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Marina Starr
04-22-2022, 07:21 PM
LoveyD has been really quiet these pass days. She always post religiously. I hope she's okay!
Genoveve
04-22-2022, 09:20 PM
My parents were not overprotective parents at all or helicopter parents or anything like that, especially not my dad. I could be bleeding from the eyes and he'd be like 'Yeah you're still going to school. Walk it off,' but he had this weird thing he always did where my sister and I were not allowed to go to school on 4-20, his reason being that since that's Hitler's birthday he always felt like some nutcase was going to purposely choose that day to shoot up a school--and this was before Columbine and school shootings were a thing. What's crazy is that Columbine ended up happening on 4-20, but it wasn't because of Hitler's birthday. They were actually planning it for the day before because 4-19 was the anniversary date of something else but their plan got messed up and they ended up having to execute it a day late.
But it cracks me up that 4-20 is weed day for everyone because for me it will always be Hitler day. :beady:
Dreamqueen
04-22-2022, 10:23 PM
Yeah it's chinese horoscope - https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/a35119928/chinese-zodiac-signs/
Mine is May 8th! :)
Mine is year of the pig.
What will you do to celebrate your birthday?
ravenskyy
04-22-2022, 10:38 PM
I'm not sure where to put my next tattoo. I've got a ton of space but I feel like no spot is right for it. I want to be able to see it, but I don't know if I want everyone else to see it. Meh.
Dreamqueen
04-22-2022, 11:10 PM
I bought that Lume deodorant (in the vanilla scent) hoping that it would be awesome since it's a non-toxic ingredient deodorant. The reality is that although it doesn't irritate me or give me a rash like other deodorants, it smells like Old Spice to me. I'm not sure I want to smell like an old man. Maybe I'll try a different scent next time.
My Dad wore Old Spice.
Not a fan of that smell.
I'm glad you mentioned this, because I heard it's great for the lady parts, especially in the summer.
I'm still on the hunt for something that will work when it's 120 degrees everyday.
Genoveve
04-22-2022, 11:24 PM
^^^Sweat Block would work in a sauna. It’s deodorant that comes in packets of moist towelettes, not cheap though.
naomi_doll
04-23-2022, 06:42 AM
Mine is year of the pig.
What will you do to celebrate your birthday?
I was going to go out of town, but I moved the date to June so a friend of mine could go too. So maybe just go out to dinner? What are your plans?
WonderWoman0642
04-23-2022, 07:39 AM
My parents were not overprotective parents at all or helicopter parents or anything like that, especially not my dad. I could be bleeding from the eyes and he'd be like 'Yeah you're still going to school. Walk it off,' but he had this weird thing he always did where my sister and I were not allowed to go to school on 4-20, his reason being that since that's Hitler's birthday he always felt like some nutcase was going to purposely choose that day to shoot up a school--and this was before Columbine and school shootings were a thing. What's crazy is that Columbine ended up happening on 4-20, but it wasn't because of Hitler's birthday. They were actually planning it for the day before because 4-19 was the anniversary date of something else but their plan got messed up and they ended up having to execute it a day late.
But it cracks me up that 4-20 is weed day for everyone because for me it will always be Hitler day. :beady:
Wow that is crazy. I didn't know they originally planned on the day before. Columbine happened when I was in 5th grade. And I remember thinking, wow this is really bad but it will never happen again. I was such a positive kid. Now when I hear about a school shooting, it doesn't surprise me at all which is sad.
WonderWoman0642
04-23-2022, 07:41 AM
I want to change my image. I read somewhere that our brands will change as we evolve. And I feel like that's happening to me. I've always done the cute and girly persona. Now I feel drawn to black lingerie, red lipstick and more of a vampy look? Hmm...I feel excited and overwhelmed lol.
indiegirl
04-23-2022, 09:00 AM
I want to change my image. I read somewhere that our brands will change as we evolve. And I feel like that's happening to me. I've always done the cute and girly persona. Now I feel drawn to black lingerie, red lipstick and more of a vampy look? Hmm...I feel excited and overwhelmed lol.
There is always men who love that look. LOL i went through that phase during the Twilight movie.
I stick with the chill skater type. But most want someone glam. Up to the individual to tell me what they want in email
Marina Starr
04-23-2022, 04:57 PM
Am I the only one that don't say hi first to people unless they say it to me? Depending on who it is but I don't like to say hi first. Short answer is because I don't want to.
I also don't say hi first because it's not important to me. I know this rubs a lot of people the wrong way and they take it personal.
When I go into a business, I'm so accustomed to being greeted first and that's how it's always been for me.
JGB2009
04-23-2022, 06:07 PM
Am I the only one that don't say hi first to people unless they say it to me? Depending on who it is but I don't like to say hi first. Short answer is because I don't want to.
I also don't say hi first because it's not important to me. I know this rubs a lot of people the wrong way and they take it personal.
When I go into a business, I'm so accustomed to being greeted first and that's how it's always been for me.
Ur not the only one and I am the same. It's just how I am. I don't mean nothing by it.
~Carmen~
04-23-2022, 10:52 PM
Am I the only one that don't say hi first to people unless they say it to me? Depending on who it is but I don't like to say hi first. Short answer is because I don't want to.
I also don't say hi first because it's not important to me. I know this rubs a lot of people the wrong way and they take it personal.
When I go into a business, I'm so accustomed to being greeted first and that's how it's always been for me.
It depends on the person. If they look nice and are smiling at me, I will say hi. For fuckboys? Never ever in 50 bazillion years.
~Carmen~
04-23-2022, 10:55 PM
My Dad wore Old Spice.
Not a fan of that smell.
I'm glad you mentioned this, because I heard it's great for the lady parts, especially in the summer.
I'm still on the hunt for something that will work when it's 120 degrees everyday.
My dad wore Old Spice and English Leather. English Leather was for special occasions. lol
AChildOfBoredom
04-23-2022, 11:03 PM
What a fun day. It was National Record Store Day, so we played a set at a local shop with some other bands. Much smaller place of course, but some of the people up front made a mini pit. And I should’ve brought the wireless mic, because those guys got caught on the cord and we all fell over, so I’m trying to finish the song while others work to get them untangled and lift me up. Then we all ended up going to a bar, once again with the TouchTunes jukebox, and I got a little sloshed since my sister was driving me anyhow. I’m sure her and the kid were entertained, because we queued up a bunch of songs to be silly. Started with the Muppets version of Bohemian Rhapsody of course, then someone played Goodbye Horses, so we all did the Buffalo Bill “mangina” pose (with clothes on, of course) and we danced when Disco Inferno, We Like To Party, and Apache came on. And of course it’s me and I dressed a little more nicely this time with a mid length skirt and a sleeveless button up blouse, along with three gutter punks and whoever else in the bar joined in on the fray.
It’s days like this that make me happy.
Dreamqueen
04-23-2022, 11:03 PM
I was going to go out of town, but I moved the date to June so a friend of mine could go too. So maybe just go out to dinner? What are your plans?
That sounds fun.
My birthday is bittersweet, because it's the same day that my Dad died 15 years ago.
It's also that cinco de mayo holiday, so everyone is out getting wasted.
I don't drink.
I play it by ear, depending on how I feel that day.
Last year I drove around and got all the freebies. You know, like Starbucks, Krispy Kreme, Free beauty item at CVS.
Most of my birthdays I'm not up to it, so I pretend my Dad is here. I buy all of his favorite foods, and we watch baseball, or a movie.
It's the same day as my grief group, so I might attend that.
Seems like they are the only people who get what this is like.
Marina Starr
04-24-2022, 10:00 AM
Mac Cosmetics is having a sale. 20% off two purchases. 30% off three purchases or more. Starts today and ends on 5/09. Online and in store.
I'll have to go to the mall later and get some goodies. Excited ;D!!!!!!!
I have soooo many lipsticks. I feel like I'm hoarding at this point. Will try not to buy more!
https://www.maccosmetics.com/offer-details
JGB2009
04-24-2022, 10:25 AM
When u put on a pair of jeans that look nice and your favorite ear rings. Today I feel pretty :-)
Marina Starr
04-24-2022, 10:32 AM
Yaaaaasssssss!
when u put on a pair of jeans that look nice and your favorite ear rings. today i feel pretty :-)
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-24-2022, 11:24 AM
What's a good name for a creepy fat dude? I don't have time to hit up Urban Dictionary today, gotta work later.
Genoveve
04-24-2022, 11:33 AM
^^Earl? Carl? Tucker?
naomi_doll
04-24-2022, 12:47 PM
That sounds fun.
My birthday is bittersweet, because it's the same day that my Dad died 15 years ago.
It's also that cinco de mayo holiday, so everyone is out getting wasted.
I don't drink.
I play it by ear, depending on how I feel that day.
Last year I drove around and got all the freebies. You know, like Starbucks, Krispy Kreme, Free beauty item at CVS.
Most of my birthdays I'm not up to it, so I pretend my Dad is here. I buy all of his favorite foods, and we watch baseball, or a movie.
It's the same day as my grief group, so I might attend that.
Seems like they are the only people who get what this is like.
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope no matter what, it is a peaceful day.
indiegirl
04-24-2022, 01:50 PM
what's a good name for a creepy fat dude? I don't have time to hit up urban dictionary today, gotta work later.
bob. 100%
Marina Starr
04-24-2022, 04:24 PM
Same! I've been told I'm incredibly rude but that doesn't bother. I honestly and truly don't care about being called rude on SW, on cam or in real life.
Ur not the only one and I am the same. It's just how I am. I don't mean nothing by it.
WendiStarr
04-24-2022, 07:01 PM
^ ^^^ Carl is definitely a gross, creepy fat guy name. Every time I hear of such a guy, I picture Carl from Aqua Teen Hunger Force. 57056
charlie61
04-24-2022, 09:51 PM
There are a few dumpster-fire threads going that mostly irritate me, but i just can't stop following along
Dreamqueen
04-24-2022, 10:07 PM
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope no matter what, it is a peaceful day.
Thank you for kind words.
Yes, a peaceful day is what I want too.
My Mom's birthday is on April 30. She's been gone for 5 years.
We always celebrated our birthdays together, and in a big way.
I am already feeling a little boo hoo about it.
I just signed up for Pineapple Support, because my mood is affecting my cam earnings.
That's no bueno.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-24-2022, 10:13 PM
Someone on reddit invented the term "Velcro Dog" to describe dogs with separation anxiety issues and it's so god damned brilliant. lolllllll
Marina Starr
04-25-2022, 06:49 AM
I thought I was going crazy not seeing all the important threads then this morning I saw they were at the top because they're very important threads, lmao.
Marina Starr
04-25-2022, 01:43 PM
I'm running errands today and rocking my 'Trans Rights Are Human Rights' and love seeing the reaction. Brings me real joy seeing so many panties twisted.
It's always a mix of reactions from confused, amazed, turned on and horrified. My therapist asked if I ever have any hesitation dressing like that. I told her never.
I wasn't born for subtlety so it's very important for me to own it, love it and live it.
https://i.ibb.co/3cCnwB6/1d8e183400a4dbdd990b9edf24deca39db7314c61229de4145 3e33036d2d7de0-1.jpg (https://imgbb.com/)
carmen_b
04-25-2022, 01:45 PM
My dogs little face is probably the thumbnail photo haha.
Someone on reddit invented the term "Velcro Dog" to describe dogs with separation anxiety issues and it's so god damned brilliant. lolllllll
lurkingtitties
04-25-2022, 02:54 PM
I found a YouTube channel called Cinema Therapy. It’s a licensed therapist and his buddy watching movies and dissecting the relationships in the movies.
They have a whole playlist about the Twilight saga…I’ve been watching it since last night and cracking tf up!
whirlerz
04-25-2022, 03:24 PM
There are a few dumpster-fire threads going that mostly irritate me, but i just can't stop following along
You're so cute charlie!^
Ps I got my skincare we talked about, I'm to lazy to start it , & I need to!
Wow, they gave me 4% tretoin
charlie61
04-25-2022, 07:59 PM
You're so cute charlie!^
Ps I got my skincare we talked about, I'm to lazy to start it , & I need to!
Wow, they gave me 4% tretoin
You mean .04%, i hope??
AChildOfBoredom
04-25-2022, 08:28 PM
Fucking bustards got me good today. They know I have like practically no tolerance for caffeine. So one of my coworkers wanted me to try these “candies” he had. They were chocolate covered coffee beans. Now to plot my revenge, because I don’t get even - I get ahead.
chanzep
04-25-2022, 08:50 PM
So I have a weird marshmallow thing going on tonight probably because i want comfort. I have marshmallow body spray, then lit marshmallow fireside candle and just put the hand wash in my bathroom.
This is weird because it's one of my least used scents I had all this stuff over year.
~Carmen~
04-25-2022, 11:51 PM
So I have a weird marshmallow thing going on tonight probably because i want comfort. I have marshmallow body spray, then lit marshmallow fireside candle and just put the hand wash in my bathroom.
This is weird because it's one of my least used scents I had all this stuff over year.
Marshmallows on top of hot chocolate is very comforting.
WendiStarr
04-26-2022, 09:29 AM
I wish I could find real monkey face orchid flower seeds. They look so cool but I know they'd hate the climate of where I live so they wouldn't grow at all.57062
~Carmen~
04-26-2022, 09:47 AM
I wish I could find real monkey face orchid flower seeds. They look so cool but I know they'd hate the climate of where I live so they wouldn't grow at all.57062
I have never seen those. They sure do look like monkeys. lol
Genoveve
04-26-2022, 03:01 PM
So I have a weird marshmallow thing going on tonight probably because i want comfort. I have marshmallow body spray, then lit marshmallow fireside candle and just put the hand wash in my bathroom.
This is weird because it's one of my least used scents I had all this stuff over year.
This is so funny to me because recently I got reminded of all the walmart body sprays I used to buy as a teenager and I have been hunting for the marshmallow one but so far I can only find it on Amazon for $35. I thought this looked interesting but I ain't paying $15+ for a cheap bodyspray especially not when it has 1 star: https://www.walmart.com/ip/Toasted-Marshmallow-Body-Spray-8-ounces/408655572
AChildOfBoredom
04-26-2022, 07:36 PM
Marshmallows still don’t sit well with me. When I was much younger, we didn’t watch a lot of movies, except when we went to visit ‘English’ relatives. So I was completely unprepared and a bit traumatized by the Sta-Puff Marshmallow Man in Ghostbusters.
chanzep
04-26-2022, 08:29 PM
The one I use is Fireside flurries from Bath and bodyworks.
Dreamqueen
04-27-2022, 01:23 AM
My new security camera is catching some 'interesting' things.
Early this afternoon it alerted me to activity happening outside.
When I played back the video, I saw my neighbor sneaking next door to the new guy's apt.
An hour later, I got another alert.
She was leaving his apt looking disheveled with messy hair. :rotfl::reporter::magnify::
I love it!
Its like As the world turns over here.
Or Peyton Place.
Who knew all this debauchery goes on while I'm camming?
Can't wait to see what else it records.
smeca
04-27-2022, 07:37 AM
I was looking for strip clubs in my new nearest city, considering a night out, and one of them had opening hours of 5pm-10pm. Got excited thinking i could work it with my day job and still be in bed nice and early :D ...but it was just the temporary hours during covid (when the gov here briefly told bars to shut by 10pm to stop the spread¿¿¿) It seems to be open till 6am womp womp
Marina Starr
04-27-2022, 07:55 AM
Hell yeah, lol! This is why I love my dashcam. It picks up on so much fuckery on the road. People tend to think twice people doing stupid shit when they know what they do will be on videos. Evidence videos don't lie!
My new security camera is catching some 'interesting' things.
Early this afternoon it alerted me to activity happening outside.
When I played back the video, I saw my neighbor sneaking next door to the new guy's apt.
An hour later, I got another alert.
She was leaving his apt looking disheveled with messy hair. :rotfl::reporter::magnify::
I love it!
Its like As the world turns over here.
Or Peyton Place.
Who knew all this debauchery goes on while I'm camming?
Can't wait to see what else it records.
carmen_b
04-27-2022, 07:56 AM
Busted.
She just couldn't resist that nearby sausage ! :)
My new security camera is catching some 'interesting' things.
Early this afternoon it alerted me to activity happening outside.
When I played back the video, I saw my neighbor sneaking next door to the new guy's apt.
An hour later, I got another alert.
She was leaving his apt looking disheveled with messy hair. :rotfl::reporter::magnify::
I love it!
Its like As the world turns over here.
Or Peyton Place.
Who knew all this debauchery goes on while I'm camming?
Can't wait to see what else it records.
carmen_b
04-27-2022, 07:56 AM
You never know. They might with you.
I'm almost always at my club 4-11.
I was looking for strip clubs in my new nearest city, considering a night out, and one of them had opening hours of 5pm-10pm. Got excited thinking i could work it with my day job and still be in bed nice and early :D ...but it was just the temporary hours during covid (when the gov here briefly told bars to shut by 10pm to stop the spread¿¿¿) It seems to be open till 6am womp womp
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-27-2022, 09:35 AM
I can share this here since it's private-
My grieving process for my friend that killed herself is almost over and I've been blessed with remembering the happier memories we have in common. For example, she had a really dysfunctional family & her mother did something rotten to her so one day we were together at her apartment & we made fun of her mother leaving an attention seeking message on her answering machine. It was a tiny bit of revenge for all the shit her mom put her through. This memory kind of popped up after I got an eyeful of her mom's social media feed.
I think if my friend had just cut her family off when she turned 18 she'd still be alive. Her parents were losers. Hell it was a miracle she got to be 18.
My friend lives on in my memory. I'll plant some marigolds for her this year. She had the most beautiful red hair. She was a beautiful person.
Genoveve
04-27-2022, 09:55 AM
I can share this here since it's private-
My grieving process for my friend that killed herself is almost over and I've been blessed with remembering the happier memories we have in common. For example, she had a really dysfunctional family & her mother did something rotten to her so one day we were together at her apartment & we made fun of her mother leaving an attention seeking message on her answering machine. It was a tiny bit of revenge for all the shit her mom put her through. This memory kind of popped up after I got an eyeful of her mom's social media feed.
I think if my friend had just cut her family off when she turned 18 she'd still be alive. Her parents were losers. Hell it was a miracle she got to be 18.
My friend lives on in my memory. I'll plant some marigolds for her this year. She had the most beautiful red hair. She was a beautiful person.
https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdVPnr7t/
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-27-2022, 10:02 AM
https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdVPnr7t/
This is beautiful, thank you for sharing.