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LoveyD
01-12-2023, 04:04 PM
There's an apt for rent in my complex.
$1900 plus utilities for a shoe box ( 500 sq ft).
I feel bad for the person who takes it.
They will never be able to use their patio, because it's flanked with 2 smokers who are out there 24/7 on their phones. This is a non smoking building.
Add to that, their is a smoker hanging over the railing at the 2 story apt building next door. He's out there 24/7 too, and has a constant cough.
No pets allowed, but they will have to put up with a horrible inconsiderate woman in the unit across from them who lets her dog stand outside and bark at nothing from 3 am until 6 am., and randomly throughout the day.
She also lets her 10 cats shit and puke on your patio.
Nice.
The ad states that you must prove that you make 3x the rent.
Why not rent a house for a few hundred more?
Welcome to the nut house.:spin::crazy::loco:
Screw that, I'd rather live in a safe lot in my car for free! LOL
carmen_b
01-12-2023, 04:48 PM
^ Yup.
I'll Rover and annoy my family crashing at their places.
Ha.
If it's $1900 it's got to be a mortgage / ownership.
carmen_b
01-12-2023, 04:51 PM
Ski Resort cutie just sent something about tonight.
I just can't.
I just can't do same day.
I think it is so annoying in the early stages.
Oh i read the whole text. It did mention " interested in getting together ? Or maybe a phone call if you are busy ?
That's softer I guess than " be ready with NO notice ".
WendiStarr
01-12-2023, 05:45 PM
Anyone ever get Kybella? I've been doing a lot of photoshoots lately and it bothers me how from certain angles I look like I have a double chin. I'm skinny, yet fat goes there for some reason. It's very unflattering.
LoveyD
01-12-2023, 07:32 PM
^^ a girl I used to work with at the club had Kybella. First she said that she swelled up like a bullfrog, then it looked really good afterwards.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-12-2023, 09:37 PM
Kinda feel bad for my new roommate. I think she was trying to get away from a bad relationship by renting this room and she signed a 3 month rental agreement. She lasted like 2 or 3 weeks and once it got near Christmas, she hasn't been back to the house since. I think she got lured to get back with the toxic guy. But she's still required to pay the remaining month left in February.
I feel bad but at the same time I am not in charge of people's life decisions. They're just supposed to be here to rent.
Honestly good for her for doing that.
Even if she's making a momentary dumb decisions, the fact she made a move to leave is good.
Random thought- gas pain, back pain, brain pain ole!
indiegirl
01-12-2023, 10:27 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G7KNmW9a75Y&t=186s
Love this new Miley Cyrus song. I'm saving this song for any future boyfriends or break ups lol.
carmen_b
01-13-2023, 08:32 AM
I'm tempted too to get it.
I think it can just be bad angles though too ( everyone knows you shoot pics ABOVE the eye line ).
Well .... not everyone. The ones who don't know that are the ones giving that extra chin look.
Anyone ever get Kybella? I've been doing a lot of photoshoots lately and it bothers me how from certain angles I look like I have a double chin. I'm skinny, yet fat goes there for some reason. It's very unflattering.
Jucie
01-13-2023, 11:10 AM
Workout done, tanning up next, then let the weekend begin!
carmen_b
01-13-2023, 12:06 PM
^ I'm about there too ! :)
yes !
Dreamqueen
01-13-2023, 12:53 PM
Screw that, I'd rather live in a safe lot in my car for free! LOL
Ikr?
I'm always on pins and needles, because if this landlord wants me out ( they can easily get $2200 or more) for my unit, I'll have nowhere to go.
All the rents are like this, and the inventory is very low.
It's bad enough they raise our rents 10% every year.
I'm saving for a more reliable car, and now have to worry that I will be homeless again.
Nope.
At 64, I don't need this stress.
kimbe
01-13-2023, 01:35 PM
Juicing up at Baker, less than 1:30 driving remaining. Decent charging speed. I'm driving fast, so I need to charge more than the planner estimates..
Booked a massage this afternoon :)
LoveyD
01-13-2023, 08:30 PM
Ikr?
I'm always on pins and needles, because if this landlord wants me out ( they can easily get $2200 or more) for my unit, I'll have nowhere to go.
All the rents are like this, and the inventory is very low.
It's bad enough they raise our rents 10% every year.
I'm saving for a more reliable car, and now have to worry that I will be homeless again.
Nope.
At 64, I don't need this stress.
Absolutely not, you don't need the stress. The good news is you'd qualify for 55 plus housing. One of the gals here in the safe lot just moved into a 55 + place and I think she said it's only about 800 a month. I was really happy for her.
kimbe
01-14-2023, 01:01 AM
I ate too much this evening..
chanzep
01-14-2023, 02:29 AM
Left my apartment complex for the 1st time this year due to being sick from Christmas. Went to do my eyebrows and shop. It's such a contrast from December to January nobody is outside. I went to Wal-Mart too but of course I forgot a few things as I was tired by then .
Came home and slept now I'm up all night. The sad thing is I really enjoy staying in I was happy to get back home. I'm such a hermit at times.
Dreamqueen
01-14-2023, 01:10 PM
Absolutely not, you don't need the stress. The good news is you'd qualify for 55 plus housing. One of the gals here in the safe lot just moved into a 55 + place and I think she said it's only about 800 a month. I was really happy for her.
I'm happy for her too.
The senior apts here start at $1500
I'm on lists for low income senior housing.
I'm praying that I can wait it out, and continue to live here, until my name is at the top of the list and they call me.
The only problem is that the seniors here are hella noisy and nosy, and sit home all day in everyone's business.
I wouldn't be able to do phone sex or cam, because walls there are so thin.
Living in tight quarters next to them would be a nightmare.
If they put me next to a smoker, I'm dead.
I'm dealing with that now, and my duplex is 1000 sq feet with a yard.
I have to come to the realization that I just might have to move into a house ( one with high hedges) lol.
Whenever I did live in a house, it was heaven, and I felt free.
One day.
One day.
buttonpop
01-14-2023, 01:15 PM
Anyone ever get Kybella? I've been doing a lot of photoshoots lately and it bothers me how from certain angles I look like I have a double chin. I'm skinny, yet fat goes there for some reason. It's very unflattering.
I got Kybella once and it was a massive waste of money. It was like $800 if I recall correctly, and my neck swelled up an insane amount for like, two months. I took detailed pictures before and 6 months after, and there was literally 0 change. You're supposed to do at least 3 rounds, but I only did one. I couldn't stand to go through four more months of bullfrog neck.
honestly before you drop money on Kybella I would really commit to doing a regimented gua sha routine for a few months first. Also, make sure you have proper tongue poster and look into mewing to make sure you're doing it right. If you haven't exhausted both those methods, don't waste your money.
If you do decide to get kybella, know that even if you only have a very very small amount of fat like me, it will STILL take 3 rounds to see a difference. If you're not ready to pay for three rounds and accept potentially 6 months of swelling, then I wouldn't even bother doing it once.
WendiStarr
01-14-2023, 01:23 PM
^ Yeah, I'm very hesitant on kybella now. Random thought, I feel so awkward having my period at my boyfriend's house. What the heck is with some men and having white blankets and light colored sheets on their bed? He knows I'm on my period. I'm so paranoid that I'm going to ruin it with blood later during sexy time.
chanzep
01-14-2023, 03:11 PM
Went to trader Joe's today. Wished they delivered. It was busy . I don't plan on going out for days now unless for a walk .
kimbe
01-15-2023, 12:48 AM
T's daughter joined my mini-workshop/posing class today, with focus on posing. She's doing great!
LoL, for the first time I noticed some degree of her being uncomfortable, not that I wanted it, but it's fine she gets to feel that as well. First time she posed together with others, and she just received her posing and practice suits. Even though I warned her, I'm sure she didn't expect the suit to be that tiny. Yep, I advised her to go a little more conservative, but not a chance..
Dreamqueen
01-15-2023, 12:43 PM
Went to trader Joe's today. Wished they delivered. It was busy . I don't plan on going out for days now unless for a walk .
If Trader Joe's delivered, my life would be complete. Lol
I was in a menopause Reddit thread that said that after menopause our pubic hair falls out, and never grows back.:O
Say, what now?
I'm happy to say that with thorough investigation I'm witnessing it.
I've been shaving since I was 12.
Hallelujah! I'm finally free!:bouncey:
AChildOfBoredom
01-15-2023, 03:13 PM
My sister’s first live show went well. What they played was pretty atmospheric stuff. She did clap back at me for “Potato Cats”, though :laughing:
She did cite me as her inspiration for learning guitar. Which is probably about the only way I’d want anyone to try doing anything which could be construed as trying to be like me in any way.
Also, my cat’s a bit of a diva.
kimbe
01-16-2023, 12:29 AM
Also, my cat’s a bit of a diva.
Isn't that typical cat personality? ;)
(I'm not a cat person, just my impression..)
smeca
01-16-2023, 04:35 AM
The guys from uni in the group chat are exchanging baby poop horror stories :ill: I have nothing to add, it's not OK to talk about your own shits for some reason. :/
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-16-2023, 08:17 AM
The guys from uni in the group chat are exchanging baby poop horror stories :ill: I have nothing to add, it's not OK to talk about your own shits for some reason. :/
I can confirm a shitting baby can create poop situations that make grown men cringe.
smeca
01-16-2023, 10:45 AM
^lol I guess they need to vent about the horrors to people who know.
Speaking of, I haven't been able to process what I woke up to on Christmas morning bc my bf doesn't want to hear details.
***gross warning below***
The cat came inside while i was making tea and coffee. and immediately vomited up a mouse it had eaten. She moved back as she was doing it so there were 5 piles of entrails. So much guts... idk how it all fit inside a little mouse when it was alive. Maybe she ate 2 idk.
Bf was feeling sick that morning and he asked what all the noise was about (I was yelling and gagging trying to clean it up), I stopped him coming downstairs or he'd be sick as well hahaha
Of course it happened on Christmas day :rotfl:
Dreamqueen
01-16-2023, 01:34 PM
I'm seeing and hearing so many military planes flying overhead.
Gives me a comforting feeling.
Love that it also blocks out the sounds of my neighbors ( I call them the coffee clutch cunts), and their constant chattering.:chat::kettle:
LoveyD
01-16-2023, 07:24 PM
Omg my air bnb is so ugly lol! But at 35 dollars I didn't expect the Ritz. As long as I have a safe place to sleep with a bathroom and a place to do my hair and makeup tomorrow then I'm good. But God damn this place is ugly! The bedding, the furniture, everything. It'll be nice to sprawl out though. Last night I slept in a 24-hour Planet Fitness parking lot and I think I saw a couple other cars doing the same. It was raining so that made me feel safer in a way. Cops will be busy doing other things and predators probably don't feel like going out in the rain to break into cars and stuff. I didn't sleep well though last night. Tonight I'll sleep a lot better, and I need to because tomorrow is going to be a long work day.
indiegirl
01-16-2023, 08:22 PM
Guess my roommates experience going back to her man ended today. She's back at the house. LOL. The holidays are overrrr and reality has probably set in. She was gone for sooooo long, her food in the fridge is prolly expired. lol.
LoveyD
01-17-2023, 04:26 AM
Fuck I can't sleep. This is the noisiest air bnb ever! I'm going to be a zombie tomorrow . this sucks.
smeca
01-17-2023, 07:21 AM
Youtube has been showing me this toxicology stories channel... bizarre medical situations. So far everyone has ended up drinking way too much water, and I've learned you can get permanent brain damage bc your brain will swell and get squashed against the skull. :O
Also this one lol... might show it to the child so they don't copy any tiktok morons
https://youtu.be/Gl3H23g5kT0
Aurora_Sunset
01-17-2023, 10:21 AM
^^ 4 gallons!? Holy crap!
Dreamqueen
01-17-2023, 11:54 AM
Fuck I can't sleep. This is the noisiest air bnb ever! I'm going to be a zombie tomorrow . this sucks.
Omg that's horrible!
Who was noisy?
People next door or others who were staying there too?
LoveyD
01-17-2023, 12:59 PM
The people staying there! My God! To be fair, she warned that the walls were thin but geez! People in and out all night long. I didn't sleep at all. Slamming doors, cabinets, and one person was coughing all over the house. Not cool. I got no sleep at all. Plus the bed sucked and there was got water for the first 2 min of my shower.. I would have slept better in my car. Staying at safe parking up here because I got a spot. I'm lucky. Some ppl have to go on a waitlist. I definitely need to sleep well tonight. Somehow I'm dealing ok and am enjoying the shoot. We're filming at Warner Bros studios and it's cool. Tired , but living the dream.
chanzep
01-17-2023, 02:09 PM
I met new apartment manager today she is nice ,not like that other cow working there . Gives me hope.
TheBrownFox
01-17-2023, 06:54 PM
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?230993-How-far-should-I-take-the-quot-Friendship-quot/page4
"Pretty calm stuff for a stripper....." ::)
I'm lol at how he's just on here writing all these Dear Diary entries, and nobody gives enough of a damn to respond to him. :laughing:
carmen_b
01-17-2023, 07:15 PM
One quirk of ski resort hottie is that ... well ... it's ski season.
He won't be here for a date until 7:30.
That seems so late.
I caught myself going " I miss J's 5:30 dinner reservations " but there is just not a comparison when someone had a kid 50% of the time lol.
Recalibrating .... and showing some patience. :)
Never mind ...... we pushed to tomorrow and it'll be earlier like 5.
THEN I felt like I was having a mini meltdown because I was tired from the previous night, hungry ( but hiding it ) , haha. I was trying to MAKE SURE he didn't get a whiff of it ha.
WendiStarr
01-17-2023, 07:37 PM
Tomorrow would've been the induction date for my son. Being alone tonight, thinking about that. I am fighting the urge to cry.
buttonpop
01-17-2023, 08:02 PM
^ I'm certainly no expert on grief, so feel free to ignore this, but I do believe that sadness should be expressed and if it doesn't get out, it lingers in our bodies even longer and can turn into other things or even disease. If you feel like crying, maybe let yourself cry. either way, you're in my thoughts.
buttonpop
01-17-2023, 08:09 PM
I've been doing keto again so I've been trying to learn some new recipes. I've always been grossed out by raw meat and have avoided cooking it my whole life. I've only recently started cooking raw chicken and I've never cooked red meat or pork, but it's kinda necessary on keto. So the other day I decided to overcome my fear and make some beef. I successfully cut it up and put it in the slow cooker and was super careful about not contaminating anything and cleaned everything with bleach.
The last thing I had to do was throw away the bloody meat container thing. I brought it to the trash can super carefully, opened the trash can lid.... and the lid flipped the corner of the container and sprayed blood all over my pants and the kitchen. Yup.
Anyway, I tried making red meat again today and this time it went well. I made a low-carb Mongolian beef and it turned out pretty good.
moneybags
01-17-2023, 09:07 PM
Tomorrow would've been the induction date for my son. Being alone tonight, thinking about that. I am fighting the urge to cry.
Sorry for your loss Wendi.
Here’s my random share57892
indiegirl
01-17-2023, 09:17 PM
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?230993-How-far-should-I-take-the-quot-Friendship-quot/page4
"Pretty calm stuff for a stripper....." ::)
I'm lol at how he's just on here writing all these Dear Diary entries, and nobody gives enough of a damn to respond to him. :laughing:
Hahahaha. :biggrin:
LoveyD
01-17-2023, 09:40 PM
Omg we're still shooting after 14 hours. MAKE IT STOP OMG
TheBrownFox
01-17-2023, 11:17 PM
Tomorrow would've been the induction date for my son. Being alone tonight, thinking about that. I am fighting the urge to cry.
Awww, I'm sorry, Wendi. :'( You don't have to fight the urge to cry. You need to let out those emotions, imo. :grouphug:
carmen_b
01-18-2023, 10:35 AM
Don't you get pretty great over time pay ?
I've been there. 12 hours is bad and you feel EVERY 15 min. increment after that HARD on those gigs ugh.
Omg we're still shooting after 14 hours. MAKE IT STOP OMG
Dreamqueen
01-18-2023, 02:02 PM
The people staying there! My God! To be fair, she warned that the walls were thin but geez! People in and out all night long. I didn't sleep at all. Slamming doors, cabinets, and one person was coughing all over the house. Not cool. I got no sleep at all. Plus the bed sucked and there was got water for the first 2 min of my shower.. I would have slept better in my car. Staying at safe parking up here because I got a spot. I'm lucky. Some ppl have to go on a waitlist. I definitely need to sleep well tonight. Somehow I'm dealing ok and am enjoying the shoot. We're filming at Warner Bros studios and it's cool. Tired , but living the dream.
I'm glad you got through it.
Yes, I know a lot about thin walls and loud neighbors.
Welcome to my world.
Late last night I went out to the street where my mailbox is.
As I was approaching the end unit, all I could hear was the couple that live there hooting and hollering.
The girl that used to live next to me is now their neighbor ( with paper thin walls).
She would stalk me hard ( her mother now lives next door to me and stalks me too).
All I kept thinking as I was walking by is that karma is a bitch.
WendiStarr
01-18-2023, 05:54 PM
I allowed myself to cry and I released this blue ballon into the sky today. I hope it reaches him in Heaven. 57897
carmen_b
01-19-2023, 09:29 AM
Omg this man.
The message that makes me wet came in ....
" I made a 6:45 dinner reservation and I think you will love it ".
Everything about the man choosing the place, time, and just telling me when to be ready is hot AF.
carmen_b
01-19-2023, 09:30 AM
Wendi :
It's wonderful to honor him in thought today.
Sending good wishes your way.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-19-2023, 11:14 AM
Random discovery of the day..............
https://littlesis.org/
Don't doxx anyone with this. But it might be helpful to some