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carmen_b
02-20-2022, 03:29 PM
We took J’s daughter to Vegas.
Good so far . Headed to dinner and to see a fire breathing sculpture.
I think I was worried about the 24-26 hour type duration but it seems to be going ok.
He was pissed at his sister for not inviting my dog ( we are both still like wtf ).
^ It would have saved him $180 on this hotel to just stay with her instead but oh well !
The hotel is really nice though and we invited her to join us for the activities.
indiegirl
02-21-2022, 04:44 AM
I may have to discuss adderall with school...I don't need it now but my adhd reaches a level of extreme boredom and I need to tolerate the general public LOL. My doctor already wrote a letter to them but I'm not on meds nor do I plan on being on meds. They were crappy meds.
whirlerz
02-21-2022, 06:53 AM
We took J’s daughter to Vegas.
Good so far . Headed to dinner and to see a fire breathing sculpture.
I think I was worried about the 24-26 hour type duration but it seems to be going ok.
He was pissed at his sister for not inviting my dog ( we are both still like wtf was that ) ha.
The hotel is really nice though and we invited her to join us for the activities.
How's doggo tho?
whirlerz
02-21-2022, 07:04 AM
OMG.
Someone else actually took up the dumpsters!!:shocking:
miss.a.p1600
02-21-2022, 07:21 AM
We took J’s daughter to Vegas.
Good so far . Headed to dinner and to see a fire breathing sculpture.
I think I was worried about the 24-26 hour type duration but it seems to be going ok.
He was pissed at his sister for not inviting my dog ( we are both still like wtf was that ) ha.
The hotel is really nice though and we invited her to join us for the activities.
Just curious about the logistics
Did you his daughter stay with his sister while you guys enjoyed the festivities or was the hotel one of the 4-5 star hotels with on-call nanny service?
*you don’t have to answer this if it’s too personal
WendiStarr
02-21-2022, 07:42 AM
The fuck?! My boobs are now a 42DD. No wonder my back has been killing me. Dang pregnancy took them up to that. I used to be 34D. I can't wait until I can get back to exercising because I feel like a fattie.
trustfundkiller
02-21-2022, 09:55 AM
Yes you do, lol
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07TGB8D5W?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2_dt_b_product_details&customId=B0752XJYPK
Please note, I ordered women medium and it was a little snugged around my bust. I'm 34 full B and curvy. I'll order large next time.
Thank you!! I just ordered it lol
Marina Starr
02-21-2022, 10:14 AM
I love it, so excited for you! Wore mine this morning to Starbucks and Publix. It warms my heart that a simple shirt can stir up so much guilt and all kinds of feelings, lmao!
https://i.ibb.co/vQQN2Tt/oprah-yes.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
Thank you!! I just ordered it lol
carmen_b
02-21-2022, 10:38 AM
It worked out just fine ! I wouldn't join every time they want an overnight out of town per say. Probably 2 out of 3 times I'd rather use that as a chance to have the house to myself but we should travel together sometimes ! Especially on a short duration trip.
Logistics were easy. We all just shared a hotel room with two beds ( J , me, his daughter ). No nanny for daughter or doggie was needed. His sister was feeling upset I guess that this dog she fostered didn't get adopted and she didn't want a dog around ( which was just totally stupid ).
We definitely didn't agree but we were not going to ban her from hanging out over it.
The dinner and activities were really roughly 3-7:45 a short duration ( that was perfect ) .
J knows when I travel ( with anyone ) I need quiet time to myself so he and daughter went to the hotel pool while I got ready and did emails in the room for an hour this morning .
Just curious about the logistics
Did you his daughter stay with his sister while you guys enjoyed the festivities or was the hotel one of the 4-5 star hotels with on-call nanny service?
*you don’t have to answer this if it’s too personal
carmen_b
02-21-2022, 11:00 AM
^ He booked the hotel ( and made it known he was booking one ) to his sister to drive the point home that we should have been invited there lol.
He initially wasn't going to let her see daughter ( her only niece ) on the trip at all but it didn't seem necessary to me to take it to that extreme.
indiegirl
02-21-2022, 11:42 AM
When a man asks me if I have condoms...................................Where are we?!?!?! hahaha Girl just show up. I've been doing this job since I was 19. There will be condoms. LOLLL
LoveyD
02-21-2022, 03:26 PM
The fuck?! My boobs are now a 42DD. No wonder my back has been killing me. Dang pregnancy took them up to that. I used to be 34D. I can't wait until I can get back to exercising because I feel like a fattie.
I remember this feeling after I gave birth. *Hugs* I'm sure your customers will love it though! $$$
carmen_b
02-21-2022, 07:35 PM
God .... thought that damn trip was a success and a WRAP.
Then we get stuck in traffic on way home killing an extra hour.
2.5 hours after our return I'm still in panic mode over things moving so slow and not having my phone working well ( ALSO a dead zone during the stuck time ). I wish I would have just been able to relax and listen to music but like an idiot I'm trying to use that one bar of service.
:/
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2022, 04:32 AM
I learned the hard way that squirrels will shamelessly empty any bird feeder they can break into. Part of me admires the tenacity of the squirrels, part of me is pissed that I've been deprived of my SongBird Eye Candy.
Secret Shelly
02-22-2022, 07:59 AM
trying something different (for me) for the first time today...working my vanilla job remotely and also taking some customers...just working from the hotel room (thankfully the wifi is decent) and hiding my laptop when customer comes.
carmen_b
02-22-2022, 10:44 AM
^ I've done days like that. :)
I worked remotely for my other job 80% of the time I was doing massage.
I'd hustle vanilla then hustle the dudes and alternative back and forth.
I like that feeling of being super productive.
whirlerz
02-22-2022, 10:51 AM
I learned the hard way that squirrels will shamelessly empty any bird feeder they can break into. Part of me admires the tenacity of the squirrels, part of me is pissed that I've been deprived of my SongBird Eye Candy.
Yes, I know what you mean, I'm in the middle of 2 wooded lots..
I remember something about a foolproof bird feeder, & nope..
According to my neighbors on neighbor. com, you'd need a long, thin greased pole w/the feeder on top, not near to anything they could jump from it to feeder
whirlerz
02-22-2022, 10:56 AM
Well, I can't do sh"" right now, my stomach's a mess, my knee's hurting (I fell last week).
Supposed to interview for a temp job tomorrow (I already rescheduled it from Mon. bc of my stomach).
I got off cam too cause tum's acting up :(. Just took some pepto bismal
carmen_b
02-22-2022, 10:56 AM
^ I'd pay to witness the squirrels being surprised at the slippery pole lol !
Secret Shelly
02-22-2022, 11:10 AM
^ I've done days like that. :)
I worked remotely for my other job 80% of the time I was doing massage.
I'd hustle vanilla then hustle the dudes and alternative back and forth.
I like that feeling of being super productive.
luckily my vanilla job can be done for the most part in less that 8 hours so I can really arrange my time to fit stuff in.
Customer #2 cum and gone...now I gotta get on my regular work but I really could use some whiskey lol
WendiStarr
02-22-2022, 12:41 PM
^^ Get a shepherd's hook for the bird feeder and put a squirrel baffle below it. That's what I had to do because I love feeding the birds in my backyard. I get a lot of cardinals and bluejays and some woodpeckers. Just make sure it's not near trees or tree branches or any buildings or ledges that the squirrels could jump from. Grease the pole with petroleum jelly. They will usually attempt to climb up the pole and fall and learn their lesson the first time to leave it alone and move on but I have seen some very determined squirrels repeatedly climb and slip before finally giving up. Of course they have the spinning squirrel baffles too. My grandpa had one and I was house-sitting for him before and witnessed a determined squirrel hanging on to it as it started spinning and keep hanging on until falling off, only to get right back up there and do the same thing, like 4 times. It was funny that it kept on trying.
LoveyD
02-22-2022, 04:23 PM
There's a cute little 2 BR out in the country I'd like to rent, but they want LL references. I rented from one LL for 15 years but he turned out to be a disrespectful dick. Using my tweezers to spread caulking on the bathtub. My other roommate situations weren't the best. Shit
These landlords here seem like jerks in their ad. They keep using !!! after every sentence like they're shouting at you. This may be a red flag.
carmen_b
02-22-2022, 04:59 PM
^ You could pretty much fake this if needed.
Have a friend pretend they rented to you if needed.
It might be a little shady but it could get it done and moving forward.
Or even have a friend say they rented you are room ( you could just say you rented a room the last few years it's actually pretty common these days ).
LoveyD
02-22-2022, 06:13 PM
^^ I could give them my air bnb references. Stayed with some cool people at the start of the pandemic. No issues...
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2022, 06:35 PM
So this is super random but I have to discuss it somewhere because it's both pissing me off and depressing me.
One of my childhood friends is living in a shack on her parent's property because 1) her small business barely survived the Covid Pandemic, and 2) her family is an ass-backwards redneck family that doesn't see anything wrong with making a disabled person live in what is essentially a shed.
I mentioned to a mutual friend that Disabled Friend could easily get into Section 8 housing but I guess Disabled Friend is worried about the income guidelines & does not want to give up her small business just to have an apartment of her own.
This makes me super sad, and mad. YES in America in 2022 this shit is still happening.
I promise to contact the appropriate authorities if my Disabled Friend is in need of such assistance. I just hate that so many people slip through the cracks when it comes to accessing aid they really really need. My friend should not have to choose between her small business and getting to have indoor plumbing. Gahhhhhhhhhhhh.
Marina Starr
02-22-2022, 06:37 PM
Speak with the LL and see how you feel. Say you're interested in the place and I'd some infos. The way they talk to you says a lot.
^^ I could give them my air bnb references. Stayed with some cool people at the start of the pandemic. No issues...
charlie61
02-22-2022, 06:45 PM
So this is super random but I have to discuss it somewhere because it's both pissing me off and depressing me.
One of my childhood friends is living in a shack on her parent's property because 1) her small business barely survived the Covid Pandemic, and 2) her family is an ass-backwards redneck family that doesn't see anything wrong with making a disabled person live in what is essentially a shed.
I mentioned to a mutual friend that Disabled Friend could easily get into Section 8 housing but I guess Disabled Friend is worried about the income guidelines & does not want to give up her small business just to have an apartment of her own.
This makes me super sad, and mad. YES in America in 2022 this shit is still happening.
I promise to contact the appropriate authorities if my Disabled Friend is in need of such assistance. I just hate that so many people slip through the cracks when it comes to accessing aid they really really need. My friend should not have to choose between her small business and getting to have indoor plumbing. Gahhhhhhhhhhhh.
It's crazy how it can take so many resources to even access the resources that you need. When you're in a tough spot, it's so hard to advocate for yourself, be aware of available services, and actually access those services. It can be overwhelming even for people with means and resources, much less for folks without those things.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2022, 07:13 PM
It's crazy how it can take so many resources to even access the resources that you need. When you're in a tough spot, it's so hard to advocate for yourself, be aware of available services, and actually access those services. It can be overwhelming even for people with means and resources, much less for folks without those things.
Oh totally.
Depressingly........in my home state, the waitlisting for Section 8 housing is at least 2 years, but for disabled people, they do have access to other options like group homes or rent vouchers.
I know my friend's small business is her baby so she is being stubborn in keeping it even if it puts her over the financial threshhold for getting assistance. & I'm sure in some weird way her family feel better having her close by because she's too frail to get up and down stairs & carry a lot of heavy things.
The region she lives in has been called "the West Virginia of California" because it's so backwards and hickish. Her family are all anti-vaxxers by the way too!!!!
This is the shit that actually terrifies tourists from overseas when they come to see America state by state. I had an Israeli guy I know tell me that he though he landed in a zombie movie when he went out to see the streets of Fresno California (currently nicknamed "The Fuck NO" because the city is trying to eliminate visible homelessness and clean up downtown.) To be honest if I ever saw a disabled person living in a shed I'd call the Sherriff to complain about that. Chickens live in sheds, not people, man!!!!
AChildOfBoredom
02-22-2022, 07:30 PM
Well, I can't do sh"" right now, my stomach's a mess, my knee's hurting (I fell last week).
Supposed to interview for a temp job tomorrow (I already rescheduled it from Mon. bc of my stomach).
I got off cam too cause tum's acting up :(. Just took some pepto bismal
There’s a fun one called the Yankee Flipper.
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https://youtu.be/dEW9TG6Dcgg
I end up making myself feel like such a simp for my sister’s boyfriend sometimes. They agreed that he’d he’d keep his tool truck accounts to no more than $30/week, so he was looking on the Snap-On truck yesterday, and there was this multimeter which had been traded in… nice one with a color display, true RMS, etc… only downside is the proprietary fuses you have to get from Snap-On, and they can be a little pricey. If he’s going to promote to FT2, he needs to get some hands on with electrical, so I stayed behind when everyone else left the truck, and asked about the multimeter. The dealer looked at my account, saw I had a negative $143 balance, and told me he’d call it even. Not a big deal for me… not with what I get paid as an FT4B. Just a matter of principle. I’m not trying to get myself vested in any dude, but as far as my sister goes, he seems like the real deal, and I want him to succeed of course.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2022, 08:00 PM
I end up making myself feel like such a simp for my sister’s boyfriend sometimes. They agreed that he’d he’d keep his tool truck accounts to no more than $30/week, so he was looking on the Snap-On truck yesterday, and there was this multimeter which had been traded in… nice one with a color display, true RMS, etc… only downside is the proprietary fuses you have to get from Snap-On, and they can be a little pricey. If he’s going to promote to FT2, he needs to get some hands on with electrical, so I stayed behind when everyone else left the truck, and asked about the multimeter. The dealer looked at my account, saw I had a negative $143 balance, and told me he’d call it even. Not a big deal for me… not with what I get paid as an FT4B. Just a matter of principle. I’m not trying to get myself vested in any dude, but as far as my sister goes, he seems like the real deal, and I want him to succeed of course.
Awww that is sweet.
Random Thought- I hope I can sleep tonight, I am caffeinated to the gills today.
indiegirl
02-22-2022, 11:42 PM
Trying to see if I can get out of taking english class. I have all A's in high school when it comes to english class as well as in college. I don't want to endure it again. Hopefully they will look at my transcripts and be forgiving (5 year expiration date on classes).... I don't want to write another essay.
Please don't make me waste my time doing this class for two hours a week.
I remember doing this essay in the past and it was supposed to be a creative essay at Cal Poly....that teacher said I used too many sensory words while I was trying to give the full experience to the reader. I put so much time into it....never again. Moral of this post, just half ass it and give it to the teacher. Hahaha. I'm still bitter to this day about that fucking essay. I even had a tutor I ran the essay by to make sure it was perfect (hello disability department for free everything including tutoring) and my teacher shut my essay down.
Secret Shelly
02-23-2022, 07:32 AM
Trying to push myself to get motivated this morning to work through a list of purchase orders I need to go through for my vanilla job...idk why but a lot of times the day after a seeing multiple sw customers I feel just so unmotivated...I already snapped at a coworker on instant message who was asking me a question about work (I apologized said sorry for being bitchy)...guess it's a sign I need much more coffee
JGB2009
02-23-2022, 08:22 AM
Locked myself out of my house today but luckily was able to crawl through the back window.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-23-2022, 08:41 AM
My boyfriend apparently has an eating disorder. What in the Kentucky Fried FUCK is going on................................................ ............?
charlie61
02-23-2022, 09:23 AM
My boyfriend apparently has an eating disorder. What in the Kentucky Fried FUCK is going on................................................ ............?
You're surprised because his weight is normal, maybe? Guys definitely have EDs, sometimes like orthorexia, other times more related to body dysmorphia / overexercising, binge eating, etc. Guys feel a lot of pressure to look a certain way!
EDs can be really scary. I'm sorry to hear this. :hug:
Marina Starr
02-23-2022, 09:48 AM
Some of you ladies are too cute. I asked what do you cook? Fresh toast, boiled eyes, peanut butter and jelly, lmao. That ain't cooking!
LoveyD
02-23-2022, 09:58 AM
Lol I'm sitting in the laundromat parking lot using my new teeth whitening kit. Hopefully it will give me good results. By the time my laundry is dry, my teeth will be whiter yay!
It rained last night and somehow water leaked through my windows and got my pillows wet. Had to toss them into the dryer. Now they're nice and dry.
Selina M
02-23-2022, 10:18 AM
Has anyone ever thought they put a tampon in and then didn't, but still panicked when they went to pull it out and it wasn't there?
I SWEAR I put one in last night but this morning there was a lot of blood when I sat down in the bathroom and no string. I went on a whole ass spelunking mission, like a whole finger all the way in, couldn't find anything. Kept thinking I found what felt like a string but when I got up to go get tweezers (:O) and sat back down, it was gone, so just skin I guess? Even counted the wrappers in the bin and tried to add up how many I'd gone through (it'd only been 1 day).
I was definitely not with it last night, between the meds I'm on & brain fog from sleeping all evening... Hoping I really did just forget to put one in somehow.
So yeah. Great start to the day :banghead:
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-23-2022, 11:44 AM
Has anyone ever thought they put a tampon in and then didn't, but still panicked when they went to pull it out and it wasn't there?
I SWEAR I put one in last night but this morning there was a lot of blood when I sat down in the bathroom and no string. I went on a whole ass spelunking mission, like a whole finger all the way in, couldn't find anything. Kept thinking I found what felt like a string but when I got up to go get tweezers (:O) and sat back down, it was gone, so just skin I guess? Even counted the wrappers in the bin and tried to add up how many I'd gone through (it'd only been 1 day).
I was definitely not with it last night, between the meds I'm on & brain fog from sleeping all evening... Hoping I really did just forget to put one in somehow.
So yeah. Great start to the day :banghead:
It happens. I've totally forgotten to use one when working 2 jobs- rushing from one place to the other can cause that sort of issue.
Random Thought- than you Universe for throwing me a bone today
LoveyD
02-23-2022, 12:32 PM
Since the pandemic started I've been trying to grow out my nails and I think I'm just gonna say fuck it and get acrylics again.
carmen_b
02-23-2022, 02:16 PM
It would be a good day for a dancer trip schedule wise for me ( a three day one ) !
:)
BUT my parents just arrived in town yesterday.
It's not always about the $ .
Life balance and time with family is very important.
Selina M
02-23-2022, 03:58 PM
Part of why I want to learn programming is because I want to do a simple ecosystem simulation with two or so prey species, interspecific competition and maybe intraspecific competition too, and a predator where you can set things like predator efficiency then play the simulation out for like a 100+ generations. But I feel like this is going to take a lot of time since I'm just a beginner, and I wonder if it can be done if I also want to animate it? I hope this is not one of those things I will start to think about and start working towards and then never finish.
I think that could be pretty simple. It sounds like a similar idea to poker hand simulators. I don't know what programming language you'd used, I just finished HTML/CSS & am starting JavaScript now though.
indiegirl
02-23-2022, 05:10 PM
I want to be babied today. I just want a man to come over, bring me food, a nice back massage and then go home. He doesn't need to even speak and I don't plan on changing out of my pajamas. I want a me day. I'd go to a spa but then I'd have to drive there plus I'm not spending that type of money LOL.
I plan on celebrating when school is over and booking a thai massage for 2 hours and sipping some green tea. Ahhhh yes! I need motivation and something to look forward to.
charlie61
02-23-2022, 06:03 PM
I think I'm going to give up on my helix piercing, i don't know. It keeps getting irritated by so many things... hair getting caught on it, mask ear loops, earbuds, sleeping on my side. I thought it was doing fine, but i took it out last night, and it has clearly been trying to reject. Eek. I'm sure i could baby it back to life, but it might be too high-maintenance for me. My tragus piercings, by contrast, are completely healed and aren't even irritated by earbud and earplug use.
Genoveve
02-23-2022, 06:04 PM
Part of why I want to learn programming is because I want to do a simple ecosystem simulation with two or so prey species, interspecific competition and maybe intraspecific competition too, and a predator where you can set things like predator efficiency then play the simulation out for like a 100+ generations. But I feel like this is going to take a lot of time since I'm just a beginner, and I wonder if it can be done if I also want to animate it? I hope this is not one of those things I will start to think about and start working towards and then never finish.
I have been wanting to get into coding, I feel like it's something that I could potentially tweak away at on my computer endlessly for funsies. I've also heard that it's more like learning a language than it is math and I love learning languages.
lynn2009
02-23-2022, 06:05 PM
I get so many deductions this year because of the house I am kind of excited to file my tax return.
SamanthaSugar
02-23-2022, 06:05 PM
Been dating my boyfriend for four months now and he has no idea that I cam. We’ve been talking about us living together in the next couple of months, and it’s a perfect opportunity to finally retire from camming and actually do something that enjoy, so I’ve been doing my research and I think I’m going to start a cotton candy biz.
Dreamqueen
02-23-2022, 09:39 PM
Does anyone use an app that can tell you a person's name if all you have is their cell phone number?
A free one, preferably.
I had a message on my site from someone saying he's interested in filming me for pay( porn producer).
He gave his location, and it's where I live.
I'm in a tiny desert town, so, what are the odds?
I think he got my location from my ?? Instagram before I set it to private a few weeks ago.
Thanks in advance.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-24-2022, 05:18 AM
Does anyone use an app that can tell you a person's name if all you have is their cell phone number?
A free one, preferably.
I had a message on my site from someone saying he's interested in filming me for pay( porn producer).
He gave his location, and it's where I live.
I'm in a tiny desert town, so, what are the odds?
I think he got my location from my ?? Instagram before I set it to private a few weeks ago.
Thanks in advance.
I believe whitepages dot com will do that for you but I don't know if there's a fee.
I have Verizon call screening so all registered owners of phone numbers show up for me on my phone.
Marina Starr
02-24-2022, 08:04 AM
I love complimenting other women be it what they wear or how pretty they look. That makes me feel good and secure. That takes nothing away from me. I don't always get the same from a lot of women but I'm totally fine with it. Honestly and truly.
I actually like having other beautiful women in the same places when I'm out and about so they can get all they attention.
For whatever reason men are just very drawn to me. I think a lot of it is my aura and the confidence I emit. I'm not even trying to be sexy or seduce men. I'm sure a lot of hoes can relate.