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~Carmen~
03-31-2022, 09:03 PM
I too just join the club :)

I got these today. They make me feel like a stripper. For some odd reasons, I can rock high heels with open toes with ease but not with closed toes. Especially pumps.

https://i.ibb.co/CmsVghW/20220329-203004.jpg (https://ibb.co/S57VbRJ)

You said you bought those for me sis????????

Secret Shelly
04-01-2022, 08:00 AM
Had about the perfect customer...on time, knew just where to throw the envelope, cleaned up with no complaints, no problems wearing protection, clean, cute enough, nice enough dick, and damn it if I also didn't orgasm!

techqueen
04-01-2022, 08:25 AM
Had about the perfect customer...on time, knew just where to throw the envelope, cleaned up with no complaints, no problems wearing protection, clean, cute enough, nice enough dick, and damn it if I also didn't orgasm!
You get clients complaining about wearing protection??
Never had that as an issue when I did escort stuff.
I’m convinced my clients are kinda afraid of me.

Secret Shelly
04-01-2022, 08:42 AM
You get clients complaining about wearing protection??
Never had that as an issue when I did escort stuff.
I’m convinced my clients are kinda afraid of me.

it's not that they complain about it it's more they try to talk me into going bare...not all of them but enough to make it annoying

techqueen
04-01-2022, 08:47 AM
it's not that they complain about it it's more they try to talk me into going bare...not all of them but enough to make it annoying

Yeah fuck that. Just imagine. They probably go around asking different people until someone says yes. Gross.

WendiStarr
04-01-2022, 10:20 AM
^ I've done fbsm and escorting and the bareback requests were endless. The stealthing pissed me off too.
Those types of men are selfish and dangerously reckless. I never had a real orgasm with a client. I faked 100% though, haha. Ok, you ladies are making me glad that I'm not doing in person sex work anymore. I miss the money but not the men.

indiegirl
04-01-2022, 10:56 AM
I wish there a dating system like the show Love is Blind in real life. Kinda cuts through all the BS of everything and just connecting with a person on a human level instead of looks. Bugs me how online dating is all about proving you are who you are, selfies or facetiming as proof. It makes you feel like men are going shopping purely based on appearance only.

Secret Shelly
04-01-2022, 11:10 AM
I wish there a dating system like the show Love is Blind in real life. Kinda cuts through all the BS of everything and just connecting with a person on a human level instead of looks. Bugs me how online dating is all about proving you are who you are, selfies or facetiming as proof. It makes you feel like men are going shopping purely based on appearance only.

I don't care as much about them judging me on my appearance when they look good....it's the overweight guy who can't hardly dress himself, never shaves and doesn't have anything close to a career going for him who thinks I'm just not quite pretty enough for him.....well guess what dumbass, even if I was pretty enough I'm still turning you down!!!

whirlerz
04-01-2022, 11:13 AM
Yea, they are^

Not only that, they're time wasters who want to waste your time, a/holes, etc.

Some get butt hurt if they get no response, then lash out..

Sometimes you get a decent date, only to find he's still hung up on ex (who's moved on) & Co dependent on adult kids.

Or, a complete psycho.

techqueen
04-01-2022, 11:26 AM
^ I've done fbsm and escorting and the bareback requests were endless. The stealthing pissed me off too.
Those types of men are selfish and dangerously reckless. I never had a real orgasm with a client. I faked 100% though, haha. Ok, you ladies are making me glad that I'm not doing in person sex work anymore. I miss the money but not the men.

Marketing and presentation. Marketing and presentation determines who we attract. It isn’t the end all be all but it’s one hell of a filter. Sure idiots still contacted me but they have to pass screening. I’ve never had anyone complain about wearing a condom ever. I’ve had a guy or two day something like “ugh i hate this thing”. Also I literally had on my website and my ad “I do not engage in unsafe activities ever”. As for the orgasm bit, I’ve never had a client made me cum either. And I hate when they try. It’s like no stop my vagina doesn’t work like that.

Gosh I remember the early days of Lauren SummerHill, Amy Taylor, Holly Brooks, Vicki Vaughn…studying their marketing, the way they wrote, their screening practices, their ads…etc. The money was insane. I only stopped offering gfe because I wanted my vagina back. My body didn’t feel mine anymore. Every now and then I’ll do more with a client if I’m paid enough but I enjoy it more now than i did before. Now I’m like hmmm ok i want to fuck him instead of the ugh I have to fuck him because it was literally the service i was offering.

techqueen
04-01-2022, 11:41 AM
It sucks that ad directories are dropping like flies. So sad. First bp then rubratings. They still won’t admit the FBI took them down.

indiegirl
04-01-2022, 11:54 AM
I don't care as much about them judging me on my appearance when they look good....it's the overweight guy who can't hardly dress himself, never shaves and doesn't have anything close to a career going for him who thinks I'm just not quite pretty enough for him.....well guess what dumbass, even if I was pretty enough I'm still turning you down!!!

BAHAHA OMG this extremely picky guy (he was all about ladies appearances) on the show said what he looks for in a girl "is someone small that he can carry on his shoulders at a concert." ......he talked about how he thought he was the only one being so picky about appearances. Also he asked this girl to marry him. Then when he finally saw her in person, the over exaggerated look on his face when he saw his soon to be wife said it ALL. (meanwhile he was not a 10 in looks department even with that crappy attitude). The next season he brought up how he was not physically attracted to her.......Gurrll she was not ugly. Shows how men can care about only one thing. At the end of the day, these types of men will still have that shitty personality when they're 90 looking like a used baby diaper in the face. These are the type of very old single guys you find at the strip club trying to recpature their youth (totally fine to fantasize) but shieet they are expecting a relationship that ain't gonna happen!

indiegirl
04-01-2022, 12:08 PM
Marketing and presentation. Marketing and presentation determines who we attract. It isn’t the end all be all but it’s one hell of a filter. Sure idiots still contacted me but they have to pass screening. I’ve never had anyone complain about wearing a condom ever. I’ve had a guy or two day something like “ugh i hate this thing”. Also I literally had on my website and my ad “I do not engage in unsafe activities ever”. As for the orgasm bit, I’ve never had a client made me cum either. And I hate when they try. It’s like no stop my vagina doesn’t work like that.

Gosh I remember the early days of Lauren SummerHill, Amy Taylor, Holly Brooks, Vicki Vaughn…studying their marketing, the way they wrote, their screening practices, their ads…etc. The money was insane. I only stopped offering gfe because I wanted my vagina back. My body didn’t feel mine anymore. Every now and then I’ll do more with a client if I’m paid enough but I enjoy it more now than i did before. Now I’m like hmmm ok i want to fuck him instead of the ugh I have to fuck him because it was literally the service i was offering.

The glory days of the sex industry are over. Everybody is getting on the same sites (even the high end sites) offering cheap vagina and men are haggling those with higher prices for HHR or Quickies. Once I'm done with school, I'm out. It's like with stripping, it will only get worse price wise. Stop lowering your rates ladies. If anything, we should be boosting them because of inflation costs for us.

techqueen
04-01-2022, 12:45 PM
The glory days of the sex industry are over. Everybody is getting on the same sites (even the high end sites) offering cheap vagina and men are haggling those with higher prices for HHR or Quickies. Once I'm done with school, I'm out. It's like with stripping, it will only get worse price wise. Stop lowering your rates ladies. If anything, we should be boosting them because of inflation costs for us.

My massage rates are much higher than what most in my area charge for full service. Business is great but it is not what it used to be …like when backpage was around.

Thanks to P411, i learned that the same man that pays $200 an hour for full service will turn around and see another girl charging $700an hour. I used to get a kick out of looking at dudes “ok” list to see who he’s seen and trust me they aren’t different. Sure there are guys that will cut their dick off before seeing a girl that charges $200 an hour but I’ve found the former to be closer to the truth over the years.

I remember when people used to down backpage and say it was low end and quality girls didn’t advertise there. I advertised there anyway and was almost always booked. Then Amy Taylor started buying multi-city ads on there. My point is there are cheapie guys frequenting the top sites and high quality guys frequenting the lower end sites. It really doesn’t matter anymore. It’s marketing that will determine if they’ll get in our inbox. I have an hour minimum for massage and at the tail end of my escort career I only met for two hours minimum because of school. I never once had a guy ask me to do quickies or HHR. I did have a few say hey i don’t have enough time can we do an hour please? The answer was always no. Ive found that the providers that have an “easier” time have solid boundaries.

I’ve been in the industry a very long time. I’m a reputable provider in my area. The only thing I can say that is annoying is guys wanting to date and some weeks being slower than others. I've always been an advocate for higher rates. I just don't think some feel comfortable raising their rates. I started escorting through a "higher end" agency in my area. High end meaning they were charging $100 more than the average. It was no emperors club but I think enlisting with them was probably one of the best decisions I ever made. Shit could have been a lot worse.

I think the industry is going downhill too but because there's literally NOWHERE to advertise now. I feel like men who want quality will always seek it out. I like to believe that there's still enough to go around for everyone but yeah it's not what it used to be.

indiegirl
04-01-2022, 01:11 PM
My massage rates are much higher than what most in my area charge for full service. Business is great but it is not what it used to be …like when backpage was around.

Thanks to P411, i learned that the same man that pays $200 an hour for full service will turn around and see another girl charging $700an hour. I used to get a kick out of looking at dudes “ok” list to see who he’s seen and trust me they aren’t different. Sure there are guys that will cut their dick off before seeing a girl that charges $200 an hour but I’ve found the former to be closer to the truth over the years.

I remember when people used to down backpage and say it was low end and quality girls didn’t advertise there. I advertised there anyway and was almost always booked. Then Amy Taylor started buying multi-city ads on there. My point is there are cheapie guys frequenting the top sites and high quality guys frequenting the lower end sites. It really doesn’t matter anymore. It’s marketing that will determine if they’ll get in our inbox. I have an hour minimum for massage and at the tail end of my escort career I only met for two hours minimum because of school. I never once had a guy ask me to do quickies or HHR. I did have a few say hey i don’t have enough time can we do an hour please? The answer was always no. Ive found that the providers that have an “easier” time have solid boundaries.

I’ve been in the industry a very long time. I’m a reputable provider in my area. The only thing I can say that is annoying is guys wanting to date and some weeks being slower than others. I've always been an advocate for higher rates. I just don't think some feel comfortable raising their rates. I started escorting through a "higher end" agency in my area. High end meaning they were charging $100 more than the average. It was no emperors club but I think enlisting with them was probably one of the best decisions I ever made. Shit could have been a lot worse.

I think the industry is going downhill too but because there's literally NOWHERE to advertise now. I feel like men who want quality will always seek it out. I like to believe that there's still enough to go around for everyone but yeah it's not what it used to be.

yep I was top 13 on TER out of USA at one point only to find them kicking me to the curb before the pandemic. Times were glamorous and times were AWFUL but now I don’t want to sit on my ass following the same patterns and do this forever. I want a stable career and a family with a kiddo. Sometimes it’s okay to leave the biz behind and move into other areas of work. Who knows, you don’t see Elon Musk having to be on a pole and hoe himself out for money. There’s methods to invest. This industry is a stepping stone into your future.

whirlerz
04-01-2022, 01:13 PM
Men rarely do that^

techqueen
04-01-2022, 01:25 PM
yep I was top 13 on TER out of USA at one point only to find them kicking me to the curb before the pandemic. Times were glamorous and times were AWFUL but now I don’t want to sit on my ass following the same patterns and do this forever. I want a stable career and a family with a kiddo. Sometimes it’s okay to leave the biz behind and move into other areas of work. Who knows, you don’t see Elon Musk having to be on a pole and hoe himself out for money. There’s methods to invest. This industry is a stepping stone into your future.
Hey, I see you. And I feel you. I agree.
It’s just… you can’t compare the average person to Elon.
I did the real world thing for a good while and it was….uncomfortable to say the least.
I’ve come to find that creating passive income streams is the best.
I have nothing against anyone wanting to do this for the rest of their life.
I believe in people doing whatever will make them happy.
Personally, I can’t really see myself with a husband. I already have an amazing teenager.
I just want to be a rich grandma with happy grandchildren.

techqueen
04-01-2022, 01:52 PM
Also I’ve gotta say, I’ve become a person that I love and learning to love even more. This is not an industry to aspire to be in but i learned how to talk to anyone, i learned how to say NO and use my voice, i overcame crippling social anxiety, i met my best friend, i have a college fund for my kid and i still love people. I don’t regret a thing about hoing. Not one thing.

indiegirl
04-01-2022, 01:53 PM
Hey, I see you. And I feel you. I agree.
It’s just… you can’t compare the average person to Elon.
I did the real world thing for a good while and it was….uncomfortable to say the least.
I’ve come to find that creating passive income streams is the best.
I have nothing against anyone wanting to do this for the rest of their life.
I believe in people doing whatever will make them happy.
Personally, I can’t really see myself with a husband. I already have an amazing teenager.
I just want to be a rich grandma with happy grandchildren.

Lol I should've picked a normal successful man, my bad haha :P. Yep Elon is not of this world for sure when it comes to men! But I admire those (there was a lady on here who posted she made 2 million investing in stocks I believe...help me out fam if I'm totally incorrect? And she decided to leave the biz after reaching that goal. She posted a screenshot too?) I think there are other methods to explore for money just than sex work that is lucrative.

Yep some wanna do this forever...I feel I've been geared towards trying something new. To each their own I agree ;).

techqueen
04-01-2022, 02:15 PM
Lol I should've picked a normal successful man, my bad haha :P. Yep Elon is not of this world for sure when it comes to men! But I admire those (there was a lady on here who posted she made 2 million investing in stocks I believe...help me out fam if I'm totally incorrect? And she decided to leave the biz after reaching that goal. She posted a screenshot too?) I think there are other methods to explore for money just than sex work that is lucrative.

Yep some wanna do this forever...I feel I've been geared towards trying something new. To each their own I agree ;).

Oh gosh. Now I see what you’re getting at. I personally don’t care what others decide to do.
Don’t get me wrong I’m genuinely happy for people when they manifest their desire but umm everyone has their own life path/plan. I’m always fascinated by people that are super comparative with people. I think it’s an upbringing thing. I was taught that everyone had their own individual path in life. So great for the girl! Personally if i came into a lot of cash…heck even if it was 200k i wouldn’t come and post it on this forum. Why? The girls that i know that have left the business for good literally disappear and no one hears from them ever again.

Also, I started early. I’m still very young. Annnd I’m hot as hell. And somehow I didn’t become a bitter man hating bitch so something is working right up there. Ha!

Back to Elon, have you read his mom’s book? With a mother like that one wouldn’t end up in sex work. She is amazing!

techqueen
04-01-2022, 02:30 PM
LMAO I just thought about the girl I came across on ECCIE that went on and on about how she was going to get a real job in six months and how we were all just lazy hoes. Well, she's now hoing out of her van and posting tik toks about it. I'm also wise to know that that same girl can become a millionaire in 5 years. Life is funny that way. You can be a miserable ho and you can be a miserable person working a corporate job. Or you can make a margarita using the lemons you've been given. I choose to keep a positive attitude and do good and good always comes back to me. Everyone's timeline is different and you have to love yours. I'm loving mine. I've become a highly sought after bad ass in my personal and professional life. It's about liking who you've become because what good is money if you're innately a miserable person?

Marina Starr
04-01-2022, 06:42 PM
I sure did. Let me help you hoe them in first then I will stop by and drop them off for you!


You said you bought those for me sis????????

LoveyD
04-01-2022, 09:34 PM
My boyfriend has a lot on his mind. I think he's going to ask me to take things to a new level. I can tell he's scared and going back and forth in his mind bc he doesn't want to get hurt again. I'm going through the same thing so I get it . Giving him the space he needs to think about things so he doesn't feel pressured. It's hard to have relationships after narcissistic abuse and I totally understand. But I think he's going to take a leap of faith and make me an offer soon. I hope he does. I don't want to live in CA anymore and neither does he. He's happier where he is now and I think he wants me with him.

indiegirl
04-01-2022, 10:25 PM
Oh gosh. Now I see what you’re getting at. I personally don’t care what others decide to do.
Don’t get me wrong I’m genuinely happy for people when they manifest their desire but umm everyone has their own life path/plan. I’m always fascinated by people that are super comparative with people. I think it’s an upbringing thing. I was taught that everyone had their own individual path in life. So great for the girl! Personally if i came into a lot of cash…heck even if it was 200k i wouldn’t come and post it on this forum. Why? The girls that i know that have left the business for good literally disappear and no one hears from them ever again.

Also, I started early. I’m still very young. Annnd I’m hot as hell. And somehow I didn’t become a bitter man hating bitch so something is working right up there. Ha!

Back to Elon, have you read his mom’s book? With a mother like that one wouldn’t end up in sex work. She is amazing!

Meh I totally appreciate her post. It shows that anything is possible if you set your mind to it and gives ladies optimism to move forward regardless of their current situation.

I am having such a slow day. Everybody pushes for me to be in deep LA or Newport Beach area until I arrive and then they become CHEAP or not in the area. Girll I have two days a week for work and it costs me a lot to run my life. Please send customers, lord. I hate booking 4 stars when it's slow. I only had 1 custie and that is it. This sucks.

indiegirl
04-01-2022, 10:53 PM
Oh gosh. Now I see what you’re getting at. I personally don’t care what others decide to do.
Don’t get me wrong I’m genuinely happy for people when they manifest their desire but umm everyone has their own life path/plan. I’m always fascinated by people that are super comparative with people. I think it’s an upbringing thing. I was taught that everyone had their own individual path in life. So great for the girl! Personally if i came into a lot of cash…heck even if it was 200k i wouldn’t come and post it on this forum. Why? The girls that i know that have left the business for good literally disappear and no one hears from them ever again.

Also, I started early. I’m still very young. Annnd I’m hot as hell. And somehow I didn’t become a bitter man hating bitch so something is working right up there. Ha!

Back to Elon, have you read his mom’s book? With a mother like that one wouldn’t end up in sex work. She is amazing!

I consider this my support group which is why she prolly posted her earnings. Despite failures or triumphs in life, it's reassuring someone here can relate somehow to a victory or loss in life. Not everyone gets the perfect family setup in life.

Hell I have a lot of good things going lately that I share. I don't have in person friends yet to share them with. Stripperweb is it for me until school is over when I have time in the vanilla world. I totally plan on staying on this site after. I like the veteran returning ladies and their personalities on here! :)

Dreamqueen
04-01-2022, 11:58 PM
^ I've done fbsm and escorting and the bareback requests were endless. The stealthing pissed me off too.
Those types of men are selfish and dangerously reckless. I never had a real orgasm with a client. I faked 100% though, haha. Ok, you ladies are making me glad that I'm not doing in person sex work anymore. I miss the money but not the men.

Same here. I miss the money, but definitely NOT the men.
A few years ago, I contacted a long time favorite customer of mine.
He wanted to see me.
When he came over, I told him that I'm not escorting anymore, and just doing cam.
He asked how much I make in a week doing it.
I told him.
He pulled out that exact amount (on top of his fee), and said, "Here. Now you can take the week off."
So generous.
It got me thinking that maybe I should go back to doing just the fbsm.
I quit after 2 weeks.
Nope. The men were horrible.
Can't.

LoveyD
04-02-2022, 08:15 AM
^^^ These men are such a pain in the ass and then they wonder why they get charged so much.

That was cool of your customer. They're one in million.

techqueen
04-02-2022, 08:56 AM
Are there any diverse, black girl friendly beach towns? The ones i've visited in the south have had a weird energy to them (Charleston, Hilton Head, Wilmington). I know Charleston's history but not the others. Considering checking out a few places in Florida. I have a girlfriend in Destin but she's always talking about how bored she is of the place.

lurkingtitties
04-02-2022, 09:22 AM
Same here. I miss the money, but definitely NOT the men.
A few years ago, I contacted a long time favorite customer of mine.
He wanted to see me.
When he came over, I told him that I'm not escorting anymore, and just doing cam.
He asked how much I make in a week doing it.
I told him.
He pulled out that exact amount (on top of his fee), and said, "Here. Now you can take the week off."
So generous.
It got me thinking that maybe I should go back to doing just the fbsm.
I quit after 2 weeks.
Nope. The men were horrible.
Can't.

I only ever stripped but I feel the same way about returning to the clubs! I'm in a transition period in my life and have had a few friends/family members suggest I go back to dancing to have some income stability while I figure my life out. I'm also mid 30s currently which as well all know is a great age for sex work. (I retired at 29) But nooooooppppppeeeee I just can no longer handle the idea of letting gross strange men see me naked let alone touch my body!

lurkingtitties
04-02-2022, 09:26 AM
Are there any diverse, black girl friendly beach towns? The ones i've visited in the south have had a weird energy to them (Charleston, Hilton Head, Wilmington). I know Charleston's history but not the others. Considering checking out a few places in Florida. I have a girlfriend in Destin but she's always talking about how bored she is of the place.

I don't have any helpful info (sorry!) but yo I feel you on the weird energy in beach towns! I did a strip trip to Myrtle Beach 8ish years ago and totally thought the vibe was weird!

Maybe try Tampa??

techqueen
04-02-2022, 10:45 AM
I don't have any helpful info (sorry!) but yo I feel you on the weird energy in beach towns! I did a strip trip to Myrtle Beach 8ish years ago and totally thought the vibe was weird!

Maybe try Tampa??

Downtown Myrtle is scary as fuck to me. I couldn’t. I just got back from Hilton Head a week ago. The money was good but I felt like I was in that movie Django Unchained. I could literally hear Samuel Jackson’s character’s voice in my head. I’ve been to Tampa once. I just remember a lot of homeless people. Definitely going to try a few other cities in FL. Yeah I couldn’t live in the Carolinas.

Genoveve
04-03-2022, 01:58 PM
I'm so glad my Dad has always dated nice women. I don't know how he always got them though because he definitely didn't deserve them.

moneybags
04-03-2022, 05:03 PM
I’m in the cutting phase of my diet for my fitness competition, and I’m so hungry. I like to chew gum and drink diet soda as a way to fight cravings. Also, I like pickles! Low calorie snack you can get from a gas station. I got a pickle and this guy stared at me! He said, “you must really like pickles!” I told him I’m dieting. He wasn’t being creepy either. He must have been like crazy white women and their diets.

Marina Starr
04-04-2022, 11:27 AM
Lately I've been in the mood to dress like a tomboy. I'll have to shop for some boys clothes. I've been told I'm ultra feminine so we'll see if wearing boys clothes will help lessen the hassles from men. I'm definitely not going out of my way for this reason. I do it because I WANT to.

Genoveve
04-04-2022, 03:02 PM
It always amuses me how whenever people get past life regressions their recalled past lives always end up being 'glamorous' ones. 'I found out I was a Greek oracle,' 'I was an ancient Egyptian priestess,' 'I was a Persian Empress......' It's never stuff like 'I was a morbidly obese bedbound single mom who died of a heart attack in 1984,' 'I was a victim of the crack epidemic,' 'I was a Russian serf who was born and died on the same estate in the early 1800s.'

AChildOfBoredom
04-04-2022, 06:06 PM
Lately I've been in the mood to dress like a tomboy. I'll have to shop for some boys clothes. I've been told I'm ultra feminine so we'll see if wearing boys clothes will help lessen the hassles from men. I'm definitely not going out of my way for this reason. I do it because I WANT to.


It’s a bit hit-or-miss. Tomboyish but still feminine, you’ll typically draw out the hee-haws. Or certain subsets, anyhow… that appeals more to the Cletus Bob, “Let’s roll us some coal and wave our confederate flags while swearing up and down to the darkies it’s nothing about race” sorts than the “sweet cowboys and cowgirls” type of hee-haw.



It always amuses me how whenever people get past life regressions their recalled past lives always end up being 'glamorous' ones. 'I found out I was a Greek oracle,' 'I was an ancient Egyptian priestess,' 'I was a Persian Empress......' It's never stuff like 'I was a morbidly obese bedbound single mom who died of a heart attack in 1984,' 'I was a victim of the crack epidemic,' 'I was a Russian serf who was born and died on the same estate in the early 1800s.'


I’ve encountered these people before. To get a rise out of them, I’d tell them I’ve had those and I found out that I was Jim Jones.


And I let S and the former dancer I spend all my time with have their way with my hair, so they added some streaks of color… blue and purple. Not a full head of dyed hair, just some carefully placed bits of it. I expect my mother would wig out if she saw it, especially now that my sister has seen it and wants hers done, as well. Then again, she’s been surprisingly level-headed about a few things I was certain would draw her ire. One of my coworkers struck up a conversation about it. I have raven dark hair and he though I had always dyed it. No, this is my natural hair color. He thought it couldn’t have been because I have blue eyes (?).


Anyhow, I like it. I’m going to draw the line at getting a tattoo, though. The other dancer has some, and S just got her first one recently.

Genoveve
04-04-2022, 06:09 PM
I’ve encountered these people before. To get a rise out of them, I’d tell them I’ve had those and I found out that I was Jim Jones.

I've thought about how no one ever was a murderer too. :rotfl:

Marina Starr
04-04-2022, 07:06 PM
I don't want feminine, I want to look masculine and manly. I was thinking something similar to this:

https://i.ibb.co/cTjgtv8/Screenshot-2022-04-04-10-03-13-PM.png (https://ibb.co/dKRW6cp)







It’s a bit hit-or-miss. Tomboyish but still feminine, you’ll typically draw out the hee-haws. Or certain subsets, anyhow… that appeals more to the Cletus Bob, “Let’s roll us some coal and wave our confederate flags while swearing up and down to the darkies it’s nothing about race” sorts than the “sweet cowboys and cowgirls” type of hee-haw.

AChildOfBoredom
04-04-2022, 07:22 PM
I've thought about how no one ever was a murderer too. :rotfl:

But Jim Jones was so much more.

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I don't want feminine, I want to look masculine and manly. I was thinking something similar to this:

https://i.ibb.co/cTjgtv8/Screenshot-2022-04-04-10-03-13-PM.png (https://ibb.co/dKRW6cp)

Still in dudebro turf. The ones who pull that off well either have the right physique for it or they hide what they have successfully. Looking at me, there’s no question I work out, but my form is still very feminine. Plus I’m not lacking in the chest area. I have to wonder sometimes if I was adopted, or if I really am a repository of genes which don’t run in the family… even after giving birth three times, my mother wears a C cup but doesn’t fill it out, nobody else in my immediate family has my hair color, and they’re all taller than me.

Anyhow, I think you’d have to go more all in to pull it off than simply wearing the clothes. Even at my least feminine (which would probably be my ACU trousers from the Army and an oversized Cannibal Corpse t-shirt, it doesn’t keep the wolves at bay, although it will at least ward off some.

Marina Starr
04-04-2022, 07:34 PM
LOL, Do I have to give up my hoe makeup too?


Still in dudebro turf. The ones who pull that off well either have the right physique for it or they hide what they have successfully. Looking at me, there’s no question I work out, but my form is still very feminine. Plus I’m not lacking in the chest area. I have to wonder sometimes if I was adopted, or if I really am a repository of genes which don’t run in the family… even after giving birth three times, my mother wears a C cup but doesn’t fill it out, nobody else in my immediate family has my hair color, and they’re all taller than me.

Anyhow, I think you’d have to go more all in to pull it off than simply wearing the clothes. Even at my least feminine (which would probably be my ACU trousers from the Army and an oversized Cannibal Corpse t-shirt, it doesn’t keep the wolves at bay, although it will at least ward off some.

Dreamqueen
04-04-2022, 08:25 PM
It always amuses me how whenever people get past life regressions their recalled past lives always end up being 'glamorous' ones. 'I found out I was a Greek oracle,' 'I was an ancient Egyptian priestess,' 'I was a Persian Empress......' It's never stuff like 'I was a morbidly obese bedbound single mom who died of a heart attack in 1984,' 'I was a victim of the crack epidemic,' 'I was a Russian serf who was born and died on the same estate in the early 1800s.'

I was told that I was a Nazi Soldier in a past life.
I'm still pissed that she told me this.

indiegirl
04-05-2022, 05:24 AM
I was told that I was a Nazi Soldier in a past life.
I'm still pissed that she told me this.

I was told I was a doctor in a different life. Immediately I thought, "Okayyyy... Let's not get carried away here bahahaha!!"

LoveyD
04-05-2022, 06:13 AM
It always amuses me how whenever people get past life regressions their recalled past lives always end up being 'glamorous' ones. 'I found out I was a Greek oracle,' 'I was an ancient Egyptian priestess,' 'I was a Persian Empress......' It's never stuff like 'I was a morbidly obese bedbound single mom who died of a heart attack in 1984,' 'I was a victim of the crack epidemic,' 'I was a Russian serf who was born and died on the same estate in the early 1800s.'

I was once told that I was a witch in Salem during the witch trials. But apparently I escaped being burned at the stake because I was a "good" witch.

Dreamqueen
04-06-2022, 12:32 AM
Starting next year, California will be giving $1000 per month to anyone who is trans, or non binary. It's to help those that are having trouble paying their bills.
It's the pilot program for the start of UBI ( Universal basic income).
I'm keeping a close eye on it, because I'm betting the program will eventually be nationwide ( and for every one).
This ridiculous inflation is all part of a plan to get us completely dependent on the government. Some may call it a conspiracy, but not to those like myself that have been aware of the agenda for years.

I'm here for it, because as I stated recently, I am struggling to get ahead.

Aurora_Sunset
04-06-2022, 09:16 AM
It's doing a nice, gentle spring rain today, which I love having my window open for. My little cat is scared of the rain though, so she's burrito-ed in a blanket on my lap to make her feel safe and happy.

Aurora_Sunset
04-06-2022, 11:06 AM
Someone please explain to me why porn websites seem to think it's a good idea to have non-skippable ads before a video starts that are a MILLION times louder than what you have the volume set to for the rest of the videos you're watching? And they will IMMEIDATELY start with sound that is blatant porn screaming before you can scramble to hit mute on your computer. Like, they have to know that's a problem for some people when they're trying to be discreet, right?

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-06-2022, 11:20 AM
I was told that I was a Nazi Soldier in a past life.
I'm still pissed that she told me this.

Don't be. At the time a lot of soldiers had no other option. The Nazi regime was all-encompassing for the German culture.

carmen_b
04-06-2022, 01:11 PM
It's a smooth phase in the house . :)
Partner is taking his daughter out to a fun center right after school so I get 90 min - 2 hours here solo during that.
Yesterday he did something similar ..... Costco I think. It was nice to have some quiet time here. Then I got paranoid ..... like .... what if he spied here lol ?

moneybags
04-06-2022, 03:01 PM
Doing my tapping with Brad Yates. In his tapping he says, “I can’t make everyone happy, I’m not tequila.” Lol

Aurora_Sunset
04-06-2022, 04:27 PM
Doing my tapping with Brad Yates. In his tapping he says, “I can’t make everyone happy, I’m not tequila.” Lol

New affirmation. I love it.