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xStacey
08-02-2016, 08:22 PM
Ugh, we both volunteer at the legal clinic but we have different shifts. We can come in outside of our shift to complete our research in time for a client because we're not supposed to research outside the clinic and I always see him lately during my weekly shift. So I ask oh I always see you, you're very dedicated ! He replied only on Thursday because I get to see you ugghhhh... We went to get dinner two months ago, and I did not message or text him afterwards. If I was interested it would have been different, I never did anything to lead him on... And my shift is usually Thursday morning but last week I was there during the afternoon because I had an appointment on Thursday and he was there too, he arrived a little after me. He must have asked the director who does the schedule when I'll be there? Otherwise he would have came during the day and not see me. So creepy...
That guy texted me again and said for a second time we should go to Japan or China together what the hell! We went out once, three months ago and I did not even consider it a date, he did not even suggest to foot the bill so I asked for separate, then we never hung out again. We talk like once a month, not sure what makes him think I would be interested. I told him I am seeing someone already and I would be happy to be friends if that's what he wants, he stopped replying lol.
It wasn't ambiguous at all, and we went out to a student pub place next to the university where we ordered burger and fries.... Huhh not my idea of a date at all.
Oh and he's Chinese, I've never been into asian men and usually Chinese guys pay for everything. So I thought since he didn't pay he didn't consider it a date either lol. Anyway that must be like the cheapest chinese guy ever, invite out for burger and fries, do not pay LOL
During the plastic surgery trip I was the only one who did not end up get anything done. I was hanging out with a pretty cute Chinese guy who went there for eyelids and studies business at Columbia and a hot female lawyer, he always paid everything for the both of us, cab, food, all and he knew we were both unavailable. I said jokingly, it's expensive taking care of two women LOL
xStacey
08-02-2016, 08:54 PM
I started reading Success magazine, wow what a positive and motivational magazine !
Selina M
08-02-2016, 11:42 PM
I think I need to go on a 'lifestyle' detox of some kind... I've just been feeling icky in general for the past 2 days. It's alternating between 'lower digestive issues' and slight nausea, plus this weird dull ache that feels internal (I thought it was a kidney issue at first) but I know it's not because it radiates down into my thigh and I can relieve it by massaging certain spots. My anxiety has been acting up too.
I guess it's time to accept that I cannot drink all day and then eat Cheetos and ice cream for dinner anymore. Booooo.
baer45
08-03-2016, 12:35 PM
A woman just dailed my number three times. I told her three times that she had wrong number. I decided not to pick it up the fourth time. You called the same number three times within 2 minutes, what is your problem ma'am?
Cashmere Star
08-04-2016, 04:06 PM
I made a patreon for my art so I can wean off stripping and go to school without having to suffer through graveyard shifts. I promised myself that I'll work on my patreon once break starts but then once break started, I end up dancing more instead of working on my art
haha who the fuck am i kidding I am hooked on the money and ease of dancing
Aurora_Sunset
08-06-2016, 04:58 PM
I constantly wonder what future generations are going to think about our "modern" day practices - especially in things like medicine. Even things that were considered "good medicine" 40 years ago, you talk to people who were totally taught that, and now it's considered, if not useless, potentially harmful.
Knowledge changes so fast, what are doctors being taught nowadays that is going to seem comparable to placing leeches on your body in 100/200 years? People in the future are going to laugh at our ideas and think we were idiots.
Velveteen.Rabbit
08-06-2016, 11:14 PM
I gotta retake a class and I'm tempted to do it somewhere boring so I have no distractions. Now that I'm exclusive with this guy tho, I don't want to. Ugh lol. And I never like guys enough or lose interest quickly in favor of someone else, but with this one I just knew it would work. I love how troll-y the universe is.
SexxiLexxi
08-07-2016, 06:28 AM
Holy fuckballs, it is already August! Where in the fuck did June & July go?!
carmen_b
08-07-2016, 10:09 AM
It's been Fast Company for me that I've loved lately ! I'll try this one too.
I started reading Success magazine, wow what a positive and motivational magazine !
xStacey
08-07-2016, 12:33 PM
I got the number of a pretty good looking guy, nice face and fashion sense but then he keeps sending me unasked-for selfies every single day multiple times a day and he's always making a really ducky face with caption and emojis on them such as good morning! with a sun. He's skinny not muscular and keeps sending me pictures of him shirtless and you could see his lips making a duck face again ugh. Such a turnoff
Velveteen.Rabbit
08-07-2016, 12:34 PM
I constantly wonder what future generations are going to think about our "modern" day practices - especially in things like medicine. Even things that were considered "good medicine" 40 years ago, you talk to people who were totally taught that, and now it's considered, if not useless, potentially harmful.
Knowledge changes so fast, what are doctors being taught nowadays that is going to seem comparable to placing leeches on your body in 100/200 years? People in the future are going to laugh at our ideas and think we were idiots.
I do this too. Our system is still so fucked and I'm horrified by a lot of it even now.
baer45
08-07-2016, 12:36 PM
e's skinny not muscular and keeps sending me pictures of him shirtless and you could see his lips making a duck face again ugh. Such a turnoff
That's disgusting.
miss.a.p1600
08-07-2016, 01:41 PM
I got the number of a pretty good looking guy, nice face and fashion sense but then he keeps sending me unasked-for selfies every single day multiple times a day and he's always making a really ducky face with caption and emojis on them such as good morning! with a sun. He's skinny not muscular and keeps sending me pictures of him shirtless and you could see his lips making a duck face again ugh. Such a turnoff
Omg that's hilarious. I hate when women make duck lip face and for men to do it?!? I think they're gay or highly metrosexual.
baer45
08-07-2016, 01:52 PM
Nevermind.
xStacey
08-07-2016, 03:02 PM
Oh I forgot to mention skinny and not muscular shirtless pic full of hair -_-
xStacey
08-07-2016, 10:10 PM
Why do every cleansing towelettes I try sting so much?!
xStacey
08-08-2016, 12:32 PM
Ugh what a loser. I made an account on OkC to stalk my ex months ago, before I realized it's possible to stalk without account. I don't even have pictures or anything written on my profile. I just logged into my account and saw he messaged me on May, yuck. Sleeps with anything and messages girls without pictures.
rareaspasia
08-08-2016, 02:45 PM
My coworkers called me out on being southern because I did the "Bless her heart" thing about the coworker I fucking hate. I can't deny it. I grew up in northern Florida, which really is the south. The rest of the state, not so much.
baer45
08-08-2016, 05:04 PM
TWo female joggers killed in one week. I am packing heat when I go for a run from now on.
miss.a.p1600
08-08-2016, 06:24 PM
My coworkers called me out on being southern because I did the "Bless her heart" thing about the coworker I fucking hate. I can't deny it. I grew up in northern Florida, which really is the south. The rest of the state, not so much.
Yeah you know it not the real south when you cant get a sweet tea to save your life.
xStacey
08-08-2016, 07:29 PM
People always want to talk to me and see me, I never feel like seeing anyone lol.
Selina M
08-08-2016, 08:07 PM
1) What is the deal with the phrase "reach out"? Is that like the hiring/networking buzz word of the decade? It drives me bonkers. This agent I had used to say it all the time; "here's the client's info, reach out to him!" What the fuck.
2) Does anyone else ever keep their SO separate from friends? I feel weird inviting him to go out with my high school friends... I think because there's an established group hierarchy and inside jokes and whatnot, and he'd be an outsider. A lot of those friends don't bring 'outside' girlfriends either. I also don't get to go to anything with his work friends for the same reason. Hrrrrrrrrm. Social stuff is so weird. You'd think 'the more the merrier' but instead it's this territorial thing.
snakesandmonkeys
08-08-2016, 08:07 PM
On the "bless her heart" thing.
I am a northern transplant in the south and I've realized the less words you use the greater your expressing your disapproval.
"Bless her heart" = I mildly disapprove of you
"Bless her" = you are really starting to work my nerves
"bless"= you are a seriously fucked up individual and I don't even know where to begin with you
Cashmere Star
08-08-2016, 08:17 PM
stay in school stay in school stay in school...
I know I can make a lot of money to put into savings if I didn't do this semester or cut some classes, but I promised myself that I'll get those associates (math and engineering) by next spring, and if I get those associates then my credits won't expire if I ever end up dropping out for years due to unexpected life issues. Plus I'll have something I can put on my resume. I also want to get the degree and get it over with by the time I am 26, especially after I've seen other dancers in their 30's going back to school with kids to support. I know it won't be easier than now, and I want kids in my 20's too.
I am borderline giving up my dream of joining the military due to my hip issues, but if I get that degree at least I can work there as a civilian and that's ultimately my dream and I don't want to delay it just to get a couple more grands in my bank account.
.. plus I'll make more as an employed engineer than as a dancer so the money thing is no excuse to cut classes.
Aurora_Sunset
08-08-2016, 08:40 PM
I feel like I'm in the midst of trying to totally reinvent my life. I thought that's what I was doing the past few years, but I really think I was just trying to get back to square one. Now, I'm really trying to actually point in new directions. It feels weird and empty. I don't know what to tell people when they ask about me. Like... I don't know much about anything in my current life yet because I'm starting all over.
Being at a convention this past weekend, I'm so jealous of all these people - people who have been SUPER into all these specific topics for forever. Like... how do people do that? How do you become that passionate about something? I try to embrace my personality of having varied interests, but most of the "love yourself for this quirk" propaganda comes from a place of assuming that people who have many interests actually become immersed in them and then the information sticks. I'm mediocre, at best, and then I forget things instantly if I don't keep up with it. Just makes me feel boring and useless. So I'm trying to find things I can be passionate about. I don't know if I'm capable of that emotion....
Random, discombobulated musings...
xStacey
08-08-2016, 09:24 PM
I feel like I'm midst of trying to totally reinvent my life. I thought that's what I was doing the past few years, but I really think I was just trying to get back to square one. Now, I'm really trying to actually point in new directions. It feels weird and empty. I don't know what to tell people when they ask about me. Like... I don't know much about anything in my current life yet because I'm starting all over.
Being at a convention this past weekend, I'm so jealous of all these people - people who have been SUPER into all these specific topics for forever. Like... how do people do that? How do you become that passionate about something? I try to embrace my personality of having varied interests, but most of the "love yourself for this quirk" propaganda comes from a place of assuming that people who have many interests actually become immersed in them and then the information sticks. I'm mediocre, at best, and then I forget things instantly if I don't keep up with it. Just makes me feel boring and useless. So I'm trying to find things I can be passionate about. I don't know if I'm capable of that emotion....
Random, discombobulated musings...
I have been feeling the same way lately...
rareaspasia
08-09-2016, 10:49 AM
On the "bless her heart" thing.
I am a northern transplant in the south and I've realized the less words you use the greater your expressing your disapproval.
"Bless her heart" = I mildly disapprove of you
"Bless her" = you are really starting to work my nerves
"bless"= you are a seriously fucked up individual and I don't even know where to begin with you
All true. Unless it's "Bless her little heart," which is like the ultimate in Southern lady disapproval. When someone starts a sentence with "Bless her little heart," you know you are about to hear some serious shit talking.
Cashmere Star
08-09-2016, 01:49 PM
All true. Unless it's "Bless her little heart," which is like the ultimate in Southern lady disapproval. When someone starts a sentence with "Bless her little heart," you know you are about to hear some serious shit talking.
"Bless your heart" is the southern version of "go fuck yourself"
gummygirl
08-10-2016, 12:55 AM
I could use some strawberry ice cream at work :)
SimoneGray
08-10-2016, 06:34 AM
James Veitch is my favourite right now...just such an awesome human and Scamalot is a crackingly funny series.
baer45
08-10-2016, 07:32 AM
"Bless your heart" is the southern version of "go fuck yourself"
depends on how you say it.
rareaspasia
08-10-2016, 09:53 AM
depends on how you say it.
It is a beautiful thing with subtle nuances. :D
We had a rabbit like you
08-10-2016, 10:08 AM
I miss my cat sooo much, we took such awesome naps together and I am his favorite human but I can't let him in due to fleas..unless I give him a bath and keep him inside and I know he'd be miserable and I'd feel like I betrayed his trust! The fall needs to get here fast.
baer45
08-11-2016, 06:28 PM
Just witnessed two guys threw punches at each other in the street. They called each other "nigga".
They were all white. Two idiots.
miss.a.p1600
08-11-2016, 09:15 PM
^^^lol. N word can really be used to refer to anyone but mainly used toward black people during slave times as an insult. Now they've sort of "reclaimed" the word and use it as a term of endearment.
I really don't like the word wish less people used it but its provocative and in like 60% of rap lyrics.
buttonpop
08-12-2016, 01:56 AM
Now, I'm really trying to actually point in new directions. It feels weird and empty. I don't know what to tell people when they ask about me. Like... I don't know much about anything in my current life yet because I'm starting all over.
Being at a convention this past weekend, I'm so jealous of all these people - people who have been SUPER into all these specific topics for forever. Like... how do people do that? How do you become that passionate about something?
This was me when I left behind an old passion/lifestyle and started over. I went from literally writing books about one certain topic to cutting it out of my life because it was toxic to my mental health. I felt so boring for a long time, I had nothing to talk about because I had so few hobbies or interests and didn't know my opinions on anything. I had to build up my passions all over again from the ground up. I looked toward a couple things I was interested in casually (film & music) and built up my passion and interest from there through consistent time spent on my new hobbies. now i have lots to talk about again and I feel like an interesting person again lol.
Vyanka
08-12-2016, 11:33 AM
After looking at Cindy Crawford's kids, it gave me baby rabies. Seriously. Would like to make babies with a retired male model. I want striking kids. Lol.
I'll never have a baby unmarried, but shit... bad thinking. Haha.
seashell
08-12-2016, 05:30 PM
I think I just really like library fees. For some reason, I remember the due dates but cannot bring myself to drive to the library and take them back on time.
Aurora_Sunset
08-13-2016, 04:59 PM
Men who love cats are so hot.
xStacey
08-13-2016, 10:01 PM
I love Sharon Stone
SimoneGray
08-14-2016, 08:26 AM
Dealing with women who are indoctrinated by the patriarchy is tiring. My wish is that every woman realises her worth and that it has nothing to do with men or how they see her.
carmen_b
08-14-2016, 04:55 PM
I'm wavering on seeing this massage customer. On one hand .... I just had this overnight mountain adventure and Im tired .....
On the other , I checked google voice *just to see* and he is staying at the BEST hotel in the city ..... prrr
He wants to see me after 7 p.m. which I normally don't do but I'm thinking of making a special exception . I just wish he would get me a spa access / pool access pass while I wait so I can go lounge / enjoy the place but since he didn't suggest it , I'm not going to. :)
He wants to meet in two hours and 90 minutes of relax time and a quick 30 minute getting ready to see him just sounds so nice though , so I will just send some psychic vibes out at him to think of it.
lynn2009
08-14-2016, 07:56 PM
Holy balls you guys my date is the son of my boss's former boss
chanzep
08-14-2016, 08:01 PM
I love watching the gymnastics, making me wanna watch the show Make it or break it, it always used to be on late after work and I would fall asleep with it on.
SimoneGray
08-15-2016, 11:09 AM
Vice Principals is the best show ever.
whirlerz
08-15-2016, 01:08 PM
Yesterday, I was thinking about Dorothy Stratten, a gorj PM of the Yr, & actress who was brutally shot by her husband.
I went on bing & looked her up, even though I read a book about her, & those 2 movies which were basically awful. Yesterday was the anniversary of her death
Genoveve
08-15-2016, 04:48 PM
^^I've always thought she was really pretty.
My phone screen cracked by itself a few days ago, I did not know that was possible. I was literally lying in bed just looking at it, I heard a snap sound that sounded like it came from the phone and sure enough one long clean diagonal crack appeared across the screen. Fortunately I had insurance so they sent me a new phone but damn.
Elektra Luxx
08-15-2016, 08:03 PM
My older sister is due in October. Yesterday we were watching TV at her house and I was feeling her tummy and I felt the baby kick. It was so amazing!!! I going to be the best aunt ever.
xStacey
08-16-2016, 09:49 AM
I want a gold iPhone and iPad lol, so tired of all my boring black devices... But I'll keep using them until they break, making more financially responsible choices and trying to save up more lol.
baer45
08-17-2016, 04:38 PM
Zika! Zika! New York! Danger! Danger!