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carmen_b
09-18-2022, 12:42 PM
I put my work out off for 45 min. thinking a client wanted to speak to me via phone ( I wanted quiet not a gym environment ).
Rescheduling, grrrr
:(

Sometimes being in sales ..... bleh.

chanzep
09-18-2022, 10:08 PM
I am staying up and taking day off for Queens funeral tommorow. I stay up late on days off anyway and it starts 5 am my time.

Dreamqueen
09-19-2022, 12:03 PM
https://youtu.be/U9W_JQXuN08

Good Lord, what's next?
Sept 24th videos are all over the net.
I'm a prepper, and have been for several years, yet I've never experienced anything like they are predicting.
Even though the Simpsons put out predictive programming truths, I hate that people live in fear.

Most videos say that the internet will go down for 10 days. Banks, tv, phones will be down.
That the military will play a video on tv that explains what is happening.

Please.
Do it!
It would be nice not to have to pay rent or bills for a while.
::)

carmen_b
09-19-2022, 12:25 PM
^ I'd honestly love it if the grid went dark for 10 days hahaha.

Aurora_Sunset
09-19-2022, 12:49 PM
If a good TV series has a really good series finale, I like to go back and rewatch the first episode right after. It's always fun to see how things started vs. how they ended side-by-side and revisit the introduction to these characters that I've grown to love on their journey.

Dreamqueen
09-19-2022, 01:11 PM
^ I'd honestly love it if the grid went dark for 10 days hahaha.
Ikr?
Although, tell that to the people of Mexico right now.
They just had a huge quake.
7.6. For them Sept 24th just came early.
Yikes.
It's the same day they got hit by 2 other quakes.
And Taiwan.
My conspiracy theorists friends are saying that the military is blasting out the underground evil people.
Yeah, ok.
::)

indiegirl
09-19-2022, 03:03 PM
https://www.tmz.com/2022/09/19/meteorologist-fired-adult-webcam-website-gay/

Has anyone heard about this meteorologist who got fired for camming?! How is that even legal? It had nothing to do with his normal 9-5 job?

whirlerz
09-19-2022, 03:10 PM
No.
Going to read the link you posted..

It probably isn't legal but that doesn't stop companies from pulling shit.

My former roomie was on a site camming he's not gay but said he did well.
He was good w/tech stuff too.

Aurora_Sunset
09-19-2022, 03:16 PM
^^Just saw a TikTok from a woman talking about how she was fired from a PRN nursing home job for doing OF as her main income. The employer even admitted that she couldn't fire her "for that." But the other nurses were constantly talking about it, using their time on the clock to PAY for her site and look at pictures of her - and her employer considered that disruptive... So, instead of firing THEM, she fired the OF model, telling her that "they needed their jobs more than she did."

indiegirl
09-19-2022, 03:44 PM
^^Just saw a TikTok from a woman talking about how she was fired from a PRN nursing home job for doing OF as her main income. The employer even admitted that she couldn't fire her "for that." But the other nurses were constantly talking about it, using their time on the clock to PAY for her site and look at pictures of her - and her employer considered that disruptive... So, instead of firing THEM, she fired the OF model, telling her that "they needed their jobs more than she did."

How did they find out? Is it because it shows up when you pay taxes or was she completely honest?

Kind of hoping I can keep that private and was worried that would happen to me when doing taxes. Is there a way for a hospital to not found out?

seashell
09-19-2022, 04:24 PM
^Ugh... such awful double standards. As if those gossiping coworkers won't be "distracted" by whatever else comes their way in the future.

I was just thinking about going back to teaching full-time, but honestly this is exactly what I'm worried about.

carmen_b
09-19-2022, 04:32 PM
^ I hope the preformer finds a fantastic lawyer and sues them !
Disgusting !

There was a successful law suit last year ( nursing student ) against a university in Oregon for harassment of an adult content creator.
Look it up! I heard her story on a Podcast and was cheering out loud in my car ( she got 1.7 Million ) !
I think the woman who started her harassment also lost a ton of her benefits and possibly got fired.

carmen_b
09-19-2022, 04:33 PM
Seashell :

I think you could teach but I understand the risk factors !

carmen_b
09-19-2022, 05:47 PM
Fail ! Firing the one DOING their job and keeping those ones LOOKING AT PORN AT WORK. Idiots.


^^Just saw a TikTok from a woman talking about how she was fired from a PRN nursing home job for doing OF as her main income. The employer even admitted that she couldn't fire her "for that." But the other nurses were constantly talking about it, using their time on the clock to PAY for her site and look at pictures of her - and her employer considered that disruptive... So, instead of firing THEM, she fired the OF model, telling her that "they needed their jobs more than she did."

TheBrownFox
09-19-2022, 07:52 PM
How did they find out? Is it because it shows up when you pay taxes or was she completely honest?

Kind of hoping I can keep that private and was worried that would happen to me when doing taxes. Is there a way for a hospital to not found out?


OnlyFans comes up as "Fenix Internet" in the direct deposit payments and tax stuff, and I can't think of a reason that a hospital or nursing home job would even need to see your tax stuff or proof of income from other sources. That's something you would show to people when trying to rent an apartment or get a loan or applying for college financial aid or show to your tax preparer or something. I'm guessing that the woman made the mistake of telling a blabbermouth coworker(s) that she's on OF...AND even showed them her OF screen name. And the cackling lil' witches probably started obsessing over her page and lowkey hating, secretly wishing that it was them making that WORK FROM HOME money. It sucks that she got fired...after all that studying she did in that field in order to get that job, and all that work she did. This is why non-adult industry bitches do not need to be having access to your direct screen name/profile page.

That b.s. right there is just one more reason I prefer to use the geoblock feature on these sites.

carmen_b
09-19-2022, 08:03 PM
^ Man I hope someone wouldn't out themselves but I could see that happening.
I plan on suing if I get a whiff of discrimination anywhere lol.
I've got time to spare hahaha.
I'm heavily closeted so should be safe but you just NEVER know these days.

carmen_b
09-19-2022, 08:11 PM
I have some day job clients wanting to push back their service with us like 24 full hours. It's a weird request ( the industry is really precise for times / days ) but actually ..... I'm totally fine with it . It would give me an extra day on the ground with my dude. Him being back in town only three full days so far and me leaving tomorrow was throwing us. Also .... I was super lazy and didn't book the hotel yet required for their job . It might cause more stress if I paid for the room yet but I haven't .

AChildOfBoredom
09-19-2022, 11:50 PM
I'm so surprised a lesbian was so out there and forceful ! Like ..... it always seems like women are so much more subtle than men !

I’ve encountered all sorts. It’s not exactly unheard of for women working in this field to bat for that particular team. Truth be known, I still place more trust in them than I do with dudes. S and her girlfriend have slept in my bed before. Times I was feeling down, they’d just kinda sandwich me between them. My coworker and her wife, we’ve all slept in the same bed also. Ended up doing the same at the hotel, because she found it difficult to sleep on the pull out sofa bed. Even “Lizard” (I ended up just calling her Liz), I really wasn’t worried about. Pretty much any dude would expect something like that meant they were getting their dick wet. I suppose I’ve been a little unfair to lesbians in that regard. But growing up in a Mennonite community, homosexuality was something so taboo as to not be spoken of or acknowledged, so I wasn’t really prepared for that. My own mother freaked out when she found out S and my sister were sharing a room, and she was worried that S would put moves on my sister, because it was as foreign to her as it was to me.

Saturday was poorly planned. Did a show with K in the afternoon, but I had a show with my band that night. The place with K was a bit more upscale, so I wore a skirt and a nice top and I expected I’d have time to go home and change before then next show. Called that one wrong… barely got there on time for our set, couldn’t really get into the thick of things with the audience as I didn’t even get to change into a sports bra, though with what I was wearing, I wouldn’t have gotten into the pit even if I had. Felt a bit more elegant wearing it, but definitely not the right time and place to be. I was certainly better dressed than the band whose members were all on stage in bondage gear.



How is that even legal?

”Employment at will”. In most states you can be terminated for anything which isn’t a violation of federal (and state) nondiscrimination laws. I suppose my feelings on it are mixed. As you pointed out, it means you can be fired for doing things not related to your employment with your company. But it’s one of those things where people against it will do a 180 when such a story involves someone they have spite towards.

whirlerz
09-20-2022, 12:11 AM
^^Just saw a TikTok from a woman talking about how she was fired from a PRN nursing home job for doing OF as her main income. The employer even admitted that she couldn't fire her "for that." But the other nurses were constantly talking about it, using their time on the clock to PAY for her site and look at pictures of her - and her employer considered that disruptive... So, instead of firing THEM, she fired the OF model, telling her that "they needed their jobs more than she did."

That's beyond fucked up, tho not surprising.. I worked previously in a regular job but in a sex related industry, some one saw me in a club, the rumors swirled, til a bitch confronted me & I told her off, I was also accused of flashing people w/no underwear, yeah Riiiight::)

Aurora_Sunset
09-20-2022, 06:32 AM
How did they find out? Is it because it shows up when you pay taxes or was she completely honest?

Kind of hoping I can keep that private and was worried that would happen to me when doing taxes. Is there a way for a hospital to not found out?

I think because she has been working on amassing a large social media following (Instagram, TikTok) in order to grow her OF, those accounts/videos popped up as suggestions to her coworkers. They tend to "recommend" your profile to your phone contacts unless you turn it off - but I have turned my TikTok settings to "Do NOT sync my contacts" MULTIPLE times, and yet, a couple months later, it's toggled back on automatically. They probably were in her phone for work, a video where she talks about it was "recommended" to them, and they proceeded to blab to each other and look her up. I think she said she didn't even realize they knew until her employer said that they had "known for awhile" but had been "ignoring it because she wasn't that big on social media yet."

carmen_b
09-20-2022, 02:57 PM
My client DID move their thing 24 hours back on the calendar ! Yeah for one more day at home.
I'm changing my " base " price for anything involving travel ( of more than a few hours drive ) to a much larger " minimum " .
I am realizing the travel jobs are causing me stress ( at least this one is where I had quoted haha ) !

carmen_b
09-20-2022, 03:20 PM
^ This might sound odd to say but I was always afraid to ask $2500 for jobs that take me 6-8 hours EACH way to drive to. That is a hotel and gas cost of $300.
I just made the change to ONLY $2500 and $3,000 service options for a drive that long.
I still had 2k options up and was feeling dread like ...... I don't want someone to actually buy this!
Locally sure ...... but involving travel ...... no.
It's changed on the website now and I'm glad.

Hopefully people will book at the new rates because it's a $500 jump.
With the higher rate I think I can more easily bribe my partner to go WITH also haha.
Selling the idea of 3-4 days away to him ( one where I'm working 5-8 hours ) is easier if it's like " oh we have $500-$700 to spend on the hotel " v.s. my travel style solo ( going as cheaply as possible hahah ). If we took his electric car it would save the gas $ haha. I just need the more luxury element present to effectively bribe him. The current travel style provides very little temptation to join.

He's only gone on ONE of my travel jobs and I've gone on ALL of his except one ( where I had a client in the time frame )!

I am realizing if I ever come up here again in within the next 12 months ( a posh spot in Wyoming ) I need a $800-1k travel fee.
I couldn't afford to stay anywhere near town !

WendiStarr
09-21-2022, 03:05 PM
Trauma bonds are no joke. I asked my therapist about how I can break it and he suggested an emotional abuse workbook.

carmen_b
09-22-2022, 06:53 PM
My day job customers are doing that equivalent of the club being PACKED and people are tipping $2 on stage here and there and NOT buying dances. :(

I pulled my car over mutiple times today to call and text clients.
There is about 6 new inquiries on the last 3 days and that is BUSY for us.
I think I got 4 to the contract and invoice phase ( they are not booked unless this is paid ).

ALL 4 seem to be hosting a full on camp out with smores and hot dogs on these unpaid invoices .
I'm wondering if I had weird vibes and was rushing people or something ( just because it was this big batch of new people and hard to keep track of even with detailed notes ).

I mean .... gratitude for the first half of the month.
I did good. I just wanted the 2nd half to sizzle too.

I mean .... *someone* has to bite ...... it would just be really weird odds to get THAT many leads and not a bite.

AChildOfBoredom
09-23-2022, 04:57 AM
My coworker - the other woman on the shop floor - had to spend last night in the hospital. Her and another tech were trying to test case pressure on a hydraulic motor, but they plugged the case drain in the process and that led to a catastrophic failure which included a large piece of that case hitting her in the ribs at a very high velocity. Really wish they would’ve had me look it over before they started that unit because I’d have red flagged that right away… I’m among the top 1% of hydraulic diagnostic techs in all of North America. And it’s overall a very poorly understood and highly dangerous field, but it’s not treated as such, and so a lot of bad training and design regarding fluid power systems is out there. 6,000 PSI can very easily turn a good day into a bad day, as they found out.

Anyhow, I grabbed our van, put her in the back, ran her to the hospital, then I called her wife. She’s alright, but her ribs took a beating. She called this morning and was cracking jokes. We let her wife stay here, because she was having a complete meltdown and we figured it would be best if she was in the company if people who could offer her comfort and support.

If this cloud has a silver lining, maybe those shitgibbons upstairs will finally pay attention when I talk about additional measures for hydraulic system safety. I’d been advocating for them to specify all hydraulic couplers which aren’t quick connect be SAE flat face o-ring type and definitely no tapered pipe fittings, installing Safe-T-Bleed valves on our equipment, etc.

Jucie
09-23-2022, 07:57 AM
This hotel I booked for the weekend is even better than I thought. You should have seen my daughter’s face when we arrived, she’s used to stay in motel style accommodation, but not this time!

carmen_b
09-23-2022, 03:10 PM
I'm so paranoid I did the " wanna dance " to my day job customers lol !

The next time we get a new person I'll just shoot the breeze for at least 5-6 min. until I get into any of the service details ect. !

LoveyD
09-24-2022, 07:37 AM
I'm at Starbucks now and a little while earlier they were three cops sitting at a table next to me. I've never wanted to fart so much in my life!

AChildOfBoredom
09-24-2022, 09:43 PM
Has the pigs!

Seven years ago, a couple guys I’d been in bands with and I were putting a band together, and we had scratch tracks recorded and everything, then things kinda fizzled out. The one guy (also the one who bought me the ticket to see Deicide) is friends with the owner of a brewery which had an anniversary for something or the other today, so he found some sort of renewed drive to see our failed project through. This came up a couple months ago. Well, the bassist for that ended up moving to New Mexico since, so it was just going to be on guitars, him on bass, and we’d split vocals between us. But of all people, K volunteered to do the bass. And I was skeptical… she plays guitar (including bass, plus some other instruments)… remember, she’s an actual professionally trained musician, and she is quite hipster, so her in a metal band… it’s just not something you can really see happening. At the same time, she loves music and making music, and I knew she could do it. And she killed it. She really reworked the bass tracks and made them her own and actually seemed to have a great time playing this set. She even went out of her way to look the part, by which I mean she wore a black dress. Me, I don’t give a shit, and I’ll just wear a casual dress like I normally do. So we’re looking the way we do in a place where black clothing, lots of ink, and making it known to all that you adhere to the principle is treated as the law, but nobody’s talking shit to us, because in this scene they either know me or know of me. So it’s the two of us contrasted by two really grizzled looking dudes in their 40s on stage with us. This is a bit milder of a venue… the stage area is outdoors between the brewery and someone’s property, and you could see the owners of the neighboring property and their children watching from the upper balcony of their house. What surprised me was that K agreed to go to the studio if we get this thing recorded. Never thought she’d go for it. Not sure if she’s just having my back here or if I’ve corrupted her.

Oh, yes… gotta add this… why does it seem like every other metal band composed entirely of women just HAS to have “Lilith” in their band name? Talk about some cliché shit.

kimbe
09-25-2022, 12:18 AM
I'm driving T's new electric car on my weekend trip due to the mentioned tyre issue. While I can enjoy the high techs and performance of the car, I'm not fully comfortable having to deal with charging. Suspension also feels too "stiff".
The upside; my car probably gets 4 new tires while I'm gone ;)

carmen_b
09-25-2022, 07:37 AM
possibly copyright infringement too ( was it NIN or perfect circle that had the lilith song ) ? One of them.

YES leave that name out total cliche.


Has the pigs!

Seven years ago, a couple guys I’d been in bands with and I were putting a band together, and we had scratch tracks recorded and everything, then things kinda fizzled out. The one guy (also the one who bought me the ticket to see Deicide) is friends with the owner of a brewery which had an anniversary for something or the other today, so he found some sort of renewed drive to see our failed project through. This came up a couple months ago. Well, the bassist for that ended up moving to New Mexico since, so it was just going to be on guitars, him on bass, and we’d split vocals between us. But of all people, K volunteered to do the bass. And I was skeptical… she plays guitar (including bass, plus some other instruments)… remember, she’s an actual professionally trained musician, and she is quite hipster, so her in a metal band… it’s just not something you can really see happening. At the same time, she loves music and making music, and I knew she could do it. And she killed it. She really reworked the bass tracks and made them her own and actually seemed to have a great time playing this set. She even went out of her way to look the part, by which I mean she wore a black dress. Me, I don’t give a shit, and I’ll just wear a casual dress like I normally do. So we’re looking the way we do in a place where black clothing, lots of ink, and making it known to all that you adhere to the principle is treated as the law, but nobody’s talking shit to us, because in this scene they either know me or know of me. So it’s the two of us contrasted by two really grizzled looking dudes in their 40s on stage with us. This is a bit milder of a venue… the stage area is outdoors between the brewery and someone’s property, and you could see the owners of the neighboring property and their children watching from the upper balcony of their house. What surprised me was that K agreed to go to the studio if we get this thing recorded. Never thought she’d go for it. Not sure if she’s just having my back here or if I’ve corrupted her.

Oh, yes… gotta add this… why does it seem like every other metal band composed entirely of women just HAS to have “Lilith” in their band name? Talk about some cliché shit.

buttonpop
09-25-2022, 07:39 PM
I had too much caffeine and I'm crawling out of my skin. ugh. this is the most miserable feeling. and all I had was 1 latte, which I usually drink everyday without issue, but this coffee shop had some seriously strong coffee.

indiegirl
09-25-2022, 10:28 PM
I had too much caffeine and I'm crawling out of my skin. ugh. this is the most miserable feeling. and all I had was 1 latte, which I usually drink everyday without issue, but this coffee shop had some seriously strong coffee.

That is the worssssst feeling. :(!

I don't drink coffee at all anymore. Over time, I've become jittery and extremely anxious to the point my life feels absolutely miserable after drinking even a little bit of coffee. Miss the days I could drink coffee. Those days are gone. Now if I'm tired, I have to tolerate my misery before and during class. LOL.

Dreamqueen
09-25-2022, 11:27 PM
I had too much caffeine and I'm crawling out of my skin. ugh. this is the most miserable feeling. and all I had was 1 latte, which I usually drink everyday without issue, but this coffee shop had some seriously strong coffee.

I drink very strong coffee, and I'm usually never affected by the caffeine.

When I was living in the city, one of those gourmet coffee trucks opened across the street from my apt.

That coffee made me feel like I was tripping, and I had the worst palpitations.
I took it over to the supermarket where a friend of mine worked.
She was a recovering alcoholic, and after 1 sip swore that there was alcohol in it.
Wild.
Maybe there was.
I am allergic to alcohol and was very off kilter from that coffee.

I hope you feel better.

miss.a.p1600
09-26-2022, 04:11 AM
^reminds me of the time I thought I was invincible and drank two venti coffees

My ass had a damn panic attack

No bueno

Dreamqueen
09-26-2022, 11:17 AM
^reminds me of the time I thought I was invincible and drank two venti coffees

My ass had a damn panic attack

No bueno


Oh shit! Yup. That'll do it.

NitaBaby
09-26-2022, 11:29 AM
I have no idea who I want to be when I grow up.

I'm 31 but sheesh. I still haven't figured it out.

Genoveve
09-26-2022, 11:50 AM
possibly copyright infringement too ( was it NIN or perfect circle that had the lilith song ) ? One of them.

Neither of them has a Lilith song that I’m aware of. APC has one called Judith. Agree with ‘Lilith’ being overused as hell.

Genoveve
09-26-2022, 11:55 AM
^reminds me of the time I thought I was invincible and drank two venti coffees

My ass had a damn panic attack

No bueno

When I first started making Cuban espresso I had no idea how much an actual shot was and was just guesstimating. Months into it I decided to actually google and measure and I discovered that I was drinking like 6-8 shots at a time. This was also the period of time where I developed driving panic attacks. :spin:

AChildOfBoredom
09-26-2022, 01:08 PM
My former roommate, back in 2016, his girlfriend at the time wanted him to do the whole ‘no shave November’ thing, so he did. I think it was a better look for him (and definitely would be once he got into trimming it and such), but he got rid of it as soon as December rolled around. So for whatever reason, he got the idea in his head to grow it out again, but he’s bitching because some of it’s coming in grey this time. I mean, he turns 42 next month, so what the hell is he expecting? Just kinda annoys me that ever since turning 40, he’s had this negative attitude about it as if it’s all over and he’s over the hill, and I have to wonder how much that played into his decision to go fight in Ukraine and damn near get killed over there. I know it wasn’t his only reason, but I feel like it had to be. Kinda wish he’d come around and see it in a different light. Hell, even in the band I’m in, I’m the youngest at 32… rest of the band members range from 45 to 49, and they’re not letting it slow them down. I wouldn’t worry about it, but this is someone I actually do give a shit about.

chanzep
09-26-2022, 03:48 PM
I hope everyone in the path of the hurricane will be ok.

whirlerz
09-26-2022, 04:08 PM
I hope everyone in the path of the hurricane will be ok.

Yes, exactly!

carmen_b
09-26-2022, 04:38 PM
Damn I feel like I'm on one today.
Maybe late PMS.

I felt SO triggered by this FaceBook group.
An event was created and I got an invite and I know my partners ex is in that group ( my partner invited me to it when her account was not active ).

Something about it just pisses me off.
I am not that interested in what the group does ( it seems like they meet over coffee ) .
WHY did my partner EVER invite me to this group ?
Did it not occur to him that I might want " fresh " friends lol ?

I think it started as a support group for leaving a certain church .
We were in a cult . We escaped. The end.
I guess more support is needed by folks haha ?
My stripper money was enough support.

I need to open the group to hit the leave button lol.

EDIT TO ADD : Some of these people were at my house too ! Granted it's been a year and J hasn't done THAT again thank goddess.

carmen_b
09-26-2022, 05:47 PM
If he is worried about age stuff he should keep the beard at 1/4 inch and use the just for men products. Seriously.
Long beards and the grays are super aging. You can't tell a dude what to do with his face I suppose ( outside the bedroom heh ) but it would be the best !


My former roommate, back in 2016, his girlfriend at the time wanted him to do the whole ‘no shave November’ thing, so he did. I think it was a better look for him (and definitely would be once he got into trimming it and such), but he got rid of it as soon as December rolled around. So for whatever reason, he got the idea in his head to grow it out again, but he’s bitching because some of it’s coming in grey this time. I mean, he turns 42 next month, so what the hell is he expecting? Just kinda annoys me that ever since turning 40, he’s had this negative attitude about it as if it’s all over and he’s over the hill, and I have to wonder how much that played into his decision to go fight in Ukraine and damn near get killed over there. I know it wasn’t his only reason, but I feel like it had to be. Kinda wish he’d come around and see it in a different light. Hell, even in the band I’m in, I’m the youngest at 32… rest of the band members range from 45 to 49, and they’re not letting it slow them down. I wouldn’t worry about it, but this is someone I actually do give a shit about.

AChildOfBoredom
09-27-2022, 12:23 PM
Well, I’ll pass that along at some point. I think he’s a little annoyed with me right now for calling him Old Man Gloom.

moneybags
09-27-2022, 12:51 PM
In my nursing book, sex is listed as a basic human need. Why wouldn’t we make it commercially available? We sell food, water, and shelter?

This is my problem. If sex is a human need why are we shaming sex workers. Honestly why are we shaming men. Im mad at my doctor, but honestly when conservative women are frigid I’m not surprised that conservative men light up like a Christmas tree around me. Im probably one of the few sexually liberated-maybe only one they’ve known their entire adult like. Of course I set professional boundaries, but I’m not exactly mad at men for being horn balls. There just needs to be consent and an equal energy exchange-money. It’s not okay to lie or manipulate women to get sexual attention If sex was legal to buy then men could see a sex worker instead of damaging women who are looking for love.

carmen_b
09-27-2022, 01:41 PM
^ Men tend to pay for it in one way or another. We should just give them access to all the ways.

carmen_b
09-27-2022, 01:51 PM
Did I fuck my body up only taking two of the four fake pills in this Birth Control pack ?

Damn it.
I was trying to create a lighter two day period and the thing has been dragging on for like 5 days so obviously my attempt didn't work. I need to chat with my Dr. about just taking the pills straight through for 2 months .

indiegirl
09-27-2022, 06:07 PM
In my nursing book, sex is listed as a basic human need. Why wouldn’t we make it commercially available? We sell food, water, and shelter?

This is my problem. If sex is a human need why are we shaming sex workers. Honestly why are we shaming men. Im mad at my doctor, but honestly when conservative women are frigid I’m not surprised that conservative men light up like a Christmas tree around me. Im probably one of the few sexually liberated-maybe only one they’ve known their entire adult like. Of course I set professional boundaries, but I’m not exactly mad at men for being horn balls. There just needs to be consent and an equal energy exchange-money. It’s not okay to lie or manipulate women to get sexual attention If sex was legal to buy then men could see a sex worker instead of damaging women who are looking for love.

I think of the mentally and physically disabled. They don't get a bunch of pussy. They order it. Should be legal here. I feel sorry for them :(. I've been paid by someone's parents and he is an adult. Girll I feel like laws should be there for those who are disabled mentally or physically. What a lonely life being alone forever and not having some sort of connection for even an hour with someone in person.

carmen_b
09-27-2022, 06:58 PM
Agreed. I assume most of us here are pro sexual surrogacy !
There was this fantastic movie about it too , I'll have to look it up and link it .