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Velveteen.Rabbit
06-28-2016, 09:40 PM
I don't understand why some people refuse to go to nurses/nurse practitioners for things just because they're not "a doctor" lol. I mean, think of it this way. Would you go to someone with a very basic general masters degree, or someone with a bachelors degree in a major and minor with the emphasis of the specific topic and issue you are trying to address? Like who do you think would do a better job regarding the specific topic, on average? Lol
It's so annoying when people think that nurses are "doctors helpers" when it's not the case at all. Nurses do most of the actual work and have the most hands-on experience in the building. Most of the time I've gone to the doctor (dermatologist, cosmetic, etc) it's the nurse doing all the diagnosing and all then physical work, and the doctor just coming in for 3 seconds agreeing with her and signing off on a piece of paper.
Inspired by a girl saying she would only get cosmetic injection work done by "a doctor" because they are "obviously more knowledgable" about cosmetic injections. No. Just no.
SexxiLexxi
06-29-2016, 12:33 AM
I really miss that chat feature SW had....having other models to chat with live was awesome & made time fly by
Vyanka
06-29-2016, 06:03 PM
Are men losing some old traditions when going on dates? Such as picking you up at your house? My bff is complaining that men now a days lost that touch. No doors being opened. Little things like that. I can't tell, bc sadly I haven't dated in a long time...
Are we just outdated old school girls? :D
I'd be turned off if a guy who showed interest in taking me out on a date didn't offer to pick me up at my house.
xStacey
06-30-2016, 07:15 PM
So much to do, so little time.
SimoneGray
06-30-2016, 07:40 PM
Having savings is the nicest thing in the world...for the first time I can afford to take off work due to my period and just keep comfy etc. I'm proud of myself for actually making saving money a priority.
lynn2009
07-01-2016, 04:05 PM
Now my application is fully submitted...and I'm not totally freaking out but it does make me nervous. I don't know what I would do if I don't get in. Grad school is the only thing I am hopeful about at all anymore.
SexxiLexxi
07-02-2016, 02:13 AM
I filmed like 3 videos.....
Then deleted them because I'm so hard on myself :/
I didn't think they were good enough to sell.
xStacey
07-02-2016, 01:51 PM
Wow $220 US is $286 CAN. More American customers please!
JGB2009
07-03-2016, 12:34 AM
When I was on the interstate this week I would not speed up and drive by a semi truck because it was swerving. The man behind me got mad and gave me a dirty look. Then he passed me and drove by the semi truck himself. I know he could see how the truck was swerving but obviously he did not care, and I guess he thought I should not care as well....before he passed me he was riding really close behind me trying to push me along. Yup the unsafe people you share the road with.....smh
SimoneGray
07-04-2016, 05:56 AM
I'm going back to pole and yoga and gym today...I've spent far too much time paying for these classes and not taking them. I hate how easy it is to neglect things in life that are not "mandatory" and just work instead...but now its time to take care of me and do the things that make me feel good.
carmen_b
07-04-2016, 11:08 AM
I still expect this kind of thing ( and formal dates ), so not ALL men are out of touch with it but MANY are sadly . I actually don't think being picked up is as critical on a first date as dates 2-5 for example since the first is a bit of a risk anyway.
To be fair, I think women have let standards slip too such as not saying thank you / expecting a guy to Alwsys pay ( sure it's nice but really not needed for me since I'm often in same earnings range as most men I date ). I think the main faux pass with women is simply not bring GRATEFUL if a guy arranges something / pays ect.
Are men losing some old traditions when going on dates? Such as picking you up at your house? My bff is complaining that men now a days lost that touch. No doors being opened. Little things like that. I can't tell, bc sadly I haven't dated in a long time...
Are we just outdated old school girls? :D
I'd be turned off if a guy who showed interest in taking me out on a date didn't offer to pick me up at my house.
carmen_b
07-04-2016, 11:11 AM
Same !!
I want to change my " light " work outs back to real gym time at least a few days a week. There's " time " for good self care . I just slacked on it and need to be serious about putting it into my schedule.
I'm going back to pole and yoga and gym today...I've spent far too much time paying for these classes and not taking them. I hate how easy it is to neglect things in life that are not "mandatory" and just work instead...but now its time to take care of me and do the things that make me feel good.
Aurora_Sunset
07-04-2016, 11:36 AM
Because of the holiday, I keep forgetting it's Monday. Because of that, I'm lacking my normal Monday motivation to start the week off on a productive note. I can already see the rest of my week backing up and going downhill because of my refusal to accept that the official week has started.
SimoneGray
07-04-2016, 11:51 AM
I am so glad that I went back to classes today...managed to stack a yoga class with my pole class successfully which was awesome and now I have endorphin's for days...my brain and body are very happy.
baer45
07-04-2016, 12:26 PM
I took my 6 years old niece to the park. She came back home with a colorful stone. She told me an elf gave it to her and she wants to trade the stone with my crocodile skin clutch. What a little con artist! Now I have to buy a new one.
Selina M
07-04-2016, 11:48 PM
I think the most commonly uttered phrase in this house is... "Don't you people have regular jobs to be at?!" Said every time there is random 2pm Tuesday traffic or people are being annoying outside past 'their' bedtimes, when we are trying to enjoy our peace and quiet. That is the only perk of our backwards schedules, less people and quiet.
Anyone else do that? Haha
SexxiLexxi
07-05-2016, 06:08 AM
I have had some "WTF was I thinking" moment lately while looking at old photos of past relationships and etc. It is amazing to me how we change & develop over time. There are things that I've done before that I would never do now and wonder why in the hell I was ok with doing those things lol.
Elektra Luxx
07-06-2016, 04:35 PM
I hate macro-economics with a deep, purple, passion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
baer45
07-06-2016, 06:07 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWCtlAf2sOQ
No he didn't. Who is this?
chanzep
07-06-2016, 06:59 PM
I need to get my ass back in the gym.
Elektra Luxx
07-06-2016, 10:44 PM
I think faster than I type and I'm always leaving out letters or words out of my .
xStacey
07-06-2016, 10:57 PM
I need a vacation... badly
SimoneGray
07-07-2016, 07:36 AM
I need a vacation... badly
I feel this on such a deep level haha...to the point where I'm making travel plans for end July and end August/early September. I really need time off right now.
Aurora_Sunset
07-07-2016, 09:03 AM
There's this girl who is friends with a group of my friends. She called me "Renee" every time she saw me for like 2 years, no matter how many times I corrected her. (Renee isn't even... close to my name, btw). Last night, I saw her again for the first time in about a year, but still, I clearly know who she is. We've had interactions, many times, where it was me, her, and one other person talking for several hours.
She introduced herself to me...
I was like "Yeah... we've met... many times..."
Not only that, but the way she talks is so fake and grating. Every sentence out of her mouth sounds like someone who is trying WAY too hard to be a therapist - or more like someone who is making fun of how therapist's talk... as though no one would ever actually talk that way - but she does. And it's so fake and annoying, in addition to her just being kinda up her own ass and, ya know, apparently completely incapable of remembering my name or even my face over the span of 3 years.
Then I found out she graduated from the same EMT program as me, right before my class started, and is going to start job searching soon.
Dear god, please do not let me end up on the same service as her.
Cashmere Star
07-07-2016, 11:24 AM
I want a 400k home. But to get there..
Elektra Luxx
07-07-2016, 12:33 PM
Today, I had a interesting conversation with a woman who is leaving the teaching profession due to burn-out. She has been teaching 4th grade for the last eight years. She said she felt unappreciated is tired of teaching uncooperative students and having to interact with uncooperative parents that just don't care. She is tired of spending thousands of dollars of her own money to supplement teaching supplies. She said she going back to school and get a degree in speech pathology. I felt so bad for her because she had become so disenchanted with being a teacher.
xStacey
07-07-2016, 08:13 PM
Researching rhinoplasty takes forever...
Velveteen.Rabbit
07-07-2016, 09:01 PM
You guyssssss! My nursing buddy who I had planned to take all the same classes with together just told me she just found out she's pregnant! Shes been my OG since my first class. She's like 3 months preg too, so it's not even new and she has to drop out after the second session of summer. I'm so happy for her, she's so excited despite it being such a surprise, but now I have no obligated study buddy for the rest of my classes. Boo!
LoveyDovey
07-07-2016, 09:10 PM
I'm selling this screenplay, and it will become a movie...
carmen_b
07-08-2016, 10:34 AM
This is something I think about a lot - ha!
In my new area, $250-$300k is also pretty damn nice.
Then I get myself into this circle thinking that I really don't want a nice home / having to worry about it when traveling and can't decide what to do.
I want a 400k home. But to get there..
Cashmere Star
07-08-2016, 01:26 PM
So I got Veet hair removing cream because I hate shaving, and I also heard it helps with lightening the pussy/ass area. So, I got it and used it on my legs and nethers and omg... wish I found this sooner. It didn't burn my skin, yet all the hair is GONE. I am sold. I think I got a little bit in my hair as I was stupid and didn't tie it up, but its ok it's not noticeable.
This is something I think about a lot - ha!
In my new area, $250-$300k is also pretty damn nice.
Then I get myself into this circle thinking that I really don't want a nice home / having to worry about it when traveling and can't decide what to do.
Yeah I travel too much to settle, but at the same time I want somewhere I can always come back to that is totally my own. I want a 3 bed 2 bathroom house.
SimoneGray
07-08-2016, 01:44 PM
I finally have a proper fridge after 3 years of just having a bar fridge...I feel like a real adult finally haha. Now i just want to go and fill it up with EVERYTHING. Lol.
Aurora_Sunset
07-08-2016, 02:47 PM
I'm just... angry today.
I'm angry at the fact that I have to write a paper since it's pretty much been proven that, effort or no effort, my grades end up the same. I'm angry at the world. I'm angry at facebook "politics."
I meditated for 45 minutes and it didn't even do anything. I just want to sit and be with my anger today. And then I'm angry that I "can't do that" because I have to write this stupid paper.
Cashmere Star
07-09-2016, 02:40 PM
note to self: going to the club is good because its one of the only times you dont have to think about schoolwork. so go more lol
I'm just... angry today.
I'm angry at the fact that I have to write a paper since it's pretty much been proven that, effort or no effort, my grades end up the same. I'm angry at the world. I'm angry at facebook "politics."
what is facebook politics?
chanzep
07-09-2016, 08:45 PM
I found Holly Madison book down the rabbit hole at goodwill today for $2.99. Great condition too. Happy been wanting to read it for ages.
Selina M
07-10-2016, 01:04 AM
Put a deposit down and have an appointment for Monday to get more ink. Excited but also nervous.
I don't know why I always get nervous and second guess doing them, I always plan them out for at least a year before getting them.
Mostly don't wanna listen to the staff and regulars at work question why I got it. It's a lower back piece and I feel like people have this thing about "if you have one of those it must have been a drunken mistake".
SimoneGray
07-10-2016, 09:35 AM
I want to get a Kindle...there are so many good books out there that I just must read and must have, but ordering the paperback versions is just tedious.
Aurora_Sunset
07-10-2016, 01:25 PM
what is facebook politics?
People posting all their political opinions/rants on facebook. Like, I get that everyone has an opinion, but when all you see when you get on facebook is post after post after post about the same thing.... it's just bombarding and I can't handle it after awhile.
carmen_b
07-10-2016, 02:02 PM
A true hustler in the making! This is great.
I took my 6 years old niece to the park. She came back home with a colorful stone. She told me an elf gave it to her and she wants to trade the stone with my crocodile skin clutch. What a little con artist! Now I have to buy a new one.
xStacey
07-10-2016, 08:23 PM
Just saw a male escort ad on an hobbyist review board, he's offering special rates to spoil "female coworkers" lol. It's funny because I remember reading posts a couple years ago on here, SW members were saying they were willing to pay a male escort to satisfy their needs although it wouldn't make sense dancing naked all night to spend it all the next day on a male escort :P
Very innovative though!
Update: Okay... I am checking out his website and he really picked my curiosity. Very well-written, he offers summer office oral sex oh my god!
Another update: After reading the whole website, I am so tempted to book an appointment. I guess I understand why a lot men cannot resist and some of them even become addicted.
Aurora_Sunset
07-11-2016, 03:21 AM
I hate how, when I have to be somewhere early the next day, especially if it's something big and important or I'm not sure about, I cannot sleep. It doesn't matter what time I go to bed, the anxiety will keep me up and keep waking me up. I'm sure I'll be dragging ass through the second half of the day.
xStacey
07-11-2016, 10:31 AM
Hmm... I went to lunch with a male classmate a month ago after volunteering at the legal clinic. I was not at all interested in anything more, did not flirt or lead him on, but I think he wants to date. We talk like once every two-three weeks and I always reply hours later. He asks me what I have planned for the summer now that school is over, I said I am planning a trip maybe to South Korea or Japan (lol I did not want to mention only Korea, Seoul is the capital of plastic surgery it would have been too obvious). He replies oh I've always wanted to go to Japan, when are you going maybe we could go together. Huhhh I barely know you, what makes you think I wanna spend two weeks with you in a foreign country....
buttonpop
07-11-2016, 12:06 PM
I want to buy a new car, and have a budget planned to pay it off in the next 1.5 years. The only thing holding me back is car insurance, which is astronomical in my city. My current car insurance is through my "permanent address" (my parents house) in my home state, leaving me with very cheap rates. My insurance doesn't seem to care that I'm driving it in a different state, i have already filed one claim from this new state with no problems. If I can get away with updating my current insurance to my new vehicle & adding comprehensive/collision (required to get financing) without raising any red flags about my new address, I would be in the clear for my rates only raising $50 or so. If somehow they make me get insurance from my new city, my rate would go up $250-300 a month. Which i cannot afford being on a strict budget for school.
This is my first time financing a car. I'm wondering if I can get approved for financing and then get my car insurance switched over to the new car to make sure my company is cool with keeping my permanent out-of-state address BEFORE actually going through with the purchase. The last thing I want is to buy the car and then find out after its too late that my rates will skyrocket. Anyone have any experience with this?
Selina M
07-11-2016, 05:35 PM
^ When I bought my car, the last thing I did before they had me sign the final contract was call the insurance and switch it over. They did verify my address was the same; it wasn't, I had to be honest (my old address they had was my ex's house) so my rate did go up like $4 because of renting vs living in his mortgaged 'owned' house. I could have lied though, I just wanted my mail to actually show up :)
So yeah, you can get approved and all that first, they just make you call and switch before you drive it off the lot. If they question why you're purchasing from a dealership in another state, tell them you got a great deal or something, people travel to the next state to buy cars all the time.
xStacey
07-11-2016, 06:16 PM
Omg some transformations in South Korea are unbelieveable but there are some scary stories as well... Just saw the before/after of a member on a plastic surgery forum who wanted Megan Fox nose the doctor said he could achieve it with some modification to suit an asian face and the result is spectacular!
xStacey
07-11-2016, 11:17 PM
Now that school is finally over and I am back to the club, I have trouble going to bed early and wake up so late. It's almost 3 am and I am still wide awake reading about rhinoplasty lol
JGB2009
07-12-2016, 12:38 AM
Why do I bother to work Monday nights.....its seems to always be so slow for me.....
kaninchen
07-12-2016, 08:30 AM
I want to get a Kindle...there are so many good books out there that I just must read and must have, but ordering the paperback versions is just tedious.
I have a Kindle, a nook, and the iBooks app. I loooove e-books! It's beyond convenient because you can literally like, be in bed reading before you go to sleep, finish that book, and then get a new one right then and there. Although sometimes I miss turning real pages.
Likethis
07-12-2016, 09:17 AM
I'll travel to Budapest in less than 24 hours, should probably start packing.
I don't like having to do things in a rush.
lynn2009
07-12-2016, 07:57 PM
My net worth is positive...which is definitely a yay kind of thing but god it's been so fucking awful getting here. I was talking to a college friend about dating last week and how burned out on men or even dealing with other people at all I am and she asked if I could do it again would I not have started stripping and I said no, I really needed the money. but I'd be lying if I didn't admit it took a toll on me.