "stuff" in the closet!
charlie61
01-13-2022, 11:12 AM
Ugh, Carmen, omg. Is he wanting an accurate representation of your club lap dances or a sexier, partner version? I'm icked out that he wants this even though you don't want to do it. : /
To clarify, I'm icked out that he's been upset about not getting this. Like he feels entitled. Huge turnoff IMO.
kimbe
01-13-2022, 11:14 AM
Carmen, I'm sure you'll be just fine, go for it! :)
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 11:17 AM
^ Yes, I wanted to DISCUSS the request with a counselor FIRST . :/
But then again ..... I'm feeling much better energetically lately.
It isn't really that I hate the thought ....... just more of a preference .
I'd prefer he visit the CLUB where the setting is there. So much to me is honestly about the setting.
I told him to just come visit ( and bring $ to tip everyone on stage ).
One thing that made me mad about his request is that he never set up a room ( had great lighting out / little speaker ). We set up rooms for sex all the time ( we love settings ) .
I made him understand that HE needs to set up the room for this not me ( other than choosing a song ).
I'm glad someone answered .
I will probably just put makeup on and do a song and then ask for a $20 and tip.
^ This is an accurate dance experience !
charlie61
01-13-2022, 11:19 AM
^ Yes, I wanted to DISCUSS the request with a counselor FIRST . :/
But then again ..... I'm feeling much better energetically lately.
It isn't really that I hate the thought ....... just more of a preference .
I'd prefer he visit the CLUB where the setting is there. So much to me is honestly about the setting.
Haha. I'm glad someone answered . I will probably just put makeup on and do a song and then ask for a $20.
^ The most accurate dance experience I can offer !!
Just make sure you don't get too sexy, or he'll start thinking very hard about whether he's cool with you dancing or not. I highly recommend zero contact, six-foot distance, he has to sit on his hands, and it costs $40 for 3 minutes, lol!
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 11:26 AM
Right?
He has asked about the club setting and my current club is TAME ( the clients have their hands down and I literally signed a document saying I'll keep a foot on the floor ). This is because we are " classy " lol .
Now ..... other clubs I have been to ?
Let's just leave some of those details OUT for his peace of mind.
I have tried to spare him from gritty details .
He is " having a hard time " with dancing but so was I ( with him NOT as a factor ).
We mutually agreed to at least " hit pause " for the first few weeks of Jan.
Things shifted and my finances are getting a little better and more consistent. It seemed nice to ME to begin to leave dancing OUT of the schedule for the most part . My current interest is more like " just pop in 1-2 days a month IF I'm feeling it " .
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 11:49 AM
Yes, this is why I want a third party counselor present.
At times I might want to offer something " above and beyond " but as a ( mostly former ) sex worker I might also want a " normal " sex life and THAT'S TOTALLY OK .
I do see the flip side . I can see where the desperation energy in his request is coming from.
In Dec. I spent a lot of time listless around the house. Depression is ( literally ) ugly and not attractive.
Now that I am feeling better I can see wanting some " spice ".
It was all pretty spice less with me for Dec. !
It's good to be feeling better !
Like he feels entitled. Huge turnoff IMO.
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 12:08 PM
IF it goes through ...... I think I'll do my little song at 5:30 ish and then want to go out ( immediately after ).
No fooling around.
It is more realistic to the experience .
AChildOfBoredom
01-13-2022, 12:34 PM
I am starting to question what kind of reputation I have with these dudes in the shop. One of my coworkers told me that, as he was at an airport in New Jersey, he saw something which made him think of me. So he bought it for me. What was it, you ask?
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I don’t think I’m that bad.
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 12:51 PM
^ You are NOT cult material.
You sort of escaped one anyway if I remember right.
I could see you trapping the crazy cult leader , putting his dick in sort of device that would cut it off at any point needed , and freeing the women !
They meant it as a joke haha but cults always abuse women historically.
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 12:55 PM
I think any sex worker worth their salt could recognize the evil in a cult leader and come up with a plan to have him “ not return “ to anymore abusing people.
AChildOfBoredom
01-13-2022, 01:18 PM
^ You are NOT cult material.
You sort of escaped one anyway if I remember right.
I could see you trapping the crazy cult leader , putting his dick in sort of device that would cut it off at any point needed , and freeing the women !
They meant it as a joke haha but cults always abuse women historically.
I don’t think he was trying to imply that so much as he just thought I’d be interested in reading about them. Which, it probably doesn’t help my case that I’ve been reading it and also going down some Wikipedia rabbit holes following up on those articles.
I think the Amish girl is a much better case for escaping from a cult than I am. The community I was raised in was insular, but not wholly isolated from the outside world… I went to secular public schools, I was allowed to finish high school and graduate, I worked for English employers. And when I decided I wanted to try my hand in the world beyond, I was free to leave. I’m not disassociated from my parents or the community, nor is my sister, nor will her boyfriend be if they settle down together here in NC, and my parents are even looking at selling their farm and buying a small plot of land in this state so they can be closer to us. The Amish girl, on the other hand… pretty much the opposite, all the way through. She had to run away, she is shunned, her family turned against her.
Reading through these - and especially about NXIVM and Order of the Solar Temple - it really reinforces my belief that the people who say celebrities and the affluent in general are way out touch are correct in saying so. Manson recruited at the height of a major counterculture period where people were desperate for an identity and to belong to something. Jim Jones appealed to highly disenfranchised people and stood by them in the face of opposition. If I wanted to start a cult, I could just hit the trailer parts and recruiting would be a breeze. But then you get groups like NXIVM, Order of the Solar Temple, and also Scientology (which hasn’t yet racked up the notoriety of the previous two), and they snag a lot of really “high society” people, and they go all in with it.
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 01:26 PM
^ Yes it’s fascinating because you see a person identifying a “ need “... then exploiting it.
GlamLifter
01-13-2022, 02:03 PM
I like to wear black swimwear, but I guess a more colourful suit is more eye catching on stage. I’d get the red (but with the glittering straps!)
I guess this is the front of the suits, and I don’t see the rear, are they all thongs?
This is a paradox, technically they’re not considered as thongs, (because) regulations clearly states “no thongs allowed”… However, I guess any normal person would consider them as thongs as they leave most of the butt exposed.
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carmen_b
01-13-2022, 03:07 PM
^ That is funny because they remind me of " dancer " regulation thongs in certain cities ( 2 " at top and 1 " through the crack minimum ) .
I actually liked the purple !!
You obviously HAVE to see the butt to judge anything fitness related !!
AChildOfBoredom
01-13-2022, 04:13 PM
^ Yes it’s fascinating because you see a person identifying a “ need “... then exploiting it.
I feel like I could be a successful cult leader. Not sure which motif I’d go with, though.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-13-2022, 04:52 PM
This is so gross and TMI but..............................
..........................part of my perimenopause is having body acne and my buttocks getting smaller. UGHHHHH. I'm gonna look like The Penguin from the 1990s Batman movies before long. Fuckin' great.
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 05:56 PM
I survived haha.
He set up the room really nice ( he has worked before in audio and concert productions haha ).
There were multiple lights going and little lazers too if felt very club like hahaha.
I would say it was a success.
I did have fears I would find it embarrassing or awkward.
He seemed to LOVE it.
I was also *crystal* clear to keep the performance in club lines ( a little more tame even I'd say ).
I figured I'd just try it and if it failed I could come back here and at least have a funny story.
With my " normal " person mind I guess I could see how he wanted it.
With my depression mind it was very unappealing to me.
carmen_b
01-13-2022, 05:57 PM
Of course we will be going OUT for dinner that is obviously a given.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-13-2022, 06:24 PM
This is so gross and TMI but..............................
..........................part of my perimenopause is having body acne and my buttocks getting smaller. UGHHHHH. I'm gonna look like The Penguin from the 1990s Batman movies before long. Fuckin' great.
I too am a member of the NO BUTT CLUB. One of the pitfalls of losing weight is you can't always control where it disappears from.
charlie61
01-13-2022, 07:38 PM
For anyone who is mourning JCS's departure from YouTube, this guy has recently started putting out long, very thoughtful case coverage with fantastic interrogation breakdowns. His newer videos are really good stuff, and on cases i haven't seen covered...hope he keeps it up.
https://youtu.be/u432T_cDgQs
kimbe
01-14-2022, 12:54 AM
I think I've got all set for the workshop starting tomorrow. :)
Instead of using the entire Saturday and Sunday, I'm trying out a new concept this time starting Friday at 1PM ending Saturday afternoon. It's going to be busy, but I love to have the Sunday off :)
Time will be sufficient as long as they all meet well prepared.. It's been an issue before, girls meet and not having prepared what they should. I've tried to be even more clear what I expect them to prepare/practice in advance.
kimbe
01-14-2022, 01:17 AM
^ That is funny because they remind me of " dancer " regulation thongs in certain cities ( 2 " at top and 1 " through the crack minimum ) .
I actually liked the purple !!
You obviously HAVE to see the butt to judge anything fitness related !!
Yeah, it's interesting, when my mom did her first fitness competitions in the early 90's they were all wearing pure thongs. Then they were banned and since the introduction of the Bikini and now Wellness devisions, the circle is rounded and they're back.
To be honest, I think it's appropriate given the nature of the show, it's a balance but as long as the bikinis are "tastefully" worn, I think it's ok. In certain other parts of the world, the suits are even way tinier..
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-14-2022, 07:40 AM
For anyone who is mourning JCS's departure from YouTube, this guy has recently started putting out long, very thoughtful case coverage with fantastic interrogation breakdowns. His newer videos are really good stuff, and on cases i haven't seen covered...hope he keeps it up.
https://youtu.be/u432T_cDgQs
Oh heyyyy I love Jim Can't Swim. (On YouTube.)
Disclaimer- the public isn't supposed to use the JCS videos as a substitute for a professional testimonial on anything pertaining to Criminology. That being said, the videos are really well done.
AChildOfBoredom
01-14-2022, 12:50 PM
I’m thinking of quitting the towing job and possibly going back to the club, though the reason is more so I can put more energy into the two-way radio business.
GlamLifter
01-14-2022, 12:58 PM
^ @kimbe, so your mom did fitness competitions, that’s cool! I hope she’s still fit&sound. :)
indiegirl
01-14-2022, 01:49 PM
Anytime I watch a Lifetime Channel Movie, I typically never tell anyone about it. I watched The Pregnancy Project on youtube.....no further comment LOLLLL.
Also I confess that when I went sex shopping with the customer we got those aphrodisiac pills they sold at the sex store, he got the drink form since the lady said I was too petite for the actual liquid drink and holy crap I felt looped the heck out right away on only part of the pill hahahaha. I dunno about these sex aphrodisiacs!!! I tried his virtual reality machine as well and got 350 dollars in lingerie. It was a fun time :P! I wish all customers were like this.
kimbe
01-14-2022, 01:53 PM
^^Yeah, nothing beats a high spending customer :)
GlamLifter
01-14-2022, 03:53 PM
^ That is funny because they remind me of " dancer " regulation thongs in certain cities ( 2 " at top and 1 " through the crack minimum ) .
I actually liked the purple !!
You obviously HAVE to see the butt to judge anything fitness related !!
The bodybuilders always says Bikini and Wellness is all about the two B’s (butts&boobs), maybe they’re right ;)
I love the purple too, and it goes very well with dark tanned skin!
Frankly, I’d rather wear a thong than having to be afraid a super tiny glued on non-thong butt will slip in between by accident. I’ve been through that and it’s not funny! Contrary to what people think, wearing the tiniest suits actually feels like a relief. These suits usually sits fairly good in place, they can’t slip that easily and you just need a little glue in the front and maybe on the straps.
moneybags
01-14-2022, 04:05 PM
The bodybuilders always says Bikini and Wellness is all about the two B’s (butts&boobs), maybe they’re right ;)
I love the purple too, and it goes very well with dark tanned skin!
Frankly, I’d rather wear a thong than having to be afraid a super tiny glued on non-thong butt will slip in between by accident. I’ve been through that and it’s not funny! Contrary to what people think, wearing the tiniest suits actually feels like a relief. These suits usually sits fairly good in place, they can’t slip that easily and you just need a little glue in the front and maybe on the straps.
i was told to be careful by my friend that makes bikinis. People in the Midwest are conservative and get offended by seeing too much butt??? Stupid it’s literally a bikini contest! We definitely can’t wear a thong, but I agree they look good!!!!!
GlamLifter
01-14-2022, 04:11 PM
^ moneybags, do you compete yourself?