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~Carmen~
04-12-2022, 08:33 PM
I saw a smooth guy picking up a girl at the grocery store. He was obviously a player. She was all giggly. When she told him her name and nickname, I knew he had her hooked. LOL

Dreamqueen
04-12-2022, 09:52 PM
I will pay more attention now that you said this when I'm out and about.
I know men consciously or subconsciously like to draw attention to their dick because they think that's the most important part.
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Like this. Since you're at Starbucks a lot, I'd say it would be the perfect spot to people watch, especially when they are standing in line.
And if there are any undercover cops, (or cops in general), they will be standing with their legs more than shoulder width apart.

~Carmen~
04-12-2022, 11:02 PM
Another example: Joey Mcintyre

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Marina Starr
04-13-2022, 04:06 AM
Did she also squeal and thank him profusely for giving her his precious time?!

vanillas hoes love to volunteer giving information like if they live down the street, live alone, how often they shop there and almost their whole life stories to strange men their barely knew etc.

how would have you handle it if he was smooth and give you the time of day, sis?



I saw a smooth guy picking up a girl at the grocery store. He was obviously a player. She was all giggly. When she told him her name and nickname, I knew he had her hooked. LOL

JGB2009
04-13-2022, 07:42 AM
I comment on this guys post on social media then he ends up in my inbox. I hate it when men do that!!! Ugh.....

Marina Starr
04-13-2022, 08:38 AM
They think it's harmless. If so why don't they do it to other dudes?!


I comment on this guys post on social media then he ends up in my inbox. I hate it when men do that!!! Ugh.....

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-13-2022, 10:13 AM
I miss partying with gay dudes. If any group of people saves humanity, it'll be the gays.

whirlerz
04-13-2022, 10:31 AM
I used to go to TG parties, held at a local bar. I found out about them thru a wig shop I used to visit, pre covid of course.

carmen_b
04-13-2022, 10:46 AM
I’m glad we have a couples trip to Vegas this Sun.!
I’ve felt so bored this week.
I forgot it was Easter Sunday.
We have two days of concerts. :)

I've got my prizes ready from the casino haha.
$25 in free play and a $15-$25 black jack match !
I'm very excited haha.

J gave me his card to book the room and I booked the package with food / beverage included ! He has rushed me before trying to line up for concerts. This time I’ll be like “ well dinner is included so we should use it “ haha.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-13-2022, 11:56 AM
I love soupppppppppppppppppppppp

~Carmen~
04-13-2022, 02:30 PM
I miss partying with gay dudes. If any group of people saves humanity, it'll be the gays.

That's why I can't wait to go to PRIDE :)

~Carmen~
04-13-2022, 02:37 PM
Did she also squeal and thank him profusely for giving her his precious time?!

vanillas hoes love to volunteer giving information like if they live down the street, live alone, how often they shop there and almost their whole life stories to strange men their barely knew etc.

how would have you handle it if he was smooth and give you the time of day, sis?

Oh yes girl, she was going on on on about her life.

Now I wish I would have snuck around the corner to hear the entire conversation and exchange of contact info.

She was so fixated on him, she didn't realize she was standing in front of the eggs I was trying to grab. I said "Excuse me" and she was all like "I'm sorry, I'm so sorry". Then straight back to him.

Marina Starr
04-13-2022, 02:59 PM
Lmao, you and I've had conservations about 'I'm sorry'.

I hope he at least pays for her groceries.


Oh yes girl, she was going on on on about her life.

Now I wish I would have snuck around the corner to hear the entire conversation and exchange of contact info.

She was so fixated on him, she didn't realize she was standing in front of the eggs I was trying to grab. I said "Excuse me" and she was all like "I'm sorry, I'm so sorry". Then straight back to him.

~Carmen~
04-13-2022, 04:21 PM
Lmao, you and I've had conservations about 'I'm sorry'.

I hope he at least pays for her groceries.

Free groceries = free nooky.

carmen_b
04-13-2022, 04:22 PM
Get ready dudes I'm gonna take all your $$$ .
I mean .... this week .... well I'm too tired ....
but ... soon I will take the $$$ home with me hahaha.

WendiStarr
04-13-2022, 04:24 PM
I wish Youtube Kids didn't have so many commercials. I'm trying to get some work done without pressing on "Skip ads" and having my 2 year old burst into tears about it every 5 minutes. I wonder when babysitter robots will hit the market.

carmen_b
04-13-2022, 05:10 PM
I added a new page to my website without messing up the whole menu layout ( it was my fear ) .
Yeah !

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-14-2022, 05:19 AM
I adore Kari the Mortician on YouTube. She is the kindest YouTuber when it comes to laying out the simple info that people find terrifying about funeral pre-planning and burials. I wish people were not so phobic about physical death, it's a fact of life.

Smurfette
04-14-2022, 06:57 AM
Wanted to have a fun night out with my husband which rarely happens, we went to a couple different bars and had a pretty good time. Then we got home and out of nowhere he suddenly got really negative and started criticizing me and my 'bad attitude' and it erupted into a huge argument that lasted like 3 hours. I knew the whole time not to take it too seriously and that we were only arguing because we were drunk. It was so stupid and after a while neither of us even knew why we were arguing in the first place but we kept arguing anyway because we were so riled up, lol.

It's just a bummer because I've been working nonstop all month and I just wanted to relax and have some fun, but now I feel even more tired, drained and stressed out than I did before! I guess that's what happens when you don't drink at all for weeks/months, have zero tolerance and then suddenly start downing liquor, lol.

carmen_b
04-14-2022, 08:47 AM
^ I find that sometimes drinking and couples don't mix !
You start picking at each other. I don't know why people do it !

I have a health thing where I can't drink and I am in a place where I am starting to hate drinking.
My partner is a super nice drunk ( not out of control ) but even a little slur of speech / slower patterns in talking bothers me. I also noticed that he was talking " over " his sister one time while drinking. It was triggering ! Like ..... don't let him talk over you. Put a stop to that shit !!

I probably will eventually have to ask him not to have more than two around me at a point ( maybe months ) away in the future. It's not an issue now but I have an " eye " on it. I think working in bars does that to us ( we hate drunken behaviors unless big $$ is involved ).

charlie61
04-14-2022, 10:12 AM
^ I find that sometimes drinking and couples don't mix !
You start picking at each other. I don't know why people do it !

I have a health thing where I can't drink and I am in a place where I am starting to hate drinking.
My partner is a super nice drunk ( not out of control ) but even the little bit slurred of speech / slower patterns in talking bothers me. I also noticed that he was talking " over " his sister one time while drinking. It was triggering ! Like ..... don't let him talk over you. Put a stop to that shit !!

I probably will eventually have to ask him not to have more than two around me at a point ( maybe months ) away in the future. It's not an issue now but I have an " eye " on it. I think working in bars does that to us ( we hate drunken behaviors unless big $$ is involved ).

I'm in a similar situation..i don't drink at all except when we go camping, and when i do, I'll just have 1-2 drinks. We do great together when we're drinking together. But when he's the only one drinking, i find it to be super annoying. He never gets drunk, but I'm just annoyed by any behavioral changes. I used to leave the house for long walks, but now i just isolate myself. Trying to restrict other people's drinking rarely ends well, and i feel like such a puritan for being annoyed by his mood improvement when he starts drinking (it shouldn't bother me that he can go from being in a neutral mood to being in a good mood after a beer or two, but it does).

Nina_
04-14-2022, 11:17 AM
Got an offer for a job at a super busy nightclub for bottle servixe where I know I'll make about a grand a night but will only be working 2-3 night a week. While I fully intend to eventually take the job, I'm currently waiting to get my body in tip top shape before I commit to an audition (because we have to wear seriously skimpy clothes lol). I'm so excited to start work!

indiegirl
04-14-2022, 12:38 PM
I wish Youtube Kids didn't have so many commercials. I'm trying to get some work done without pressing on "Skip ads" and having my 2 year old burst into tears about it every 5 minutes. I wonder when babysitter robots will hit the market.

Adblock Plus blocks ads if you install it as an extension. It's free too. I haven't watched a youtube commercial in forever lol.

Dreamqueen
04-14-2022, 08:43 PM
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I just finished watching this documentary ( I saw it on Hulu).
It's so fascinating to me to see how male escorts operated, especially in Hollywood, where it seems everyone was gay, even the women.
It was funny to hear clients called 'tricks', because that's what I always call them.
LOVE this man Scotty Bowers!
I got a lot out of hearing his take on sex work.
Releases a lot of guilt I sometimes have about it.

LoveyD
04-14-2022, 11:46 PM
Whoa Nellie we just had an earthquake. Felt my car rocking.

Dreamqueen
04-15-2022, 12:25 AM
Whoa Nellie we just had an earthquake. Felt my car rocking.

Are you ok? Where do you live? Near San Diego?
What was the magnitude?
Earthquakes are scary as hell.

indiegirl
04-15-2022, 12:44 AM
Sometimes I wish I was born a man so I could shave my head to do zero with my hair, not have to wear makeup, get a vanilla job that will pay me more because I have a dick, and not have to worry about being raped when I'm out in public alone at night.

I think of this every now and then when I think of the financial costs of being a woman and maintaining oneself.

charlie61
04-15-2022, 05:44 AM
Sometimes I wish I was born a man so I could shave my head to do zero with my hair, not have to wear makeup, get a vanilla job that will pay me more because I have a dick, and not have to worry about being raped when I'm out in public alone at night.

I think of this every now and then when I think of the financial costs of being a woman and maintaining oneself.

I think about this all of the time. Men can roll out of bed, take a piss, go into work at the office, and still have people telling them that they look great.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-15-2022, 07:21 AM
Sometimes I wish I was born a man so I could shave my head to do zero with my hair, not have to wear makeup, get a vanilla job that will pay me more because I have a dick, and not have to worry about being raped when I'm out in public alone at night.

I think of this every now and then when I think of the financial costs of being a woman and maintaining oneself.

Well some men have to shave & especially metrosexuals spend as much time in the bathroom getting ready as the average woman does.

It is pricey to be a woman though.

Random Thought- f*ckin Kim Kardashian, man.....guhhhh

naomi_doll
04-15-2022, 08:55 AM
I was reading a reddit for a reality show and someone was wondering why they all referred to the doctor as "sir". Is that odd?? Do people not use sir/ma'am anymore?

kamiliam
04-15-2022, 09:49 AM
I was reading a reddit for a reality show and someone was wondering why they all referred to the doctor as "sir". Is that odd?? Do people not use sir/ma'am anymore?

Idk about everyone else but I ran into one of my childhood basketball heroes the other day and called him sir. Sign of respect, no one is entitled to it now perhaps.

WendiStarr
04-15-2022, 12:22 PM
Trying to find a vanilla photographer for family portraits of my daughters and I is harder than I thought.

lynn2009
04-15-2022, 01:22 PM
I picked up my dog from 3 nights of boarding this morning and now he doesn't love me anymore. :(

indiegirl
04-15-2022, 03:11 PM
Trying to find a vanilla photographer for family portraits of my daughters and I is harder than I thought.

Be very careful with that. Omg, my mom showed me her engagement photos to her now husband and they looked sooo bad with lighting and sun on their face haha. The first thing I said when I saw the photos was “How much did you pay for that?” It was horrible! She ended up asking for her money back and going with someone else.

carmen_b
04-15-2022, 03:24 PM
^ Lighting is so key.
Shaded only for mid day .
The ugliest lighting is bright .
No one looks good in it. ^
I love these pics with J we had taken 6 months ago ( near sunset time ).

neverendingkneebruises
04-15-2022, 04:55 PM
How the HELL did Rihanna get cheated on?????? There's no hope for the rest of us

LoveyD
04-15-2022, 05:02 PM
Are you ok? Where do you live? Near San Diego?
What was the magnitude?
Earthquakes are scary as hell.

I'm totally ok, thank you. 4.8 in TJ. I live about 30 min
North of the border. I just felty car rock a little, wondered if it was an earthquake, and it was lol

charlie61
04-15-2022, 08:29 PM
How the HELL did Rihanna get cheated on?????? There's no hope for the rest of us

I think the more powerful, rich, beautiful, and busy someone is, the more likely they are to get cheated on. I'm absolutely not victim blaming. I just think that those attributes are bound to make anyone dating those people feel insecure, and those qualities unintentionally attract people who are looking for fake relationships.

Dreamqueen
04-15-2022, 11:15 PM
I'm totally ok, thank you. 4.8 in TJ. I live about 30 min
North of the border. I just felty car rock a little, wondered if it was an earthquake, and it was lol

I'm so glad you're ok.
I got the notification from Twitter about that quake, so I figured you were near there.
I used to live in Encinitas.

smeca
04-16-2022, 12:52 AM
I love soupppppppppppppppppppppp

I've been making soup lately. Way easier than i thought and delicious. Makes you look like a domestic goddess too lol

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-16-2022, 06:23 AM
I just saw a woman at Home Depot and I was like "oh my God you look just like...", but she cut me off to say I know Sofia Vergara, I get it ALL THE TIME! Now I'm like "Oh okayyyy" She says WAIT! Who were you about to say?

I told her Eva Mendes and she turned around and walked away. Wowwwwww! I don't get it? Eva Mendes is a beautiful woman? Anyways if you're on the market for a new relationship, it's true what they say about men flocking to Home Depot on Saturday mornings.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-16-2022, 06:32 AM
Trying to find a vanilla photographer for family portraits of my daughters and I is harder than I thought.

Try Facebook, indie photographers are all over there.

indiegirl
04-16-2022, 07:35 AM
I'm watching a police interrogation (love me my crime episodes on youtube lol!) and the girl who killed her father brings up she's vegetarian randomly during the conversation.

In my head: BAHAHAHA not vegetarian anymore! You're about to enjoy a bologna sandwich without an option for many years.

naomi_doll
04-16-2022, 07:47 AM
Idk about everyone else but I ran into one of my childhood basketball heroes the other day and called him sir. Sign of respect, no one is entitled to it now perhaps.

Maybe thats it, I would really have to think about it to not use sir or ma'am myself unless the person was the same age as me.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-16-2022, 07:51 AM
I'm watching a police interrogation (love me my crime episodes on youtube lol!) and the girl who killed her father brings up she's vegetarian randomly during the conversation.

In my head: BAHAHAHA not vegetarian anymore! You're about to enjoy a bologna sandwich without an option for many years.

Now you got me craving bologna.

Meetus, git in my mouf

whirlerz
04-16-2022, 08:06 AM
Sometimes I wish I was born a man so I could shave my head to do zero with my hair, not have to wear makeup, get a vanilla job that will pay me more because I have a dick, and not have to worry about being raped when I'm out in public alone at night.

I think of this every now and then when I think of the financial costs of being a woman and maintaining oneself.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: so true, & sadly, the rape part

LoveyD
04-16-2022, 08:16 AM
I'm so glad you're ok.
I got the notification from Twitter about that quake, so I figured you were near there.
I used to live in Encinitas.

Thank you xo. I used to live in Encinitas too, when I was dating my ex. We lived near stone steps and moonlight beach. Love the scenery, not a fan of the people.

I was living near the beach in Del Mar recently until I realized I had a covert narcissist for a housemate. I had to get out.
North county is beautiful scenery-wise but the people there are rude, manipulative assholes.

charlie61
04-16-2022, 09:54 AM
I'm watching a police interrogation (love me my crime episodes on youtube lol!) and the girl who killed her father brings up she's vegetarian randomly during the conversation.

In my head: BAHAHAHA not vegetarian anymore! You're about to enjoy a bologna sandwich without an option for many years.

Were you watching the YouTube channel Explore With Us? Weird name, but they're legit. They have almost 3 million subscribers, and the videos are made by a team of qualified experts. Longer videos, but really great interrogation breakdowns, edited very well...

indiegirl
04-16-2022, 05:00 PM
Were you watching the YouTube channel Explore With Us? Weird name, but they're legit. They have almost 3 million subscribers, and the videos are made by a team of qualified experts. Longer videos, but really great interrogation breakdowns, edited very well...

Yeppppp that is the newest one they released. OMG I have no words for the female child they interviewed. Stone. Cold!

indiegirl
04-16-2022, 05:05 PM
Had a "jumper" who was at my hotel way early this morning and was wondering what was going on after I kept hearing "What is your name!" over and over really loud towards a balcony. Saw the police uniform leaving when I semi woke up from my nap. I felt like sarcastically saying "girl, take me with you." Life is hard. But hell, you gotta drag your ass to the finish line at the end of the day.